ADHD and Suicide Risk Factors | Clinical Considerations for Treatment

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

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  • @95turbogirl1980
    @95turbogirl1980 Год назад +6

    Is there a list of the books somewhere

    • @HelpForADHD
      @HelpForADHD  Год назад +4

      Why People Die by Suicide - www.amazon.com/Why-People-Suicide-Thomas-Joiner/dp/0674025490
      Myths about Suicide - www.amazon.com/Myths-about-Suicide-Thomas-Joiner/dp/0674061985/ref=pd_lpo_2?pd_rd_w=8CUfs&content-id=amzn1.sym.116f529c-aa4d-4763-b2b6-4d614ec7dc00&pf_rd_p=116f529c-aa4d-4763-b2b6-4d614ec7dc00&pf_rd_r=5AE8ZZ5AMDK4A6XXQJR4&pd_rd_wg=TyYQq&pd_rd_r=b2c91a19-2026-4f7a-a596-219b3fcbf3df&pd_rd_i=0674061985&psc=1
      An Unquiet Mind - www.amazon.com/Unquiet-Mind-Memoir-Moods-Madness/dp/0679763309/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3JQV5QENN28ZK&keywords=an+unquiet+mind+kay+redfield+jamison&qid=1677168586&s=books&sprefix=An+Unquiet+Mind+Kay+Redf%2Cstripbooks%2C69&sr=1-1
      Night Falls Fast - www.amazon.com/Night-Falls-Fast-Understanding-Suicide/dp/0375701478/ref=sr_1_1?crid=R5H8PCROK8Y3&keywords=Night+Falls+Fast&qid=1677168631&s=books&sprefix=night+falls+fast%2Cstripbooks%2C78&sr=1-1
      Grieving a Suicide: A Loved One's Search for Comfort, Answers, and Hopewww.amazon.com/Grieving-Suicide-Search-Comfort-Answers/dp/0830844937/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1HC9J499IKT1H&keywords=grieving+a+suicide+albert+hsu&qid=1677168666&s=books&sprefix=Grieving+a+suicide+Alb%2Cstripbooks%2C75&sr=1-1
      Life After Suicide - www.amazon.com/Life-After-Suicide-Community-Unthinkable/dp/0062906046/ref=sr_1_1?crid=22K11YKX4N81C&keywords=Life+After+Suicide+Jennifer+Ashton&qid=1677168717&s=books&sprefix=life+after+suicide+jennifer+ashton%2Cstripbooks%2C75&sr=1-1
      No Time to Say Goodbye: Surviving The Suicide Of A Loved One - www.amazon.com/No-Time-Say-Goodbye-Surviving/dp/0385485514/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1WUMB0TIYUO0J&keywords=no+time+to+say+goodbye+surviving+the+suicide+of+a+loved+one&qid=1677168762&s=books&sprefix=No+Time+to+Say+Goodbye+Su%2Cstripbooks%2C73&sr=1-1

    • @95turbogirl1980
      @95turbogirl1980 Год назад +4

      @@HelpForADHD thank you so much

    • @Richard-rd1ki
      @Richard-rd1ki Месяц назад

      I attempted suicide twice

  • @jmar28a
    @jmar28a Год назад +28

    ADHD is an absolutely horrible thing to have. You have it your whole life and it’s like having someone next to you that keeps on getting in the way of your life

  • @kaylee1772
    @kaylee1772 Год назад +16

    I feel like saying "Suicide cuts across all socio-economic levels" misrepresents how much higher the risk for suicide is for the poor

  • @folasko5120
    @folasko5120 3 года назад +90

    I feel hopeless because no one I know can understand my situation. I normally get accused for being inefficient but even I feel like I'm not normal but people just judge me. "just try to focus more." "stop being so lazy" "you just don't care."

    • @HelpForADHD
      @HelpForADHD  3 года назад +9

      You're not alone. Please contact CHADD to locate a support group near you, or it there isn't one in your area you can connect with other people like you on our online communities, and get support.

    • @Dancestar1981
      @Dancestar1981 3 года назад +4

      @@HelpForADHD I was only diagnosed this year at age 40 on top of being diagnosed with Aspergers at 23 and Anxiety and Depression

    • @passion4vintage559
      @passion4vintage559 2 года назад +3

      Exactly how i feel and has been going on my whole life. Not even your own families understands. And what hurts me the most is when my significant other constantly belittles me, puts me down, tells me i will never be successful with my home business reselling what he calls “trash” or “junk” ( i resell second hand items mainly brand name clothings on ebay(“), blames me for his life not being at where he likes cause “i can’t help him”…then i started to become more depressed, feels like giving up on life, don’t have any motivation to work inside my small crowded garage, feels overwhelmed and feels like i am a waste of life on earth who mAkes my kids and families life hard for just being here alive. I have attempted and thought of suicide on a daily basis…thought of getting mens ties and tying it into knots and hanging it in thr garage and hang my own neck…but the thought of suffocating scares me, and i attempted on mixing chemicals and building myself a big enough box to enclosed myself inside hoping it works but was also a failed attempt.
      People like me all we really want is for the ones we love to understand us and even if its hard to understand because they are “normal” and will never understand….but at least TRY to understand with compassion. I am so tire of begging to have anyone understands me cause everyone i have met throughout my life ends up hurting me. So i have isolated myself in the dark just depressed and trying to fight this devil inside me.

    • @passion4vintage559
      @passion4vintage559 2 года назад +1

      If you are still going through this…just keep your head up and do what makes YOU happy. What i find to be helpful are daily affirmations, but first is to LOVE ourself first…i am still trying that right now to love myself because if i Can’t love myself then no one can love me. Stay strong and print out motivational quotes and hang it in a frame somewhere to remind yourself when times are hard. We can’t give up!

    • @kolfoster6926
      @kolfoster6926 2 года назад

      The trick is to stop caring. It worked for me now Go look online(RUclips) for some nihilism.

  • @noahfranks984
    @noahfranks984 3 года назад +34

    Working memory deficit is a bitch. Over and over again I fuck up at work because I can't pay attention to what I'm doing and it destroys my self esteem

  • @liontv1935
    @liontv1935 2 года назад +22

    Life is so hard with ADHD. I would do everything for it to erase it out of me. Since I accepted it, it only made all worse.

  • @nancyrodriguez9253
    @nancyrodriguez9253 4 месяца назад +6

    Hi, am here because my son had ADHD and he just committed suicide may 22, 2024 and he was 21. Am trying my best to understand why he did this, he did tell me back when he was 10 years old that he wanted to take he’s life because he said he couldn’t understand school and I did talk to him about it but I guess it wasn’t good enough. Am feeling heartbroken and wishing I could of done more

  • @eirini9419
    @eirini9419 3 года назад +32

    I have ADHD and have experienced a great deal of what was mentioned in this presentation. I was diagnosed in my 50's and this presentation made me feel very "normal" knowing that I am not alone in my experiences throuout my life. Thank you!

    • @wendyhannan2454
      @wendyhannan2454 2 года назад +1

      Thank you, I love this, this is excellent so happy that your helping kids and giving them hope.

    • @HopeLives2012
      @HopeLives2012 2 года назад +2

      I'm 59 and so understand. I feel like a total failure. I was a Massage Therapist for 15 years in medical field.
      Then I had a car accident that left me with right hand partial paralysis.
      A few years later I was determined to become a Nurse. I enrolled in online studies in 2020(go at your own pace) it's now 2022 and I'm still in my first semester. My lack of focus has ruined my life. I had ADHD my whole life but only now trying to get help.

  • @jmar28a
    @jmar28a Год назад +19

    My ADHD caused my personal financial collapse. I can’t go on any further. All my life ADHD has caused many problems and this was the last straw. I’m about to make an exit from life

  • @kirsten1007
    @kirsten1007 Год назад +15

    I have decided that I will not compare myself to other people who don't have ADHD. I can do what I can do only

  • @katwilliams2950
    @katwilliams2950 3 года назад +11

    Thank you for putting this up. I hope more people see this

  • @salparadise1220
    @salparadise1220 Год назад +8

    Oh dear.
    Both, "don't belong", and, "better for all if I wasn't here", have been featuring in my thoughts a lot recently.
    Haven't got as far as the how and the where, I am restrained by my children's existence, and their children.
    I'm like a man with one foot attached to the floor. No matter how I run, walk or shuffle, I just go round in circles. I thought the ADHD might be the nail, but it seems to be more complicated than that.

    • @HelpForADHD
      @HelpForADHD  Год назад +1

      Please let us know if we can be of further assistance with resources and support.

  • @passion4vintage559
    @passion4vintage559 2 года назад +11

    I have ADHD, bipolar, mood disorder, and major depression. i feel and it has been going on far too long. Not even my own families understands. And what hurts me the most is when my significant other constantly belittles me, puts me down, tells me i will never be successful with my home business reselling what he calls “trash” or “junk” ( i resell second hand items mainly brand name clothings on ebay(“), blames me for his life not being at where he likes cause “i can’t help him”…then i started to become more depressed, feels like giving up on life, don’t have any motivation to work inside my small crowded garage, feels overwhelmed and feels like i am a waste of life on earth who mAkes my kids and families life hard for just being here alive. I have attempted and thought of suicide on a daily basis…thought of getting mens ties and tying it into knots and hanging it in thr garage and hang my own neck…but the thought of suffocating scares me, and i attempted on mixing chemicals and building myself a big enough box to enclosed myself inside hoping it works but was also a failed attempt.
    People like me all we really want is for the ones we love to understand us and even if its hard to understand because they are “normal” and will never understand….but at least TRY to understand with compassion. I am so tire of begging to have anyone understands me cause everyone i have met throughout my life ends up hurting me. So i have isolated myself in the dark just depressed and trying to fight this devil inside me. So the only thing that i find comforting in my own opinion is when i use the sewing needles and pinching it down my risk and scraping it down over and over until blood comes out then i feel better after that. I know it sounds crazy but everytime i am in that mind state i hurt myself to feel better. Its like punishing myself for pissing someone off and afterward i feel better.

    • @_Lillith_
      @_Lillith_ 2 года назад +2

      Need a hug?

    • @_Lillith_
      @_Lillith_ 2 года назад +2

      And don't self harm! Please ):

    • @CyberTronXXX
      @CyberTronXXX 2 года назад +1

      First of all, end your relationship with your douche of a husband. He isnt very understanding and vet self obsessed.
      Secondly, you really need to get yourself medications. Have you tried it? If so, tell me about it.

  • @segment932
    @segment932 8 месяцев назад +1

    Every thing in this video was so on the point it actually hurt listening to it. It all makes sense. I know I have Dyslexia but now I know that I probably have ADHD too. I worked at a consultant company as a programmer the last two years but lost every single contract I could get after just two or tree months and in the end, last spring I got fired and have not had a job since. I live of the money I earned during that time but I cant do that for ever. I will try again now at a new company or start my own company.

  • @aimeewithers7376
    @aimeewithers7376 7 месяцев назад +1

    This was incredibly helpful. I thought i was alone but they is so many people out there that feel how i do. Unloved not good enough ,lazy, traumatic, selfish,angry ,aggressive. People with family members who can't understand or wont for the damage caused. Course we don't want to kill are selfs but its so painful to live. My son saves me everyday. I hope I'll always feel that way.

  • @LawNerdAmber
    @LawNerdAmber 3 года назад +10

    This video is such a hidden gem of statistics and research and proof as well as lived experiences. Thank you.

    • @LawNerdAmber
      @LawNerdAmber 3 года назад

      Thwarted Belongingness...
      That's it. OMG. Wow.

    • @LawNerdAmber
      @LawNerdAmber 3 года назад

      Wait! OMG I fall asleep while my eyebrows are being waxed and threaded... 💗

    • @LawNerdAmber
      @LawNerdAmber 3 года назад +1

      Yes. Another truth. Please speaking as someone who also has suicidal thoughts but will not act on them for reasons, I can't even safely share that in any sort of doctor's office or medical facility without fear of being committed.
      Thank you for recognizing that it's something I need to get help with, Not the prevention of but a healthy way to dismiss said thoughts... the anxiety around disclosing it outweighs the benefits that I might receive

    • @Dancestar1981
      @Dancestar1981 3 года назад

      @@LawNerdAmber I fell asleep when my eyebrows were being actually tattooed

  • @BIKE_LLECI
    @BIKE_LLECI 3 года назад +7

    Amazing video. Thank you for this. Lots of great info was taken from this. ✨

  • @ratzfert
    @ratzfert 3 года назад +7

    Beautiful and perfect on research.

  • @riverlawson6872
    @riverlawson6872 Год назад +6

    I feel like my brain has a constant white noise that I can't shut off. I don't want to be trapped in this mind any longer. There's too much hurt.

    • @HORIE66
      @HORIE66 Год назад +1

      That sensation is horrible. But we have to fight. Sometimes, when the noise stops, could be so good

  • @rusticitas
    @rusticitas 2 месяца назад

    Very interesting and affirming presentation. I oscillate multiple times a day, every day, since the early 1980s, between feeling a fleeting glimmer of self worth, and sudden, intense plummets into The Hole. Years ago just a slight dip *hurt* a lot, physically and emotionally. Nowadays it’s just how I am, and I’ve had to accept it. It hurts longer and deeper and more pervasively, but the physical aspect is blunted. (Except for flare ups of chronic sciatica and digestive issues from chronic stress.)

  • @Dame28
    @Dame28 Год назад +5

    In my life, it’s just me and my doctor that know or atleast believe I have ADHD, which means that in my life, realistically there’s no one that can actually help though. Tuff that everyone views it as a stigma, as much as I try to convince myself it’s all in my head and try to reprogram myself I look back every year at minimal progress and the same feeling of being lost in all areas of my life still :/

  • @Justsomelycan
    @Justsomelycan 3 года назад +3

    I am born with it and when i was in 1rst grade everyday i could not go to recess just because i could not sit down 2nd grade same thing 3rd grade i also got nit picked just for not being able to sit down or i was a little fidgety and i whisper under my breath what i just said and i cant help it and everyone is mean to because of it

  • @Pinecall1249
    @Pinecall1249 7 месяцев назад

    I have been struggling with ADHD and along with depression and anxiety with suicidal thoughts and most recently panic attacks i been having them more 9ften to this day as my suicidal thoughts and it just seems to get worse i been talking to a therapist for 2 months now and it really has not been to great i want this to be gone i wish i had my happy life again

  • @ClementineShmementine
    @ClementineShmementine 2 года назад +1

    I have to say I have so much in common with the statements

  • @TioMiojo
    @TioMiojo 2 года назад +4

    Can you please help me? I've been on a binge of these adhd vídeos and I just relate so much. I've been having some serious suicidal thoughts recently, sense of hopelessness, I really want to get evaluated and treated, but I'm in a hole I can't dig out of.

    • @sweetaimee11
      @sweetaimee11 2 года назад +2

      Please call your doctor and set up an appointment to start. I understand how you feel. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Please don’t give up love 💕

    • @mysticalvibe4241
      @mysticalvibe4241 2 года назад +3

      Zelok. Do not give up. I don’t know what country you live in but taking the meds will make a substantial difference. I am older and right now I’m not on my meds due to pharmacies switching generics. However I don’t think this goes on everywhere. I also have stomach problems which is a double whammy. Anyways I wanted to let you know that when you get diagnosed and on the proper dosage you will completely look at life differently. Of course when there is a low Serotonin level and disappointment in life will hit you three times worse. I’m saying this so you know your not alone. I forgot but found something on you tube about how we take disappoinment or hurt. There is a name for it but of course I forgot due to not being on my meds. Lol. Please try to get help. I don’t know how old you are but you probably have family that hopefully you could reach out to. I have been alone and have quite a hard time making new friends. I want you to promise me you will get help or at least give me an update. You are very important in this 🌎. You are probably an empathetic person which in this world is hard to find anyway. I know I am. I’m saying this so you know you are not alone and people do care. Not trying to cross the line but I care and don’t even know you. Anyways text me anytime and I will get back. Remember it does and can ❤️‍🩹 I’m very familiar with the struggle. You are 💕

  • @B.D.TRX4
    @B.D.TRX4 2 года назад +4

    Good video. But how does this help with treatment , if the people who do the care don't know or believe this ? Meaning doctors , nurses ..

    • @HelpForADHD
      @HelpForADHD  Год назад

      Bring about awareness is the first step. It's important to share this information.

  • @D.Martyr
    @D.Martyr Год назад

    Thank you. Love you

  • @AyyoShyGurlTv
    @AyyoShyGurlTv Год назад +2

    Remember, it's a condition you can't control because it is neurological. Imagine a car that runs on autopilot is not perfect and needs repairs too! With that being said, breathe don't be so hard on yourself and try again. I get it too, were here for a reason! People aren't as tolerable as they should be and how they respond really is a reflection of themselves. Not you!!! You are all capable of great things, ideas, so choose life! ❤

  • @rebbekaoliveira1018
    @rebbekaoliveira1018 2 года назад +1

    Every month, when I go through my PMS, I feel so sad I wanna die. And I have ADHD and a mood disorder.

    • @HelpForADHD
      @HelpForADHD  Год назад

      Please let us know if we can be of further assistance with resources and support.

    • @suindude8149
      @suindude8149 Год назад

      Actually those who are not so well enough to entire knowledge of the world,like wants to mauch materials to live commits this.Hence we need to be non materialist enough to live like a gem,we really need 1 rupee for a day,that is not the definition of a BPL hindered person.We always draw lifeforce through the constant turmoil created by nature day and night.

  • @doreen1289
    @doreen1289 6 месяцев назад

    Yes, my son Tanner, 28
    Pending a divorce, stopped using pot.
    4-2021 rip

  • @SabrinaAslaksen
    @SabrinaAslaksen 9 месяцев назад

    I wonder how other countries deal with mental health issues and adhd. It seems like America has not done a great job, how do different cultures address misbehavior and social difficulties? Are people more accepting in other parts of the world?

  • @doreen3763
    @doreen3763 7 дней назад

    Treat with cbd.. ?

  • @travismcgrath2403
    @travismcgrath2403 Год назад +5

    Where is the onformation FOR ADHDers?! You are literally talking to caretakers. How do ADHDers improve their situation when pills and counselling dont work.

    • @HelpForADHD
      @HelpForADHD  Год назад +3

      This presentation was for professionals. We do have additional information and resources on our website that may be helpful. chadd.org/?s=suicide

  • @riverzend1033
    @riverzend1033 6 месяцев назад

    Ima just white knuckle it for a month till I can get seen face to face....I can never get my camera to work

  • @trumoocheese4851
    @trumoocheese4851 2 года назад +9

    i rlly hit the jackpot as a trans woman with ADHD and major depression huh

    • @rusticitas
      @rusticitas 2 месяца назад

      We can be “over-achievers”. 🤔

  • @outsidesteelerfan433
    @outsidesteelerfan433 Месяц назад

    Sorry, but all this video did with my condition with this disorder is piss me off more, maybe this video helps people with no ADHD how to deal with us.

    • @HelpForADHD
      @HelpForADHD  27 дней назад

      Yes this video is for clinical providers.

  • @D.Martyr
    @D.Martyr Год назад

    💔

  • @hollybigelow5337
    @hollybigelow5337 5 месяцев назад

    Although there's interesting information here, I'm having a ton of trouble trusting the information presented because it is presenting statistics in extremely prejudicial ways that have been proven to be prejudicial. The gun ownership statement in particular was troubling. The US doesn't have a database of guns owned in the country, so it has no clue what percent of guns are owned per state/city/etc. So years ago the people who crunch the numbers decided to assume that gun ownership rates were roughly the same as gun suicide rates and to base all gun ownership data on that assumption. Now don't get me wrong, it might be a valid assumption, but you can't make an assumption that is the root of all of your data and then use that SAME data to prove the original assumption. It's junk math. Hopefully, it's self-evident why that is junk math.
    Anyway, there are tons of other reasons I have questions about the quality of research with several statistics presented here. If I know that 100% of the statistics with which I am familiar that are presented here are considered junk data for several reasons, how on earth can I trust the statistics they present here with which I am not familiar? I'm not sure if they are deliberately and knowingly using junk data to prove a point or if they are just lazy and are using commonly quoted, but disproven stats, but either way it is perfectly clear they have put in zero effort into ensuring the information they are presenting is actually accurate, and it puts everything they say into doubt for me.

  • @milehigh3093
    @milehigh3093 2 года назад +8

    I have ADHD and I'm enjoying my final hours bye world

    • @HelpForADHD
      @HelpForADHD  2 года назад +7

      You are important and the world needs you to stay with us. Please call 800-273-8255 as soon as you can, right now would be best. There is someone there waiting to talk with you, this is the National Lifeline and they can help you.
      After you've talked with them, let us know and we're happy to send you information on living successfully with ADHD.

    • @rubabsaif2325
      @rubabsaif2325 11 месяцев назад +1

      Are u ok friend
      Plzz don't do anything wrong 😢

  • @suindude8149
    @suindude8149 Год назад

    Dont commit suicide for Financial,as I have not observed any begger in India attepting this.
    Lotta love.

  • @Scorned405
    @Scorned405 4 месяца назад

    Suicide is for quitters

  • @chriswilkinssa
    @chriswilkinssa Год назад +2

    I am so tired of life
    I feel like everything is a uphill battle life has delt me the shitist hand I have no edition because of afhd and I am so alone life sucks

    • @outsidesteelerfan433
      @outsidesteelerfan433 Месяц назад

      In the same boat, but now I want to put my frustrations on others such as vengeance 😡

  • @through.a.barrel.she.breathes
    @through.a.barrel.she.breathes 9 месяцев назад +3

    ADHD is an absolutely horrible thing to have. You have it your whole life and it’s like having someone next to you that keeps on getting in the way of your life