They loved their one daughter, but hated the other one...Parents should love their children equally!
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
- Beautiful and very sad story.
I cried for her being alone, no one cared for her all throughout her life likewise I cried too because she became very successful in life.
If this is true story....God bless you Ammy!
If you can't treat your children equally or fairly, maybe you shouldn't have more than one..🙏
But I have 1 more sis who is 9 yrs older than me and we r sisters but still my mom and dad love me😅😅😊
This is such a sad story........
This poor girl grew up on her own,went to College on her own, graduated without her parents being there for her,they lied about needing money, asking for more, she cleaned out her savings for them, they lied about needing more money, she finally found out what they were really up to and cut all ties with them, moved to the UK , changing all her contact information and never looked back........It’s a shame that her parents treated her so badly for no reason at all, but I am glad that she finally cut all ties with them and moved on for a better life ‼️‼️‼️
Her parents should be ashamed of the treatment they did to her , but in the end she won and hopefully marry, have children of her own to love ❤️ God bless her......🙏❤️🛐💜🙏❤️❤️🛐💜
That God for her grandparents.
Way to go Amy you owed your life.
I have 3 beautiful grown up children who I love equally unconditionally and endlessly .They are my gifts from God and I am very proud of what they become . I still advise them always be kind be respectful and have a loving and forgiving heart be godly and be prayerful.
Amen to that, love your kids the same??
This is the exact scenario happened in my life😭😭😭.. now i came out of my home and got married to my lovable person and started to live my life from 0👍👍👍😊😊😊😊
God bless you and your new family 💓❤️❤️
God bless you and your family 😊
Hope you will be fine I cannot imagine how hard it is
AMY! you GO girl, You deserve the very best of everything in life. You've worked for it, you have earned it,now ENJOY IT!
Find a lovely person to share your life with and go and be happy.
Let your family go HANG. They don't deserve to be helped by your or to have ANYMORE contact with you EVER again, no matter WHAT their circumstances.Blood relations DO NOT make a family, butva loving friend or partner DOES. All the very best to you for your future life and happiness.
PS follow both your heart AND your dreams.
Amy’s grandparents decided to take care of their grandparents??.?????????
Exactly...🤭🤭🤣
Exactly 😂😂🤣🤣
“Amy was very politer and obedient” politer?
If the parents would have loved them equally....
They would have been living a rich life
"You can give your children two lasting bequests - one's ROOTS and the other WINGS !" - Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
It's great story👌👌👌
Parents should know how to love their kids equally...
Unbelievable. How can parents behave like that🙄
I think this is a fake story
@@haimantimukherjee7281 the parents behaving bad I can believe. People can be despicable and far more evil than in the story .But Amy just tolerating everything and becoming a CEO makes it sound quite fake.
@@alexspencer1496 yes but this is a rare story in real lyf
What you do to others will came return to you by anyway.. That's called Karma
Never betray anyone
If I were Amy I would be telling her so called parents to get lost. She was considering sending her savings to her Father!! I wouldn't have given them anything. She was a doormat for these grifter parents. They would never have got a penny from me.
When life gives you blessings and you disregard them. So sad.
Surely, unbelievable it may sound but definitely I too went through similar situations.., it's so difficult to understand some parents..
There should be no favoritism in the family. Parents should love their children equally.
Nice concept but doesn't always happen
I am glad ours were treated the same , when they were growing up. Love both of them.
Children are to be born into a family where the parents hold the needs of children equal to their own in importance. And children are to love parents and each other.
Henry B Eyring
When my niece was 4 her mother got married again. Her stepfather was anxious to adopt her. Life was good for three years until her half sister was born. It was like she became invisible. Her little sister would make messes and she was supposed to clean up after her. When she went to the prom a friend of her mother made an ill fitting polyester dress for her. As she danced a friend pulled a thread that was hanging. The side seam of her dress started coming undone. She took it off in the restroom and tied a knot in the loose stitching and went back to dancing. She couldn't raise her arm because there was a 6 inch tear in the seam. Her little sister was handed the world on a silver platter. For every dance she got expensive gowns, lan cures, pedicures and her hair professionally done. The older sister never got any of that. She moved to another state and got her own place. The younger sister asked to move in. She was welcomed but expected her by sister to pay for everything while she spent all her money on herself. That didn't last long. My older niece moved to a one bedroom apartment and told her sister there was no room for her. She still does way too much for the younger who has 2 failed marriages and is always expecting everyone in the family to bail her out. She'll soon be 44 going on 12.
Please forgive the typos.
To my children…..I can’t promise that I’ll always be around in your lifetime, but rest assured, I will always love you till the end of mine.
God give us wisdom knowledge and understanding to raise our children
I'm glad Amy did well and Nora didn't.
Yes. Treat everyone equally. What a terrible behaviour they had.
Good for AMY. Her grandparents were awesome. I wonder what happened to them but mostly I hope Amy had a truely happy & fulfilled life
Such parents later don't get love and support from their children
This is something what even i undergo .... At times i become soo vex that i feel that i can no more live in this world ! I domt hv anyone to share my feeling and hence i use this to express my feelings
.. i love my pare ts and theytoo love me till my brother was born ,... He was born a few years ago and then on they started ignoring me they never care abt me ... They make me walk to school even during heavy rains but drop him .. at 1 point of time they even forgot my bday ...... But i hope everything will chamge
I lived Amy's life.
My parents only had 2 kids, a boy and a girl and one still born son before me. I was the oldest surviving child and they were disappointing noted that a daughter was in the priveleged first born position because first norms are the leaders and achievers but such a status was only right for boys, not girls who didn't have achieve or lead anything, just be pretty little princesses who are cared for and lead by loving males who care for them. But I had messed up the correct order of things, by being first born. They kept reminding me I should even be first born because there was an older, far better, far more beautiful, smarter, kinder perfect boy child born before me or first born status and that I am only alive because he had died at birth. And I should never forget that. I was made to set a plate at meal times for this phantom older dead brother to "acknowledge his spirit". I developed a strong Nd of fascination with this perfect child they talked about, who was all I was not and if I did something wrong they would remind me that, if he was here, he wouldn't be bad, stupid, difficult, untidy, messy etc etc, like me. I concluded all the wrong things I was were the result of him being so wonderful. But, at the same time, although I admired this phantom dead older brother I had never known, I also felt like some kind of murderer, like I must have strangled him at birth with my umbilical cord, without realising I had actually killed him. It was a terrible feeling for a child to live with....And then they started on my younger brother, telling him he was never going to amount to much because he should have been a first born son, but he came second to a mere girl, I this what was starting to suspiciously look like a human rat race, to my childish mind. "He has no hope of being better than me, because I was here first and I'm older and the leader" I boasted to myself. "And there's no competition from the other one they accused me of murdering before he was even born. Because he's dead anyway. Out of sight, out of mind". They told me they didn't like my attitude to life, lack of respect, my bad demeanour for my gender etc" and, at about age 5, I shocked them by informing I was not exactly impressed with their attitude, either and lack of respect for me, first born child, only daughter, the leader etc etc. They nearly died of fright, looked at each other and said "Did you hear what SHE just said?" So, I offered to say it again but they told me to shut my mouth and show some respect, which I thought I had already shown too much of, to people I didn't think had earned it from me. My younger brother with his cute golden curls they loved just sat looking cute and angelic and I was seething with jealous rage because I knew they thought he was a beautiful child, mainly on account of his blonde curls, which I didn't get, just plain Aden, boring hair...Every time they gave him their loving proud parents of gorgeous baby boy looks, I hated him so much I wished he would just die, like the older brother did, even if it meant I'd then be required to set two extra dinner places, for two non existent brothers. I'd be their only child and the would be forced to treat me as special, which I genuinely believed I must be, since I was first born, on the first day of the first month of the first year of the decade and I was the only girl and I managed to slay my older brother "competition" . But it didn't work out, as planned because we got separated, to stop us fighting to death....They they started the pressure on him. "Why can't you be as smart as your sister, when she's only a girl and you're a man? Learn from her!" They ordered me to teach him smart school stuff but I didn't want to teach him, because I had to learn it all alone and thought he was too stupid, anyway... And he thought that, being a man, meant one doesn't have girls telling a male what to do or how to do it. So that failed. "They admonished him with "At this rate, you'll amount to nothing. You'll never be a doctor or an engineer or anything...." And I thought "It's because I will be, not him...". They must have read my mind because they then started on me again with "What man would want such an untidy, messy, disrespectful know it all bossy boots like you for his bride! They want proper princesses not like you!" I didn't give a shit if they did or didn't because I didn't need or want anybody....Eventually, to deal with their disappointment about the order kids were born i and our very different personality types and looks, they began to dress my pretty brother as a girl, in a dress I envied because it was so beautifully handmade by my mother. But they dressed me in a flannellette check shirt and Yakka Keyman jeans with the bib, like workment wore and little boys boots and my father declared that since my brother was never going to be an engineer or anything, just "mummy's pride and joy" I needed to go with him to construction sites, crawl through mud etc, learn math, how things are constructed, study the slope of the land etc to build things etc. This got very interesting for me. To the point where I had no interest in playing the little girls' games kids at school played, like "Nurse I General Hospital" or "Mother With New Baby", where little girls pretended to give each other injections, take body temperatures etc or rock the baby, give it it's bottle, change its nappy etc. Actually, these games were pretty dangerous because, once, a girl playing nurse poked an echidna's (porcupine spike) into another's arm, pretending to give her a needle and the porcupine spike was dirt and infected and the would it created do get seriously infected, needing real medical treatment....). But I wasn't interested in their silly games. "You can learn how we generate electricity from water and how trains run on rail tracks and why bridges don't sink when the train goes over them...." my father told me. It fired my imagination like nothing else the kids played could. Which would be fine in this era, but not back then, pre gender equality. So, when parents prefer one kid and the kid senses this, it can have a pretty unsettling effect on them emotionally. Even if you can't help but prefer one child, it's best to avoid showing it and treat all your kids equally. Or, if you want to treat one as special, then make sure you find something special I every other child and tell them, so they don't feel bad, worthless, unloved etc. Because that causes kids to become problem kids. Like they can never be good enough, so why even bother trying? Might as well be bad because nothing good you do or are ever gets praised. But, in my family, I noticed my young pretty boy brother didn't have to do anything to be praised, simply for being "such a beautiful boy child". If a kid is beautiful, cute etc and knows it, because parents keep telling them so, such a child will never be motivated to achieve much. No need to work for praise. They just get it easily and automatically, just being cute, doing nothing to earn it. Which is ok when still young and beautiful and parents are around to love and provide. But, eventually, beautiful children become ordinary plain or even ugly adults nobody wants to praise, love provide for. And they get a nasty shock because they suddenly have to face a cruel harshe world reality, but never learned how to fend for themselves, how to fight to win, how to be "first there", how to beat the competition and similar not so sweet lovable, but essential survival skills in the realities of human rat race. One thing having to set a place for phantom dead brother did teach me was: Never fear ghosts ie that which is unreal, that you cannot see, hear, feel, touch etc. One day, sick of this stupid chore I simply declared he was unreal, had no body, so therefore needed no food to eat, so no need to set a place for him. "Oh, but his spirit still lives on..." my superstitious mother said "In which case his spirit can wander around anywhere and find his own food I he's that hungry......" They finally stopped this silly ritual. But I began to have doubts, wondering "What if his spirit really does exist and demands to know why I wouldn't set a place for him to eat, besid me?" It started to play on my childish mind. So I told my girlfriend who confirmed spirits do exist because she claimed to have talked with them. I believe that girl ended up insane.....
So many parents made this same mistake, it is like a cycle in some families and it always turns out so bad. Some of these parents ended up brokenhearted and full of regrets because of the pain the favourite caused them.
Favouritism is real and the consequences are real. Been there! A hated child!
🌿🌹 Surprising! How can parents behave in such a disgusting manner. Shame on them.
My parents loves me and my brother unconditionally and equally
For all the ill in the society parents are responsible
None of the parents treat their children equally. Its sad. But it is the fact
my life is exact the same of Amy, i got.phd degree and now settled with my husband and child very far from my home.
Very sad but I know some us go through difficulties at one time or another. But when you leave your parent's house some of the time your on your own....
This issuch a sad story, poor child, ?? I can't belive parents, could even act this way, Lord have mercy on their soul, 🙏🙏
It's really a great story
I had seen this same story in another channel long ago. The story is exactly the same, but only the names were different. The eldest daughter (Amy in here) was named the Lisa and her sister (Nora in here) was named Veronica. Anyways, thanks for sharing such amazing stories! 💞
Yeah I also watch it, I think it was last year when I watch it😁😁😁💖💖💖.
Being ABLE to procreate doesn't mean you are ABLE to be a parent. THis one hit home. It's NOT a game folks. Parents can cause more trauma than the rest of the world to these kids.
I went through the same,
Unfortunately there are plentiful such cases around. Really anger myself reading about such stories. Very sure in hell the parents will need to repay Amy for all the wrongs they did unto her.
Good story teller ✌️🙏
So emotional story it is
I like.... this type... because of spoken English
Very nice story
What revolting humans her parents are👎 why is it her fault? She didn’t ask to be born. They make me sick😡
I hope this isn't a true story because I can't believe parents would treat their children so differently. Honestly I'm heartbroken and shocked and not to be rude im happy the parents lost every dollar they had. I've seen the way some people treat there kids and it's not nearly as bad and I still feel bad for the kids. I'm glad Amy was successful in life and never gave up. 🤍🤍🤍🤍❤❤❤❤
This happens in real life too
It happen to me.
Amy did the right thing
It's real story at the start but thanks for doing future mistake realisation
Same story as me😞
Yes it is heartbreaking when your mother don't give a rat's ass what about you but gives everything to the other two but we are strong and we learned how to deal
gloria commenting;"parents should love their children equally"...but very very very often they don't. One child is the favorite-and favored-child. One child is their hearts darling.They will move heaven and earth for that child and that child can do no wrong. Sound familiar???
Love don't suppose to beat the hell out of you period. It suppose to be genuine and caring ❤ and sweet and warm. When God bless you 🙏 with children they are from Him .because the child you miss treat is the that really loves you period. The golden child is to spoil for there own good and them the ones can't help because they in the same boat as the parents.
This is real real beautiful words man❤️😘
This story is so unreal to a certain extent, it's so fake, no parents are like that to their own children.
What's wrong with the daughter may I asked, your story doesn't make sense.
@@QUEEN-yn5xq It can be real dear.. Many of the parents do such stuffs with thier own child
@@QUEEN-yn5xq I beg to differ!!! My mother was every bit as cruel and heartless as these parents were. Don’t judge what happens to others until you’ve experienced what they have!!!!! 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
@@bekaharrell3885 Don't insult your mother because of this video, don't lie about your mother.
Actually my mom loves my siblings more than me sometimes i think whether she is my real mom
I think this is a real story
Same here 💔😭😭😭
Nothing is impossible in life.
Liars and bullies
It can be possible ..i was the first baby girl of my parents .. second one was my sister and i hv two younger brothers..my parents especially my mother always hated us being girls..i always felt her haterd through out my life..it tornes me into pieces and still i can't compete my personality due to my harsh and hateful behavior of my mother...and i also hate her with my natural love to her..she makes me dual personality ..i ever keep on hanging in the dilemma of hate and love to her....i am 50 and she is 75 but she is as bitter as evr fr me due to being a women
Please someone tell me why they didn't love their children equally
It is so unjust
Thats served them right hahahahahaha, very funny...
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So sad
0:25 am I the only one who got the mistake?
Amy's grandparents decided to take care of their grandparents 🤔
The quality of these does seem to be getting worse. They should get a native English speaker to check over their work.
@@Mithunminnuyep😃
Yeh story pehle ho chuki hai!!!!😭
I want new one🙏
0:21 What does it mean?
The whole story seems a bit made up. And what is with the grandparents, deciding to take cake of their grandparents?
Grand daughter mis written as grand parents
I doubt it's made up.
My dad hated me. I was beat very often, I was told how stupid I was, that I was an it, a thing, and I'd never amount to anything.
My sister got none of it and I was always told I needed to be like her.
I wasn't perfect, but I didnt deserve what I got
It's true
What, Amy's Grandparents decided to take care of their grand parents.
Far fetched.
They deserve bankrupt Amy did the good job not to care them
What a horror story!
Much much different
My friend and me faced kind of same situations🙄😤
What does school matter?
If they didn't want a child they should've used a condom. There are a lot of couples who are dying to become parents... Hope karma catches up with such people soon...
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Amy Jackson and Nora fatehi 😂😂😂 no offense
No truth here. Click bait.
1st view
My narcissistic mother didn’t want me. I was the scapegoat and my older, planned for brother was the golden child. My mother’s favorite gig was to publicly attack me unprovoked in front of as large an audience as possible as she had to be the center of attention. Of course she always blamed me for everything she did. All her outbursts and emotional tantrums were completely and totally my fault. I had to draw the line when she endangered my life. I’ve been no contact for 8 years and although I’ll always love her I’ll never see her or speak to her again. Sounds like Amy at least had grandparents that loved her. She did the right thing-the only thing she could. 😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
We are sent to this world by grace of God not by erotic exercise otherwise there would have been no issueless couple , you love your mum bitiya this is your goodness ,give purpose to your life ,those who have no family or emotional ties ,make their mark in this world compelling everyone to feel their presence by virtue of talent , focus on your God sent talent and earn good name to leave behind ,however good parents are ,they leave us one day.
Your story sounds similar to mine. I was the family's black sheep always blamed for things. I was always compared to my other siblings. I was constantly belittled and picked on. I was even molested by one of my family members at the age of 4, and of course it was swept under the rug when I told someone. Some of them told me that I wouldn't amount to anything in life, because I was too stupid. I let it go in one ear and out of the other, and went on to college and graduated. Now, I have 3 careers. I've written and published 12 books on Amazon.
They have nothing to say now. I still love them all from a distance. I'm glad you broke through. Stay strong and keep your head up. Be Blessed😇
@@latricewillins-butler5403 I believe you’re correct. Unfortunately for me every one of my immediate family members is guilty of all known types of child abuse. Fortunately for me my story has a happy ending: 25 years ago Elohim sent my husband into my life. I wish I’d known growing up that he would be at the end of my rainbow!! Until I met him I’d rather my mother had me aborted as she wanted and was offered a safe, legal abortion but wasn’t able to pay for it as my father wasn’t working and yes, they were married. My grandmother refused to pay for it so I’m here. I truly believe that those of us who have endured such traumatic and tragic upbringings have at least a tiny clue of what Yeshua went through on the cross and thus a bit more empathy than those who were born into a loving family. I’m praying for all of us, particularly those who believe it’s their right to decide to shame us when they’ve never experienced anything like what we have. Love and prayers for all of us!!! 😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😱😱😱😱💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@bekaharrell3885 I agree. I suffered all forms of abuse and blame. I'm the oldest and was always blamed. What we went through only made us stronger in the Lord. My grandmother raised us after our mother and both fathers felt like they couldn't handle the responsibility of us kids. Her and my father seemed like part time parents, and later made me feel guilty about me even being born. They both started lives with other people. I thank God for my grandmother. May God rest her soul. Her birthday would've been tomorrow, and it's really hard she's not around. I was so happy around her growing up, and had some good and happy times. It seemed like when she passed, the light and the love was not there anymore. God has blessed me with new people in my life when sending me a hubby 12 years ago, and now I have a new family. Just because you share a bloodline with people, doesn't mean that's makes a family. Blood is not always thicker than water. I'll continue to pray for all of us as well🙏😇
@@latricewillins-butler5403 please do pray for me. Look at the comments in the above text as these two, Angel and Queen obviously need help and as many prayers as possible! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕❤️❤️❤️