I am glad you survived cancer. I was in the same shoes. He left me a younger girl in may and I was diagnosed with cancer in June. It’s been a long hard road but I hope I can get my life back together like you. Thank you for sharing your survival story.
Glad you found your worth and realize that you need to love yourself ❤let him go! He doesn’t deserve you, sister! You deserve way better! So proud of you that you beat your cancer. Take care of yourself.
So proud of this lady for her fighting spirit. What a strong woman…! Our body is very unique. We have the ability to fight disease…If you have will, there is always a way…👍 As husband and wife, we should be there for each other for worst or happiness, poor or rich…😩? Glad that you moved out and didn’t listen to the FIL and ex husband…God bless…👍!
Moral of the story: don’t hesitate or feel guilty to take care of yourself first (mentally & physically) before anyone else, because everyone else will take care of themselves and not you when you are ill. They can go bye-bye in a heartbeat, when you are no longer a benefit to them. Just like that husband and his parents. When she no longer can slave for them and too ill to spread her legs, she was nothing more than a burden and stumbling block.
Good for you! I wouldn’t take care of him either! He didn’t even care or love you for the 8 years you were sick! It’s called you made your bed, you lay in it.
Wow... I'm so proud for you sister thov huab tais ntuj foom koob hmoov zoo zoo rau koj es Kom txij no mus yav tom ntej koj tsuas ntsib txoj kev noj qab nyob zoo mus xwb mog ❤
WOW! Congrats sister for beating cancer. Thank you for sharing your story. During our hardest moments is when we realize the people who really care/love us.❤
Los lus hmong 1 txwm hais tias lwm tiam txhob sib ntsib ntxiv lawm and lwm tiam thov kom wb rov sib ntsib muaj lub ntsiab lus clarified tob heev .qhia tau txhua yam ntawm neeg lub neej from the beginning to the end .God bless you sister 😢
I’m glad you left when he came back but I don’t know why you stayed with his parents when he lived with his mistress. You are not obligated to take care of him since you both are technically divorced. Time to move on because there is no more love. Take care of yourself because no one will.
It's all about money. Do you even know May and her husband's background? I heard May was a niam mos ab and her husband was a txiv mos ab (hence her so-so English) who dumped their Hmong American spouses and got married... so she knows how to sweet talk and she doesn't have a 9-5 job. Making RUclips videos is probably one of her main source of income... and of course, under the table marijuana like most Hmong in CA and OK. But it's good for her. With Hmong American's blind support (Hmong Americans always support Hmong Lao rather Hmong Americans), she now not only have fame but her family now has more money and property than most Hmong Americans.
This is what is called “what goes around, comes around.” So sad when it is your significant other who you rely on for love and support but betrays you in your time of need! Remember to practice self care and self love!
Tus me niam tsev aw...hlub koj kawg os....kav tsij take care koj tus kheej rau koj cov me nyuam nawb mog. Tus txiv neej ko nws tsis hlub koj os .....txiv neej hmoob feem coob yeej siab phem li koj tus ko, tsuas zoo txiv neej yog tus mob xwb. Kav liam tam sim no ces nws twb paub koj lub mob zoo li cas lawm ces yuav li ntawv.
How does he get mad at her when he couldn’t even get mad at his other woman for leaving him. She does not deserve to be treated like that even after she has been a good wife after all that bs. She is now the one who overcomes his wrath.
Karma! You lived through HELL and watched him love another woman when you were sick and possibly dying. The ultimate betrayal is having another baby with another woman to show you how much he loves this other woman. You are right! You don’t need his drama because it will make you sick. Good thing you are smart not to take him back. Thank you for sharing your story.
She brings him foods because she does not want a karma. Like she said, that is not love but to remember that he has to regret her forever until his death and she does not regret anything. She is good. It means to be smarter than him. I will do the same. Elders always said ''Make people regret you all their heart and lungs. You do not have to regret them.'' That is a winner game !
Koj dag koj tus kheej lawm, nws twb tsim thiab twb tsi hlub koj es koj tseem los ua nws qhev. Kuv xav koj dag lawm koj tseem tso tsis tau nws thiab koj tshuav nws nqi koj thiab tseem rov los vom qaib nws noj.
Hate men who always think of themselves and their needs first when the wife is sick and needs his help. But if it happens to them they expect the wife to stay and take care of them 🤦🏻♀️. How fair is that🤷🏻♀️, huh!?
Good lord, another story turned lecture. Might as well called this channel "Hmong Lectures." Every May story, i had to stop half way and never finish listening bc the story always ends half way and then the rest is just lectures.
wait a minute you said you didnt want to take care of him not because you wanted to get back at him but because you couldnt? lol That means you would have abandon him too if he was the one got sick first. you were fully recovered from cancer so your not sick anymore cant use that excuse. if you refused to take care of him because of what he did to you then we would at least understand.
She’s a cancer survivor by getting rid of her cancer starter - her husband and the stress she took on by having him. When he left her, she recovered! That means, if he comes back, she will relapse due to him being her cancer starter. She can do her volunteer work to him from a distance at her own will. Got to keep distance from her enemies - the cancerous ex-husband and ex-inlaws, if she wants to survive!
I am glad you survived cancer. I was in the same shoes. He left me a younger girl in may and I was diagnosed with cancer in June. It’s been a long hard road but I hope I can get my life back together like you. Thank you for sharing your survival story.
Sister keep fighting. Stay strong you can do it.
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I hate cancer. I am praying for you, sis. Keep fighting! You got this!💪💪
@@LaoLao-ty8wk Luag mob txhob liam hiam ua saib tsis taus luag tsam txog yus es ho laj laj quaj ib leeg mog. Peb ua neeg nyob peb tsuas pom nag hmo, hnub no twb tsis pom ib chim ib tsam los taig kis mog. Kuv tsuas hais rau sawv daws xav xwb tsis tau hais phem rau leej twg.
Glad you found your worth and realize that you need to love yourself ❤let him go! He doesn’t deserve you, sister! You deserve way better! So proud of you that you beat your cancer. Take care of yourself.
So proud of this lady for her fighting spirit. What a strong woman…!
Our body is very unique. We have the ability to fight disease…If you have will, there is always a way…👍
As husband and wife, we should be there for each other for worst or happiness, poor or rich…😩? Glad that you moved out and didn’t listen to the FIL and ex husband…God bless…👍!
Love yourself so happy for you. Many blessings to you and your children.
Moral of the story: don’t hesitate or feel guilty to take care of yourself first (mentally & physically) before anyone else, because everyone else will take care of themselves and not you when you are ill. They can go bye-bye in a heartbeat, when you are no longer a benefit to them.
Just like that husband and his parents. When she no longer can slave for them and too ill to spread her legs, she was nothing more than a burden and stumbling block.
90 % Hmong men are like your husband. Us Hmong sisters really need to remember to love ourselves first.
Good for you! I wouldn’t take care of him either! He didn’t even care or love you for the 8 years you were sick! It’s called you made your bed, you lay in it.
Great story! I'm glad you can pick up yourself and love yourself.
Life is too short please love yourself ladies
We're all fighting with you in spirits so keep thinking and staying positive, keep moving forward to better days and keep your great spirits.
Nrog koj zoo siab koj zoo rov los lawm os. Muaj tsheeb li koj hais yus yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej tiag tiag li nawb..100 leej tus txiv neej mas ntshe tsuas muaj 1 tug thiaj nyob zov yus xwb os..nws ces yeej yog mob kev npam xwb os..hlub koj tus kheej rest kom txaus kav tsij mus vacation os mog..😊
Mloog cov dab neeg no ua rau kuv paub take khes kuv tus kheej zog tuaj lawm. Ua tsaug rau nej cov neej neeg no thiaj ua rau peb Ras dheev los
Wow... I'm so proud for you sister thov huab tais ntuj foom koob hmoov zoo zoo rau koj es Kom txij no mus yav tom ntej koj tsuas ntsib txoj kev noj qab nyob zoo mus xwb mog ❤
Yes!! Love yourself.. ❤
You’re the strongest woman 💪🏻 so glad you’re cancer free and wish you a good health sister ❤
So happy you won your battle! May you live a long life with your children! Your husband deserves his life right now. It's truly karma.
Koj ua yog lawm os peb cov niam ua li koj ua os😢
WOW! Congrats sister for beating cancer. Thank you for sharing your story. During our hardest moments is when we realize the people who really care/love us.❤
Peb poj niam yeej hlub txiv tshaj txiv cov niam tiag2 li nawb.
poj niam ce yeej raug txoj kev no txhua tu
Los lus hmong 1 txwm hais tias lwm tiam txhob sib ntsib ntxiv lawm and lwm tiam thov kom wb rov sib ntsib muaj lub ntsiab lus clarified tob heev .qhia tau txhua yam ntawm neeg lub neej from the beginning to the end .God bless you sister 😢
I’m glad you left when he came back but I don’t know why you stayed with his parents when he lived with his mistress. You are not obligated to take care of him since you both are technically divorced. Time to move on because there is no more love. Take care of yourself because no one will.
He paid rent why no .she's living no $$can't work 😅
Mloog cov neej neeg mas cia li ntxub cov niag txiv neej li tiag
Kuv Xav li thiab. 😂
Nco ntsoov hlub nej tus kheej ua ntej os cov me vivncaus aw lub ntiaj teb no tsis nuaj leej twg hlub koj npaum li koj hlub koj tua kheej nawb
Im so happy for you ❤️ The mistress is next!
I'm so sad that now we have to pay to listen to some of your stories. What a bummer😢
It's all about money. Do you even know May and her husband's background? I heard May was a niam mos ab and her husband was a txiv mos ab (hence her so-so English) who dumped their Hmong American spouses and got married... so she knows how to sweet talk and she doesn't have a 9-5 job. Making RUclips videos is probably one of her main source of income... and of course, under the table marijuana like most Hmong in CA and OK. But it's good for her. With Hmong American's blind support (Hmong Americans always support Hmong Lao rather Hmong Americans), she now not only have fame but her family now has more money and property than most Hmong Americans.
Yog kawg. Koj mas thiaj txawj xav tiag.
Tsawg2 tus txiv neej thiaj tu thiab hlub pojniam thaum lawv muaj mob xwb feem coob ces yeej nrhiav niam yau sai2 xwb, nco ntsoov hlub yus tus kheej os mog
Cov niag txiv neej no vrd nyob haus luab lawm los tseem tham hluas nkauj os lawm tus siab tshaj li os mog
This is what is called “what goes around, comes around.” So sad when it is your significant other who you rely on for love and support but betrays you in your time of need! Remember to practice self care and self love!
Thov kom koj muaj yeej nkau nkau xwb❤
Koj hais yog lawm os Tus me Niamtsev, cas peb cov txivneej yuav zoo li ntawd😢😢😢😢
That's cold
❤❤❤❤
Txiv neej ma phem Tshaj plaws lj os
Lady, zoo uas koj hlub koj tus kheej. Nyias muaj nyias ntu, txog nws thib nws mam paub ces lig.
Tus me niam tsev aw...hlub koj kawg os....kav tsij take care koj tus kheej rau koj cov me nyuam nawb mog. Tus txiv neej ko nws tsis hlub koj os .....txiv neej hmoob feem coob yeej siab phem li koj tus ko, tsuas zoo txiv neej yog tus mob xwb. Kav liam tam sim no ces nws twb paub koj lub mob zoo li cas lawm ces yuav li ntawv.
Txiv neej ces lub siab yeej phem li no los mas cov me viv ncaus aw
Cov txiv neej dev no ce siab thiaj txawj phem nyob rau ntiaj teb no yeej tsi muaj tu txiv neej siab zoo ce yeej tsi muaj li os
Suj sum. Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb. Txiv neej lub siab phem. Koj ua yog tshaj plaws lawm nawb. Nyob ib leeg free zoo dua. Txuag yus txoj sia ua ntej txuag nyiag txiv dev ntawv. Ntuj npam nws xwb os. Tuag tsis tuag.
Ua koj tug txiv tsaug uas nws ua phem rau koj es koj thiaj kovyeej koj tug cancer, yog nws hlub hlub koj ces ntshai koj twb tuag lawm.
How does he get mad at her when he couldn’t even get mad at his other woman for leaving him. She does not deserve to be treated like that even after she has been a good wife after all that bs. She is now the one who overcomes his wrath.
Kidney easy to fix , cancer depend ????
8 years isn't a mistake
❤❤❤mloog ua ke os🎉
Txog neej neeg no kuv muab faj rau tus viv ncaus paj cheej vaj uas tseem mob mob mog.
Karma! You lived through HELL and watched him love another woman when you were sick and possibly dying. The ultimate betrayal is having another baby with another woman to show you how much he loves this other woman.
You are right! You don’t need his drama because it will make you sick. Good thing you are smart not to take him back. Thank you for sharing your story.
Ua cas koj thiaj paub hais tias muaj fab lwm tiam no na, Tej no yog tib neeg xav xwb tsis muaj tseeb li os mog
no more lwm tiam lawm od ib tiam xwb twb dhua lawm na
May, what happened to all your old stories, I'm still waiting for you to upload the old stories again
Niam tsuaj teev aw cas lub sib hawm kv nyuaj siab e tsua muaj koj cov dab neeg xb thiaj li ua tau rau kv g nyuaj siab xb o❤
Cov phooj ywg mob khee ser pua yog mob li kuv niam os?.
Li es leej twg yuav xub Pais paj tawg lag ua ntej ma?
Congrats Sister!!!
These men. They think they're immortal. The dad and the son...😂😅😊 Typical Hmong men
Is someone snoring in the background or is it someone else breathing hard on the recording?
Girl you make no sense. You go live by yourself but bring him food whenever he ask. That’s stupid.
some people are not as evil and heartless as him. She is hurted, she might still have .01 percent of love left for him.
She brings him foods because she does not want a karma. Like she said, that is not love but to remember that he has to regret her forever until his death and she does not regret anything. She is good. It means to be smarter than him. I will do the same. Elders always said ''Make people regret you all their heart and lungs. You do not have to regret them.'' That is a winner game !
Koj dag koj tus kheej lawm, nws twb tsim thiab twb tsi hlub koj es koj tseem los ua nws qhev. Kuv xav koj dag lawm koj tseem tso tsis tau nws thiab koj tshuav nws nqi koj thiab tseem rov los vom qaib nws noj.
Love these titles 😆
You should have told him to stay with his girlfriend but I’m glad you know your worth!!
Instant karma
Hate men who always think of themselves and their needs first when the wife is sick and needs his help. But if it happens to them they expect the wife to stay and take care of them 🤦🏻♀️. How fair is that🤷🏻♀️, huh!?
Why even be near this dog. Leave him
Good lord, another story turned lecture. Might as well called this channel "Hmong Lectures." Every May story, i had to stop half way and never finish listening bc the story always ends half way and then the rest is just lectures.
May someone is snoring near you.. it’s kinda annoying
wait a minute you said you didnt want to take care of him not because you wanted to get back at him but because you couldnt? lol That means you would have abandon him too if he was the one got sick first. you were fully recovered from cancer so your not sick anymore cant use that excuse. if you refused to take care of him because of what he did to you then we would at least understand.
She’s a cancer survivor by getting rid of her cancer starter - her husband and the stress she took on by having him. When he left her, she recovered!
That means, if he comes back, she will relapse due to him being her cancer starter. She can do her volunteer work to him from a distance at her own will.
Got to keep distance from her enemies - the cancerous ex-husband and ex-inlaws, if she wants to survive!
I read a story somewhere about the narrators marriage history. Was she married to an older man and now married to her previous BF? Elaborate?