I QUIT my job as a teacher after 1 year: reasons + advice to new teachers | faithfully irie

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @MassGainingGuy
    @MassGainingGuy Год назад +206

    I'm a teacher as well...my advice
    1. Do not devote your life to teaching.
    2. Have passions and hobbies outside of the classroom.
    3. Do not try to save the world. It's not our responsibility
    4. Do not take anything personally
    5. When you leave work, go out and enjoy life.
    Just to name a few.

    • @JoifullyNatural
      @JoifullyNatural Год назад +8

      👏🏽👏🏽 All of this is true.

    • @aleksandrstorms3844
      @aleksandrstorms3844 Год назад +4

      Yup’ 😊

    • @phuonganhtrann
      @phuonganhtrann Год назад +9

      Thank you, teaching makes me feel I never good enough or sense of completion. And It is just a job like others, do not need devote all life for it

    • @stephencarroll2622
      @stephencarroll2622 Год назад +2

      Yes right

    • @themacocko6311
      @themacocko6311 Год назад +4

      Who has time for life after work? It's normally bed time.

  • @RobertWGreaves
    @RobertWGreaves Год назад +113

    I empathize with your story. How America’s schools pass students on to the next grade when they are not even able to do the work at grade level is beyond me. Teachers in middle school should be expected to teach middle school material. They shouldn’t be attempting to teach that material while also remedying the fact that the students aren’t even prepared with prerequisites. Education in our country is becoming a disingenuous scam. The system itself is incompetent.

  • @121shalom
    @121shalom Год назад +106

    I taught English 3 years abroad in two countries and I loved it! I came back to the USA and taught in middle school and lasted only a year (in person) I now teach at an online academy and it is much better. I will never work in person at a school again.

    • @nayae7993
      @nayae7993 Год назад +5

      What is the name of the online academy??

    • @nappyqueen86
      @nappyqueen86 Год назад +1

      @@nayae7993yes name of reputable online schools lol😂

  • @kyezustiak
    @kyezustiak Год назад +53

    I only made it half a year. I agree with what you said here. I left for the sake of my mental and physical health, which both rapidly declined. Bless you my sister in faith! May God guide your path ahead. ❤

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing and also for your kind words. God bless you!

    • @candycrush8180
      @candycrush8180 9 месяцев назад +1

      I want to leave a little over a year in, but I have no other way of making enough money to survive

  • @rashidasamuels7034
    @rashidasamuels7034 Год назад +16

    I do not see how anyone could shame you physically. You are beautiful.

  • @raymonddonahue7282
    @raymonddonahue7282 Год назад +29

    I was a Sped Teacher in Chicago for 12 years. Worst mistake I ever made. 12 years of misery.

  • @fabfab5450
    @fabfab5450 Год назад +33

    My first five years of teaching, I taught in two great schools. They weren't perfect, but they were what was expected and they further enhanced my love of teaching. I moved to another state and needed a teaching position. I took the first one that was offered and it has been a sheer nightmare. Always do your research. We are asked as teachers to make sure our classrooms have a positive, nurturing, and productive environment....as we should. However, we teachers deserve a workplace that's the same.

  • @clarissacota2047
    @clarissacota2047 11 месяцев назад +9

    First year teacher here. This has been the most difficult phase of my life so far.... As I'm watching this, it is the 6th night I have stayed up with absolutely no sleep. This is the second day after winter break too.... I do not feel recharged or refreshed. I feel drained and burned out and, above all, so disappointed in myself.... I worked so hard to be where I'm at, and it really does feel like this isn't for me, and that all the time and money I spent getting my teaching credential has gone to waste. I feel ready to leave by the end of the year, but it really does feel like I'm on a very high fence about this. And in my case, it's not the students.... It's the workplace environment, the amount of work I need to take home, otherwise I will never get it done, it's the hours, the unreasonable expectations, state testing, the amount of requirements (at least here in California), the lack of pay (yes, even in California)...just so many factors, most of which are systemic. I'm overwhelmed and confused and don't know what decision to make. Maybe a year off might help? Who knows....

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  11 месяцев назад +3

      Thanks so much for your comment Clarissa. I really appreciate empathize with you and totally understand where you're coming from. I don't have a direct answer but I will be praying for you that you can make the right decision that brings you peace. Trust God to take you where you need to be, because everything happens for a reason. This is something I'm also holding on to. Take it easy❤️

    • @nuhabashir1672
      @nuhabashir1672 11 дней назад

      Same here

    • @TreeofLife-r3d
      @TreeofLife-r3d 4 дня назад

      Even worse being a substitute teacher in the Los Angeles County area

  • @inspiredby_thewords
    @inspiredby_thewords Год назад +39

    Those are the MAIN reasons teachers typically leave. Underresourced schools, toxic work environment and high levels of indiscipline. No one goes into teaching for money.
    That third piece of advice you gave is SOLID👍👍👍PERIOD. VERY IMPORTANT

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  Год назад +4

      So true, I truly wish more persons would see it's not always about the money

    • @herbertharris7316
      @herbertharris7316 Год назад +3

      You said that no one goes into teaching for money. But no one seem to get it. You need money to sustain your financial well-being. I believe teachers, especially in urban and rural communities, are the most underpaid profession in America, which is truly grievous. My argument to support my claim is that parents entrust their children's future performance and sustainability in the hands of educators and teachers (alike) to help grow their children intellectually, mentally and socially developed human being.
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      Teachers are worth the money and attention that's required for them to live a healthy and sustainable lifestyle that's well deserved for the amount of responsibilities and stress that educators and teachers undertake.
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      Shalom

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  Год назад +1

      @@herbertharris7316I agree and many of my colleagues while studying confessed that they were going into teaching for the salary and other benefits.
      I believe however, that while saying 'no-one goes in for money' is a bit of a stretch, it is really in support of teachers who are OK with sacrificing this salary, if desires are not being met in the other areas of the career path i.e some of what was mentioned in the video.
      There are also persons who believe that educators are not aloud to utter a word of complaint, because you are being paid what they believe is sufficient to deal with the myriad of challenges that come along.
      I hope to talk more about this in a future video.
      Thanks so much for commenting!

    • @herbertharris7316
      @herbertharris7316 Год назад

      @@tatiana_bn Thank you for your thoughtful response. I hope this topic is discussed with more with educators and teachers addressing need to improve broad sweeping changes to teachers/educators pay and benefits.

  • @joythompson9530
    @joythompson9530 Год назад +17

    Thank you for creating this video. I'm a 4th year High School Spanish Teacher and I sympathize with you so much. You have to be mentally and spiritually ready to fight battles you may never have encountered before. My students have criticized me as well. I continued to uphold my stance until I got home to decompress and journal.
    You are not alone with your feelings! I'm highly considering switching careers and/or districts next year.

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  Год назад

      Thank you so much for sharing❤️

    • @sophiaentzminger5011
      @sophiaentzminger5011 Год назад +1

      I totally agree with you. I tried teaching middle school Spanish and only lasted 4 month before I resigned!!! It was a HARD job/environment, and very disheartening to see a look into this generation. Behaviors, cell phones, large classes were SO alarming. I had mental anguish and anxiety, and never dealth with this before in my life. I needed to leave for me! May consider subbing part time, or online, or NOT .

  • @inspiredby_thewords
    @inspiredby_thewords Год назад +20

    📌Your mental and spiritual health is MOST IMPORTANT. MOST IMPORTANT

  • @ToruKurosawa
    @ToruKurosawa 9 месяцев назад +3

    I am from UK and I am almost a year in and already planning on leaving. Its just very stressful and I think I would be better off elsewhere.... I wanna finish the year out though.

    • @nuhabashir1672
      @nuhabashir1672 11 дней назад

      Omg same here. That's how I'm feeling

  • @Jennifer-653
    @Jennifer-653 Год назад +10

    ELA teacher here and everything you have said is like a page out of my book. You are not alone. I am debating on going back after the end of my first year. It has been next to miserable. I'm glad you escaped. God Bless.

    • @TheKnallkorper
      @TheKnallkorper 7 месяцев назад +1

      I’m a K teacher and I am in the same boat. Going in, I had NO idea how intense it was going to be

  • @Cjohnson87
    @Cjohnson87 Год назад +42

    My advice to new teachers.... run

    • @dorianmac7466
      @dorianmac7466 Год назад +2

      🤣

    • @khanyomkhize1485
      @khanyomkhize1485 Год назад +2

      🤣

    • @CareBlair222
      @CareBlair222 Год назад +5

      My ex husband wants to be a teacher. I told him to re think his decision.

    • @Cjohnson87
      @Cjohnson87 Год назад +4

      @crabfishlion tell him I said run. And he can't run, steal a scooter, and ride off.

    • @CareBlair222
      @CareBlair222 Год назад +6

      @Cjohnson87 I know. I warn him daily. I worked in a school for 2 days and I had a panic attack the 2nd day and quit!! I was a teacher assistant. NOPE.

  • @jesusistheanswer6003
    @jesusistheanswer6003 9 месяцев назад +3

    With all my heart I wish I could quit but there's nothing better to do right now. My time will come I pray.

  • @TomboiiLinkZ
    @TomboiiLinkZ 7 месяцев назад +2

    Hello, thank you so much for this video. I have been in a program and had concrete plans to become an ELA teacher in Miami but after field work and seeing how far behind the kids are and the pay, I am switching my plans. I was very sad and scared because of this change but know that I will be stressed and I cannot sacrifice my mental health for an institution that can't protect the employees. I already was made fun of when I was working! Ridiculous. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @Shezbad757
      @Shezbad757 5 месяцев назад +2

      DO NOT. 1 year in a neighboring county and I will not be returning in August. Go where you will be valued and can easily afford to live where you work! Wishing you the very best.

  • @dougshaw9701
    @dougshaw9701 Год назад +2

    No matter how much you love and care if the people your trying to help do not give a crap your fighting a losing battle . I wish you the best of luck in life and God might have greater things planned for you .

  • @tiago3272b
    @tiago3272b 7 месяцев назад +2

    It’s good you got out while your young. You have time to find a career you like; and are respected. 😊

  • @tryingbutfailing
    @tryingbutfailing 4 месяца назад +5

    Getting a degree in teaching was the worst, STUPIDEST thing I ever did. Even I don't respect teachers anymore. They are abused poor people and went to school for it.

  • @thefeminine9152
    @thefeminine9152 Год назад +3

    You articulated the experience of a teacher well. I also like the advice you gave!

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  Год назад

      Thank you! And your most welcome, God bless

  • @aspireahead8388
    @aspireahead8388 Год назад

    As a NYC of many years, I found you hit many things well... Teaching is a beast that will take your inner soul... I always tell new teachers you have to decide now if this is what you want to do for the rest of your life... If not get out now... It will wear you down... So, you made the right decision for yourself... The one thing that should be at the bottom of the reasons, but is more important than you think, was the staff issues... Because you can't survive teaching without a supportive staff; especially the teachers; and especially in your first year... So, its importance is "not" so much because you had to deal with their negativity, but "is" more because you didn't get influenced by positivity...

  • @davidwatson6831
    @davidwatson6831 Год назад +1

    Your video was awesome, teaching is a difficult job, but it can be rewarding. You are right we always have to take God with us, in our going in and coming out. Prayer and faith are the engines that drive us. Keep up the good works....

  • @aneitabaker
    @aneitabaker Год назад +7

    Very on point regarding being spiritually strong, well said especially with that 3rd reason. The culture of some of these school will be quite alarming and unhealthy the minute you are exposed to it. I am indeed very proud of the steps you took. Well done!

  • @markpallister9882
    @markpallister9882 Год назад +5

    Deeply respect your Christian faith and clearly your reasons for moving on are absolutely valid and correct..

  • @marcmeinzer8859
    @marcmeinzer8859 Год назад +4

    I enjoyed your video especially. To me it is quite simple. It is not a good idea to teach anywhere where the kids will most likely make you look bad. Which translates into it’s not really a good idea to teach much of anywhere anymore the way it is today. There may be some exceptions as for instance I would consider tutoring GED equivalency diploma working with adults, and also I might consider teaching barbering also to adults, or perhaps even canoeing to people in general including kids being a former canoe tripping guide. But if the job is going to be an embarrassment to you then it’s not wise to bother.

  • @billybob-tl2tb
    @billybob-tl2tb Год назад +15

    I love your accent.....

  • @billybob-tl2tb
    @billybob-tl2tb Год назад +4

    Great job! So true.

  • @stephencarroll2622
    @stephencarroll2622 Год назад +1

    I’m a teacher in the United States mmm definitely thinking about making a jump overseas mmm lots and lots of behavior problems and kids that are below academically mmm basically everything you are talking about!!! Good luck!!!

  • @phillatella6470
    @phillatella6470 Год назад +5

    It is a society issue, not an education problem. We can't fix society

  • @sshaw4429
    @sshaw4429 Год назад +6

    We are not allowed to fail a student. Every one gets a trophy concept. I quit. The end.

    • @stephencarroll2622
      @stephencarroll2622 Год назад +1

      Yes we can’t fail students, at least not without difficulty, so definitely know how you feel.

  • @inspiredby_thewords
    @inspiredby_thewords Год назад +3

    Very valuable advice!👏🏿👏🏿

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  Год назад

      I'm really glad it was helpful!

  • @tamedshrew235
    @tamedshrew235 Год назад +20

    2023: Teachers, Cops and Nurses resigning en masse.

    • @nsbd90now
      @nsbd90now Год назад +7

      However, one of those is not like the others.

    • @fromYAHUSHAreborn91
      @fromYAHUSHAreborn91 Год назад

      All low-key traitors, especially post covid

  • @Rrknight2010
    @Rrknight2010 Год назад

    I've gone through the exact same experience.

  • @themacocko6311
    @themacocko6311 Год назад +1

    You made the right choice.

  • @wholearmorworship8200
    @wholearmorworship8200 4 месяца назад +1

    God bless you!

  • @shopsshire9282
    @shopsshire9282 Год назад +5

    Not to sound pedantic by only have one thing to say where's the parental discipline where's the parental discipline where's the parental discipline there is none too much of the time. It's illustrated the fact when I go to the store like Walmart grocery store in the kids are hanging off the sides of the cart standing on it😢 was 😢😢

  • @kincamell
    @kincamell Год назад +1

    Gratitude for sharing

  • @123456jalee
    @123456jalee Год назад +13

    You made a good decision. Teaching is mental suicide in the West

    • @stephencarroll2622
      @stephencarroll2622 Год назад +3

      Yes, got that right. I’m in my fifth year, and is getting tougher every year especially behaviors.

    • @awapuhi9
      @awapuhi9 6 месяцев назад

      I'm so glad your encouragement will ensure our children will be just fine.

  • @JamesAustinHall
    @JamesAustinHall Год назад +2

    God bless you mentally, physically, and spiritually in the name of Jesus amen.

  • @TeacherKellyTag
    @TeacherKellyTag Год назад +1

    I can totally relate to this. I also started online and same thing. I’m trying a different age this year.

  • @CareBlair222
    @CareBlair222 Год назад +3

    You are very pretty 😊

  • @brunorossibonin788
    @brunorossibonin788 Год назад

    You're accent is really nice. Where are you from? Good luck in life!

  • @gregoryjohnson874
    @gregoryjohnson874 Год назад +3

    When there aren't any teachers left to teach maybe the school boards and politicians will wake up....

  • @JimVincitore
    @JimVincitore Год назад

    Great video! Very cool!

  • @ethanm3323
    @ethanm3323 Год назад +2

    Where are you located? I’m just curious. I was a teacher in NY. Btw, you’re beautiful too. 😁

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  Год назад +1

      Thank you! I'm from Jamaica

    • @ethanm3323
      @ethanm3323 Год назад

      @@tatiana_bn Move to the U.S. 🙂

    • @ethanm3323
      @ethanm3323 Год назад +1

      I’m shocked you’re talking about Jamaica though. Thought it was a little better down there. I think it is but didn’t know you were in Jamaica.

    • @fromYAHUSHAreborn91
      @fromYAHUSHAreborn91 Год назад

      ​@@tatiana_bnyou taught students in Jamaica?

    • @awapuhi9
      @awapuhi9 6 месяцев назад

      @@ethanm3323 Stop flirting

  • @jonethomas3892
    @jonethomas3892 Год назад

    U will have your opinion how this problem should be tackled, is it video then by this take out the cause of the trouble, by removing it, children will follow the cause of trouble maker, the sheep could be forced, frighten to go against the bully, at this rate class teaching is failing so fast , it comes down to two one get rid of the trouble to a more radical disapline teaching and keeping the more mild student this give the school and teacher a chance to survive in future.

  • @FinarfinNoldorin
    @FinarfinNoldorin Год назад +8

    You can still teach in many different ways, dear. Schools are failing because the way they are teaching is outdated. New methods need to be implemented, and curriculum needs to be interesting and challenging for students who are angry at the system. But, with your knowledge of producing videos etc. you can make a difference. Keep your videos wholesome and educational with the content you post, and never give up on your passions. Kids really do want to learn, but their needs aren't being met so they are rebelling. They are bored, and no one learns that way. Use your knowledge for good, no matter what it is you do and follow your dreams.

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  Год назад +1

      I absolutely agree with this. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @danielgolarz674
    @danielgolarz674 9 месяцев назад +1

    I'm the author of EIGHT DAYS IN AN INNER CITY SCHOOL the out of control OCCUPATIONAL LICENSING is chasing off teachers

  • @shana-kayporter2595
    @shana-kayporter2595 Год назад

    Ok Miss Brown I see you

  • @zuozhen4758
    @zuozhen4758 6 месяцев назад

    Become a school custodian!

  • @OliverLittel
    @OliverLittel Год назад +1

    Hot hot hot hot hot hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @afreyinthesnow9015
    @afreyinthesnow9015 Год назад

    Hello hermosa

  • @bubbagump1306
    @bubbagump1306 Год назад

    They lost a critical teacher. Go become an Army Officer and make more money. You look like you’re in good shape.

  • @petermohamed2491
    @petermohamed2491 Год назад +1

    Maybe you went into teaching for the wrong reasons.

    • @nsbd90now
      @nsbd90now Год назад +6

      Did you even watch the video?

    • @petermohamed2491
      @petermohamed2491 Год назад +1

      @@nsbd90now
      Yes I did watch the video.

    • @nsbd90now
      @nsbd90now Год назад +8

      Then where the heck did that lame comment come from about "wrong reasons"??

    • @dorianmac7466
      @dorianmac7466 Год назад +13

      @@nsbd90now Yeah like the teacher on the video, myself and thousands of other teachers who have left and are leaveing. We got into teaching because we thought and believed and tried to be good teachers( I guess that was the wrong reason)

    • @khanyomkhize1485
      @khanyomkhize1485 Год назад

      You annoying

  • @TreeofLife-r3d
    @TreeofLife-r3d 4 дня назад +1

    I had rocks 🪨 thrown at me!
    PE just taking attendance
    I had a special needs student bite hard into my leg because he was a "biter"