PY Episode 11 I My Husband Forced Me In To Polygamy | Parents | Abuse | Marriage | Depression | Kids
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- Опубликовано: 19 сен 2024
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Did she have kids with her husband?
Tnx a lot this platform will open the eyes of many 🙏 and Ntando will prosper more than before
As man we will support all vulnerable sisters to have a shoulder to cry on.
Nobody deserve to be treated as second citizen, simply becoz efisa ukuthandwa or to belong, come on.
We will stand up and say no to any form of abuse, either on our women or our brothers.
Masakhisaneni bafwethu, ubuntu ngumuntu ngabantu
Morning
Eish this is a very sad story in so much that as I'm listening it my heart is so broken and my eyes are full on tears
I don't think she was desperate it was all in the name of love and she wanted to fill the void of not having a mother sometimes life without parents it's not easy❤
It's really not easy
Hai bakithi, God gave us a will to make choices, she was desperate, she learned the hard way unfortunately but we live and learn sisi.s
Hellow!!choices are also influenced by circumstances FYI.and besides ppl know what they did to other ppl for thier personal benefit.
@@wpp1586it’s called parent wound and we all have them and they affect how we make decisions and hence we have to heal from childhood traumas. You might find that you are reacting like this because you identify with her subconsciously if you look within. Heal and show more grace to people, don’t be quick to judge. The problem is not desperation, the root is what caused the desperation.
She needs to realise that she needs to do the internal work to heal from the trauma she got from loosing her parents or she will keep attracting the same situations where she seeks external validation, I’m going through the same thing(both my parents are alive but I’m healing my parent wounds) and I pray God opens her eyes so she can look at herself the way God see’s her and be content with all the affirmations God gives her regardless of what people think or say. I love her so much and I pray more people understand this from that perspective.
said well 🙌
All the married people must begin to trust God through it all. I think everyone has a story to tell. Sis Ntando is telling her story and I perceive her getting out very strong. God hs chose Ntando as His vessel and He is pleased to see Ntando being so strong. To women out there bashing Ntando is the worst thing to do. Let us allow her to heal her own way. Soldier on Ntando because God loves you dearly. I love you too.
Marriage is best when God is the foundation of that marriage. He makes everything better and lighter. Yes problems are there but with God it becomes lighter.
I can listen to Ntando the whole day she is a true definition of a strong woman full of wisdom and extremely articulate she’s definitely covered by the blood of Jesus it’s so hard to find a soul who’s not only beautiful but loving and she is I’ll pay millions to have at least half of patience as this woman have…..watching from New York
Cc Ntando you are not alone owazilobola sibaninzi bt sithule abanye bade basweleka bethe cwaka ngenxa yentloni zalento bt xa umntu umthanda umbonisa ngendlela zonke ,yena ubhuti soze aphinde amfumane onentliziyo entle nje ngawe and usezoku cinga 🤞🏼
I love the last two minutes of the video where she says that this could have happened to anyone. Let's not judge indeed. Uphole sisi futhi uThixo unawe ngalolonke ixesha.
It's true what the caller said, umyeni wakhe saw how desperate she was and capitalized on that.
There are so many lessons from this situation ka Ntando, I hope we learn and avoid the same path. Let's honor God's word and obey it. When the bible says we should not do something, let's not do it.
There are many things I wish I could comment on but I am lazy to type. But to all who are born again children of God, let's obey God's word. Masibe ngabenzi bezwi lika Thixo noba ku buhlungu. Obeying and doing God's word has never had destruction in our lives.
I pray that Ntando heals completely from all this pain.
As for me I think, sisi Ntando had a gap of love from childhood. It's not about her disobeying the word of God.
I agree sisi. Uyalalelwa uNkulunkulu
Fully agree, lento yokwenzela abantu ulibale ngoThixo obona emfihlekweni
This is one of the reasons why I will never get married again! People out there are cruel in the name of love and using religion as a camouflage! Stories like these make me fume!😖😣☹️
@Amahle361, nyus' ivolume📢📢📢📢
❤Ntando you're beautiful and wonderfully made 💖
Abantu abomelele nje ngawe Ntando bayalingwa, isizathu Nam andisazi. Kodwa wena usaya kude ne mpumelelo ebomini. It's not a promise kodwa kuzobanjalo. Thixo akubusise usayihamba lendlela
It became very clear that before you see your morning glory, you must walk the darkest night. When Jesus said, carry your cross, he meant precisely this. Qina, my sister knowing ukuthi as long as heaven is above earth, so as His ways...and be still & know that I m God!!! May God richly anoint you for your next level of work that required this journey. I see God open TV shows and global opportunities to service marriages in the Kingdom globally. Therefore, we love you, and please remain beautiful and blessed for such times as this!!!
Waze wayithinta inhliziyo yami ntanto,ngoba ezinye,izinto ngedlule kuzo ezibuhlungu,ngenxa yokuthi wamukele umuntu ethe ngiyakuthanda ,kanti unezinhloso zakhe,yaze yabuhlungu into ,phola cc
Kwaze kwaba. buhlungu Sisi Ntando wasisita Sisi mine kwatsiwa ngangiyeke umnsebeti kepha umntfu akangondli nebantfwana akambandali sikholwa .kubuhlungu. Sisi kakhulu . ngibonga kutsi watitfoba wavele wafunta Jesu ngobe batsi kwazekwaba ngusekufeni Jesu antitfobile
My second time watching this podcast. I am crying. I couldn't sleep last night after having seen this. Yoh! Hayi man! This is too painful 😢😢😢😢
I strongly believe that this marriage was prepared by Satanism just to destroy your spiritual power....but at the end kugcina uNkulunkulu not intando yomuntu...that fact that now you speaking out about this that the power of God itself isiqalile iyagqilaza❤
Ntando we really need part 3 & 4 even more if possible. We with you my ❤, you were not desperate sis Ntando you thought you find love 😢but your partner had his own agenda.
Thank u so much my Darling. That is why we are asking for your support or donations to make it possible for us to give u all the episodes 🙏🙏. Episode 3 is almost ready 🙏🙏💗💗😘😘. Love u lots and God bless you
Ngibuyile watching from Germany🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪 ....uThixo uyaskhipha kuma situations ....angkamboni lofana naye❤❤...sewuphilile sisi. It's the beginning of a new thing Ntando. Your testimony will glorify God....
I am reminded of how the evil one can want to derail our destinies. But God always has the FINAL word ngebantfwana bakhe
Siyabonga makoti wase Germany ngamazwi amnandip❤
You are a powerful woman of God, and God will use your hurt to help others
You are strong indeed, brave and blessed. You are beautiful under the sun. Your faith is holding you together you have gone through thick and thin. Let the constitutional law will protect you against evil skims. You are a hard worker and God will abundantly bless you and protect you! ( Australia 🇦🇺)
A double portion for your shame. It's not over until God says it's over. Cheer up ,continue with your calling God has plans for you
You are beautiful my dear. Weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning.
You are a victor.❤
Umuhle cc Ntando ,ujehova kakuniki umthwalo ongeke uwuthwale. Ukulungisela okukhulu okuhle okuzwayo.qhubeka ubambelele kuye ❤
I'm so sorry for what you went through Sisi, nobody deserves to encounter such pain and trauma. You were the fuel of the "love" in their relationship and I don't think it's still there now that you've shifted, Glory to God
Do not look back.
Ohhhh Ntando sisi 😢
her husband caught her cheating you can go and listen her husband's side of the story
You are beautiful Ntando, those people committed fraud and should have been arrested. But I hope you can get out of that situation and importantly alive, because if they could plan such evil they can do more.
Lo myeni ka Ntando uzohlangana no clever abanjengaye one day
Even that lady she's still going get hurts from that man
Kuyadabukisa lokhu odlule kukho sithandwa sami. But, through it all you are still able to give that beautiful smile. All I can say is that if God is for you, who can be against you. Thank you for sharing your painful life experience. God bless you.
Waze wakhohlakala umntu obhinqileyo.
Shuu, this is very emotional 😭
Kakhulu yooo
The truth is out unfortunately, all the lies , all I can say insindiso uyenze yabukeka njengobuqili
Ngu satana qobolwakhe lo😢😢😢
Kea leboha sis Ntàndo for your story. Im in the exact same situation. Although slitly different, my time wasted and im left with the shame and between deciding to leave or not 💔 and we are judged non stop not realising how traumatic this can be to someone who is trying to keep a man that cant be kept.
Love and light to you uzoba right Yaz 🕯️
Thyc is your journey, uzowuthola umqhele wakho from God.
Uma uNkulunkulu ekugcobile udlula ezimweni ezinje.
Sisi Thando is telling the story with so much grace ....you can see that she has no bitteness or anger ....which is such a good posture for God to work in
# Scripture says , revenge is for me ,says the Lord Romans 12:19...
Ladies need to know that u can destroy someone s marriage (if you choose to do so) but you dont torture and reduce to nothing an innocent fellow woman like this and think that nah who cares? God cares !! People are God's creation respect them!
More grace to you sisi and may God use you as a case study of His grace 🙏
Its a good thing that you decided to come out to public, many will look at you and know that God can indeed restore umntu 🙏
she is not innocent her husband caught her cheating
Uyabona yonke lento goes back to listening to God's rules. UNkulunkulu usibekela imithetho to protect us from ourselves and other people. Izwi clearly states ukuthi "do not be unequally yolked with unbelievers because that will multiply your sorrows." Usisi wenza iphutha elikhulu from the start, she didn't mention ukuthi wakhuleka wabuza uNkulunkulu ngalendoda bengakaganani. Plus lento yabo yaqala esonweni, belalana bengaganene naye usisi eyazi kahle isono but she chose rebellion against God's laws. Now, uma siphambana nemithetho kaNkulunkulu, there will be consequences. Women, don't follow your heart because ibhayibheli lisho kahle ukuthi "your heart is deceitful and evil."
Injalo♥️
True
Amen you said it fully, as much as it's sad to hear Ntando story. The mistake is not obeying God's word by doing what it say. Fleshy desires are indeed deceitful.
As much as I agree with you, it must be noted that these things also happen to people who get married ngendlela eyamkelekile kubazalwane. We must not miss that problems will come in marriage no matter how you get into it.
@nothandomyeni1359, well said. Injalo nje. We must not sugarcoat the truth and tip toe around it.....That's the challenge with us believers in Christ.We follow our hearts and not the word, and then when we meet trouble, we cry foul.....
Obedience to God's word is crucial, if not there are consequences. That's how it is.
Umuhle cc ungazinyezi usazoya kude Ntando usazobusiseka ubhuti lo ngeke abeyilutho nje uyimbungulu encela amagazi abantu.
Kodwa ST uyobuya nomunye upart after 3 months😢😢,cela asheshe abuye bakity uNtando please bhut syakucela
Yhoo this is sad. UNtando babe msebenzisela imithi ayihambi yodwa le. Akekho umntu olunge oluhlobo.
I love and respect this woman. Ntando you're so beautiful and strong my love❤️❤️🤗🤗. Thixo ukuthandilen wakukhusela. You're just a living testimony🙏🙏🙏🙏🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
You should make a movie about this sis Ntando, your story is amazing
Iwish ukubona nkosyam kuthi kuyophela kanjan ( law) uyasifundisa kona sisi singabesimame 🙌🙌
Eish 🥺 sisi wami phephisa kodwa just know that you are not alone sibaningi fighting emshadweni to the point where ugcine ungasazazi ukuthi ngingubani, ustrong for coming upfront with your story one day I'll share mine it's been 15 years but wow I've seen and experienced all the pain. Be strong sister UNkulunkulu akuqinise
How many baby mamas please I've been wondering since part 1 🥺
Somewhere the story doesn't make sense, interviewing them together will help a lot.
May God help you heal my sister ❤🙌
Madness Ntando was under a powerful spell
I think so too it's not normal at all
Could be, a strong one
I thought so too. This wasn't and still not normal
I think so too
I saw her video couple of weeks ago on TikTok 😢😢😢😢
ngaze ngabuhlungu yezwa. But you're so strong and powerful sisi wam. May God continue to be your strength. May you be blessed. Your story is an eye opener. Am sorry for everything you went through
I so wish u cc Ntando can also talk to u Profet Ntokozo Gwala I think that could work in terms of counselling
Mubi where? This lady is pretty beautiful
Literally she's beautiful that guy was unappreciative
The best way to accept the pain of going through any situation is to remove “Shame”. Once you remove shame you win over any thought and internal pain. Usatan akasebenzisi big weapons against us usebenzisa iShame and guilt then ukubambe la umnane khona. But Jesus gave us the antidote “truth” and how truth sets us free. If we accept the truth of whatever sin we did and expose is and remove shame from the action then the devil has nothing to torture us with.
The problem of being ashamed is because you lost yourself for a human being ,know who you are and the purpose of being on earth that you are not here for any thing but for God and yourself and those who are connected to you.
Eyi cc nami ngingomunye olimele emphefumlweni ngenxa yomuntu wesilisa esanganiswe umuntu wesfazane ayikho ihlamba angangithukanga ngayo ehamba ekhuluma kabi ngami into ebuhlungu emshadweni sihlukumezeka ngenxa yabantu besfazane abadlisa amadoda ashadile kunzima emshadweni cc wami
Oww ntando wam uxolo,iv been following yo story since the beginimg of the day.Yhoo sthandwa sam i know exactly what you are going tru.Its okay to cry sthandwa sam heal nana and move on
It's so touching sis I feel like crying
Sometimes God allows things to happen for his glory
Now you are a testimony to many
You are touching many souls nd we are learning from you
That self control nd endurance it's at another level
God is raising your standard
she is not innocent her husband caught her cheating, women are emotional beings who would cry tears when they lie even when apologizing
Hi cc seeing you crying I just join you my heart is is so sore I cried unkulukulu akubusise sweety ❤
Wandikhumbuza owam umtshato ekwakufanele ndamkele yonkinto. I also felt worthless cz omakhwapheni babe ne value more than me. I was forced to accept them. Kuningi ngentlahla I hd not paid my lobola but I felt that. But I got out moved on ,working well and .... I forgave him for my sanity even though he dd not ask forgiveness. Kuzodlula cc gv it time.
Hey bakwethu mini usathane ngokuphambanisa izinto ezinhle nezimela ubungcwele bukaNkulunkulu phakathi kubantu.
Usisi appears njengomuntu owayethanda ukuthandwa from the beginning,isitha sa capitalize kuleyondawo ngokuthuma a wrong match khona kuzoba sengathi uthando lubi futhi luyahlukumeza.
Ncese sisi wami,siyamethemba uJehova uzokwesula izinyembezi ngelinye ilanga,uthole lokhu okubekwe enhliziyweni yakho.
Akawadli amandla omuntu uJehova,soldier on,ukhona obekelwe wena noyokubusisa beyond doubt.
What a nice powerful lady!!! God bless her
But one day Thabani kumele kesikhulume nge judgement esendlini kaNkulunkulu.The resentment we receive from fellow brothers and sisters eNkosini
Kannete❤
Ngaze ngabuzwa buhlungu Nkosiyam.... Sidlula ezintweni ezinzima njalo siyanqoba🙏
It is like you are my twin, not having parents is tough, it makes life touhh
After hearing the side of her husband I have discovered that this woman is not innocent!
Uxolo wethu udlule ezintweni ezinzima soze uzilibale futhi, Kazi kuthini kuye ngk xa ebona uveza zonke ezigigaba ubezenza kuwe
Ey Nkosi ngaze ngazisaba izimpendulo eziyobuya kubhuti nolocc uNkulunkulu uthe singazilweli yena uzosilwela bayothi baloyiwe kanti cha zimpendulo
I failed to sleep yesterday dear may the Lord heal your heart and continue to serve God.
Oh maan sisi, uxolo. No one deserve to go through what you went through. Be strong in the Lord. Please give you enough time to heal
Please be my sister Ntando I need people like you in my life people who knows the pain not people who always acting perfect
Yhoo Ntando sibuhlungu story sakho yazi ngoku ukhalalayo nakum zivele zazehlela iinyembezi.
it’s called a “parent wound “and we all have them and they affect how we make decisions and hence we have to heal from childhood traumas. You might find that you are reacting like this because you identify with her subconsciously if you look within. Heal and show more grace to people, don’t be quick to judge. The problem is not desperation, the root is what caused the desperation.
She needs to realise that she needs to do the internal work to heal from the trauma she got from loosing her parents or she will keep attracting the same situations where she seeks external validation, I’m going through the same thing(both my parents are alive but I’m healing my parent wounds) and I pray God opens her eyes so she can look at herself the way God see’s her and be content with all the affirmations God gives her regardless of what people think or say. I love her so much and I pray more people understand this from that perspective.
This thing happens to most women especially those educated and good jobs. Extreme emotional, financial and verbal abuse. But konke kuyedlula. Good decision to divorce
No one is immune, I listened to another podcast where a young girl was married to a pastor for 9days. Divorce can happen to anyone regardless of your looks, beliefs, background, educational status etc. We just need to be nonjudgmental & supportive to our brothers & sisters going through that tough journey
Ntando Umuhle and lendoda okhuluma ngayo Ayikho wow…Umuhle wena sis’wami don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise🥰😍❤️
Can't hold my tears 😢 this is very painful
Jehovah wakufaka ngoba ekuthembile cc sonke sinama assignment angafani
You are so beautiful Ntando dont worry about that fool ,your true LOVE is coming USABABA girl you have that annointing of GOD
Hay u Thixo uyakwazi ukuhamba nomntu,Ntando never ever leave Him omnye umntu ngeselebizwa amanye amagama ukuba ebesaphila,i cushion engu Nkulunkulu ukuncedile maan we thank God for this boldness 😢😢😢😢😢
O motle Ausi Ntando,reo rata haholo,refetile mathata kaofela,stay strong,seofitile
Ai sis wam you have so much wisdom after all and you are still shining like a star muhle baby girl
I hope she has realized how Beautiful and powerful she is ❤
For you not having family or parents played a huge role for him to take an advantage of the whole situation. Eish I relate a lot sis. But All I can say hang in there God is faithful.
You are making me strong hayi you have been through a lot
Oh Lord yabuhlungu indaba ka Ntando
I'm crying what a painful story. But God is always on the throne and He loves us.
I thought my problems were de worsed,,bcoz was also married 2 dis guy dat was so abusive, verbally in particular n was giving him money,,till dis day has never buy me anything or do anything for me until he even say I will never choose m you over by baby Mama n his family over me,,I relate n understand dis lady very well
Until in 2023 on de 1st of jan2023 he said I must pack my bck n go bck home 2 my parents house after he has qualified,,when he did not have a Car was sacrificing myself 2 go n hike so dat he can use my car guys dis,,its really painful ,,so😢😢
ehy that part of not having a family Ntando shuuuu
I'm so furious right now.
Uban igama lalomfana owashada nosisi Ntando?
Ey sisi Ntando you are a true diamond, you calmness in sharing this experience manifests your character.Lalela love Umuhle❤❤❤,and God has trusted you with nations in your woumb.
The problem ukuthi thina esithi singamakholwa asitshelani iqiniso sithi we do want to judge bcse we ar fake it's all about us not about God
Exactly!!! Abantu abatshelane iqiniso... It's not judging at all. Yikubonisana.
Ey kwaze kwabuhlungu kuzwa muntu wesfazane khuluma into emotional ngalendlela and unesbindi ukhulile enkosini sengath Jehova angakugcinela nesizukulwane esizayo sisi. Akufihle uphile more yrs
God will fight for you my sister 💔💔
Umuhle Ntando ...whatever they told you kuleya family they aimed to Destroy you qha
The illustration of a trash, broom & mop… broke my heart… mahlazo mani la?… oh Ntando 🙏🙏🙏 The Lord has forgiven you & He has restored your soul & faith!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yhoo may God heal you sis Ntando we are bruised as woman especially women of God.This is so painful.
The tables will turn around sesi and your feel sorry for them vengeance belongs to the Lord. Both him n his parents
Ooh Ntando 😢😢😢 Being orphaned is the most cruelty kwelilizwe n all you want (as an orphan) is a place to belong/family coz you're trying to build what you [feel] were 'robbed' off n always yearned for - your own family😢😢.....wenza futhi wamkela konke [fully humanly, stupidly, earnestly] for 'the family' you [believe] you are building!!
Sooo touching my ccter, uThixo abenawe akuthuthuzele kuko konke
Through it all she never let go of God, dispute of her rebelliousness not to ask God if this is the right man for her, being equally yoked with an unbeliever. She kept on holding to God, Satan tried so much to win her to his Kingdom but God was and will always be there for her. It's a journey and teaching to listen and act on God's Word. It's really a lesson to many of us. Those who have ears let them hear.
Yoh sesi ntando tht is very sad im sorry that you went through that im even scared to get married yah kunzima
Umubi😳😳😳😳😳😳😳 haibo haibo!!!!!! Ses Ntando😂😂😂😂😂 uyangihlolela, wena umubi, which side hle?????
Ndando whent through challenges.
From day one . The devil stolen her heart and put the devil before her face not realised this is the man p Rd ovided by devil to her so that she will be destroyed
Ndando focus on God .He will surely brought to you a man of God for you.That shows you should invite God to give you the husband provided by God on God 's time
The man for you will come from God
God bless you mama 🙏🙏
Ntando my beautiful girl. I am an old woman from Eswatini. I would like to tell you that our Christian faith is like wrestling As for you, you are fighting or wrestling with the devil. I would like to tell you that God is on your side. Because of that you are an overcome. Fight on sisi. There is no dustbin for the souls of God. Heaven is waiting for you. I love you mntfanami. I am your mother. I wish I could talk to you face to face
I'm literally crying Ntando
Ooooh Sis sorry about that experience
May God give you strength to navigate life challenges
Umuhle cc Ntando yazi umuhle uqedile cc.Sorry kuzomo owandlula kuso and you're a very pretty and a strong women
Yhoooo this is painful, I am sure this man and his family were under a powerful spell from this other lady. God bless Ntando 10 times more.
Uyayibona lendaba yokuthi kuthiwa umubi, iyangicika iyanyanyisa coz awuhlangani nobubi u are so beautiful my sister. May god bless you kukhokonke ozifiseka khona
kunzima ukwamukela emjolweni how much more enise mshadweni nibhekana nento enje umuntu akusukela wathi uyakuthanda izwe libuka wakususa kini wathi nohlukaniswa kufa bese enza nje may the lord Jesus cover all women who are in this situation and cover you with blood of Jesus
Sisi i am so sorry sthandwa sam, please pray mntaka Thixo....ndaze ndalila Bawo. Awusemhle ❤
😢Ooh bakithi Ntando, May God heal all your wounds. You're strong Ntando❤❤
Hi cc, ngibuhlungu kakhulu ngalesi simo kodwa God will prevail Amen
I like how strong you are Sisi. We also went through that but because of the Grace of God we are also healed.