Asking My Husband **JUICY** Questions Girls Are Too Afraid to Ask
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
- In this video, we ask my husband juicy questions most girls are too afraid to ask. We cover the following:
Is it wrong for a girl to pursue a guy? Any first kiss tips? Do guys really judge girls based on their height? What's the most attractive thing a girl could wear? Is it okay for your wife to have guy friends? Do guys want girls to give distance or be clingy? Does body hair "down there" matter? Do boys like when girls pay for themselves? Do guys care about girls' hairy legs and body hair? What's the first thing you notice in a girl? How do you get a guy to like you? Is it normal for guys to tell each other they look hot? Any tips on how to be less shy in a relationship? What is some practical dating advice? What thoughts go through your head when your wife is on her period? Do you like it when girls wear makeup or no makeup? Why do some guys believe you should lose your virginity before marriage?
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@matt_and_abby
This guy seems very gentle with his girl. He really loves her.
That's his wife🙂
@you're big mad broke boy 🤣
Beta male
@@franksmith6897 no, some have to learn this 🤣
I like your comment
So let's be honest... We didn't search for it!
I did! They are my favorite couple channel❤️
We didn't.
I did!!!!
I didn't it just showed up in recommendations so convenient cuz these are important questions
Nope lol
I'm married and I enjoy the pure, honest answers. This video has none of the fake crap, and all of the commitment and love.
No you can have pure happiness without being miserable
This video was just Matt complimenting Abby 😂 so cute ❤️
Aww you’re not wrong lol
haha!!!!!!! yessss
There food is making my stomach grumble 🤤
I love this couple😍
Such a lovely couple 🤗,just found your channel and you've gained yourselves a subscriber.
I loved how Abby tried to ask Matt a generic or “ the guys” opinion on all questions but Matt only landed up praising Abby and I think that’s super cute - that’s literally the charming part of your relationship since you guys have only been with one another! I loved that!
Aww thanks! I couldn’t help but compliment her 😊
He is a simp
I love that people are beginning to open up about the female body! I have mostly guy friends, and I let them know what’s what. I’m hurting, and apologize in advance if I’m abnormally crabby. I don’t try to over exaggerate the symptoms but inform them that it’s different for everyone. I’ve pushed my boys to get trash cans in their bathrooms just in case they have a girl over and she needs to swap her feminine hygiene products. Also, I’ve shared with them what things to keep on hand for cramps, as well as to notice if a girl takes her bag with her to the bathroom. They are aware so they can sympathize and not make the period any worse for the girls they care for.
We totally agree. The female body shouldn’t be something that’s kept hush hush. Men need to be able to know what’s going on and sympathize.
@Zoe Lipman ur profile pic 🥺
Hello there
Hello Harriessss
So nice. But I can't trust my any guy friend in such a way. 😥😥
How you could trust??
I just found out that not everybody has trash cans in their toilets. Then what do they do with TP, flush it?? That's gonna cause a messy blockage.
We need more men like Matt.....tbh sometimes I feel like I won’t ever find the right person
Don’t be negative. It will come around soon enough. Hang in there
@@sugardaddy9992001 blessings man needed that
@@matthewvaneverdingen5135 for sure brotha. It's in God's hands. We all need to be patient and enjoy the time we have with each other. If the good Lord wants you in a relationship or partnership your heart WILL know and he will make it known.
@@sugardaddy9992001 blessings bro
@@sugardaddy9992001 agreed ✨
I seriously take notes when Matt starts complimenting Abby and when you guys tell us about your relationship. I want what you guys have one day!
❤️
how can we find an abby
I love the way Matt and Abby are together. I think we all want to find someone to connect with like that.
You're so sweet!
“I was a weird kid babe” 😂
😂
@ Twins? Then how are you so hot now
That was funny
@@toonfandom1485bro she’s like 9
He is only talking about abby and he is totally smitten. I just want things work out the same way for mee.
It should go both ways ri8 balance ? Just saying
Be like him to get one like her
@@abhi1953 I thought they were talking about how they’re asking pretty general questions and then he always brings it back to her and complimenting her lol
The one thing I don’t agree with is that there’s an issue with best friends. This stems down to severe jealously and abandonment issues.
I personally don’t believe in ditching my best friend or guy friends especially when they’ve been there for me when no one else was. Probably also why I just don’t date. I don’t believe in chaining a partner up it’s obsessive and unhealthy.
This was genuinely so refreshing to watch. Such a genuine and honest video. Nothing fake going on. Just two people who love each other and are open with each other. You two are such an adorable and beautiful couple
The two cutest people in the world found each other and fell in love making the cutest couple ever!
You’re too kind! Thank you for the support!
Nice joke 😂
@@itchycam8820 🤣
The perfect couple doesn't exi-....
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Oh there is no perfect couple lmao but they are CUTE AF. 💯
This couple makes me feel like I’m watching a super romantic movie that gets me all googly oogly inside. Love it and them. To see real love come out of screen like this is beautiful.
100♡
❤️❤️❤️😍
Sorry it’s so late but…this is super romantic same as a few of their other videos that are even more like their video reacting to their future message to their future selves, when they reacted to their wedding video, and their wedding video, etc.
13:03 when she bit him and he still called her “sweet and pretty” my heart 🥺💕
yes, 'sweet pretty woman' 🥺🥺❤️
This couple is so cute and not awkward like most couples on youtube.
Omg this is hilarious and romantic cause he’s been complianting her the whole video😂
Aww thank you ❤️
“I was a weird kid babe” I love that.
oh my gosh i’ve never heard of that saying of “guys like what they see, so girls wear makeup and girls like what they hear so guys tell lies.” and that’s terrible but i’ve never heard of anything so true in my life...
Sweet couple in love
It’s a sad thing for me to hear. I find that’s true for people who aren’t emotionally healthy. Looking back, I remember saying things that I thought I meant at the time, but didn’t follow through on because I was so focused on myself and my depression that I didn’t properly consider the girl or woman I was with. They weren’t technically lies, but they might as well have been because they had the same effect. I’ve finally started to work on myself, but still.
@@Papercut337 But what is truly commendable is your willingness to reflect on your former self to see how you could have been a better person. That is a trait often missing from people, hindering the ability for truth growth. Hats off to you! 😀
If you are in a job interview, you say what the employer wants to hear…but once you get the job you have to prove it wasn’t a lie thru job performance….same with a relationship…if you slack in the job or relationship….your bs lies will def be noticeable…you’ll get fired or dumped
recently started watching you on YT after watching all of your TikToks - you two are so sweet!
Thank you 😊
No one:
No one at all:
Matt: “That’s an interesting question.”
Idk who these people are but that guy has some good bro morals towards women lol
You should check then out they also have tiktok they very good happy fun couple,
To be honest, you ppl are really matured and your parents have brought u guys up in proper way. Its really awesome.👏👏👏
I have no idea why your video was in my recommendations, BUT I love your way of being open about these topics and your sincerity. You guys seems just so perfect for each other - and if I ever get so blessed to find a soulmate, I would imagine so much to be like you two together. I wish you the best things life can offer.
We’re so glad you’re here! Thank you for the sweet comment. Welcome to the family dude!!
abby looked SO CONCENTRATED during the high five
LOL
I want a Matt. He was complimenting her the whole time and he is just so sweet
You’re too kind!
1. As a man, it would be refreshing to have the woman put the moves on me. It saves me a lot of guesswork, and it’s nice to not have to take the initiative all the time. Not all guys enjoy the chase.
2. Don’t overdo it. Save the fun stuff for later. It’s also really adorable to me when you’re nervous. Be open about it.
3. To a certain extent, but it depends on the guy. I like shorter women because it makes me feel more masculine but I feel like if I really like her, it won’t matter.
4. Nothing is hotter than seeing my woman in one of my shirts. Other than that, sweats. Seriously, I love seeing my woman be comfortable.
5. I’d be worried if they were really close, but it’s not that weird for me because I’m fortunate to be friends, or at the very least friendly, with most of my exes. None of us were sexually active, so that makes it easier.
6. It obviously depends on the guy, but I’ve found that I want a woman to be more attached if I really like her. I’m an affectionate guy, and I enjoy giving and receiving affection. It should also be said that it’s generally not healthy to spend too much time with your significant other. If it interferes with their goals, or impedes their other important relationships, it’s unhealthy, even if they want to.
7. I’m still a virgin, so I don’t know for sure, but I think it used to. I would’ve wanted it to be trimmed or shaved. Now, I don’t think it matters nearly as much.
8. I appreciate the offer. But I usually want to be able to treat my woman to things and feel like a good provider. When money is tight though, I’ll probably take her up on it, if I don’t feel like it’s some sort of test. I’d also appreciate you treating me to something once in a while. It shows that you care.
9. I used to, but if I really care about the woman, I find that I don’t really care.
10. I’m a face guy. Personality-wise, I think I first notice their sense of humor.
11. In my experience, show genuine interest. Physical attractiveness definitely helps, but I don’t find myself physically attractive so I don’t focus on that.
12. Not really. When we do, we’re joking around. I wish we genuinely complemented each other more, though.
13. Self confidence. It’s not a quick fix, but man, does it work.
14. Be open and honest. I agree with expressing that you feel awkward or nervous, or don’t know what to say. I find it adorable.
15. It depends on the guy, of course, but I’d like to know. It’s a natural biological process, and I want to be able to help my woman through it, and make it as physically and emotionally painless as possible.
16. Both. Makeup is pretty, but I enjoy seeing my woman feel comfortable. Same with heels.
17. Not all guys do. I don’t. For those that do, I think it’s a confidence thing, and/or an experience thing. I learned that it can be awkward, uncomfortable, and even painful the first time, and we want both of us to feel good. I’m preparing for that by doing research (actual research, not porn), preparing to be open during the experience, and preparing to feel comfortable about asking for feedback.
Great answers👍
You sound sweet.
It's so long comment. Who wants to read it 😵😵
You seem such a sweet guy ❤️ So rare these days!
Your answer to question 15 (How do you react to your girl telling you she's on her periods ?) is actually intersting to me because I would probably not particulary think about telling someone, even a guy I date I'm on my periods. I mean, I did tell my friends back in the begining but only to get a pad because I often forgot to bring one with me. 😅 And sometimes my parents ask when they see me holding my belly because of some cramps but I wouldn't really think about telling them. It's just normal and I know what to do if it hurts a bit too much for me so I don't expect anyone to take care of me or give me special treatment when I'm on them 🤷♀️
You must be a water sign
You two are such a great example of a healthy relationship 💓
I'm not sure how this ended up on my recommended, but I'm glad it did
when Abby says, “Matthewww!” around 4:03 🤣
😂😂😂
Who are these people? they got in my recommendation out of nowhere.
same dude
Same wth
hagerbaker731 how do they inspire people? What do they do?
Yeah it’s confusing because I never watch anything like this ever but here I am so I guess whatever promotion or algorithm worked
Wtf same hahaha
Ended up here because of Tik Tok! I just want to say I really appreciate this because I’m getting married in the next year, so I’ve wondered some of these things! Thank you! It’s also super refreshing to see a couple that you can tell is genuine and has integrity and love and respect towards each other!
abby is just the cutest. she was smiling throughout the entire video, even when she wasnt talking. her smiling is beautiful
I love listening to them talk together! They’re are so sweet to each other.
This is SUCH a cute video, but I was nervous that he was driving and answering questions lol
Really appreciate that you write the questions under the video as well❤️
Of course!!
I wanna see another one of these but with Abby answering questions from guys. Also matt please keep your hands on the wheel and eyes on the road. 😭 I got scared when you kissed Abby lol
You're in luck! Our next video is exactly what you are asking for! Stay tuned :)
@@MattandAbby yay!!
I hope I have a marriage like Matt and Abby's one day. They are so cute together!
This couple is so entertaining to watch. I hope they have a long happy life together! ❤️
I got married 06/05/04, and I was a virgin. I just felt that was made for my future husband, so I wasn't going to give it to anyone else. It was my personal opinion. He passed away in 2016 and it was still special to him that I waited. We talked about it a few days before he died. He was still in shock and awe that I saved it for him. 💗💗💗
You're a smart girl.He can't forget the first experience.with you
I did too ❤️
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
My husband and I got married the same date! I’m sorry that your husband passed away.
@@jenniferwright6086 sweet, thank you so much!💓💗
I love how you guys drove and spent quality time together. Most youtubers fly just bc they can❤️
Thank you so much for confirming that it’s okay for girls to pursue the guy. I have always asked my exes if they wanted to date, and if they ultimately wanted to be my boyfriend. This was years ago, but it worked. :)
I love the way he talks about Abby. Like every question she asks he doesn't answer it like for girls in general but about Abby. I think that shows that he loves her so much 💕❤️
GREAT ADVICE!! + I was laughing my head off, y’all just click so well together and God made y’all for each other!!
Abby , you don't know how blessed you got with a man like that. Obviously you are awesome but amazing men like that - that look good too are so hard to find. Adorable couple.
Omg!
He is so gentle and has a clear positive mind❤️
Pray for me that also i could find someone like him💝
I never even heard of you guys before
and found this video by accident but
just stopped by to say I think Matt's
ears are awesome
you guys are so cute. like every question, Matt would relate that to abby and that’s so cute
Thank you so much!
I wish there were more guys like Matt out there!
I love how they appreciate each other and show so much gratitude for one another. Positive vibes ❤
I’m paying for dinner tonight... we have the same bank 😅
😂
Matt & Abby omg no way!!! I love you guys
Wife takes care money of famiy is much better.
This so lovely. I am 39 and my fiancé is 29. We have been together 8 years. The part where Abby bit Matts thumb was so something I would do 😂 I adore the honesty in this and how your answers can help anyone with any anxieties. Xx
Aww thank you so very much! You’re so kind!
Where do I find myself a Matt? The way he speaks about Abby, you can see the love he has for her and the love she has for him! Makes my heart smile!!
question 1: literally answered the question and then contradicted himself 😂...the complimenting was super adorable though!
"When a person loves you it's not about you. It's them who loves you." So don't take it for granted and think that you are special it's them who makes you feel special and loved.
Height doesn't matter. My husband is 6 foot and I'm 5 foot and we have been married for 18 years. It works for us.😘💕 It is interesting (cool) that the height difference for Matt and Abby is 1 foot too. I enjoyed your video.
Agreed! I’m 5”1 and my boyfriend is 6”4 😂 We have been together for nearly 3 years and it’s never been a problem x
Almost 22 years together. He's 6'1 and I'm 5 feet
Just discovered your channel and omg SUCH A CUTE COUPLE AND OBSESSED! Can’t wait for future vids! 💗
Thank you so much!! Welcome :)
the way Abby looks at Matt🥺this is the kind of relationship I want
i just started watching you all and i am already in love w you both and you’re relationship. you guys are my favorite youtubers. this is what a real man and women should be treated. i love how matt treats abby w the upmost respect.
I’ve sent your video to my teenage daughters (18 and 14) to watch! You are both amazing role models! Thank you!
I love the way she gazes at him while he expresses himself and the way he talks about her and his love for her 😍😍😍
I'm seeing this channel for the 1st time. And I can't believe that my bf & I are exactly like this. My boyfriend treats me the way Matt is treating Abby (with so much respect & love). & I didn't know how lucky I am until I saw this video. We have been in relationship for 2 years now but I can totally see myself getting married to this guy. Thanks Matt & Abby...you guys are amazing❤
Matt you are one of a kind. You treat Abby with so much respect. Abby is a sweetheart and she is so beautiful.
Can’t wait for you guys to go big and be one of the ogs❤️
Woohoo 🥳 thanks haha
With makeup it looks good, but it is frankly about the woman’s intention to wear blush. If she does it to look pretty, we guys like them already there is no need to impress. If she does it for a girls night out, work, or a date to feel better that is okay.
“You didn’t offer to pay, no” 😂😂 totally made me LOL! Y’all are so cute, love your relationship! How long have you been together?
Both of you are literally so sweet! Your relationship is so genuine & such a joy to watch :)
this just made me love you even more
the way he talks about Abby is adorable
can you make a part 2 please?
Aww you are so kind!! We may have to do a part 2 at some point :)
THANK you for the " BE REAL" comment---- very few people know how to do that.. seems everyone needs to "prove themselves" to be someone they're NOT.... YOU guys really are WISE beyond your years... ( Makeup- - IF a person knows how to apply it CORRECTLY and NOT with a shovel--- or totally without.. )
I literally am OBSESSED with you guys!! you can tell they really love each other haha! love you guys!❤️❤️
Thank you so much!!
Matt & Abby of course!!
I love this trend, at the same time though it just points to the need of girls and guys just communicating with their significant other in a honest and inquisitive way because ultimately we don’t know everything and assuming won’t get us anywhere. It’s okay to not know and be able to read your significant others mind! They will appreciate your efforts to care about the well being of the relationship.
Dude Matt spoke so much truth! You both did!
Aww thank you for the sweet comment :)
I am really amazed at how loving the guy is. This video suddenly popped next cause auto plat and im thankful. Hopefully we all could get one Matt in the near future 💕.
LoL he went off course when the question popped up "does hairs down there matter"😂🤣
Matt is such a kind sweet gentle loving guy.
Juicy question: how do you actually get a guy like that who actually just loves you??????
Be a girl like Abby. I’m taking notes from Matt, y’all gotta take notes from Abby.
Be your natural self. Someone will love you for you
Honesty, and persistence. They were lucky to be each others’ first partners and have it work out so well. It’ll probably take a few times to find someone compatible, though I hope it won’t. It’s also hard work to develop and maintain a relationship past the “honeymoon” phase. You’ll find things that you won’t like about him, and vice versa. If it’s something that really bothers you, bring it up on a non-accusatory way, and ask him to do the same. Some couples schedule time to meet regularly specifically to talk about their relationship, and part of that meeting includes what each party could do better in that relationship.
@@arimart625 yes, people want the real raw you 💛
@@Papercut337 very true. Communication is a big time thing.
When Matt was talking about periods, he started looking down and I thought he was going to say that she started today!! love you guys! ❤️
She's blessed to have a good guy. Thank you.
I just found you guys from Tik Tok and I just wanna say you two seem like the most cheerful and genuine people! I love the vibe y'all have goin! Keep it up you guys! Subscribed👍
Thanks for subbing! Welcome to the family!!!
Omg that’s why they looked familiar!!
You guys are the cutest. My daughter’s need to watch this.
You won't believe this but my boyfriend told me about you and said he thinks you two are super cute! I had to check it out cause he kept saying how we're so much like you guys :D much love!! you're amazing :)
dear beautiful soul reading this, you are so beautiful and loved and God has big and beautiful plans and blessings for u! stay strong and never forget how much u are needed here❤️
“That’s like inviting someone to dinner and then asking them to make the meal” very true
I just found y’all’s channel and have been binge watching so many of your videos. Your relationship is so wholesome🥺🥺
I love how she sits so close to him.
Its my first time watching a video of you guys, and WOAHH, what a grown, matured and cute couple. Im literally amazed, havent seen anything like this on youtube so far. Wishing you the best honestly😍
The topic also was interesting and fun to watch
THE CUTEST COUPLE EVER OMG. i want my relationship to be like this
Can you guys talk about having the “what are we” talk because I need to have that but I’m also terrified and need tips lol PS you all are adorable!!!
Why do you need to define the relationship anyway? If you like the time you have together, why ruin a good thing by making your partner have this talk?
carultch Ummm because some people do not want to waste their time if it’s never going to move in the direction of marriage. If that’s someone’s goal then there needs to be respect if the other person is just killing time with someone. Isn’t there an old saying “ you date to find a mate”?
Just ask! Tell him what you want and ask what he wants. If you're on different roads then it's good to know.
When he says "you're dripping juice" right after talking about her period
I'm so glad I found you two adorable beings with beautiful and fun souls!!!
I LOVE how you two enthusiastically encourage one another and build each other up!
I don't know them but it's so clear he's so in love with her! The way he looks to her and compliments her all the time is so sweet
Your relationship with each other is so admirable and I hope you stay together forever.
Love to see how much love you both share - this is what marriage should be like for everyone! My bf is like 6'7" and I'm 5'2" so height really doesn't matter!
I got complimented that much in 18 minutes I'd be red as a lobster
The title of this video should be,, "complementing my wifey Abby"
Love you guys soo much😍😍😍😍😍😍
This is fun to watch, love you guys I'm engaged cant wait to get married in January 2021
Just followed you both on insta and now I’m stressed about liking your photos equally so you don’t think I have a favourite 😂
LOL you’re too kind ❤️
Love how he makes all the questions about Abby 🤣❤️
I hope I can find a guy like Matt!! You guys are so cute ❤️❤️
You're so kind!