Hey 👋🏾. I hope you enjoy this video. Leave additional advice in the comments below and remember to be respectful of one another. See you Saturday (or Sunday 🙃)😘
1. I love the nails! 2. Exs are Exs for a reason. There is no purpose for them in your life as a friend besides a distraction. 3. A guy focused on looks (after focused on getting to know you)= superficial / lustful. Be sure he cares about your heart in the eyes of God above all else. 4. You still giving disclaimers by saying, "no disclaimers" lol. You dont have to, we got you. I hope you enjoyed the wedding! You looked beautiful darling! 😍
That “being an auntie” part really hit me. Now I’m over here crying bc I miss my babies so so much. The love that I have for my niece and nephew is just … indescribable. He was my first nephew and lived with me the first few years of of his life. So of course, TT spoiled him rotten. And I thought it didn’t get any better than that until my niece was born a few years after him. Y’all? Now trust, Bub did not play about me giving my attention to TWO babies (because “I yo bebby TeeTee”) but let me tell you… those children have me wrapped around their fingers. When I moved away from them, I cried for weeks bc they were with me when they weren’t with their parents. And now that I travel for work?? Baby we have daily FT calls. They definitely will tell you how they feel. When I’m homesick and tell them that, they both say “if you don’t work who gon buy us toys.” 😂😂😂 I can’t have children of my own but they already know what mama don’t have, TT got. Those are my heartbeats. To anyone who’s becoming an aunt soon… the love that you will have will be ASTRONOMICAL. There’s no describing it.
Yo Destiny I don't know who asked the questions and needed to hear this but say it again for the people in the back!!! 😂😂 Ratchet Destiny should DEFINITELY get her own segment because there are never no holds barred and it's giving 😂❤ keep going sis'!
Destiny!!! Girl you've been putting out these videos back to back, thank you, we love that💯! Love the girl chat videos. The girlies asked some really good questions. P.S im convinced you can wear any color in the rainbow. That dress color giving goddess👑
When I say I love these girl chats with you. Keep them coming sis I'm here for it. Let's talk about it. all rest of 2023! I'm not bein on the side nowhere ever period!
To answer the can you be friends with an ex question… yes you can, however, I do think it depends on how long ago you all were together. I am really good friends with an ex of mine, it’s going on 8 years of being friends post break up and I like him a lot better as a friend. Also, If I’m dating someone, 11:00 I do let them know who my ex is and our history but I don’t really switch the nature of our relationship. I may adjust us hanging out singularly out of respect for my relationship but we are still friends.
Men are visual people. When they first meet you. That's all they have to go on until they get to know you. Now, after getting to know you, and your looks is still all they like about you. Throw the whole dude away.
Yesss Auntie love does hit different I have nieces and nephews and they crazy about me they always wanna go over my house during weekends and after school😂😂
“I’m not giving disclaimers anymore.. it’s giving I said what I said!!” And if that was all that you said it would have still been a word 👏🏾👏🏾 let em know Destiny. Lol. As always the answers to the questions were on point. Especially the part about being pretty on the inside FIRST 🙌🏾
Hi Destiny. I asked the question about Mr. Lincoln. Before I became a mom my first nephew was who I learned patience and understanding from. Kids teach us so much. Being an Auntie made me excited to have one of my own. I enjoyed him while he was little now he's almost 18 and think he's grown 😂 but I'm still somewhat cool to him. This video was so much fun.
I'm friends with almost all my exes, usually at first we have to take some time and have space but after a bit we just want what's best for each other so we are there for each other.
I feel the same about looks I love compliments about my personality a lot more. I was married and he would always say I was beautiful and stuff but then also complain about the things that were fundamentally me as a person.
@allofdestiny lol, Destiny you remind me of myself! I said the same thing as you and now am currently a missionary. 🤭🤣 You're on The Mission and don't even realize it. You may not be a missionary in the traditional sense, but you're certainly on a mission for God. You have blessed so many, including me, with the wisdom & insight that God and your parents have instilled in you. The mission field that God has called you to is just on a different platform. Keep being a light Sis, and speaking life over people in Jesus' Name! Love you!! 🥰🩷🤗
I know this is old but I am a living testimony to being best friends with not one, but TWO exes😂 In both relationships we were friends FIRST, and we came to the realization that dating kinda dampened the relationships. So we just went back to being friends. Now I'm well aware not everybody can do that 😂 but in both those relationships they promised me that if we ever feel like something isn't right, that we'd go back to being friends
Good Morning it September 7,2023 I’m from Boston MA. Thank You for sharing your world 🌎 with us and your wisdom too. I would like for your next girl chat on today’s woman on how we should keep being a lady in this crazy world
Heyyyyy Destiny!!! The friend with ex question: yes he gotta go when I have a new man. Even if they're regular friends to me they still gotta go I feel it opens doors for temptations and distractions
Hey Destiny, I love these chats and how genuine your are. I’m to the point where it’s giving I said what I said. I have always held my tongue about things , now it’s you will know the true and it will set you free. Lol, not in a rude way. I love how you acknowledge God in all your videos, keep doing it. People have to know to still have Hope and unfortunately they think it’s in social media. ❤❤❤
Destiny look into Caprylic acid supplements for your seborrheic dermatitis! I have been doing research lately and decided to start. Today I took my 2 capsules and will keep an eye on how my scalp is going. Folks have been praising it saving their scalps. If you try it I’d love for you to update us via video at some point ♥️💋
I missed you ❤ , I had personal things in my life that I needed to get straight. Im back needed time to myself for me and my children shits straight now
I’m sorry Destiny didn’t mean to slight you in anyway, I just zoomed in on that question and went in 😂. I enjoy your content and you are a very “pretty” young woman. Continue doing what you do especially keeping God first 😉. I watch you and a couple other young ladies and please know that your content helps us older ladies too 😊💗
Hey I'm trying to Multitask too you ain't the only one. I'm always going to be staying being a busy body person. But I'm not no auntie, but I really do love some kids but not all of them.
(M.bell)🙋🏽♀️👏🏽👏🏽Hey destiny, how are you lil sis...Thanks for sharing....you have wisdom in your heart...thanks for assisting ones...keep grinding...lets get this 3,000 like folks....ky...
For the question about being friends with an ex when you’re dating- it depends on what kind of “friends” you’re talking about. If you’re texting and calling the guy on the regular I don’t think the guy you’re dating would be ok with that. If you’re just casual friends, I don’t see the problem.
i’m not a cheater and I respect my relationship so I have two exes that are my friends and as long as they respect boundaries and I respect the boundaries of my marriage I don’t see the need I left my relationship’s amicably so I don’t feel the need to phase them out my life when they still hold value as my friend
I’m “friends” with my ex fiancé but I’m using that word loosely. Like we cool and can still talk daily and talk about anything, however i have told him when I start dating that he will get the boot 🥾 🤣🤣🤣🤣 We can be cool as in if I saw you out and about I can speak, but you aren’t allowed to be texting and calling me at any given time. And the reason being is because I know my ex wants me back lol 😂 and that would be disrespectful to my new man.
And I definitely agree a break needs to happen after the break up! It’s unhealthy to go straight from the break up to being friends. Heck some ppl Tell me it’s not good being friends at all lol 😂. Doesn’t bother me as long as I know longer want them and have been clear about it so no lines are blurred. Im beginning to think it’s not good tho being that I think he think I will eventually change my mind and want him back (which ain’t happening!)
There is some truth to what you said about being “friends” with an ex but a person can be “friends” with an ex during a current relationship too. Because I’ve seen it
I don’t believe in being friends with an ex. Never have I ever kept an ex around. I move on. If it didn’t end bad, I’ll keep it cordial with you if we pass on the streets. In my opinion being friends with an ex is messy and the other person may be lingering around for different reasons.
Hey, it a no no no no about being friends with ex. You are friends in the relationships and when it over it over be done with each other or stay together and be friends. It don’t make sense.
Hey 👋🏾. I hope you enjoy this video. Leave additional advice in the comments below and remember to be respectful of one another. See you Saturday (or Sunday 🙃)😘
"When God tells u to put something down stop trying to pick it back up!!!" U Betta speak 🗣️🗣️ ☝🏾
1. I love the nails!
2. Exs are Exs for a reason. There is no purpose for them in your life as a friend besides a distraction.
3. A guy focused on looks (after focused on getting to know you)= superficial / lustful. Be sure he cares about your heart in the eyes of God above all else.
4. You still giving disclaimers by saying, "no disclaimers" lol. You dont have to, we got you.
I hope you enjoyed the wedding! You looked beautiful darling! 😍
That “being an auntie” part really hit me. Now I’m over here crying bc I miss my babies so so much. The love that I have for my niece and nephew is just … indescribable. He was my first nephew and lived with me the first few years of of his life. So of course, TT spoiled him rotten. And I thought it didn’t get any better than that until my niece was born a few years after him. Y’all? Now trust, Bub did not play about me giving my attention to TWO babies (because “I yo bebby TeeTee”) but let me tell you… those children have me wrapped around their fingers. When I moved away from them, I cried for weeks bc they were with me when they weren’t with their parents. And now that I travel for work?? Baby we have daily FT calls. They definitely will tell you how they feel. When I’m homesick and tell them that, they both say “if you don’t work who gon buy us toys.” 😂😂😂 I can’t have children of my own but they already know what mama don’t have, TT got. Those are my heartbeats. To anyone who’s becoming an aunt soon… the love that you will have will be ASTRONOMICAL. There’s no describing it.
My 6 year old daughter looked over at my phone and said, "Hey Destiny!!"❤❤❤❤
Hey daughter 👋🏾
Yo Destiny I don't know who asked the questions and needed to hear this but say it again for the people in the back!!! 😂😂 Ratchet Destiny should DEFINITELY get her own segment because there are never no holds barred and it's giving 😂❤ keep going sis'!
Ratchet Destiny is my fav. 🤭 yes the girls had some juicy questions. I enjoyed chatting about these topics. Thank you. More to come
Destiny!!! Girl you've been putting out these videos back to back, thank you, we love that💯! Love the girl chat videos. The girlies asked some really good questions. P.S im convinced you can wear any color in the rainbow. That dress color giving goddess👑
Consistency is key💕🙌🏾 thank you I’m glad your enjoyed it. Yes the girls submitted some great topics for this video. And thanks. I love wearing color🤎
I like that! "When God telling you to put something down, stop picking it back up or put it in the trash" Destiny 2023 😂 I love that actually.❤
Thanks Destiny for the college advice this really did encourage me more!
You’ve accomplished something superb and worth celebrating. Be proud of yourself. Congratulations again to you ✨🎓
Destiny I love how down to earth and transparent you are. You’re one of my favs & so relatable 🥰
When I say I love these girl chats with you. Keep them coming sis I'm here for it. Let's talk about it. all rest of 2023! I'm not bein on the side nowhere ever period!
I know that’s right. Never being on the sidelines. Thanks I’m glad you enjoyed 🤎
I love this girl chat as always! Always remember ladies never settle ❤ let’s elevate! Speak kind to ourselves. I’ve been working on that myself lately
I love your girl chat series! Let me get comfortable and get into this ❤😊
Get into it🙌🏾💕
@@allofdestiny your final look was beautiful per usual. ❤
To answer the can you be friends with an ex question… yes you can, however, I do think it depends on how long ago you all were together. I am really good friends with an ex of mine, it’s going on 8 years of being friends post break up and I like him a lot better as a friend. Also, If I’m dating someone, 11:00 I do let them know who my ex is and our history but I don’t really switch the nature of our relationship. I may adjust us hanging out singularly out of respect for my relationship but we are still friends.
Great points. The timeframe is definitely important on whether a friendship should be considered
Men are visual people. When they first meet you. That's all they have to go on until they get to know you. Now, after getting to know you, and your looks is still all they like about you. Throw the whole dude away.
This ‼️ like how shallow can he be to only admire physical. Goodbye sir
Yesss Auntie love does hit different I have nieces and nephews and they crazy about me they always wanna go over my house during weekends and after school😂😂
I’m 30 and I be here for the girl chats
30s and thriving . I enjoyed filming this one for yal
“I’m not giving disclaimers anymore.. it’s giving I said what I said!!”
And if that was all that you said it would have still been a word 👏🏾👏🏾 let em know Destiny. Lol. As always the answers to the questions were on point. Especially the part about being pretty on the inside FIRST 🙌🏾
Hi Destiny. I asked the question about Mr. Lincoln. Before I became a mom my first nephew was who I learned patience and understanding from. Kids teach us so much. Being an Auntie made me excited to have one of my own. I enjoyed him while he was little now he's almost 18 and think he's grown 😂 but I'm still somewhat cool to him. This video was so much fun.
Wow 3 videos in one week😮😀 we're being spoilt and I ain't complaining 🥰
Consistency matters💕 spoiling the girls for sure
Hello Destiny! Blessings. I agreed being an auntie is fabulous. It is such a blessing! Thank you for sharing your wisdom. ❤
It’s the best feeling ever, & thank you so much 💕
@@allofdestiny Yes, you're welcome!
I'm friends with almost all my exes, usually at first we have to take some time and have space but after a bit we just want what's best for each other so we are there for each other.
I feel the same about looks I love compliments about my personality a lot more. I was married and he would always say I was beautiful and stuff but then also complain about the things that were fundamentally me as a person.
Likeness for Personality and character are definitely important too
Missionary in the making .Good teaching. Let them talk at least you are on their mind
No ma’am, I’m not interested in that position. Get somebody else to do it😂 I agree with the second two statements though 🤭thank you
@allofdestiny let the perfect will of God be done in ir life in Jesus name. Be blessed😊
@allofdestiny lol, Destiny you remind me of myself! I said the same thing as you and now am currently a missionary. 🤭🤣 You're on The Mission and don't even realize it. You may not be a missionary in the traditional sense, but you're certainly on a mission for God. You have blessed so many, including me, with the wisdom & insight that God and your parents have instilled in you. The mission field that God has called you to is just on a different platform. Keep being a light Sis, and speaking life over people in Jesus' Name! Love you!! 🥰🩷🤗
Love your filming background with the colored lights. 🤩 Great feedback as always.
You looked so pretty!!
Looking good i love your energy when u get dress!! U gave some very good advice ❤
Real talk...speak beauty into yourself
Yesss I love being an auntie too
Being an Auntie is the best feeling ever.
Hey Destiny ❤❤ I love when you speak 🗣️ your mind ❤❤ Beautiful outfit enjoy the wedding 🧡🧡
I know this is old but I am a living testimony to being best friends with not one, but TWO exes😂 In both relationships we were friends FIRST, and we came to the realization that dating kinda dampened the relationships. So we just went back to being friends. Now I'm well aware not everybody can do that 😂 but in both those relationships they promised me that if we ever feel like something isn't right, that we'd go back to being friends
Out of alll the great advice u gave in this chat its when u said IF EVERYTHING I SAYS OFFENDS THIS JUST AINT FOR U! I felt that 💪🏾💪🏾💕
move accordingly ‼️ this the one
Where did you get your robe
❤❤❤ Love, love, love your honesty sometimes I just need to hear stuff to believe it. Thank you.❤❤❤
Lime wire was the thing back then😂😂 Keep going with these girl chats, it’s juicy 😂
Yesss limewire was everything when it came to music. Thank you glad you enjoyed
Good Morning it September 7,2023 I’m from Boston MA. Thank You for sharing your world 🌎 with us and your wisdom too. I would like for your next girl chat on today’s woman on how we should keep being a lady in this crazy world
U look gorgeous hunny🧡 and your pictures was bomb as always😇😍 U always come thru with the pictures 😍😍😍😍😍😍
Thank you so very much 💕
Great video! No surprise! I’m taking a break from makeup but this video makes me want to do my makeup again. God bless Destiny!
Glad you enjoyed, enjoy your makeup break🤎
Heyyyyy Destiny!!! The friend with ex question: yes he gotta go when I have a new man. Even if they're regular friends to me they still gotta go I feel it opens doors for temptations and distractions
Well said
Speak truth...people listen and learn
All your advice is good
Destiny you look so beautiful ☺️ hope you had fun 🤗🤗
Hey Destiny, I love these chats and how genuine your are. I’m to the point where it’s giving I said what I said. I have always held my tongue about things , now it’s you will know the true and it will set you free. Lol, not in a rude way. I love how you acknowledge God in all your videos, keep doing it. People have to know to still have Hope and unfortunately they think it’s in social media. ❤❤❤
New subscriber I love her sense of humor and her content😊
Welcome 👋🏾 glad to have to here. Thanks, glad you enjoyed
I love you Destiny! You’re really my internet big sister 🥹😂🫶🏾
Beautiful makeup look....❤❤❤❤❤
How did the mixture of setting sprays worked vs your all-nighter setting spray?
Worked great. I showed the after of my makeup in my vlog after this video when leaving the wedding reception
I enjoyed this chit chat. Loved your perspective ❤
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you
Beautiful makeup! Great conversation!
Thanks so very much.
Destiny look into Caprylic acid supplements for your seborrheic dermatitis! I have been doing research lately and decided to start. Today I took my 2 capsules and will keep an eye on how my scalp is going. Folks have been praising it saving their scalps. If you try it I’d love for you to update us via video at some point ♥️💋
I missed you ❤ , I had personal things in my life that I needed to get straight. Im back needed time to myself for me and my children shits straight now
I enjoyed Girl Chat. Your dress is pretty, I like the color.
Thank you
I love these videos ❤❤❤ and I’m 55 😂😂😂
Love this💕🤎
Orange is popping!
I’m sorry Destiny didn’t mean to slight you in anyway, I just zoomed in on that question and went in 😂. I enjoy your content and you are a very “pretty” young woman. Continue doing what you do especially keeping God first 😉. I watch you and a couple other young ladies and please know that your content helps us older ladies too 😊💗
Girlllllll LISTEEENNN THIS TEA IS 🥵
This was so fun to watch!
Glad to had fun here 💕
Hey Destiny enjoyed video nice chat and you’re pretty did great on makeup outfit enjoyed video 🥰
Hey I'm trying to Multitask too you ain't the only one. I'm always going to be staying being a busy body person. But I'm not no auntie, but I really do love some kids but not all of them.
Lol! Yesss! Limewire and Napster! 😂😂
I love your videos, could you do more get ready with me to go church?
(M.bell)🙋🏽♀️👏🏽👏🏽Hey destiny, how are you lil sis...Thanks for sharing....you have wisdom in your heart...thanks for assisting ones...keep grinding...lets get this 3,000 like folks....ky...
Limewire had me in a choke hold. Girl I got about 15,000 songs off of that site. 😂😂😂😂
Ok destiny I have a 14 year old daughter that want to wear make up? Now give some advice on what she can used she is in high school
For the question about being friends with an ex when you’re dating- it depends on what kind of “friends” you’re talking about. If you’re texting and calling the guy on the regular I don’t think the guy you’re dating would be ok with that. If you’re just casual friends, I don’t see the problem.
Casual is the word. ‼️ i don’t think the person engaging in it should be okay with it either.
Hi Destiny, how are you? I just wanted to say that I’ve watched your Rollersetting videos and your skills are amazing.
Hey, thanks!
I subscribed to your channel, I love doing rollersets myself.
Now That You Said That..I’m Starting Ah Prayer Journal
that’s a great idea.
i’m not a cheater and I respect my relationship so I have two exes that are my friends and as long as they respect boundaries and I respect the boundaries of my marriage I don’t see the need I left my relationship’s amicably so I don’t feel the need to phase them out my life when they still hold value as my friend
Yesss 😆 the ringtones from Limewire 💯
These new kids don’t know nothing about that. 🤭
Lemme just say thumbs up because I can tell you were with it "For the 99 and the 2000s" YEEEESSSSS! 😂
🤭definitely was
Limewire was it !!! Take us back for a day lol
Great video I love the chats u look 👀 amazing doll love u lots!!!🥰😘 🌹
Thanks so very much. I thoroughly enjoyed filming this one
I’m “friends” with my ex fiancé but I’m using that word loosely. Like we cool and can still talk daily and talk about anything, however i have told him when I start dating that he will get the boot 🥾 🤣🤣🤣🤣
We can be cool as in if I saw you out and about I can speak, but you aren’t allowed to be texting and calling me at any given time.
And the reason being is because I know my ex wants me back lol 😂 and that would be disrespectful to my new man.
Mmm that’s juicy right there. I love that you’re demanding he respect your boundaries on reaching out and when you plan to dismiss him🤭
And I definitely agree a break needs to happen after the break up! It’s unhealthy to go straight from the break up to being friends.
Heck some ppl
Tell me it’s not good being friends at all lol 😂. Doesn’t bother me as long as I know longer want them and have been clear about it so no lines are blurred.
Im beginning to think it’s not good tho being that I think he think I will eventually change my mind and want him back (which ain’t happening!)
Love the dress and that color is definitely giving!!!
And I love the nails
Oh she going in today. Let me pay attention. ❤❤
Get into it, I said what I said 💕
Thanks 🎉
Well done!
Happy Wednesday 😊
What earbuds are you using ?
Jbl earbuds
@@allofdestiny Thanks a bunch
Lovely Nails
Thank you. Tutorial coming soon
There is some truth to what you said about being “friends” with an ex but a person can be “friends” with an ex during a current relationship too. Because I’ve seen it
Always looking beautiful hey girl hey
Hi Destiny 💕🥰
Just came over from watching your moving vlogs from 2 years ago.
Time flies it’s crazy that it’s been 2 years ago. Happy to have you here
She said what she said 😅
And said it how she said it‼️
Destiny you should do a silk press! And film it
Temps are not cool enough yet & My lifestyle doesn’t call for a silk press right now. I’ll sweat it out.
Chile just make sure that Pastor really bout that life cause they out here playing too 😂
Heavy on pretty comes from the inside! 😊
That part‼️
Heyy ❤
Lol you remind me of my cousin! 😂❤
Hey Destiny...
No! I your keep friends.
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Ok then. I been waiting on this video
Hiii Destiny 😊❤🫶🏾
Hi I see ya video but no volume
I don’t believe in being friends with an ex. Never have I ever kept an ex around. I move on. If it didn’t end bad, I’ll keep it cordial with you if we pass on the streets. In my opinion being friends with an ex is messy and the other person may be lingering around for different reasons.
Well said. Keep it Cordial . Nothing more nothing less
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Hey, it a no no no no about being friends with ex. You are friends in the relationships and when it over it over be done with each other or stay together and be friends. It don’t make sense.
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How DARE you not play Lil Greg at the end of this video?!! My lil one complaint lol everything else in the video gave what it was pose to PERIOD ❤💪💯
Omggg I completely forgot. My wrist was so tired from editing . Thanks for watching til the end💕
@@allofdestiny Always❣️😊