Sapphire. "The Escape" and what we did after we caught her again.

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  • Опубликовано: 30 мар 2024
  • We test Sapphires ability to find peace by herself however she still needs me to find that feeling of security.
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  • @lisegendron4943
    @lisegendron4943 2 месяца назад +30

    This horse is stunningly beautiful.

  • @christina5kids16grands
    @christina5kids16grands 2 месяца назад +17

    Wow, that was so beautiful to watch her figure out how to calm down, which is to run to you.

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +1

      Part of the reward you get when you take on the responsibility. I am sure you can relate!

    • @kristinadavis8872
      @kristinadavis8872 Месяц назад +1

      I love watching "join up" beautiful!

  • @karenwh2
    @karenwh2 2 месяца назад +23

    So perfect, though in its way... I absolutely loved how you calmly went after her, brought her back and continued the session. She was still looking for any way out possible. I was waiting for when she would finally turn inward instead of out. My days of training are behind me now, but it's such a magical dance of communication and I loved every minute. It was a gift.

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +3

      That means the world to me Karen. Thank you for making this worthwhile.

    • @348Tobico
      @348Tobico 2 месяца назад +3

      Same for me, I'm long past the "magical dance". But how wonderful and worthwhile the work was in helping horses find themselves and become even more awesome. It really was the great love of my life.

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +2

      @@348Tobico that happened to me too. Life took me in a different direction and then sucked me back into this beautiful and rewarding world. Never say never.

    • @JuanitaThompson-cm5tq
      @JuanitaThompson-cm5tq Месяц назад +2

      I’m a new subscriber. I watch several different horse trainers due to the fact would have loved that as my life work. I actually “apprenticed” (worked for free😂) for three different horse women trainers. How one handles horses tells you a lot about a person and you sir seem like a good man. Enjoying your videos!

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  Месяц назад

      @@JuanitaThompson-cm5tq thank you for the generous compliments Juanita!

  • @348Tobico
    @348Tobico 2 месяца назад +18

    Beautiful, loving, respectful and smart job of letting the mare settle a bit before allowing her to refocus her mind and look for leadership. Just proves how smart horses can practically scare themselves to death sometimes. And thank heaven you didn't "punish" her for taking advantage of the open gate! I think most bad horse handling is because the horses either take advantage, like this time, or embarass the handler. And some humans are just cruel. You are a gem, though! You encouraged her to get over her self administered fright and to "meditate" with you. So terrific to watch! Thanks for the master class.

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +3

      Thank you for fully understanding the lesson that she had learned on this day ❤️❤️❤️

  • @evaklein-do5ut
    @evaklein-do5ut 2 месяца назад +7

    I like their calm nature and that they are so loving towards the horses. THANK YOU

  • @user-bi6ro8rx2m
    @user-bi6ro8rx2m 2 месяца назад +10

    She is like I'm free!!!! Peace out! She is like, dang they found me!! Let me try that again!! Denied!

  • @sandralogue1774
    @sandralogue1774 2 месяца назад +8

    Sometimes it's in those moments of chaos we learn our greatest lessons.
    She may have been telling you she's bored with that lesson, let's find something else.
    I like how you kept her moving after she joined up,not letting her refocus on the situation.Well done.

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад

      Wise words Sandra. I agree. Most of the lessons that have stuck with me were after going through chaos.

  • @gail2283
    @gail2283 2 месяца назад +12

    Amazing how a mistake - became a learning moment. The bond of trust forming was incredible to watch. Thank you for sharing. Tabor City, NC USA

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад

      What a great observation! Yes, horses teach you to be productive in every moment, always aware of what you are doing, always checking your intentions, so when things go off plan, you think to yourself, how can I turn this lemon into lemonade.

  • @songbirds3712
    @songbirds3712 2 месяца назад +13

    She had the zoomies and she definitely knew where all the gates are.She is a lovely mover and she is having fun showing off! ❤❤
    Watching you working with her when she finally came back to you was so interesting. Everything you said and did was done with so much calmness.

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +1

      Many thanks for watching the journey! She has really pushed every limit of my knowledge.

    • @songbirds3712
      @songbirds3712 2 месяца назад

      @@elitehorsemanship8765 ❤️❤️

    • @bethalvarez6956
      @bethalvarez6956 2 месяца назад +2

      The zoomies , I love that

    • @lakota123max
      @lakota123max 2 месяца назад

      @@elitehorsemanship8765 I trained an appendix qh that looked just like that girl… she would rather run than look at a human… took over half an hr to stop running in a panic and I found I had to remove myself a few times and then finally she stopped… the previous owner said she was hard to catch and after that she never ran from anyone… she was one of the fastest mares I ever rode and they dumped her because she ran off and broke the ankle of the last rider … I feel bad that I sold her … she was wonderful to ride and she had an ulcer that was fixed with plain alfalfa hay…I tried to find her and found out they couldn’t ride her at the auction… never found her … God bless her

    • @lakota123max
      @lakota123max 2 месяца назад

      I was hit by a drunk driver a few yrs later and couldn’t ride anymore… just in case u r wondering why I sold all my horses… lost my job too:(

  • @jessicamoon2973
    @jessicamoon2973 2 месяца назад +4

    This was incredible to watch. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and skills!

  • @lynettecoleman73
    @lynettecoleman73 Месяц назад +5

    The same way to work with children. Be consistent. Firm. Yet loving.

  • @melodymacken9788
    @melodymacken9788 2 месяца назад +3

    I loved those words... to find peace by herself.
    That to me says it all and you have the insight to give to this horse.
    Hope she finds whatever she needs.
    Rotorua, New Zealand 🇳🇿

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад

      Thanks Melody! I wish there were more of you in this world. The people that think much deeper than the superficial appearance of things. Love to New Zealand

  • @neelamwadhwani505
    @neelamwadhwani505 Месяц назад +2

    Wow. That little exercise you did with Saphire ??? was beautiful. Show us more, please!

  • @marionnatale8230
    @marionnatale8230 Месяц назад +2

    This was so beautiful…you left me in tears at your gentleness and sensitivity to what she needed and was feeling. Thank you. 🙏😢

  • @firedragonfarm
    @firedragonfarm 2 месяца назад +5

    She is just so gorgeous, stunning.

  • @shannongelven9217
    @shannongelven9217 Месяц назад +1

    This was so beautiful to watch! Thank you!❤❤❤❤

  • @riesbergen
    @riesbergen 28 дней назад +1

    Great to see the patience of the trainer. It is what more parents should do whith their children... Patience and giving safety and security!

  • @karencraig1798
    @karencraig1798 Месяц назад +1

    Fantastic join up, with a sweet horse.

  • @user-ky5rk3up9e
    @user-ky5rk3up9e 2 месяца назад +5

    I’ve had this happen to me. I did the same thing. It’s interesting to actually watch a horse want to connect.

  • @lindakienle531
    @lindakienle531 Месяц назад +2

    Love your calm demeanor

  • @TheHop55
    @TheHop55 Месяц назад +3

    I love that you are not stopping this process. You are allowing her to face her fear. Thankyou for your kindness.

  • @JuanitaThompson-cm5tq
    @JuanitaThompson-cm5tq 2 месяца назад +4

    Well, she had rollback, flying lead change, counter canter, side pass, transitions, and hookup figured out in the first lesson!😂❤

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад

      Right on!

    • @kathleenredick275
      @kathleenredick275 Месяц назад +1

      The reason we can 'train' them to do those, is because they are natural to the horse. We are only training to do them when WE ask.

  • @user-oz7lq9ln6z
    @user-oz7lq9ln6z 3 дня назад

    Hi🙋🏻‍♀️🐴❤️everyone 🗺️🕊️🫶
    Thank you for being Patient, Understanding & Caring with Sapphire 🐴❤️ Animals are Innocent just like Babies, Children, Vulnerable people or some Kindred Spirits who need to be treated with Compassion, Empathy, Kindness! I love ❤️ Animals & one has to put themselves in their shoes/Situation how would we feel?
    God✨Bless🙌🤲🙏🌈us all🗺️🕊️🫶MC/Q🕊️🫶🌹

  • @danlindeke2561
    @danlindeke2561 2 месяца назад +3

    She has light step,frisky.Valueable horse once trained.

  • @johnjacobs4207
    @johnjacobs4207 2 месяца назад +2

    excellent work. I am seeing a bad case of love sickness. Looks like she is ready to spend a day in the trees.

  • @randybutler4772
    @randybutler4772 2 месяца назад +1

    Interesting way to handle her. She seems much better with you . Thank you for sharing.🐴

  • @JeannetteShoreland
    @JeannetteShoreland Месяц назад

    Very nice facility; well laid out and has great 'fencing'.

  • @kathleenredick275
    @kathleenredick275 Месяц назад +1

    They are always looking for a leader. ❤ Good job.

  • @irenecoermann2439
    @irenecoermann2439 2 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful outcome!

  • @shannongelven9217
    @shannongelven9217 Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful!❤❤❤❤❤she loves you! So sweet!

  • @GalopaWXY
    @GalopaWXY 2 месяца назад +43

    Why did you leave her in panic mode for so long? It feels like it would have been better to help her calm down a lot sooner?

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +17

      I felt like she might look for me herself and calm herself down. I wanted to give her that opportunity. Watching her reminded me of how many of us are fighting battles within ourselves, not realising that we are in a safe place.

    • @donnakline4212
      @donnakline4212 2 месяца назад +19

      ​@@elitehorsemanship8765she is not in a safe place, as she sees it. You are encouraging her to run so that she is frightened by the increaed saddle noises, as you pointed out. The horse is winded and dripping sweat. If the trainer is deliberately increasing the horse's fear, I don't see that as the horse "working herself" into a panic; I see it as the trainer setting up the situation so the frightened horse exhausts herself, again as you point out with a laugh. Running a horse to exhaustion does not appeal to me as a training method nor do I find it amusing.

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +27

      @@donnakline4212 interesting point of view. So here is the sequence of events. I take her into an arena. I remove the lead rope. She takes off trotting. She does not realize that she is in a safe place. She canters. Gains speed, she panics. If I go in straight away and stop her, always keeping her in her comfort zone, the she will never go through a seemingly scary experience and realize that she is safe, that there was nothing to worry about. As I assess the situation, she struggles. So I decide, a period of time, to step in. She could have continued to canter, literally, for at least 100km, but it was only a few minutes. The exhaustion comment was on the sarcastic side. She was very far from exhaustion. I go in, with ever restricting her movement, and help her to calm down. She does. The next day, she walks off in the same arena, head down low, finds a nice place, rolls, stands up, and walks back over to me, and stands next to me. Training was a success

    • @donnakline4212
      @donnakline4212 2 месяца назад +8

      @@elitehorsemanship8765 you do not address your own opening comments that she is afraid of the pressure of the saddle and its noises. And you repeatedly make her go faster so it would be scarier. Your description of her working herself into a panic is simply false - you are creating an anxiety provoking situation. Think of it this way - if someone tied a backpack to you that made scary sounds - like a ticking bomb, for example, or a rattling snake - and made you run so that it would make even more scary noises, would you describe yourself as making yourself panic or the joker who put the backpack on you?

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +14

      @@donnakline4212 using your logic I should just release into the desert and throw her some feed whenever I see her? I should not attempt to work with her or to train her or heaven forbid…..even ride her? Or ima different way, never send your kids to school, because they get scared of leaving their mother for the first time. Who is creating that fear? The child with its own thoughts, or the joker that gave birth to them?

  • @infohorsetv
    @infohorsetv Месяц назад +1

    She figured it out. Good video.

  • @TodayAndForevermore-gt3ff
    @TodayAndForevermore-gt3ff 2 месяца назад +1

    oh my goodness she is sleek and beautiful!

  • @AvaPotterfieldandFriends
    @AvaPotterfieldandFriends Месяц назад

    Very nice

  • @terriedwards4820
    @terriedwards4820 2 месяца назад +1

    How special is that time if partners and together calm you ket her go her way crazy but she has learned you are her safe place

  • @algypsy17
    @algypsy17 2 месяца назад +2

    When she finally "calms down" ... is this what is called "learned helplessness" ? Resigning herself to the situation as she can neither get rid of the saddle nor can she get out and back to her stall ?

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +5

      Not really. Allow me to give an example of learned helplessness. a child regularly performs poorly on exams even after studying, they may start to believe that preparing for tests is ineffective and won't have any impact on their grade. With sapphire, she learns that she has ultimate control over a situation as she has the ability to remove any stress from her situation, by simply calming down and looking for the alpha in her herd for direction. Hope that helps. And great question. 👍

  • @RainierArtist
    @RainierArtist День назад

    Lounging her first would have prevented it all.

  • @keradee8742
    @keradee8742 2 месяца назад +1

    Very nice! She's definitely a pretty girl.

  • @DawnSchram-tl9xv
    @DawnSchram-tl9xv Месяц назад +3

    I agree not my way of training but everyone has there own ways i guess. At least he didn't beat when he caught her I've seen stupid people do it.

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  Месяц назад +5

      Punishment never makes sense to a horse. They pick up on the bad intentions and don’t understand the pressure that follows. People that beat horses out of frustration and anger are ignorantly treating their horses. Thanks for your comment Dawn.

  • @idellbrown1825
    @idellbrown1825 2 месяца назад +4

    Seems awfully thin. She's very sweaty, needs a break. Too much. Surprised she doesn't jump the fence.

  • @rameshkawade7574
    @rameshkawade7574 2 месяца назад +2

    She is on heat

  • @lakota123max
    @lakota123max 2 месяца назад +7

    the horse is quite underweight with zero muscles on her hindquarters...she likely has a severe ulcer that causes her alot of pain when saddled....get her some ulcer medicine and in a few days with plenty of alfalfa hay to eat this horse will be dramatically different...

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +3

      No pain or any symptoms that seem to indicate this

    • @lakota123max
      @lakota123max Месяц назад

      ⁠but a horse like that will never show symptoms of pain… she just runs when she can and tries to escape… my mare did the same thing and when I fixed her ulcer she changed into a different horse.. gained weight and looked me in the eyes… a horse can develop an ulcer in 12 hrs or less and the solution is alfalfa hay or meds … the hay is the best tho… any horse that runs when the saddle tightens is in pain except for the youngsters saddled for the first time of course

    • @joycemcpherson9263
      @joycemcpherson9263 Месяц назад

      Karens

  • @barbarauridge1575
    @barbarauridge1575 2 месяца назад +1

    A simple case of horse being smarter than humans

  • @bucketheadranchmescalaz2958
    @bucketheadranchmescalaz2958 2 месяца назад +3

    Where are you located?

  • @RainierArtist
    @RainierArtist День назад

    As he asses the situation whos his boss. Who owns the horse a witch?

  • @AZCanner
    @AZCanner 2 месяца назад +2

    She just learned a new trick. Teach her another one.

  • @arribaficationwineho32
    @arribaficationwineho32 2 месяца назад +2

    Interesting that you use a western(cowboy) saddle

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +3

      I just love them. They are also the best saddles to use when starting horses. They can take any saddle after that.

  • @colleenlouise4521
    @colleenlouise4521 Месяц назад

    she was going to corners looking for an open gate after finding her way out the first time.

  • @DawnSchram-tl9xv
    @DawnSchram-tl9xv Месяц назад +1

    I think she's a bit tired

  • @aolster3198
    @aolster3198 2 месяца назад +3

    Why was she so stressed?

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +1

      Due to her extreme fear and distrust of humans, she was difficult to get close to. Put a couple of people in hospital when they got too close. Kicked them. So she was just afraid. I am looking forward to releasing the next videos.

  • @windmillstables1
    @windmillstables1 Месяц назад +2

    Did she run into her own stall?

  • @danlindeke2561
    @danlindeke2561 2 месяца назад +1

    Barn sour or buddy sour?

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +2

      Just panicked. Had to see if she could calm herself down... Pleased to say that the next day was something amazing to witness. She just walked off into the arena with her head down and had a nice roll before she came back to me

  • @MsTrogdortheburninat
    @MsTrogdortheburninat Месяц назад

    I feel bad, she knows she escaped before and now the escape is gone

  • @jahleajahlou8588
    @jahleajahlou8588 Месяц назад +1

    Is this the backside of a track ?

  • @colleen113
    @colleen113 22 дня назад

    What caused the panic?

  • @lindalape8493
    @lindalape8493 Месяц назад +1

    Why did you leave the gate open?!🤪

  • @TPWK216
    @TPWK216 6 дней назад

    This is could have ended up with a severley injured horse. This is not a method i would suggest to anyone.

  • @camurray
    @camurray 2 месяца назад +2

    She was begging for direction from you at the get go!

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +1

      You are right. But I wanted to see if she could get through it on her own.

  • @HerbMoore3
    @HerbMoore3 Месяц назад +1

    Nice Gates! Waste of $$$, apparently. 🤣

  • @claudiaarnold8469
    @claudiaarnold8469 Месяц назад +2

    Its cruel to get the horse in such a panic modus🙈🙈🙈absolutly senseless😢😢😢poor horse...bad trainer...

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  Месяц назад

      Not sure how you came to that conclusion…. I think you’ll find that my job was to calm her down!

  • @sunnysyl7
    @sunnysyl7 2 месяца назад +2

    Spellbinding …

  • @marciahenry3893
    @marciahenry3893 2 месяца назад +4

    Why put her saddle on, wierd

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад +3

      What's weird about putting a saddle on a horse that I am meant to train?

    • @songbirds3712
      @songbirds3712 2 месяца назад +2

      @@elitehorsemanship8765 I hope she replies , because her comment is puzzling. And to use her word…weird!

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  2 месяца назад

      @@songbirds3712 😂

  • @isacerro754
    @isacerro754 2 месяца назад +3

    Das arme Pferd!!!

  • @susanmayes1651
    @susanmayes1651 Месяц назад

    You got lucky that she didn't injure herself I am very disappointed in this video

  • @mskel2622
    @mskel2622 20 дней назад

    OTTB

  • @susanmayes1651
    @susanmayes1651 Месяц назад

    That was unnecessary stress I hope you checked her feet for hot and inappropriate first aid

  • @johnsmith-ht3sy
    @johnsmith-ht3sy 9 дней назад +1

    All these know it all's in the comments, truly awful people hang around horses.

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  8 дней назад +1

      It always comes when posting online. But I appreciate the support 😊😊

  • @lauralauren6432
    @lauralauren6432 10 дней назад

    Elite What? Its more important filming than getting the horse safe.

    • @elitehorsemanship8765
      @elitehorsemanship8765  8 дней назад

      Yep. I did think about running after her at 40mph but remembered my max is around 15mph and can last a few seconds.

  • @lindalape8493
    @lindalape8493 Месяц назад +1

    I prefer Ryan Rose's training methods. He doesn't use exhaustion to train a horse!

  • @barbfinke9020
    @barbfinke9020 21 день назад +1

    He should never of left her! She is now so worked up and scared! I’m not impressed with the way you train !

  • @RainierArtist
    @RainierArtist День назад

    The abused horse ran to what he hoped the safety of his stall But this monster came right in after him. I can tell just that by the way he leads the horse, he is an idiot. Training begins with leading. You walk beside a horse when leading you, and you don't drag him a couple of yards behind.

  • @brigitjacobs7262
    @brigitjacobs7262 2 месяца назад

    I would never ask this guy to train my horse

  • @user-zg8hi3nd1j
    @user-zg8hi3nd1j Месяц назад

    Her hind left leg appears to be limping somewhat.

  • @dianamcmullen6235
    @dianamcmullen6235 Месяц назад +1

    You Sir, are no trainer🤢

  • @lauralauren6432
    @lauralauren6432 10 дней назад

    Exactly what are you trying to teach her? Running as hell? All this 1800 BS cowboy abuse.

  • @anneflynn9614
    @anneflynn9614 27 дней назад

    You have no clue what you are doing.

  • @RainierArtist
    @RainierArtist День назад

    I worked as a proffesional groom at a saddlbred farm . I could never do it again the crimes i saw against horses in the name of money and prestiege. A sin.

  • @RainierArtist
    @RainierArtist День назад

    Im poweful look at me i traumatized a beautiful animal i have been graced to be near. Buddy horses are smart enough to know a gate is the way out of work. She would rsther be with other horses at liesure grazing wither shaking a fly or two off at peace and not with you believe me. That gate for horses is always going to lead to work or pasture to them. Which would you choose if you were a horse? Saddked up no bridle in flight mode with the man who put her to flight in the first place or the later. Out with her stablemates in relative peace without you nezrby. Go turn her loose with her friends come back in an hour whistle kiss or knicker for her and see if she has the time of day for you, she cant stand you. She tolerate you because she knows she had to deal with you the price for her liesure.

  • @RainierArtist
    @RainierArtist День назад

    A trainer that drags the horse behind him. You don't even know ow how to properly train to lead.