@@kelseyfranks1010 right, of course! I was just imagining my dm watching this, and it made me laugh for some reason. It was a very helpful video, though!
@@allnaturalrebecca well mine knows that we are divinely connected but we are in no contact and broken up so if I randomly sent him some twin flame bs he’d be so turned off and mad haha.
This video helped me soooo much. To cut a long story short, I am definitely the runner in my twin flame relationship. About a year ago I was the happiest I had ever been in a while, manifested my twin flame, was very happy for about 10 months, and then things started to go south. I would always overthink the relationship and get anxiety and feel the urge to run in negative situations, but I knew that we belonged together at the same time. I can tell 100% that I am with my twin flame but it's so hard being the runner because sometimes I think it would be easier to be single. Before clicking on your video, I knew that every time I was negative, it was all me and that I needed to get rid of the negativity, and your video helped center me again. It kind of sucks because my twin flame has all the traits where he is almost never negative about the relationship, and I'm over here thinking I need to end things because we fought over a cup! 😂😂
FreckleFaceDoodles lol you are definitely not alone! Self sabotage is the ego trying to take control instead of our higher selves.. I promise it gets better! You are seeing your own stuff and that’s the hardest part for most people. 💜✨ love and light to you!
Role reversal... My twin and I have been in forced physical separation for 4 years. He got caught up and went to prison... We stayed in contact off and on. The hardest thing I ever had to do is choose myself. Last month.. I felt a huge shift in his energy.. I didn't know why till the following day I get a message that he will be getting released. I asked him to not make me promises he can't fulfill. The pain this connection 💔 caused now caused me to run just like he did.. only difference. He was using substances for over 20 years. This physical separation has been a shock to my system. Then to have him come back a few months prior to his release has me anxious again... I completely lost myself and everything fell apart in every area of my life. I almost lost everything, including my home due to the depression and pain.. both of us know we have a special bond but until we actually connect. I'm not holding my breath.. i Would love to think positive but when I did in tbe past. He pulled the rug out from underneath me a bunch of times. He couldn't love me. Blah blahhh blah. So until I see actual change over time.. hell no..
Omg thank you for this video I want to cry I recognize myself in what you say The second i'm triggered i tend to have these deep fears and want to run away to protect myself I don't know if she is my twin flame, we only talk online so i don't know We have this telepathy thing and i always feel connected to her I told her one day thank you for showing me when i'm triggered, she helps me so much to grow We are not a couple and i don't know if this is related to twin flames but sometimes she's like fall in love with me and want to be with me and then later she is cold with me I don't know what to think I love her so much I try to do the work but it's hard And i feel so sad when rejected by her Well sorry I don't know if you allow this type of comment on your channel Thank you for what you do and what you share I trully felt guided to your channel 🙏❤️
I feel like this video is more for twins in union lol 😂 Bc obviously toxic behaviors are unacceptable. In my experience neither me nor my twin cheated or said disrespectful things to one another. Once you’re in union and you want to run. It’s usually unhealed trauma within the runner.
Kelsey Franks ok so...At first when you run it’s most likely to do the push energy from the DF ? but once the DF balances out their energy and you start to get back together and come into “union” if there’s any running or wanting to , it’s due to unhealed trauma from the DM. Is that correct? And thank you for sharing and I too, never felt like I should be in advanced classes when I was in school. It’s too bad I didn’t know then what I know now.
I'm a guy but I'm df. My DM lives far away. She is running in and out. I have nut heard anything for 3 months now. Last message she said she missed me but since that nothing. I get triggered by what I think is her thinking about the situations. But could be wrong. We were in Union for 3 months now it's been 8 months since she took off. Been back in contact few times. But then takes off again. Its exhausting
I bumped into him today and everything was fine for a minute, and then anxiety sparked up out of nowhere, how do you handle that because I’m sure he felt it, he left shortly after that, I know I probably need to go away and center myself when that happens, this happens every time it’s like we’re good and then all of a sudden this anxiety will come out of nowhere my face will turn red and shit ! Very uncomfortable feeling
I told my masculine everything clear as day before we met she didn't believe anything I said, way too materialistic and I didn't notice she was lacking perception until meeting in person. Completely baffled me how she was oblivious to the bag of gifts she was using lol
When one of the twins typically the DM says something crazy or toxic or out of alignment the other twin is not supposed to take it personal. I would actually respond with is this your lower vibration talking to me now because I don't resonate with that kind of pattern anymore and I hope you feel the same way? The other twin is supposed to respond but not react in order to break the dysfunctional pattern. I think the best response is ignoring whatever the trigger is so it can be removed. Tell eachother you need an hour or two apart because of your dysfunctional programming. Have a discussion later that day on what transpired and their mindset at the time. What they were thinking or feeling at the time of the trigger so you can remove the trigger permanently. Who wants to deal with for the rest of their life. That's supposed to be resolved and killed during separation. You don't give attention to a five-year-old who's acting like a brat because that's exactly what they want. Adults can act like a child sometimes. That person is saying something to get a reaction out of you weather it's positive or negative because they need attention. You have to teach them how to treat you.
@Kelsey Franks, do you feel like the DM’s while running know that there’s deep feelings between the two ? Sounds like you did even though you were running.
Juju Bee yes in my experience I always knew that. Even when I’d run I thought I’d just be alone bc I wouldn’t be able to find that connection again. I had abandonment issues so I kept self sabotaging in that way. Like abandoning myself. Hard habits to break.
Do all Divine Masculines drive trucks Kelsey? Might some of them drive something more feminine? 🌞🌞 Mor seriously, do you think the impulse to run has a general core underlying psychological reason, such as for instance that the other will see that the DM's negative self view will be shown to be the true reality. Just focusing on some petty faults of the other obviously isn't anywhere near enough to really trigger running from the love of one's life! And then there's the idea that the runner is in a sense a helpless reactor to the energy of the DF, and reflecting the DF's inner lack of balance. That they cannot but pull away from all this energy pushing towards them from this shared soul, thus forcing physical separation.
According to Kurt, and Elle Hari, it’s due to the unbalanced energy in the DF. It makes sense to me because I always felt it was my energy ...for the most part anyway. How about you?
Juju Bee That thought it's all about the energy makes sense to me Juju, but I also think the psychological realities are fully true at the same time - that the DMs inner world is also playing out. It's amazingly multi layered.
Andrew agreed. I mean, if we’re the same soul then that makes sense that we both lack self love, so I guess the DF chases (pushes) for it, the DM (pulls) runs away from it.
I am taking Kurt's advice and focus on myself. Like you say trust fall to the universe, I'm taking my hands off the wheel. Thanks for sharing!
Wow you make soooo much sense! Thank you again for posting such good content!
"Send this video to your divine masculine," she said. 😂
All-Natural Rebecca 😂 hey I didn’t say for all situations 🤣
@@kelseyfranks1010 right, of course! I was just imagining my dm watching this, and it made me laugh for some reason. It was a very helpful video, though!
She’s cray cray for saying that my DM would run all the way to China if I sent him anything about our connection 😂😂😂😂
@@Miswhitness0520 mine actually wouldn't mind now at all. He totally knows. Things turned ALLL the way around.
@@allnaturalrebecca well mine knows that we are divinely connected but we are in no contact and broken up so if I randomly sent him some twin flame bs he’d be so turned off and mad haha.
I love you for this. I’m the runner, I just realized thanks to you. Thank you for this 🤍✨
Ay miss, could I ask you a quick question about something?
This video helped me soooo much. To cut a long story short, I am definitely the runner in my twin flame relationship. About a year ago I was the happiest I had ever been in a while, manifested my twin flame, was very happy for about 10 months, and then things started to go south. I would always overthink the relationship and get anxiety and feel the urge to run in negative situations, but I knew that we belonged together at the same time. I can tell 100% that I am with my twin flame but it's so hard being the runner because sometimes I think it would be easier to be single. Before clicking on your video, I knew that every time I was negative, it was all me and that I needed to get rid of the negativity, and your video helped center me again. It kind of sucks because my twin flame has all the traits where he is almost never negative about the relationship, and I'm over here thinking I need to end things because we fought over a cup! 😂😂
FreckleFaceDoodles lol you are definitely not alone! Self sabotage is the ego trying to take control instead of our higher selves.. I promise it gets better! You are seeing your own stuff and that’s the hardest part for most people. 💜✨ love and light to you!
This was so helpful! Thank you 🙏🏾❤️
💜💜💜
Role reversal... My twin and I have been in forced physical separation for 4 years. He got caught up and went to prison... We stayed in contact off and on. The hardest thing I ever had to do is choose myself. Last month.. I felt a huge shift in his energy.. I didn't know why till the following day I get a message that he will be getting released. I asked him to not make me promises he can't fulfill. The pain this connection 💔 caused now caused me to run just like he did.. only difference. He was using substances for over 20 years. This physical separation has been a shock to my system. Then to have him come back a few months prior to his release has me anxious again... I completely lost myself and everything fell apart in every area of my life. I almost lost everything, including my home due to the depression and pain.. both of us know we have a special bond but until we actually connect. I'm not holding my breath.. i Would love to think positive but when I did in tbe past. He pulled the rug out from underneath me a bunch of times. He couldn't love me. Blah blahhh blah. So until I see actual change over time.. hell no..
Omg thank you for this video
I want to cry
I recognize myself in what you say
The second i'm triggered i tend to have these deep fears and want to run away to protect myself
I don't know if she is my twin flame, we only talk online so i don't know
We have this telepathy thing and i always feel connected to her
I told her one day thank you for showing me when i'm triggered, she helps me so much to grow
We are not a couple and i don't know if this is related to twin flames but sometimes she's like fall in love with me and want to be with me and then later she is cold with me
I don't know what to think
I love her so much
I try to do the work but it's hard
And i feel so sad when rejected by her
Well sorry
I don't know if you allow this type of comment on your channel
Thank you for what you do and what you share
I trully felt guided to your channel 🙏❤️
What you said about school and the system is brilliant 👏
I feel like this video is more for twins in union lol 😂 Bc obviously toxic behaviors are unacceptable. In my experience neither me nor my twin cheated or said disrespectful things to one another. Once you’re in union and you want to run. It’s usually unhealed trauma within the runner.
Kelsey Franks ok so...At first when you run it’s most likely to do the push energy from the DF ? but once the DF balances out their energy and you start to get back together and come into “union” if there’s any running or wanting to , it’s due to unhealed trauma from the DM. Is that correct?
And thank you for sharing and I too, never felt like I should be in advanced classes when I was in school. It’s too bad I didn’t know then what I know now.
Yes! That’s what I experienced and have seen similar patterns in other twins I’ve worked with.
I'm a guy but I'm df. My DM lives far away. She is running in and out. I have nut heard anything for 3 months now. Last message she said she missed me but since that nothing. I get triggered by what I think is her thinking about the situations. But could be wrong. We were in Union for 3 months now it's been 8 months since she took off. Been back in contact few times. But then takes off again. Its exhausting
I bumped into him today and everything was fine for a minute, and then anxiety sparked up out of nowhere, how do you handle that because I’m sure he felt it, he left shortly after that, I know I probably need to go away and center myself when that happens, this happens every time it’s like we’re good and then all of a sudden this anxiety will come out of nowhere my face will turn red and shit ! Very uncomfortable feeling
Shannon Cantrell yeah just take some space. Having some distance to work on yourself will always be helpful 💜✨
Divine Positive/Divine Negative instead of Masc/ Fem
Interesting...
I told my masculine everything clear as day before we met she didn't believe anything I said, way too materialistic and I didn't notice she was lacking perception until meeting in person. Completely baffled me how she was oblivious to the bag of gifts she was using lol
Rayne Man the more you grow the more she will. That’s how connected you are.
When one of the twins typically the DM says something crazy or toxic or out of alignment the other twin is not supposed to take it personal.
I would actually respond with is this your lower vibration talking to me now because I don't resonate with that kind of pattern anymore and I hope you feel the same way?
The other twin is supposed to respond but not react in order to break the dysfunctional pattern. I think the best response is ignoring whatever the trigger is so it can be removed. Tell eachother you need an hour or two apart because of your dysfunctional programming. Have a discussion later that day on what transpired and their mindset at the time. What they were thinking or feeling at the time of the trigger so you can remove the trigger permanently. Who wants to deal with for the rest of their life. That's supposed to be resolved and killed during separation. You don't give attention to a five-year-old who's acting like a brat because that's exactly what they want. Adults can act like a child sometimes. That person is saying something to get a reaction out of you weather it's positive or negative because they need attention. You have to teach them how to treat you.
James Cadzow I def see your perspective
@Kelsey Franks, do you feel like the DM’s while running know that there’s deep feelings between the two ? Sounds like you did even though you were running.
Juju Bee yes in my experience I always knew that. Even when I’d run I thought I’d just be alone bc I wouldn’t be able to find that connection again. I had abandonment issues so I kept self sabotaging in that way. Like abandoning myself. Hard habits to break.
Kelsey Franks thank you for answering! Xo
Kelsey do you Know Something about insomnia ? If im alone no Problem but if we have Contact i get insomnia and triggered ..
Nina Bukovics I was up for 2 days straight once so in my head over my TF... I’d say yes it happens.
Do all Divine Masculines drive trucks Kelsey? Might some of them drive something more feminine?
🌞🌞
Mor seriously, do you think the impulse to run has a general core underlying psychological reason, such as for instance that the other will see that the DM's negative self view will be shown to be the true reality. Just focusing on some petty faults of the other obviously isn't anywhere near enough to really trigger running from the love of one's life!
And then there's the idea that the runner is in a sense a helpless reactor to the energy of the DF, and reflecting the DF's inner lack of balance. That they cannot but pull away from all this energy pushing towards them from this shared soul, thus forcing physical separation.
Andrew I know a DM female who drives a little smart car lol
According to Kurt, and Elle Hari, it’s due to the unbalanced energy in the DF. It makes sense to me because I always felt it was my energy ...for the most part anyway. How about you?
DM’s love Jeep trucks. Lol 😂. And they run away from us in their Jeeps cuz both parties lack self love.
Juju Bee That thought it's all about the energy makes sense to me Juju, but I also think the psychological realities are fully true at the same time - that the DMs inner world is also playing out. It's amazingly multi layered.
Andrew agreed. I mean, if we’re the same soul then that makes sense that we both lack self love, so I guess the DF chases (pushes) for it, the DM (pulls) runs away from it.
You sound like the DF..