The way this judge handled this matter was really unjust and unfair. So a woman should follow her husband every time the man wants to move!? They both decided to move to Accra and the woman sold her personal belongings. how dare you move and then after a few days you want to move back.Moving back is not even the issue but the husband could have handled it in a better way. The only issue here is that the husband had another woman so we wanted to move back to Lagos. This woman needs help,she is been tortured emotionally and that is not fair! As a woman judge you should really put yourself in her shoes. Would you have left law school just to be with your husband! It’s 2021 women should do what makes them happy! If you want to move out of your husbands house 1 week after you got married, do you sis!... her moving out of her husbands house three times shouldn’t even be an issue. so it’s right for man to just pack and go but not for a woman! Women definitely deserve to be treasured better!!!!
Hmm! I understand what you mean my sister. But the video wasn't fully completed after watching it here. I wish to know how it end because at the the end of the day the lady and the man deserve better. A controlling Mother inlaws is a big problem either from the man or woman.
The judge could not even talk to man about his mother controlling the marriage. The man is lazy and cannot make a good husband. The judge have a bad day on this case.
Judge gave a very fair judgement. she dropped her children and now she wants full custody. she valued her job over her children and marriage. she knew the guy was a club guy all along. she is a mental trauma and needs care-a reverend sister after marriage. The conclusion of it all, both were never compactable from the beginning.
She didn't have to apologize for how the mother felt about receiving the food.... Its her choice to feel how she ‼️ why the wife have to apologize because That's how the mother felt. Smh
I'm just surprised as to how judge Fummi handle this case, judge Fummi wasn't fair on this girl at all. This girl is been ganged up on and bullied by mum in-law n husband n I can't believe judge Fummi took their side. Judge Fummi usually fights for the oppressed and is usually very fair, why does it seem otherwise with this case. I feel for that girl
the lady blew her chance pls just watch again and see the point i think the judge put into consideration, point 1, the husband left Accra she did not follow him, point two the spiritual husband thing because the judge see the lady is not stable minded but its bad on the guys side to use that against her in other to hold on to the kids but point 3 is what nail the coffin for her which is she went to drop the kids as you can see the judge keep asking you went to drop them off then the lady knew she fucked up she keep saying no i did not drop them then the judge asked her to explain how it happen then when she finish her narration the judge point out that she drop them off then i know she cant get the kids back never and in court welfare of kids is priority when marriage crash if other episodes you can see she normally point out welfare of kids so i think she is fare in her judgement cheers
Because you dont understand the law. She is a judge when you ask question you want to know who the person is simple psychology their is not innocent both of them are not mature those that advised her to dropped her children gave her wrong advise
I feel the husband is not even a man,see how he was saying she has a spiritual husband and wanted to become a reverend sister and was laughing. Marriage is not every one some men still behave like boys think like boys,marriage is for mature minds
Why is this judge always hard on the women? What is she trying to get at with all the interrogations. Even in domestic abuse cases against the women, she will somehow put the blame on the woman. Sickening!
if the wife of your brother start to assert she has a spiritual husband after 2 children and so wants to become a reverend sister, moved away from the marriage 4 times, then you will understand what that man has coped with in the marriage. No single allegation of physical assort here. The problem of this marriage is simply a wrong religious belief system , immaturity of both partner and parental interference from both in laws
For all her education, it seems like the judge is still holding on to backward traditions that treat women as property and lesser humans. She has sons too....hope she's fair to their wives.
I agree with you, the judge is so weak when dealing with domestic violence and abuse on women. Is such a shame that with all her education she still have this backward mentality.
You are not a Nigerian so you wont understand, please try and read about Nigerian law on domestic violence especially the Lagos state where this court is so that you will not be disgracing yourself on social media also this court is civil court hope you know the difference between criminal and civil court?
I hope the judge will read comment she really need to stay out of marital issues stop blaming women and polishing domestic violence be kind to women in domestic they already going through alot 😡😡😡
I think this lady needs Therapy. She sounds like someone that has gone through a lot in this marriage and that can definitely mess up ones psyche. I hope she gets the help she deserves. Waiting for the concluding part
This judge is out of her mind on this case. Exceedingly poor judgment. This poor girl against her horrible husband and crazy mother in law. What a disaster!!
These two have no business getting married let alone bringing children into their confused relationship. They're immature and are still tied to their mothers' apron strings. The children are the victims in this confusion called marriage and I really feel sorry for them.
I feel sad for the girl she is surrounded by people who don’t even acknowledge she is being abused by that selfish boy the judge is not even fair in the way she she speaks to her she so rude Help the girl!!
Judge Fumi dropped the ball on this case. She treated this young woman horribly and went easy on this man . Hmmm! I'm disappointed. Culture and backward traditions is a colonization of the mind where ever it is.Because it's culture doesn't make it right.We are sometimes our own worst enemy. I say this with all due respect.
Judge Funmi, with due respect ma, remember you said Lagos State law states that when a lady have a child for you, you must always take care of the child even if you don't care about the mother... But, here I am hearing another thing entirely. I am a man, I had had series of misunderstanding with my wife, but whenever I think about how she take care of the children, the activities she involved herself into just to keep the family grooving. I feel for her and vow never to have issues with her anymore. Ladies are troublesome but they will always respect a man that will keep quiet when they are annoyed. Let's be sincere, if u like marry 10wives, the children will not like you except their mother want them to. So respect yourself as a man so that you can see kids that u will send to assist you on things (not everything house help can do)
This woman on her own said she went to drop the children for the husband and didn't check on them for two years humm let's wait for the judgment though
The wife is too intelligent for the man.. She is just spiritually oppressed.. And the man is just too dumb to understand.. Divine intervention is needed.
She shouldn’t have entered bcuz she can’t do that with her own mum. And it doesn’t show respect that’s y Judge was saying “ it’s like washing ur dirty linen outside”
The girl didn't give up custody of her children. She dropped them of with their father because she is traumatized. They both should have custody of the children except if will be detrimental to the children. The only thing the judge said here i agree with is that the children should not be with a third party, both should step up and raise their children.
Mother in law from hell...a friend to my hubby's,his mum is the one controlling his marriage...he (my husband friend) is on his 3rd marriage...the guy's life is now miserable!
My thought on this issue,. I thought this court is about settling debt, Judge is so inexperience in marital issue and was obviously sounding like a typical Yoruba mother. Slandering the wife all through the proceeding. If, the judge sees this comment, please stay off relationship issue and face the debt settling matter you are good at. In addition, traveling to Ghana, they have sold most of their properties, and had nothing to fall back on in Nigeria, where would they have stayed??? So many unattended questions you left hanging judge 🙃🙃🙃
The Judge has handled relationship and marriage issues well before this case. It unfortunate that this case is complicated. And she will come out strong I can bet you.
@@chukie77, this case is only complicated for those who prioritize emotions over reasoning. What if the man or his parents are atheists? How do you expect them to deal with her? By the way, courts need facts and evidence, not spirit or prayer.
You are right! I am a fan of this show but this judge lost me with this case! She definitely handled it wrong! Ah Ah so the women should just pack and leave because the husband said so! And her dropping the kids! What does the judge mean by just drop off! As a woman she should understand that it was hard for the woman to take her kids to the man but she did so she could save the marriage!
This guy is so incoherent and a joker. Why did such a beautiful and intelligent lady end up with an unserious and crazy guy like this? A typical mummy's boy.
@@sheedashee3959 I'm looking forward to hearing the conclusion of the matter most especially the guys side of the story. I'm sitting watching and wondering what he did to get her married to him, with three kids and him sounding so incoherent... Pathetic
Honestly I wanna join you on that one this man the way his face is shining i feel that he just like seeing her suffer and 2 be honest the mum is fair to her 2
@@sheedashee3959 just what I was suspecting and from the second episode the guy is completely unserious and to think she's down with three kids for him is bad.
All mother in-law are selfish, if u are weak as a man, you will never have a good home and plan with your family. Whatever happens between u and ur wife, do not share it with your mother and same applies to the woman. Fight together and settle together. involving third party is wrong
The problem I see with marriages today is the issue of Immaturity and Pride. I believe every couple should have an older couple (no blood relations) as close friends, that they receive counsel from regularly and can help guide them and steer them in the right direction... Most couples today are too immature to handle a mature relationship. May God give us wisdom.
That's why in catholic church when a couple is getting married they must have sponsors who must be an elderly couple. The sponsor is not for footing bills of the wedding but they are supposed to be your guidance counsel when needed in your marriage.
This is why parents have to pray for their daughters, The minute they are born. Pray for them not to Marry the wrong Spouse. Not to enter the wrong Home. Start Praying for your daughters,at a very young age.
I will not watch this court anymore. This judge is encouraging the men to abuse their wives even in the case of domestic violence. These women are crying for help, they’ve been let down by this judge 😩😩😩
This lady didn't do anything wrong to take those kids to his place, since the man has moved on with another woman this lady is still alive to take care of her kids now because she working, step mother can never take care of my children
This young lady is going through a lot both physically, emotionally and spiritually. This judge is not helping matters at all, she has no remorse for this young lady. It seem this young lady is been spiritually attacked, and they are appearing to her as her husband. I pray God delivers her. Her husband seem to love her but don't know how to tackle their marital problems. Some people go through a lot in marriages especially women. The system needs to put a strict law against domestic violence, it is very prevalence in Nigeria homes.
Been spiritually attacked doesn't mean she is insane. She is very much sane and she stated she got a job as am admin assistant. I think she should have custody of the kids and the kids' father should support them financially and try to visit his kids regularly or take them sometime for a visit. Although I pray they work things out.
A MAN shall leave his FATHER and MOTHER and cling to his WIFE and the two shall become one Flesh. Any man that pulls his MOTHER to marry with him is a boy..period!!!! Our parents can advise us and not marry for us. As MIL you had the opportunity to marry and raise your children with your husband, leave your sons to marry oo. Your daughters inlaw are not your rivals oo.abegi The reality is, if custody is given to the man, there's 99% chance that the new woman won't treat them right.
I can't agree with you any less. This mother will not have a successful relationship until he let's go of the mama's boy mentality. He is practically married to his mother
The truth is that Seun is a jaiye-jaiye guy; he is not committed to the marriage. This has caused the wife emotional torture, and she is traumatized. She should be allowed full custody of her kids, this would make her stabilize emotionally. Whilst Seun continues his life of mirage. The Seun seems a nonentity.
He's using the kids against her to hurt her. The lady he is with now will either go through the same thing and leave, or stay and be used as a pawn, or she will treat him the same way and sleep with other men.
@@fapohundatemitope3117 You don't understand what I mean. She used the kids to try to get him back and reconcile with him. That's why she left her kids with him because like she said, she was hoping it will melt his heart towards her. She did that hoping to get her family back. But him withholding the kids from her is using the kids AGAINST her to hurt her. That's what a lot of people do. Very common in North America. He knows she loves her kids, and his heart is hardened towards her, he just wants to hurt her. So he is withholding the kids from her.
I feel so sorry for this young girl. The judge's interrogation is one sided and too unfair. she lacks experience in marital issues and is being so hard to the lady
ThIS JUDGE ASAOLU OR WHATEVER HER NAME IS NEEDs TO BE SACKED! She IS DAMN TOO CONDESCENDING! Wtf! I FELT DISGUSTED WITH THE WAY SHE KEPT SHUTTING THAT YOUNG LADY DOWN! WTF! Why are you a judge when you can’t judge well!!!! Odabi otigbabode for us women! Go and resign jare no be by force ooo before you spoil the little reputation you have! Disorganised Oshisko !
I'm surprised at your utterance but nevertheless , I wonder how you came to that conclusion before watching the conclusion where she gave judgement on the case. You appear biased already.
That's so not fair to the woman. The judge didn't handle this case well. How can you put this young woman under so much pressure in court? She succeeded in making the husband too comfortable in his mess
Never ignore red flags, they always catch up with your mental, physical and emotional health later in the relationship. This woman ignored this man's lousy behaviour and she is now suffering under the weight of it all🚩🚩🚩.
This judge is partial... she’s biased and that’s unethical...waiting for the concluding part to see how she ends this judgement. How can the judge be telling the woman “you will be a mother-in-law someday”.. i mean obviously she’s being sentimental, like something personal to her handling this case.. 😌
For those of you already condemning the judge, I think the case is inconclusive yet as the judge is still accessing the matter. So wait until she gives her verdict before you start your abuses.
Thank God I am carribean where mother in-laws mind their own business it is evident that his family played a vital part in the breakup also he didn't love her he quickly moved on
Since I found this channel, this is the first annoying episode. Judge Funmi was too hard on the lady, wasn't even listening to her or at all whereas this smart lady seems to have gone through so much in her life and in the hand of such a foolish man 🙄🙄
The lady said there was no table in the house, so this judge expected her to put the food on her her for the so called mother in-law, indeed God is the only righteous judge.
First 5years of Marriage is tough. If u scale through the first 10years without involvement of third party, there's no misunderstanding that u people won't be able to handle anymore
Judge Fumi was completely against this Yung lady . Maybe the Judge knew the husband mother . Nigeria court works for the rich people. So sad I wish I can find this girl to support her with money . She's mentally depressed. The mother in law have her husband in her hands tormenting that guy .
I’ve made a comment before that unfortunately this judge doesn’t take domestic violence seriously!! She was too hard on this lady and it’s obvious this lady has suffered in the hands of mummy’s boy and mummy. Mother-in-laws should let their son’s wife breath abeg!!!! Judge Funmi should stay off marital issues, I don’t think she’s good at settling it. Third parties were too involved in the marriage. Sad
I don’t understand when you(judge) ask the questions from her then defend the man by answering them for him, like you know what’s going through his mind thereby giving him reasons to lie or cover up .. you are so unprofessional with cases like this, I cringed the whole time watching this!! You basically kept attacking the girl without even hearing from the man and made her look like the bad egg... you need to upgrade your thinking and drop this African mentality .. I think you should watch foreign judges how they address issues without looking bias....
Solve Nigerian marital issues with foreign ideas and law? How do you address our polygamy which is acceptable under our law , the islamic marriage and traditional marriage? You are not being factual
I feel very much for this woman, she´s just their all alone, Madam judge please always be straight don´t take, you have been very hash on the poor lady very bad, despite all she sufferd in her marriage, Madam please know how you handle this show.
If the Mother-in law is out of line..she’s out of line..period..I would confront her..you can’t disrespect me in my house..PERIODT! With a T at the end!
Y'all on this forum complaining that the judge didn't do justice or that she's not supporting women's rights are not being fair. Please take your time to go watch her other videos. She's a woman and a Judge but that doesn't mean she has to always be on the side of a the female plaintiff or defendant all the time. She looks at the facts! And I hope women on this forum would stop pulling down this wonderful brilliant Judge, rather support and uplift each other. No judgment will suit everyone but we have to accept it and any aggrieved parties can appeal.
I thought I was the only one who noticed it; why is the judge always so lenient on the men after admitting domestic violence and abuse. She awards the cost without awarding damages. Can you imagine becoming partially blind from a guy that promised to love and protect you? You did not award the lady some compensation for damages, at least to deter other abusers from doing so in future. Nigerian men dey enjoy oh! Apart from some of them wey just dey “soji” or the wicked ones women dey suffer abeg. Is she dealing with the cases with what is obtainable in Nigerian society? E tire me. Imagine the one with Eva, the enormously endowed behind who borrowed her club friend money to start-up Uber? The judge was so easy on the liar 😩
Mmm.......the Judge was so harsh on this lady. She can't be worshipping everyone in the family for them to accept her. The husband and his mother are abusing and mistreating this young lady. She's emotionally drained and exhausted. The mother inlaw is just taking advantage of their poor financial situation to control them, especially her son🙄 😒
@@odasani1250 imagine ,instead of asking that mother's baby questions ,she is adding insult to injury to the young woman., she came to the court for help instead you are making it seems as if she is the evil in that home. Is so annoying.
@@goshencircle698 this is obviously part one of the case, no judgment yet, have you seen what is in part 2 and how she dealt with the man, too early to arrive at such opinion
The judge is not doing justice on this matter. This lady has suffered in the hands of this guy and her mother-in-law.
You are just being emotional.
@@fomujungfunjung471 God bless you
How you know? Do you have evidence, law and common-sense as philosophy?
Yes o am even hangry at her
I also believe the man might be using devilish way to sleep with her.
The young woman is traumatised because of her Mother in-law who controls the affairs of the home.
There marriage was a public one.
You are right Sir,
We need to pray for our daughters as soon as they are born.
The way this judge handled this matter was really unjust and unfair. So a woman should follow her husband every time the man wants to move!? They both decided to move to Accra and the woman sold her personal belongings. how dare you move and then after a few days you want to move back.Moving back is not even the issue but the husband could have handled it in a better way. The only issue here is that the husband had another woman so we wanted to move back to Lagos. This woman needs help,she is been tortured emotionally and that is not fair! As a woman judge you should really put yourself in her shoes. Would you have left law school just to be with your husband! It’s 2021 women should do what makes them happy! If you want to move out of your husbands house 1 week after you got married, do you sis!... her moving out of her husbands house three times shouldn’t even be an issue. so it’s right for man to just pack and go but not for a woman! Women definitely deserve to be treasured better!!!!
God bless you 🙏🏽
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Hmm! I understand what you mean my sister. But the video wasn't fully completed after watching it here. I wish to know how it end because at the the end of the day the lady and the man deserve better. A controlling Mother inlaws is a big problem either from the man or woman.
She didn't handle this case well
I was going to say that. She is so unfair.
The judge could not even talk to man about his mother controlling the marriage.
The man is lazy and cannot make a good husband.
The judge have a bad day on this case.
I totally agree
johnson your commet is the truth of the whole matter.
Hmmm...the judge is not a therapist.
She's emphasizing on the case b4 her.
Custody of the children..
Simple.
Justice is not Emotion.🤔
Maybe Judge Funmi sees herself in that mother in law
Just a lazy cocoon
Judge gave a very fair judgement. she dropped her children and now she wants full custody. she valued her job over her children and marriage. she knew the guy was a club guy all along. she is a mental trauma and needs care-a reverend sister after marriage. The conclusion of it all, both were never compactable from the beginning.
She didn't have to apologize for how the mother felt about receiving the food.... Its her choice to feel how she ‼️ why the wife have to apologize because That's how the mother felt. Smh
I'm just surprised as to how judge Fummi handle this case, judge Fummi wasn't fair on this girl at all. This girl is been ganged up on and bullied by mum in-law n husband n I can't believe judge Fummi took their side. Judge Fummi usually fights for the oppressed and is usually very fair, why does it seem otherwise with this case. I feel for that girl
the lady blew her chance pls just watch again and see the point i think the judge put into consideration, point 1, the husband left Accra she did not follow him, point two the spiritual husband thing because the judge see the lady is not stable minded but its bad on the guys side to use that against her in other to hold on to the kids but point 3 is what nail the coffin for her which is she went to drop the kids as you can see the judge keep asking you went to drop them off then the lady knew she fucked up she keep saying no i did not drop them then the judge asked her to explain how it happen then when she finish her narration the judge point out that she drop them off then i know she cant get the kids back never and in court welfare of kids is priority when marriage crash if other episodes you can see she normally point out welfare of kids so i think she is fare in her judgement cheers
Seriously she is not Yoruba mother inlaw many of them re mesn
Is this real life or staged
I can't understand why all this irrelevant questions are being thrown to this young lady.
Because you dont understand the law. She is a judge when you ask question you want to know who the person is simple psychology their is not innocent both of them are not mature those that advised her to dropped her children gave her wrong advise
The mother is the controller of this marriage
U are very correct
Am sorry to say...Seun's mum is a witch.
Please the mother aside, the girl was never ready for marriage.
Very true 👍
@@omogenaija1 or this boy/man. Come on let's be honest.
I feel the husband is not even a man,see how he was saying she has a spiritual husband and wanted to become a reverend sister and was laughing. Marriage is not every one some men still behave like boys think like boys,marriage is for mature minds
The lady should have known before getting involved
‘Use the kids to win him back’.....that’s a big no..no.
Why is this judge always hard on the women? What is she trying to get at with all the interrogations. Even in domestic abuse cases against the women, she will somehow put the blame on the woman. Sickening!
Cause she has all sons.
The judge has to know every thing that happened now before she can decided his judgement
Yi have noticed too that she's hard on women. 🙄
I agree!!!! I keep saying it but they said I don’t have experience
The judge is a Mother, she is really helping the Women, if you dont know...
She is making the lady a better woman
The judge was harsh on the girl, the way she interrogated the girl shows that there is something fishy. May she get the justice she deserves .
You are irrational and very irresponsible and blind to say Judge Asaolu "was harsh on the girl...there is something fishy"
if the wife of your brother start to assert she has a spiritual husband after 2 children and so wants to become a reverend sister, moved away from the marriage 4 times, then you will understand what that man has coped with in the marriage. No single allegation of physical assort here.
The problem of this marriage is simply a wrong religious belief system , immaturity of both partner and parental interference from both in laws
He isn't deserving of her he can't even express himself.
For all her education, it seems like the judge is still holding on to backward traditions that treat women as property and lesser humans. She has sons too....hope she's fair to their wives.
I agree with you, the judge is so weak when dealing with domestic violence and abuse on women. Is such a shame that with all her education she still have this backward mentality.
You are not a
Nigerian so you wont understand, please try and read about Nigerian law on domestic violence especially the Lagos state where this court is so that you will not be disgracing yourself on social media also this court is civil court hope you know the difference between criminal and civil court?
@@godwinejiofor8064 I do....and you really don't know what my nationality is but thanks for the comment!
Here is Nigeria,We detest feminist
One can see that the plaintiff has been traumatized, from testimony she has been physically and emotionally been abused.
I hope the judge will read comment she really need to stay out of marital issues stop blaming women and polishing domestic violence be kind to women in domestic they already going through alot 😡😡😡
Amazing you arrived at this conclusion before watching the judgment on it, humm hope you are not biased?
My dear I am really disappointed with the judge on this case
That's why she's the Judge and you are not. It's not wokeness
I think this lady needs Therapy. She sounds like someone that has gone through a lot in this marriage and that can definitely mess up ones psyche. I hope she gets the help she deserves. Waiting for the concluding part
Yes she does not appear stable, without sentiment, watch well, she is not coherent, kept contradicting herself o
Yes
I don't think she is ok
Something somewhere is happening yo her that is not making her stable
This judge is out of her mind on this case. Exceedingly poor judgment. This poor girl against her horrible husband and crazy mother in law. What a disaster!!
These two have no business getting married let alone bringing children into their confused relationship. They're immature and are still tied to their mothers' apron strings. The children are the victims in this confusion called marriage and I really feel sorry for them.
2000% agreed with you
The lady is am innocent soul. Know relationship between light & darkness.
I feel sad for the girl she is surrounded by people who don’t even acknowledge she is being abused by that selfish boy the judge is not even fair in the way she she speaks to her she so rude Help the girl!!
Judge Fumi dropped the ball on this case.
She treated this young woman horribly and went easy on this man . Hmmm! I'm disappointed. Culture and backward traditions is a colonization of the mind where ever it is.Because it's culture doesn't make it right.We are sometimes our own worst enemy.
I say this with all due respect.
Yess this a crime eh Suffering in Silence n then not even to be validated her pain this is soo sad sad
Judge Funmi, with due respect ma, remember you said Lagos State law states that when a lady have a child for you, you must always take care of the child even if you don't care about the mother... But, here I am hearing another thing entirely. I am a man, I had had series of misunderstanding with my wife, but whenever I think about how she take care of the children, the activities she involved herself into just to keep the family grooving. I feel for her and vow never to have issues with her anymore. Ladies are troublesome but they will always respect a man that will keep quiet when they are annoyed. Let's be sincere, if u like marry 10wives, the children will not like you except their mother want them to. So respect yourself as a man so that you can see kids that u will send to assist you on things (not everything house help can do)
This woman on her own said she went to drop the children for the husband and didn't check on them for two years humm let's wait for the judgment though
@Obafemi!
God bless you and your entire household for saying the truth. 🙏🙏
The wife is too intelligent for the man.. She is just spiritually oppressed..
And the man is just too dumb to understand.. Divine intervention is needed.
"You shouldn't have gone in, that's like washing your dirty linen outside" Like that wasn't what the mother-in-law was already doing 😂
I wonder,this time around this judge was fair
She shouldn’t have entered bcuz she can’t do that with her own mum. And it doesn’t show respect that’s y Judge was saying “ it’s like washing ur dirty linen outside”
This judge is just too good and down to listen to people she serves how I wish courts could be conducted in such manner
The man was joy riding this whole episode..smiles,smarks, just because the judge was hard on her😏😏
The girl didn't give up custody of her children. She dropped them of with their father because she is traumatized. They both should have custody of the children except if will be detrimental to the children. The only thing the judge said here i agree with is that the children should not be with a third party, both should step up and raise their children.
I wept for this lady. She has been through hell and back. The judge wasn't fair on her at all
I don't know why the judge is doing that 😭😭
We are waiting for the full video.....nice one my honour
Mother in law from hell...a friend to my hubby's,his mum is the one controlling his marriage...he (my husband friend) is on his 3rd marriage...the guy's life is now miserable!
Marriage is not for boys. Some mother in laws are terrible.
May God help that poor lady. She looks stressed up .🙏🙌
My thought on this issue,. I thought this court is about settling debt, Judge is so inexperience in marital issue and was obviously sounding like a typical Yoruba mother. Slandering the wife all through the proceeding. If, the judge sees this comment, please stay off relationship issue and face the debt settling matter you are good at. In addition, traveling to Ghana, they have sold most of their properties, and had nothing to fall back on in Nigeria, where would they have stayed??? So many unattended questions you left hanging judge 🙃🙃🙃
The Judge has handled relationship and marriage issues well before this case.
It unfortunate that this case is complicated. And she will come out strong I can bet you.
@@chukie77, this case is only complicated for those who prioritize emotions over reasoning.
What if the man or his parents are atheists? How do you expect them to deal with her?
By the way, courts need facts and evidence, not spirit or prayer.
@@fomujungfunjung471 I am not an emotional person. Atheist are good people, so you shouldn't disregard them. Let see how the concluding part goes.
spot on
You are right! I am a fan of this show but this judge lost me with this case! She definitely handled it wrong! Ah Ah so the women should just pack and leave because the husband said so!
And her dropping the kids! What does the judge mean by just drop off! As a woman she should understand that it was hard for the woman to take her kids to the man but she did so she could save the marriage!
Woman i feel for you. God will heal you and I hope you see your children again.
This guy is so incoherent and a joker. Why did such a beautiful and intelligent lady end up with an unserious and crazy guy like this? A typical mummy's boy.
Honestly David I dont even understand this maybe the judge also doesn't seem like shes judge this fairly
@@sheedashee3959 I'm looking forward to hearing the conclusion of the matter most especially the guys side of the story. I'm sitting watching and wondering what he did to get her married to him, with three kids and him sounding so incoherent... Pathetic
Honestly I wanna join you on that one this man the way his face is shining i feel that he just like seeing her suffer and 2 be honest the mum is fair to her 2
@@sheedashee3959 just what I was suspecting and from the second episode the guy is completely unserious and to think she's down with three kids for him is bad.
Some men are weak my beloved mother tried it I cut her off immediately she fell back.
You are a MAN indeed bro!
My Respekt
My brother, we suppose open club for men wey no dey discipline... Mother and wife are two different people.
All mother in-law are selfish, if u are weak as a man, you will never have a good home and plan with your family. Whatever happens between u and ur wife, do not share it with your mother and same applies to the woman. Fight together and settle together. involving third party is wrong
My brother you are a MEN may God continue to bless your Union with the wife❤️💯🙌
The problem I see with marriages today is the issue of Immaturity and Pride.
I believe every couple should have an older couple (no blood relations) as close friends, that they receive counsel from regularly and can help guide them and steer them in the right direction...
Most couples today are too immature to handle a mature relationship.
May God give us wisdom.
That's why in catholic church when a couple is getting married they must have sponsors who must be an elderly couple. The sponsor is not for footing bills of the wedding but they are supposed to be your guidance counsel when needed in your marriage.
Exactly, marriage is not about age, it's about maturity
Dearest aunty Funmi, i felt you were to hard on this young lady that has obviously been exploited by the man and his mum.
Let's wait for the judgement first before conclusion
This innocent girl married to a wrong family she’s traumatized I pray she heals
This is why parents have to pray for their daughters,
The minute they are born.
Pray for them not to Marry the wrong Spouse.
Not to enter the wrong Home.
Start Praying for your daughters,at a very young age.
Amen. Thank you for that ma. I have learnt something.
Or that’s why your parent should make findings and know who you are getting married to
It’s very true mum. God bless you for the revelation
Amen
I will not watch this court anymore. This judge is encouraging the men to abuse their wives even in the case of domestic violence. These women are crying for help, they’ve been let down by this judge 😩😩😩
Like people give an F
I think she likes that act
She's a bad judge...
It's obvious the man is lying
Poor lady. The judge should clearly have been on her side. I feel bad for her. I hope she gets justice and finds peace.
No. That's not how justice work
A very intelligent melaneted QUEEN. May she be remembered and find her way through life... 🏹🏹🏹
This matter is quite confusing oo
I don't even know who is right again even the judge is confused oo😐😐
From Kenya and really love justice Court 🥰
This lady didn't do anything wrong to take those kids to his place, since the man has moved on with another woman this lady is still alive to take care of her kids now because she working, step mother can never take care of my children
This young lady is going through a lot both physically, emotionally and spiritually. This judge is not helping matters at all, she has no remorse for this young lady. It seem this young lady is been spiritually attacked, and they are appearing to her as her husband. I pray God delivers her. Her husband seem to love her but don't know how to tackle their marital problems. Some people go through a lot in marriages especially women. The system needs to put a strict law against domestic violence, it is very prevalence in Nigeria homes.
If she is being spiritually attacked as you said, is it safe for the children to be in her custody?
Been spiritually attacked doesn't mean she is insane. She is very much sane and she stated she got a job as am admin assistant. I think she should have custody of the kids and the kids' father should support them financially and try to visit his kids regularly or take them sometime for a visit. Although I pray they work things out.
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A MAN shall leave his FATHER and MOTHER and cling to his WIFE and the two shall become one Flesh. Any man that pulls his MOTHER to marry with him is a boy..period!!!!
Our parents can advise us and not marry for us. As MIL you had the opportunity to marry and raise your children with your husband, leave your sons to marry oo. Your daughters inlaw are not your rivals oo.abegi
The reality is, if custody is given to the man, there's 99% chance that the new woman won't treat them right.
I can't agree with you any less. This mother will not have a successful relationship until he let's go of the mama's boy mentality. He is practically married to his mother
The truth is that Seun is a jaiye-jaiye guy; he is not committed to the marriage. This has caused the wife emotional torture, and she is traumatized. She should be allowed full custody of her kids, this would make her stabilize emotionally. Whilst Seun continues his life of mirage. The Seun seems a nonentity.
He's using the kids against her to hurt her. The lady he is with now will either go through the same thing and leave, or stay and be used as a pawn, or she will treat him the same way and sleep with other men.
She is the one that said she is using the children to gain his attention, watch again
@@fapohundatemitope3117 You don't understand what I mean. She used the kids to try to get him back and reconcile with him. That's why she left her kids with him because like she said, she was hoping it will melt his heart towards her. She did that hoping to get her family back.
But him withholding the kids from her is using the kids AGAINST her to hurt her. That's what a lot of people do. Very common in North America.
He knows she loves her kids, and his heart is hardened towards her, he just wants to hurt her. So he is withholding the kids from her.
@@gorgeoustgirl but why the reference of North America? This is about Nigeria not America.
@@kimmie2679 I used the reference I'm familiar with. You are free to use yours.
This is crazy!!! Been a man I think this husband should be wise than been wise....ah ....if u love ur wife help her thru all .....
This girl needs help. She's got huge built-up anger and its been a devastated time for her. God help her
I feel so sorry for this young girl. The judge's interrogation is one sided and too unfair. she lacks experience in marital issues and is being so hard to the lady
Wow! I look forward to viewing part 2. I think this is the most intense case I have watched on here so far.
Can't wait to see the judgement too
@@fapohundatemitope3117 I just watched it and found it fair.
@@TonyaEL You are right, fantastic judgement
This matter is complicated even the judge confuse 😕 the man is mummy's boy though
Proper mummy boy see how his face is shining,he was enjoying the fact that she was in a bad position .....
@@sheedashee3959 lol
ThIS JUDGE ASAOLU OR WHATEVER HER NAME IS NEEDs TO BE SACKED! She IS DAMN TOO CONDESCENDING! Wtf! I FELT DISGUSTED WITH THE WAY SHE KEPT SHUTTING THAT YOUNG LADY DOWN! WTF! Why are you a judge when you can’t judge well!!!! Odabi otigbabode for us women! Go and resign jare no be by force ooo before you spoil the little reputation you have! Disorganised Oshisko !
I'm surprised at your utterance but nevertheless , I wonder how you came to that conclusion before watching the conclusion where she gave judgement on the case. You appear biased already.
She is very biased against women and an abuse apologist
That's so not fair to the woman. The judge didn't handle this case well. How can you put this young woman under so much pressure in court? She succeeded in making the husband too comfortable in his mess
Too bad, I see tribalism here
Never ignore red flags, they always catch up with your mental, physical and emotional health later in the relationship. This woman ignored this man's lousy behaviour and she is now suffering under the weight of it all🚩🚩🚩.
All bcuz she might be desperate to be married . They think marriage is easy like that
This judge is partial... she’s biased and that’s unethical...waiting for the concluding part to see how she ends this judgement. How can the judge be telling the woman “you will be a mother-in-law someday”.. i mean obviously she’s being sentimental, like something personal to her handling this case.. 😌
That's very true, I've noticed she's very hard on women
@Abiola Mebawondu Guess you should watch the concluding part 2 where she passed judgement
This judge is a joke
She is biased against women and makes excuses for abusive men.
@@monicausher5441 yea
But my opinion, how can this man depend this much on the parents.
Omo this one na spiritual matter oo .Na Spiritual Judge go decide this one.
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For those of you already condemning the judge, I think the case is inconclusive yet as the judge is still accessing the matter. So wait until she gives her verdict before you start your abuses.
Don't mind them. The case is inconclusive! And what most annoying is women like her pulling down the judge. Women as usual- their own worst enemies!
The lady is more polished than the man. She sounds very credible
She married down.. she’s so eloquent. I wonder how she settled for him 😞
@@TOA234 condition
this has to be the most useless court !! what kinda judge is this , even a blind man can handle this case better
My heart goes out to this young lady, she has been through a lot mentally. And for the guy, insincerity is part of his life.
This situation is heart wrecking . Will stay tuned for the next part
I am so pissed? What kind of judge are you? This must be the way she treats her son’s and her children.
Watch her judgment before saying that
This lady really seems she has been through a lot. She had to work.
Thank God I am carribean where mother in-laws mind their own business it is evident that his family played a vital part in the breakup also he didn't love her he quickly moved on
What's wrong to choose to serve God by becoming a reverend sister
Since I found this channel, this is the first annoying episode.
Judge Funmi was too hard on the lady, wasn't even listening to her or at all whereas this smart lady seems to have gone through so much in her life and in the hand of such a foolish man 🙄🙄
You are so biased
@@ifeanyiezeala8568 how ?
Tribalism has swallow her up here
The lady said there was no table in the house, so this judge expected her to put the food on her her for the so called mother in-law, indeed God is the only righteous judge.
I can't wait for the concluding part..i reserve my judgement
But the mother in-law is a very wicked one, no matter what she supposed not to treat her daughter in-law like that if she really a good mother in-law.
First 5years of Marriage is tough. If u scale through the first 10years without involvement of third party, there's no misunderstanding that u people won't be able to handle anymore
Honestly
This Lady is God sent to him, but his Mother is behind it both spiritual n physical, She has seen the Luck coming from the Lady that's why.
And if I may ask why would the mother-in-law travel with them🤔
ID Edem help me ask oo.
The mother in law no what is going on the i will not like to say what I have in mind
This judge is a mother and I love the way she judges.
Judge Fumi was completely against this Yung lady . Maybe the Judge knew the husband mother . Nigeria court works for the rich people. So sad I wish I can find this girl to support her with money . She's mentally depressed. The mother in law have her husband in her hands tormenting that guy .
A man is not suppose to leave because he is scared of been disowned by his parents 😂a full grown man ? Wow
What’s she got to apologise to her Mother-in law about....🙄....this Judge Bwoy
I know right... the mother-in law did not deserve an apology.
There are so many narcissistic husbands in Nigeria. It is truly sad.
Sooo soo many …I can relate … been there 😂😂😂thank God ohhhh for saving me
@@cynthiaosuji1190 you dodged no small bullet. Stay out! It is a living hell with these people.
I’ve made a comment before that unfortunately this judge doesn’t take domestic violence seriously!!
She was too hard on this lady and it’s obvious this lady has suffered in the hands of mummy’s boy and mummy.
Mother-in-laws should let their son’s wife breath abeg!!!!
Judge Funmi should stay off marital issues, I don’t think she’s good at settling it.
Third parties were too involved in the marriage. Sad
This woman don suffer Sha....sometimes is better to be single than to be married.....
I like this guy, na OG! Just like me, na OG wife fit us, no be pack today pack tomorrow😂
I don’t understand when you(judge) ask the questions from her then defend the man by answering them for him, like you know what’s going through his mind thereby giving him reasons to lie or cover up .. you are so unprofessional with cases like this, I cringed the whole time watching this!! You basically kept attacking the girl without even hearing from the man and made her look like the bad egg... you need to upgrade your thinking and drop this African mentality .. I think you should watch foreign judges how they address issues without looking bias....
Solve Nigerian marital issues with foreign ideas and law? How do you address our polygamy which is acceptable under our law , the islamic marriage and traditional marriage? You are not being factual
Have you watched the judgment
A mother who suffers and bears 9 months of pain and agony deserves to have her children. Can even share custody. This judge is not for women.
I love Justice court. From Zambia, kindly upload more videos.
I feel very much for this woman, she´s just their all alone, Madam judge please always be straight don´t take, you have been very hash on the poor lady very bad, despite all she sufferd in her marriage, Madam please know how you handle this show.
If the Mother-in law is out of line..she’s out of line..period..I would confront her..you can’t disrespect me in my house..PERIODT! With a T at the end!
This guy is undeserving of this girl!
Thanks for uploading I would've loved to know what happened
On this case the charm of the lady’s In-laws worked on judge Funmi
It seems so
100%
True
Typical!!! Women against women.
The judge is just too hard on this woman, i am not sure if I will still be watching this programme.
Y'all on this forum complaining that the judge didn't do justice or that she's not supporting women's rights are not being fair. Please take your time to go watch her other videos. She's a woman and a Judge but that doesn't mean she has to always be on the side of a the female plaintiff or defendant all the time. She looks at the facts! And I hope women on this forum would stop pulling down this wonderful brilliant Judge, rather support and uplift each other. No judgment will suit everyone but we have to accept it and any aggrieved parties can appeal.
Educated girl married illerate
Being illiterate is not an excuse to be stupid, and not to have a common sense and take care of your family. Be a man
Right! She is open minded and intelligent and she married him?
I thought I was the only one who noticed it; why is the judge always so lenient on the men after admitting domestic violence and abuse. She awards the cost without awarding damages.
Can you imagine becoming partially blind from a guy that promised to love and protect you?
You did not award the lady some compensation for damages, at least to deter other abusers from doing so in future.
Nigerian men dey enjoy oh! Apart from some of them wey just dey “soji” or the wicked ones women dey suffer abeg.
Is she dealing with the cases with what is obtainable in Nigerian society?
E tire me. Imagine the one with Eva, the enormously endowed behind who borrowed her club friend money to start-up Uber? The judge was so easy on the liar 😩
Mmm.......the Judge was so harsh on this lady. She can't be worshipping everyone in the family for them to accept her. The husband and his mother are abusing and mistreating this young lady. She's emotionally drained and exhausted. The mother inlaw is just taking advantage of their poor financial situation to control them, especially her son🙄 😒
A man that does not have a say in his marriage and is still bring controlled by his mother even after marriage IS NOT A MAN!!
The Judge is not even helping the matter with incessant interruptions... And asking unnecessary questions
The thing vex me sef!
@@odasani1250 imagine ,instead of asking that mother's baby questions ,she is adding insult to injury to the young woman., she came to the court for help instead you are making it seems as if she is the evil in that home. Is so annoying.
@@goshencircle698 this is obviously part one of the case, no judgment yet, have you seen what is in part 2 and how she dealt with the man, too early to arrive at such opinion