JP, You're Speaking The Absolute Truth... I'm A Little Old Grandma Who Enjoy Watching You From Orlando, Florida.🇺🇸🇦🇮 God Richly Bless You And Your Family!👏🏾🙏🏾😇 Much Love.❤️❤
Speaking truth!!! But, many professional women did stick with their regular brothers while building their lives, family, careers & financial status. Sadly, the guys did not appreciate the journey with encouragement & support. The guys failed to mature & grow, too 😢. So, we ladies then choose to move on and stay single.
JP, my motto is to treat others the way you would like to be treated. Sometimes, we pick until we pick shit. One thing I learn looks is that not every . Communication, respect, love, and compromise are key to a successful relationship.
I was told in the past that I was looking for the perfect man, my standards were too high, my need for affection (not sex) and loving words was too much etc. Even though I was not asking for the world, just the basics. Turns out though that the person telling me that was just not willing to meet my needs. Because a few years later I met the exact man I wanted. The man I wanted was from a different culture and way of thinking. Sometimes the person for you is not in the place you're looking. I wouldn't recommend for any woman to lower her standards, I'd say she should broaden her horizons.
Yes, life is a journey. One that is much better travelled with a *COMPANION* by our side. But that companion can be just about anyone…A neighbour on the other side of the street.Or the man or woman on the other side of the bed…Still despite our best intentions, some of us will lose our companions along the way and our journey will become unbearable.You see, human beings are designed for many things. But loneliness is not one of them.
Jay you’re so true. As a high earner, you should go with someone that’s a bit lower in order to get leverage.! I’m kinda in that boat but I already have kids and I’m not that old but my standards are over the moon!☺️
Words of wisdom my friend. I am almost 70 yes. Old been single for 22 years I am happy with my life the way it is. I like and enjoy your show. You are really telling the truth on this subject. Thank you.
That is why ppl who have things can't get with ppl who have nothing...rich don't marry poor- love don't cut it- there is a level of understanding about finances that poor dont have and seem to think that getting the bag is easy...
I know a lot of women who are experiencing that sort of life, can take care of themselves and don't have a husband. I gave up a lot for my kids. I am good
You are so right that is called stage 1 stage 2 is far more difficult & stage 3 you understand each other far better and have worked through some quite a bit &"can work together far better, you know the other person far deeper.
My cousin drop out of school and get pregnant and after three kids and a husband she went to Mico teacher's college and is still with her husband. Having kids did not stop her from accomplishing her dreams. Her husband is not as educated as her
If a man really needs someone who is materially beneath him for a relationship, is it that he wants appreciation, or is it really control? From what you have said, it sounds like he cannot deal with his equal in finances, goals and accomplishments, which is more about his ego than anything else. He needs someone who is in financial need/desperation to feel needed and appreciated. That's not love. It also points to the fact that in Jamaican culture, many men are so focused on material goods that if they cannot give that to a woman, they feel they have nothing to give. Did they ever cultivate themselves socially, emotionally? Do they know how to be supportive, to be empathetic? Do they know how to intellectually stimulate a woman? The fallacy is that money alone is not all it takes to keep a relationship going, but some men have never bothered to look beyond money and gifts in terms of what they have to give, or developed themselves beyond money.
Alot of women friendzone the nice guys that would make a good husband to them , then run come back to those guys years later with 4 kids from 4 different baby fathers
No body want any and any cabacaba to date i am not going below my standard we have to be on the same leave you tak up them things them come and disrespect you i need one whi can take care a me i make a little life for myself i have a job and my old days pension what him have nothing hell to the no
Good evening jp the boss of all time jp it goes boat ways sometimes u re talking foxs jp sometimes u an a man re together an u reproductive and he not u av to behind them like a child or the woman is not but if u love each other thing will work out just put god in everything u re doing jp 🙏some people sent time going back to school every year so when they re finish with school time run out an them but time run out them so they miss out on aving a family or a relationship
Lady, there are millions of people in North America who have a successful career and have a marriage of family. Many of these women in the Third World countries have children and poverty stricken and look old and stressed out. Don't ever regret having the ability to finish university. Be grateful, forget having children, adopt.
What sort of advice is this? So your telling women to continue being the men they want smh this advice is going to keep women single and alone. Women get their happiness from children and a family not a career
@@mrcassonova1 I guess you have not broaden your horizen. You know how many women I have met who wished they had a career and wished they did not have children because of poverty. My own dad and brother wished they had no children. Get around and you will see. Being super bright is a gift. OK.. Why would you just throw that gift away. I bet you the White Europeans would not tell their female children not to pursue a career, only the blacks who are poor and looking for a hand out. If those black men will pursue careers instead of hopping into bed and having children they cannot take care of, many black women would be better off. Nonsense!!!
JP, You're Speaking The Absolute Truth... I'm A Little Old Grandma Who Enjoy Watching You From Orlando, Florida.🇺🇸🇦🇮 God Richly Bless You And Your Family!👏🏾🙏🏾😇 Much Love.❤️❤
Speaking truth!!!
But, many professional women did stick with their regular brothers while building their lives, family, careers & financial status.
Sadly, the guys did not appreciate the journey with encouragement & support. The guys failed to mature & grow, too 😢.
So, we ladies then choose to move on and stay single.
Absolutely!
JP, my motto is to treat others the way you would like to be treated. Sometimes, we pick until we pick shit. One thing I learn looks is that not every . Communication, respect, love, and compromise are key to a successful relationship.
❤I absolutely 💯 love this relationship session. You are giving some great advice. Keep it up JP❤❤😊😊
I was told in the past that I was looking for the perfect man, my standards were too high, my need for affection (not sex) and loving words was too much etc. Even though I was not asking for the world, just the basics.
Turns out though that the person telling me that was just not willing to meet my needs. Because a few years later I met the exact man I wanted. The man I wanted was from a different culture and way of thinking. Sometimes the person for you is not in the place you're looking. I wouldn't recommend for any woman to lower her standards, I'd say she should broaden her horizons.
True! But also be realistic with her standards at the same time...you can always want to fly an airplane but first you need to be qualified 💯
Well said. Don't limit God to culture norm.
Yes
Blessed Tuesday morning jayy progress one love ❤ bro ❤ 🙏
Yes, life is a journey. One that is much better travelled with a *COMPANION* by our side. But that companion can be just about anyone…A neighbour on the other side of the street.Or the man or woman on the other side of the bed…Still despite our best intentions, some of us will lose our companions along the way and our journey will become unbearable.You see, human beings are designed for many things. But loneliness is not one of them.
Jay you’re so true. As a high earner, you should go with someone that’s a bit lower in order to get leverage.! I’m kinda in that boat but I already have kids and I’m not that old but my standards are over the moon!☺️
I don’t blame you
JayyP you have taught me something today!!!
Thank you 🙏🏽
Nowadays its hard to find a trustworthy straight person to have a relationship with
So true
Words of wisdom my friend. I am almost 70 yes. Old been single for 22 years I am happy with my life the way it is. I like and enjoy your show. You are really telling the truth on this subject. Thank you.
JP, you're the best you're talking pure facts...
My youth... thx you I appreciate da relationships talk...❤❤
Talk up the tings JP, you are full of wisdom
Jah jah yute real talk mi G.. 👏👏🇯🇲🇯🇲👍👍
Love this message 💖
Some woman is looking for a Mr. right, there is no Mr right or Miss right.
He or she has to be right for you.
Respect in relationship 💯
Respect, that’s it Desrine, yuh lik the nail on the head
True talk JP 💯💯
That is why ppl who have things can't get with ppl who have nothing...rich don't marry poor- love don't cut it- there is a level of understanding about finances that poor dont have and seem to think that getting the bag is easy...
I know a lot of women who are experiencing that sort of life, can take care of themselves and don't have a husband. I gave up a lot for my kids. I am good
A mind is a terrible thing to waste.
You are so right that is called stage 1 stage 2 is far more difficult & stage 3 you understand each other far better and have worked through some quite a bit &"can work together far better, you know the other person far deeper.
My cousin drop out of school and get pregnant and after three kids and a husband she went to Mico teacher's college and is still with her husband. Having kids did not stop her from accomplishing her dreams. Her husband is not as educated as her
Most men are single because we dont want to deal with the headache and the constant competition .
Me me, I have been married now for 62 years and going
Big up I subscribe 👍
Good morning to you Jayy.
Just pray to meet the right one n leave it with God.
Faith without work is dead.
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Yes, I've been married for 15 years. The first 5 was not easy.
If a man really needs someone who is materially beneath him for a relationship, is it that he wants appreciation, or is it really control? From what you have said, it sounds like he cannot deal with his equal in finances, goals and accomplishments, which is more about his ego than anything else. He needs someone who is in financial need/desperation to feel needed and appreciated. That's not love.
It also points to the fact that in Jamaican culture, many men are so focused on material goods that if they cannot give that to a woman, they feel they have nothing to give. Did they ever cultivate themselves socially, emotionally? Do they know how to be supportive, to be empathetic? Do they know how to intellectually stimulate a woman? The fallacy is that money alone is not all it takes to keep a relationship going, but some men have never bothered to look beyond money and gifts in terms of what they have to give, or developed themselves beyond money.
You are speaking too much true jp
Alot of women friendzone the nice guys that would make a good husband to them , then run come back to those guys years later with 4 kids from 4 different baby fathers
R3AL TALK JAYYY
J. You are too much 😂
I told a girl last week if me never meet her a wear Gucci y she a ask me for Gucci. Stay in her tax bracket
Yes, 24 years married and 34 years together.
0 years married and 0 years together 😊
@@god_0.f_rail216😂😂😂
She wanted the perfectman. He hasnt been born yet
He is born but she is looking for certain type like myself.
Yes 18
I'd prefer to grow old alone than have a man who treats me less than I deserve,
I'm single
JP hi ❤❤❤❤
No body want any and any cabacaba to date i am not going below my standard we have to be on the same leave you tak up them things them come and disrespect you i need one whi can take care a me i make a little life for myself i have a job and my old days pension what him have nothing hell to the no
JP, I was married for 17 years.
No man nowadays wont take up those risponsopility hell no not in this time
He choose her because he know s her needs n hnows she will want him become he has money.😮😮😮
Hi P J
Good evening jp the boss of all time jp it goes boat ways sometimes u re talking foxs jp sometimes u an a man re together an u reproductive and he not u av to behind them like a child or the woman is not but if u love each other thing will work out just put god in everything u re doing jp 🙏some people sent time going back to school every year so when they re finish with school time run out an them but time run out them so they miss out on aving a family or a relationship
Money man
She's looking for a rich man.
Postpartum depression
Lady, there are millions of people in North America who have a successful career and have a marriage of family. Many of these women in the Third World countries have children and poverty stricken and look old and stressed out. Don't ever regret having the ability to finish university. Be grateful, forget having children, adopt.
You made a good point!
What sort of advice is this? So your telling women to continue being the men they want smh this advice is going to keep women single and alone. Women get their happiness from children and a family not a career
@@mrcassonova1 I guess you have not broaden your horizen. You know how many women I have met who wished they had a career and wished they did not have children because of poverty. My own dad and brother wished they had no children. Get around and you will see. Being super bright is a gift. OK.. Why would you just throw that gift away. I bet you the White Europeans would not tell their female children not to pursue a career, only the blacks who are poor and looking for a hand out. If those black men will pursue careers instead of hopping into bed and having children they cannot take care of, many black women would be better off. Nonsense!!!
@@Blessings-zq2ckThank you. You understand well what I am conveying.
Being gifted and super bright is a gift from God. Don't waste it by staying home and turn poor.
Either way women always end up alone. Men Either leave for another woman or man or they died before the woman.
A man with money.😅😅
A man who is very, very rich .😂😂
A man with money
What about your husband died? But you can not find a good man
I see you know when to talk serious. Lol
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