Kate, I have PMDD. It is literally the worst. I was at the point at unaliving myself every month. Get in touch with a GYN and woth a psychiatrist. I got IUD and anti-anxiety meds. It changed my life. My mood improved so much. There is hope for you. You don't need to love feeling like that every month. Love the podcast, girlies!
Once I realized I had pmdd and I wasn’t just insane - it really changed my life. Unfortunately I can’t do birth control so I just have to track my period and smoke a lot of weed when my anger rises and mood swings happen. But just being able to track it over the last year has truly changed everything for me, it’s helped my relationship get better because we both understand why I’m quick to crying or getting angry now, and it’s also the most debilitating and fucked thing that we have to deal with as women and I’d actually cut out my uterus and never have children if it meant I never had to feel the way I do during certain weeks.
your energy together is literally everything so I love when it’s just you two (altho I do love the guest eps u’ve done!!) but please invite ricky dillon on for the throwbacks xxx
I've been solely binging every single episode all week and this is my now favorite podcast. I love the way you guys joke around it's sooooo funny ahhh thank you guys for doing the lords work
Yall my dawgs fr. Thankful for you girlies being sober, open-minded, and just having a natural drive for a filled lifestyle of introspection and just letting life take you where you grow. Love you both
Kate, I adore you AND your transitions please be the fullest version of yourself, I beg!! I really love love love your humor and your delivery and everything about you!! ❤
Loooooved this episode! The podcast started so amazing from the beginning so it actually is scary how it still keeps getting better and better😩 and i am in literal Norway but will sell my actual body and soul to come to America if u guys do a tour🫡
Girl, the dysphoria is so real. It’s so difficult! And honestly, so much of it comes from the ridiculous amount of transphobia. Even those who are mostly accepting of us are sooooo uneducated about gender in general, so even when they’re trying to be supportive they often end up being low key offensive. The only thing we can do is be our best selves, and if there’s stuff that’s making us feel uncomfortable, hopefully we have room to work on it. A good voice coach might help you with your voice dysphoria by helping identify what it is about your voice that’s making you feel insecure and giving you specifics to practice. As for my dysphoria, I’m working on getting FFS cause this mug just isn’t giving. 😂 At least I’m only 6’ now instead of the 6’2” I started at haha! Anyway, thank you both for putting out this podcast. It’s been a life saver while I’m working through (what I hope is) the end stages of my awkward phase. Listening to your experiences has been so empowering for me and helped me find a lot of self love and confidence. 💜
2 incredibly beautiful and inspiring women ♥️ it makes me sad to hear trevi’s struggles with identity because she doesn’t get to see herself from our perspective. But I also appreciate the honesty about topics that are really hard to talk about to other people, makes me feel less alone about my shameful insecurities
This episode touched on so many relatable things. Trevi I totally relate to trying to be open to finding your person but feeling discouraged. Sending all my love and big husband energy for both of us 😭
so sorry you’ve been dealing with dysphoria Trevi. you’re not alone and i hope you can find acceptance and your confidence again 🖤 you are beautiful, smart, talented, and more than capable of doing anything you set your mind to and you WILL find your person; dont spend all your time looking though. the minute i stopped looking is exactly when that person came my way; i didn’t even have to try and all i’d done for years was try so hard. nothing good ever comes of desperation so stay patient and stay focused on yourself and your growth. you got this!!
KATE!!!! I was diagnosed with PMDD when I was 15 and I was put on antidepressants and I take birth control continuously so I don’t get my period. There needs to be more awareness and research done with this disorder because I’ve done a lot of personal research and my doctors never told me about starting antidepressants for the two weeks of your luteal phase of your cycle when you feel the most symptoms. I think antidepressants all the time is good for me but it would’ve been nice to know that’s an option. I haven’t looked into Dixie dimelio talking about PMDD but for me a major hallmark is the amount of uncontrollable crying it’s very hard to keep track but it’s easier for the people around you to notice these intense emotions are around the same time of your cycle every month. I would love to hear more people’s experiences if anyone in the comments has this.
yes me too! i’ve been on birth control since i was 15 & anti depressants since i was 19. it helps but it still happens. for me it’s mostly irritability and uncontrollable crying :) i get angry really fast and sad really fast and my emotions just consume me until it passes. i also have pcos so i’m just basically f*cked LOL
Hi there, I have PMDD and there needs to be more accessible research for womens health in general because it’s extremely underdeveloped in research understanding. (Health care in the states is terrible.) I have done my own research for many years and I have an herbal regimen that I am religious to at this point because I was TIRED and DISHEARTENED that the only thing doctors want to do is give us birth control and antidepressants instead of getting to the root cause of the problem. It’s not healthy for the body to be on birth control to stop our cycles ( I’m NOT anti birth control and I DO think it’s beneficial for some people, but anything that stops your body from flowing in it’s natural cycle is unhealthy. Plenty of research on that! Just want to be clear :)) What has helped me the most is a monthly regimen that involves over 15 deferent herbs I consume in tea or tincture form, as well as low impact exercise and an anti inflammatory diet. Let’s start a PMDD support group!
Trevi feeling insecure isn’t fair she’s so GORGINAAAA !! She reminds me so much of chappell roan with the goddess, bad bitch energy. I always have to remind myself that my body dysmorphia is my mind attacking myself. Looking back at pictures where I hated myself and realizing there was nothing wrong with my appearance hurts but it’s also a good reminder to current me that my mind is making things seem worse than they truly are - I’m not a giant whale I’m literally just a little chunky and that’s okay.
I'm grateful for this PODCAST! It is MY THERAPY!!! Every single sentence that yall speak I want to go to comment. Everything absolutely oiverything. Brb listening for a second time while I journal
Soooo I just found out about this pod cast yesterday … YESTERDAY ! I just watched all of the RUclips videos just now. Absolutely loving the pod. Ngl I probably won’t listen to the first 10 episodes- don’t hate me !-- I’m just more of a visual person. I’m glad I found this and I’m excited to see more ! Love you gals 💜
I literally love you guys so much this has become one of my favourite pods I truly feel like I’m just hanging with the girls and y’all make me laugh out loud every episode ❤
Kate, my gosh you’re looking like a vibe. Confident, glamorous, you’re just shining and it’s so beautiful. And the way you wear that dress 👀🔥😅 Also Trevi, you know you got it girl, I feel like I don’t need to say it but, goddess 🙌 You two together are just powerful feminine energy and I live for it ❤
Drinking and doing drugs when you’re young versus old is actually crazy. I was 13-14 doing way too much acid, drinking every weekend, we had this loft in the garage that was 15 feet off the ground with a rock wall to climb up and we would be extremely intoxicated climbing that shit, jumping off onto the couch below and 22 year old me is too scared to take too much ibuprofen and I’m too scared to touch psychedelics ever again, in bed by 10pm like what happens to us so quickly 😂😂 I thought we would be able to party hard forever but I’m glad to be living my little quiet stoner life with no partying and no jumping off of stupid things and breaking wrists 😆
Treviii straight hair for the curly girls- h20 shield spray before blow drying!! Color wow or it’s a 10 makes a flawless one. My hair is superr curly and my blowouts last all week
kate i have pmdd and my symptoms r basically extremely bad depression/mood swings/ irritability and extreme emotions. i can cry for a day straight for no reason. so it could be that or just hormonal imbalances!
every time you guys upload my waist gets more snatched and my skin clears up ❤️
SPEAK ON IT
Quite literallyy
REAL
REAL
Not kidding
Kate you look SICKENING today and the straight hair is GIVING trevi😍😍 slay the boots house deown
Your pfp is giving office siren realness and I’m SLIVING
I love how Trevi didn’t want to say which branch of the military her lover is in, yet said he’s on a ship. Which basically means he’s in the Navy 😭🫶
Or the coast guard 😂
That is the most wildly inaccurate sentence I’ve ever seen on the Internet.
@@taylorarant3697 it’s two sentences babes but nice try
Kate, I have PMDD. It is literally the worst. I was at the point at unaliving myself every month. Get in touch with a GYN and woth a psychiatrist. I got IUD and anti-anxiety meds. It changed my life. My mood improved so much. There is hope for you. You don't need to love feeling like that every month. Love the podcast, girlies!
Once I realized I had pmdd and I wasn’t just insane - it really changed my life. Unfortunately I can’t do birth control so I just have to track my period and smoke a lot of weed when my anger rises and mood swings happen. But just being able to track it over the last year has truly changed everything for me, it’s helped my relationship get better because we both understand why I’m quick to crying or getting angry now, and it’s also the most debilitating and fucked thing that we have to deal with as women and I’d actually cut out my uterus and never have children if it meant I never had to feel the way I do during certain weeks.
Y’all high-fiving about your sobriety is so wholesome I really appreciate it!!!
I love Kate casually saying "We should kill him" in response to Trevi's sugar daddy story 💀
your energy together is literally everything so I love when it’s just you two (altho I do love the guest eps u’ve done!!) but please invite ricky dillon on for the throwbacks xxx
I've been solely binging every single episode all week and this is my now favorite podcast. I love the way you guys joke around it's sooooo funny ahhh thank you guys for doing the lords work
Kate is serving Bond girl realness in the best way
Kate’s outfit this week was absolutely KILLING it
Ohhh girls you know I had to click IMMEDIATELY
The sound of ur guys’ voice is my own personal heaven i just love u guys so bad never stop this podcast
this is better than christmas
Yall my dawgs fr. Thankful for you girlies being sober, open-minded, and just having a natural drive for a filled lifestyle of introspection and just letting life take you where you grow. Love you both
it feels like i’m hanging out with you two😭😭the outfits are gIVING. the pod keeps me going … ❤️
immediately clicked and went on my knees love love love y’all
okay kate is giving greek goddess and trevi is giving idk she’s just gorgeous
did y’all plan to both wear white
Kate, I adore you AND your transitions please be the fullest version of yourself, I beg!! I really love love love your humor and your delivery and everything about you!! ❤
Kate SLAYS every freaking week and I love the inspo for each look lol Trevi, you're always gorg as well of course!
Loooooved this episode! The podcast started so amazing from the beginning so it actually is scary how it still keeps getting better and better😩 and i am in literal Norway but will sell my actual body and soul to come to America if u guys do a tour🫡
first podcast & channel I’ve counted down the days to see not kidding
PLEASE GET TRISHA ON THE POD!!! 😍
She said when she isn’t so busy she wants go on 6 feet above
YASSSSS after Elvis!!!!!
Girl, the dysphoria is so real. It’s so difficult! And honestly, so much of it comes from the ridiculous amount of transphobia. Even those who are mostly accepting of us are sooooo uneducated about gender in general, so even when they’re trying to be supportive they often end up being low key offensive. The only thing we can do is be our best selves, and if there’s stuff that’s making us feel uncomfortable, hopefully we have room to work on it.
A good voice coach might help you with your voice dysphoria by helping identify what it is about your voice that’s making you feel insecure and giving you specifics to practice. As for my dysphoria, I’m working on getting FFS cause this mug just isn’t giving. 😂 At least I’m only 6’ now instead of the 6’2” I started at haha!
Anyway, thank you both for putting out this podcast. It’s been a life saver while I’m working through (what I hope is) the end stages of my awkward phase. Listening to your experiences has been so empowering for me and helped me find a lot of self love and confidence. 💜
You girls make my week bearable 🤍🤍
2 incredibly beautiful and inspiring women ♥️ it makes me sad to hear trevi’s struggles with identity because she doesn’t get to see herself from our perspective. But I also appreciate the honesty about topics that are really hard to talk about to other people, makes me feel less alone about my shameful insecurities
my FAVORITE podcast!!!!
This episode touched on so many relatable things. Trevi I totally relate to trying to be open to finding your person but feeling discouraged. Sending all my love and big husband energy for both of us 😭
intuition KNEW to open youtube♥️♥️♥️
PLS PLS PLS PLS PLS I NEVER TYPED SOMETHING SO FAST IM IN SOCAL AND I WOULD LOVE A LIVE SHOW W THE GIRLLSSSS😭😭😭
Patiently waiting for that Get ready with me video with you two ❤
so sorry you’ve been dealing with dysphoria Trevi. you’re not alone and i hope you can find acceptance and your confidence again 🖤 you are beautiful, smart, talented, and more than capable of doing anything you set your mind to
and you WILL find your person; dont spend all your time looking though. the minute i stopped looking is exactly when that person came my way; i didn’t even have to try and all i’d done for years was try so hard. nothing good ever comes of desperation so stay patient and stay focused on yourself and your growth. you got this!!
GOD i love you both and this amazing podcast 😩😩😩
Kate you always look STUNNING but this white dress is EATING DOWN SO HARD it’s giving literal goddess😫😻
My girls slayed another episode ✨
KATE!!!! I was diagnosed with PMDD when I was 15 and I was put on antidepressants and I take birth control continuously so I don’t get my period. There needs to be more awareness and research done with this disorder because I’ve done a lot of personal research and my doctors never told me about starting antidepressants for the two weeks of your luteal phase of your cycle when you feel the most symptoms. I think antidepressants all the time is good for me but it would’ve been nice to know that’s an option. I haven’t looked into Dixie dimelio talking about PMDD but for me a major hallmark is the amount of uncontrollable crying it’s very hard to keep track but it’s easier for the people around you to notice these intense emotions are around the same time of your cycle every month. I would love to hear more people’s experiences if anyone in the comments has this.
yes me too! i’ve been on birth control since i was 15 & anti depressants since i was 19. it helps but it still happens. for me it’s mostly irritability and uncontrollable crying :) i get angry really fast and sad really fast and my emotions just consume me until it passes. i also have pcos so i’m just basically f*cked LOL
Hi there, I have PMDD and there needs to be more accessible research for womens health in general because it’s extremely underdeveloped in research understanding. (Health care in the states is terrible.) I have done my own research for many years and I have an herbal regimen that I am religious to at this point because I was TIRED and DISHEARTENED that the only thing doctors want to do is give us birth control and antidepressants instead of getting to the root cause of the problem. It’s not healthy for the body to be on birth control to stop our cycles ( I’m NOT anti birth control and I DO think it’s beneficial for some people, but anything that stops your body from flowing in it’s natural cycle is unhealthy. Plenty of research on that! Just want to be clear :))
What has helped me the most is a monthly regimen that involves over 15 deferent herbs I consume in tea or tincture form, as well as low impact exercise and an anti inflammatory diet. Let’s start a PMDD support group!
this my new favorite podcast! you both help me feel more empowered as the person I am. :) I really appreciate it. xx
I’m showing at the part around “so I sent him home” so unserious but so serious and funny the way you described
Omg a GRWM at Trevi’s vanity is a MUST PLS!!! 😭💕 I love you girlies, I adore the matching fits😻🥰💋💋💋
been watching episodes for hours all day on my tv and HAD to hop on mobile to say “cobra?” has me in tears lmaooo that’s so real
Yall deserve way more views fr!! Can’t wait to see it happen, it’s coming for sure
Trevi feeling insecure isn’t fair she’s so GORGINAAAA !! She reminds me so much of chappell roan with the goddess, bad bitch energy.
I always have to remind myself that my body dysmorphia is my mind attacking myself. Looking back at pictures where I hated myself and realizing there was nothing wrong with my appearance hurts but it’s also a good reminder to current me that my mind is making things seem worse than they truly are - I’m not a giant whale I’m literally just a little chunky and that’s okay.
I'm grateful for this PODCAST! It is MY THERAPY!!! Every single sentence that yall speak I want to go to comment. Everything absolutely oiverything. Brb listening for a second time while I journal
This podcast is my addiction I have to click as soon as I can to see if the new episode is as funny and great as the last. PS it is ❤
Soooo I just found out about this pod cast yesterday … YESTERDAY ! I just watched all of the RUclips videos just now. Absolutely loving the pod. Ngl I probably won’t listen to the first 10 episodes- don’t hate me !-- I’m just more of a visual person. I’m glad I found this and I’m excited to see more ! Love you gals 💜
Love this podcast so much. You’re both genuinely so funny. Thank you so much for giving Kate to us Trevi 🙌
I’m getting obsessed with the podcast and I’m so happy about it
I literally love you guys so much this has become one of my favourite pods I truly feel like I’m just hanging with the girls and y’all make me laugh out loud every episode ❤
Can I just say this has become my number one podcast you girlies are incredible
No because this is my favorite podcast and I’m not just saying this I get a rush of serotonin when I see y’all uploaded
You two are the most beautiful people ever!! ❤
about to binge watch 💌 subbed last week ! trevi ive watched you since o2l & kate your lit ❤️🔥 love from the bay area 🌁
you are both sooo gorgeous! love you girlies! I also love the straight hair.
My absolute favorite podcast ever
PLEASE do the get ready with me & i’m dying to know your lip combo trevi
Trevi the straight hair is GIVINGGGG
Can we say that they brought the out👏🏻fitss!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻✨✨ they look so iconicccc
I love yall sm please never stop this podcast 😭
keep these episodes coming!! you're both so entertaining naturally and i love it
Im in finland but would come to anywhere in europe to see you! London for example😁❤️
Kate, my gosh you’re looking like a vibe. Confident, glamorous, you’re just shining and it’s so beautiful. And the way you wear that dress 👀🔥😅
Also Trevi, you know you got it girl, I feel like I don’t need to say it but, goddess 🙌 You two together are just powerful feminine energy and I live for it ❤
Y’all look so good! A screenshot of this episode belongs in a museum
Tour in Nashville!
Okay…… yall are STUNNING today😍😍😍😍😍 go off then baddies
Girls there is a wireless straightener lol the Dyson one!
Ensure wireless flat irons!!!! I think they used to be sold at CVS, they are powered by butane!!!
Trevi reminds me so much of Detox - I can't unsee it
PLEASE do a get ready with me the girls would love it
Drinking and doing drugs when you’re young versus old is actually crazy. I was 13-14 doing way too much acid, drinking every weekend, we had this loft in the garage that was 15 feet off the ground with a rock wall to climb up and we would be extremely intoxicated climbing that shit, jumping off onto the couch below and 22 year old me is too scared to take too much ibuprofen and I’m too scared to touch psychedelics ever again, in bed by 10pm like what happens to us so quickly 😂😂 I thought we would be able to party hard forever but I’m glad to be living my little quiet stoner life with no partying and no jumping off of stupid things and breaking wrists 😆
i was diagnosed with PMDD a year ago, i would not wish it upon anyone and i didn’t even know it was a thing until i was 22
Bemirthed is the new Besmirched 😊 😂
Chaotic and iconic, i have found myself a safe space
waittt how tf did i not know you guys had a podcast??? obsessed
Trevi doing a "get ready with me" and then Kate trying to recreate the look... Yes please
Literally was pushed to watch baby reindeer bcuz of this podcast, best decision I ever made.
yall make my day every time🥹♥️
I love you both so much I’m def coming to the first live show in Baltimore
Annoying and crusty 😂 love you both ❤❤
Treviii straight hair for the curly girls- h20 shield spray before blow drying!! Color wow or it’s a 10 makes a flawless one. My hair is superr curly and my blowouts last all week
im begging yall to come to south florida pls!!
this is my favorite podcast now :)
trevi you look amazing please don’t believe your bad thoughts ❤❤
love this pod🩷🩷
Please do a live show in Seattle!
-A Washingtonian that doesn’t like Seattle but would go there for you ❤
In Los Angeles!!!!would come for sure
The looks yall are serving today 🔥🔥🔥
kate i have pmdd and my symptoms r basically extremely bad depression/mood swings/ irritability and extreme emotions. i can cry for a day straight for no reason. so it could be that or just hormonal imbalances!
when u guys said “snap, you got snap?” i thought u meant snap benefits😭
We’re littarkyyyy doing the eras tour
Posted 6 mins ago… just sat down with my lunch… slay
OMG I always watch and never comment but PLEASE do a get ready with me vid! 🫶🏻
FULL BLAST, and taking an everything shower thank yewww
plssss do the get ready with us vid ❤
Ok ok you got me, I subscribed this time
When you said snap I thought you meant SNAP as in food stamps 😂💀
I'll definitely drive down to see yall!!!
love yalls pod
GO ON TOUR AND COME TO DENVER PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Trevi your an AmaZing spirit🎉 🎉
NO WAY DO THE VENUE IN VENICE. I would totally go!!!
LOVE the fits 2dayyyyyyy
I know I a long shot lol pls come to Manchester England! My favourite podcast ❤
it’s kinda crazy how the only guys i’ve seriously dated have all been dealers at some point… LMFAO