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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • Big brother comes home after a summer of non-stop camp. Abbie will love to get to spend more time with him.
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Комментарии • 168

  • @angicatron8512
    @angicatron8512 Месяц назад +9

    I just don’t know what it is about Abbie closing out the video, but it just warms my heart ❤️

  • @ahubbard5172
    @ahubbard5172 Месяц назад +28

    She was picking out a drink for dad, she was ready to check out with her go to orange juice and cookie like she always get. Mom said ok let’s get dad something so she thought she was getting a drink for dad. You can tell she was confused because she did for the second time say she wanted the orange juice.

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Месяц назад +4

      Priscilla already had my drink when Abbie picked the Dr P. She certainly wasn’t picking a drink out for me. She’s never done anything like that.

    • @Tiggercampbell
      @Tiggercampbell Месяц назад

      ​😮

  • @Lalunabreeze
    @Lalunabreeze Месяц назад +4

    Abby’s a doll. She’s really smart. Knows what shoe goes on which foot.

  • @andreacarlile-thompson2511
    @andreacarlile-thompson2511 Месяц назад +18

    💯 agree that even kids with special needs, should be encouraged to help with chores as it teaches independence. If something ever happens to the parents, nobody else is going to molicoddle them.

    • @aliciabellante6643
      @aliciabellante6643 Месяц назад

      @@andreacarlile-thompson2511 they will have someone to help them. I have a cousin in a home with other disabled people and she’s very independent but there’s always someone there to help.

  • @laurawilliams5363
    @laurawilliams5363 Месяц назад +25

    Your daughter has come such a long way with her independence! I have been watching you all for close to 2 yrs now, I think, and she is really able to do so many things!

    • @Crystalsgarden
      @Crystalsgarden Месяц назад +5

      Agreed. I've been watching since Abby was 12. And she really has come a long way.

  • @lisatracy2914
    @lisatracy2914 Месяц назад +33

    I’m in my mid 50’s and have a Learning Disability. I was accepted in the Vocational Program

    • @evilangel030
      @evilangel030 Месяц назад

      @@lisatracy2914 i have learning disability what vocational program is this

  • @dianaberard6108
    @dianaberard6108 Месяц назад +4

    I love Isaiah’s relationship with Abby. They are so cute.

  • @tracyweekley5577
    @tracyweekley5577 Месяц назад +13

    My friend's tortie is such a Daddy's girl. As soon as they get home whenever I babysit for them, the kitty is following her husband and loudly meowing like he's never paid attention to her! 😂

    • @tracyfinch918
      @tracyfinch918 Месяц назад +3

      Too cute and hilarious 😂❤

  • @arlenelazio315
    @arlenelazio315 Месяц назад +23

    I thought Abby was choosing the Dr. pepper for her dad. Pricilla was saying let’s get dad something and she went for the soda.

    • @marymcguire1644
      @marymcguire1644 Месяц назад +10

      I thought the same thing.

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Месяц назад +5

      Priscilla already had my drink in her hand when Abbie got the Dr Pepper. She was picking for herself.

    • @RealKevGotEm
      @RealKevGotEm Месяц назад

      I thought it was for Cilla. Tbh

  • @almasexton6644
    @almasexton6644 Месяц назад +7

    LOL BE OPTIMISTIC!SHES BEING POLITE !SHE JUST LEAVING ROOM FOR MORE PEOPLE TO SIT !,,what a sweetheart ,grandma Alma in Fla💚💗🧡🧡♥️♥️❤️💜

  • @TonJohnson
    @TonJohnson Месяц назад +7

    Abbie ,gets so excited to when she see's her brother Isiah.

    • @kierstencarl6522
      @kierstencarl6522 Месяц назад +1

      Isaiah * there ur help not Iziel

    • @TonJohnson
      @TonJohnson Месяц назад +1

      @@kierstencarl6522 thanks for correcting me on Isiah , his name is kinda hard to spell.

  • @tammythomas461
    @tammythomas461 Месяц назад +1

    Wow! Amazing how well she listens and follows directions. I know we on see a snippet but still exciting to see her listen and interact more!

  • @cassiewilliams333
    @cassiewilliams333 15 дней назад

    Soooo i started watching your channel like 5 years or so ago . Love your family and how you give a look into your lives . I had a son in 2021 and he was juat recently diagnosed autistic in july. Watching your videos acrually helped me so much without me even realizing it until i just saw your videos pop up again. So thanks. Im a single mom and i so wish i had the support from a partner like you two have eachother.

  • @ElizabethHernandez-hw6zu
    @ElizabethHernandez-hw6zu Месяц назад +18

    I love when she goes for the Mt Dew. I think she likes the color

  • @Riescha
    @Riescha Месяц назад +12

    Positive reenforcement for not running into people. It works amazingly. Encourage the behavior you want to see. It's never too late to start. I have your exact child, my 14 year old son.

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Месяц назад +6

      The problem with reinforcing something that isn’t a behavior is there’s no precursor for her to understand what she’s being rewarded for. A negative or positive punishment for running into people would be more effective because an action occurred prior to the punishment. She wouldn’t understand for a very long time using either positive or negative reinforcement. That’s a tough one for sure.

    • @Riescha
      @Riescha Месяц назад +2

      Okay. I understand. ​@@fatheringautism

  • @ElizabethHernandez-hw6zu
    @ElizabethHernandez-hw6zu Месяц назад +4

    AWWW Nala!! So sweet

  • @Angelahooward2
    @Angelahooward2 Месяц назад +10

    I think Abby was coufued about the chose between the drinks or she was thinking that asa needed one

  • @thesimplelife963
    @thesimplelife963 Месяц назад +6

    She wanted the orange juice for herself and the diet dp for her dad.

  • @michellechappon4796
    @michellechappon4796 Месяц назад +6

    Teaching our special kids “body awareness” is nearly impossible (I feel). Again, it’s trying to teach things that we actually learn from our environment. So so difficult! ❤

  • @DenaeTew
    @DenaeTew Месяц назад

    I freaking live your family!!! My 10 year old song is high functioning autistic and because of you, i have learned so much. You all, Asa, Isaiah ans Priscilla ar gems. Thank you!
    ❤❤

  • @JeanineSpano
    @JeanineSpano Месяц назад +7

    You guys do such an amazing job responding to people who aren't kind, or who think they know more about your autistic child. I would lose my mind, in fact, it takes everything I have not to respond to the unkind comments. As those of us with autistic kids know: if you've met one autistic kid.... You've met.... One autistic kid. Love watching your family, love seeing Abbie growing.
    ♥️

  • @kathyfowler7511
    @kathyfowler7511 Месяц назад +7

    One thing you can do is have one of you sit on the couch with her.She will learn in time

  • @DenaeTew
    @DenaeTew Месяц назад

    Also, Priscilla... Your style..... you're beautiful!!

  • @scarlettsrooom1594
    @scarlettsrooom1594 Месяц назад

    Abbie has grown so much since the 1st video I watched.

  • @DenaeTew
    @DenaeTew Месяц назад

    Asa, the support and love youve givwn tou wife and children are amazing. Not many women ans children have that.

  • @roshondabowens9809
    @roshondabowens9809 Месяц назад +2

    Hi abbie and family,abbie is doing amazing job helping,hope y'all are having a wonderful saturday and sta safe out there❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗

  • @christineballart2334
    @christineballart2334 Месяц назад +7

    Even neurotypical people don’t understand personal space! I use a wheelchair and constantly get bumped into by people who are neurotypical that just don’t care. I wonder if Abbie thought to get the Dr. Pepper for Asa

  • @AngelaOsborn-r3e
    @AngelaOsborn-r3e Месяц назад +7

    It may be spatial awareness. You have to show her.

  • @meganjackson4640
    @meganjackson4640 Месяц назад +1

    And your amazing parents ❤

  • @mistykeister5979
    @mistykeister5979 Месяц назад +4

    When you was at the.coolers..after abbi got her drink u said we have to get dad's drink then she went to get the dr.pepper..I think she was telling you to get dad's drink..

  • @kellyheath7497
    @kellyheath7497 Месяц назад +6

    Lol cilla she gets soda with dad lol

  • @psalmchica
    @psalmchica Месяц назад +13

    Let Abbie choose her own drink. If she is thirsty and wants a healthy drink and anyone healthy drink let her have it! Have her have one for now and one for later

    • @donnamckinley9807
      @donnamckinley9807 Месяц назад +4

      I feel rules are important. Especially with autistic children.

    • @jeanat327
      @jeanat327 Месяц назад +4

      Are you a parent? Have you raised a kid? Rules and structures are life for them. Studies have found that kids thrive in that environment versus one with no structures and rules. Guess what...I don't let my kids have everything they want and I tell them no all the time regarding the choices of drinks. If it were up to them their diet would consist of soda and candy all the time , that's why we say no or provide other options. It's called being a parent.

    • @pattih7
      @pattih7 Месяц назад +2

      @@jeanat327agree; not constant pressure, but structure is important. Otherwise, they would flounder!

    • @RuthMcDougal
      @RuthMcDougal Месяц назад

      She did let Abbie choose her own drink. The only parameter was that she had to choose one not two drinks. I thought that part was great in the video. Also Abbie putting back the drink was respectful and helpful in reinforcing she wasn’t getting both only one. Mom didn’t hide the second drink or put it back for her.

  • @hadleyandrew3146
    @hadleyandrew3146 Месяц назад +1

    This is so cute

  • @didigeolou
    @didigeolou Месяц назад +6

    Maybe abie doesn't it her food because she isn't hangry at that time you have lunch not because she doesn't like her mom's food.❤

  • @amyrobles4780
    @amyrobles4780 Месяц назад +3

    I was thinking the entire time oh my goodness she's gonna open that soda and its gonna explode now. 😂 Asa says no way my truck is clean and snatched the snacks. He didnt relaize he was sa ving his interior at the moment 😂 also she picked mt dew with asa the other day!

  • @MadddyDawn
    @MadddyDawn Месяц назад +3

    I was going to say ask her teachers if this is an issue when she is with them? I’ve found my brother pushes issues with us that he doesn’t do at his day program and vice versa. Basically he was playing us and we all needed to get on the same page with what he really knew and understood and what he didn’t. All of us watching his interactions together was very eye opening. Lol he played us but now we know.

  • @heidimarie1198
    @heidimarie1198 Месяц назад +3

    Every time you go to Dailies / Daileys ? I see Dorito's BBQ And Lays *Walkers in the UK* BBQ. We had them for a limited time - - but they are the best !!!

  • @franny5295
    @franny5295 Месяц назад +3

    You know what? Y'all know those bubble things that people can get in that are designed so you can bounce off each other? That may help her start to imagine that boundary.

    • @escott696
      @escott696 Месяц назад

      Zorbing I imagine with her sensory issues she'd absolutely hate it

  • @sarahstorr
    @sarahstorr Месяц назад

    Love diet Dr Pepper too Abbie 😍

  • @DGAF42069
    @DGAF42069 Месяц назад +1

    💜❤️ Love Pricilla’s hair

  • @EmilyNelson-n7d
    @EmilyNelson-n7d Месяц назад +3

    Haven’t seen ya’ll in awhile! You mentioned vocational school, has that been helping Abbie? Seeing the struggle putting back the OJ 😢😢😢. Fingers crossed it helps and she enjoys it!

  • @marthainsalaco9266
    @marthainsalaco9266 Месяц назад +3

    Abby came such a long way in her learning skills❤ Love your parenting style,giving so much love,Patience helping her navigate through life ❤

  • @jillwalls9330
    @jillwalls9330 Месяц назад +6

    I wouldn’t take it personal Priscilla Abbie’s a teenager and teenagers are notoriously difficult. 😂😂

  • @psalmchica
    @psalmchica Месяц назад +2

    Let Abbie choose her own drink. If she is thirsty and wants a healthy drink and anyone healthy drink let her have it! Have her have one for now and one for later she has picked Soda with Asa at target

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Месяц назад +2

      She did pick her own drink.

    • @Cheyenne-vi6fi
      @Cheyenne-vi6fi Месяц назад +1

      She did pick, she also wanted both of the drinks. Who has never went to a store and only wanted 1 drink.

    • @psalmchica
      @psalmchica Месяц назад

      @@fatheringautism yes, as I watched, she did. But someone can have TWO drinks!

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Месяц назад +2

      @@psalmchica​​⁠Yep, someone can have two drinks. You can have two drinks as a matter of fact…because Jm not your dad. In this case she was getting one 👍🏼

    • @sarahcampassi
      @sarahcampassi Месяц назад +1

      @@fatheringautismyeah but you literally said in the video “let’s go get a drink for dad” and then she got the soda. She seemed like she wanted to juice and you told her to put it back

  • @misslannie73
    @misslannie73 Месяц назад

    I didn’t even know you had a cat! Thank goodness Isaiah is home 😂. Priscilla, you food always looks delicious. Charlotte xx🇬🇧

  • @marikotheisen4385
    @marikotheisen4385 Месяц назад +1

    My best friend her daughter is 22 now with severe almost non verbal autism. She does not understand personal space either. She has a thing about when someone is wearing a hoodie she has OCD that the zipper needs to be all the way up. So she will zip up people's clothes exactly how she feels is necessary regardless if she knows them or not. Some people are cool and some people not so much.

  • @melodytallmage532
    @melodytallmage532 Месяц назад +4

    Mom it's called pit it back match it up I care about y'all

  • @meganjackson4640
    @meganjackson4640 Месяц назад

    She amazing ❤

  • @Mohamedrashid10
    @Mohamedrashid10 Месяц назад +2

    Love how she hugged him

  • @janaepages4358
    @janaepages4358 Месяц назад +1

    Cilla you looked hlHOT today!! Love the look ❤

  • @JaniceTaylor-it3ed
    @JaniceTaylor-it3ed Месяц назад +2

    I ❤your hair

  • @pippapower1386
    @pippapower1386 Месяц назад +2

    Hi Abbie love video cookie and drink at daily’s love from England Uk

  • @evilangel030
    @evilangel030 Месяц назад +1

    She wants two drinks lol

  • @janetstevens5990
    @janetstevens5990 Месяц назад +1

    Now I'm craving some homemade Alfredo sauce..

  • @samanthaowens65
    @samanthaowens65 Месяц назад +5

    Was she getting Dad a Diet DP maybe?

  • @susanharris1285
    @susanharris1285 Месяц назад +7

    She wanted the oj but I feel you confused her

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Месяц назад +1

      I don't think so, she chose the Dr Pepper over the two. The fact is, she wanted both. She doesn't get confused over choosing between two things she wants, she does it all the time.

    • @Cheyenne-vi6fi
      @Cheyenne-vi6fi Месяц назад

      She wanted the Dr. Pepper.

    • @kierstencarl6522
      @kierstencarl6522 Месяц назад +2

      @@fatheringautismshe needs to learn just to get one and not always think getting both (2). Not being rude are anything,

  • @1981namo
    @1981namo Месяц назад +4

    Was she picking out a drink for dad??

  • @latuschaslivinglife
    @latuschaslivinglife Месяц назад

    I love the diet Dr Pepper too Abbie 😍

  • @marciabbey
    @marciabbey Месяц назад +3

    i cant explain how amazing parents you are

  • @jademccardle9074
    @jademccardle9074 Месяц назад +2

    I love this family ❤❤❤❤

  • @ElizabethHernandez-hw6zu
    @ElizabethHernandez-hw6zu Месяц назад +4

    Loving the hair Precilla

  • @Tiggercampbell
    @Tiggercampbell Месяц назад

    Priscilla i love your hair !

  • @guffygox6818
    @guffygox6818 Месяц назад +2

    Asa you sound congested. You've been sounding winded lately when you walk around the house. Also maybe show the unedited Dailys clip cos it's causing confusion with the viewers on the oj and dp saga 😅

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Месяц назад

      Not winded or congested…maybe perceptions isn’t matching reality just like with the few people that were bent out of shape over the drink selection?

  • @Carolhealthfan28823
    @Carolhealthfan28823 Месяц назад +3

    Evening

  • @skylarhammons
    @skylarhammons Месяц назад

    Well, sometimes you just need a Dr. Pepper instead of orange juice.

  • @Cheyenne-vi6fi
    @Cheyenne-vi6fi Месяц назад +1

    She did the last time with her dad, it was a sugar free Dr. Pepper. 😊

  • @THAFUZZ89366
    @THAFUZZ89366 Месяц назад +1

    Hi my daughters name is Abigail it would be cool to meet you guys

  • @TykeshaPerkins-jp1xe
    @TykeshaPerkins-jp1xe Месяц назад

    I like your show

  • @wandasmith1723
    @wandasmith1723 Месяц назад

    I would take 2 drinks

  • @JaiJai988
    @JaiJai988 Месяц назад +3

    Have you tried the bubble concept

    • @andreacarlile-thompson2511
      @andreacarlile-thompson2511 Месяц назад +1

      What is that?

    • @JaiJai988
      @JaiJai988 Месяц назад

      @@andreacarlile-thompson2511 everyone has their own “bubble” and that is their personal space

  • @meerachakkera9968
    @meerachakkera9968 Месяц назад +1

    hi family

  • @JaniceTaylor-it3ed
    @JaniceTaylor-it3ed Месяц назад +2

    I ❤abby

  • @shellydaybutch2230
    @shellydaybutch2230 Месяц назад +1

    She picked die5 dr.pepper last week or the week before with dad….lol

  • @hamiperry5188
    @hamiperry5188 Месяц назад

    Hey girl!❤🎉

  • @imranashrafnaseem3379
    @imranashrafnaseem3379 Месяц назад

    I wish she will recover my brother is also like that

  • @wandasmith1723
    @wandasmith1723 Месяц назад

    I don't have autism but I eat in my vehicle

  • @bethzimmerman3760
    @bethzimmerman3760 Месяц назад +1

    Just curious...does Priscilla add cream cheese to her Alfredo sauce? I like to whisk in about half of an 8-ounce block of cream cheese when I make homemade Alfredo sauce. It takes it up a notch. If she hasn't tried it, I would suggest she give it a try. So yummy

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Месяц назад +3

      Yes she does! I agree, I think it's the key ingredient

    • @bethzimmerman3760
      @bethzimmerman3760 Месяц назад

      @@fatheringautism Yes, most definitely.

  • @nicoletteteame509
    @nicoletteteame509 Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful family Abigail beautiful girl

  • @Lalunabreeze
    @Lalunabreeze Месяц назад

    But w/o a prompt she swings the door closed.

  • @janicemichaloski5292
    @janicemichaloski5292 Месяц назад +2

    Priscilla your hair looks so pretty wavylike that and i love that dress 😊

  • @Gianna-lb7qe
    @Gianna-lb7qe Месяц назад

    You two are excellent parents

  • @Nyaromita
    @Nyaromita Месяц назад

    You are amazing parents and may other parents follow your example 🍓🍓🍓🍓🍓🍓🍓🍓

  • @GiorgiaStarace
    @GiorgiaStarace Месяц назад

    🎉🎉🎉

  • @stormmaster6608
    @stormmaster6608 Месяц назад +1

    Buy the way how dos Abby like the new truck? I ask this before but got no response

  • @Nyaromita
    @Nyaromita Месяц назад

    Like done ✅✅

  • @marayaadams
    @marayaadams Месяц назад +1

    Hello

  • @amyrobles4780
    @amyrobles4780 Месяц назад +1

    I've got new neighbors and i believe they have an adult family member with autism. I was looking out my window and noticed a man looking into cars and staring into the backyards of their and neighbors yards. After watching his behaviors for a while i noticed some things like stimming and the lack of interest in communicating with others. (I went outside and siad hello and asked if i can help him) he went into the backyard so not assuming just observing) anyways is there a polite way to introduce myself to the family and bring it up in conversation. I'd like to let them know im autism friendly but dont want to come off as hey i noticed you got some autism going on here. I see them in passing whenever they comw home or are leaving so any suggestions would help. ❤

    • @rain-wanders
      @rain-wanders Месяц назад

      From someone with a disability (not autism,) it's usually awesome to just not bring up someone's disability. Just introduce yourself, be friendly with the parent, when you meet their son, be friendly with him. You don't even have to bring up autism or any terms, just treat him with the same kindness you'd show to anyone else. People always think that they need to bring up someone else's disability immediately or point to themselves being "cool" with it. Being truly cool with it is honestly just acting like said person with a disability is just who they are - not someone with a disability. Maybe it's just me and my exhaustion of people feeling like we need to talk about my disability when we first meet. I love someone who doesn't bring it up at all.

    • @amyrobles4780
      @amyrobles4780 Месяц назад

      @rain-wanders thank you for that perspective. I too am disabled but I have disabilities that you can't see. I'm what some call recluse or antisocial because I don't socialize with people. So that's why I'm asking for advice because I wouldn't have thought at that pint of view. Thank you. I appreciate your advice so much.

    • @rain-wanders
      @rain-wanders Месяц назад +1

      @@amyrobles4780 You're welcome. I hope you do make friends with the family! I have a very visible disability, so I deal with the exhaustion of it always being the favorite thing for people to bring up when we first meet. LOL It seriously makes my week when I can meet someone new and they DON'T mention it.

  • @THAFUZZ89366
    @THAFUZZ89366 Месяц назад

    What’s the app for speech you guys have

  • @nancycadriel1088
    @nancycadriel1088 Месяц назад +1

    Pricella is soo beautiful

  • @shannacraft4099
    @shannacraft4099 Месяц назад +1

    🌸 💙💙💙🙂🙂🙂

  • @mariacolon901
    @mariacolon901 Месяц назад

    Hello beautiful Maass family ❤️ 😘

  • @pinky-xt1mc
    @pinky-xt1mc Месяц назад

    💜🙏👋

  • @AnthonySmith-bj9mo
    @AnthonySmith-bj9mo Месяц назад +1

    hi Asa

  • @warriormamma8098
    @warriormamma8098 Месяц назад

    Personal space is tricky. My ASD niece used to grab and squish & pat strangers bottoms in public. She has a gifted IQ. Also she has OCD so if she accidentally bumps someone she has to back up and doing again on purpose to be an even number. Our 4 th daughter is AuDHD like me and we bump into walls, into each other. Poor proprioception? Or some such. My daughter will be so focused on avoiding on person She then has to dodge another she wasn’t focused on. I often start walking without thinking and seem like I am rudely crossing in people’s way. Life IS hard if you are ND!

  • @pinky-xt1mc
    @pinky-xt1mc Месяц назад

    💜👋

  • @laura-mariaburnside9068
    @laura-mariaburnside9068 Месяц назад +1

    Priscilla looks more glamorous with curly hair she should have it curly more often

  • @jmy976
    @jmy976 Месяц назад +2

    is there a reason why she's always looking down? just worried bout her posture.

  • @ahubbard5172
    @ahubbard5172 Месяц назад

    #OJgate 🍊

  • @rozjones4097
    @rozjones4097 Месяц назад +13

    Hi from 1stie

  • @tweedybird21
    @tweedybird21 Месяц назад +1

    One thing I gotta say is be thankful you live in the United States and not in Australia because I just noticed Abby doesn’t wear her seatbelt on her shoulder and if you’re in Australia, you have to wear your seatbelt on your shoulder if you don’t it’s a $400 fine and three points off your license

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Месяц назад +1

      A $400 fine for not wearing a shoulder belt in the back seat? That’s wild!

    • @tweedybird21
      @tweedybird21 Месяц назад

      The wool in Australia is if anybody in the car has seatbelt slightly off the shoulder or obviously more off you will get a ticket and it falls on the driver. It’s insane.