He never said you were completely happy and content just that you need to be comfortable with your own company. Though you should be happy with your own life before looking to add to it. Now happy and content are not the same thing obviously and you can be completely happy with your own life and still want more. that is when it is time to look for someone else. You want to bring them in to add to your existing happiness rather than to be the source of it.
@@QuickMadeUpName Synergy. 1 + 1 = 3. Even though you're complete on your own, with someone else in the picture, you can create something more together than just by yourself.
In the year 1 BC (before corey) I was a 97% man...1 AC (after corey) after reading the book and applying the principles im a 3% man and loving it. Much love CW
Read the book over 20 times. Implemented and got more lays than ever before. Only problem is, as Corey mentioned, the cultural archetypes have changed and, eventually the women in my age range eliminate themselves by bringing drama and ghosting. Most women prefer to be alone nowadays in my experience. Most are focused on their careers and building resources for themselves and are very rarely the feminine ideal that Corey espouses. I eventually went MGTOW after a lot of fun out in the dating pool, not strictly, mind you, but I no longer look for or pursue women with any expectation or real effort and am just focusing on my own self growth. I think coreys advice works, attraction ques are spot on and the philosophy is solid, but, in a culture that is beginning to decay, you can do everything right and still have difficulty finding anything serious and worthwhile. As I’m sure Corey would agree, a good women is rare.
Agreed. Many women are naturally more at ease in resting bitch mode. They'll be whatever you desire for a while before coldly sabotaging the situation, as plenty of guys can confirm. That's because they're without the nurturing empathy spoken of here.
Gotta write down the 30+ positive qualities you want in the women you want to be with. Out of those 30+, you'll probably hit 5 to 10 that is out there for you. Anything beyond those, you're in the bonus
Happy to have found Coach Corey Wayne & the book, How To Be A 3% Man. I’ve read it 10 times now, and the material just works but more importantly is foundational to every successful man who can easily attract high quality women. Thanks Coach.
Thanks, coach for having changed my life. I went from begging to women, giving flowers, chocolates, calling them up at all times, etc, to being pursued. I have 2 girls, who both work at the same restaurant, competing for my attention, I work out, dress stylish, have a purpose and mission, am a better father, and an overall better human being. I have been following you since January of 2013. I have passed your message to several of my friends, not all of them have embraced it but the one who has, has also been experiencing huge changes in his life. I talk so much about you, they call me the Corey Wayne of Northern Boulevard, NY :-). God bless you always dear coach!
I read Corey Wayne’s book over 30 times. It worked so well that it was scary how accurate he is when it comes to womens behavior! When you read the book repeatedly life becomes EFFORTLESS. I can’t tell you how many women look at me when I got my girl on my arm. Thanks Corey!
"The idea is to go slightly slower than she does." Thanks, Coach! And yes, your work does apply to anyone with a more masculine core. I'm a woman myself, lol.
Coach I had a spiritual dream with you in it. Loved the dream, was full of symbolism and really showed me that following your work has been the correct decision in my life’s path. Much love from Beijing, China.
This is one of the best videos ever. I’ve been laughing at you hitting the book off the camera but it’s so true you have got to do the work and listen to the book. I’ve stared dating a girl and it’s so effortless as I have the understanding now from trying to be a good student. I’m now half way through 12th time listening :-) Thanks Coach!
The method talked about in the beginning + acting on the quote, turned a very structured 10/10 back to me 7-months after my last pursuit. I always thought structured women were lost causes but as stated, nature is nature when it comes to attraction. *Large importance on absolutely moving on when you back away. I’m glad I didn’t budge into what she was told to expect from a man; Go figure, from less than good role models on the subject. I’m 100% sure it will have put me into the other men’s categories, who eventually get rejected by her, and never receive a burning level of attraction.
I didn't go to college and my sex/love life was trash in my 20s, when you're out at night the hottest girls are with their college boyfriends,so you're left with slim pickings,unless you're in the right career or the right social situation
Followed your steps, kept my chase light enough to build mystery, it worked lol she was excited to come to my place, said all the right things showing she wanted me and liked coming to my place, bonfires, garden interest and then I noticed her slow pullback with the good mornings, her calling me, just suttle hints she thought I wouldn’t notice except I seen it early on and she said all the things showing me she wanted to see me at my place mostly, then she said she wanted to be honest and told me an x added himself on her instagram but she wasn’t going to follow him back and wanted me to know ! This is several months dating by this time, then magically she acted all weird and it was like pulling teeth to get a straight answer out of her, to plan our usual time together and she’d spend days with me, like the last several months was met with her excited to see me and stay days on end ! Then the lame excuses started, I got diminished outta nowhere and was told she has no time for anyone all of a sudden and she wasn’t happy !! The whole time she brought up moving in together, new job searching was high on her agenda, and the last day she spent with me she laughed, initiated intimacy, non stop conversations like always and I went from on top of the world that last day spent with me to next day, she was cold, diminished me more after I debunked all her lame excuses, over and over and didn’t even speak to me one on one, like a normal person who claims to care, would, and wham bam, my name is mud, and this instagram account that wasn’t there before that had no picture, no posts she was following after telling me she wasn’t going to, this guy x didn’t mean anything to her lol !! What a slap to the giblets lol it’s true, not being needy and not over pursuing worked but what the hell happened lol !! I’ve made my intentions clear, and no contact ever again like you suggested once she quits on me is what I’m doing ! Lesson learned lol never go back to an x !! Fall forward and never look back !! I’m the prize and she missed out ! Walking away is hard as hell but necessary if you are a confident man !! Thanks for this video, makes sense !!
Coach, did a lot of this well over the past 15 months but it was all in vain. Made basic mistakes but covered them well with experiences and pulling back and reading and applying your book. However, backing off led her to connect more with her orbiters which also led her to connect with her ex. He managed to convince her that her and I didn't have much of a relationship and within a matter of weeks she just flipped for the ex (after over a year and a half of top tier hanging out, having fun and hooking up). Worse still, she strung me along till the end with demonstration of high attraction and chasing my presence (over 80% of the chasing) yet chose the ex over me...
Worse still, the ex was chasing and demonstrating low value (but spoke himself up). She did have poor boundaries with orbiters but effectively chased after me whenever I pulled back as a result. She demonstrated high interest and attraction, yet she lost it in a matter of days, even though I wasn't chasing (but was off center because of the games she played)... Lost the love of my life to fickleness and a scumbag ex who didn't care she was with someone...
4:38 Women are relationship focused and men are mission and adventure focused - trying to achieve something in life and achieve something in life, trying to make their dreams a reality.
First date great, ended with kissing. 2weeks later 2nd date, even better, lot of sign, and mid-date she initiated the kissing, later more kissing. Long distance, had to catch the bus (mid-week) because of work next day. Then no reach out by her, so I called her like 4-5 days later, and man she was MAD, angry, fustrated. That I play some kind of game, why havent I called her sooner, she was questioning herself and that now she feels repelled by me. Calmed her down, eventually set up an to the upcoming weekend. Which she cancelled 3 days before that she in unsure, then changed her mind on the same night, then the day before told me she is feeling sick, so I told her get well first, then once she is okay let me know so we can meet. Eventually she said no, lets meet up. That date was a 180 degree, slowly she opened up, but was acting somewhat distant till late night, but ended with kissing again. Asked her if she is up for a tea before I leave next day by the bus (long distance). And I got the bomb again plus some more: "look i feel frustrated, repelled, unsure, anxiousness, and some need for self-provement which is just not right. I just does not feel it. No desire, no spark, no chemistry on my end. But we can be friends." Okay. Sounds like fun! I guess one bullet dogded.
Thanks Corey for everything. Take it from me, but just get on with your life and participate and you'll have more women than you can deal with. You don't need women, you need a life and the women will come.
Well I am 30 years and the advice comes too late. I was a good person and student and when I was 20 everyone sad that I am very mature and already know what I want in the future. I wanted a special job so I got into the law school. Unfortunately your brain can't evolve if you don't undergo experiences. Sadly every women rejected me. They sad I am ugly or they saying other excuses to being polite. But the problem was when I look in the mirror I didn't saw a ugly person. I was fine. Other people or in groups and friends so an saw nothing ugly in me and they always thought I have many chances. They thought I could have women. So I lived this contrary life. This contrary between harsh rejection and beeing insulted and on the other side people wo think I can get nearly every girl destroyed my mind. On every evening, every party, even at the school and university they behaved very bad. When I sit everywhere they look and talk. So even if I closed the women case they still behave like shit to me in the daily doing. Oh yes there were fine women too. Who said that I am very nice, charismatic and so on. But they always rejected because I am not attractive enough. But what angrys me was sometimes they meet and have sex with guy who clearly where ugly and not even looking descent like me. But they sad "don't be ridiculous you are more ugly then other normal ugly men". An some sad that even in a friendly way. Even drunk girls and even the ugliest wouldn't want to talk me. They don't even want to write. No chance. My phone is empty. Dating online no one likes my pictures even they look very good. People or strangers ask me if I have a girlfriend when smalltalk or assume I have I tell them no but they don't belive me. What I want to say is I lost because of this topic a century. I lost 10 years. I was 20 and I had a goal. I worked hard and wanted to go into politics. I could have achieved it. People saw what I can do and I was a very intelligent and charismatic guy. But in my 20's I wanted also to be like others and normal and feel as a men and a bit of love etc. All the kind of thins which everyone needs to feel integrated and feel normal in the circle of others. So I lost my original way and chased after this topic and women. I closed it now with 30 years even it saddens me. But I saw that women lie and betray. They even behave differently depending on how the men looks like or what money he has. For the one men there mother is in the hospital while when you write with a ohtwr fake profil or aks a friend to write they have work but can meet up after that. It is so hypocritical. And I am not an incel but I hate most of the women. They are all the same. Even the ones who look or behave innocent. Every men is for them disposable depending on what life the women is in. When they young they sleep with many men's. Then when they are old or go into the job they look for a men wo is fool enough to stay and provide. Even IIIIIIIII had 4 Dates. Me the guy who don't even get a like on Tinder or on other sides even I set the settings to different county's just to try out. I who got rejected even from the girls who liked me and feel something and were drunk or ugly and sad "I want to to I like you you perfect and I wanted but I can't touch you I can't you are too ugly". If I was ugly I would accept it! But I never could because I don't look so bad. I even look very descent (not a model) but I look charismatic and get compliments. But even the ones who compliment don't want to meet or sleep with me. But I saw the truth face of 80% women. They take what they need and then throw it like garbage when they need something else. When the time comes they say "I want a real men to be in a relationship I deserve that". But before that they fucked everyone and now she looks for guys who were they guys she ignored before. Sad part ist even I am 30 and lying about my profession and say something just to try out what happens it has no effect. They don't want. NOWWW I don't even want a relationship or love. I saw it. It is mostly a lie. Many women or men betray their partner. Or they are together just not to be alone. Or ohter reasons like money or kids or house or just to say "look I have someone I can go to the restaurant". Or be in the competition with their friends and circle and saying to have a boyfriend or husband to raise her status up. And so on. I don't want that lying women anymore. But I want is respect. But I don't get it. They laugh at me the other compliments me. How the fuck you are going to live with this contradicitionary. And the most important part to say, unfortunately, is: because all of that and because I feels very sad and angry I didn't make it in life. I lost my scholar ship, I lost every money I have. I am 30 now and didn't get a diploma from university. I only have examine for the first semesters. So no money. 10 years lost. Staying there like I stand 10 years before, back to parents and thinking how am I going to restart unter these hard circumstances to study again? No money, no time, not the same brain energy like before. And parallely to accept that everyone rejects me but now feeling that I don't want even a relationship or women in my life but at the same time still want the respect as a men and that women should write meet up and have sex with me. I can't ignore my nature. I can't live without the respect. Even in daily life everyone wants to flirt but me I am beeing insulted. Sure there are ones who are nice. But they only beeing nice because I am polite or sympathetic or charismatic or being brave to go to talk to women. I can even talk to women in stores or the street. They don't run. They talk! They laugh and so on. Everyone who saw that sad that I am doing good. Or sometimes girls like me and everyone else thinks this is my girlfriend or she is into me. But no sex, no meeting not chatting nothing! 80% says ugly ugly guy and ignore and the rest likes me and more but can't handle my ugliness so they try but fail to want me. So they beeing polite and nice. But if women even strangers who I even meet the second before are beeing to nice but don't want me every men even friends and outsiders see it as she is into me. But no chance. So how am I going live these fucking life with hard restart even in the journey in my 30's I still don't geht respect. How am I supposed to feel good and satisfied and concentrate on my subject and diploma when in reality I feel shit. Even I feel good it is just a illusion. Because of you step outside there is the reality you beeing rejected insulted. Even if you don't look at a women they don't want you to sit next to you talk about me (yes they do) even when I am somewhere where I was never before. I can't live with this shit behavior. I want to to and eat or work or go wherever I want and when I ignore women and be neutral some of them still hating. I don't even try to come closer. Still some behave like this. And I had such a good ahead. But is failed and destroyed everything and with 30 there is no chance to compensate those lost 10 years. It is impossible. And now I have to restart but under extreme hard circumstances just to be 35 or 40 and then have job and then certainly a shitty one just to be ignored again. Because then they still don't want me. How I know that? Well you make the future test. Just go outside or online and say you are working here and there. That you have money and status. Still they see you as not qualified. But the men who looks ugly, isg 40, and has no hair still can chat and meet up and I see many of them. Wow. What the fuck!!! I don't get it. Even the ones who like character meet with ugly guys and have sex or relationship and still when it comes to me "no no no you are above ugly and disgusting". Good life. Like this how the world is to me I can't sit down and learn and concentrate like nothing is wrong. I were lying to myself and beeing in an illusion and living it.
Ah forgot something. If they didn't want me now and in the past and if they want me when I am old and have money and status, I don't want them. I am not the fool here. They loving and fucking in their early 20's and then think they deserve a good and strong men? No no no :D this ist ridiculous.
"Present the image that you're selective, even if you don't have a lot going on." This is what I needed to hear today. It's where my head is right now. I don't have a lot going on and I'm floundering a bit, but I'm still giving off an image of mission, purpose and goals. This is just a temporary rut that I'm in. Recognize it, experience it and then move forward.
Excellent advice as always Corey! Always got a bad feeling about modern romances in film these days but couldn't quite place it. What does it really mean when a Woman says you're "pushy"? Had a woman tell me this years ago that I was head over heels for xD
I was dating a girl for about a month and a half. she was very attracted at first, I was using the knowledge of the book. But then at our last date. She said out of nowhere we should stop seeing each other because she doesn't want a serious relationship. I got like WTF? Because I never said anything about relationship, and we were just seeing each other once a week or two
First, forget trying to find a reason she did this. Could be a lot of things: other dudes, a personal issue, or she simply read the situation differently than you. Regardless, this is why we have to be dating multiple women at a time. If you have two or three girls your dating and one does something like this. You say “Oh, ok cool. Well let me know if you change your mind.” And you’re off to the next one. The fun bus doesn’t stop moving, she just got off.
As mentioned, there could be 1 or a lot of reasons why she said that. But always watch what people do, not so much what they say. The best thing to do is back off and let her come to you. You may have over pursued over the phone or acted in a way that turned her off... or not! It could be something going on with her. It doesn’t matter! Yeah it sucks but her lost, not yours! Be DIFFERENT then other guys and walk away. Be nice, be charming and let her know to call you once she figures things out and that’s it. Date other women so you don’t stay stuck on just one. She’ll either come back or won’t. Women are like cats! Let her be... you are a BUSY guy anyway. Walk and never look back until she contacts you. Leave the door open for her, but don’t be standing by the door either.
@RAJPUT King i'm gonna quote you: -All her Abuse (Creating Arguments to Disappear & Disapearing Acts ) -Lies & making Arguments on the phone -when confronted she would Turn call off & switch the phone off All Night. -Manipulated an Argument with me -she went crazy & while she is shouting & screaming.. -Told me she is a Narcissistic Half way at your post and so many red flags. You'r obviously not doing everything right but do you want a woman who makes you feel like that? Are you gonna put up with that for 30-40 years? Some girls can make seriously great first impression (buying you things, being just perfect, makes you hard about 20 times a day, great sex etc.) and when the first 3months are over, so is the great girl and you tell yourself she is gonna behave like that in the future but no matter what you do or don't do... you know.. she wont. I know that you think "what if i don't make mistakes, she probably will behave good". You always make mistakes and when you do, you want a partner who has the skill to talk about it and make things good again. Not some screaming teen who is not willing to make things right for days or weeks, it's called mental abuse. They learn it from home. Probably your girl doesn't have healthy family values either?
@RAJPUT King In my case she even told me she was narc at the beginning but i just skipped it in my head because at that point she didn't seem like one. Even if i feel dumb, she was so damn pretty i can't even be that mad at myself :D Gotta say i learned alot and wont make that mistake again. There is some same patterns how it goes. They try to arque more and next time little bit more and blame you for it. I even asked "do you make any mistakes in your life?" and she freezes, so i asked again "what mistakes have you done?" yeah.. as you might guess she don't make mistakes. going further everything you say is somewhat negative even if everything you say is positive. And if you don't get pissed, it makes her more angry.. this was the point i took off. Yeah its good to talk to people, maybe we can find some more clear patterns?!
Hey coach, applying this now. But is there a reason to give a 2nd chance after being ghosted? I kinda caused that but found your work to late in life. 🤷♂️. You and Appolonia Pontti have opened my eyes. I will be buying your book.
Well if you’re ghosted you’re probably already beyond the point of repair. So AN option is to just burn the whole thing to the ground. What do you have to lose? I wouldn’t because it promotes weak behavior. Just forget her and date someone else.
Although the book is mostly for men, it also shows women why their emotions are a certain way when they're around men. Therefore the core principles still applies
Seems nowadays women are adventure focused and focused on their mission, career, purpose etc and men are relationship focused. What happened? Men have become soft and gullible.
I need help. I am a complete mess. I got dumped by my 15year partner out of the blue back in September. I had no idea of what no contact was. I broke all the rules. I have begged, pleaded, cried and everything I’m not supposed to do. I have just gone into no contact today. Is it too late for me?
It is never too late, even if you don't get her back at least you WILL get your dignity and respect back as a man. If it is too late you will have to move on anyways and the sooner you start the better, if it is not too late you will hear from her. Move on right now, no contact, get new clothes, join a salsa class, join a gym or martial arts. Good luck
@@PM-hx1ds I wish it was that easy. I’m normally the most confident guy in the room but I’m a complete mess right now. I’ve lost 32lbs in 8 weeks. We have 2 kids together so no contact is hard.
As unfortunate and shitty as all that is you’re in the right place. Buy Corey’s book and read that thing 10-15 times. You have to take control of yourself and realize your thoughts and emotion are not your own. These are chemicals and can be overcome. If it’s her you really want back then at some point your going to realize the only way to do that is by working on yourself and moving past HER. You guys were together awhile and have emotional history so no, it’s not too late as you say. But don’t fall into the trap of thinking anything will change if you get back together. The problems you had will still be there. If you listen to Corey and read the book I wouldn’t be surprised if you come to the conclusion that it’s run it’s course and you’ll end up with someone even better.
My girl of 2 years and I broke up for a few days bc I got complacent, she is bi and wants to experiment strictly physically with girls, should I be cool with this? I can also see other women.
@@lifeisabeginning Don’t forget its not your job to fix a woman. She may make a great friends with benefits but do not get emotionally involved with someone diagnosed as BPD.
whats your thought if your in your late 30s but im not successful nor making lot money-kind low spectrum. im single and still looking and its tough especially since virus time. should i jsut settle with girl im dating or keep playing the field.
Corey you say to use communication as a tennis match.. dont say anything until she responds and so on.. if thats true then how can the man do 20 to 30 % of the contact? Wouldn't the tennis rule make that 50/50‽
I like that you didn't get too insulting to the other political party. I respect you it's just can be hurtful/polarizing to hear a mentor insult a political view of yours.
@@CoachCoreyWayne Because I look up to you and I have friends who are republican and I never see a need to insult them. We are who we are based on our experience and I cannot judge others for theirs. Much love coach. Stay healthy.
Summarized version... you want a short cut to success so you can fuck it up down the road when it matters even more? There are no short cuts. You’re basically saying you don’t want to succeed. Follow the processz
Scarface said it . " that b!@&h is a problem can't live with, cant live without her. My advice to you is stay on your grind. Keep that b!@&h on her back and your bank on your mind" 😎😁
The key to mastering women is master your own life first being comfortable with your own company rather than the need to fill a void.
If someone was completely happy and content with their own life, then why have someone else in your life?
He never said you were completely happy and content just that you need to be comfortable with your own company. Though you should be happy with your own life before looking to add to it. Now happy and content are not the same thing obviously and you can be completely happy with your own life and still want more. that is when it is time to look for someone else. You want to bring them in to add to your existing happiness rather than to be the source of it.
@@lorenforkgen8339 And if they are the source of your happiness, then it becomes Needy*
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Synergy. 1 + 1 = 3.
Even though you're complete on your own, with someone else in the picture, you can create something more together than just by yourself.
In the year 1 BC (before corey) I was a 97% man...1 AC (after corey) after reading the book and applying the principles im a 3% man and loving it. Much love CW
@Music Biz Moriarty even being a 25% man isn't too bad. Just don't be less than that.
Read the book over 20 times. Implemented and got more lays than ever before. Only problem is, as Corey mentioned, the cultural archetypes have changed and, eventually the women in my age range eliminate themselves by bringing drama and ghosting. Most women prefer to be alone nowadays in my experience. Most are focused on their careers and building resources for themselves and are very rarely the feminine ideal that Corey espouses. I eventually went MGTOW after a lot of fun out in the dating pool, not strictly, mind you, but I no longer look for or pursue women with any expectation or real effort and am just focusing on my own self growth.
I think coreys advice works, attraction ques are spot on and the philosophy is solid, but, in a culture that is beginning to decay, you can do everything right and still have difficulty finding anything serious and worthwhile. As I’m sure Corey would agree, a good women is rare.
This is gold! You're my man! 👌🏻
Agreed. Many women are naturally more at ease in resting bitch mode. They'll be whatever you desire for a while before coldly sabotaging the situation, as plenty of guys can confirm. That's because they're without the nurturing empathy spoken of here.
Gotta write down the 30+ positive qualities you want in the women you want to be with. Out of those 30+, you'll probably hit 5 to 10 that is out there for you. Anything beyond those, you're in the bonus
Dont chase women, chase excellence. This book is dynamite.
Ngl "Chase Excellence" goes hard as fuck
Thanks, father... I.. I mean coach.
yeah, my dad didn't teach me that either so.. thx lots Coach Corey
Naa Coach defo my father lol end of story
I’m glad my dad did a half job raising me so coach Corey could do the rest and take me even further in life
Happy to have found Coach Corey Wayne & the book, How To Be A 3% Man. I’ve read it 10 times now, and the material just works but more importantly is foundational to every successful man who can easily attract high quality women. Thanks Coach.
Thanks, coach for having changed my life. I went from begging to women, giving flowers, chocolates, calling them up at all times, etc, to being pursued. I have 2 girls, who both work at the same restaurant, competing for my attention, I work out, dress stylish, have a purpose and mission, am a better father, and an overall better human being. I have been following you since January of 2013. I have passed your message to several of my friends, not all of them have embraced it but the one who has, has also been experiencing huge changes in his life. I talk so much about you, they call me the Corey Wayne of Northern Boulevard, NY :-). God bless you always dear coach!
I read Corey Wayne’s book over 30 times. It worked so well that it was scary how accurate he is when it comes to womens behavior! When you read the book repeatedly life becomes EFFORTLESS. I can’t tell you how many women look at me when I got my girl on my arm. Thanks Corey!
tell us, how many ? like two or three ?
I am baffled how you upload right as I hit the gym 💪🏻
I’m proud to view the video within seconds of posting. Thank you for teaching me all I know today
“Act the way your life will be...” gold.
"The idea is to go slightly slower than she does." Thanks, Coach! And yes, your work does apply to anyone with a more masculine core. I'm a woman myself, lol.
Coach I had a spiritual dream with you in it. Loved the dream, was full of symbolism and really showed me that following your work has been the correct decision in my life’s path. Much love from Beijing, China.
I am a woman but I learnt a lot from you, coach!
This is one of the best videos ever. I’ve been laughing at you hitting the book off the camera but it’s so true you have got to do the work and listen to the book. I’ve stared dating a girl and it’s so effortless as I have the understanding now from trying to be a good student. I’m now half way through 12th time listening :-) Thanks Coach!
The method talked about in the beginning + acting on the quote, turned a very structured 10/10 back to me 7-months after my last pursuit. I always thought structured women were lost causes but as stated, nature is nature when it comes to attraction. *Large importance on absolutely moving on when you back away.
I’m glad I didn’t budge into what she was told to expect from a man; Go figure, from less than good role models on the subject. I’m 100% sure it will have put me into the other men’s categories, who eventually get rejected by her, and never receive a burning level of attraction.
I see the joy in your face whenever a student scores 😂😂
THIS IS A GREAT EDUCATIONAL VIDEO AND ONLY LESS THAN 48K VIEWS - ALOT OF PEOPLE MISSED OUT ON THIS GREAT VIDEO - GLAD I WATCHED!
Corey you're the man! "Read" is pronounced in the past tense. Just fyi. Keep up the great work! 3% man read 40+ times for me. Thank you so much!
My friend showed me your channel and I love it
And he is the best kind of friend don't loose him.
you're going to love it here
The 3% nectar is about to hit different. Thank you, Coach.
Here in Ghana West Africa bro. The nectar is hitting everywhere
Coach Thanos at his best as always !
Lol
Coach Wayne,
Love your stuff. Yes, don’t cherry pick the info. Take the time. Do the work. And let the “cat” come to you by being cool.
I didn't go to college and my sex/love life was trash in my 20s, when you're out at night the hottest girls are with their college boyfriends,so you're left with slim pickings,unless you're in the right career or the right social situation
this is why I’m alone. Too much game playing .
being inconsistent..
It takes two to play the game lol
You’re alone because you’re not the prize
that’s messed up. You need help
@Paris Cortez I understand your position. Planet of the Fakes.. It is what it is.
Followed your steps, kept my chase light enough to build mystery, it worked lol she was excited to come to my place, said all the right things showing she wanted me and liked coming to my place, bonfires, garden interest and then I noticed her slow pullback with the good mornings, her calling me, just suttle hints she thought I wouldn’t notice except I seen it early on and she said all the things showing me she wanted to see me at my place mostly, then she said she wanted to be honest and told me an x added himself on her instagram but she wasn’t going to follow him back and wanted me to know ! This is several months dating by this time, then magically she acted all weird and it was like pulling teeth to get a straight answer out of her, to plan our usual time together and she’d spend days with me, like the last several months was met with her excited to see me and stay days on end ! Then the lame excuses started, I got diminished outta nowhere and was told she has no time for anyone all of a sudden and she wasn’t happy !! The whole time she brought up moving in together, new job searching was high on her agenda, and the last day she spent with me she laughed, initiated intimacy, non stop conversations like always and I went from on top of the world that last day spent with me to next day, she was cold, diminished me more after I debunked all her lame excuses, over and over and didn’t even speak to me one on one, like a normal person who claims to care, would, and wham bam, my name is mud, and this instagram account that wasn’t there before that had no picture, no posts she was following after telling me she wasn’t going to, this guy x didn’t mean anything to her lol !! What a slap to the giblets lol it’s true, not being needy and not over pursuing worked but what the hell happened lol !! I’ve made my intentions clear, and no contact ever again like you suggested once she quits on me is what I’m doing ! Lesson learned lol never go back to an x !! Fall forward and never look back !! I’m the prize and she missed out ! Walking away is hard as hell but necessary if you are a confident man !! Thanks for this video, makes sense !!
I needed this, sometimes you can do everything right and still it doesn’t work
Thanks for another great video, Sir. Great perspectives and knowledge.
This video is GOLD!
This is perfect timing 🔥🔥🔥💯💯
Coach, did a lot of this well over the past 15 months but it was all in vain. Made basic mistakes but covered them well with experiences and pulling back and reading and applying your book. However, backing off led her to connect more with her orbiters which also led her to connect with her ex. He managed to convince her that her and I didn't have much of a relationship and within a matter of weeks she just flipped for the ex (after over a year and a half of top tier hanging out, having fun and hooking up). Worse still, she strung me along till the end with demonstration of high attraction and chasing my presence (over 80% of the chasing) yet chose the ex over me...
Worse still, the ex was chasing and demonstrating low value (but spoke himself up). She did have poor boundaries with orbiters but effectively chased after me whenever I pulled back as a result. She demonstrated high interest and attraction, yet she lost it in a matter of days, even though I wasn't chasing (but was off center because of the games she played)... Lost the love of my life to fickleness and a scumbag ex who didn't care she was with someone...
Great stuff! Fundamentals. Fundamentals. Fundamentals!
@9:00 That's a true friend!
"He loves me, he loves me not, he loves me"............Keep them guessing!
4:38 Women are relationship focused and men are mission and adventure focused - trying to achieve something in life and achieve something in life, trying to make their dreams a reality.
First date great, ended with kissing. 2weeks later 2nd date, even better, lot of sign, and mid-date she initiated the kissing, later more kissing. Long distance, had to catch the bus (mid-week) because of work next day. Then no reach out by her, so I called her like 4-5 days later, and man she was MAD, angry, fustrated. That I play some kind of game, why havent I called her sooner, she was questioning herself and that now she feels repelled by me. Calmed her down, eventually set up an to the upcoming weekend. Which she cancelled 3 days before that she in unsure, then changed her mind on the same night, then the day before told me she is feeling sick, so I told her get well first, then once she is okay let me know so we can meet. Eventually she said no, lets meet up. That date was a 180 degree, slowly she opened up, but was acting somewhat distant till late night, but ended with kissing again. Asked her if she is up for a tea before I leave next day by the bus (long distance). And I got the bomb again plus some more: "look i feel frustrated, repelled, unsure, anxiousness, and some need for self-provement which is just not right. I just does not feel it. No desire, no spark, no chemistry on my end. But we can be friends."
Okay. Sounds like fun! I guess one bullet dogded.
Coach you're such a character! 😄 But always spot on advice, thanks. 🙏
Thanks Corey for everything. Take it from me, but just get on with your life and participate and you'll have more women than you can deal with. You don't need women, you need a life and the women will come.
Well I am 30 years and the advice comes too late. I was a good person and student and when I was 20 everyone sad that I am very mature and already know what I want in the future. I wanted a special job so I got into the law school. Unfortunately your brain can't evolve if you don't undergo experiences. Sadly every women rejected me. They sad I am ugly or they saying other excuses to being polite. But the problem was when I look in the mirror I didn't saw a ugly person. I was fine. Other people or in groups and friends so an saw nothing ugly in me and they always thought I have many chances. They thought I could have women. So I lived this contrary life. This contrary between harsh rejection and beeing insulted and on the other side people wo think I can get nearly every girl destroyed my mind. On every evening, every party, even at the school and university they behaved very bad. When I sit everywhere they look and talk. So even if I closed the women case they still behave like shit to me in the daily doing. Oh yes there were fine women too. Who said that I am very nice, charismatic and so on. But they always rejected because I am not attractive enough. But what angrys me was sometimes they meet and have sex with guy who clearly where ugly and not even looking descent like me. But they sad "don't be ridiculous you are more ugly then other normal ugly men". An some sad that even in a friendly way. Even drunk girls and even the ugliest wouldn't want to talk me. They don't even want to write. No chance. My phone is empty. Dating online no one likes my pictures even they look very good. People or strangers ask me if I have a girlfriend when smalltalk or assume I have I tell them no but they don't belive me. What I want to say is I lost because of this topic a century. I lost 10 years. I was 20 and I had a goal. I worked hard and wanted to go into politics. I could have achieved it. People saw what I can do and I was a very intelligent and charismatic guy. But in my 20's I wanted also to be like others and normal and feel as a men and a bit of love etc. All the kind of thins which everyone needs to feel integrated and feel normal in the circle of others. So I lost my original way and chased after this topic and women. I closed it now with 30 years even it saddens me. But I saw that women lie and betray. They even behave differently depending on how the men looks like or what money he has. For the one men there mother is in the hospital while when you write with a ohtwr fake profil or aks a friend to write they have work but can meet up after that. It is so hypocritical. And I am not an incel but I hate most of the women. They are all the same. Even the ones who look or behave innocent. Every men is for them disposable depending on what life the women is in. When they young they sleep with many men's. Then when they are old or go into the job they look for a men wo is fool enough to stay and provide. Even IIIIIIIII had 4 Dates. Me the guy who don't even get a like on Tinder or on other sides even I set the settings to different county's just to try out. I who got rejected even from the girls who liked me and feel something and were drunk or ugly and sad "I want to to I like you you perfect and I wanted but I can't touch you I can't you are too ugly". If I was ugly I would accept it! But I never could because I don't look so bad. I even look very descent (not a model) but I look charismatic and get compliments. But even the ones who compliment don't want to meet or sleep with me. But I saw the truth face of 80% women. They take what they need and then throw it like garbage when they need something else. When the time comes they say "I want a real men to be in a relationship I deserve that". But before that they fucked everyone and now she looks for guys who were they guys she ignored before. Sad part ist even I am 30 and lying about my profession and say something just to try out what happens it has no effect. They don't want. NOWWW I don't even want a relationship or love. I saw it. It is mostly a lie. Many women or men betray their partner. Or they are together just not to be alone. Or ohter reasons like money or kids or house or just to say "look I have someone I can go to the restaurant". Or be in the competition with their friends and circle and saying to have a boyfriend or husband to raise her status up. And so on. I don't want that lying women anymore. But I want is respect. But I don't get it. They laugh at me the other compliments me. How the fuck you are going to live with this contradicitionary. And the most important part to say, unfortunately, is: because all of that and because I feels very sad and angry I didn't make it in life. I lost my scholar ship, I lost every money I have. I am 30 now and didn't get a diploma from university. I only have examine for the first semesters. So no money. 10 years lost. Staying there like I stand 10 years before, back to parents and thinking how am I going to restart unter these hard circumstances to study again? No money, no time, not the same brain energy like before. And parallely to accept that everyone rejects me but now feeling that I don't want even a relationship or women in my life but at the same time still want the respect as a men and that women should write meet up and have sex with me. I can't ignore my nature. I can't live without the respect. Even in daily life everyone wants to flirt but me I am beeing insulted. Sure there are ones who are nice. But they only beeing nice because I am polite or sympathetic or charismatic or being brave to go to talk to women. I can even talk to women in stores or the street. They don't run. They talk! They laugh and so on. Everyone who saw that sad that I am doing good. Or sometimes girls like me and everyone else thinks this is my girlfriend or she is into me. But no sex, no meeting not chatting nothing! 80% says ugly ugly guy and ignore and the rest likes me and more but can't handle my ugliness so they try but fail to want me. So they beeing polite and nice. But if women even strangers who I even meet the second before are beeing to nice but don't want me every men even friends and outsiders see it as she is into me. But no chance. So how am I going live these fucking life with hard restart even in the journey in my 30's I still don't geht respect. How am I supposed to feel good and satisfied and concentrate on my subject and diploma when in reality I feel shit. Even I feel good it is just a illusion. Because of you step outside there is the reality you beeing rejected insulted. Even if you don't look at a women they don't want you to sit next to you talk about me (yes they do) even when I am somewhere where I was never before. I can't live with this shit behavior. I want to to and eat or work or go wherever I want and when I ignore women and be neutral some of them still hating. I don't even try to come closer. Still some behave like this. And I had such a good ahead. But is failed and destroyed everything and with 30 there is no chance to compensate those lost 10 years. It is impossible. And now I have to restart but under extreme hard circumstances just to be 35 or 40 and then have job and then certainly a shitty one just to be ignored again. Because then they still don't want me. How I know that? Well you make the future test. Just go outside or online and say you are working here and there. That you have money and status. Still they see you as not qualified. But the men who looks ugly, isg 40, and has no hair still can chat and meet up and I see many of them. Wow. What the fuck!!! I don't get it. Even the ones who like character meet with ugly guys and have sex or relationship and still when it comes to me "no no no you are above ugly and disgusting". Good life. Like this how the world is to me I can't sit down and learn and concentrate like nothing is wrong. I were lying to myself and beeing in an illusion and living it.
Ah forgot something. If they didn't want me now and in the past and if they want me when I am old and have money and status, I don't want them. I am not the fool here. They loving and fucking in their early 20's and then think they deserve a good and strong men? No no no :D this ist ridiculous.
"Present the image that you're selective, even if you don't have a lot going on." This is what I needed to hear today.
It's where my head is right now. I don't have a lot going on and I'm floundering a bit, but I'm still giving off an image of mission, purpose and goals. This is just a temporary rut that I'm in. Recognize it, experience it and then move forward.
There is a thin line between inconsistency and unbothered
What sucks is when we know exactly what we are doing but emotions hijack our logic and self control
This video came just when I needed it.
Great video Coach!
Are you ever going to make a new book with all of your new knowledge you have gained since the last book?
Excellent advice as always Corey! Always got a bad feeling about modern romances in film these days but couldn't quite place it. What does it really mean when a Woman says you're "pushy"? Had a woman tell me this years ago that I was head over heels for xD
It means to back off and let her come to you. You're trying to hard to force things.
@@CoachCoreyWayne Thought so, thanks!
I was dating a girl for about a month and a half. she was very attracted at first, I was using the knowledge of the book. But then at our last date. She said out of nowhere we should stop seeing each other because she doesn't want a serious relationship. I got like WTF? Because I never said anything about relationship, and we were just seeing each other once a week or two
First, forget trying to find a reason she did this. Could be a lot of things: other dudes, a personal issue, or she simply read the situation differently than you. Regardless, this is why we have to be dating multiple women at a time. If you have two or three girls your dating and one does something like this. You say
“Oh, ok cool. Well let me know if you change your mind.” And you’re off to the next one. The fun bus doesn’t stop moving, she just got off.
As mentioned, there could be 1 or a lot of reasons why she said that. But always watch what people do, not so much what they say. The best thing to do is back off and let her come to you.
You may have over pursued over the phone or acted in a way that turned her off... or not! It could be something going on with her. It doesn’t matter! Yeah it sucks but her lost, not yours! Be DIFFERENT then other guys and walk away. Be nice, be charming and let her know to call you once she figures things out and that’s it. Date other women so you don’t stay stuck on just one. She’ll either come back or won’t. Women are like cats! Let her be... you are a BUSY guy anyway. Walk and never look back until she contacts you.
Leave the door open for her, but don’t be standing by the door either.
Thank You Coach❤️ we ❤️ you
Hey Coach, I think I saw you on TV at the Villages at a Trump rally!
yea right
@RAJPUT King i'm gonna quote you:
-All her Abuse (Creating Arguments to Disappear & Disapearing Acts )
-Lies & making Arguments on the phone
-when confronted she would Turn call off & switch the phone off All Night.
-Manipulated an Argument with me
-she went crazy & while she is shouting & screaming..
-Told me she is a Narcissistic
Half way at your post and so many red flags. You'r obviously not doing everything right but do you want a woman who makes you feel like that? Are you gonna put up with that for 30-40 years? Some girls can make seriously great first impression (buying you things, being just perfect, makes you hard about 20 times a day, great sex etc.) and when the first 3months are over, so is the great girl and you tell yourself she is gonna behave like that in the future but no matter what you do or don't do... you know.. she wont.
I know that you think "what if i don't make mistakes, she probably will behave good". You always make mistakes and when you do, you want a partner who has the skill to talk about it and make things good again. Not some screaming teen who is not willing to make things right for days or weeks, it's called mental abuse. They learn it from home. Probably your girl doesn't have healthy family values either?
@RAJPUT King In my case she even told me she was narc at the beginning but i just skipped it in my head because at that point she didn't seem like one. Even if i feel dumb, she was so damn pretty i can't even be that mad at myself :D Gotta say i learned alot and wont make that mistake again.
There is some same patterns how it goes. They try to arque more and next time little bit more and blame you for it. I even asked "do you make any mistakes in your life?" and she freezes, so i asked again "what mistakes have you done?" yeah.. as you might guess she don't make mistakes.
going further everything you say is somewhat negative even if everything you say is positive. And if you don't get pissed, it makes her more angry.. this was the point i took off.
Yeah its good to talk to people, maybe we can find some more clear patterns?!
Awesome video Coach👍
My gf is more interested in Tik Tok than answering my texts lately , and we are in a solid 3 year relationship 😡
I spent most of the video imagining that blue pattern was a flame and he would burn his ear. 🤔
You should have Dr. Jordan Peterson on your podcast.
what do you do when she reaches back out on a holiday or birthday? still assume she wants to see you?
We watch these videos for the Golden nuggets to help us fine tune. The take away on this one -
Just go a little bit slower than she does.
Blew it with the woman of my dreams and lost my cool. So disappointed in myself so saying terrible things. Makes me so angry
I laugh every time he drinks from that fucking mug and goes ahhhhhhhh
I'm so confused.. I got an ad that was Corey Wayne for this video and thought it was the actual video
Another great video
Pulling some vanna white at the end coach. 😁
to finally feel good. But was it all an illusion? Am I fundamentally broken?
That James Bond Reference is so true ! #GrownManGame
“Inch by inch, millimeter by millimeter”
Hey coach, applying this now. But is there a reason to give a 2nd chance after being ghosted? I kinda caused that but found your work to late in life. 🤷♂️. You and Appolonia Pontti have opened my eyes. I will be buying your book.
Well if you’re ghosted you’re probably already beyond the point of repair. So AN option is to just burn the whole thing to the ground. What do you have to lose? I wouldn’t because it promotes weak behavior. Just forget her and date someone else.
Corey, I enjoy your perspective. I'm interested if there is a resource (book, coach, etc.) for women that you would recommend?
Although the book is mostly for men, it also shows women why their emotions are a certain way when they're around men. Therefore the core principles still applies
@@PM-hx1ds I understand that. It isn't what I asked about, though.
@@aliceinbrill I know, ur not the 1st woman to ask that Q but that's the answer I've heard him give
So I just downloaded the ebook. I'm a truck driver, do you have that as an audio book to listen while driving? Thanks
yes, its on audible and iTunes
@@CoachCoreyWayne thanks, I'll look.
Read the BOOK 15 times!!!
Seems nowadays women are adventure focused and focused on their mission, career, purpose etc and men are relationship focused. What happened? Men have become soft and gullible.
My girl "Keeps" male orbiters around and i hate it!!!
Coach I desagree with you on the HOOK UP part... not only at the house, but making out in the car could be part of romanticizing her XD
Women are not more “in touch” with their emotions. They are just more emotional
I need help. I am a complete mess. I got dumped by my 15year partner out of the blue back in September. I had no idea of what no contact was. I broke all the rules. I have begged, pleaded, cried and everything I’m not supposed to do. I have just gone into no contact today. Is it too late for me?
Ur a king, buy de book n start work on urself, mission & purpose. Also start talkin/dating to other women
It is never too late, even if you don't get her back at least you WILL get your dignity and respect back as a man. If it is too late you will have to move on anyways and the sooner you start the better, if it is not too late you will hear from her.
Move on right now, no contact, get new clothes, join a salsa class, join a gym or martial arts. Good luck
@@PM-hx1ds I wish it was that easy. I’m normally the most confident guy in the room but I’m a complete mess right now. I’ve lost 32lbs in 8 weeks. We have 2 kids together so no contact is hard.
@@grahamiheagwaram9001 it's ur mindset plus ur kids need to see u being man, a very masculine man. Let ur 1st mission be reading the book
As unfortunate and shitty as all that is you’re in the right place. Buy Corey’s book and read that thing 10-15 times. You have to take control of yourself and realize your thoughts and emotion are not your own. These are chemicals and can be overcome. If it’s her you really want back then at some point your going to realize the only way to do that is by working on yourself and moving past HER. You guys were together awhile and have emotional history so no, it’s not too late as you say. But don’t fall into the trap of thinking anything will change if you get back together. The problems you had will still be there. If you listen to Corey and read the book I wouldn’t be surprised if you come to the conclusion that it’s run it’s course and you’ll end up with someone even better.
My dude is loving his weather today! 🌤️
My girl of 2 years and I broke up for a few days bc I got complacent, she is bi and wants to experiment strictly physically with girls, should I be cool with this? I can also see other women.
I’d walk away. But that’s just me.
let her go....✌🏾
do 3some, keep her
would you run from a woman that told you she was diagnosed as borderline before?
If you’re not be a sarcastic ass then run like your sanity depends on it.
@@TitsMegee420 no sarcasm, thanks
@@lifeisabeginning Don’t forget its not your job to fix a woman. She may make a great friends with benefits but do not get emotionally involved with someone diagnosed as BPD.
I live in NC and we are still under lockdown 🤦♂️
Yeah but what i a girl text me first and when we start texting back and forth she sends dry ass messages or sometimes text back next day??
Is there an audio version of mastering yourself?
yes. its available on audible and iTunes.
Man, I just pissed off with the shutdowns over the world! Its such a non sense. I almost stopping to watch the news ...
15:37 lol!!!! Gold
whats your thought if your in your late 30s but im not successful nor making lot money-kind low spectrum. im single and still looking and its tough especially since virus time. should i jsut settle with girl im dating or keep playing the field.
Come on, man.
Hello, Coach Corey Wayne
Corey you say to use communication as a tennis match.. dont say anything until she responds and so on.. if thats true then how can the man do 20 to 30 % of the contact? Wouldn't the tennis rule make that 50/50‽
I like that you didn't get too insulting to the other political party. I respect you it's just can be hurtful/polarizing to hear a mentor insult a political view of yours.
Maybe you should reexamine your reasoning for thinking the way you do and where you got it from.
@@CoachCoreyWayne Because I look up to you and I have friends who are republican and I never see a need to insult them. We are who we are based on our experience and I cannot judge others for theirs. Much love coach. Stay healthy.
Beta!
Thanks ☺️
Too many hoops to jump through for 1 hoop.
"alright you fucking smuck" 🤣
I wanna read that book but it’s too thick for me.. please send me a link to the summarized version
He has an audio
Buy the audiobook on the book store if you have the iPhone, just bought it yesterday . It’s like 17$, worth the investment
You’re not going to get the results you want if this is your mindset lol
Summarized version... you want a short cut to success so you can fuck it up down the road when it matters even more? There are no short cuts. You’re basically saying you don’t want to succeed. Follow the processz
@@TitsMegee420 I’m a high value male, I already have a lot of things going on- don’t have time to read a thick book
Scarface said it . " that b!@&h is a problem can't live with, cant live without her. My advice to you is stay on your grind. Keep that b!@&h on her back and your bank on your mind" 😎😁
Is there a video where you don't promote your book like a 1000 times?
Free book..
He’s trying to help you dumb ass. Hopefully you end up single and alone with blue balls.
If women do the things by nature as you describe they do, they a rent empathetic
UDAMAN !!
Less is more
Can I get your email, please?
Corey woke up drunk today!
Yeah right
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