Isn't the case that Allah gives us our faces, therefore, we can't control whether we are handsome? Isn't the case that Allah determines our Rizq and blessings, and we can't control what economic situation we're born in, therefore, getting rich is not easy for everyone? I'm not complaining, I'm grateful for all Allah has blessed me with, but blaming people for their poverty or ugliness doesn't seem Islamic to me. But what do I know? I don't have a PhD in Islam like Mr. Sheikh here.
@@TippityTapTap47 you’re right. But sheikh is being sarcastic here:) In fact, every one of us is beautiful, which is also mentioned in the Quran. By more handsome, I guess sheikh meant the guy look after their skins and faces. By richer, he definitely meant the guy who tries his best to make more money. And he also said more religious at the end, which is the most important. Sheikh is just being sarcastic as usual)
commitng zina but not trying to prevent pregnancy because you heard that contraceptives is haram is like drinking Alcohol but refusing to eat port because it is haram 💀,more over i heard some allow it as long it is done in halal marriage.
@@KattarMuslim-Revert what if couples cant have kids due to some other concerns thus maikng "temporary contraceptives" permanent,then what?(i hope this isnt inappropraite)
@@Azothoth827 I believe what is meant by temporary contraceptives is what doesn’t alter the body to get that (getting tubes tied, vasectomy). Allah knows best.
Stop watching Bollywood Even if a woman said- u played with my feelings, then she playing with her dad's feeling and tarnishing his honour is more sinful than a man ditching such a girl. If a woman is ready to break a realationship of 20 years with her father for a 2 year relationship with u, then she would break a 2 year relationship with u for a 2 day relationship with another man. If she betrays her father, then she could betray anyone. Finding a woman who is respectful towards her parents is more wise, she will be respectful to u in future.
Btw father and husband are not same..Allah even gave them choices...if their parents forced them to marry someone they don't want then it's obviously permissible to say no..cause you don't know how a person feels when it happens with them and Allah knows everything and Allah always does what's best for our duniya and akhirah but for that we have to make dua so that Allah will do...
Indeed, a lot of toxic so called "muslim" parents out there who dont actually want good for their kids. They want good for their own selves. Perhaps maybe the majority doesnt even want their kids to get married. Screw that, obediance to parents doesn't apply here, because they are telling you to disobey Allaah by not getting married with whatever reasons they'll give you. Get married.
Sheik Assim is a very practical man. I like the fact that he answers a lot of questions with logic rather than quoting holy people. But, one thing I dislike about him his tone and manners. Mostly he appears very angry when answering certain questions and it’s very unpleasant to hear him speak even if he is giving sensible answers. I don’t think Islam teaches us to be rude and condescending towards others. Everyone is different intellectually. While some people’s questions and understanding about Islam may seem trivial and silly, you don’t have the right to judge them. It’s not just Sheikh, I have lived in the Middle East and I have seen this attitude with many Arabs. They seem very proud of their wealth and heritage but treat people poorly.
If a promise is not binding, than what is its worth? There is no such thing as a promise after all then, according to such a definition! Great morality…
I love how the older generations have left us with no Islamic society, no powerful economy or state, and no advanced military to defend against invaders who have humiliated us for centuries, and are now preaching strict Shariah rules. Yes, I am going to ask my parents to talk to the parents of some girl I like. Who are the girl's parents? I don't know. How to get their contact info? I don't know. Where's their address? I don't know. Is it still the 7th century? Probably not. Things have changed. If societies are not Islamic, then social conventions required for implementing Islamic rulings do not exist. I won't engage in haram behavior just because of hardships, but I can clearly see how our societies have made things difficult for us. May Allah replace us with better, stronger Muslims.
Yall did the same thing to non muslim people and don't forget how wiped the indigenous people of morroco and yezid people kurdish people and don't what you did in Europe but always playing the victim the ottoman empire stealing women islam was also spread by a force
There were strong islamic societies in the past, but most of them have all been destroyed by now. And now in the world of Western supreme that we live in most of the professional and personal life are inspired by their system. Even the full Muslim countries aren't following full sharia rules but use a mix of both modern and sharia ways of Living. So I don't know how these people advocate strict Sharia's way of living to others, when they themselves see the societies aren't able to adopt it. They should come up with realistic solutions that are applicable in real life to all the Muslims, including common people in non-musilm countries
@TippityTapTap47 because your commenting this is not good alot of women and innocent people suffered and now at the yezid of women suffring the of muslim men and theme being sold and graped every day
Where did he indicate that the relationship was haram? He said that he said he would marry a girl and her family agree, but his parents didn’t and as the girl was waiting she married someone else. Where do you assume that haram was committed? I didn’t hear that in the question and it is off handed to make such an assumption. The question was in regard to his promise, his amana. He made a plan and promised to it, but Allah had His own plan, and the plan didn’t pan out according to the man’s. So no, he is not held accountable. When you make a promise, you say iA bc you need to respect the outcomes of the grander circumstance, which is Allah’s will. This was an opportunity to teach the world a lesson in regard to truth, honesty and integrity and how to navigate that honorably in the sight of Allah. This was not a time to shame a man that none of us knew nothing abt. Cover the faults of your brother, Audhubillah.
@@SSC0002 that doesn’t mean anything. Astaghfirullah for assuming the worst. This is not the Islamic tareeqa. Be wise so that you don’t be fooled, but do not become hard hearted that you become so callous.
@@SSC0002 the question was abt keeping his word. It is unislamic to breach a person’s privacy, being nosy is tantamount to being displaying your privacy to the public. It goes both ways. This behavior is absolutely haram. Nowhere did the caller suggest that he committed haram. Stay on the facts.
I don't get people saying talking to non mahrams is haram in general!! It's not mentioned in the Quran or Hadith .. the stuff they use as evidence is actually proof that you can communicate so long as you do so with Allah's guiding rules The verses literally mention the rules and instructions of how women should be dealing with non mahrams and vice versa .. Keep your full hijab lowering your gaze for both men and women, not talking with flirty tones ... etc Allah never said something is totally Haram and then gave us rules on how to do it Where are the rules to Fornication? To drinking Alcohol? There aren't cause you just don't do it Also, raising your son and daughter on the idea that if he so much as said good morning to a non mahram they'll end up committing zinah or a major sin is just as bad as raising them onnthe idea that tbey can have friends from the other sex and hug and kiss ... both lead to disasters .. while dealing within the guiding rules in the wursn is the most decent and sane option that let's people live their normal life yes keep their fear of Allah and their obedience to his words in their mind and hearts all the while
So if it's really permissible than why majority of the people used to hide this thing from their parents? Why people talks with their girlfriend and boyfriend in loneliness? Why give me the reason? And Since Nikah is halal you can do everything with your wife or husband in front of your parents, you can eat together in one plate, you can go on a ride together with your couple, you can talk with your partner on phone call, you can touch your partner and you can do many things even if your parents are there in front of them, cz it's halal. But premarital relationships are haram that's the reason people used to hide it from the society and their parents.
@@theclassyelegentwhat can u touch your partner sexually in front of your parents, can u talk dirty, flirt with your partner in front of your parents. I don't know from which society u come from but your logic is just stupid 🤡
“proposed by someone who is far richer, more handsome than you, she would choose him.” Shaikh being hard 💀
WOMEN 😂 ☕️ 🫖 🛋 💺
Isn't the case that Allah gives us our faces, therefore, we can't control whether we are handsome?
Isn't the case that Allah determines our Rizq and blessings, and we can't control what economic situation we're born in, therefore, getting rich is not easy for everyone?
I'm not complaining, I'm grateful for all Allah has blessed me with, but blaming people for their poverty or ugliness doesn't seem Islamic to me.
But what do I know? I don't have a PhD in Islam like Mr. Sheikh here.
@@muhammadsalafiahlulhadith reason 283993 to not give birth to a son.
@@TippityTapTap47 you’re right. But sheikh is being sarcastic here:)
In fact, every one of us is beautiful, which is also mentioned in the Quran. By more handsome, I guess sheikh meant the guy look after their skins and faces. By richer, he definitely meant the guy who tries his best to make more money. And he also said more religious at the end, which is the most important. Sheikh is just being sarcastic as usual)
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Poor brother sounded so worried. May Allah forgive and guide us.
Ameen
Aameen
Amiiin
Ameen
commitng zina but not trying to prevent pregnancy because you heard that contraceptives is haram is like drinking Alcohol but refusing to eat port because it is haram 💀,more over i heard some allow it as long it is done in halal marriage.
Temporary contraceptives which don't harm you physically are halal...
@@KattarMuslim-Revert what if couples cant have kids due to some other concerns thus maikng "temporary contraceptives" permanent,then what?(i hope this isnt inappropraite)
@@Azothoth827 If they are unable to have kids, that is not a contraceptive issue, that is a health and body issue on his and/or her part.
@@lilmomo3509 no i m not taking about an illness, i m talking about if they cant or dont want to due to some other issue
@@Azothoth827 I believe what is meant by temporary contraceptives is what doesn’t alter the body to get that (getting tubes tied, vasectomy). Allah knows best.
Stop watching Bollywood
Even if a woman said- u played with my feelings, then she playing with her dad's feeling and tarnishing his honour is more sinful than a man ditching such a girl. If a woman is ready to break a realationship of 20 years with her father for a 2 year relationship with u, then she would break a 2 year relationship with u for a 2 day relationship with another man. If she betrays her father, then she could betray anyone. Finding a woman who is respectful towards her parents is more wise, she will be respectful to u in future.
Btw father and husband are not same..Allah even gave them choices...if their parents forced them to marry someone they don't want then it's obviously permissible to say no..cause you don't know how a person feels when it happens with them and Allah knows everything and Allah always does what's best for our duniya and akhirah but for that we have to make dua so that Allah will do...
thats some toxic parenting where the mother faints cuz her son is leaving, LET HIM GO LIVE HIS LIFE!!!
Indeed, a lot of toxic so called "muslim" parents out there who dont actually want good for their kids. They want good for their own selves.
Perhaps maybe the majority doesnt even want their kids to get married. Screw that, obediance to parents doesn't apply here, because they are telling you to disobey Allaah by not getting married with whatever reasons they'll give you. Get married.
@@o_-970 Inshallah no one gets such parents
@@LegendImmortal sadly i see most parents are like that and causing their kids to either marry very late or not even marey at all
Mostly Asian Muslim parents. That's why the Ummah is weak because we have certain weak minded people.
May Allah protect us all from ignorance
Amiiin
Sheik Assim is a very practical man. I like the fact that he answers a lot of questions with logic rather than quoting holy people. But, one thing I dislike about him his tone and manners. Mostly he appears very angry when answering certain questions and it’s very unpleasant to hear him speak even if he is giving sensible answers. I don’t think Islam teaches us to be rude and condescending towards others. Everyone is different intellectually. While some people’s questions and understanding about Islam may seem trivial and silly, you don’t have the right to judge them. It’s not just Sheikh, I have lived in the Middle East and I have seen this attitude with many Arabs. They seem very proud of their wealth and heritage but treat people poorly.
If a promise is not binding, than what is its worth? There is no such thing as a promise after all then, according to such a definition! Great morality…
I love how the older generations have left us with no Islamic society, no powerful economy or state, and no advanced military to defend against invaders who have humiliated us for centuries, and are now preaching strict Shariah rules. Yes, I am going to ask my parents to talk to the parents of some girl I like. Who are the girl's parents? I don't know. How to get their contact info? I don't know. Where's their address? I don't know. Is it still the 7th century? Probably not. Things have changed. If societies are not Islamic, then social conventions required for implementing Islamic rulings do not exist. I won't engage in haram behavior just because of hardships, but I can clearly see how our societies have made things difficult for us.
May Allah replace us with better, stronger Muslims.
Yall did the same thing to non muslim people and don't forget how wiped the indigenous people of morroco and yezid people kurdish people and don't what you did in Europe but always playing the victim the ottoman empire stealing women islam was also spread by a force
There were strong islamic societies in the past, but most of them have all been destroyed by now. And now in the world of Western supreme that we live in most of the professional and personal life are inspired by their system.
Even the full Muslim countries aren't following full sharia rules but use a mix of both modern and sharia ways of Living.
So I don't know how these people advocate strict Sharia's way of living to others, when they themselves see the societies aren't able to adopt it.
They should come up with realistic solutions that are applicable in real life to all the Muslims, including common people in non-musilm countries
@@Filifilm-o2qWhat do want me to do for you right now? My comment wasn't directed at you, non-Muslim. Don't be a fly in other people's conversations.
@TippityTapTap47 i am muslim btw but i am european
@TippityTapTap47 because your commenting this is not good alot of women and innocent people suffered and now at the yezid of women suffring the of muslim men and theme being sold and graped every day
Where did he indicate that the relationship was haram? He said that he said he would marry a girl and her family agree, but his parents didn’t and as the girl was waiting she married someone else. Where do you assume that haram was committed? I didn’t hear that in the question and it is off handed to make such an assumption. The question was in regard to his promise, his amana. He made a plan and promised to it, but Allah had His own plan, and the plan didn’t pan out according to the man’s. So no, he is not held accountable. When you make a promise, you say iA bc you need to respect the outcomes of the grander circumstance, which is Allah’s will. This was an opportunity to teach the world a lesson in regard to truth, honesty and integrity and how to navigate that honorably in the sight of Allah. This was not a time to shame a man that none of us knew nothing abt. Cover the faults of your brother, Audhubillah.
He said right at the beginning he was in a relationship with the girl
@@SSC0002 that doesn’t mean anything. Astaghfirullah for assuming the worst. This is not the Islamic tareeqa. Be wise so that you don’t be fooled, but do not become hard hearted that you become so callous.
@@SSC0002 the question was abt keeping his word. It is unislamic to breach a person’s privacy, being nosy is tantamount to being displaying your privacy to the public. It goes both ways. This behavior is absolutely haram. Nowhere did the caller suggest that he committed haram. Stay on the facts.
@wc7zr you're ignoring the most important part and saying don't assume the worst. :/
@@user-qx3yd6nk4n what am I ignoring exactly?
Animals doesn't have a marriage and second of all animals do weird thing
I guess you are from Kashmir?
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Such horrible parents.. Fainting? What is this?
I don't get people saying talking to non mahrams is haram in general!!
It's not mentioned in the Quran or Hadith .. the stuff they use as evidence is actually proof that you can communicate so long as you do so with Allah's guiding rules
The verses literally mention the rules and instructions of how women should be dealing with non mahrams and vice versa .. Keep your full hijab lowering your gaze for both men and women, not talking with flirty tones ... etc
Allah never said something is totally Haram and then gave us rules on how to do it
Where are the rules to Fornication? To drinking Alcohol? There aren't cause you just don't do it
Also, raising your son and daughter on the idea that if he so much as said good morning to a non mahram they'll end up committing zinah or a major sin is just as bad as raising them onnthe idea that tbey can have friends from the other sex and hug and kiss ... both lead to disasters .. while dealing within the guiding rules in the wursn is the most decent and sane option that let's people live their normal life yes keep their fear of Allah and their obedience to his words in their mind and hearts all the while
u shouldnt get even close to zina
and talking privately is the first stage which can lead to fitna
havent u heard the story of barzakh???
Talking to non mahram is fine,
communicating(talking more than 1 hour, give her ride, give her ur number, eat together, walking together) is haram
So if it's really permissible than why majority of the people used to hide this thing from their parents? Why people talks with their girlfriend and boyfriend in loneliness? Why give me the reason? And Since Nikah is halal you can do everything with your wife or husband in front of your parents, you can eat together in one plate, you can go on a ride together with your couple, you can talk with your partner on phone call, you can touch your partner and you can do many things even if your parents are there in front of them, cz it's halal. But premarital relationships are haram that's the reason people used to hide it from the society and their parents.
Bukhari 5232
@@theclassyelegentwhat can u touch your partner sexually in front of your parents, can u talk dirty, flirt with your partner in front of your parents.
I don't know from which society u come from but your logic is just stupid 🤡
He is kashmiri 😂😂
@265-k5i yes