@@smithkt894 You aren't a Nigerian period. Let him talk about the ups and downs of his country,why not channel his energy there? He doesn't like NG as a country, anyone can see that. While his country is swimming in mishaps,he only sees NG to talk about?
@@Queenofafrobeatz9711 Anything he said about Nigeria or Nigerians reflects his personal opinion and does not affect me or any other well-meaning Nigerians. As Africans, we are one. We don’t need to spread hate among ourselves. I'm a proud Nigerian living in Scotland and a strong believer in Pan-Africanism.
@@Queenofafrobeatz9711 Stoicism, especially Marcus Aurelius' teaching that 'the best revenge is not to be like your enemy,' reminds me to rise above hate. Negative opinions about Nigeria don't affect me or other well-meaning Nigerians🥰
I was born in Jamaica 🇯🇲, married to a Nigerian and living in the US. I would never call the police to settle any issues. If we are having an issue that is difficult we would rather call family to help us get it settled. No police will ever enter my house for any nonsense.
Nigerians do not represent Africa, they represent themselves alone. No self respecting African wants to hear their name mentioned alongside Nigeria in the same sentence.
This is part of a significant percentage of Africans losing their bearings once they step foot on Western soil. In most African settings,marital problems are settled within family circles or within close family friends, which is why the divorce rate is lower than in the West, where some divorce cases are fought in public, which could involve the media. Let’s don’t forget who we are as Africans just because we live in the Western world.
Also they are told that here in the west women have rights so they think that’s what they are exercising I would say its more behaviour of their cultural Here in the uk we have we have western black women who would never call the police on their husband
This comes as there's a lot of knife crimes on London streets and so many black or Nigerian teenagers are involved, so the police found out that most of these children come from broken homes and Nigerian sisters have done a great job in calling the police on their men even on small problems that they can settle which as led to men leaving their families and children left without guidance, so Nigerian sisters should know the importance of a father even when things are not going well
I met a West African man who said this once and I asked why he said their too aggressive and diluted by the western world culture....not sure if it's true
@cloutpackent she is speaking the truth. 98% of West Africans woman are not good, it happened to me.i am from West Africa myself. They do that to claim benefits
If the whole of Africa moved to all the other continents and the people of all the continents moves to Africa, we will still bring down the economies of those continents like it is in Africa. We have the richest continent in the world and we still mess it up. We can't do anything for ourselves. Always running to a table that in already prepared instead of preparing our own tables. It's a shame...
@@ugooko7569no no no,the nigerian woman. Be specific,they are being a nuisance in foreign countries acting a fool.meanwhile the men are getting arrested left right and centre of drugs peddling extortion fraud and all things bad. Is that enough for you?
@Delz405...or just stay in Nigeria. Africa as a whole has the least amount of rights for women in the world and I'm not indicating on a feminist level either. For example, if a man beats a woman in Africa they will blame the woman and ask her "what did you do to upset him."
Am East African living in the Middle East, honestly speaking West African Women i have encountered are more aggressive than the West African men i have encountered.All in all, u need to be a special type of person to deal with West Africans
@@siphamandlamkhize9766cameroonians are central africans. But you are right, other weat africans are different. A guinean or senegalese is very different from a nigerian on every aspect
the police officer was speaking Yoruba, it was in the video. He specified Nigerian, I'm pretty sure the West African guy would know...deflect deflect. You win.
Is a lie those people can't be very stupid or lack knowledge without knowing what they are specific about. That is not done at all. They where specific. Nigerian women simple.
THANK YOU!!! 97% of men think only a few women are like this and don't understand that it is FEMALE NATURE. Their immediate benefit is the agenda behind everything, and their callousness means the man's destruction is only collateral damage.
You know what? As a Jamaican we African it's about time we set up and look after ourselves as a race of people we are a set of damage people having so much anger unable to support each other when it comes to DV I can see how we get ashamed!!!!
Now y'all know how we feel in America. Blk American Women do this all the time on Black American Men 😂. Be safe to all my Black Brothers going through this crap😅
Time for intervention There is something definitely going wrong in Nigeria Somehow the African Union must investigate the country governance why do all of them want to leave their country???
@@bofloa I don't understand what you sayin'??? Truly I'm very concerned about their situation it's like dealing with a unruly teenager just out of control
@@bofloa Yeah but the Europeans that immigrated build up the country they immigrated to. They established an empire. That's not what's happening with "these" immigrants.
@@lazapololapolo9824established an empire? Do you mean enslaved the people, stole their land, Gold, and diamonds? Surely, you don't want immigrants to do that in the UK.
Steady putting Nigerians on blast 😅 however appreciate you bringing up to date. Your platform is much needed among diasporas. Such conversations many are fearful to have due to pride. Keep up the great reporting.
This is a change of mentality when they go to the West. It’s the environment. They wouldn’t do that in Nigeria. This has to stop. Men need to choose better, not all women are like this…get to know her well before making a decision to get serious with her. Test her in different situations and see how she reacts. We don’t spend enough time to get to know the person before we marry. Some women are opportunist and some are genuinely a good person who would appreciate being in a relationship and support their man. It’s up to you to find that person.
Agreed! I'm a Black American man. If I get remarried, it will be a TRADITIONAL WOMAN from the continent I'm in the process of relocating to a southern African nation. I'm not bringing a woman to this corrupting place.
@@PindyMkhizeThen you will give him one of your daughters and then one of your ancestors dead long time ago when there was no internet will suddenly resurrect from their graveyard and start connecting with her, telling her how to live her life in 2024 and then the ancestor decides he doesn’t want her in a marriage anymore then start marrying her himself instead and everything he has worked hard to build with your daughter crumble right in front of his face? South African are the worst women to marry in Africa with their barbaric ancestry practices that plagues almost 70-80% of them.
@@PindyMkhizeThen you will give him one of your daughters and then one of your ancestors dead long time ago when there was no internet will suddenly resurrect from their graveyard and start connecting with her, telling her how to live her life in 2024 and then the ancestor decides he doesn’t want her in a marriage anymore then start marrying her himself instead, then you bring your daughter back home and provide accommodation for her and her ancestral husband where they live happily ever after and everything he has worked hard to build with your daughter crumble right in front of his face?
@@PindyMkhize My point is that South African women are the wor-st set of women to marry with the barbaric ancestral practice that plague almost 60-70% of them.
@@FrededigueOgbefun-qd8ez I know two men from Ghana and Togo respectively who have done exactly that , they went home,got married and told their spouse emphatically before they took their vows that they would not bring them to the West, and that they were ready to meet all their needs. One of them goes home nearly every year to perform his duty, he now has three children.
Nigerians in the comments section who are being defensive, make me wonder if they have an ear 👂 to listen to be told so that they can correct their ways and improve. Maybe that is the mentality which makes them not resolve issues at home.
Their are busy using African women living in Europe, saying their not good enough for marriage, then I'll get a village girl, thinking she's better, so let them endure
You aren't the only men that spoil their wives in africa. Am congolewe and our men also provide for their women. I have grown up seing men starting from my family spoil their wives. It's something else.
@@africaine4889 Our people and most fundamentally our women who are the most masculine in temperament and extremely impressionable compared to other women weren't designed to live outside the structural scaffolding of our culture.
@@alexkorami6679 or maybe we have to change with the times, You can't expect women to help pay the bills, and expect her to do household chores. Nigerian may be providers in Nigeria, It's almost impossible to just provide alone in the West, A couple has to both work, and both do house hold chores... Self introspect brother, stop always pointing fingers
We the melanated are biologically viral & potent the downside is our susceptibility to strange influences without a structure offered by tradition. The Chinese and Arabs aren't as easily swayed by the glitter of the west which is always experimenting with it's values.
😂😂😂 This was about training you kids and importance of father in the homes. Not about calling the police for DV. He didn't mention anything about calling police, he was talking about keeping the family together, talking about importance of fathers in the homes isn't same as advising them not to call police...
Why are we leaving Africa to other countries? Who are we? What does the name or word Africa/Afrika mean? Let us first know the meaning of the name or word. Who called the continent Africa? What is an Afrikan/African?
I would tread carefully on this topic. Meanwhile in Canada, Calgary to be exact, divorce cases amongst Nigerian couples is documented to be traumatic for the women. The judge had to say, he feels bad for Nigerian women. Are all these women calling the police for trivial issues? We need to be careful.
Nigeria look at leaving Africa and going to live overseas as success, sadly more of this will continue...While Nigerians seem to attract women more because they don't mind spending, I don't think they can keep the marriage...if u are going to get a woman by using money , why would that woman stay if u don't have money. There's women in South Africa left with about 4 children by Nigerian men, they were obviously lured with money, They thought it will be the same in a marriage...but when the reality sinks in, I'm sure everyone gets angry
To be honest, their homes are very stable here in the west. They are normally in stable homes but generally Nigerian women are very aggressive compared to the men and they are emboldened to now flex since the system favours women. As for the women in South Africa being a baby mama it is quite common. A lot of SA women have many kids from different South African dads so I find it strange that you will point at the Nigerian man for that when our men don’t value us SA women. Raise the standard first so every men from other countries who comes to our country will follow that standard in how to treat us. But unfortunately they see you guys doing the same 🇿🇦
@@theonly6359 even if they are single mother's , Their children often know where their fathers come from or it is easy to locate their fathers ...How will a South African woman who has four kids with a Nigerian, has never been to the home of the man help the children find their father? If you are truly a South African, you will know how important is it for a child to know where they come from even if their father did not raise them. You never hear of South African men bragging about being great, they are aware of their flaws , They never brag, not much is expected from them... but if you are going to tell me that you are great, I really expect greatness
@@theonly6359do you value yourself as a woman? You can't expect a special treatment from men when u fail to love yourself , Looks like you are the only one that thinks Nigeria women are aggressive, because they still marry their women, They have kids with those few South Africans leave them and marry their women.
@@theonly6359 do u value yourself? because if u values yourself u will think twice before getting pregnant for a man. It also looks like you are the only one that see these women as being aggressive. Their men , who are suppose to be in a better position to judge don't see that,They even leave SA women to marry their women
There is something seriously wrong with this. Telling the women not to call the law enforcement for intervention when it could be a matter of life and death is appalling. The missing piece to this, is the police talking to the men the same way.
nothing is wrong... they realised women are weaponising this to their advantage even when there is no just course to do so, simila to how a yt people will call police on black in the USA...
Here in the US there are so many stories of Nigeria men bringing Nigerian woman from the village and educates her and once she starts making money a monster comes out.A man recently unalived a Nigerian wife because of this exact scenario.We don’t touch them here.
@@jahifaraji true. I actually believe Nigerians have severe ptsd. It's further being perpetuated by the constant passive aggressive slavery, gaslighting & abuse by their gov.
Not only in UK, the same thing is happening in Germany. Men have stopped bringing their wives from Africa because of change of characters once they arrive
Nigerian women are calling the UK police on their men because they want to use that report for immigration purposes. Not because the Nigerian men are violent, but because the Nigerian women are told by their friends that once, they make trouble with their husbands, the law will always be on their side and they can have a chance to change and shortening their immigration process from 10yrs to 5yrs and get their stay quicker. It is for immigration purposes that they cal the police. My Ex-wife too did the same thing.
On another post about the same matter Nigerian women were laughing some said Nigerian women don't play they will teach you a lesson but it's odd that they don't do that in Nigeria and it's also crazy that they don't see anything wrong about it
Because Nigerian women in Nigeria doesn't have any rights. Even if you're being killed by the husband nobody cares. We are always hearing news of huband killing wife but hardly hear of wife killing huband.
In all cases one size doesn't fit all, everything has to be judged in individually on its own merit. I am a Nigerian, living in South Africa and honestly speaking i have only met good South Africans, men and women alike maybe its because of where i am and i only meet progressive people; and in turn i respect who respects me. About the language thing nobody should be forced to learn anyones language if u cannot communicate with me we find a mediator; I for one is very bad at learning languages except is coding (this i am a wizard at) I cannot even speak my language the colonizers really got me on that one.
"Isn't wasting police time" an offence in the UK? The floating shanty town is called "Makoko". Thank you for not "ducking the issue" and airing "uncomfortable truths".
I wonder if the wives are being encouraged to do this... This is similar to what happened in the 60's and 70's in the U.S.A. The wives here were being encouraged to do this... monetarily in some cases. Calling the police... should not be abused.
I was trying to enter Georgia from South Africa citizen then denied entry even if i had documents. They said Zimbabwe, Nigeria and all Africans come with fake documents 😢 didn't care I'm from south Africa.
Been reading comments and man i can't stop laughing from black man in diaspora but ill say this if a white woman calls police on her black husband or partner your finished trust me ya done
This is not a problem specific to Nigerians at all. The police are complaining generally that most of their time (around 70%) is taken up in what is really social work and social care rather than policing. The social care services have been reduced so much in the UK that the police are called for anti social behaviour by the mentally ill, drug addicts etc
Everyone in the comments are talking about east and west African women being difficult. Their is no difference between them and East and West European Women. They are all women the only difference is the color of their skin.
Zack these madren days women don't have any love in them. There only love is money, once they get to the west a lots of these women feel like they are in heaven.
Funny thing is innafrica you dont call police is it only in uk isa you can do that. When i call police in namibia. You be told its family matter. You wont even think .
I never understood why people glorify living in Europe or America😂😂😂.. am i the only one who doesn't care about leaving sub sahara 💀.. our problems will never end
It’s not all Nigerian women. I’m definitely not for abuse and don’t believe in women or men being beaten. However, a person should be able to call for help if she’s being attacked without being chastised. Yet, I’m also for African style intervention. Both methods work.
I'm Nigerian but I love you bro. You're doing well. Keep it up
You aren't a Nigerian
@@Queenofafrobeatz9711 Loving costs little, but hating demands everything.
@@smithkt894 You aren't a Nigerian period. Let him talk about the ups and downs of his country,why not channel his energy there? He doesn't like NG as a country, anyone can see that. While his country is swimming in mishaps,he only sees NG to talk about?
@@Queenofafrobeatz9711 Anything he said about Nigeria or Nigerians reflects his personal opinion and does not affect me or any other well-meaning Nigerians. As Africans, we are one. We don’t need to spread hate among ourselves. I'm a proud Nigerian living in Scotland and a strong believer in Pan-Africanism.
@@Queenofafrobeatz9711 Stoicism, especially Marcus Aurelius' teaching that 'the best revenge is not to be like your enemy,' reminds me to rise above hate. Negative opinions about Nigeria don't affect me or other well-meaning Nigerians🥰
Point of correction: They are embarrassing themselves, not the rest of us.
Unfortunately, it is affecting all black people
I was born in Jamaica 🇯🇲, married to a Nigerian and living in the US. I would never call the police to settle any issues. If we are having an issue that is difficult we would rather call family to help us get it settled. No police will ever enter my house for any nonsense.
Good.... I done had some disapoitments with Nigerian women... Other women are problematic as well.
@@Francine-A-s3w great one happy family God bless y.all more love from the heart amen
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That’s why there is such a high rate of femicide in Africa.
I have had mixed results with Nigerian women...
Do not bring your wife to the UK, Canada or USA.
😅😅😅😅😅😅😂😂 well said before y.all know y.all end up in jail 😅😅😅😅
In all Western country's if you want to keep your insanity😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣👌
Facts
Meanwhile your wife that you left back home is being serviced by the area men. Don't get married where you will not live in.
They sit home and watch Nollywood all day, that's where the intrusive thoughts starts.
😂🤣😭
They are embarrassing themselves, not Africa.
they are revealing their true self
Keep quiet,you all hide under Nigeria unbrella,your women are doing same in uk,actually it's world wide.
Nigerians do not represent Africa, they represent themselves alone. No self respecting African wants to hear their name mentioned alongside Nigeria in the same sentence.
@@willardmorkel7192yes but embarrassing Africa and black people all over the world
@@willardmorkel7192
While not even one of you are saints.
Bunch of pretenders.
This is part of a significant percentage of Africans losing their bearings once they step foot on Western soil. In most African settings,marital problems are settled within family circles or within close family friends, which is why the divorce rate is lower than in the West, where some divorce cases are fought in public, which could involve the media. Let’s don’t forget who we are as Africans just because we live in the Western world.
Also they are told that here in the west women have rights so they think that’s what they are exercising
I would say its more behaviour of their cultural
Here in the uk we have we have western black women who would never call the police on their husband
Nigerians not africans
Yes. A loss of bearings in Western nations is the problem....
Your name is Ibrahim, you already forgot who you are as an African. You have the name of those who enslaved and subjugated Africans.
@@alexblackhills4752 and you didn’t, Alex?
This comes as there's a lot of knife crimes on London streets and so many black or Nigerian teenagers are involved, so the police found out that most of these children come from broken homes and Nigerian sisters have done a great job in calling the police on their men even on small problems that they can settle which as led to men leaving their families and children left without guidance, so Nigerian sisters should know the importance of a father even when things are not going well
I am Ghanaian married to Congolese. For your peace of mind, be careful of west African women and thank me later.
Mr Owusu you must have wanted a slave. Enjoy your Congolese one.
@@younggiftedandblack7634you’re out of your mind
I met a West African man who said this once and I asked why he said their too aggressive and diluted by the western world culture....not sure if it's true
Thanks for the heads up.
@cloutpackent she is speaking the truth. 98% of West Africans woman are not good, it happened to me.i am from West Africa myself. They do that to claim benefits
The UK should send the women back! 😮
😂😂😂😂
😅😂 SOUTH AFRICA ALSO WE'RE TIRED THEY MAKE NOISE
@@Simphiwefulyerrrrr diphologolo dilo tse
@@Nthwelaya moms an @nimal 🐷 food
@@17een10 okay 😂
If the whole of Africa moved to all the other continents and the people of all the continents moves to Africa, we will still bring down the economies of those continents like it is in Africa. We have the richest continent in the world and we still mess it up. We can't do anything for ourselves. Always running to a table that in already prepared instead of preparing our own tables. It's a shame...
Stupid comment bro,
@@danielrichardson171 thank you for your wise input brother.
These guys are embarrassing us. Truth be told. It's not joke anymore.
How?because you all hide under Nigeria unbrella actually,it s all Africans doing it and world wide.
What has the black African done for Nigerian to Embrass you?
@@ugooko7569no no no,the nigerian woman. Be specific,they are being a nuisance in foreign countries acting a fool.meanwhile the men are getting arrested left right and centre of drugs peddling extortion fraud and all things bad.
Is that enough for you?
Who is us?
@@theonly6359 Africa. The continent.
As a Nigerian , this is just stupid . We need to really talk to ourselves .
Well said
@Delz405...or just stay in Nigeria. Africa as a whole has the least amount of rights for women in the world and I'm not indicating on a feminist level either. For example, if a man beats a woman in Africa they will blame the woman and ask her "what did you do to upset him."
You do
Am East African living in the Middle East, honestly speaking West African Women i have encountered are more aggressive than the West African men i have encountered.All in all, u need to be a special type of person to deal with West Africans
I find other West Africans just humble , I deal with Ghanaians and Cameroonians a lot
@@siphamandlamkhize9766cameroonians are central africans. But you are right, other weat africans are different. A guinean or senegalese is very different from a nigerian on every aspect
@@siphamandlamkhize9766Ghanaians are very humble, that’s how they are.
@@siphamandlamkhize9766 west african man are humble the woman ummm.........
@@theonly6359 the man are
By Nigeria they mean all African Women but Nigeria is always used to highlight an issue for the African community
the police officer was speaking Yoruba, it was in the video. He specified Nigerian, I'm pretty sure the West African guy would know...deflect deflect. You win.
Is a lie those people can't be very stupid or lack knowledge without knowing what they are specific about. That is not done at all. They where specific. Nigerian women simple.
Men work to uplift their finances to uplift their family. Women work to uplift their finances to uplift themselves. Let that sink in.
THANK YOU!!! 97% of men think only a few women are like this and don't understand that it is FEMALE NATURE.
Their immediate benefit is the agenda behind everything, and their callousness means the man's destruction is only collateral damage.
Really I guess women uplifting men doesn’t come to mind
@@taty9872 Just the thought of it, to them, is at best laughable. At worst, offensive.
@@taty9872hypergamy
Man makes money to uplift his family.
Woman makes money to leave the man 😂
You know what? As a Jamaican we African it's about time we set up and look after ourselves as a race of people we are a set of damage people having so much anger unable to support each other when it comes to DV I can see how we get ashamed!!!!
You are not African, you are Caribbean. Stop being a wannabe. Nothing African about you people
UK need to adopt a new law against African women who got married as an immigrant. Marriage cases must be returned back to there place of origin.
Now y'all know how we feel in America.
Blk American Women do this all the time on Black American Men 😂.
Be safe to all my Black Brothers going through this crap😅
That's a lie black American women don't do this to our men, unless your violet towads us. Get real
Time for intervention
There is something definitely going wrong in Nigeria
Somehow the African Union must investigate the country governance why do all of them want to leave their country???
its same reason europeans left their land century ago... you forget
@@bofloa I don't understand what you sayin'???
Truly I'm very concerned about their situation it's like dealing with a unruly teenager just out of control
@@bofloa Yeah but the Europeans that immigrated build up the country they immigrated to. They established an empire. That's not what's happening with "these" immigrants.
@@lazapololapolo9824established an empire? Do you mean enslaved the people, stole their land, Gold, and diamonds? Surely, you don't want immigrants to do that in the UK.
@@lazapololapolo9824give it time buddy. Don’t be in a rush .
Steady putting Nigerians on blast 😅 however appreciate you bringing up to date. Your platform is much needed among diasporas. Such conversations many are fearful to have due to pride. Keep up the great reporting.
It's all for social grant once the woman is left alone and they will have proof the husband was abusive. Welfare money scam
@@MarysmmiiithAmen ❤
This is a change of mentality when they go to the West. It’s the environment. They wouldn’t do that in Nigeria. This has to stop. Men need to choose better, not all women are like this…get to know her well before making a decision to get serious with her. Test her in different situations and see how she reacts. We don’t spend enough time to get to know the person before we marry. Some women are opportunist and some are genuinely a good person who would appreciate being in a relationship and support their man. It’s up to you to find that person.
The rice nation is chaotic in every way imaginable
Haaaa! Rice Nation 😹😹😹🍻
Is that all you've got?
That's y we don't want them in South africa
@@otuefiom5730jolofina
This is the best video when it comes to comparison.❤ I love how you touched both sides of the story. Well done brother
Agreed! I'm a Black American man. If I get remarried, it will be a TRADITIONAL WOMAN from the continent I'm in the process of relocating to a southern African nation. I'm not bringing a woman to this corrupting place.
Come I have daughters here waiting for marriage in s a
@@PindyMkhizeThen you will give him one of your daughters and then one of your ancestors dead long time ago when there was no internet will suddenly resurrect from their graveyard and start connecting with her, telling her how to live her life in 2024 and then the ancestor decides he doesn’t want her in a marriage anymore then start marrying her himself instead and everything he has worked hard to build with your daughter crumble right in front of his face? South African are the worst women to marry in Africa with their barbaric ancestry practices that plagues almost 70-80% of them.
@@PindyMkhizeThen you will give him one of your daughters and then one of your ancestors dead long time ago when there was no internet will suddenly resurrect from their graveyard and start connecting with her, telling her how to live her life in 2024 and then the ancestor decides he doesn’t want her in a marriage anymore then start marrying her himself instead, then you bring your daughter back home and provide accommodation for her and her ancestral husband where they live happily ever after and everything he has worked hard to build with your daughter crumble right in front of his face?
@@Ranking007-tq9ng I really don't get your point
@@PindyMkhize My point is that South African women are the wor-st set of women to marry with the barbaric ancestral practice that plague almost 60-70% of them.
I need a wife now, that is why I will go back home and look for my love, and not to bring her here, I will live with her there better
This is the best course of action.
True
@@FrededigueOgbefun-qd8ez I know two men from Ghana and Togo respectively who have done exactly that , they went home,got married and told their spouse emphatically before they took their vows that they would not bring them to the West, and that they were ready to meet all their needs. One of them goes home nearly every year to perform his duty, he now has three children.
They are the same there!
@@happinessinheart5340 the one in Nigeria is better than the one here bro, because I will not bring her here, she will live with me in Nigeria
Am a Nigerian i just think Nigeria is a continent inside another continent bro it's sad really sad bro in all i love my country ❤❤ God bless Africa
Now are they gonna call them xenophobic? Everywhere in the world has issues with omo naija but we’re not allowed 🚫 to say it.
It's too much!
I don't think this applies here
But it is Nigerian calling the police on Nigerians. So how does Xenophobia fit in?
@@YT-xk5jlthey are telling them to stop, as in the don’t want to help them.
@YT-xk5jl Threatening to suspend a public service based on their ethnicity. Yeah sounds like xenophobia.
The World Is Tired Of Green And White 🇳🇬Nation
That’s in your head
This is why I will never make that mistake, going to Nigeria and bring a woman here to marrie, the truth is in Nigeria, africa woman is the best,
Nigerians in the comments section who are being defensive, make me wonder if they have an ear 👂 to listen to be told so that they can correct their ways and improve. Maybe that is the mentality which makes them not resolve issues at home.
Their are busy using African women living in Europe, saying their not good enough for marriage, then I'll get a village girl, thinking she's better, so let them endure
Thank you for covering the story.
There is a reason why passport bros say leave them in their country they will adopt western ways.
Zack listening to you gives me some insight on African culture, as usual your narration is very heartfelt and informative.🙏🏾
WE NIGERIAN MEN SPOIL OUR WOMEN SO MUCH THEY DON'T SEE OUR VALUE OUR EFFORT ...AND IT'S A PROBLEM!!
How do u spoil a woman that's independent? Your money brother, won't impress her...
You aren't the only men that spoil their wives in africa. Am congolewe and our men also provide for their women. I have grown up seing men starting from my family spoil their wives.
It's something else.
@@africaine4889
Our people and most fundamentally our women who are the most masculine in temperament and extremely impressionable compared to other women weren't designed to live outside the structural scaffolding of our culture.
@@alexkorami6679 or maybe we have to change with the times, You can't expect women to help pay the bills, and expect her to do household chores. Nigerian may be providers in Nigeria, It's almost impossible to just provide alone in the West, A couple has to both work, and both do house hold chores... Self introspect brother, stop always pointing fingers
We the melanated are biologically viral & potent the downside is our susceptibility to strange influences without a structure offered by tradition.
The Chinese and Arabs aren't as easily swayed by the glitter of the west which is always experimenting with it's values.
If a woman calls police for her husband, they should break up.
😂😂😂 This was about training you kids and importance of father in the homes. Not about calling the police for DV. He didn't mention anything about calling police, he was talking about keeping the family together, talking about importance of fathers in the homes isn't same as advising them not to call police...
Great one Brother Zack.
That happens in the US as well but here they prefer to lock you up.
Why are we leaving Africa to other countries? Who are we? What does the name or word Africa/Afrika mean? Let us first know the meaning of the name or word. Who called the continent Africa? What is an Afrikan/African?
Could it be that name given to the continent is a spell? What's the original name of the continent?
@@tspcocktail It is said the continent is ALKEBULAN, but you have to follow history.
I would tread carefully on this topic. Meanwhile in Canada, Calgary to be exact, divorce cases amongst Nigerian couples is documented to be traumatic for the women. The judge had to say, he feels bad for Nigerian women. Are all these women calling the police for trivial issues? We need to be careful.
Canadians women are not call Nigerian police on their husband
Stop lying, Yes they do. Please do some google research.
Thank God for this message,our God is not sleeping.
Nigeria look at leaving Africa and going to live overseas as success, sadly more of this will continue...While Nigerians seem to attract women more because they don't mind spending, I don't think they can keep the marriage...if u are going to get a woman by using money , why would that woman stay if u don't have money. There's women in South Africa left with about 4 children by Nigerian men, they were obviously lured with money, They thought it will be the same in a marriage...but when the reality sinks in, I'm sure everyone gets angry
Are you one of those women?
To be honest, their homes are very stable here in the west. They are normally in stable homes but generally Nigerian women are very aggressive compared to the men and they are emboldened to now flex since the system favours women.
As for the women in South Africa being a baby mama it is quite common. A lot of SA women have many kids from different South African dads so I find it strange that you will point at the Nigerian man for that when our men don’t value us SA women. Raise the standard first so every men from other countries who comes to our country will follow that standard in how to treat us. But unfortunately they see you guys doing the same 🇿🇦
@@theonly6359 even if they are single mother's , Their children often know where their fathers come from or it is easy to locate their fathers ...How will a South African woman who has four kids with a Nigerian, has never been to the home of the man help the children find their father? If you are truly a South African, you will know how important is it for a child to know where they come from even if their father did not raise them. You never hear of South African men bragging about being great, they are aware of their flaws , They never brag, not much is expected from them... but if you are going to tell me that you are great, I really expect greatness
@@theonly6359do you value yourself as a woman? You can't expect a special treatment from men when u fail to love yourself , Looks like you are the only one that thinks Nigeria women are aggressive, because they still marry their women, They have kids with those few South Africans leave them and marry their women.
@@theonly6359 do u value yourself? because if u values yourself u will think twice before getting pregnant for a man. It also looks like you are the only one that see these women as being aggressive. Their men , who are suppose to be in a better position to judge don't see that,They even leave SA women to marry their women
Now,do we see why the serpent spoke to the woman, because he knew ,he would have a willing partner, and the struggle continues!
Even though I think you should not shy away from your country of birth am still here following your videos bro. Keep up the good work.
There is something seriously wrong with this. Telling the women not to call the law enforcement for intervention when it could be a matter of life and death is appalling. The missing piece to this, is the police talking to the men the same way.
nothing is wrong... they realised women are weaponising this to their advantage even when there is no just course to do so, simila to how a yt people will call police on black in the USA...
Don't mind the UK police the welfare system in the UK is bankrupt that's why
Exactly my thoughts 🤔🤔
NO....he's saying don't call the police for petty things like "your husband refused to pass you the salt while having dinner."
@@lazapololapolo9824This is how we allow rubbish. So, Nigerian women are calling them for crap like that. Really?
Here in the US there are so many stories of Nigeria men bringing Nigerian woman from the village and educates her and once she starts making money a monster comes out.A man recently unalived a Nigerian wife because of this exact scenario.We don’t touch them here.
Because you brought someone from the village doesn't mean you own them. If you don't want those then marry women from USA and don't bring them.
It is an african issue in the UK no just nigerians.
uptill now good work bro
Do we really believe the British police announced this? They would be so liable! And that’s not a British speaker.
Interesting massage to we Africans’ we need to learn 👍🙏
Like you my guy because you are honest!!!
But why do SOME men do things that are unthinkable.
How can you do your business in the bathroom and don’t flush the toilet 🚽 That’s crazy.
Hes used to pooping in the bush...be patient with him he'll learn how a flushing toilet works😂😂😂😂
Eish 😬😬that’s disgusting
Brother Zack, you are such a brilliant man. This is a very important topic which needs to be discuss.
😂😂 The Giant
Black women in America be doing the same thing.
Yes, very sad !
That's their country n that's is not your country do your madness thing in Nigeria not on other countries learn to respect
Unity is what we need plz African ladies 😮
Maybe we need research of how much of the behavior is left over truma from living under the abusive British colonization and miseducation.
@@jahifaraji true. I actually believe Nigerians have severe ptsd. It's further being perpetuated by the constant passive aggressive slavery, gaslighting & abuse by their gov.
Thanks for the observations. It's a cultural issue. It's psychological . We need a deeper discussion.
Always that one country 😢🥴🙄
😂😂😂😂😂 and what pisses me off is claiming giant status
As a south african u know what i want to say😂😂
Not only in UK, the same thing is happening in Germany. Men have stopped bringing their wives from Africa because of change of characters once they arrive
Nigerian women are calling the UK police on their men because they want to use that report for immigration purposes. Not because the Nigerian men are violent, but because the Nigerian women are told by their friends that once, they make trouble with their husbands, the law will always be on their side and they can have a chance to change and shortening their immigration process from 10yrs to 5yrs and get their stay quicker. It is for immigration purposes that they cal the police. My Ex-wife too did the same thing.
I bet they would never do that back home if they knew whats good for them.
We are the largest foreigners in the Uk; yeah, so I understand!
Is the same thing in the USA bro especially in New York
It's all about greed and pride.
Aw good husband that's how they portray themselves in South Africa.
The Black 🖤 women in the United States don't call the police on there Nigerian 🇳🇬 men they handle it themselves
lmaooo. African men, INCLUDING NIGERIANS, complain about their women when in the West, including USA.
On another post about the same matter Nigerian women were laughing some said Nigerian women don't play they will teach you a lesson but it's odd that they don't do that in Nigeria and it's also crazy that they don't see anything wrong about it
Because Nigerian women in Nigeria doesn't have any rights. Even if you're being killed by the husband nobody cares. We are always hearing news of huband killing wife but hardly hear of wife killing huband.
each case must be assessed on individual circumstances
In all cases one size doesn't fit all, everything has to be judged in individually on its own merit. I am a Nigerian, living in South Africa and honestly speaking i have only met good South Africans, men and women alike maybe its because of where i am and i only meet progressive people; and in turn i respect who respects me. About the language thing nobody should be forced to learn anyones language if u cannot communicate with me we find a mediator; I for one is very bad at learning languages except is coding (this i am a wizard at) I cannot even speak my language the colonizers really got me on that one.
@@nc9922 savage for not learning a language...hyperbole much???
"Isn't wasting police time" an offence in the UK?
The floating shanty town is called "Makoko".
Thank you for not "ducking the issue" and airing "uncomfortable truths".
The women probaby can't wait to show their men 'who has the real power now.'
@09:06 💯 Eddie Murphy was right. Feminism is rampant in all communities, even in Africa.
I wonder if the wives are being encouraged to do this... This is similar to what happened in the 60's and 70's in the U.S.A. The wives here were being encouraged to do this... monetarily in some cases. Calling the police... should not be abused.
They change the África cultural 😢
Whose changing African culture ?
What are you on about now. The African culture is changed because of colonialism
@@theonly6359 who should be blamed for that?
@@siphamandlamkhize9766 colonialism is powerful
I was trying to enter Georgia from South Africa citizen then denied entry even if i had documents. They said Zimbabwe, Nigeria and all Africans come with fake documents 😢 didn't care I'm from south Africa.
Been reading comments and man i can't stop laughing from black man in diaspora but ill say this if a white woman calls police on her black husband or partner your finished trust me ya done
Bro where can I get your jacket from.
It's so sad 😞 😔 😟
This is not a problem specific to Nigerians at all. The police are complaining generally that most of their time (around 70%) is taken up in what is really social work and social care rather than policing.
The social care services have been reduced so much in the UK that the police are called for anti social behaviour by the mentally ill, drug addicts etc
This is crazy though 😢😢
Àmerica you call a non-emergency, you will go to jail for wasting their time.
not true. Women can call police all the time, they are not punished for it. They even make false allegations and most go unpunished.
Yesterday I saw a video by Adeola Fayehun ! About Nigerian scammers who were the reasons behind a young American’s suicide! 😢😢😢
I just wouldn't come simple. Go get a divorce
And give all your money to your mother
You have to understand that Nigeria is made up of different nations. These women are mostly Yourbas not necessarily from Nigeria
lol, sure. The West African man mis-identified the ppl he was speaking to, hahahha
Everyone in the comments are talking about east and west African women being difficult. Their is no difference between them and East and West European Women. They are all women the only difference is the color of their skin.
you are funny, " why is the food too salty"
Zack these madren days women don't have any love in them. There only love is money, once they get to the west a lots of these women feel like they are in heaven.
🗣️🎙️Saved you from the snakes😆😆😆
Funny thing is innafrica you dont call police is it only in uk isa you can do that. When i call police in namibia. You be told its family matter. You wont even think .
That’s because They belong in a place going by the name of nigeria.
😂 you cracked me up 😃
I never understood why people glorify living in Europe or America😂😂😂.. am i the only one who doesn't care about leaving sub sahara 💀.. our problems will never end
It’s not all Nigerian women. I’m definitely not for abuse and don’t believe in women or men being beaten. However, a person should be able to call for help if she’s being attacked without being chastised. Yet, I’m also for African style intervention. Both methods work.
Let me tell you most of our west african weman are very emotional.
Why would you keep a Man that you have to frequently call the police on 😂🚮, this is so ridiculous ...........
Ridiculous.