Cultural Barriers to Marriage: Khutbah Reminder Series - Nouman Ali Khan
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- Опубликовано: 21 сен 2022
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It’s so true and sad, some of the most so-called “religious” people refuse to give a mahr, especially in the indo-pak community 😢 they want to shame you for asking even a reasonable amount but at the same time, still force you into a big wedding and invite their whole neighbourhood. I asked for 5k mahr and was refused, after I felt bad I changed it to $1500 but still was given nothing. But I had over 250-300 at my wedding (not of my choice). I still got married because although my husband didn’t take mahr seriously I thought he was a “good person” but if I ever have a daughter or friend asking advice, I would tell them immediately refuse a man not dedicated enough to pay you mahr because I really resent my husband over this reason!!
he is not exempt from giving marriage. its a law in the sharia that a man should give marriage even if it's just a penny.
Are you in USA or in Pakistan? If you want Maher enforced in West you must have a lawyer help you write it in a prenup to be able to get it in court.
The fancy wedding is unnecessary - better to put the money toward a down payment for a house or furnishing an apartment.
Maybe have an installment plan over a year or 6 months instead of lumpsum. That may make it easier for him. So $1k for 5 months. Better work it out internally instead of court. That would literally open up the pandora's box LoL
Where r u from
Oh ustadh! I just love this khutba. Amazing talk, may Allah make us all to understand these kind of issues in our life. So most of the problems get start to finish.
Exactly!
JazakAllah khairun Kaseera
JazakAllah brother
Cultural traditions is the reason why the youth want to stay unmarried but are willing to have haram relationships
No in-laws interferes, no responsibilities to look after the spouse. No peer pressure to have children or emotional blackmail to follow cultural traditions!
It’s upsetting to see the ummah going on this path
Children have become bank accounts for the parents Slaves or maids or Uber for them so the parents allow sinful behaviour
As long as the parents get to benefit
Please do this lecture in urdu as well. It's a much needed lecture for Pakistani parents.
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lots of love ya ustad💞💞
Thank you
Assalamu Alaikum wa Rah Matullahi wa Barakatuh. 🤍🤍 Jazakallah Khairan Kasiran. Pray for everyone. Establish 5 times prayer, recite Tahajjud, read Quran. 🤍
Implementation ☺
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The only way for daughters to marry is if they go find a Muslim husband and asap nikkah and move far away
The elders are stubborn and will curse or force cousin marriages
The elders never learn no matter how many Islamic knowledge is told to them
Mahr should be, in common usage, about 2-3 months of salary since if a woman gets divorced, she is not allowed to get married again for that amount of time, but needs to come up for her expenses anyway.
this is not true. I know you think this way because it is taught in Turkey but it's wrong. A man needs to provide for his wife in case of divorce 3-4 months after independtly of mahr. Mahr is a gift that the man has to give after nikah, it has nothing to do with divorce. Hz. Ali sold his shield and gave the money to Fatimah. Not because they got divorced but it is a gift
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Alsalam alaykum Dr. I got a member of bayyinah TV and I see that you guys have no discussion about tattoos. I need help with this subject because I really need to get a tattoo please help. Thank you
Tatto is Haram لعن الله الواشمة و المستوشمة
Assalomu alaykum, brother I do not understand how one may really need to get a tattoo and I thought person who has even little knowledge of Islam knows it is not allowed.
What if the guy she wants to marry is not good and parents can judge this because of their expreience..than what ,should they let her fall into a pit...
They can deny. She can try to understand why. But... if she really wants to go ahead and thinks this person is the best for her and she is adamant on it, it's her mistake she'll have to learn from the hard way. All the parents can do is guide her. But if the person is dangerous for her and she is blind to it. Me personally, as a father I wouldn't let it go ahead.
What are your thoughts?
The parents should discuss their wisdom with their daughter. I'm sure if they have raised their daughter right, they can have an honest talk, no ego, and the daughter will also take her parents wisdom into consideration. But, still, the decision is in the daughter's hand.
@@hannanatalisa3282 thats it
@@hannanatalisa3282 it aaall depends on the way the child is raised. If raised well, with understanding between parents and child, there would be no issues
he talks about the same exact thing in the full khutbah
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I don't like the wording "A new World"
it means new style of world
Should be “New World DISORDER!” 🤭
@@fauziasiraj9013 you mean Globalisation or a “Global Village?” It’s going to crash one day...
@@fauziasiraj9013 it means more than this. You better do the research about New World Order. It has nothing to do with Islam. Thats why we must avoid using such phrases.
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The people in India are going berserk with their attitude towards marriage.
Its so easy to have zina but you can't have nikah before 30.
If you call yourself Muslim and can't get your kid married before 25, it's a shame