@@13gudadodI understand what she means. It might not fit your box of how you understand gender, but she wasn't trying to be rude. It's an interesting conversation.
I absolutely adore her. She was very understanding of everyone's orientation. I like how she asked "and what does that mean to you?" vs "what does that mean?" it makes all the difference in understanding and acceptance
My mom is gay and Bella reminds me so much of the dozens of gay women who helped raise me. Many of them had their families disowned them, so the community is very tight-knit and family-like. I turned out to be a straight cis woman, and it was really a gift to be brought up by a group of people so fully true to who they are. That's rare. I am rather femme, but I feel confident it's who I really am because not once was I expected or pressured to conform to any mold. They grew up never even seeing non-straight people in media and so they simply had to forge their own paths and do so with incredible strength, because man, the shit they faced. I'm so happy to see that path is paved for future generations and that it's ever-expanding into endless avenues. Everyone deserves to be themselves without a fight.
💗 love this as I too! Have a gay mom I was raised by two woman and never once questioned my sexuality which is interesting to think about. I’m a straight woman who got married and now have a child of my own. My daughter has like 5 grandmas now 😂💗 life’s great and I hope your doing amazing
Meanwhile, for me a combination of wide shoulders and large breasts means that I end up wearing unisex and men’s tops 😂. I can’t cross my arms in women’s tops. I’m pansexual and look feminine, but I don’t like wearing skirts or putting on makeup, and I’d rather wear a suit if I have to work in person. I think people might struggle to guess my orientation.
There were sales lately, I bought nice shoes for my kids and well, I found nice prices for me too 🤣👌wherever there is an offer, I am there, so now my boys are telling everyone that "mom buy male stuff or kid stuff because she is small,she prefers black and Grey colors and because she doesn't like to spend too much money on her" 🤣🤣🤣
The nerdy guy does have feminine mannerisms, but as soon as he opened his mouth and said that pick up line, I was like "well, he's definitely into girls". LOL And when he said "I am bothered" lmao I find him kinda cool, in an unusual way.
I love her. I love this video. She came off as cocky a bit at first, but then she just kept asking questions to understand more and didn't seem to have any bad intentions
Tbh cut should just do a segment where someone guesses “what show or tv character confirmed your sexuality?” Bc dude is not alone lmao. Maybe that’s a younger generation thing though😂
For us older folks, a good question would be "Who found the Eurythmics performance at the 1984 Grammys influential?" ruclips.net/video/pISsAndOLmA/видео.html
Her gaydar works so well. I couldn't have guessed better. I love her. I really resonated with what she said when she said i might have come out as trans if i was born later.
I agree. People do forget that transitioning is a method to deal with dysphoria, but it doesn't mean that everyone needs to follow that path. I liked Bella's reply.
I relate to the video game developer who is straight but everyone assumes he's gay and in the closet. I'm a very masculine woman who does manual labor and everyone assumes I'm a butch lesbian, and then assumes that I'm just in the closet when I tell them I'm straight. The struggle is real 😂😂
Hi I'm the guy in the video you're talking about. I think about this comment a lot. I feel like people assuming you're in the closet when you say you're straight and don't look straight is something lots of people experience but isn't really talked about??? Seeing you react to what I've said and the hundreds of likes on this post from people who likely relate... feels really good to know I've helped y'all feel more seen, and I'm rooting for all of you, surprisingly-straight peeps. Here's hoping people start believing us more often 😅
It’s okay! In a good relationship, they would have likely talked this out ahead of time. If anything, it was his choice. And like, as she said, sex was not off the table.
At the end, she was like - ...emotional about discovering how the world was changing, ... perhaps in an unexpected manner that her daily life could present it. I am sure that it helped her, in a certain way 😊
Her whole personality is amazing. We'd love to see more of her! and this episode is an eye-opener to more information about sexual orientations! I love this.
I hope Bella knows that you can absolutely be a trans man without surgery or changing who you are or what parts you have! If you identify masculine and feel manly, and date mostly straight women, and think you’d “go down that path” if you were younger, you can absolutely identify as a man! Or non binary! And/or you can just say you’re queer instead of lesbian, or gay, or whatever words fit you and your mind and body best!! It’s not too late! I’m 30 and I’ve only recently been coming out as bi and I wouldn’t even say that I knew my whole life either. We’re in a more accepting world with nicer people, the intolerance is just very loud. But love always wins!
or you can just be a masculine woman? why do we feel the need to categorize people who don't conform to their assigned gender as "nonbinary" or "trans"? like if she's not uncomfortable in her current identity why are people trying to impose being trans on her
@@Julia-hj7nn oh absolutely! I was just commenting on her comment about how she would have considering transitioning if she were younger. But if she’s happy, then she’s happy!
@@Julia-hj7nn she did say that she might have identified as trans if she was raised in the current environment of informed acceptance for trans folks *and* that totally doesn't negate her current identity. it's just nice to have the opportunity to learn from other folks' experience so that if you do feel a different identifier suits you better, there is a supportive community and information that can stand with you while you discover that. i'll never assume or push gender identity on another person, but i'll always be open to sharing my experience and encouraging any curiosity others have about their identity.
“Women are straight until they meet me”. What a flex! 😂 I can’t hate on her confidence though. Also, us bi/pan people are always throwing everyone off. Has there been a bisexual guesser before? I’d be interested to see if they’d do better identifying other bisexuals.
As a straight woman myself even thinking about getting with a woman is like ew no so they where def at least bi. Girls hide in the closet just as much as guys.
I think that's why she said, "they were straight at the time." They might have been hiding their sexuality before they met her. Might have been harder back in the day to accept and be accepted about their sexuality compared to today.
‘I got to experience the 70’s’ u did what now? She does not look like she’s old enough to have even been born in the 70’s let alone been old enough to have fun during them. Like damn.
She reminds me SO much my great aunt. I always looked forward to getting to see her and her wife when I was little. She really introduced me to theatre, and other aspects of ‘gay culture’. Butch lesbians are so cool
Im Really good friends with a guy that’s like the nerdy guy. He’s straight but he can be very feminine. I tell him that means he’s most comfortable with his own sexuality. Because personally I believe people can be masculine and feminine, it’s not so one dimensional anymore, it’s fluid. I love it. ** because why can girls be tomboys but boys can’t be tomgirls? **
Ha I feel this. I am a lesbian and was always attracted to butch women her age!! Just how can anyone not be attracted?! I like when someone is natural, no excessive makeup no social media drama and stress. Just be kickass and be yourself. That is very sexy. And I'm definitely jealous now to have been around in the 70s!
I feel that allowing her to ask any question directly related to attraction and sexual preference makes it too easy, but disallowing that would make it too hard.
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I like her, I felt she was respectful and wanted to understand every one's stories.
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Respectful"if I was younger Iwould definitely gone into the trans road"
Me too she’s very good
@@13gudadodI understand what she means. It might not fit your box of how you understand gender, but she wasn't trying to be rude. It's an interesting conversation.
We like her too! Let us know if you’d like to see more of her as a guesser in future Lineup episodes.
I absolutely adore her. She was very understanding of everyone's orientation. I like how she asked "and what does that mean to you?" vs "what does that mean?" it makes all the difference in understanding and acceptance
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Except for when she made that face at the guy who said he was bisexual!
this is the same woman who says she purposely goes for straight women and has sex with them to “turn” them gay btw
not just in this video and multiple others
ehm no. She was pretty homophobic and she used a lot of stereotypes to guess the sexuality of those people , all while being lesbian herself
Bella is literally the most kick ass human I’ve ever seen. I can just tell she’s the life of any party
You're straight, aren't you? 😜
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only two replies bruh
Who’s Bella?
@@Whiponized The lady guessing in the video
Teen Wolf confirming his sexuality is so relatable 😂
Lydia and stiles got me a funny bi feeling at the age of sweet 15 y’all 😌
@@trn228 omg me too
YEAH
@@trn228 the exact same thing happened to me
omg, jackson, erica and isaac making out🛐🛐🛐
My mom is gay and Bella reminds me so much of the dozens of gay women who helped raise me. Many of them had their families disowned them, so the community is very tight-knit and family-like. I turned out to be a straight cis woman, and it was really a gift to be brought up by a group of people so fully true to who they are. That's rare. I am rather femme, but I feel confident it's who I really am because not once was I expected or pressured to conform to any mold. They grew up never even seeing non-straight people in media and so they simply had to forge their own paths and do so with incredible strength, because man, the shit they faced. I'm so happy to see that path is paved for future generations and that it's ever-expanding into endless avenues. Everyone deserves to be themselves without a fight.
That is so beautiful and inspiring c:
I relate to this so much 💗
💗 love this as I too! Have a gay mom I was raised by two woman and never once questioned my sexuality which is interesting to think about. I’m a straight woman who got married and now have a child of my own. My daughter has like 5 grandmas now 😂💗 life’s great and I hope your doing amazing
'Everyone deserves to be themselves without a fight' Thank you for this.
This is so beautiful ❤️ Hope stigma surrounding same sex families someday stops 🙏❤️God Bless you and your beautiful family
"it's a little boy suit. it's the only ones that fit me" honestly, relatable
Meanwhile, for me a combination of wide shoulders and large breasts means that I end up wearing unisex and men’s tops 😂. I can’t cross my arms in women’s tops. I’m pansexual and look feminine, but I don’t like wearing skirts or putting on makeup, and I’d rather wear a suit if I have to work in person. I think people might struggle to guess my orientation.
me buying shoes in the little boys section
There were sales lately, I bought nice shoes for my kids and well, I found nice prices for me too 🤣👌wherever there is an offer, I am there, so now my boys are telling everyone that "mom buy male stuff or kid stuff because she is small,she prefers black and Grey colors and because she doesn't like to spend too much money on her" 🤣🤣🤣
I wear men clothes
"If practice makes perfect your parents must be named practice and practice!"
I perished
I am deceased
That’s when I knew he was straight 😂
He’s so smooth
I knew he was straight the second he said that
I love how hard she tries to be respectful
She doesn't try at all, that's natural for her
i slept with one straight guys and i was like “ew get off of me...........get off of me....”
story of my life
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I think that now and I'm straight
there's more videos about it on youtube
Same but with women, also not the same 😂
lol his response "that me with woman"
The nerdy guy does have feminine mannerisms, but as soon as he opened his mouth and said that pick up line, I was like "well, he's definitely into girls". LOL And when he said "I am bothered" lmao I find him kinda cool, in an unusual way.
He's the typical quirky geek white guy
As soon as he walked out I knew he was straight.
I love her. I love this video. She came off as cocky a bit at first, but then she just kept asking questions to understand more and didn't seem to have any bad intentions
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A good saying is “It’s better to assume people are being ignorant and not malicious.” It’s worked wonders for my emotional health. 😂
Tbh cut should just do a segment where someone guesses “what show or tv character confirmed your sexuality?” Bc dude is not alone lmao. Maybe that’s a younger generation thing though😂
YEEEEES please aafahshafg
yes
I want a segment within that segment devoted entirely to Xena
they should have to match the character to the person
For us older folks, a good question would be "Who found the Eurythmics performance at the 1984 Grammys influential?" ruclips.net/video/pISsAndOLmA/видео.html
“I’m just your basic gay person” I like this women she’s so chill😭✅
Her gaydar works so well. I couldn't have guessed better. I love her. I really resonated with what she said when she said i might have come out as trans if i was born later.
gave me TERF vibes tbh and she might be a bit noncey
@@bogey what does noncey mean?
@@bogey why TERF vibes
@@bogey shut up
@@bogey the lesbophobia from this comment
I like how this nerd was like:
I am straight *fingerguns*
I could have sworn he was bisexual!
yeah fr😂
Heavy Zeke Yeager energy
Her interaction with the trans man (they didn’t say his name or else I would’ve used that) was very interesting in such a brief amount of time.
I agree. People do forget that transitioning is a method to deal with dysphoria, but it doesn't mean that everyone needs to follow that path. I liked Bella's reply.
True
I love Bella so much! she came off respectful and got to know some of the individuals on a deeper level
I relate to the video game developer who is straight but everyone assumes he's gay and in the closet. I'm a very masculine woman who does manual labor and everyone assumes I'm a butch lesbian, and then assumes that I'm just in the closet when I tell them I'm straight. The struggle is real 😂😂
you don't need to prove yourself to them, queen ♥
Hi I'm the guy in the video you're talking about. I think about this comment a lot. I feel like people assuming you're in the closet when you say you're straight and don't look straight is something lots of people experience but isn't really talked about??? Seeing you react to what I've said and the hundreds of likes on this post from people who likely relate... feels really good to know I've helped y'all feel more seen, and I'm rooting for all of you, surprisingly-straight peeps. Here's hoping people start believing us more often 😅
Two thoughts:
1. I like Bella
2. I want to know more about the asexual sex worker
she just takes pics of herself and makes money off of it, no actual sex involved
@@norahoffman6980 I heard her say that. I also heard her describe herself as a sex worker, hence my choice of words. 🤷♀️
am I missing something, who said that?
@@selfraisingsugar898 said which part?
It’s okay! In a good relationship, they would have likely talked this out ahead of time. If anything, it was his choice. And like, as she said, sex was not off the table.
I’m wildly attracted to this woman 🤯, she’s got another straight girl hoooooked.
Same.
oh boy do I have something to tell you
@The Violinist I didn’t say sexually attracted to her lol, I just vibe.
bella's interaction w the lady explaining the ace spectrum/where she fit on it is just the most wholesome thing to me honestly :'D
As soon as I saw the noti, I decided that spanish class can wait, this is a priority.
I'll teach you spanish, cut videos are more important
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I want the full story on the Asexual girl. That’s so fascinating.
I'm asexual
@@emilysadventures9165 we want her not you miss
Same, it's super interesting how varied the ace community is.
@@emilysadventures9165 please feel free to share your story if you want!
don’t mind me i’m just gonna comment here so i get notified in case someone replies
Bring Bella back!!! I love her so much. She’s so cool and so respectful.
Please bring her back!! She is such a down to earth person, I admire her so much
At the end, she was like - ...emotional about discovering how the world was changing, ... perhaps in an unexpected manner that her daily life could present it.
I am sure that it helped her, in a certain way 😊
The game developer pretending to flirt with her! Priceless 😂😂😂
That pick up line was the worst.. but funny :D
it might work for some, who knows.
She seems like a really cool conversation at a party/bar.. down to Earth, confident, chill, listener.
I love her omg. She is such a cool lady. Like holy shit I would love her to be my mom or aunt 😂
Gee, Bella's capability to respect, be open, and get a long with so many people is what I find most attractive about her.
This person is so attractive and understanding that I am sure she is capable to make every single being on the planet falls in love with her.
Her confidence is beyond galaxies, i am a straight guy & i want that confidence!
Step 1 : Get yourself a suit 😉.
I love Bella so much. She’s so genuine and has so much empathy. You can tell she really wants to understand everyone
I love how she doesn't always understand everybody, but she tries to. She doesn't dismiss them just because she doesn't understand right away.
I love how respectful everyone is about each other's identities. We come in so many forms, and this video shows that in a very beautiful way. ❤🌈
I am just coming to terms with my sexuality and trying to meet queer people. When she said "just take your time" to the bisexual woman, I felt that.
HOLD UP DID HE JUST SAY TEEN WOLF OMFG
I would love to have Bella as a friend, she seems like a really nice and wise human being. I for sure learn a lot of things from her.
Bella is what everyone should strive to be comfortable with herself, excited to learn, willing to grow.
When the sex worker said she identifies as hetero romantic but asexual that really resonated with me.
I’m so in love with Bella. Please have her do more videos! She’s so attractive and funny. Yes, I’m a “straight” woman haha
Him saying "teen wolf that was my show" cracked me up so badly.
Me too bro, me too
“That’s how I knew I was gay... I was like Damn” that was me XD
6:53 "jokes on you im straight"
*finger guns*
The second guy does his makeup so wellllll! Ive seen his tiktoks and theyre beyond me.
What’s his TikTok username please?
What the tiktok
Whats his tiktok?
Someone please link me his tiktok or insta 😭
I love how open she was to learning and understanding asexuality and hetero romanticism !!
I love her mannerism and energy, looks like an animated character:)
The game developer is very much a john mulaney type of straight
Her whole personality is amazing. We'd love to see more of her! and this episode is an eye-opener to more information about sexual orientations! I love this.
This game was too hard for me 😭✋
Same i did so bad! 🤣
I love Bella's personality. I just adore the person she is.
THE TEENWOLF REFERENCE AWW
I hope Bella knows that you can absolutely be a trans man without surgery or changing who you are or what parts you have! If you identify masculine and feel manly, and date mostly straight women, and think you’d “go down that path” if you were younger, you can absolutely identify as a man! Or non binary! And/or you can just say you’re queer instead of lesbian, or gay, or whatever words fit you and your mind and body best!! It’s not too late! I’m 30 and I’ve only recently been coming out as bi and I wouldn’t even say that I knew my whole life either. We’re in a more accepting world with nicer people, the intolerance is just very loud. But love always wins!
or you can just be a masculine woman? why do we feel the need to categorize people who don't conform to their assigned gender as "nonbinary" or "trans"? like if she's not uncomfortable in her current identity why are people trying to impose being trans on her
@@Julia-hj7nn oh absolutely! I was just commenting on her comment about how she would have considering transitioning if she were younger. But if she’s happy, then she’s happy!
@@Julia-hj7nn she did say that she might have identified as trans if she was raised in the current environment of informed acceptance for trans folks *and* that totally doesn't negate her current identity. it's just nice to have the opportunity to learn from other folks' experience so that if you do feel a different identifier suits you better, there is a supportive community and information that can stand with you while you discover that. i'll never assume or push gender identity on another person, but i'll always be open to sharing my experience and encouraging any curiosity others have about their identity.
Can Bella have her own show, already!
2:12
"I actually feel more masculine than you."
"Oh... Great."
😂😂😂
6:12
I love how he's like "I'm bothered" and not "I have sex with people".... That says it all 😂
Bella is amazing! Such a joy to watch. So cool in front of the camera. Please can we see more of them?
That teddy bear is so adorable
I know, right? He's super handsome and cute. I hope he appears in future videos!! 🥰🐻
I truly LOVE her. She is so charismatic and respectful ♥️
I love Felix he’s so sweet
"I am a big teddy bear" I LOVED HIM I WANT ONE OF THOSE 😭
“Women are straight until they meet me”. What a flex! 😂 I can’t hate on her confidence though. Also, us bi/pan people are always throwing everyone off. Has there been a bisexual guesser before? I’d be interested to see if they’d do better identifying other bisexuals.
I have great gaydar, but my bi-fi is definitely broken! It's like you bi/pan folks have a secret shield to keep our powers at bay! 🤣
SHE IS THE IRL EDNA MODE FROM THE INCREDIBLES! Incredible.
When she said straight women are attracted to her, I was like then they probably weren’t straight
Or they are just drawn to her masculine energy perhaps.
As a straight woman myself even thinking about getting with a woman is like ew no so they where def at least bi. Girls hide in the closet just as much as guys.
I think that's why she said, "they were straight at the time." They might have been hiding their sexuality before they met her. Might have been harder back in the day to accept and be accepted about their sexuality compared to today.
@@orin998 Also, for some people it takes a while to understand one's orientation, given how strong cultural conditioning is.
I am attracted to women and straight. I don't want any sexual contact with another woman, but I can look at one and say if she's attractive to me.
i'm crying at the end, trans acceptance
or rather, acceptance that transitioning is a choice, not necessarily the only way to deal with dysphoria.
hi this is the asian guy from the video and yes same
"Thank you, it's a little boy's suit. It's the only ones that fit me." 😂 That's so real. 😭
She fresh AF
‘I got to experience the 70’s’ u did what now? She does not look like she’s old enough to have even been born in the 70’s let alone been old enough to have fun during them. Like damn.
frr i was shook as well, but i googled her and she's 65. crazy
I can honestly see how straight women fall for her. She has a great energy to her
Bella is an amazing person with such a vibrant and kind personality!
Day 1 of me telling the cut to do an odd man out: "who is not a stoner?"
you are a GENIUS
Where are the friggin sober people god damnit?
They already did a who is stoned video? Just not an odd man out format.
She reminds me SO much my great aunt. I always looked forward to getting to see her and her wife when I was little. She really introduced me to theatre, and other aspects of ‘gay culture’. Butch lesbians are so cool
She absolutely needs to have her own show
she has great style and beautiful personality
love her ♥️
She gives me the impression that she'd be so much fun to be around at all times. I laughed out loud so much
The badass therapist is back!
i loved the energy in this episode. everyone was smiling and having a good time. respect all around:)
Female barney stinson. Definitely feel like I saw a compilation of ways she ran out of bars
OMG BELLA COULD LITERALLY CURB STOMP ME AND I WOULD THANK HER
I love how charismatic she is
6:55
*crosses arms*
*wears button-up*
*finger guns*
"jokes on you, I'm straight"
i did not see that coming
6:24 this line would legit work on me I laughed so hard
Bella is such an awesome person! I think all the comments say it much better than I can. Would love to see more videos with Bella!
The Christian girl, adorable. She’ll find a lovely lady real quick.
I loved this video! I feel like this premise doesn’t make it easy but everyone handled it so respectfully
She's definitely one of my favorites that turns up in these videos 👍
She is very wise & her style is on point. Love it.
Im Really good friends with a guy that’s like the nerdy guy. He’s straight but he can be very feminine. I tell him that means he’s most comfortable with his own sexuality. Because personally I believe people can be masculine and feminine, it’s not so one dimensional anymore, it’s fluid. I love it. ** because why can girls be tomboys but boys can’t be tomgirls? **
This woman is so attractive to me and I'm straight, she has a very special energy
Bella seems badass! We need more of her.
I love Bella so much! Literally her BIGGEST FAN OMG
Ha I feel this. I am a lesbian and was always attracted to butch women her age!! Just how can anyone not be attracted?! I like when someone is natural, no excessive makeup no social media drama and stress. Just be kickass and be yourself. That is very sexy. And I'm definitely jealous now to have been around in the 70s!
Agreed, except I’m a bi man.
I love this lady!!! So kind and welcoming, want more of her Cut!!!
Shes awesome i liked the nerdy and trans men they were cute. I like how she showed respect to the bi girl im similar to her
I think she's such a wholesome human.
I feel that allowing her to ask any question directly related to attraction and sexual preference makes it too easy, but disallowing that would make it too hard.
She is really awesome + opened to everyone who is out there
"I actually feel more masculine than you" babe what does that have to do with anything? Anyways. Love ya
BRO THESUTITLE "I think there's a higher power up there. is it a garden?" 😭
She is so amazing. I wish I had an aunt like her.
“I was like ew! Get off of me!😂