What Do I Regret Most in my RV Life? This may Surprise You
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For the record: through all the hassles, tribulations,.and set backs may I remind everyone Carolyn is still at it after six and a half years.
There's no better confirmation.
Early on she was like Steve in "Without Bound".
"What am I doing?".
Now she's more like what Randy Vining says: "I see people's character and creativity blossom and bloom".
I will be watching!!! Thank you!!!
I can’t imagine how much work the videos are with all the responses you have to make. Stopping to smell the roses is so important and I think we can all admit we forget to do this. Yes, always stop to enjoy yourself for you. You are the most important person. We so forget about this. I’m so ADD that I forget to focus on me and what I need. I fail in doing this. Thank you for touching on this subject matter. You have grown so much over the past 7 years. You are an amazing person and a blessing to me. Thank you for being just you. Hugs
You are making perfect sense. 😊
You made a difference in my life. I enjoy all your posts. I am 78 and lost my husband Fritz 10 years ago. We were campers and enjoyed many places in the USA. I also traveled with my parents as a child. I grew up in rural Pennsylvania near Allentown and for two years in the 50’s we lived in Tucson Arizona. Many of the places you have traveled to I have memories of and through you I can visit them again. You have no idea how you and Sadie bring joy to this old grandma’s heart. God bless the roads you travel and keep you safe.
My mom just passed away 9/9/22, so now I am homeless & unemployed, so heading out in my rv at the end of this month. Heading from California to Washington state first, that's where the remains of my family are & see how it goes from there. I hope I learned enough from your videos to survive the final chapter of my life in my rv.
So sorry about losing your mom. Death is devastating and life is hard. I’ve been there too. Take care and good luck on your new life chapter.
I'm sorry about your mom Tracy. My thoughts are with you. Have safe travels to Washington,and where this next chapter in life takes you.
Have you checked out the HOWA Caravans ? I visited the caravans and found them very welcoming.. they help with the transition into the nomadic way of life
@@avelinomiseray6349 GREAT IDEA❣❣
Wishing you the BEST in your journey❣ Hoping loving memories of your Mom help you through this difficult time😪
I, for one, am so glad you started your RUclips channel and did not look at it as just a hobby. I don’t think you’ll ever realize the people you have helped. 💙
Thank you so much!
So true🦋🦋
I’ve watch a few of your videos most I like some not so much but this one is by far my favorite. It’s as honest as it gets about life on the road. I spent 2 weeks last January in quartzite and really enjoyed it hope to go again next year.
Thank you for sharing the reality of rv life.
Kato.
Amen. Carolyn is a blessing in our lives.
Thank you for the regrets. Many years ago, hubby was gungho about getting a RV and traveling. I went to check out a RV and the man asked me...who wanted the RV, me or the husband. I answered him ...hubby did. He was like " Don't do it!" We had a nice conversation about the trials and tribulations of RV life. We never did buy an RV, but we had a 4x4 off road capable dual crew cab truck. We saw a lot of the US. Sadly, he died several years ago, but I have great memories of many wonderful adventures.
Side note. Trying to talk my sisters into renting one for a week trip..three 60+ women in an RV..can you imagine???
Hope you and your sisters do it!
@Life Is Poetic be Stoic …generally I agree with you.. my brother is an OTR driver. But, what I am looking at isn’t a tow vehicle. Rather it is a small motor home. I drive a Silverado dual cab truck. Love it. I have never had an accident ever. Drove a school bus for two years, so I feel confident in my skills. The sisters would be content just to sit and watch out the window or nap.
Go for it but you need longer than a week.😊
@Life Is Poetic be Stoic Thanks for the advice. It will be small steps to start with. Safe travels.
The trip sounds like fun!
This is one of Carolyn's most potent commentaries.
I compare her issues with mine as an interstate trucker. I couldn't stand it as an employee because the demand is 3,000 or more miles a week.
So, like Carolyn, I sought to buy my own rig.
I found myself still working 3,000 mile weeks to pay for expenses.
Then I decided I had to be debt free. So I finally paid off the truck.
Still wasn't debt free.
The major premise of wanderlust is to wander.
I discovered the "wander" always took a back seat to the bills, real or imagined.
Imaginary bills, those "what if's".
No, no. I just want to be free.
Free to smell the desert wildflowers, the chill of a snowy evening, the crackle of fall leaves under foot, and even the occasional now common smell of burning timber.
It's hard to do any of that burning down the road at 70mph.
Unlike Carolyn who has meet and greet fetes with like the minded, trucking doesn't.
It's difficult to as much as walk my dogs without some gay trucker's intrusion.
I want to spend time with my beagles.
If I wanted constant social events I'd organize a few.
But I don't.
The past year I've holed up on a five acre plot of mostly trees.
I thought it was me, isolating.
There's two other small cabins here.
My brother's daughter and husband fixed one up to stay temporarily after they sold their house.
They, too, find the solitude hard to leave.
They still work. He is a welder who takes jobs all over the country.
She grabs whatever comes along.
I parked my semi all summer and discovered I really didn't miss all the things I thought motivated me.
I generally live like a beagle. Noon doggie naps are the bomb.
Like Carolyn I reevaluate my needs.
Every day the big toys get smaller and the desire to own them less and less.
The real story here is again from Without Bound's quotes "Everything is a trade off between freedom and comfort". "All that stuff. How much does anyone need?"
Without Bound: Great Documentary! Sure made me re-evaluate my life. Wish he'd do a "where are they now" followup.
. . . . and every time I'm cutting the lawn I think of that one lady: " . . .all that time I spent cutting the grass -- and what did that get me?" (or 'where' did that get me, I forget the EXACT quote, but there it is anyway . . . I gotta get out of this 'stix-n-brix'!
Sounds awesome. 👍
I could get struck by lightening watching in awe a coming storm.
That would be a pitiful waste of lightening.
I could get stuck in the snow.
And leave a pristine snow scape ruined by my tire marks.
I could rustle through the golden leaves, scare the squirrels back up the trees to chatter at me for interrupting them.
I could ride my motorcycle down a country blacktop only to have the deer look up from their meal as if to say: " There goes that old man on that noisy thing again".
I could stand out in a downpour and not worry about getting wet only to have my dogs quizzically look out the window and wonder what's wrong with humans.
The small things seem the most potent.
Yet I overlook them because I'm too much focused on what should be rather than what is.
Salesmen want to hook us back in as if we're creating a grave heresy.
Burning at the stake is equal to missing all the small quiet wonders.
The fear is I will become more fond of small wonders at the expense of my brainwashed need to enjoy self burning.
They want me to be poor by spending my slim resources on their products.
That makes me double poor.
Poor in money and spirit.
I can survive being financially poor.
I cannot survive being spiritually bankrupt.
So true!
Hi Carolyn 👋🏻 I was in the woods last week hiking everyday. One day I walked a rail trail 7 mi & I felt great!! 3hrs in a cubicle chair on Monday and I could barely walk when I stood up 😮 I so relate to your statement when you move you feel better 😊 It helps physically & mentally ❤️ I have 67 days until retirement and I am so excited that I will have time, for once in my life, to focus on me & taking care of this aging body, mind & soul ❤ WE can do this 🙌
Again "wherever you go, there you are". The older I get the more this becomes abundantly clear. Geographical cures seldom work except for the wisdom and self awareness we experience. Change is almost always an inside job. ❤
well said LInda!
Your honesty is so refreshing. You are you. What drove you over seven years ago is still you. Your videos have taught me so much, not only about Rving, but about being true to yourself. Thank you and hugs to you and Sadie.
thank you Marion!
It all makes perfect sense. I have recently been rethinking my time spent living in a house. I'm retired and it's so easy to fall down a rabbit hole of social media, especially in our current situation with politics and covid. I removed twitter from my tablet because I was constantly going there mostly out of boredom. I envisioned retirement to be vastly different from my reality. But, guess what? I can change that and I'm gonna. We head out with our trailer this weekend to a remote spot with no cell signal. I can't wait to disconnect and breathe!
I have been following your journey for a few years now. What I have learned from you and other channels is that full timing would not work for me. I realized that I am searching for a simpler, minimal life. That is why I'm building a tiny house (shed) to live in. Someday, I will hopefully be able to afford a van and do some traveling, but I want to establish my home base first. Your videos have inspired me to take steps toward this dream. Far from being a discouragement, you showing your life on the road has helped me to define and reshape my goals into what will work for me. And I thank you for this. ML and safe travels.
This is so true. It's not necessarily about doing RV or van life, it's about seeing that way of life and letting that help determine your own. It's all so interesting.
Thank you! I love watching you. I finally got the courage to comment I’ve been watching you since 2017 when I discovered RV life existed. I’m 65 years old and I’m going to be on the road in a few months you have made all this possible for me. Thank you for the risk you take by being vulnerable and honest and open about your life. Your videos are very educational and interesting and well thought out!
Carolyn
It is : Life learning lessons and not regrets. In my eyes you are staying in charge of you for you. Keep it up up. God Bless you.❤
Carolyn, thank you being so open to share your journey. There are so many couples/families sharing their nomad life on RUclips. I was looking for solo nomads, especially women, and found you. Your channel has been a blessing probably to more people than you realize. It's refreshing to see you being yourself ....a natural woman. Great video, I'll probably go back and watch it again. Safe travels to you and Sadie. 💙💙
I agree. Carolyn speaks to me. The many RUclips channels with families living the rv life or couples living the rv life just don’t apply. Carolyn is one of the best.
Yes; she is so real & true; isn't she
Very informative video. It helps that you share the lessons learned from your travels. What helps me most is the discussion on vehicle maintenance. Tires, electrical, roof repairs, and heating /cooling tips. Another great tip in this video is seeing the country side as you travel. Going 70mph on the interstate you see nothing. Maybe taking more back roads is in my future? As always, thanks for sharing...........
I know what you mean. I am a nomad like you, for years I was a homesteaders.
I lived in the Sierra Nevada Mtns, in May I sold my homestead.
I love my situation now.
You encouraged me to live my dream, no regrets. Thankyou Carolyn.
That is awesome! congratulations Denise!
Your channel as a solo slightly older woman traveling in an RV with your dog really resonated with me. Then I got to know you in all your glory, from Matilda, to Capone, to your new rig, all your adventures, your backpacking and occasional politics and opinions, to tips and tricks, etc and your channel in all of its honesty became my go-to to refer to when considering this life possibility in the future. Thank you for all you have done and continue to do.
The one thing I noticed with your videos is your lack of enjoying your environment but then you mention how you don't stop to smell the roses. I think you have your "your shit together" & know who you are & what you want. This is one of the reasons I find your journey interesting. Thanks for sharing 🚍
Thanks for sharing Carolyn we all have regrets I don't care who you are or what age you are we all have them but the growth and acknowledging them and doing better is what really counts
Caroline, I love your willingness to share your vulnerability. The experience of buying a "lemon" and learning what to watch out for next time made you stronger... as does each new experience. Find your own path, our priorities will change as we try new things... you are an inspiration to me and I am sure many of yours viewers... stay strong!
I've enjoyed watching you evolve over time. It's more difficult for me to see my own changes. Recognizing and evaluating what's working and what's not, and letting go of the "nots" is key to living our best lives.
I haven’t listened to one of your videos for a couple of years. I think the last video I watched you were starting to hike the north west trail.
I realized I will probably never be able to go full time RV. My circumstances have changed. Now I have to live with my son and care for his two boys ages 3 (almost 4) and 7. My son is a paramedic and works 48 hour shifts. At 72, I know I will be to old travel by the time they are grown. Oh well, you go where God puts you and adapt! ❤😊
I can always live my RV life through you. ❤😊🎉
Regrets are hard and we all have them. I think you've done admirably in forging your own path. I hope all your dreams come true ❤️
You're doing great explaining what your regrets have been in your travels( but like you said they're lessons learned). I enjoy your talks, thank you so much. Listening to you is great therapy for me. It's like having a friend that is sharing their life.
Great talk, really enjoyed that even as a sticks and bricks person. What I'm hearing is , living our "best" life is a trade off but the key to wellbeing/contentedess is stopping to 'smell the the roses' along the way. Thank you.
You have been true to yourself!
It comes through on your channel. Been watching you many years now and have seen you evolve. You are a strong and happy woman. You have taken us along your journey of self discovery and growth and shared it with us with honesty, integrity and sincerity. You have positively impacted our lives and made a difference. Your decisions how to go about living a life on your own terms and then sharing that has become your "work" and we're grateful we have been a beneficiary of that for this long.
Commendations to you for this determined effort and accomplishment. And to Sadie!
EXCELLENT and fun video! I have enjoyed watching you grow more comfortable with yourself ❤ You are still rocking being authentically you❤️
Thank you so much!!
Carolyn your always Informative/Educational/Entertaining/Transparent/and I think the world is a better place knowing your in it...IMO LOVE & PEACE!
This was very helpful. Making me reflect on my priorities and the sacrifices I have made to live the life I have lived thus far. Enjoyed it a lot. I look forward to your next vlog.
Carolyn, your videos inspired me. This one is especially for me! I am finally on the road in a 10 yr old, very small travel trailer I inherited after my father’s death earlier this year. I rented out my home 6 yrs ago so I could care for him in his home. When Dad saw I was watching your - and other RVer - videos, he said “you can do this.” He knew my nature, that I would want to run away to the road to grieve and live differently. My grown children are so supportive and I’ve visited both of them this year. I will spend winter in Arizona, and this spring, head to Alaska, where I lived 8 years mostly in the Kenai peninsula. Will hopefully find a caravan for that journey. This dream is now a reality, and I’m living my new life as a solo woman RVer. My most important lessons so far: 1) be flexible. 2) there are many wonderful RVers who like to share their wisdom (and tools!) so I don’t have to live it myself to learn. 3) I don’t have a real schedule so I don’t have to drive far each day, 5 hrs max is what the cats and I like most, but 2-3 hrs is fine, too. I’m still getting to know my RV, so I’m not boondocking yet, though I have dry-camped in RV parks if I wanted to hit the road early the next day. So much to learn, and you covered so many things so I don’t have to learn the hard way. Hope to see you and your followers somewhere down the road!
Number 3 makes so much sense to me! I became a nomad after burnout and chronic illness from running my own business that also had me on the road all the time so now, although I still chronicle my adventures, I've been very conscious of keeping my videos as a hobby and not feeling pressured to any expectations so that I truly can avoid your #4 regret and really enjoy every bit of natural beauty I encounter. 😍
WOW!!! Carolyn you have been successful for? has it been 7 years? that's amazing!!! living in your RV going through life with your two dogs and traveling being solely independent that's incredible!!! absolutely incredible as a single woman so if anything that is a big accomplishment and now you will be journeying into Mexico and trying to live there that's going to be interesting it'll be interesting to see how you do being around the surroundings there, anyway looking forward to the next video mainly because I admire your Independence your determination and the fact that you really don't need people to enjoy life I mean occasionally yes but mainly you've been solo and that's incredible in itself, honestly!!! so stand tall, be proud, and journey independently as a solo woman!!! With your loving companion Sadie!!! which enjoys life just as much as you do!!!💪👍🌞🌛🌿🌱🌳🌲🌵🌻😎✌️❤️😊
Thank you Jeannine!
@@CarolynsRVLife Your very welcome give Sadie a hug and a kiss for me! 🥰
Congrats...to You and Sadie
Carolyn,I've followed you from the first time I read your post. Through the years of my life my health has been getting the better part of me that I'm not willing to take the chance of being to far from Dr's care let alone a hospital. Mine was a dream that is not going to happen but I'm for ever grateful to have been able to travel with you 💛. I'm still a loyal follower and I hope you keep doing it for the rest of us who won't be able to, best of luck to you and Sadie. HAPPY TRAVELS 😊
Your 'regrets' are how I am learning to make decisions for my own journey. I so appreciate you putting your life out there. I now know how I want to camp, I'm 98% sure what type of rig I need, and I do know that electricity is important to me. So in about a year, I'll see you out there!
The best lesson, and I'm not sure who to credit for this quote, but it's worth contemplating: "Wherever you go, there you are!"
I understand, Carolyn... I have had this dream of living off-grid most of my life. I just turned 60 - the idea of having more peace, quiet, and solitude is with me MOST of the time! I have gotten realistic about whether or not I could still do the physical work it would take to keep an off-grid cabin and small homestead going, however. Like you said, everything is a learning opportunity; 'regrets' are only for those who haven't paid enough attention to glean the precious lessons they've been offered. I, for one, am so very glad you decided to have your RUclips channel. Do what feels right for YOU. And, hey... stop and smell the roses! Or pine trees, or... 😘
Carolyn, I just recently found your channel, and I Love it!! You and Sadie are Awesome, and I learn so much from you, and really enjoy getting to See the country, through your travel adventures!! Thank you! I am 61, single female, and one day I hope to do a bit of this, not sure, but it is very intriguing to me! I appreciate your honesty, and I think you are Amazing to have taken this lifestyle on, and learn day by day as you journey through the 24 hours! You will undoubtedly be peaceful and proud of yourself when you look back on all this one day, ( more understanding and gentle with yourself ❤). We all have regrets, and the wisdom of hindsight, that's what life is about I think, learning what works and what doesn't. Anyhow, Thank you so very much! You remind me of Laura Ingalls Wilder 😃👍👍. You and your dear friend Sadie are Amazing and Wonderful!!! 🏞
Welcome Patricia!!!! I'm glad you're here ad I appreciate the very kind and supportive comment!
Thank u for the honesty. I am in what like to think of as ' mid retirement '. I've sold my 80+ hr/ week biz, took my sticky stemi Covid cash and re educated myself w a trade that gives me many of the advantages of ownership but as an employee. I live now as a minimalist, mostly debt free, wk a 30 hr week, and smell all the roses. Van life is my next chosen adventure, I'm probably 2- 4 yrs out, and because I'm just turning 60 I like this timeline of learning to slow down, detoxing from consumerism, and gracefully adjusting from the manic pace of my 40's and 50's to this necessarily slower pace I need my 60's and 70's to become. Love your channel, hope our trails cross someday in the wild blue yonder!
Loved the vid. Listening to your regrets was understandable until #5. #5 seemed to be what life has evolved for you. Not truly a regret unless I didn't get the point.
Think you constructed a more balanced life than b4 RV life. Now you are wiser, little older & can pick & choose what you want 2 do.
Carolyn don't deconstruct but construct as new life & also a new perspective. Get rid of what weighs you down or no joy & go forward. Know it's not simple but worth a go. Best of luck, Love in Sarasota
Thank you for your courageous reflections and your sharing of these with us. You are so thoughtful, self-aware, insightful, and articulate.
I wish you every good thing in your next 7 years of explorations, and plentiful joy and peace on your continued journey.
Definitely stop and see the pretty lake.
Yes girl!!! This was very good information to talk about thank you so much for that! I especially like that you pointed out “ Take the time to stop & smell the roses!” My sentiments exact!🌴🌸🌵🌻🚣🏻🏕🌹
I do appreciate your honesty and self evaluation- makes us all remember to do a periodic self check! Thanks for sharing your rv life with us
I enjoy watching you and your new adventures everyday. I cannot wait to see your adventures to Mexico. I have a brother who moved to Mexico few years ago to the beach. He absolutely loves it. I am hoping to go visit him one of these days. Have a great Sunday. Be happy be safe.
OMG this was very helpful! I’ve spent my life running from one activity to the next with full deep dive obsession, then not understanding why I still felt unfulfilled. My husband and I have talked often of full time rv living, waiting for the right time (responsibility of kids and now parents). I had already realized the that would likely end as so many other things, not necessarily with regret but awareness that it didn’t accomplish what I expected. Your discussion has beautifully clarified why… my circumstances changed but I didn’t change. Genius! Thank you for sharing!!
I'm glad you shared your regrets we all have regrets on this road called life, and they opportunities to look back and see how much he have grown, regrets are lessons learned..have a great day
Carolyn You and Sadie are and have done an Amazing U-Tube program. Thank You Both. Glad to hear your slowing down some.🙋♀️🐶👍😀👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I am grateful for who you are and what you have been sharing with others. It's all about challenging yourself to be better and living your best life in the process.. I did buy a trailer and paid it off so when I retire I'll have a place to live while seeing some of this beautiful country and you have been my inspiration.. so I thank you for that ❤️🤗
It's easy to watch your videos all the way through bc/ they are interesting &/or engaging and/or valuable info! Thanks!
I appreciate that KT.. what a very nice thing to read!! And thanks for the super thanks!!!
Hi Carolyn, I just wanted to let you know that it’s nice to just hear you talk when you can, love getting your perspective on life🙏❤️👍😊‼️✌️💯 thank you !!
That was a great video with tons of info. I’m happy to hear you have stopped long enough to reevaluate your goals. I have 100% confidence in you.💕
You have always been an inspiration for me. I love your authenticity. Keep doing what you are doing. It makes a difference!
Things never happen as I think the will. When I’m in the middle of hard times( we all have them, my trucks broke down now) we forget that we’ve been threw it before and always made it threw. Hindsight is 20-20. Sunsets are always there for our enjoyment if we are there. Thanks for sharing your life with us.
Thank You for sharing Carolyn. Some gems of wisdom in your video! I enjoyed 4 years living and traveling in my oldish 24' C-class on the eastern seaboard of the US, ending last year when I returned to the UK age 74. I enjoyed every minute and it kept me young and fit! I met many wonderful people too. I earned my keep by volunteering in many wonderful places: State Parks, National Parks and a fantastic mountain-top retreat center. (I'm a qualified Life Coach too.) At the same time I was reflecting on my life and two marriages. It's absolutely true that wherever we go, we take our self and all our traits and baggage with us. However, RV life and lots of time close to nature can give us a chance to grow outside of the general rat race and indeed, outside of massive consumerism. You have become so much more self-aware and more conscious of practicing self-care. Those are major achievements! Congratulations on yr personal growth! When we nurture self-love and compassion for our self, and we grow from every challenge - as you do - we have so much more to give to others. Namaste!
I don’t even Liz the RV life. But through you I live a very in rich and courage to do things my way even if they’re wrong. Thank you for giving me the OK to live life to the fullest. We all have regrets art to do something different but you show us we can . So I want to let you know thank you
Carolyn, it's been 7-years for me also, and I remember watching your first videos that fall along with seeing you from a distance as I sensed hour anxiety of being a RUclips celebrity at the RTR. Stay safe little lady and continue inspiring the courage in others who dream of a simpler life of nomadic travels. I’m transitioning into my 2nd RV while loving my overlanding nomadic lifestyle. So remain the safe, happy, and humble little lady you are, and I wish your future becomes the journey of your dreams.
Very interesting. I appreciate your introspection and self reflection. I love your content on both your channels. Stay safe out there.
I appreciated listening to your thoughts and regrets (learning experiences). We all can learn from each other and tonight you gave me a few things to think about. Thank you!
Carolyn, thanks. Just thanks! I’ve enjoyed your journey from almost the beginning. It’s helped me move forward and get a small rv, say adios to a sedentary life style. I’m only a part timer in my rv but oh, the road is a calling! I have enjoyed watching you grow and learning with you. P.S. finding Boondocking is almost a full time job!
Thank you, Carolyn, for sharing. Helping me as I question and reevaluate my fulltimer lifestyle of 6 years.
I thank you Carolyn for all the advice. You are adaptable as anyone could be when living as a nomad; not everything happens as we hope, but we still enjoy the life as it is. You are as an example, giving living proof and being an encouraging figure to others.
Thank you for that Stuart!
Yes, I learned so much! It's all about life lessons and learning to adapt to change from within as well as without. INSPIRATIONAL. MOTIVATIONAL. ENTERTAINING & EDUCATIONAL. THANK YOU again, Carolyn for teaching me more about how to be me!
You are so welcome!
In my senior years, I have peers who are still borrowing money to buy lavish toys and fancy homes. My spouse and I paid of our home and downsized to a small home in the desert. We put in some rocks and planted native plants that don’t need an “iffy” watering system. We are free to take off when we want and don’t worry about keeping up with the Jones. I think your rig is just wonderful and hugging trees brings so much more joy than always looking for the next luxury to feed your ego.
God love &Bless you Carolyn, I do enjoy your channel. I hope you never quit doing you,I am truly loving the journey
Carolyn l have been watching you from the beginning and l have been very impressed with the way you have created this journey and what you have achieved along the way you have always been honest and responsible with what you have said and done and showed the good n bad of RV living.......l feel that you have helped and encouraged many women and some men along the way with their own lives to have a better understanding about how the environment works......to be true to yourself and that life is a fantastic opportunity to see what's going on in the world today and how one person can make a difference in how they live .......you have definitely made my life more interesting and seeing places l had only read about .... l thank you for that ...... 🙏 ❤ 💓 for the time and effort you put into your channel so we can see another side of life and things n places we would not get to see or do ☆☆☆☆☆☆❤ God bless and know you are much appreciated ❤❤❤❤❤
Wow girl. You are amazing. I so love watching you.❤️
You are absolutely right Carolyn, taking care of ones self must come from within ones self , starting with mind , to body . Another RUclipsr named Rusty , was a full time RVr for 25 years , he is now 77 . I think there does come a point in ones life where settling in one spot can be better for your mind and body and Rusty got to that point and purchased property as his home base. I for one could not work and be RVing , it would be play time for me . Curious how many hours in a day , are you actually working not only RUclips but your other work ? Enjoy your life and the adventure , I admire that you do it alone ,that takes some courage for a woman. I can do road trips alone , difference is , I do hotels or Airbnb' s vs in an RV out in wilderness , that's a Yikes for me 😂
You've always been very honest about the highs and lows of RV life. it's much appreciated. I still rememember how sad you were when your first dog died. RVing. or not, it's real life. Thank you. 💌
Life is a journey. You epitomize this. Thank you for sharing. I enjoy & appreciate you.
This is an excellent conversation about what you regretted in your RV life and what you would do better. Each of these are points to consider for those of us planning to hit the road in our RVs!
I really enjoy your videos and commentaries. Thanks for sharing your personal shelf. It is refreshing to hear your thoughts and philosophies.
Good thought process. We need to realize that changing our environment isn’t going to change the way we handle life. I’m looking forward to moving to my land and all the fun things I will get to do there. But really the real work will begin when I get there. I need to take time to do fun things, take a nap or a hike and not obsess about all the chores that will need to be done. I tend to push myself really hard when I have a big project. ‘Take time to smell the juniper trees! ‘ yeah, I like that 👍🏽☺️
"take a nap" --- great hobbies that can be an addiction problem but, there are "worse" addictions, like locking yourself in a room and a piano and no clock to allow it to count; at least it not drugs, then again, some like drugs (is it that bad?, do i have to ask? please don't ask :)
I know what you mean about the snow balling factor. Very good thoughts. Thank you for sharing them.
5 years offgrid.
I started with a 5thwheel rv.
I have built a nice modern cabin .
I have a well and solar and a wood stove . Lpgas cook stove.
I am working on an old 4x4 pickup truck with a camper shell .
I love cruising natural forest
And old dirt roads .
Be safe .peace.
Thank you for extended stem info for duallies, esp caution about rough roads + plastic stems.
Black Bell shivering! Your #2 (experience vs vanity materialism), also a recent video by Kels&Jay regarding their current choice: exactly that opinion that risk taking gets you where you want to be, and experience leaves marks behind.
Great list!
I (we) like going with you, whether you're in an RV or a cabin! Thanks for providing that as long as you want to! Be happy!😊
Thank you gor being so real, I can definitely relate to your way of thinking. I love car camping and want to go bigger but funds don't allow it at the moment. I have been to Maine but will soon venture out farther and farther. Thank you for all of your helpful tips and tricks and can't wait to see more of your videos
I enjoy your videos. They are always honest and informative. I will be traveling in a van. The things you share are useful no matter what your mode of transportation. You are appreciated. Safe travels. Anita
Thank you so much for your thoughts. I’ve learned so much from you and I wish I could take that journey, but I can vicariously.
Thank you Carolyn, for reminding me why I am where I am. And I needed another kick in the butt right now, regarding taking better care of myself 😊🌳🌲🌿🍃🦋🐞🌻🚐 🛣 ⛽🌏
Great Carolyn! I would love that life so much. However, at 81 years of age and being disabled I will have to live it vicariously through you and others who are brave enough to do it!! So have fun, I’ll be watching! 😂
And, I forgot to mention I’m very much looking forward to watching your journey in Mexico! I finally just got a van myself, sure could have used that Jackery but I didn’t submit my story because it would have broke your heart. LOL. I’m glad Uncivilize got it, great choice!! And now I have a fun new RUclipsr to watch too, so thanks for that!
Thank you for the reminder "wherever you go there you are."
I totally enjoy your videos and the wisdom you share. Life's lessons.
'Wisdom is applied knowledge '
I’m so glad you chose the path you did. Your experience has been such a great education for the rest of us. And BTW I also had the same experience with valve stem extenders on my dual wheels (Class C). I have never been off road. Experienced tire people have told me that valve stem extenders are usually a bad idea.
You did well on explaining your regrets. I hope this video help others going out on the road. Thank you.
Thank you for the insight, Carolyn! It is definitely things I am considering when I begin my rv life!!
Thanx for the reminder to be more mindful & responsible for our own choices. Great video!🙂
You are so welcome!
Thanks for sharing these with us💜. It makes perfect sense and it's good to hear your insights and thoughts😊
You are such an inspiration. I have learned so much from you and have watched you from the beginning. Self reflection is sometimes hard to do and you have done it beautifully. I think you made some great observations and wonderful tips to live by. I hope to see you someday on the road or by a lake smelling the roses. ;)
I had been watching you for years and you inspired me to buy a used RV a few years into my disability/retirement. I spent everything I had just dreaming about the freedom, people I would me, and experiencing things that I would never think to. 10min after at least repairing some things and sleeping in her “hakuna matata” for the night in my driveway, we ( my spouse) put her on the expressway Bishop Ford right outside Chicago and went to the beach on 95th. Boy even ten minutes after we left the rig hand in hand we heard a loud boom. Needless to say our baby was hit. The larger vehicle on the beach! Anyhow the pickup managed to hit and run. My RV has Bering storage for two years without us touching her. I need help because I’ve had several back surgeries but I want faith because of your commitment to your journey. Thank you so much!
One thing you've done is to let your feelings out when there's a problem, suss out the next step & finally figure out what the learning opportunity was. Metal valve stems, fixing the roof leak & so on. Another that youve touched on is Opportunity Cost: what each choice will bring vs what you can't do because of the choice you made. And finally, Maslow's hierarchy: we very often see you experiencing self actualization in joy at meeting challenges, immersion in beauty, etc. But you could reach those peaks because you had taken care of the base needs. 😀
Hi I am retired and live in a small cottage in Lagrange, GA. I enjoy your videos so much. I daydream about the places you visit. Take care. Happy Trails!
It's all about the balance! Don't forget to show yourself compassion too!
Number 3 is something I had noticed you being adamant about and it was funny to hear you label it as rigidity! It’s a good lesson to all of us, well at least me because I do the same thing over some silly rule of mine or habit.
I get what you are describing, am so glad you share of yourself and offer much insight.
I check every single video I watch of yours (and others now) to make sure I’m still subscribed 😃
All of the above ... as usual a great video...I am about to go out there myself and I have been asking myself how am I going to do this and rack up the least regrets ... watching this video, gives me some things to avoid or ponder if nuthin else ... Stay safe out there!
Wonderful reflections and personal insights. You are one of three van life channels I follow on a daily basis. Thank you for your clear, honest and precise shares about your travels. I learn more about the lifestyle each time I view one of your videos.