Let's Get It On // Romance + Relationships // Rated R // Bianca Olthoff

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  • Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
  • Are you single? Dating? Engaged? Do you want to win at relationships? In our series "Rated R" we're going there! Today Pastor B is back and starting a brand new series on love, dating, relationships, sex and marriage. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, married or divorced, this series is for you. Follow us through the book of Song of Songs as we learn the biblical out look on love!
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    00:00 - Intro
    05:27 - Mathew Chapter 5 Verse 44 and 46
    09:48 - Let's Get It On
    11:59 - The World View of Sex, Dating and Marriage
    15:22 - The Religious View of Sex, Dating and Marriage
    34:39 Accurately Seeing and Understanding
    Scriptures Mentioned:
    Mathew Chapter 5 Verse 44 and 46
    John Chapter15 Verse13
    Mathew Chapter 22 Verse 39
    Song of Songs Chapter 1 Verse 2
    Song of Songs Chapter 1 Verse 9
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Комментарии • 39

  • @sarahrice9838
    @sarahrice9838 2 года назад +10

    That part about the purity culture! 🙌 whew chile do a deep dive into that!

  • @SamBWinning
    @SamBWinning 2 года назад +8

    Honestly dating isn’t even talked about much in the Christian community it’s more marriage pastor thank u for shedding light on both these topics.

  • @wywy4803
    @wywy4803 2 года назад +8

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. I didn't know I needed that sorry. I was raped when I was 5 till 17 but now in my 30s everyone tell me to get over it but no one has ever said, I'm sorry it wasn't your fault, or just a plain I'm sorry. Thank you for that I'm sorry!!

    • @sendijoana6965
      @sendijoana6965 2 года назад

      ❤I am really sorry you went through that, u didnt deserve it. But i know great women who went through the same. FORGIVE yourself ❤❤

  • @hannahgibsonorganicallyyou4564
    @hannahgibsonorganicallyyou4564 2 года назад +5

    I love her. 🤣🤣🤣
    She speaks such truth but is also hilarious.

  • @andrewlarragoitiy9592
    @andrewlarragoitiy9592 2 года назад +3

    This is how the world views marriage: they will “stay until it gets tough and there love shifts.” It no longer "'Til death do us part" really means "Until the feelings go away"

  • @jilllingenfelter4682
    @jilllingenfelter4682 2 года назад +6

    Yeah my mom and I had a wry big conversation today after I got out of church And I told her that I never ever thought that this is how my story was going to play out in the end :( I’ve been extremely extremely extremely single since my very public divorce that happened in 2016 I have applied for the champions club at my church recently. And I finished giving them the last of my personal info this morning And now I’m waiting to hear back from them:) And I love my church so so so much :) I’ll let you know what happens thank you for all your encouragement, love, and prayers I absolutely it love ya appreciate Pastor Bianca Olthoff :) And I also appreciate someone’s apology but just because I forgive someone. And his family it doesn’t mean that I will be reconciling with him and his family because It’s not a possibility at all because he’s married again to his new bride #2 And I hope that he’ll look into the celebrate recovery program And I hope that he’ll be able to get clean and sober. And stay clean and sober because because if he doesn’t go through the celebrate recovery program his new marriage won’t last very long I wish them good luck his new bride is definitely in my prayers!

  • @bajachica0911
    @bajachica0911 2 года назад +6

    So, so good! Thank you for shedding light on the more challenging topics. I look forward to the rest of the series, and I pray that this is shared and seen by so many - we all need to be reminded of God's truth, not the world's especially with relationships!

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 2 года назад

      If we don't follow God's truth, then what happens to us?🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @mgl1262
    @mgl1262 2 года назад +2

    "It was just coffee."
    Wow, that really puts things into perspective. 🤭
    Have totally idolised the idea of marriage.
    I think for so many of us, what we want doesn't even exist.
    Thank you for sharing with reality and humour 😊
    Grateful to God for you

  • @hannahlee4861
    @hannahlee4861 2 года назад +4

    This is so so good !!! Needed this !

  • @raphealajiboye9161
    @raphealajiboye9161 2 года назад +1

    That episode is really good

  • @abbiehovater22
    @abbiehovater22 2 года назад +2

    This is one of the best messages on this topic and even in general that I have heard a very long time. Powerful and full of truth.

  • @simple_naildesigns
    @simple_naildesigns 2 года назад +2

    I want to get better at relationships - yes! 😊🙏🏽

  • @chananjahduncan519
    @chananjahduncan519 2 года назад +2

    Talk about it!!!💯

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione 2 года назад +5

    YESSS.. the LOOOOVE book. S.O.S.

  • @christinecasillas1308
    @christinecasillas1308 2 года назад +3

    Excited about this series‼️🙏🏽

  • @heidicarrasco9265
    @heidicarrasco9265 2 года назад +3

    thank you for talking about these subjects, God bless you!

  • @mattdreed78
    @mattdreed78 2 года назад +2

    Such a great message

  • @msolivialuv1
    @msolivialuv1 2 года назад +1

    Thank you!!

  • @juliegomez5050
    @juliegomez5050 2 года назад +1

    Wow! Thank you for this message.

  • @victoriavanderheyden3845
    @victoriavanderheyden3845 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for your ministering and magnificent delivering of Gods word, your beautiful inside and out

  • @vanessaschower6425
    @vanessaschower6425 2 года назад +1

    I have been sharing your videos!! Thank you Pastora, you talk my language Thank you for being God's vessel. May God bless you, your family and your church ❤🙏

  • @arelismargarito5283
    @arelismargarito5283 2 года назад +1

    You rock such a blessing to my life!!!! 🥰😇Thank you 🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @theselflovebae
    @theselflovebae 2 года назад +4

    Yass Pastor B so glad to have you back! But did you really have to come for us like this today??? Lol

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 2 года назад +1

      Because she's the pastor's wife!🌼🌼❣❣

  • @claudettewatkins4237
    @claudettewatkins4237 2 года назад +2

    Amen. What I want to know is how do you date without sex its my first time an navigating through getting to know someone an temptation an all that goes into it.

  • @JaelynnHopgood
    @JaelynnHopgood Год назад

    This message was so powerful!! Thank you speaking on challenging topics like the effects of purity culture and enjoying sex in marriage

  • @adtase1489
    @adtase1489 Год назад

    Yess!! Finally, SOMEone teaches on SoS!! It gets deeper than Atlantis!

  • @raphealajiboye9161
    @raphealajiboye9161 2 года назад

    This is a good episode
    On RUclips

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione 2 года назад +6

    YESS.. Guys don't have to cover their upper halves at all? the double standard.
    I just accepted it back then.. like what was I gonna do? I didn't want spaghetti straps or anything anyway, but I do remember thinking it was weird.

  • @alafiawellnessllc
    @alafiawellnessllc 2 года назад +2

    RECIPROCITY 🙏🏿

  • @arthan06
    @arthan06 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @karenowens9060
    @karenowens9060 2 года назад +2

    I was wondering where you got the Hebrew word for “kisses”. I looked it up in Concordance and it didn’t have the same meaning as you gave. Thanks

  • @wywy4803
    @wywy4803 2 года назад

    God is very intentional this church got recommended by RUclips lol 😆 even RUclips cooperating with God. So here is to me adding another online home church.