Thank you for another wonderful and touching video 🙏🏼🪷 As someone that walked this healing path. This video hit home for me on many levels concerning my past and things I dealt with on my healing journey. I want to remind everyone again, you do not have to take this journey on by yourself. Get the help you need and ask for help or support. It can be an overwhelming journey but so truly worth it. Because YOU are worth it. Much Love, Light and Healing. Thank you 🙏🏼 🪷
My heart ❤️ Strength sent right back at you beautiful one ✨💫 learning TCM and the impact our emotions/thoughts have on our organs is departmental , Ive and still going through it-reason why I needed to investigate through energy links why are bodies default our Yin and Yang (Qi) I now, smile at my organs and talk to my cells and atoms with colour 🌀🧘 and appreciation! Work in progress xox I am in perfect health manifested. Thank you for sharing your personal story. 💫💫💫🌟⚡️🌀
It is truly so difficult and coming up again now so that we can filter out that ladt bit of sand, then a silt of residual trauma. I've finally gotten most of it winnowed down. It's especially difficult when it's someone you love like your partner or child. Truly, we must learn not to put ourselves in the way of that mack-truck that will hit you every time. I've decided to do this when that happens: 1: Do not be in their space when they are like that. With my partner, when she was doing it (in response to my expectation that she would... belittle, be rude. It matched her expectation that it is how relationships work), I would clearly state that i won't tolerate it. She would try to say she was reasing or i was hearing things... and I'd reiterate that i know what it was and what it felt like, and i wouldn't tolerate it. She'd throw a fit, stomp out, not communicate for 2 or 3 days. I had to learn to reiterate that the silent thing was a form of punishment that doesn't work and is mean. We did cycles of that as she got used to me standing up for myself, and she got used to me meaning that i can see her loving parts too. I started adding the component of only "seeing" the good qualities of them and not focusing on the attributes i had been anticipating. It gradually got better and better- because our souls were ready to work through our own issues and learn how to be with each other and communicate with no guilt, fear, anger, anticipation of negative response... it took a while. I knew/know what my issues were... replaying and working through abuse... now in a safe space with a person who could reflect what i needed to see and respond to my love and boundaries. I don't think she understands all of her issues still, but it's up to her to figure that out and now that iur interaction is clear and kind, she has to work those things out with her source people/issues (her parents and siblings, some exes). Looking at people with love, looking for the best in them even though they aren't behaving that way, was a transformational technique. I didn't SAY anything... it was just in my mind, body, and soul.... but her soul heard it... and she made changes.
Thank you for another wonderful and touching video 🙏🏼🪷 As someone that walked this healing path. This video hit home for me on many levels concerning my past and things I dealt with on my healing journey.
I want to remind everyone again, you do not have to take this journey on by yourself. Get the help you need and ask for help or support. It can be an overwhelming journey but so truly worth it. Because YOU are worth it.
Much Love, Light and Healing.
Thank you 🙏🏼 🪷
So important to listen to this whole Constance Messmer podcast. You may need this
💥🌀 LOVE your encouragement!
Divine intervention is the only thing that gets me through.
Thankyou for this& thankyou for your strength! ❤
I had a few tumultuous weeks with my wasband. Trying to co-parent after abuse is extremely challenging. I appreciate this message.
Thank you for this… so helpful to get info for what these difficult emotions are teaching us. 💜
Omg I cant wait to watch this . Only just started reading about this the other day for a diploma project . You are a legend Constance Messmer !!
Im a new member
Love to all
Ty
My heart ❤️
Strength sent right back at you beautiful one ✨💫
learning TCM and the impact our emotions/thoughts have on our organs is departmental , Ive and still going through it-reason why I needed to investigate through energy links why are bodies default our Yin and Yang (Qi)
I now, smile at my organs and talk to my cells and atoms with colour 🌀🧘 and appreciation!
Work in progress xox
I am in perfect health manifested.
Thank you for sharing your personal story. 💫💫💫🌟⚡️🌀
Thanks needed to hear this
It is truly so difficult and coming up again now so that we can filter out that ladt bit of sand, then a silt of residual trauma. I've finally gotten most of it winnowed down. It's especially difficult when it's someone you love like your partner or child. Truly, we must learn not to put ourselves in the way of that mack-truck that will hit you every time. I've decided to do this when that happens: 1: Do not be in their space when they are like that. With my partner, when she was doing it (in response to my expectation that she would... belittle, be rude. It matched her expectation that it is how relationships work), I would clearly state that i won't tolerate it. She would try to say she was reasing or i was hearing things... and I'd reiterate that i know what it was and what it felt like, and i wouldn't tolerate it. She'd throw a fit, stomp out, not communicate for 2 or 3 days. I had to learn to reiterate that the silent thing was a form of punishment that doesn't work and is mean.
We did cycles of that as she got used to me standing up for myself, and she got used to me meaning that i can see her loving parts too. I started adding the component of only "seeing" the good qualities of them and not focusing on the attributes i had been anticipating. It gradually got better and better- because our souls were ready to work through our own issues and learn how to be with each other and communicate with no guilt, fear, anger, anticipation of negative response... it took a while.
I knew/know what my issues were... replaying and working through abuse... now in a safe space with a person who could reflect what i needed to see and respond to my love and boundaries. I don't think she understands all of her issues still, but it's up to her to figure that out and now that iur interaction is clear and kind, she has to work those things out with her source people/issues (her parents and siblings, some exes).
Looking at people with love, looking for the best in them even though they aren't behaving that way, was a transformational technique. I didn't SAY anything... it was just in my mind, body, and soul.... but her soul heard it... and she made changes.
I ordered her childs book for my family
I just joined now im ashed...🤔
What about the reproductive systems emotions... 👀