To everyone who watched this video and took the time to comment on it , thank you so much 😊 I’m glad that atleast a few of you’ll liked it and I’ll make sure to refine the upcoming contents into a better way . Also let me know your suggestions on other topics that you’d like to hear about and I’ll definitely do it ❤️ And to all those beautiful souls who went through the things you’ll didn’t deserve to , it’s okay and it is what it is .
I would like to suggest you talking about .. There's this group of people saying after u completed 12th only study for engineering and doctor .. so can you talk about that it's our opion and choice to take the course we lyk and are interested❤ this is my opinion snegu .. if u have ur free time and can make this content I feel it would motivate many students completing 12th and in a dilema to choose their future course and even if they have no interest on that course for there parents they study .. thank you 🙂 Love you snegu ❤❤
Hi ma. Bitter truth about friendship. 1. Betrayal never comes from enemies. 2. Self respect vs friendship -> self respect 3. School phase, college phase, friendship are like train journey. Once their destination reaches, they'll get off.
I used to be a extrovert Now i am a introvert Love everyone and me Hate everything I used to be fat from a kid , everyone make fun of me, i got acne All i want to lose my weight and look pretty but that never occurred for me,. Due to my look i focused on studies And everyone called me padipus, gundachi,kuthani I used to cry in bathroom I used to have a friend who is my bestie but she just used me for my brain and to look pretty standing near me then she always left me alone when i need her . One day i should bring a girl on my birthday to give candy i asked her she told no and she called my in a bad word the same time my brother is my opposite he is a all rounder good at everything. My parents always compared me and scaled-down me . At lockdown i become plus my size and none in school talk to me . Now i makeup stories to my mother that i am happy and i am best to avoid scolding and beating. I got none to share this but after hearing your story u always been my role model I hope this story is inspiring .it is always been my secret today i can't control it alwqys the pot will overflow one day.😢 Pls do a video on body shaming pls 👇( like so she will see this)
this video healed me in a certain way...i have come to a point where i started to believe it is simply the way people are..i have been more on the giving side rather than the receiving side..being so desperate to be in the receiving side has put me down even more..being around manupulative people,toxic and fake ones,however i somehow got to know what was happening in my absence and how much hatred people have towards me for no reason and because of self assumptions.Your video felt more like a personal call with that one person who will always be there for you.I have realised that it was myself who has been thru all this and i never left my side during the downfalls...each heartbreak is actually a lesson to love yourself!
i literally had tears hearing you go through the same shit i went through, going through. i had very bad friendships in school. i wanted things to change but unlike you, i didn’t build a guard around me when i came to college, instead i let everyone in. it was all butterflies in the start, but history just repeated itself. ik this too shall pass but its actually v v v difficult coping. Really glad hearing someone talk about this in the right time❤️
I thought I'm the one going through this 😪 this is so horrible still now I'm around all toxic people where I'm just suffering so much. Same to replace the lost life in school I started letting people in without boundaries initially ut was all so good I was so addicted later realized it was all the same and the same repeated in a wrse way now standing all alone
I have never commented in a RUclips video before...i think I must do it this time ...I thought this shit happens only to me i have cried my whole life about this.once i have got hurt and never believed in friendship again and built up a wall just like you ...after few years i have got a set of friends who changed my perspective...i have always been loyal and I just need only that set of friends my whole life but friends changed and they found new friends but i still think about only them ...they were my happiness still living with our memories ..I am in tears rn someone actually spoke about this and I can totally relate I don't know if anyone can relate the amount of pain I'm going through but anyone out there who is going through the same pain ur not alone...thanks a lot for this video sneha kudooss ❤️
This raw video is the real form of every person's heart, not just yours alone, but truly of everyone. Your genuineness became the mouthpiece of millions of broken people outside there just because of this one friendship insecurity. Thank you ma I felt the same and but it's not permanent is what you understood and has given a greater conclusion of peace. Thus it's an open podium of outburst. Last two thing to tell you. Only few people exist forever but then only for a limited time. In terms of justice, every heart gets the true desire whether be the person or thing it's the reward of God once the trials and tribulations are overcome through love and patience. One day you will be surprised to see yourself on top of the world with all the loved ones and things in you and around you in this valuable life. Remember, everyone needs people on our last day to carry our coffin. I'm sorry, if my words doesn't fit in this real world but every person can make the world fit in his life according to his desire. God bless you and everyone with the same struggles. Believe that this troubles will perish one day.
Real friend is one who stays constant throughout your up’s and down’s, kick you when you go wrong , pat you when you are down. It’s not like being together always, roaming around and having a chit chat, it’s all about respect, space, concern,love and care towards each other. But always things take time to process and understand. It’s always better to stay alone than ending with fake people around. Have a big smile and stay positive 😊
I had a friendship which I had for 14 years. It broke 2 years ago... Im 23 now. I thought this friendship would continue for the rest of my life.ana enaku theriyala ethunala ipadi achunu.. After she gone like this I think maybe this is a fake friendship. She had a boyfriend.. She was in a relationship for 5 years. 2 years ago she calls her boyfriend to her house, he came from a long distance. Ava aniku vetula matikita. Suddenly she blamed me For her to escape.. She says I brought him, she doesn't know anything. Her mother call me and hurt me in front of her ..like ne enga veetula ithana varshama sapturkala athuku ipditha pannuviya, neyellam oru true friend ah . She didn't say a word. Ellam thittaiyum na vangitu vanthuten.. I don't know why suddenly she did like this.. I couldn't accept this at the time. But after a few days I stopped thinking about it. I still have memories of her in certain situations.. . Let what happens happen... I have faced lots of situations like this from different friends in different ways 🤐
you just spoke what i feel and kept this trauma inside me .... since childhood i have gone through this and still hitting the same shit in college but your words just made me realize accept it just show love it its mine it will find its way to me 🥺🥺🥺
I feel you, Im 25 now and I don’t have anyone to call my bestie. I feel hurt when I see people hang out with a close knit circle but me here being a loner. I have had the same thoughts and I came to terms with it. I have beat myself up with this for a long time and now I have accepted it! Don’t worry! Being alone also teaches you how to be strong!
Literally had gone back to those traumatic school days while watching your video each and every minute in ur video had a connection with my life especially 6:47 the same i went through and i still remember the date as well😢 and i went on and asked those people but they didn't even treat me as a human and during those i used to cry in my room in a corner using my pillow, even when i am typing my tears are automatically rolling down and the person was more than 11years of friendship she just blocked stopped talking avoiding me during breaks paper distribution and as u thought initially i also thought the same that the problem lies with me and i have to change but no not at all , and the girl she created a big group against me and when i used to go out in the corridor they used to bully me those were really toxic friendship and traumatic days in my entire life, now having no expectations abt friendship in college, i thought that i was the only person who went through all this but i see a lot of comments which i could connect
OMG. This literally had me in tears, akka. I never had good luck in friendship. Like you said, I always thought I was the problem here. In the middle of shifting schools, I really wanted someone to be my friend, but I never had one. People refrained from becoming friends because of my looks (had protruding teeth and alopecia - a very serious hair problem), and I had to go through a bullying stage where random people would literally pull my hair and stuff (don't worry, not getting into details). Now that I don’t have any of the mentioned problems, people are treating me differently. Like you mentioned in this video, I too put up a wall. This year I focused too much on these friendship dramas and ignored academics, which led to me failing in exams. To be honest, when I first started watching your videos around the end of 2020, I was under the assumption that you never had to go through any of this. I don't know why, though. But then, gradually, I realized that just because you are a RUclipsr doesn't mean that you never went through all this stuff. This video was so very relatable, and I felt that I am not the only person going through this shit. This video and the last few videos of Momfluencer made me feel so much closer to you guys as a subscriber! Love the idea of this new series and looking forward to this! BTW, this is Aparna from Chennai. Lots of love, guys.
omg, you don't deserve to go through all these 🥺💜🫂 have a pet , there'll be your best friends. you are worthy of everything 💖 don't let yourself down .. focus on your studies.. you'll be okay ❤️
I agree..i have lost tons of friendships in my life ..somewhere from being a very sensitive person crying over silly stuff i am now a bit more strong.. believe me it all happens for good..its not like i don't believe in best friends but i do believe that no one remains forever .. every one u have now won't remain the same once u enter into college, after school life u will run out of topics nd eventually u will have nothing to talk so its better not to stay is disbelief.. accept the reality and enjoy the present ✨
Okay i found this at the right time 😭😭. Was going through some issues in my clg due to friends and I wasn't really able to cope up with it as it drains my energy and makes me look depressed as i always start overthinking even for the slightest and petty things they do. I often find fault in myself for their behaviour towards me. I can't wait to get over this clg life as i have just 4 months left . Thanku for this vedio it was just a eye opener ❤️❤️
The reason why I don't have good friends in my 8 years of school life... I am not aware of people and how to handle them I allowed them to USE AND THROW ME they thought that I am not fair enough in skin color I am topper so they don't like that I am a different person like a nerd in studies so they don't like that What I did to overcome I started to love myself ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I build my value in school I came to know the 3 things "இடம் பொருள் ஏவல்"
Omg!!!,this vid just literally made me cry!!!!my whole school friendship broke and i couldn't move on it's been one year I have kind of but that pain is still there...but they have moved on!!!!I loved my ex besties so much!!!en school le I had many friend aana avanga thaan enakku besties AA irundhanga!!!naan vaazhakaile nenikile that andha friendship break aghom nu!!!but I was literally heartbroken!!!now they hate me!!!!!...yen school last year le I was not ok mentally or emotionally.my last year of school was like hell...and I felt like they were changing...adhu naan poi confront panne ...so namakulla oru manakassappu vandhurchu....nesama solren..naan adhu Sheri panrathakku romba try panne...aana yen efforts e avanga ignore panitanga yen munnadi ok nu solli veliya poi they told Ava kooda Ella meendum friend a irk mudiyadhu....sneha akka sonna words were so relatable...but I still miss them!!!!
Inga eruka sila friendship la... Avangala veeda azhaga , thiramaiya erundha pudikadhu... Avangaluku ama saami pota nallavanga nu solvanga..... Enjoy ur life by ur own🎉...even siblings and parents kooda vara pooradhu illa...avangaley varadha modhu friends yum apdi thaan....so neenga adha serious ha edukadhinga...u just be like pesna pesu, peslana poo ..and neenga avanga illa nu feel panni broke aana avangaluku adhu happy thaan...but avanga ungala vitu pooitu aprm happy ha erundhingana avangaluku adhu erium...so jus be u and enjoy urself❤
Am 21 now I have 4 bestfriends .our gang formed in 2021 it's been 3 yrs and we have lot of fights ,lots of misunderstanding but we never thought about break our friendship.when we have misunderstanding we share our feelings and open up our problems without any ego.we got up and downs in our studies and career.we are always be with us in our success and failures so I assums we 5 are luckies ❤
Ippo thaan puriyudhu that its not just me!!!!there are many people who have gone through the same pain!!!!!akka nesama solren naan romba value pannadha friendship thaan aana avlo value panni .....avanga kagh yedhu vanalum pannara mari irundhum they couldn't understand me adhu thaan ennaku romba hurt ayidchu!!!!!ippo i have some very good college friends but ippo kooda andha bhayan irk...after that i got trust issues and it kinda changed my personality!!!but i really wanna say that my college friends atleast ippo varaikyum are very good💗🤗✨...
Sneha this video is very relatable. And I'm looking forward to seeing more of these videos. I actually thought I was the only person who was going through such a thing in life cuz it really affects in many ways and now I know there are many ppl out here who feel the same way. I've always wanted a friend who has my back and be friends forever or smthg but I've been hit so many times and still try to find ppl to stay with. I had a friend in my old apartment i had just met her in 2022 Jan or smthg and by dec we became so close, that we realized we had so much in common and became best friends and thought she was different from others, at least i thought she was until I shifted. First few days we txted and then as days go by she stopped txting me. now she doesn't txt me until i do but i still like her cuz she is a good friend. I've gone through a lot more worse stuff before so I don't even care if smthg happens now. Thank you sneha for this video.
I can totally relate to you and there’s nothing that i could say that might make you feel better . But just know that you didn’t go through all of that for nothing . What is meant for you will come to you . Athuvaraikum be you & never lose yourself 🤍
Seriously, the same thing happened to me. Even today, I cried that i did'nt get the same effort from the other side of friendship. when someone advising me that thas person is doing this and that, and I really fought for them, like, 'No, don't talk about her like this.'(even i lost that frienship for that person) But when i get to know that someone is right,it hurts ....also this video helped to get out of that like i am not the only person .We need more videos akin to these
I gone through the same shit at my high school...during my 11th std I had that one frnd who ditched me for an other friend of her..the actual point is i'm the one who introduced her to that Frnd...it hits me alot..and again things went well after I got comfort with a new frnd..but time just taught me none can replace the same vibe...but one thing I could think of and relief myself is..my childhood frnd whom I lost the contact and get back again during 12th and she's the one I was searching for... ❤
Yeah there was literally a very hard time in my life too... Where there was a friend for 2 yrs who was more than anyone that I wanted ... But then things happened maybe bcz of me and our friendship was totally over..... The blame was always on me saying that I was the one who was fake and betrayed....I still had hope that aftr few months I could change everything and go back to her... But she left permanently without a word.... And here I am in tears as before but she there being happy with spreading hatred about me.... She never forgave me and now she forgot me ig...but here I am looking at our old photos with a tiny hope that she will talk to me one day
Tysm for this . ive gone through every single thing uve mentioned and ive been through every worst scenarios a frndship bw two ppl can happen . i wish u best of luck for ur future and thanks once again for this
You are true. Even I am in the same stage now, I again start to pull myself to the same person who I don't want. But again I got the same heart break from certain people. They made a promise to me that we will not do the same things to you. You are so important to us don't worry but. They completely changed when I needed them most. I needed them when I was literally in my bad state. It was a medical issue for me that the doctor said I have an issue with my health if it does not cure I may....... I just didn't attend my college for 4 months. My bad luck It was in a medical emergency near my birthday last year. They know about my issue but they never have been with me when I need them. I just stopped talking to them because of this kind of behaviour to me. They never asked me whether I am ok or not both physically or mentally. They also ignored me after they got new friends with whom they are happy. It's still hurting but like before. But it's really not that easy to move on from everything. And I just lost trust in friendship now 🙂. Just giving them a smile that doesn't matter to me anymore
Hii snehu... In recent time I have gone through lot about fake friendship.... After school... New college... New people's... Apdi enaku oru frnd kedacha... Literally enoda 5th sem starting vara Ava mattum dha frnd.... Ava epdina... Enaku project aana vara romba nalla ponnu... Strict parents... Velila kuda vida maatanga... Andha maari... Ipdi dha enaku solliruka... Obviously Ava mattum dha enaku frnd... So Ava solradhu dha na nambi aaganum... Avaluku na , Innoru guy rendu perum frnds... Avanga rendu perum romba close.... Second sem mid la .... She had a crush on one senior.... Ava enta onnume solala... But na ellame solanunu expect pannuva... Enaku oru doubt starting la ye irundhuchi... Suppose avaluku andha anna va pudichiruko nu... Na direct uh ve keten.... But she said... Ila mani... Na full uh nambunen avala.... Almost 4-5months uh en kudaiye irundhu avangata pesitu irundha... Na lusu maari ovoru time avngala paakum bothum Morachitu irundhuruken.... Aprm konja naal kalichi ellarukum theriya varum bodhu enta vandhu sonna... Yaro solli theriuradhuku Ava sonna paravala nu... Apo kuda .. na theriyama panniten... Enga veetla othuka maatanga... Na velila varanum... Atleast apovachi Ava enta unmaiya sollirundhurukalam.... Ama enakum avangala pudikum love panren nu... Aana poi sollita... Ava enta help Pannu di nu ketta Nala na neraya panen.... En name ketalum paravala... Andha anna ena enaa nenacha enaku ena... En frnd ok va irundha podhum apdi nenachi... Ipo nenachi patha ... Evlo muttal uh irundhuruken nu thonudhu .... Ava ena nalla use pannikta... Last la theva ilama ena nee enaku true frnd ye ila... Na una pathi nalla therinjikten apdi solli sanda potta... Apo dha therinjadhu... Ok nama avala avlo blind uh nambiruka kudadhunu... Thn... Na avata irundhu vandhuten... One yr aaga pothu... Thaniya dha iruken... Vera frnds irukanga but close uh yaarum ila... Engaiyachi pohanuna kuda thaniya dha ponum... Na sudden uh missing na yaarukum theriyadhu... Nadula enoda bad time la call panni pesuna... Naa apo kuda paravala ena dha irundhalum 2 yrs kuda irundhava dhana... Ivlo laam thappa nenaka kudadhu apdi nenachen.... Recent uh avaluku innoru guy frnd nu sollirundhen la... Avan avala love panren nu sollitu irundhurukan... Avanuku ellame therium... Infact Avan mediator vela laam paathukan.. andha ponnoda love ku.. apdi irundhutu ipdi sollum bothu ena da idhu apdi dha irundhuchi... Ava ena vitutu vera oru frnd uh pudichita... Avata na keten ... Ipdi pesikranga unaku theriuma nu... Ahh mani therium... adhu avaluke therium.. apdi sonna... adhuku mela ena Solla mudium nu vituten...Ava poi en ex frnd ta solli... Ava andha paiyan ta solli... Avan vandhu sanda potan... Apo vandhu Ava enta keta.. seri nama dha pesuradhu ila la... Aprm edhuku ena pathi pesura apdi... Idhula irundhu ena theriudhu .. Avan panradhu problem ye ila... Na pesunadhu mattum dha prbl... Adhu na ipdi onnu nadakradhu theriyama irukangalo nu dha keten... Ava apdi ketadhum... Full uh heart break... Na suthama veruthuten... Na yedhukaka avala nambanum... Evlo time Ava thappu pannalum na yen avaluku soft corner kudukanum.... Aana Ava ovoru time um ena shit maari treat panniruka. Friendship dha ipdi nu patha... Love life la adhuku mela... Na love panravanga en chithi paiyan(anna) oda frnd... Naanga love panna starting la ye avanta sollitom... Avan vena pinnadi edhachi prbl na enta varadhinga na help panna maatanu sollitan... Naangalum seri sollitom... Avanga apdiye vitrukalam la... Na avanta help ketana... Na edhume kekama... Vaithu erichal pudichavan.. avanum en innor cousin um sendhu en chithi veetla ellartaium sollirukan... Aprm en aaloda Amma ku love panradhu therinji en anna ku call panni ketrukanga... Avan ena sollirukanum na vena sonen avanga dha kekala... Enaku vera edhum theriyadhu ena kekadhinga ipdi kuda solliruklame... Pinadi prbl na avana dha ellam kepanga nu... Avanga Amma ta ena pathi thappu thappa solli... Avanga Amma Naa venave vena nu otha kaal la nikkuranha ipo.... Enga veetla konjam kuda Purinjika maatanga... Romba strict... Suppose avanga enga veeta solliruvangalo nra bayam vera... Love panradhu theriradhu kuda vera.... Innum vera edhedho solli vechirukan.... Enala edhume panna mudila.... Mrng avata sanda poten.. afternoon patha en aalu veetla maatitu Inga ellam keka... Enga anna va ipdi pannadhu apdi irundhuchi... Avanukulaam Naa evlo panniruken... Konjam kudava nenachi paakala... Adhum onnu maathi onnu... Ada endhichi nikkaradhu kulla adichi thalranga.... Naa yaara ellam perusa nenachano ellarum emathitanga... Except en family... Enala andha time la suthama edhaiym handle panna mudila.... Serious uh .. suiside panniklam uh nu laam neraya thoughts vandhadhu.. Enake oru time ku mela bayam vandhuruchi... Thaniya irundha edhachi pannipenu akka ta vandhuten... Ellarum enta epdi irundhurukanga nu therinja aprm dha oru dhairiyam vandhuruku... Ella prbl um face pannitu... Neenga sonna maari na ila nu kaatanunu thonudhu... Paakalam hope for the best🤞
It would be better if all the people in the comments have met!! Or get a chance to meet because we know how people are and have better clarity in how to behave and not to hurt others.
Ur literally the best influencer I have ever seen.... I'm elder but I learnt so many things from you thank you sheguuu...as you said now I'm molded into a better person and I have shared this videos to my friends tooo❤✨ Thank you for those valuable words 🤍💪🏻your strong and things will get better soon
I had a friendship which I had for 6 long years (from my 4th std to 10th std)(currently I'm in 10th lol) so ,i thought it would last a lifetime cause it was the purest extreme close bond friendship i had with this girl,but then she just ditched me for her new friends who she thought was cool,mass ,gethu but in reality was spoiling her to the core,.and once she got close with them ,she just started to avoid me ,and my self respect was starting to deteroriate,..I just thought I would stay quiet(at that point of time I was on my worst times tho...)and see if she would realise I'm not there and would come back to me,but then she didn't even bother to listen from what was on my side and was just defending herself and stated that it was me who changed ,and she said fine I'll talk with u and did the same thing the same instinct second,I felt so heartbroken,and after a few days the girl she left me for just pushed me and I got hurt and was bleeding(i didn't care abt that too but) my whole freaking gang who saw this stayed quiet and didn't even bother to tell her to ask a sorry,and some random PPL i knew for like 2 months were helping me ,.at that point I was soooo freakin brokennnn,and thought how it was allllll a lie,..it's been like 5 months now but I'm still not yet healed and still traumatized (it's been affecting my grades really bad),.from then on idk i just don't wanna be bestfriends with anyone anymore,.and I have been not able to say this to anyone and just kept it inside of me,so thought I would share it here sneha. so yeah...this is my soga friendship failure story ig?
after reading your entire comment , the first thing that struck me was “been there done that” . Certain things are meant to happen a certain way for us and it’ll be that way . God gives the hardest of times to the strongest of people and just go through it . One tight hug from me to you 🫂🤍
@sneholic You were so true when you said I've never believed in friendships and i literally cried through this entire video friendship doesn't did anything in my entire freakin 17 yr life except the depression and trauma but later on i agreed with that and said to myself that not everyone has a good taste right and i moved on but I've literally prayed to have a good friendships that cheers me up when i am at my lowest but seruppadi hits you hard and serupadi makes you urupadi but ngl this comment section is filled with trauma and emotions i thought I was the only one but after this video i felt so bad that you came through the same shit and just wanna say you ilysm🤞( I hope u read my cmnt )
This is a true incident in my life what you have said , but at the same time now my life is becoming some what better with the right person. So , what. I really mean is things never happen twice. May be in the next era you'll see "Time and him are just right" that kind of friendship... Don't worry about it , Love your self and move on
Same thing happened to me , i had a friend with whom i cherished 2yrs , but suddenly god knows what happened , she just put me down for another girl ...i was like shattered and broken and accepted, started to move on ...we didn't talk for just 1 year... again god knows what happened ...she came back to after a year ..at that place i had to take a decision whether to continue or decline ...I CHOOSE TO CONTINUE ...and guess what she is best friend till now ...for next 6 months i didn't believe her that much but she is genuine good towards me !! may be giving second chance is a good thing ..but don't be too open ...we actually talked about that years later ..she told , she was in an bad influence and immature ...and we together move on of that phase ....now she is loyal to me and vise versa!!❤️❤️
So much relatable. I thought its only me, Like I've been overthinking pointing myself, suprassing myself by asking one single question myself, "What's wrong with you?" Coz enakumeh there was no point where i had good friends. Everytime I'm with sunmon they just want on that phase of their life aprm enna kalati vitruvanga.. this is what goin on my life too. Since ppl are jus going jus like that, i started self doubting "en mela enna thappu naa enna pannen", tho i didn't do anything!. After a point veruthuten, Podhum da ebhaaa enuf is enuf I'm destined to be so nu i started accepting things. And now to some extent life is peaceful but still there's a gap for a good friend around me. Ughhhh.. I jus want to hug you bruh! Sending you a lot of strength and positivity.. everything will be fine ❤
Sneha ka ennakku ungla maari dha en life la ye oru friend forever nu erundhadhu ella. And na oru person kooda romba close ana oru time la I think she is my everything at that time without telling any reason she leaves me ennaka adha ethukave mudila I just I can't come back to normal.whenever I see her my heart cry for her. but she just like that nu enna romba easy throw pantu another person kuda happy ya erukka . Because of her I just stuck in my life even I cried hardly in my birthday coz of her . Now I understand that nothing is permanent we just have to move on . Thank ka for talking about fake friendship ❤❤
Friendship la sogam , sandhosham , rants , ennalum sollalaam , silent ta irukalaam , kovam , sanda nu ellame irukum . Ippo iruka gen la yaarukum avanga pathi personal stuffs share panna pudikaathu but instead romba superficial la fake ka andha time period ku oru person nalla pesa iruntha pothum nu irupaanga that is what is termed as cool and being in good books now a days . Thappu namba mela illa cause namba deep pa palaga nekaikurom aana avangaluku athu theiva illa that's it . I pray and wish you to find friends with whom you will experience the real essence of friendship ✨️💯
I felt like I just wanna hug you 7:58 and give my shoulder to you and wanna say 'look I m here with you' 🥺felt my heart getting heavy😭...I never saw this snegu my dragon ever before like this...Look Snegu we love you ❤️🤌🏻
I have stopped myself from speaking like the way I want just because of the critics I have faced all my life. According to me school life= trauma, because of all the shit I faced but after watching this I could see all the people who suffered like me. I thought I was the only person going through this like blaming then regretting later on getting depressed for people who wanted to mess my life. It is true the impact that makes one to shut themselves and not come out of it and now I have reached a point where I have lost my hope on people P.S sorry for the long comment
Same. 40years of age but really I don’t know where it slips away in friendship or relationship. I will have same feelings for the friends no matter what but they never reciprocate. I move on, life goes on!
When a person is taking every thing positive and be happy in every situation but they only know how many bad situation they have gone through in past....... Me also 😅
From the start of my school life ive nvr got a good friendship everyone used to avoid me...whenever i enter the class they stop talking and start teasing because of this ive cried a lot asking my mom to change school and totally i felt lonely and ive never wanted to be treated tht way....tht time i hated studying i was only sitting and crying aft a while it was lockdown times and aft tht i started studying very hard and ppl started talking but again they wont share anything and im not concerned abt it and even if a frnd frm the frnd gang the other members used to treat me like very different...then i got close with some but then slowly realized they did not c me the way i saw them...this video is totally relatable,thankyou for making this video
It's all about the person's priorities.......😢still no one is there for me as a friend have sacrificed tolerated and faced lots of betrayal most of the peoples who we trusted a lot there used to have only benefits from us 😅and there will go after the priorities changed😂and that's the reality 💯
I smts don't understand why this friendship is ending... I go try to fix it few times. And i understood dat da quote u said is def true. Alsooo had a few really true friendships ending and ik how it feels wen u see ur true bestfriend as a stranger when they aren't urs anymore. I also understood dat i should be friendly towards everyone me by not sticking to the same person, whom u mean the world eventhough they don't understand dat nor they fail to realised dat. Still going through dat phase, now I don't let anyone easily get inside my boundary cuz the ones who i let in aren't mine anymore. baby dragon thx for opening up to us and sharing ur friendship story. I really feel like u r my elder sis.. lotsss of love❤❤
Even I went through a fake friend ship that hurted me so much, shegossiped about me when I was not there and she behaved like I don't know that she gossiped. I went through a lot of struggle to overcome it was a big trauma for me but now I started to accept myself and stop trusting people
Doing good without expecting anything in return is a selfless act of kindness. It means helping someone or doing something for the greater good, without any ulterior motives or expectations of receiving anything in return, such as gratitude, recognition, or compensation. Luke 6:35 in the Bible says, "But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful".
Someone really spoke my heart out ❤❤❤ amazing amazing content delivery…. Should appreciate you for speaking out …thank you … more strength to you ♥️…. Speak about friendship breakups too …
So relateble, I think in every relationship understanding is the key , being possesive is ok but we want to let them free , nothing is permanent in our life mom,dad (thier physical presence)friend any thing ,there is one person who is always with you even in your death bed is "you" so don't think too much be you in a right way .... AND ALL THE BEST FOR 10th STUDENTS WHO GONNA WRIGHT PUBLIC
I've been heart-broken many times in friendship more than in relationship.. Seriously kaa, I hated the used and throw concept of friendship.. Everytime we gt attached to them, we get heart-broken.. Many friendships kaa.. One of my 12 years friendship ended 2 days ago just bcz of a third person.. Im done with friendship 😌.. But kaa.. Thank you ❤.. Thank you so much for making me cry and let go all the pain of friendships in my heart.. it has been very heavy to have the pain inside.. Thank you Snegu kaa❤.. And and andd please do many episodes, i will support you!!.. I have your back kaa.. DO IT!❤😊
Words would never be enough to explain how much your words have hit me hard. Seeing you only on screen from the very beginning I've never ever thought you would be going through phase sneha. Idk how to put it into words but the only thing is, you deserve much more better and I hope you are doing alright now. Have anyone told you before? That your eyes shines when you smile...that's such an beautiful thing that you own. so please don't let anyone or anything take that from you. I love wht you are and the way you are now. Anyways keep shining
Hey sis , what u have told from first to last is so trueee… , because of friendship I started thinking everyone is fake out there but some people come to u and become so close and then they disappear, I have cried a lot for that person but there is no use 💔. And thank you for this video sis ❤️🩹.
You are one younger than but matured than me❤️❤️thank you for teaching me its okay to not have friends. I would say better to be alone than having a grp of people hurting us... don't feel snehu❤
Yaah snegu....really a comfort video needed this very much....i thought i was the mistake and my friends made me think i m fake,i m the mistake....becoz of that i went to mental depression from 2024🙂....and this video made me feel better❤...like literally a comfort video dear....luv u lots ❤️
Im very happy sneha that you talked about this particular topic! Friendship breakups hurts whether you are 13 or 30 it depends on how you take it and mold ur future ..
Sneha...you replied to my comment...lalala..I love you...i don't know if you will believe me ...but you really made my day ..your dialogue...nane orey happy happy ya iruken .... actually I am going through a phase where I want to be a social person ...talk with people grow more ..but thirumbura Edam ellam serupadi ..I am an extrovert..so how should handle this and not convince myself to become introvert or nambalukum yarum vendam pa...i don't want that mindset..enakum happy ya irukanum friends irukanum veliya suthanum ..how should I tackle this phase..
Hey Snegu, happy to listen to ur video,keep doing the unfiltered versions thanks for your words it's felt the same as what I faced through the 15 years ❤.
Friendship ah backstabbing ku oru Bridge ah use panradhu en life la nadanhdiruku 😁 Ipdi lam nadakkanum sneha , appk dhan namaku puriyum ellarum nallavanga illa nammaloda irukkavangale ipdi na munna pinna theriyadhsvanga epdi it is a must to experience bad friendships
literally the same Sneha sis .. I am a preteen who is a 13-year-old girl. who really has a light bit lower reputation among teachers because of one damn thing I just did and my friends who were 7 years with me just left me this year with I graduated to 9th grade. of sudden I really mentally suffered a lot of pain which was not easy to take. Every video was relatable when I opened RUclips and now ur content is also relatable from the first sentence. breakup vida broken friendship is bitter and sour to take .. thank you so much for this amazing content.
Awww thank you Snehu🥺i went through this situation 10:30😢4 years best friend recently we fight(she scold me😐) and block each other phone number now i like to talk to her but her ego is high she never respect me😢so i hope god will strong me to overcome this situation even yesterday i cried because of her past memories😓...friendship breakup is worst😭💔
Papa... Really Thank you so much for speaking about this.. it means so much to me.. Because I'm depressed for something for the last 2 weeks very badly... But today I got a clarity on myself... Even though I'd completed my graduate & currently studying LAW , I can't handle myself when I get broken by someone else
Hey sis!! You know last week i have faced this problem while seeing your video it gives me good feel nd relax,now i know be yourself dont change yourself for anyone..lots of luv sis❤️❤️✨
I heard friendship is gift from god but i don't have it. From 5th standard onwards i wanted true frnds but now i am 11th my biggest wish is to have true frnds but i never had that now i have few frnds we are 4 but now also i am left out alone i don't share my secrets often but i shared once to one of my friend with trust actually that time i don't know that will become their conversation between those three i started avoiding them it's my public exam time i really don't know what i have in my life average student and i have bad name in school without doing anything because of the shit even it was my exam time now also i am undergoing some problem because of some shit i have nobody to share my prob my parents are always busy i don't have frnds i am always alone but i don't like this loneliness wish i have someone to care for me to talk with me to be with me.
This vdo is sm relatable !!!! Thank you for posting it Sneha !!... And I cn able too see so many ppl like me, in the comments section... without a good friendship. Don't worry guyz... This too shall pass and let's focus on our future rather than thinking abt not having any frndz... Just maintain a distance with ppl and don't take too much advantage... Avanga edhachu oru naal vittu thn poga poraanga...😒
Ungaloda speech keatadhuku apram na neraiya peara hurt panra madri nadanduteanonu thonudhu , ennaiya porutha people around me should be happy . Neenga sonna madri oru gangla new and old friends maintain panradhu very tough athunala oruthara satisfy panna oruthara hurt pannitaenonu thonudhu. As of now I finished my higher secondary and looking forward to start college life, as you said no one is permanent in life. It would be nice to talk to you i think . Love from your sister
My friend did this to me yes your wrong I can't control my tears pls don't do this it really hurt more 😭 don't do the same in future if u have time pls talk with them I know how it hurts 💔
I too faced this ka a friend who was always with me and literally who cried for me when i changed school and guided me to pursue my dream left me we too talked like before for some days but everything changed at some point the person avoided me a lot and didn't even gave importance to me like before i asked what is the problem and asked sorry without any reason i just need the friendship but the person told some reason which i didn't did even though i asked sorry i left my self respect because i need the friendship but at some point i cant do anything how long i can hold someone to stay with me and now the person avoided me totally but still i cant believe that the person who cried for me left me without any valuable reason...this happened 3 months ago..still now i cant get over it...i am tired of holding the friendship so i too stopped disturbing the person... After that i lost hope in friendship...i blamed myself...and i thought i was wrong but after seeing this video i understood many people going through the same.....
i could literally feel me talking all this frm ur position in this video! i’ve gone through the same shit and i’m doing my 3rd year of engineering and i’m the one sitting all alone gazing at other frnds gang. i’ve put my fullest effort being in the giving side and all i got to see was phases of fake frnds🙂👍 i had tears until the end of this video! keep goinh stronger🫂
i could see myself from you sweet ! fights and misunderstandings in friendship is common . we can be friends with everyone but when we start to find that best friend vube in friends where the friendship started to get diminisshed . dont worry sweet. ! it will get better ! prioritise your family ❤
As i have no one to share my story, here it is ... Till 9th grade i basically had no idea about friendship, with my past experiences i got into an assumption that friendships are meant for short time period and then you find an other friend again. When i went into 10th grade due to the situation i had to go to hostel ( by that time period i had a best friend who was my child bestie and i thought she should be my first priority and she had the same idea) I got few close friends when i was in hostel i use to be home sick but they made me over come that feeling. They made me realise what friendship is about I was literally the happiest person on earth during that time... But for my 11 and 12th grade i had to change my school. It was all fine initially but i had no friends for the whole 11th grade at the same time i also realised the my friends for 10th grade also disappeared. I got few friends in 12th grade who also left with in few months... Now after 12th grade, the childhood bestie who I've mentioned before also turned toxic... She only focused on her needs and used me to fullfill those... When i need a help with something she use to say excuses.... Now im no longer talking to her too... IM ALONE🙂
Hi sneha Ur thoughts is exactly match to me I think that ur story is exactly copy of my life Now my name sneha Ad also I am going to start my own RUclips channel I am 18 years Tq to inspiring me❤❤❤
Being alone is best then having snakes near us if anyone is facing fake friends problem then cut that relationship immediately if it is toxic ..be kind to yourself and love yourslef ❤
Nanum friendship la neraya go through panniruken ka. I changed my likes and dislikes for them , but still they kept hurting me !! Na 12th holidays la iruken ka , we decided to meet only once in a month. Ippo yaara kuptalum pesa kuda maatranga. And my friend told that she will be there when we want to gather again but her boyfriend will be there we don't know it's her date or we are the shit who came with the old expectations. She just wanted to spend time with her boyfriend and we are used !! Now we calls her and she says her mom won't allow her. Ava aal ku wrk vara matta nu sollitan ka athuku enga kuda vara mattalama :)
Hi ! In this fast phase of life people realise hardships in very early phase of life..... And thats how 21st century meant to be ! APJ once said "Enjoy the moments you made and dont expect it to sustain life long.....Those moments at that time is precious "
Namma avugala entha level la vachurukom drathu irukatu but avuga life laa nama entha place la irukom nu therium la if we're not in their lifepart sure we have to leave we can't hold them right ?!...&(We say this is wrong generation yes that's right but we are born in wrong generation 🙃...with truth pure bond and cares💔...no onecares about us like as mother Just love yourself 💖 and keep move on with smile .......
Yess.............❤ I also went through this trauma and now also being continued in my environment space same 🗯️🧐 thoughts i have 😮 u told as a video 😊 i like ur way of opening up 🥰 same age same situation 🤧 but i think i have a ✨💫✨💫good soul in heart...♥️💝
I want to say something ...ungaluku eppidy patta frds kadachalu seri avanga kitta anba irruka aana eppo vu ma unga ethirparpa avanga mela vaikathiga...sometime namma ku thonu ennoda frd enta ippidy irrukanu appidy irrukanu athella venda ...one advice neega ellaru kitta um jolly ya peasuga ellarukum ungala pudikanumnu nenaikathiga ellaru kitta um knjm limit ta pazhakunga ....mathavanga kitta anba ethir parkama unga anba kudunga...unga own company ya enjoy panuga...ellama anupavam ta
Yaa correct, now iam studying college i did not get any friendship in my schools days but unexpectedly i meet my friend in college and he is very jolly type and i also very close to them but after some days me and my friend fight each other by words.but i do no whether the mistake is made by me or my friend. After a fight we cant talk each other .but later that i realize that i miss my friend .i cannot forgot my friend 😪. Each and every day ,night ,second the memories spend with my friend are coming to my mind .feb 15 is last day of speaking with my friend. When i enter into my classroom whenever i see my friend face i was very depressed whether i made the mistake.i was in very big confusion and depression i can not sleep well because friend memories distrub me. He also not come and talk with me but i notice that he also miss me .we are in reluctance situation to talk each other. But i fear that whether i miss my friend in my life.i cant share this issue to anyone because of no onefor me.now what can i do now and your speech is very inspiration to me
This healed me,😇❤🩹 personally they never say it to us or they never say why they don't like us....All of the the sudden they ghost us for no reason and never validate us but it consumes more time to understand what it is...But in ur case its really hard no way to express it...(Akka personally indha friends ah paathu 👀nambha demotivate aaguroom la avunga koooda iruka num ma nambha nambhala mathi kanum nu solli nambha family ku set aagatha sila things ahhh sengi.....athu friends mathila la oru change umm kodukala😶🌫 but family la problems varum intha topic patthi solluga)IN SIMPLE ADUTHAVA NU KAGA NAMBHA ILLA APDINU INNUM SILA OPINIONS SHARE PANNU GA🙂
To everyone who watched this video and took the time to comment on it , thank you so much 😊 I’m glad that atleast a few of you’ll liked it and I’ll make sure to refine the upcoming contents into a better way . Also let me know your suggestions on other topics that you’d like to hear about and I’ll definitely do it ❤️ And to all those beautiful souls who went through the things you’ll didn’t deserve to , it’s okay and it is what it is .
I would like to suggest you talking about ..
There's this group of people saying after u completed 12th only study for engineering and doctor .. so can you talk about that it's our opion and choice to take the course we lyk and are interested❤ this is my opinion snegu .. if u have ur free time and can make this content I feel it would motivate many students completing 12th and in a dilema to choose their future course and even if they have no interest on that course for there parents they study .. thank you 🙂
Love you snegu ❤❤
You are literally me... Facing the same thing since my child hood , I thought I am that only unlucky person but not, we are authentic than we think❤
Thank you for your videos
It was a eye opener to me
One of the best video ⭐. Treasure 🌝
Please make more such videos like this
Hi ma.
Bitter truth about friendship.
1. Betrayal never comes from enemies.
2. Self respect vs friendship -> self respect
3. School phase, college phase, friendship are like train journey. Once their destination reaches, they'll get off.
Well Said !
I used to be a extrovert
Now i am a introvert
Love everyone and me
Hate everything
I used to be fat from a kid , everyone make fun of me, i got acne
All i want to lose my weight and look pretty but that never occurred for me,.
Due to my look i focused on studies
And everyone called me padipus, gundachi,kuthani
I used to cry in bathroom
I used to have a friend who is my bestie but she just used me for my brain and to look pretty standing near me then she always left me alone when i need her . One day i should bring a girl on my birthday to give candy i asked her she told no and she called my in a bad word
the same time my brother is my opposite he is a all rounder good at everything. My parents always compared me and scaled-down me .
At lockdown i become plus my size and none in school talk to me .
Now i makeup stories to my mother that i am happy and i am best to avoid scolding and beating.
I got none to share this but after hearing your story u always been my role model
I hope this story is inspiring .it is always been my secret today i can't control it alwqys the pot will overflow one day.😢
Pls do a video on body shaming pls
👇( like so she will see this)
People will hate and hurt you, when they can't beat you. 💯💯
this video healed me in a certain way...i have come to a point where i started to believe it is simply the way people are..i have been more on the giving side rather than the receiving side..being so desperate to be in the receiving side has put me down even more..being around manupulative people,toxic and fake ones,however i somehow got to know what was happening in my absence and how much hatred people have towards me for no reason and because of self assumptions.Your video felt more like a personal call with that one person who will always be there for you.I have realised that it was myself who has been thru all this and i never left my side during the downfalls...each heartbreak is actually a lesson to love yourself!
i literally had tears hearing you go through the same shit i went through, going through. i had very bad friendships in school. i wanted things to change but unlike you, i didn’t build a guard around me when i came to college, instead i let everyone in. it was all butterflies in the start, but history just repeated itself. ik this too shall pass but its actually v v v difficult coping. Really glad hearing someone talk about this in the right time❤️
Hope you’re doing good now 🫂❤️
@@sneholiccan u post about practicing self love sis ❤
I thought I'm the one going through this 😪 this is so horrible still now I'm around all toxic people where I'm just suffering so much. Same to replace the lost life in school I started letting people in without boundaries initially ut was all so good I was so addicted later realized it was all the same and the same repeated in a wrse way now standing all alone
@@nainaedits.126 i understand how difficult it is, but you’ll get through this and find the right people
Same feel ,when we think they are friends,but they don't think us , and betray us , leave us time of mental struggles
I have never commented in a RUclips video before...i think I must do it this time ...I thought this shit happens only to me i have cried my whole life about this.once i have got hurt and never believed in friendship again and built up a wall just like you ...after few years i have got a set of friends who changed my perspective...i have always been loyal and I just need only that set of friends my whole life but friends changed and they found new friends but i still think about only them ...they were my happiness still living with our memories ..I am in tears rn someone actually spoke about this and I can totally relate I don't know if anyone can relate the amount of pain I'm going through but anyone out there who is going through the same pain ur not alone...thanks a lot for this video sneha kudooss ❤️
This raw video is the real form of every person's heart, not just yours alone, but truly of everyone. Your genuineness became the mouthpiece of millions of broken people outside there just because of this one friendship insecurity. Thank you ma I felt the same and but it's not permanent is what you understood and has given a greater conclusion of peace. Thus it's an open podium of outburst. Last two thing to tell you. Only few people exist forever but then only for a limited time. In terms of justice, every heart gets the true desire whether be the person or thing it's the reward of God once the trials and tribulations are overcome through love and patience. One day you will be surprised to see yourself on top of the world with all the loved ones and things in you and around you in this valuable life.
Remember, everyone needs people on our last day to carry our coffin.
I'm sorry, if my words doesn't fit in this real world but every person can make the world fit in his life according to his desire.
God bless you and everyone with the same struggles. Believe that this troubles will perish one day.
I went through trauma in this friendship track snehaa💔 its better to stay alone than being with wrong one
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Real friend is one who stays constant throughout your up’s and down’s, kick you when you go wrong , pat you when you are down. It’s not like being together always, roaming around and having a chit chat, it’s all about respect, space, concern,love and care towards each other.
But always things take time to process and understand. It’s always better to stay alone than ending with fake people around.
Have a big smile and stay positive 😊
I had a friendship which I had for 14 years. It broke 2 years ago... Im 23 now. I thought this friendship would continue for the rest of my life.ana enaku theriyala ethunala ipadi achunu.. After she gone like this I think maybe this is a fake friendship. She had a boyfriend.. She was in a relationship for 5 years. 2 years ago she calls her boyfriend to her house, he came from a long distance. Ava aniku vetula matikita. Suddenly she blamed me For her to escape.. She says I brought him, she doesn't know anything. Her mother call me and hurt me in front of her ..like ne enga veetula ithana varshama sapturkala athuku ipditha pannuviya, neyellam oru true friend ah . She didn't say a word. Ellam thittaiyum na vangitu vanthuten.. I don't know why suddenly she did like this.. I couldn't accept this at the time. But after a few days I stopped thinking about it. I still have memories of her in certain situations.. .
Let what happens happen...
I have faced lots of situations like this from different friends in different ways 🤐
@@Crystalshine03🥲
Soo sorryyy for you 🫂❤️ don't worry bro
Hope you’re doing better now 🫂
@@sneholic ❤
you just spoke what i feel and kept this trauma inside me .... since childhood i have gone through this and still hitting the same shit in college but your words just made me realize accept it just show love it its mine it will find its way to me 🥺🥺🥺
Nethu dhan okandhutu aludutu irundeen friends eh illanu.. correct ah inaiku video... wavelength ❤😂 as you said orupadiya oru friend amayala...
It is what it is 🤍elaam nanmaikey
Me too😢
I feel you, Im 25 now and I don’t have anyone to call my bestie. I feel hurt when I see people hang out with a close knit circle but me here being a loner. I have had the same thoughts and I came to terms with it. I have beat myself up with this for a long time and now I have accepted it! Don’t worry! Being alone also teaches you how to be strong!
Literally had gone back to those traumatic school days while watching your video each and every minute in ur video had a connection with my life especially 6:47 the same i went through and i still remember the date as well😢 and i went on and asked those people but they didn't even treat me as a human and during those i used to cry in my room in a corner using my pillow, even when i am typing my tears are automatically rolling down and the person was more than 11years of friendship she just blocked stopped talking avoiding me during breaks paper distribution and as u thought initially i also thought the same that the problem lies with me and i have to change but no not at all , and the girl she created a big group against me and when i used to go out in the corridor they used to bully me those were really toxic friendship and traumatic days in my entire life, now having no expectations abt friendship in college, i thought that i was the only person who went through all this but i see a lot of comments which i could connect
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OMG. This literally had me in tears, akka. I never had good luck in friendship. Like you said, I always thought I was the problem here. In the middle of shifting schools, I really wanted someone to be my friend, but I never had one. People refrained from becoming friends because of my looks (had protruding teeth and alopecia - a very serious hair problem), and I had to go through a bullying stage where random people would literally pull my hair and stuff (don't worry, not getting into details). Now that I don’t have any of the mentioned problems, people are treating me differently. Like you mentioned in this video, I too put up a wall. This year I focused too much on these friendship dramas and ignored academics, which led to me failing in exams.
To be honest, when I first started watching your videos around the end of 2020, I was under the assumption that you never had to go through any of this. I don't know why, though. But then, gradually, I realized that just because you are a RUclipsr doesn't mean that you never went through all this stuff. This video was so very relatable, and I felt that I am not the only person going through this shit. This video and the last few videos of Momfluencer made me feel so much closer to you guys as a subscriber! Love the idea of this new series and looking forward to this! BTW, this is Aparna from Chennai. Lots of love, guys.
omg, you don't deserve to go through all these 🥺💜🫂 have a pet , there'll be your best friends. you are worthy of everything 💖 don't let yourself down .. focus on your studies.. you'll be okay ❤️
Hope you’re doing better now Aparna 🫂 thank you so much , this means a lot to me ❤ also do drop your suggestions on what I could talk about next
Hi akka collaboration pannuvingala
I agree..i have lost tons of friendships in my life ..somewhere from being a very sensitive person crying over silly stuff i am now a bit more strong.. believe me it all happens for good..its not like i don't believe in best friends but i do believe that no one remains forever .. every one u have now won't remain the same once u enter into college, after school life u will run out of topics nd eventually u will have nothing to talk so its better not to stay is disbelief.. accept the reality and enjoy the present ✨
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Okay i found this at the right time 😭😭. Was going through some issues in my clg due to friends and I wasn't really able to cope up with it as it drains my energy and makes me look depressed as i always start overthinking even for the slightest and petty things they do. I often find fault in myself for their behaviour towards me. I can't wait to get over this clg life as i have just 4 months left . Thanku for this vedio it was just a eye opener ❤️❤️
The reason why I don't have good friends in my 8 years of school life...
I am not aware of people and how to handle them
I allowed them to USE AND THROW ME
they thought that I am not fair enough in skin color
I am topper so they don't like that
I am a different person like a nerd in studies so they don't like that
What I did to overcome
I started to love myself ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I build my value in school
I came to know the 3 things "இடம் பொருள் ஏவல்"
In college days I have lot of friends how i am jobless time l have no friends.
People don't change options will be changed.
Omg!!!,this vid just literally made me cry!!!!my whole school friendship broke and i couldn't move on it's been one year I have kind of but that pain is still there...but they have moved on!!!!I loved my ex besties so much!!!en school le I had many friend aana avanga thaan enakku besties AA irundhanga!!!naan vaazhakaile nenikile that andha friendship break aghom nu!!!but I was literally heartbroken!!!now they hate me!!!!!...yen school last year le I was not ok mentally or emotionally.my last year of school was like hell...and I felt like they were changing...adhu naan poi confront panne ...so namakulla oru manakassappu vandhurchu....nesama solren..naan adhu Sheri panrathakku romba try panne...aana yen efforts e avanga ignore panitanga yen munnadi ok nu solli veliya poi they told Ava kooda Ella meendum friend a irk mudiyadhu....sneha akka sonna words were so relatable...but I still miss them!!!!
Inga eruka sila friendship la... Avangala veeda azhaga , thiramaiya erundha pudikadhu... Avangaluku ama saami pota nallavanga nu solvanga..... Enjoy ur life by ur own🎉...even siblings and parents kooda vara pooradhu illa...avangaley varadha modhu friends yum apdi thaan....so neenga adha serious ha edukadhinga...u just be like pesna pesu, peslana poo ..and neenga avanga illa nu feel panni broke aana avangaluku adhu happy thaan...but avanga ungala vitu pooitu aprm happy ha erundhingana avangaluku adhu erium...so jus be u and enjoy urself❤
Am 21 now I have 4 bestfriends .our gang formed in 2021 it's been 3 yrs and we have lot of fights ,lots of misunderstanding but we never thought about break our friendship.when we have misunderstanding we share our feelings and open up our problems without any ego.we got up and downs in our studies and career.we are always be with us in our success and failures so I assums we 5 are luckies ❤
Glad to hear that 🥺❤️
@sneholic ❤❤
The best topic you have spoke for now....and really needed this on the beginning and ending of my first year 💯
Its soo good to hear u alwayzz ❤. This kind of open talk will definitely give clarity to a soul that they are not alone ... keep going ❤
Thank you so much 🤍
Ippo thaan puriyudhu that its not just me!!!!there are many people who have gone through the same pain!!!!!akka nesama solren naan romba value pannadha friendship thaan aana avlo value panni .....avanga kagh yedhu vanalum pannara mari irundhum they couldn't understand me adhu thaan ennaku romba hurt ayidchu!!!!!ippo i have some very good college friends but ippo kooda andha bhayan irk...after that i got trust issues and it kinda changed my personality!!!but i really wanna say that my college friends atleast ippo varaikyum are very good💗🤗✨...
Sneha this video is very relatable. And I'm looking forward to seeing more of these videos.
I actually thought I was the only person who was going through such a thing in life cuz it really affects in many ways and now I know there are many ppl out here who feel the same way.
I've always wanted a friend who has my back and be friends forever or smthg but I've been hit so many times and still try to find ppl to stay with. I had a friend in my old apartment i had just met her in 2022 Jan or smthg and by dec we became so close, that we realized we had so much in common and became best friends and thought she was different from others, at least i thought she was until I shifted. First few days we txted and then as days go by she stopped txting me. now she doesn't txt me until i do but i still like her cuz she is a good friend.
I've gone through a lot more worse stuff before so I don't even care if smthg happens now.
Thank you sneha for this video.
I can totally relate to you and there’s nothing that i could say that might make you feel better . But just know that you didn’t go through all of that for nothing . What is meant for you will come to you . Athuvaraikum be you & never lose yourself 🤍
Seriously, the same thing happened to me. Even today, I cried that i did'nt get the same effort from the other side of friendship. when someone advising me that thas person is doing this and that, and I really fought for them, like, 'No, don't talk about her like this.'(even i lost that frienship for that person) But when i get to know that someone is right,it hurts ....also this video helped to get out of that like i am not the only person .We need more videos akin to these
Hope you feel better now and I’m glad this helped you in the least way 🤍
I gone through the same shit at my high school...during my 11th std I had that one frnd who ditched me for an other friend of her..the actual point is i'm the one who introduced her to that Frnd...it hits me alot..and again things went well after I got comfort with a new frnd..but time just taught me none can replace the same vibe...but one thing I could think of and relief myself is..my childhood frnd whom I lost the contact and get back again during 12th and she's the one I was searching for... ❤
Same here bruhhh !!!
Let me be your friend ❤
@@Karthikeyan-eb3kgingayum vantiya gomma 😂
Yeah there was literally a very hard time in my life too... Where there was a friend for 2 yrs who was more than anyone that I wanted ... But then things happened maybe bcz of me and our friendship was totally over..... The blame was always on me saying that I was the one who was fake and betrayed....I still had hope that aftr few months I could change everything and go back to her... But she left permanently without a word.... And here I am in tears as before but she there being happy with spreading hatred about me.... She never forgave me and now she forgot me ig...but here I am looking at our old photos with a tiny hope that she will talk to me one day
No u deserve better pls forget and stay bold and start self love dear
Tysm for this . ive gone through every single thing uve mentioned and ive been through every worst scenarios a frndship bw two ppl can happen . i wish u best of luck for ur future and thanks once again for this
You are true. Even I am in the same stage now, I again start to pull myself to the same person who I don't want. But again I got the same heart break from certain people. They made a promise to me that we will not do the same things to you. You are so important to us don't worry but. They completely changed when I needed them most. I needed them when I was literally in my bad state. It was a medical issue for me that the doctor said I have an issue with my health if it does not cure I may....... I just didn't attend my college for 4 months. My bad luck It was in a medical emergency near my birthday last year. They know about my issue but they never have been with me when I need them. I just stopped talking to them because of this kind of behaviour to me. They never asked me whether I am ok or not both physically or mentally. They also ignored me after they got new friends with whom they are happy. It's still hurting but like before. But it's really not that easy to move on from everything. And I just lost trust in friendship now 🙂. Just giving them a smile that doesn't matter to me anymore
Being along is a gift ❤ rather than being in wrong group.
Thanku sneha..it's a needed topic. Nowadays people need companions to hangout rather than friends.
Hii snehu... In recent time I have gone through lot about fake friendship.... After school... New college... New people's... Apdi enaku oru frnd kedacha... Literally enoda 5th sem starting vara Ava mattum dha frnd.... Ava epdina... Enaku project aana vara romba nalla ponnu... Strict parents... Velila kuda vida maatanga... Andha maari... Ipdi dha enaku solliruka... Obviously Ava mattum dha enaku frnd... So Ava solradhu dha na nambi aaganum... Avaluku na , Innoru guy rendu perum frnds... Avanga rendu perum romba close.... Second sem mid la .... She had a crush on one senior.... Ava enta onnume solala... But na ellame solanunu expect pannuva... Enaku oru doubt starting la ye irundhuchi... Suppose avaluku andha anna va pudichiruko nu... Na direct uh ve keten.... But she said... Ila mani... Na full uh nambunen avala.... Almost 4-5months uh en kudaiye irundhu avangata pesitu irundha... Na lusu maari ovoru time avngala paakum bothum Morachitu irundhuruken.... Aprm konja naal kalichi ellarukum theriya varum bodhu enta vandhu sonna... Yaro solli theriuradhuku Ava sonna paravala nu... Apo kuda .. na theriyama panniten... Enga veetla othuka maatanga... Na velila varanum... Atleast apovachi Ava enta unmaiya sollirundhurukalam.... Ama enakum avangala pudikum love panren nu... Aana poi sollita... Ava enta help Pannu di nu ketta Nala na neraya panen.... En name ketalum paravala... Andha anna ena enaa nenacha enaku ena... En frnd ok va irundha podhum apdi nenachi... Ipo nenachi patha ... Evlo muttal uh irundhuruken nu thonudhu .... Ava ena nalla use pannikta... Last la theva ilama ena nee enaku true frnd ye ila... Na una pathi nalla therinjikten apdi solli sanda potta... Apo dha therinjadhu... Ok nama avala avlo blind uh nambiruka kudadhunu... Thn... Na avata irundhu vandhuten... One yr aaga pothu... Thaniya dha iruken... Vera frnds irukanga but close uh yaarum ila... Engaiyachi pohanuna kuda thaniya dha ponum... Na sudden uh missing na yaarukum theriyadhu... Nadula enoda bad time la call panni pesuna... Naa apo kuda paravala ena dha irundhalum 2 yrs kuda irundhava dhana... Ivlo laam thappa nenaka kudadhu apdi nenachen.... Recent uh avaluku innoru guy frnd nu sollirundhen la... Avan avala love panren nu sollitu irundhurukan... Avanuku ellame therium... Infact Avan mediator vela laam paathukan.. andha ponnoda love ku.. apdi irundhutu ipdi sollum bothu ena da idhu apdi dha irundhuchi... Ava ena vitutu vera oru frnd uh pudichita... Avata na keten ... Ipdi pesikranga unaku theriuma nu... Ahh mani therium... adhu avaluke therium.. apdi sonna... adhuku mela ena Solla mudium nu vituten...Ava poi en ex frnd ta solli... Ava andha paiyan ta solli... Avan vandhu sanda potan... Apo vandhu Ava enta keta.. seri nama dha pesuradhu ila la... Aprm edhuku ena pathi pesura apdi... Idhula irundhu ena theriudhu .. Avan panradhu problem ye ila... Na pesunadhu mattum dha prbl... Adhu na ipdi onnu nadakradhu theriyama irukangalo nu dha keten... Ava apdi ketadhum... Full uh heart break... Na suthama veruthuten... Na yedhukaka avala nambanum... Evlo time Ava thappu pannalum na yen avaluku soft corner kudukanum.... Aana Ava ovoru time um ena shit maari treat panniruka. Friendship dha ipdi nu patha... Love life la adhuku mela...
Na love panravanga en chithi paiyan(anna) oda frnd... Naanga love panna starting la ye avanta sollitom... Avan vena pinnadi edhachi prbl na enta varadhinga na help panna maatanu sollitan... Naangalum seri sollitom...
Avanga apdiye vitrukalam la... Na avanta help ketana... Na edhume kekama... Vaithu erichal pudichavan.. avanum en innor cousin um sendhu en chithi veetla ellartaium sollirukan... Aprm en aaloda Amma ku love panradhu therinji en anna ku call panni ketrukanga... Avan ena sollirukanum na vena sonen avanga dha kekala... Enaku vera edhum theriyadhu ena kekadhinga ipdi kuda solliruklame... Pinadi prbl na avana dha ellam kepanga nu... Avanga Amma ta ena pathi thappu thappa solli... Avanga Amma Naa venave vena nu otha kaal la nikkuranha ipo....
Enga veetla konjam kuda Purinjika maatanga... Romba strict... Suppose avanga enga veeta solliruvangalo nra bayam vera... Love panradhu theriradhu kuda vera.... Innum vera edhedho solli vechirukan.... Enala edhume panna mudila.... Mrng avata sanda poten.. afternoon patha en aalu veetla maatitu Inga ellam keka... Enga anna va ipdi pannadhu apdi irundhuchi... Avanukulaam Naa evlo panniruken... Konjam kudava nenachi paakala... Adhum onnu maathi onnu... Ada endhichi nikkaradhu kulla adichi thalranga.... Naa yaara ellam perusa nenachano ellarum emathitanga... Except en family... Enala andha time la suthama edhaiym handle panna mudila.... Serious uh .. suiside panniklam uh nu laam neraya thoughts vandhadhu..
Enake oru time ku mela bayam vandhuruchi... Thaniya irundha edhachi pannipenu akka ta vandhuten... Ellarum enta epdi irundhurukanga nu therinja aprm dha oru dhairiyam vandhuruku... Ella prbl um face pannitu... Neenga sonna maari na ila nu kaatanunu thonudhu... Paakalam hope for the best🤞
It would be better if all the people in the comments have met!! Or get a chance to meet because we know how people are and have better clarity in how to behave and not to hurt others.
Ur literally the best influencer I have ever seen.... I'm elder but I learnt so many things from you thank you sheguuu...as you said now I'm molded into a better person and I have shared this videos to my friends tooo❤✨
Thank you for those valuable words 🤍💪🏻your strong and things will get better soon
I had a friendship which I had for 6 long years (from my 4th std to 10th std)(currently I'm in 10th lol) so ,i thought it would last a lifetime cause it was the purest extreme close bond friendship i had with this girl,but then she just ditched me for her new friends who she thought was cool,mass ,gethu but in reality was spoiling her to the core,.and once she got close with them ,she just started to avoid me ,and my self respect was starting to deteroriate,..I just thought I would stay quiet(at that point of time I was on my worst times tho...)and see if she would realise I'm not there and would come back to me,but then she didn't even bother to listen from what was on my side and was just defending herself and stated that it was me who changed ,and she said fine I'll talk with u and did the same thing the same instinct second,I felt so heartbroken,and after a few days the girl she left me for just pushed me and I got hurt and was bleeding(i didn't care abt that too but) my whole freaking gang who saw this stayed quiet and didn't even bother to tell her to ask a sorry,and some random PPL i knew for like 2 months were helping me ,.at that point I was soooo freakin brokennnn,and thought how it was allllll a lie,..it's been like 5 months now but I'm still not yet healed and still traumatized (it's been affecting my grades really bad),.from then on idk i just don't wanna be bestfriends with anyone anymore,.and I have been not able to say this to anyone and just kept it inside of me,so thought I would share it here sneha. so yeah...this is my soga friendship failure story ig?
I thought I'm the one like this but here you're going through the same sheezs😢
after reading your entire comment , the first thing that struck me was “been there done that” . Certain things are meant to happen a certain way for us and it’ll be that way . God gives the hardest of times to the strongest of people and just go through it . One tight hug from me to you 🫂🤍
@@sneholic and also like she said trust the process. One day you'll get a true friend! Fighting!
Me and my friend are really close
And this msg right here makes me scared we will lose each other 😢
I hope you bounce back
@sneholic You were so true when you said I've never believed in friendships and i literally cried through this entire video friendship doesn't did anything in my entire freakin 17 yr life except the depression and trauma but later on i agreed with that and said to myself that not everyone has a good taste right and i moved on but I've literally prayed to have a good friendships that cheers me up when i am at my lowest but seruppadi hits you hard and serupadi makes you urupadi but ngl this comment section is filled with trauma and emotions i thought I was the only one but after this video i felt so bad that you came through the same shit and just wanna say you ilysm🤞( I hope u read my cmnt )
This is a true incident in my life what you have said , but at the same time now my life is becoming some what better with the right person. So , what. I really mean is things never happen twice. May be in the next era you'll see "Time and him are just right" that kind of friendship...
Don't worry about it , Love your self and move on
“I never believed in it !”
This line hits more and relatable through🫡
Same thing happened to me , i had a friend with whom i cherished 2yrs , but suddenly god knows what happened , she just put me down for another girl ...i was like shattered and broken and accepted, started to move on ...we didn't talk for just 1 year... again god knows what happened ...she came back to after a year ..at that place i had to take a decision whether to continue or decline ...I CHOOSE TO CONTINUE ...and guess what she is best friend till now ...for next 6 months i didn't believe her that much but she is genuine good towards me !! may be giving second chance is a good thing ..but don't be too open ...we actually talked about that years later ..she told , she was in an bad influence and immature ...and we together move on of that phase ....now she is loyal to me and vise versa!!❤️❤️
One of the best videos❤Soo much relatableee. Spoke my mind.💯 Thanks a lot actually.. ❤❤
So much relatable. I thought its only me, Like I've been overthinking pointing myself, suprassing myself by asking one single question myself, "What's wrong with you?" Coz enakumeh there was no point where i had good friends. Everytime I'm with sunmon they just want on that phase of their life aprm enna kalati vitruvanga.. this is what goin on my life too. Since ppl are jus going jus like that, i started self doubting "en mela enna thappu naa enna pannen", tho i didn't do anything!. After a point veruthuten, Podhum da ebhaaa enuf is enuf I'm destined to be so nu i started accepting things. And now to some extent life is peaceful but still there's a gap for a good friend around me. Ughhhh.. I jus want to hug you bruh! Sending you a lot of strength and positivity.. everything will be fine ❤
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Sneha ka ennakku ungla maari dha en life la ye oru friend forever nu erundhadhu ella. And na oru person kooda romba close ana oru time la I think she is my everything at that time without telling any reason she leaves me ennaka adha ethukave mudila I just I can't come back to normal.whenever I see her my heart cry for her. but she just like that nu enna romba easy throw pantu another person kuda happy ya erukka . Because of her I just stuck in my life even I cried hardly in my birthday coz of her . Now I understand that nothing is permanent we just have to move on . Thank ka for talking about fake friendship ❤❤
Friendship la sogam , sandhosham , rants , ennalum sollalaam , silent ta irukalaam , kovam , sanda nu ellame irukum . Ippo iruka gen la yaarukum avanga pathi personal stuffs share panna pudikaathu but instead romba superficial la fake ka andha time period ku oru person nalla pesa iruntha pothum nu irupaanga that is what is termed as cool and being in good books now a days . Thappu namba mela illa cause namba deep pa palaga nekaikurom aana avangaluku athu theiva illa that's it . I pray and wish you to find friends with whom you will experience the real essence of friendship ✨️💯
I felt like I just wanna hug you 7:58 and give my shoulder to you and wanna say 'look I m here with you' 🥺felt my heart getting heavy😭...I never saw this snegu my dragon ever before like this...Look Snegu we love you ❤️🤌🏻
What I realised in my 25 is been conveyed in right way Sneha🥳
Glad you liked it 🤍
I realised when I'm 12½ ❤
I have stopped myself from speaking like the way I want just because of the critics I have faced all my life. According to me school life= trauma, because of all the shit I faced but after watching this I could see all the people who suffered like me. I thought I was the only person going through this like blaming then regretting later on getting depressed for people who wanted to mess my life.
It is true the impact that makes one to shut themselves and not come out of it and now I have reached a point where I have lost my hope on people
P.S sorry for the long comment
Hope you feel better now 🫂🤍
Same. 40years of age but really I don’t know where it slips away in friendship or relationship. I will have same feelings for the friends no matter what but they never reciprocate. I move on, life goes on!
When a person is taking every thing positive and be happy in every situation but they only know how many bad situation they have gone through in past....... Me also 😅
From the start of my school life ive nvr got a good friendship everyone used to avoid me...whenever i enter the class they stop talking and start teasing because of this ive cried a lot asking my mom to change school and totally i felt lonely and ive never wanted to be treated tht way....tht time i hated studying i was only sitting and crying aft a while it was lockdown times and aft tht i started studying very hard and ppl started talking but again they wont share anything and im not concerned abt it and even if a frnd frm the frnd gang the other members used to treat me like very different...then i got close with some but then slowly realized they did not c me the way i saw them...this video is totally relatable,thankyou for making this video
🫂🤍you deserve so much better
It's all about the person's priorities.......😢still no one is there for me as a friend have sacrificed tolerated and faced lots of betrayal most of the peoples who we trusted a lot there used to have only benefits from us 😅and there will go after the priorities changed😂and that's the reality 💯
I smts don't understand why this friendship is ending... I go try to fix it few times. And i understood dat da quote u said is def true. Alsooo had a few really true friendships ending and ik how it feels wen u see ur true bestfriend as a stranger when they aren't urs anymore. I also understood dat i should be friendly towards everyone me by not sticking to the same person, whom u mean the world eventhough they don't understand dat nor they fail to realised dat. Still going through dat phase, now I don't let anyone easily get inside my boundary cuz the ones who i let in aren't mine anymore. baby dragon thx for opening up to us and sharing ur friendship story. I really feel like u r my elder sis.. lotsss of love❤❤
Glad to be your elder sister 🤍
Love u lotsss baby dragon💖✨
Your reply made my day💖✨
Even I went through a fake friend ship that hurted me so much, shegossiped about me when I was not there and she behaved like I don't know that she gossiped. I went through a lot of struggle to overcome it was a big trauma for me but now I started to accept myself and stop trusting people
Doing good without expecting anything in return is a selfless act of kindness. It means helping someone or doing something for the greater good, without any ulterior motives or expectations of receiving anything in return, such as gratitude, recognition, or compensation.
Luke 6:35 in the Bible says, "But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful".
Someone really spoke my heart out ❤❤❤ amazing amazing content delivery…. Should appreciate you for speaking out …thank you … more strength to you ♥️….
Speak about friendship breakups too …
So relateble,
I think in every relationship understanding is the key , being possesive is ok but we want to let them free , nothing is permanent in our life mom,dad (thier physical presence)friend any thing ,there is one person who is always with you even in your death bed is "you" so don't think too much be you in a right way ....
AND ALL THE BEST FOR 10th STUDENTS WHO GONNA WRIGHT PUBLIC
True 💯
I've been heart-broken many times in friendship more than in relationship.. Seriously kaa, I hated the used and throw concept of friendship.. Everytime we gt attached to them, we get heart-broken.. Many friendships kaa.. One of my 12 years friendship ended 2 days ago just bcz of a third person.. Im done with friendship 😌.. But kaa.. Thank you ❤.. Thank you so much for making me cry and let go all the pain of friendships in my heart.. it has been very heavy to have the pain inside.. Thank you Snegu kaa❤.. And and andd please do many episodes, i will support you!!.. I have your back kaa.. DO IT!❤😊
Words would never be enough to explain how much your words have hit me hard. Seeing you only on screen from the very beginning I've never ever thought you would be going through phase sneha. Idk how to put it into words but the only thing is, you deserve much more better and I hope you are doing alright now. Have anyone told you before? That your eyes shines when you smile...that's such an beautiful thing that you own. so please don't let anyone or anything take that from you. I love wht you are and the way you are now. Anyways keep shining
This has to be the most heartwhelming comment that I’ve received , thank you 🤍
If problem comes ,it sharpenes you!
Get trained for everything
Hey sis , what u have told from first to last is so trueee… , because of friendship I started thinking everyone is fake out there but some people come to u and become so close and then they disappear, I have cried a lot for that person but there is no use 💔. And thank you for this video sis ❤️🩹.
The more you chase it keeps moving away from you, just live with an attitude 'This is me', if you are okay stay with me or else just keep moving❤️✨
You are one younger than but matured than me❤️❤️thank you for teaching me its okay to not have friends. I would say better to be alone than having a grp of people hurting us... don't feel snehu❤
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Yaah snegu....really a comfort video needed this very much....i thought i was the mistake and my friends made me think i m fake,i m the mistake....becoz of that i went to mental depression from 2024🙂....and this video made me feel better❤...like literally a comfort video dear....luv u lots ❤️
Im very happy sneha that you talked about this particular topic! Friendship breakups hurts whether you are 13 or 30 it depends on how you take it and mold ur future ..
A comfort video.... missing contents like these for a very long time ❤
drop down your suggestions, I’ll make sure to create more 🩷
@@sneholic talk about the exam stress among the students
@@sneholicout a study vlog brooo .... It'll really be helpfull💗
Sneha...you replied to my comment...lalala..I love you...i don't know if you will believe me ...but you really made my day ..your dialogue...nane orey happy happy ya iruken .... actually I am going through a phase where I want to be a social person ...talk with people grow more ..but thirumbura Edam ellam serupadi ..I am an extrovert..so how should handle this and not convince myself to become introvert or nambalukum yarum vendam pa...i don't want that mindset..enakum happy ya irukanum friends irukanum veliya suthanum ..how should I tackle this phase..
Hey Snegu, happy to listen to ur video,keep doing the unfiltered versions thanks for your words it's felt the same as what I faced through the 15 years ❤.
Friendship ah backstabbing ku oru Bridge ah use panradhu en life la nadanhdiruku 😁
Ipdi lam nadakkanum sneha , appk dhan namaku puriyum ellarum nallavanga illa nammaloda irukkavangale ipdi na munna pinna theriyadhsvanga epdi it is a must to experience bad friendships
literally the same Sneha sis .. I am a preteen who is a 13-year-old girl. who really has a light bit lower reputation among teachers because of one damn thing I just did and my friends who were 7 years with me just left me this year with I graduated to 9th grade. of sudden I really mentally suffered a lot of pain which was not easy to take. Every video was relatable when I opened RUclips and now ur content is also relatable from the first sentence. breakup vida broken friendship is bitter and sour to take .. thank you so much for this amazing content.
Glad you liked it 🫂
Awww thank you Snehu🥺i went through this situation 10:30😢4 years best friend recently we fight(she scold me😐) and block each other phone number now i like to talk to her but her ego is high she never respect me😢so i hope god will strong me to overcome this situation even yesterday i cried because of her past memories😓...friendship breakup is worst😭💔
Papa... Really Thank you so much for speaking about this.. it means so much to me.. Because I'm depressed for something for the last 2 weeks very badly... But today I got a clarity on myself... Even though I'd completed my graduate & currently studying LAW , I can't handle myself when I get broken by someone else
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Best ever content...it's rare to find a real gem 💯
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i have faced this so much, thank for talking about it ... but its sad to be alone and being surrounded by toxic people
Hey sis!! You know last week i have faced this problem while seeing your video it gives me good feel nd relax,now i know be yourself dont change yourself for anyone..lots of luv sis❤️❤️✨
I heard friendship is gift from god but i don't have it. From 5th standard onwards i wanted true frnds but now i am 11th my biggest wish is to have true frnds but i never had that now i have few frnds we are 4 but
now also i am left out alone i don't share my secrets often but i shared once to one of my friend with trust actually that time i don't know that will become their conversation between those three i started avoiding them it's my public exam time i really don't know what i have in my life average student and i have bad name in school without doing anything because of the shit even it was my exam time now also i am undergoing some problem because of some shit i have nobody to share my prob my parents are always busy i don't have frnds i am always alone but i don't like this loneliness wish i have someone to care for me to talk with me to be with me.
Loving a best friend more than anyone and getting into a friendship with one side effects, toxicity etc.. it was really hard for me...
This vdo is sm relatable !!!! Thank you for posting it Sneha !!... And I cn able too see so many ppl like me, in the comments section... without a good friendship. Don't worry guyz... This too shall pass and let's focus on our future rather than thinking abt not having any frndz... Just maintain a distance with ppl and don't take too much advantage... Avanga edhachu oru naal vittu thn poga poraanga...😒
Ungaloda speech keatadhuku apram na neraiya peara hurt panra madri nadanduteanonu thonudhu , ennaiya porutha people around me should be happy . Neenga sonna madri oru gangla new and old friends maintain panradhu very tough athunala oruthara satisfy panna oruthara hurt pannitaenonu thonudhu. As of now I finished my higher secondary and looking forward to start college life, as you said no one is permanent in life. It would be nice to talk to you i think . Love from your sister
My friend did this to me yes your wrong I can't control my tears pls don't do this it really hurt more 😭 don't do the same in future if u have time pls talk with them I know how it hurts 💔
I too faced this ka a friend who was always with me and literally who cried for me when i changed school and guided me to pursue my dream left me we too talked like before for some days but everything changed at some point the person avoided me a lot and didn't even gave importance to me like before i asked what is the problem and asked sorry without any reason i just need the friendship but the person told some reason which i didn't did even though i asked sorry i left my self respect because i need the friendship but at some point i cant do anything how long i can hold someone to stay with me and now the person avoided me totally but still i cant believe that the person who cried for me left me without any valuable reason...this happened 3 months ago..still now i cant get over it...i am tired of holding the friendship so i too stopped disturbing the person... After that i lost hope in friendship...i blamed myself...and i thought i was wrong but after seeing this video i understood many people going through the same.....
i could literally feel me talking all this frm ur position in this video! i’ve gone through the same shit and i’m doing my 3rd year of engineering and i’m the one sitting all alone gazing at other frnds gang. i’ve put my fullest effort being in the giving side and all i got to see was phases of fake frnds🙂👍 i had tears until the end of this video! keep goinh stronger🫂
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i could see myself from you sweet ! fights and misunderstandings in friendship is common . we can be friends with everyone but when we start to find that best friend vube in friends where the friendship started to get diminisshed . dont worry sweet. ! it will get better ! prioritise your family ❤
As i have no one to share my story, here it is ... Till 9th grade i basically had no idea about friendship, with my past experiences i got into an assumption that friendships are meant for short time period and then you find an other friend again. When i went into 10th grade due to the situation i had to go to hostel ( by that time period i had a best friend who was my child bestie and i thought she should be my first priority and she had the same idea) I got few close friends when i was in hostel i use to be home sick but they made me over come that feeling. They made me realise what friendship is about I was literally the happiest person on earth during that time... But for my 11 and 12th grade i had to change my school. It was all fine initially but i had no friends for the whole 11th grade at the same time i also realised the my friends for 10th grade also disappeared. I got few friends in 12th grade who also left with in few months... Now after 12th grade, the childhood bestie who I've mentioned before also turned toxic... She only focused on her needs and used me to fullfill those... When i need a help with something she use to say excuses.... Now im no longer talking to her too... IM ALONE🙂
This is soooooo freaking relatable to me!!!!!! And I have had this problem for my entire life 🙂😭
I to faced a lottttt 🙃 still now not getting over it🚶🏻♀️ thanks for the video snegu!🫂🥺🙃
Hi sneha
Ur thoughts is exactly match to me
I think that ur story is exactly copy of my life
Now my name sneha
Ad also I am going to start my own RUclips channel
I am 18 years
Tq to inspiring me❤❤❤
I went through the same things ..and I got bullied , rejected and pulled down every time
Being alone is best then having snakes near us if anyone is facing fake friends problem then cut that relationship immediately if it is toxic ..be kind to yourself and love yourslef ❤
Nanum friendship la neraya go through panniruken ka. I changed my likes and dislikes for them , but still they kept hurting me !! Na 12th holidays la iruken ka , we decided to meet only once in a month. Ippo yaara kuptalum pesa kuda maatranga. And my friend told that she will be there when we want to gather again but her boyfriend will be there we don't know it's her date or we are the shit who came with the old expectations. She just wanted to spend time with her boyfriend and we are used !! Now we calls her and she says her mom won't allow her. Ava aal ku wrk vara matta nu sollitan ka athuku enga kuda vara mattalama :)
Hi ! In this fast phase of life people realise hardships in very early phase of life..... And thats how 21st century meant to be !
APJ once said "Enjoy the moments you made and dont expect it to sustain life long.....Those moments at that time is precious "
One of my fav thought ful video... thank you for that 💓✨💝 remember u r ur best friend....💛keep going
Namma avugala entha level la vachurukom drathu irukatu but avuga life laa nama entha place la irukom nu therium la if we're not in their lifepart sure we have to leave we can't hold them right ?!...&(We say this is wrong generation yes that's right but we are born in wrong generation 🙃...with truth pure bond and cares💔...no onecares about us like as mother Just love yourself 💖 and keep move on with smile .......
Yess.............❤
I also went through this trauma and now also being continued in my environment space same 🗯️🧐 thoughts i have 😮 u told as a video 😊 i like ur way of opening up 🥰 same age same situation 🤧 but i think i have a ✨💫✨💫good soul in heart...♥️💝
I want to say something ...ungaluku eppidy patta frds kadachalu seri avanga kitta anba irruka aana eppo vu ma unga ethirparpa avanga mela vaikathiga...sometime namma ku thonu ennoda frd enta ippidy irrukanu appidy irrukanu athella venda ...one advice neega ellaru kitta um jolly ya peasuga ellarukum ungala pudikanumnu nenaikathiga ellaru kitta um knjm limit ta pazhakunga ....mathavanga kitta anba ethir parkama unga anba kudunga...unga own company ya enjoy panuga...ellama anupavam ta
Hey Sneha..❤
U just Heal me a lot Gurl..😊
Thank you for the video💞
And Do more videos
anbu orndrudhan anadhaiiii❤🩹🥀
This video came at the right time! Lots of love Sneha for coming up with such a good content ❤
So glad!🤍
So glad 🤍
Vruhh literally 🥺👀....after school days it hits too hard ....and I had the same thing...spoils everything... wasted a big period of time
Yaa correct, now iam studying college i did not get any friendship in my schools days but unexpectedly i meet my friend in college and he is very jolly type and i also very close to them but after some days me and my friend fight each other by words.but i do no whether the mistake is made by me or my friend. After a fight we cant talk each other .but later that i realize that i miss my friend .i cannot forgot my friend 😪. Each and every day ,night ,second the memories spend with my friend are coming to my mind .feb 15 is last day of speaking with my friend. When i enter into my classroom whenever i see my friend face i was very depressed whether i made the mistake.i was in very big confusion and depression i can not sleep well because friend memories distrub me. He also not come and talk with me but i notice that he also miss me .we are in reluctance situation to talk each other. But i fear that whether i miss my friend in my life.i cant share this issue to anyone because of no onefor me.now what can i do now and your speech is very inspiration to me
This healed me,😇❤🩹 personally they never say it to us or they never say why they don't like us....All of the the sudden they ghost us for no reason and never validate us but it consumes more time to understand what it is...But in ur case its really hard no way to express it...(Akka personally indha friends ah paathu 👀nambha demotivate aaguroom la avunga koooda iruka num ma nambha nambhala mathi kanum nu solli nambha family ku set aagatha sila things ahhh sengi.....athu friends mathila la oru change umm kodukala😶🌫 but family la problems varum intha topic patthi solluga)IN SIMPLE ADUTHAVA NU KAGA NAMBHA ILLA APDINU INNUM SILA OPINIONS SHARE PANNU GA🙂