Should have contacted his lawyer in the beginning and pulled the plug on his family a lot sooner. Don't let this crap drag out, stand up for yourself forcefully
I know. After the parents showed up with their lawyer, OP sat on his ass to think when he needed to immediately have his attorney send a cease and desist letter to parents and sister. Also informing sister to remove any reference about OP from social media. 💩stinks the longer it isn’t flushed.
What kind of parents expect one child to hand over the company that he had started to his lazy, entitled sister. OP's gf is right. He should stop giving his toxic parents explanations. He should just tell his parents that he is not going to hand his company over to his sister, and it is not up for discussion.
@Mop222 I guess you've never had to deal with a close relative who turned out to be a con artist. When you have then you have the right to say the OP is a wuss.
So what that the sister is "stressed"! She is an incompetent do nothing be nothing person who acts like a 10 year old running to mommy and daddy because her sibling won't share their half eaten ice cream cone with her. In situations with irrational stupid parents like this, it's best to just fully cut ties. Their deep mental illness and codependency of the monster they raised would get any inheritance anyway. They would rationalize "she needs it most!" Go live a joyful, prosperous, healthy life without dragging the cockroach maggots behind you.
"No" is a complete sentence. It might also be more effective to say yes so long as she will be responsible for funding a ridiculous $$$ amount of operating expenses. Payable in advance on an annual basis plus a ridiculous fee to your senior employees on the basis they were expecting to eventually buy into a partnership.
Tell them to pound sand. This is YOUR business, not a family business. If they want her to have a business, they can finance one for her. You had no help and have no obligation to give her anything.
I doubt they cared that if OP couldn't have access to his bank account then he couldn't pay the bills for his company so in the end they would have screwed themselves over in the end it just amazes me that his parents and little sister only see OP as a CASH COW and NOTHING MORE THAN THAT
WTF, the parents bad mouth you , berate you, and now want to Extort your success. Absolutely not. This older sister is a lazy relation. Who has no right to you property.
This young woman needs professional mental help , the family needs to be legally responsible this older daughter and the entire family need NO against the family. Getting caught trying to access a company to steal money. Well this is the ultimate insult, of course the lawsuit was justified. They believe the son must pay for the parents malphance. Wrapped minds. OP did nothing wrong. He built a very good company. Made a living. Finding out you family have no feelings for you is mind-blowing. Good luck. Young man.
It's YOUR company. Your "family" has absolutely ZERO AUTHORITY over YOUR company! EMMA is responsible for her life, NOT you! Remind your parents that THEY can go to jail for intimidating you. And as far as "supporting" you, tell them B.S. I made this company. I built it from the ground up! I worked for everything I have! Your PARENTS' financial problems are THEIR problem, not YOUR problem. Dad, WHAT did you "sacrifice"? No, Mom, YOU, Dad and Emma are the traitors. I haven't had a family since I was a kid. OP, it's not YOUR fault your "family" are a bunch of CRIMINALS .
You are selfish for not giving your business to your sister. There is no creativity in these stories at all anymore. This is bad as those I don't work here lady stories from a few years bake. Golden child, insane parents, ridiculous demands, pretend shock by OP, get family involved, raise the stakes by contacting OP's boss. However since OP owns the business they will write bad reviews or try to contact customers or his business partners to ruin his business. OP will fight back. Cut contact. Distance himself from his family. I'm at 2:15, let see what they actually write.
AITA for refusing to let my sister take over my company despite my parents’ threats?
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Be the villain they want to see you as. Cheerfully agree when they call you selfish, etc.
Not to mention if you've done nothing wrong then there is no problem, tell that to the judge and I'm sure he'll agree with you.
I always laugh at comments where parents are threatening to cut them out of their will. Like there is a guarantee that there will be anything left.
Get police involved, block them and press charges.
He Did?!?!
Just gonna take his money and company 🤯😤💔
I'd rather be a confident villain than a doormat hero.
What RELATIONSHIP? You have none!
IT'S MY COMPANY!
Should have contacted his lawyer in the beginning and pulled the plug on his family a lot sooner. Don't let this crap drag out, stand up for yourself forcefully
I know. After the parents showed up with their lawyer, OP sat on his ass to think when he needed to immediately have his attorney send a cease and desist letter to parents and sister. Also informing sister to remove any reference about OP from social media. 💩stinks the longer it isn’t flushed.
What kind of parents expect one child to hand over the company that he had started to his lazy, entitled sister. OP's gf is right. He should stop giving his toxic parents explanations. He should just tell his parents that he is not going to hand his company over to his sister, and it is not up for discussion.
It wasn't about giving her nothing. His parents are just thieves trying to use her as scapegoat to pay his own debts. Sickos!😢
These OPs are all wussies.
@Mop222 I guess you've never had to deal with a close relative who turned out to be a con artist. When you have then you have the right to say the OP is a wuss.
So what that the sister is "stressed"! She is an incompetent do nothing be nothing person who acts like a 10 year old running to mommy and daddy because her sibling won't share their half eaten ice cream cone with her. In situations with irrational stupid parents like this, it's best to just fully cut ties. Their deep mental illness and codependency of the monster they raised would get any inheritance anyway. They would rationalize "she needs it most!" Go live a joyful, prosperous, healthy life without dragging the cockroach maggots behind you.
I am giving my sister the same thing you gave me, nothing. She will need to be self sufficient also.
"No" is a complete sentence.
It might also be more effective to say yes so long as she will be responsible for funding a ridiculous $$$ amount of operating expenses. Payable in advance on an annual basis plus a ridiculous fee to your senior employees on the basis they were expecting to eventually buy into a partnership.
Dude never had a family!!
Despite everything...family. I hate when people say that.
She has the same opportunity To start a company on her own as he had.
Tell them to pound sand. This is YOUR business, not a family business.
If they want her to have a business, they can finance one for her. You had no help and have no obligation to give her anything.
I doubt they cared that if OP couldn't have access to his bank account then he couldn't pay the bills for his company so in the end they would have screwed themselves over in the end it just amazes me that his parents and little sister only see OP as a CASH COW and NOTHING MORE THAN THAT
"That's something you should solve." ... No!
op wouldn't be in this situation if they would've gone no contact if op would have no contact he wouldn't be in this mess
OP should've said "i can make a small sacrifice, but handing over half my business isn't a small sacrifice by any means"
No longer family? They were never family to begin with. They are not entitled to your money to think otherwise is insane.
Im starting to wonder if when parents favour one child over others it causes some sort of mental damage in the parents heads
Stealing from a family member is not for the good of the family. Just stupid thinking.😕
Absolutely not ! Cray cray
Hate to say it, but it already has ruined your family.
Gawd these parents and entitled sister makes me mad. Sue them for harassment. Stop bowing to these assholes. Let them buy her a business.
I wonder where Ruth is.
The guy works with computers and doesn't know how to do a reverse IP lookup?
I don't think that generally comes up for graphics designers.
@@lnsflare1 Maybe, but just Googling would tell you how.
so the sister left he job for part of a company she doesn't owe and the parents find this normal? this familly is completely idiot
OP is a doormat
WTF, the parents bad mouth you , berate you, and now want to Extort your success. Absolutely not. This older sister is a lazy relation. Who has no right to you property.
When the "relationship" is one of slave a& master. Your duty to your self is to get out of that relationship. The best option is grow a spine.
clearly this channel does not give their video production enough at10tion as they put it, attention is what it should be !
This young woman needs professional mental help , the family needs to be legally responsible this older daughter and the entire family need NO against the family. Getting caught trying to access a company to steal money. Well this is the ultimate insult, of course the lawsuit was justified. They believe the son must pay for the parents malphance. Wrapped minds. OP did nothing wrong. He built a very good company. Made a living. Finding out you family have no feelings for you is mind-blowing. Good luck. Young man.
It seems op is no brained coz does he have to ask that question?
I don't know what is his citizenship if there are lot of them in their country
Get a lawyer
It's YOUR company. Your "family" has absolutely ZERO AUTHORITY over YOUR company!
EMMA is responsible for her life, NOT you! Remind your parents that THEY can go to jail for intimidating you. And as far as "supporting" you, tell them B.S. I made this company. I built it from the ground up! I worked for everything I have!
Your PARENTS' financial problems are THEIR problem, not YOUR problem.
Dad, WHAT did you "sacrifice"?
No, Mom, YOU, Dad and Emma are the traitors.
I haven't had a family since I was a kid.
OP, it's not YOUR fault your "family" are a bunch of CRIMINALS .
You are selfish for not giving your business to your sister. There is no creativity in these stories at all anymore. This is bad as those I don't work here lady stories from a few years bake.
Golden child, insane parents, ridiculous demands, pretend shock by OP, get family involved, raise the stakes by contacting OP's boss. However since OP owns the business they will write bad reviews or try to contact customers or his business partners to ruin his business. OP will fight back. Cut contact. Distance himself from his family. I'm at 2:15, let see what they actually write.
Those stories sound super Asian.