Mindfulness: Tao of Living not Surviving | Jeff Cartwright | TEDxJIBC

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • 28 years as a Firefighter nearly led to Jeff becoming another statistic of first responders that are taken out by their mental health. Understanding the true meaning of Mindfulness and using this gift that is spoken about will change your life and allow you to control your own path to mental and emotional health. This inspiring talk will teach you how to "Live" and not just "Survive". After 28 years as a First Responder, Jeff transitioned into his work as a Crisis Management Specialist and Work Place Mental Health Facilitator. Jeff is an /instructor for the Justice Institute of British Columbia (JIBC) Fire Academy and an instructor for the Center for Counselling and Community Safety (JIBC). In the field of mental health, Jeff has developed many initiatives by introducing the latest techniques and training to the workplace. He is well respected for his ability to connect with people and provide them with direction to support mental health. Jeff was a valuable resource to the BC College of Pharmacists Robbery Prevention Task Force, which drafted new bylaws that came into effect September 15, 2015 in response to the opioid crisis. Jeff brings his admiration and knowledge of Eastern Philosophy into his life as a Facilitator for Workplace Mental Health Education and Leadership Training. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 117

  • @farahjuniper9214
    @farahjuniper9214 3 года назад +11

    "Post traumatic growth." This talk is a call to action to move from self pity. Really needed this talk today.

    • @jeffcartwright3024
      @jeffcartwright3024 3 года назад +2

      I'm glad it helped you Farah. Your comment is very appreciated, thank you

  • @theoriginaltedtok
    @theoriginaltedtok 3 года назад +6

    Surviving is something I see and feel everyday. When we see anger or become anger sometimes life is just too hard to process.

  • @chelseasavage5990
    @chelseasavage5990 4 года назад +13

    👏 🙌 👐 🤲Namaste Jeff, really great talk👏 🙌 👐 🤲

    • @jeffcartwright9799
      @jeffcartwright9799 4 года назад +2

      Thank you so much Chelsea. You taking time out of your day to send me this comment is amazing! Have a fantastic day

    • @williambessel4970
      @williambessel4970 4 года назад +2

      Chelsea, great share.

    • @t-bonebranson
      @t-bonebranson 3 года назад +1

      He's so fabulous

  • @umitkrca
    @umitkrca 4 года назад +6

    Mindfulness, when you carry it and spread it you feel it - amen.

  • @dangeraldporter
    @dangeraldporter 4 года назад +20

    The more the world move to the Tao the closer we get to consciousness.

  • @eric-tran
    @eric-tran 3 года назад +6

    i'm all about this!! we are all exactly where we are meant to be - what we can learn, how we can grow, well that's up to us. amazing tedtalk!

    • @jeffcartwright3024
      @jeffcartwright3024 3 года назад +3

      Thank you very much Eric, I'm glad you enjoyed it!

  • @dimamoharev
    @dimamoharev 4 года назад +3

    Mindfulness, gratitude, empathy and understanding - such amazing qualities to have in life. They bring so much peace. What a journey this man has had, and now he pays it forward with spreading the knowledge he has acquired. Taoism is such a humble way of understanding and directing our energy.

  • @felicityhalette
    @felicityhalette 3 года назад +1

    I've watched a lot of people change and not for the good based on the responsibilities of career. Its wonderful to see messages like this to help people find their inner zen.

  • @kirstenviesitle
    @kirstenviesitle 4 года назад +8

    Amazing!!! Such a good talk for right now!!!

  • @emmatshields
    @emmatshields 3 года назад +1

    Nothing makes me smile and connect a little bit more than when someone refers to old tech like a pagers and a phone booth.

  • @jackiehathway
    @jackiehathway 3 года назад +4

    Note to self, allow people to help you. Thanks Jeff

    • @farahjuniper9214
      @farahjuniper9214 3 года назад +2

      good note. think we could all do with it.

    • @jeffcartwright3024
      @jeffcartwright3024 3 года назад +2

      You're welcome Jackie! We have to remind ourselves sometimes before we get too far out of balance. Thank you for sharing

  • @bachtran957
    @bachtran957 4 года назад +3

    Thank you, Jeff. You seems like a good person with the right kind of energy. That's so rare nowadays.

    • @jeffcartwright3024
      @jeffcartwright3024 4 года назад +2

      Thank you Bach, I appreciate the kind words. I believe that the majority of the people we meet are good people with positive energy to share, they just need to be shown how to be conscious. Have a great day and thank you for watching.

  • @jycintabrown
    @jycintabrown 4 года назад +7

    We are in this together and yet all we ever hear about is how to succeed, how to measure it, and how to brag about it. All our systems drive humans to produce and put aside what we feel.

  • @tterrydoyle
    @tterrydoyle 3 года назад +2

    It's so important to remember, even at our lowest, the people in our lives are not just background characters, they are the main characters in their own stories and our actions, our reactions, can and will affect how they travel. Be kind, be empathetic. Loved this man's story!

  • @alibabagurjiani
    @alibabagurjiani 4 года назад +4

    this is so rad. ya can tell this guy believes in what he's talking about, he's got such an energy about him.

  • @angelaharvey9868
    @angelaharvey9868 2 года назад

    This talk was exactly where I need to be today! Beautiful

  • @CDNFf02
    @CDNFf02 4 года назад +10

    Thank you Jeff.

  • @javadnajafii1035
    @javadnajafii1035 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Jeff, this gives me understanding as I have no idea of what the front line feels like at the end of the day. It takes an exceptional person to do this, and recognize what needs to change.

    • @jeffcartwright9799
      @jeffcartwright9799 3 года назад +1

      Thank you Javed for the very kind words. I'm glad you enjoyed it!

  • @milagroczarnecki
    @milagroczarnecki 3 года назад +1

    I love that, asking someone how they are and ensuring they tell you how they're feeling.. What a way to really get to the heart of peoples emotions and what drives them. So enjoyed this talk! Thank you!

  • @eliseseveniegn
    @eliseseveniegn 3 года назад +3

    Such an inspiration, your experience is helping us move beyond the chattering mind of destruction . Thank you Jeff.

    • @jeffcartwright3024
      @jeffcartwright3024 3 года назад +3

      Thank you very much for your kind comments Elise.😊

    • @eliseseveniegn
      @eliseseveniegn 3 года назад +2

      @@jeffcartwright3024 Thank you for replying, you are so kind.

  • @theothersideofego
    @theothersideofego 4 года назад +17

    My new best friend, great talk and a better man. I aspire to have his sense of goodness.

    • @chelseasavage5990
      @chelseasavage5990 4 года назад +3

      Thanks for sharing this Mr. Gravenor!!

    • @jeffcartwright9799
      @jeffcartwright9799 4 года назад +4

      Thank you very much Jonathan! I was so excited that someone with your experience and professionalism watched my talk. I am more excited that I can now call you a friend.

    • @michealdrozd
      @michealdrozd 4 года назад +3

      Yo JG, great share bro!

    • @dangeraldporter
      @dangeraldporter 4 года назад +3

      Good share Jonathan, thanks for posting this.

    • @therealbellasantarosa
      @therealbellasantarosa 4 года назад +2

      I saw your shout out on this, thanks its an awesome talk.

  • @Elusive-Khan
    @Elusive-Khan 3 года назад +3

    I just need to get through this and I'll be ok. I say this everyday and then just keep pushing on.

  • @michaelhunt635
    @michaelhunt635 4 года назад +3

    this guy has quite a spark hey

  • @tonyiquintero
    @tonyiquintero 4 года назад +3

    Well this wasn't what I was expecting when I was searching Taoism on youtube... But here I am feeling more inspired than ever. Jeff, you're incredibly resilient! Really grateful I've stumbled across this, this mission I've been on for a while now seems a lot more doable after watching you!!

    • @jeffcartwright3024
      @jeffcartwright3024 4 года назад +3

      Thank you so much for the kind words Tony! The Tao is a way of life and now that your journey has started, it will make more sense to you as every day passes. I don't believe you stumbled across my talk....it was the right time for you to find it.😉

    • @tonyiquintero
      @tonyiquintero 4 года назад +2

      @@jeffcartwright3024 True, thank you again!

  • @mangocantu5382
    @mangocantu5382 4 года назад +34

    Why is we must seem to have to suffer before we find peace?

    • @jeffcartwright3024
      @jeffcartwright3024 4 года назад +4

      Thank you for watching my talk Mango. We don't need to suffer before we find peace or happiness, it's just that often times we need to have adversity and challenges to show us that we have had peace within us dormant all along. I would recommend you look at the 4 noble truths and the 8 fold path in Buddhism, this will give you some enlightenment and understanding of Dukkha.
      Carl Jung said "there is no coming to consciousness without pain" and "I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become."
      Be patient and be conscious in your daily life, soon you will find that the answer you're looking for was there all along.
      Be well, Jeff

    • @chinadiggs543
      @chinadiggs543 4 года назад +2

      I know seriously we do!

    • @rusticsettings
      @rusticsettings 4 года назад +2

      love this talk Mango!

    • @winnipooh3212
      @winnipooh3212 3 года назад +2

      exactly, so true.

    • @mangocantu5382
      @mangocantu5382 3 года назад +2

      @@rusticsettings welcome welcome, be mindful!

  • @georgiarouse
    @georgiarouse 3 года назад +2

    Sharing your pain could be considered selfish because it makes you feel so much better, except remember it also helps others to heal.

  • @olgasladekova
    @olgasladekova 4 года назад +4

    Its great hearing this story from the front line, where it leads the mind and distorts the personality. Good work, great talk and everyone who is just surviving should listen.

  • @sammyllee
    @sammyllee 4 года назад +19

    Spread the Tao of the lotus nature😍 🥰perfect man really perfect😍 🥰

    • @josuelepiere
      @josuelepiere 4 года назад +2

      Good add Sammy, this is solid!

    • @jeffcartwright9799
      @jeffcartwright9799 4 года назад +3

      Thank you Sammy, you made my day! Kind words have power.

    • @sammyllee
      @sammyllee 4 года назад +2

      @@jeffcartwright9799 Great talk Jeff, hope I get to see you live one day doing a talk!

    • @konglum
      @konglum 4 года назад +2

      you can tell how at peace he is!! it's beautiful

    • @alextwarburton
      @alextwarburton 4 года назад +2

      I really liked this talk, made sense out of something I had heard about but didn't understand.

  • @thomashurbert
    @thomashurbert 4 года назад +2

    I got so much out of this talk. I definitely need to do some research into Taoism now. Sounds so cool! I do have to say as well, I'm really happy you found a doctor who understood and listened to you. It's hard to find, especially with this Mental Health crisis.

  • @coopercrank
    @coopercrank 3 года назад +2

    Mental health and choice are often on a collision course. In some ways its easier to hold on to your pain and wear it as a badge. There is odd comfort in the safety of staying sick on auto pilot and numbness.

  • @ermacohen
    @ermacohen 3 года назад +1

    Emergency workers are very special people.

  • @dennisdanilla
    @dennisdanilla 4 года назад +2

    wow! what a beautiful beautiful path this guy has taken. incredibly inspiring!!

    • @jeffcartwright3024
      @jeffcartwright3024 3 года назад +2

      This guy is glad you found it inspiring Dennis. Thank you for the kind comment!

  • @mycrazylifeismine
    @mycrazylifeismine 3 года назад +3

    The Lotus Flower grows in filth, much to learn here with hands on experience.

  • @kogordanuk
    @kogordanuk 4 года назад +4

    I know a few firefighters who suffer some severe depression and PTSD!

    • @jeffcartwright3024
      @jeffcartwright3024 4 года назад +2

      Thank you for watching Kogor, please pass on my talk and hopefully they will see that it can and will get better when you ask for help. We are trained to handle situations and ask for backup when needed. When we ask for backup we stay in command/in charge but never walk away. When it comes to our mental health, sometimes we need to walk away for a bit.

    • @kogordanuk
      @kogordanuk 4 года назад +2

      @@jeffcartwright3024 thanks Jeff, I have passed this on.

  • @michealdrozd
    @michealdrozd 4 года назад +5

    2nd time seeing this, popped up in my group today, does it seem to sound too cliche if I say I am grateful it did?

    • @jeffcartwright3024
      @jeffcartwright3024 4 года назад +2

      Micheal, I'm grateful that I read your comment, kindness always prevails! Thank you for watching twice 😊

  • @chinadiggs543
    @chinadiggs543 4 года назад +2

    Be a new normal, wow.

  • @zackpinonet
    @zackpinonet 4 года назад +2

    😍 🥰 😘Namaste😍 🥰 😘Perfect😍 🥰 😘

    • @jeffcartwright3024
      @jeffcartwright3024 4 года назад +2

      Thank you Zack for the kind words, I wish you well.

  • @BitBard302
    @BitBard302 11 месяцев назад

    This is quite enriching. For a deeper understanding, pick up a book that delves into similar subject matter. "A Life Unplugged: Reclaiming Reality in a Digital Age" by Theodore Blaze

  • @jankyrose5449
    @jankyrose5449 3 года назад +1

    Luckily Daoism is starting to make a comeback! I genuinely believe if our Western Society was taught more about balance we wouldn't have half the issues we face these days.

  • @linknero1
    @linknero1 3 года назад +2

    I can't believe someone could make a video like this, preposterous

    • @eliseseveniegn
      @eliseseveniegn 3 года назад +2

      why is it preposterous? have you looked into taoism? it's pretty awesome.

  • @winnipooh3212
    @winnipooh3212 3 года назад +4

    Thank you Jeff, this gives me understanding as I have no idea of what the front line feels like at the end of the day. It takes an exceptional person to do this, and recognize what needs to change.