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guys if you are afraid that showing interest will scare them off then let them, you can express how you feel and if it’s too much for them then it’s only because it’s the wrong person and not for you. stop worrying about peoples reactions and live by your truth be authentic and let these wrong people walk out of your life they are showing you who they are and how they feel about you, don’t take it personally simply move on and realize that being true to yourself was the best thing you could do for you to attract the right one into your life. let go of your pride and fear to lose power or control over a situation, you have power over yourself and the access you give to someone, have the self respect to let go of those who don’t value you or see your worth, you don’t need to convince anyone that you’re worth loving but you
This is so insightful. Even for like not just dating relationships but like old married couples who could use a rejuvenation or verve injection in the live life between them.
Its 2023 not 1923 times are VERY different especially when a chick can flip out on u just fir saying hello. It won't hurt you to step up now days and say something. Thise are old times and yall want tradtional styles from the man but u dont want to also he traditional. Nope! We just do our own things now. If u say something hey cool! If not oh well! Someine else will! We like courage and someone who can speak up not sit there like a quiet mouse never getting what they want.
Its easy! Just say hey whats up was rhinking about u what u up to. Stuff like that. Not saying anything tells us u dont even like us or want anything with us. Currently going through this now. Definitely feel like just dropping her and getting another woman who actually engages and talks especially after saying they love u etc. I dont trust people and this definitely tells me never to do it
Definition of being 'BOLD' please. I went out of my 'comfort zone' and initiated I was open to a relationshio with 2 guts. Both have disappeared off the radar now!
Perhaps that showing interest felt bold for her because she had been previously withholding. Being bold for her did not mean running after the guy. Never run after him. But show interest.
Being bold has made people act very uncomfortable around me, So I'm not sure about this. Granted, I feel much more comfortable and honest with myself, So I do Think this is a necessity for life, and I encourage people to do so. But I'm not so sure about "Finding Love". I have yet to meet a woman that would put that effort into me.
So @mathewboggs should I show interest in the men that I am not interested in? But they are showing interest in me. With me being stingy, I am not interested in showing interest in a guy that has a girlfriend. But he is showing interest in me. Then emotionally unavailable men are showing interest in me. And I am not interest in that.
That's one of the most honest things I've ever heard i don't know what you'll do but I have permanently given up on relationships honestly its not something that you need to have you can survive without one just saying if you do get in a relationship dont settle if you do it won't work be true to yourself however you go good luck
She's afraid of rejection. Men reject women very gently though, and also very rarely..... women reject men often and brutally usually by belittling him and calling him a creepy guy and stuff like that. Actually women are horrible!!!! Mgtow myself and have been for 24 years now and it's the best thing I've ever done as a 59 year old man
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guys if you are afraid that showing interest will scare them off then let them, you can express how you feel and if it’s too much for them then it’s only because it’s the wrong person and not for you. stop worrying about peoples reactions and live by your truth be authentic and let these wrong people walk out of your life they are showing you who they are and how they feel about you, don’t take it personally simply move on and realize that being true to yourself was the best thing you could do for you to attract the right one into your life. let go of your pride and fear to lose power or control over a situation, you have power over yourself and the access you give to someone, have the self respect to let go of those who don’t value you or see your worth, you don’t need to convince anyone that you’re worth loving but you
My Sweetheart came after me and I started to be bold. We are DEEPLY inlove now and EXTREMELY HAPPY 😊
This is so insightful. Even for like not just dating relationships but like old married couples who could use a rejuvenation or verve injection in the live life between them.
I guess we need to be bold AFTER he shows genuine interest. Because we are not to chase a man but warmingly respond to his interest 😊
Its 2023 not 1923 times are VERY different especially when a chick can flip out on u just fir saying hello. It won't hurt you to step up now days and say something. Thise are old times and yall want tradtional styles from the man but u dont want to also he traditional. Nope! We just do our own things now. If u say something hey cool! If not oh well! Someine else will! We like courage and someone who can speak up not sit there like a quiet mouse never getting what they want.
I was bold.. got hurt... badly hurt
How do you show interest in a guy without being to overbearing
I have this same question
Good question. After I showed interest in 2 guys, both of them have disappeared! 😂
Same question.
Its easy! Just say hey whats up was rhinking about u what u up to. Stuff like that. Not saying anything tells us u dont even like us or want anything with us. Currently going through this now. Definitely feel like just dropping her and getting another woman who actually engages and talks especially after saying they love u etc. I dont trust people and this definitely tells me never to do it
@@sharonrose4 😂😂😂😂😂
agreed as a female i pursued and now i have the man of my dreams
when people willingly walk out of ur life know that they’re doing you a favor
Don’t they have to initiate?
Fortune favors the bold!
When is show interest guy broke up with me. Its the opposite they want you when you dont care about them and can replace them.
I've been very bold 😂
Depends on the guy. It's not usually so easy. Love in modern day is frustrating.
Yes this is true
Definition of being 'BOLD' please. I went out of my 'comfort zone' and initiated I was open to a relationshio with 2 guts. Both have disappeared off the radar now!
Off subject Mat…WHERE did you get that shirt?!!! My fiancé would LOVE that shirt! 🩵
men should chase..its nature
Tell us HOW
Ditto !
Makes so much sense❤
Oh that's a good observation! I am the same😳
Perhaps that showing interest felt bold for her because she had been previously withholding. Being bold for her did not mean running after the guy. Never run after him. But show interest.
How are you bold?
Being bold has made people act very uncomfortable around me, So I'm not sure about this. Granted, I feel much more comfortable and honest with myself, So I do Think this is a necessity for life, and I encourage people to do so. But I'm not so sure about "Finding Love". I have yet to meet a woman that would put that effort into me.
True but not all true once you meet a person that is manipulative
So @mathewboggs should I show interest in the men that I am not interested in? But they are showing interest in me. With me being stingy, I am not interested in showing interest in a guy that has a girlfriend. But he is showing interest in me. Then emotionally unavailable men are showing interest in me. And I am not interest in that.
That's one of the most honest things I've ever heard i don't know what you'll do but I have permanently given up on relationships honestly its not something that you need to have you can survive without one just saying if you do get in a relationship dont settle if you do it won't work be true to yourself however you go good luck
Lol sounds like you indirectly told her to give it up on the first date that would be bold as long as ut works out I guess
She's afraid of rejection. Men reject women very gently though, and also very rarely..... women reject men often and brutally usually by belittling him and calling him a creepy guy and stuff like that. Actually women are horrible!!!! Mgtow myself and have been for 24 years now and it's the best thing I've ever done as a 59 year old man
I hear ya brother stay strong