In some aspects, I agree with you about the how you struggling if you have a man comments. I agree with that concept because in a relationship, no matter who makes more or whatever that is, you should be equally yoked. Some people end up in relationships, where the other person is not enable bodied person like you mentioned and so that’s when the question is how are you struggling when you have a partner. Struggling with your partner while making the efforts to come out of that is different from struggling because your partner is not helpful to you and it’s basically deadweight. I don’t think that people mean it as in a man is supposed to pay all the bills or provide and that’s why they say it, I think they’re saying that if you two are together in this life as partners you should not be out doing the other and or feel like you’re in it alone.
@@_Chrissy_chatz whole heartedly AGREE that’s y I said..This is NOT for the bums!😂🤣 Deadweight=Bum🤷🏽♀️aim not sure if u were an insecure watcher like myself lol But on the show when Issa felt she was pulling all the weight in the relationship while he was chillin😂😩
Me and my hubby are besties! Worked together for 18yrs! I can’t wait to get home to hang out with him ❤
In some aspects, I agree with you about the how you struggling if you have a man comments. I agree with that concept because in a relationship, no matter who makes more or whatever that is, you should be equally yoked. Some people end up in relationships, where the other person is not enable bodied person like you mentioned and so that’s when the question is how are you struggling when you have a partner. Struggling with your partner while making the efforts to come out of that is different from struggling because your partner is not helpful to you and it’s basically deadweight. I don’t think that people mean it as in a man is supposed to pay all the bills or provide and that’s why they say it, I think they’re saying that if you two are together in this life as partners you should not be out doing the other and or feel like you’re in it alone.
@@_Chrissy_chatz whole heartedly AGREE that’s y I said..This is NOT for the bums!😂🤣 Deadweight=Bum🤷🏽♀️aim not sure if u were an insecure watcher like myself lol But on the show when Issa felt she was pulling all the weight in the relationship while he was chillin😂😩
Cause society says they are strong bread winners and struggling for a man means they are weak.