When Men Hurt | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers & Issac Curry
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
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_A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones_ . *Proverbs 12:4*
First time in my life to see men addressing real issues men face. It has often been women talking and trashing out matters that deal with deep emotions, it’s so liberating as a woman to hear these men speak out for men. Men are often taught to be emotionless and it has left many men handicapped in truely and sincerely expressing themselves as they really are this handicap often gets some more angry or make some withdraw either ways they retort to d same old unexpressive self. But u guys have real kingdom game changers, I love the way u came using biblical references to buttress your points. Heaven is proud of u to have come out in this fashion. More grace to u both. This message comes with gratitude from Nigeria.🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wowwwww!! “A lot of us are exhausted from giving out healthy things on unhealthy people”
I get sick all the time bad head ached every time I drink beers and a lil liquor and hangovers really bad 😞 I get body sick my legs hurt and arms , I'm sober today all that made me snap and angry and cried everyday
I keep praying I'll pray my body sore from over working out I cannot shower or bath in or brush my teeth or lift things like I use am very weak pain and my hands are hurting me and numb I'm on medication and bed rest, I was at the hospital, I stop drinking 3 months I had a slip in July and August but when couldn't walk fast or run or get the 🛏️, I said I don't want drink or hangout with people I'm praying each day,
YES. AMEN. THAT WAS GOOD IN REGARDS TO WHAT HE SAID ABOUT ESAU. THAT IS TOTALLY ACCURATE. AMEN. YES. THE HOLY SPIRIT TALKED TO ME ABOUT THE THINGS THAT ARE ACTUALLY A DISABILITY THAT WE DON'T CONSIDER TO BE A DISABILITY.
To Pastor Flowers on his question at 9:00, I would like to add what I learned today, it is biblically possible we can "deceive ourselves" this is what happens to us both men and women.
Thank God that there is GRACE now that everyone can recieve every soul Decendants of Jacob and person of a nation 📖
This is so good!!!
I agree that we have to make men stronger and more resilient I believe that this topic is not talked about enough I wish that it was talked about more. I am very thankful for this teaching today!
#replay in Houston, TX
Longview, Texas I just want to say thank You for addressing an issue that isn't in main stream religion. Something I've address in the subject "When Men Cry Silent" expressed by outward jester's. Love You Much 🥰 Brothers!!!
You're reaching Us.
I care about what I'm carrying (protect at all cost)🙏🏽🤰🙏🏽... I received that seed ... and I'm protecting that Word too....y'all better preach!!!
I honestly love this. From the beginning of them explaining the men I have encountered. Ones who stonewall and go silent on me and bring out a lot of things I don't like experiencing. To accepting a man's inner child if they present it to you. Handle it with care. To "What goes on in this house stays in this house" doesn't keep us safe, it keeps us sick. To "You have to get to the source because you'll be dealing with the symptoms your whole life." That was prophetic. To "Who in my life is resurrecting what I'm trying to keep in the grave?" I can think of someone right now. The place you're standing on is holy ground.
I remember scrolling through ig and outta nowhere Pastor Jerry Flowers your video popped up and you was asking women if we where ready for a kingdom man and I was all ears ❤I honestly believe God allowed me to see your video I was such in a dark place at time😢 I was with my daughter’s father to which is a narcissist. Watching you two years ago open my eyes to what a narcissist even was. I just want to thank you and most importantly thank our Heavenly Father for you and your wife Tanisha. This December will make a year I left him and I know God will get me and mg daughter through this process. Keep being you 🙏🏽❤️
I have a familiar story.
God bless you and keep you. Amen.
I have a similar story as well. I’m in the planning process of leaving. Seeing Pastor Flowers videos has allowed me to strengthen my relationship with God. It has truly been my saving grace.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Healing from childhood wounds, and choosing to break viscious cycles will get you out of a relationship like that, and will help keep you out of relationships like that in Jesus name. Amen.
Fasting = Strengthening Your No!! 🔥🙌🏽
Powerful 🔥
The guy I was dating i though we was friends. We talked about everything, our relationships, our childhood. We talked about how important communication was important in a relationship. We was real close. I accepted the little boy. He started pulling neck. Became mean ..I sad to him I didn't hurt you. I believe there's alot of hurt in his past.i accepted him for who he is. He have to be willing to do the work on himself..
Please excuse my grammar. I've been up for 24 hrs. Typing without my glasses. I meant pulling back. Blood line can be for a female also. Choosing or allowing the same unhealed , toxic relationship in your life.
Pastor Flowers and Pastor Curry
I really do appreciate this therapy Thursday message it not only help me understand the way a man thinks as well as him not understanding his emotions but it helped me to understand my part as a woman in my singleness in what to prepare for to my future husband this therapy Thursday was really a good message for women in the part of a Jezebel woman or a Abigail woman that is a good point made again thank you both
Awesome. I just now noticed that picture of the lion of JUDAH IN THE BACKGROUND. AMEN. ❤❤❤
What an Awesome word! Thank you!
This word has been transforming!
"nauseaous" wow how good is this!
This was so good guys. We appreciate it❤️
Unfinished Combat WHOA AND WOW!!
Shared ✅️ Family. Thank You So Much Brothers. This is so needed! Blessings from Brooklyn New York 🗽.
Thank you guys soo much! I needed this message!
Glad I didn’t skip bc I thought this was directed only to the men. Learned soo much in the powers of speaking life into my future partner.
Amen
Depends on the personality type.
I have been trying to send this video to my son since 2:30 this morning and it still won’t let me share it!!!
I hope you were successful 💯🍎💯
Ouu & when you stone wall what if it’s to suppress your emotions??
Well?!
Unfinished Combat WHOA AND WOW!!
Hearing the voice of God talking through you both to speak into my hurt to heal my heart. Blessings to you both and your families.
Thank you so much Brothers for shedding some light 💡 on this issue and giving hope to us Men to make the changes we need. Our men is hurting and most of us don’t even understand why and what’s going on, but Glory to God for his word and his Servants! Thank y’all so much! Peace, love, and blessings! 🙏🏾😇💪🏾
Breath of fresh air! Good to see 2 godly men, helping the men! Keep up the good work guys!
Bro, 20 minutes later and still weeping. This was anointed! You told me to grab the tissue...I don't know why I didn't listen... so so good. Y'all are amazing vessels for the lord message
Amen. God IS good. Thank you, Lord Jesus. Amen. Thank you, Lord. Amen.
Silence is the cycle and pattern. If you don’t break the silence, you can’t break the pattern.
This is absolutely amazing!!! Thank you for your obedience & transparency! Where the Spirit of the Lord is there is freedom!! And they shall know the truth & the truth will make us free! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Do you care about what you carry enough to avoid things that cause harm to that vision you carry?
Congratulations on the baby in the way, Curry Family. May Holy Spirit dwell in the womb and protect baby and mother.
I know this was geared towards the men, but this even hit me and blessed me. It also helped me to see things from my Kings perspective
Amen!!! Me too.
This was some extreme affirmation of the process. Real talk, easy to comprehend for those going thru it feeling like a lost ship. The spiritual is more real than this body. And it's more life changing than puberty to have God deal with you. I threw away books, tv shows etc...the Holy Ghost knocked the taste out my mouth for many things. I asked God to do a mighty work. It was rough and amazing and beautiful and I love listening to you guys testimonies of the process. People please remember that God loves you so much. You're a child of His if you abide in Him He abides with you. Imagine yourself as a cute kid and love yourself!!!!
They flow really welll together 🤲 ❤ .... keep up the good work guys
Love the transparency… GOD I HAVE BEEN HURT 😩😩😩
Some of us pull back for mental peace and to protect our hearts after being told and shown that we’re not valuable and openly disrespected as well.
That is why you have to choose to seek counsel and disconnect from the ones who may be abusive, destructive, and detrimental to you in every area of your life. I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. AMEN.
Yes men can give birth, he must be willing to identify with a healthy desire. The cultivation of a new seed within himself with God's grace will become a beautiful marriage if he commits to the relationship! It may take some work but, it would be worth it in the end!
Love this 💕 I love learning about men because am not a men. I realize I have to educate myself to deal with my husband better. Went through these things with him but with knowledge I definitely can have more compassion on him and know what he needs and what he going through. men don't need to suffer in silence.
Thank you so much Pastor Jerry and Pastor Isaac. This conversation is so necessary and timely. I have learnt a lot even as a woman. May God continue to bless you because you are always teaching facts and what’s real. God speak your servants we are listening 👂🏾 🙏🏽amen
Even Jesus wept! And we are following Him! Raised my son it is okay to weep!
This ministry has confirmed everything God has opened my eyes to. Thank you so much for sharing. A healing movement is being birthed. God is doing something big. I’m excited!
I can’t even get to the 15 minute mark with y’all smacking me in the head with this truth! Thank you fellas for the transparency! Jesus!
This is a character that is so honest and open that I am truly not used to this type of vulnerability from the male perspective or role model growing up, my father showed me what to stay away from, and my older brother was locked up when I was 16, now that I'm married I am trying to understand my husband better and, I've learned a lot from these videos and this channel Thankyou all for sharing, Blessings as you continue the work of God.
WHAT AN AWESOME MESSAGE PASTOR JERRY AND PASTOR ISSAC!! THIS MESSAGE IS LIKE A DOUBLE EDGE SWORD! CUTTING BOTH MEN AND WOMEN! THIS IS A DYNAMIC DUO WORD FROM GOD! I PRAY THAT GOD CONTINUES TO SEND HIS ANOINTING OIL TO REST UPON AND INSIDE MY BROTHAS!!!
Brother Jerry it's 2022 son😧..I know we want to go back👈 but let's move forward➡️...
Lols I thought i was the only one who caught it.
This should be “viral.”
Thanks to ALL of you, speakers, cameraman, sound man, gopher, secretary, and so on. God Bless!
Pastor Curry, watching this episode was an answer to the prayers Ive been lifting up to God today, regarding of all the information I can share in my therapy session tomorrow , what should I share Lord???
After watching I have 3 points to share and I thank you Lord for the information shared. May God continue to use you to help and support his children.
You two men of God are a blessing in the knowledge, wisdom and understanding. The teaching on this matter was Powerful, Potent and Peace!!!! The people that will receive this can be life giving life changing for them. The 🔥🔥🔥🔥was all on both of you to speak on the whole counsel. I take on this topics too. I will see how the Lord moves and we may can have this for both men and women to come together. Bless the wives in your lives too.
Good job Kings!! We need more Healed Men in the Kingdom . Surrender !! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥🔥👑👑👑❤️❤️❤️ I have gotten to my season we’re I’m strong enough to forgive an ex who hurt me over n over realizing it’s hidden trauma he has not addressed . I pray for his healing .
A lot of men don’t identify with their anger bc…they can’t separate anger from emotions….a lot of women can’t identify with anger bc…we are so used to witnessing anger as being aggressive, physical etc…but, don’t realize anger is also displayed by what he/she don’t do. Anger doesn’t always act, sometimes anger doesn’t speak. And to me, that’s the most scariest of all!
True
Thank you pastors.
In my past marriage. My ex husband was angry. I was silent about the sins. We both had ancient spirits and stronghold that we took into the marriage. Im more aware of the giants in my life. I'm intention in asking Christ to fight for me as I'm no good fighting in my flesh. Everything you are sharing resonate with me.
Let get to the source, chop it off completely.
'Hell will send people to get giant out of a coma.'😱
The battles at night, the dreams at night can be controlled.
I came to end of myself when was dying in hell in 2014 when my marriage broke down. I'm still hungary and thirst for God.
Let's pray for purity and holiness. We are chosen, set apart and sanctified by father God.
NO MORE SIN🚫, KILL THE GIANT. 💪
God bless your ministry pastors. 🙏✝️💖
Amen sometimes tears have to fill your eyes for you to see clearly. Transparency and vulnerability are much needed
This is a good word. But once again,I keep seeing more women listening then men. That’s the Problem!
Because there is an obvious problem that is going unaddressed and its called homosexuality. No judgment, but that's what's happening. there is a large number of our men that are not into women anymore, or they are into both, which nullifies the conversation for a healthy relationship in a heterosexual marriage. It's like putting new wine in a old wine skin. IJS. We gotta get to those hidden issues that are truly destroying the person, and thier current or future relationship. It's the little foxes that destroies the vine.
That's more then likely intentional and by God's design. Women are to be praying for men's deliverance, healing, and peace to take place as a whole right now. We are supposed to be standing in the gap for them. That's the original purpose and design of a help meet.
And just because we don't see comments from men, or don't know if they are pressing the like button or not. Don't mean that they are not listening. Only God knows. And just because we open our mouth and speak. Don't mean we know how to listen or communicate well or healthy. It's better to learn how to be silent sometimes. Every person haven't been taught how to love properly, or forgive properly. And that's what the spirit of God is trying to break right now. And women need to choose to stop making so many assumptions, and choose to stop jumping to conclusions so quickly and so much.
I pray you have a blessed remainder of your day, weekend, and year in Jesus name. And I pray that you choose to grow in God's poverty, knowledge, wisdom, understanding, insight, and perspective in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. The name above ALL names. AMEN.
God love and cares for you and so do I.
I just got through reading and studying Samson and actually WHY his Wifes Father says He thought that Samson hated Her. It was actually because SHE pressed upon Samson for 7 Days to get the Answer to the Riddle He had given Her People 7 days to figure out. And She went and exposed the Answer to Her People without Samson even knowing and Gods Spirit came upon Samson and he Dealt with THEM and Someone gave Samson Wife to one of his Companions,Smh. So because of what his Wife did(that CLEARLY is WRONG) that’s WHY Her Father Thought that Samson would Hate Her. She got “that party started”,Smh…….
Fasting strengthens your “no”
This right here is EVERYTHING!! Gives me mores specifics to pray over for my future husband. God bless the breakthroughs and deliverance that is happening for our men!! The time is NOW!! Breakup the stone walls Lord!! Do it God, in the Mighty name of Jesus, Amen!!! 🙏🏾💫🙌🏾
Safe place ...so beautifull said Isaac ,Love that little boy and little girl with the Love of Jesus ,and Jerry beautifull testimony " she just held you ,so Beautifull Ms Flower sister Flower 🌺😘
Why did I think Pastor was interviewing Shug Knight? LMBO… Lord bless both Shug and this MOG with deep rooted healing.
Whew Weee Absolutely Powerful 🗣🗣🔥🔥You Two Vessel Tag Team For king Jesus 👏🏾👏🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💜💜!
This is so good!!! I have been studying the word, studying myself, gaining knowledge/understanding/wisdom; and I believe God is getting me in alignment with where I am able to have complete understanding, acceptance, empathy, and compassion for my future husband. We (God and I) have been working on the little girl inside of me so that when it's time, that little girl doesn't cause me to lose or miss out on my blessing/promise. It's about creating a respectful atmospher and balance... so that my future husband can feel safe and then be my safe space, & give me God's love in human form. My current psychology classes, God, and this conversation are right on time... AS ALWAYS... Hallelujah and Amen!
Amen sis 🙏🏾
I feel the same way sus !!!
So good sis!
AMEN. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU LORD JESUS. SOMEONE THAT GET IT. THANK YOU LORD JESUS. AMEN.
I am on time on what you're saying my sister same thing with me asking God to prepare me for my future husband and transform me as well
Yes, Yes, Yes, King even though you rejected yourself your own eye is attached to the soul you understand yourself to be! Not the soul of another that can see past what you can't love about yourself but, they can!
This was GOOOODDDDDDD PRAISE GOD AND THE P.A. SYSTEM HE ALLOWED TO DELIVER THE MESSAGE TONIGHT
This was for the men but this one absolutely blessed my life. ❤
When I was marred, my husband got mad at me. I don’t at all remember what it was about. Me ex didn’t speak to me from, I believe, from just before Christmas to his birthday at the end of May. So far roughly 6 months he didn’t speak to me. At the time our two kids were in grade school. 🥺
My ex-husband burned everything up. 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
He said because we've been practicing 🤣🤣🤣. That took me out
Thank you Pastor J and Pastor Curry.... this is a powerful chain-breaking yoke annihilating Word
Amen. Thank you for bringing up the part about shutting down. Both men & women do this. I do this myself without realizing.
thank you for confirming that I am doing what God wants me to do in my moments of singleness!💕💕💕
That's why I was led to tell women don't pray that your husband be like this or that based off of what you see from them on social media or a movie. Ask the Lord to bless you to wait on the man that HE ordained and created specifically for you, if it's His will for your life. And ask the Lord to help you to be able to recognize and see him for yourself. To be able to recognize God's heart in him, even if he outwardly look like a beast (so to speak). Ladies pay close attention to the movie beauty and the beast. And you will prayerfully understand what I'm speaking of by the grace of God.
I love that there are Pastor's out there talking about this!! Love your ministry ❤️🙏
Double feature, loves it❤️🧡💜 thanks for being so transparent. This is what helps people. I can’t even express to you how this channel has helped me. Because I’ve been helped, I’ve passed this along to my two brothers, sister, mama, uncle shoot my WHOLE family. Keep bringing the real!!!
This really helped me. God bless and thank you both so much! We must learn to be silent and just listen to our men. Instead of always responding give them a loving hug. Praying for our men. Praying that they feel so comfortable to get naked.
Hello from Columbia SC ❤… GOD Bless You, Your Wife and your ministry … 🙏🏼❤️🙌🏼
Lord, this is good! So much truth being told on here! God bless both of you! Thank you for allowing God to use you! This video has been shared!!!🙏🏾❤️🙌🏾
Nice job Kings 🤴 👏 🙌
I truly need to hear this right now because I'm definitely with all of what you guys are talking about, so thank you so much
Thank you men of God for this message...it helps me understand the hurt of men.
Thnk you both for this spiritual medicine to heal my heart . This is so POWERFUL. Thank you so much ❤️ 🙏🙌😭 Lord help us to be better!
Congratulations Pastor Curry!
Watching from Phoenix, AZ
Watching from Sahuarita Az 👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽
How you relate with self is how you relate with God and others. If you hide from self,you're gonna hide from God and others✍🏾
The note taking emoji is cute. Lol.
Fasting strengthens your no.
Phoenix, AZ!! I’m so grateful that I found this channel. Learning so much 😊
First to like! This is one topic that's not often talked about. You got to appreciate these men.
You guys are true gems 💎 God bless and strengthen you and everyone and everything attached to you🙏🙏🙏
I stand in agreement with you for the healing of our Men. My heart has been heavy for you all. Most importantly I am standing in the gap for you. 🙏🏽
YOU ARE PREACHING!!!!!!!! “Tired for Living out scripture on people who are a contradiction to my faith!”
Thank you two Kings for this!