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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
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Комментарии • 267

  • @flyingpillarsinternational9776
    @flyingpillarsinternational9776 4 года назад +137

    I will never take my wife for granted ..this story is an eye opener to me

    • @judynjerimwaura943
      @judynjerimwaura943 4 года назад +11

      May the Lord bless your union and always find ways to cope together

    • @user-pi6bc1zw5p
      @user-pi6bc1zw5p 4 года назад +3

      God bless you for that..

  • @margaretmaina9430
    @margaretmaina9430 4 года назад +68

    This reminds me my dad since my mum died my dad he brought up 9 children's all alone we love you dad you are a strong man I have ever seen

  • @highlights6176
    @highlights6176 4 года назад +52

    This reminds me of my father, he raised and educated me. If you have your Mother, you are blessed. Take the chance to love her.

  • @wanjerimumbi8709
    @wanjerimumbi8709 4 года назад +38

    These men are the strongest men I know, right now. They've put themselves out there and showed us who they are. God grant them love and peace.

    • @Evalian198
      @Evalian198 4 года назад

      Very true

    • @hezronmuigai1807
      @hezronmuigai1807 4 года назад

      Take heart my brother . The Lord is on the thrown.Shalom.

  • @anne_mwangi_
    @anne_mwangi_ 4 года назад +28

    I've learnt to be the best wife if i can while i can when i can.. 😐🙁

  • @bryanjoseph970
    @bryanjoseph970 4 года назад +51

    Everyone taking their spouses for granted should know that people are missing such opportunities.
    I remember my high school principal telling us the importance of a river is only realised when it dries up.Brethren cherish your spouses when the river is still flowing.
    Be blessed 🙏

  • @janewambui6608
    @janewambui6608 4 года назад +17

    This is true.After loosing my husband 8yrs ago,the thought of remarrying is just not possible. Issue of comparison, is very real.

  • @paulngangah
    @paulngangah 4 года назад +17

    This story is really touching.I will do better and appreciate my wife more.I know better,i must do better!!!

  • @theresemaina1020
    @theresemaina1020 4 года назад +7

    I really respect these men for not remarrying. Despite the pain despite the struggles of trying to be both the father and the mother. It's not easy for sure.

  • @selpherpauline6424
    @selpherpauline6424 4 года назад +18

    😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔 i know and seen how much pain my dad went through after we lost our mum😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭God please 😢 I want to love and see my dad till the last day of life after Forever. I love my father so much and anything else will come after him . I celebrate all widow father they are the strongest people on this planet 🤞💯.

  • @MrKurenjiJNR
    @MrKurenjiJNR 4 года назад +29

    Happy father's Day to these legends, they deserve better.

  • @JC-el5ic
    @JC-el5ic 4 года назад +6

    It's so heart breaking to hear Roger Ogolla's story (my primary school art teacher). I did not know that he had lost his wife and his story on single parenthood. Pole sana mwalimu.

  • @winniewa37
    @winniewa37 4 года назад +11

    Widowers.. Most times they are overlooked, may the Lord help us to be intentional about standing with them 🙏

  • @judyjepchumba1638
    @judyjepchumba1638 4 года назад +30

    Also one dad to cellebrate, Tedd Josiah he is a strong man too who needs to hit this screens some day his story is great .

    • @faithkarimi5685
      @faithkarimi5685 4 года назад +2

      He'll be on the screen today with Grace Msalame

    • @judyjepchumba1638
      @judyjepchumba1638 4 года назад

      @@@faithkarimi5685 oooh wow thank youu i will make sure to cath that

  • @angiewamuchomba8106
    @angiewamuchomba8106 4 года назад +9

    Loosing a loved one is not easy,Only God Suppresses Death,You are strong God bless u...

  • @claremayaka8474
    @claremayaka8474 4 года назад +16

    Never take your spouses for granted no matter what

  • @misss7758
    @misss7758 4 года назад +4

    Life is painful for singles even more. They never had the comfort of the spouse. Some will never have kids. But the pain of widows and widowers is more socially accepted.

  • @macynyawira6452
    @macynyawira6452 4 года назад +5

    Losing a mum/wife is really tough.I never thought I would ever be deppressed in my life.

  • @virginiamuya56
    @virginiamuya56 4 года назад +13

    My great teacher Rodgers Ogolla he has raised great kids .

  • @odongonicholas1569
    @odongonicholas1569 4 года назад +14

    May God bless and protect these legends. They've offered what fatherhood is.

  • @lillymumbi.3969
    @lillymumbi.3969 4 года назад +3

    😭It broke my soul when this man said "if someone should leave, let it be the man" it's true men do suffer when they're windowed but most people don't really understand them.

    • @kihato80
      @kihato80 3 года назад

      I shared the same sentiments when my wife passed on. You feel so inadequate and realize that void all too well, in my times of grief and pain I prayed so many times for positions to be switched seeing my 1 year old crying and feeling so inadequate. Now we are 6 years old 😊

  • @dorcaskirigo118
    @dorcaskirigo118 4 года назад +2

    This is so refreshing that our men are getting in touch with their feelings even though it is through such a painful experience.

  • @simonkimani7062
    @simonkimani7062 4 года назад +2

    What an emotional story. Those fathers are the best. Lesson learned. I will never take my wife for granted. I will endeavor to be there for her forever

  • @maryndaba4651
    @maryndaba4651 4 года назад +10

    We lost our Dad in 2018. We really miss him and it has been really tough at times.But I know for sure, had it been the other way round, that my Mum passed before my Dad, I know my Dad would not survive a year. My Mum was my Dad's rock and she made sure that Dad had everything together. Made sure that Dad took his medicine everyday. They were so good together. So good. It would however, have been worse had it been the other way round. From what I have seen, men find it hard to cope after the loss of their wives.

    • @simonkimani7062
      @simonkimani7062 4 года назад +1

      True, we are strong physically but very weak at heart

    • @lornanaitore4735
      @lornanaitore4735 4 года назад +1

      Pole my dear, praying for you

  • @zoesoteria5327
    @zoesoteria5327 4 года назад +12

    I salute every wife and the men who step up for the family.

  • @agneskatuvee5523
    @agneskatuvee5523 4 года назад +10

    This made me cry, God bless you wonderful Dads for stepping in

  • @angelabuzz2691
    @angelabuzz2691 4 года назад +23

    There's importance in doing things together with your spouse.. like shopping..cooking..making bed discpline kids so when they are not there you have a clue..

  • @lynda78
    @lynda78 4 года назад +5

    It is great that they came up with a group to console each other. Praying for them and their families.

  • @connie7192
    @connie7192 4 года назад +4

    I'm so proud of this men. May God continue giving you strength.

  • @estherwanjiru2154
    @estherwanjiru2154 4 года назад +7

    Rose wangui.. thank you for giving us stories that is giving hope to society and educating us to

  • @olgarkitur7710
    @olgarkitur7710 2 года назад +1

    Being a widow and a widower is not easy. God will protect and provide for us all. Never judge single people know the story behind their singleness. Touching stories 😢

  • @gorogoro9693
    @gorogoro9693 4 года назад +1

    This made me cry coz it's 10yrs now since my husband passed away and i was left with my daughter when she was 3yrs.... But i can say am not only me we have single caring dads out there bravo

  • @shamixevents5102
    @shamixevents5102 4 года назад +2

    Listening to this just moved me since i recently lost my mom😥😥😥

  • @shirumama6489
    @shirumama6489 4 года назад +11

    May God continue comforting you, and everyone else who has lost their better half🙏

  • @Bahatiedit
    @Bahatiedit 4 года назад +3

    Lord I pray for Divine health and long life with my family, hubby me and our kids long life is our portion in Jesus name

  • @thedaringunravel
    @thedaringunravel 4 года назад +3

    This is deep, I felt sorry for the losses these men suffered, I don't have a clue of what they go through but I shed a tear.

  • @joyobessa1364
    @joyobessa1364 4 года назад +2

    A very beautiful and inspiring compilation! They are all super dads! May they continue to find peace! 🙏

  • @rukungahjohn4631
    @rukungahjohn4631 4 года назад +1

    Sure you can't replace, NTV thanks for the share. When you go Meru My Dad's success story is there. He raised up the 8 of including the 2yrs old. God's sufficient.

  • @annmaxwell1249
    @annmaxwell1249 4 года назад +1

    this remind me of my dad passed on in 1996. 25 yrs down the line my mom have been single. with 3girls babies we are grown n we left to abroad now mum is all by herself i feel like she need someone i wish she can get married again and have a company.she is 56 yrs . i will make sure she joins that group.

  • @smileboxbettie3736
    @smileboxbettie3736 4 года назад +5

    This has really made me cry.... Too emotional. May God see them through, Numbers 6:24-25.

  • @mercyowino2981
    @mercyowino2981 4 года назад +2

    You don't know strength until it's the only option,,Kudos to this heros.Death is cruel!!

  • @hobbygirlsworld1817
    @hobbygirlsworld1817 4 года назад +5

    Happy Father’s Day...May God continue giving you strength she was beautiful

  • @DocHub254
    @DocHub254 4 года назад +13

    Am moved by their stories. Things we take for granted. Waah!!!

  • @mvilika
    @mvilika 4 года назад +3

    Maybe the curriculum should be rechecked, content that children learn...it should be parents cook or do this and that and avoid gender role-ing'! Our curriculum should aim at bringing and educating our children to think broadly, well rounded.
    I am so touched by these stories. I feel their pains and also their bounce backs. Thank you for hosting this.

  • @kezndiangui7
    @kezndiangui7 2 года назад

    Having a dad as my mum and dad as well since I was 9 ,I have developed a higher respect for men out there....three children all alone with very little just love for us.... that's what makes me love my favorite dad ....he did his best and still doing the same till today....he tried to fill every inch he could.....love all dad's and much respect

  • @hopeinallah5112
    @hopeinallah5112 4 года назад +1

    Da vulnerability you have let us in is admirable . I never experienced a father's love so let me wish u happy fathers day dear ones

  • @patricrenison4362
    @patricrenison4362 4 года назад +1

    I never had the opportunity to grow with my dad but I believe dad's are great people. To those men who are growing up kids alone I want to congratulate you and wish you God's guidance. You truly great men.

  • @samuelmjomba4043
    @samuelmjomba4043 4 года назад +1

    Nothing is hard like loosing your partner. Just like a hand loosing one finger. Hard to cope. Take heart my brothers n sisters.

  • @terrywarui482
    @terrywarui482 4 года назад +1

    Such an emotional piece. Thank you for sharing your stories. Let's appreciate our spouses when they are still alive

  • @mpendamuziki
    @mpendamuziki 3 года назад +1

    Never take your spouse for granted. Losing a spouse is like losing half yourself. The pain in all these men is evident. Hope they take courage to soldier on.

  • @pamelarombo7940
    @pamelarombo7940 4 года назад

    This stories are really sad but encouraging too , this men are real men,they really had the love to their wives, l just love this ,God is watching over you,because you have children to take care of,,where there is children there is God always,,l have always raised my children alone,but the presence of God in the family has made me reach this far,,God is great l can tell you this without fear. Amen

  • @rosemarywambui8133
    @rosemarywambui8133 4 года назад +6

    I thought it's only widows goes ups and downs,I term it as a dark side of life, may God give enough grace to over come ,not easy at all

  • @VJMASTERMIND
    @VJMASTERMIND 4 года назад +11

    May God give you all the strength you need.

  • @hellenndungu4987
    @hellenndungu4987 4 года назад +18

    I think mother's should not die its painful

  • @margaretmuiru005
    @margaretmuiru005 4 года назад +2

    Men with Golden hearts...the grave yards tell it all...R.I.P Queens

  • @christinemwikali461
    @christinemwikali461 4 года назад

    Am so sudden to hear about the death of my friend Mrs Keboi she was the best with such a beautiful soul and smile. Be encouraged the Lord is our comfort 🙏

  • @noellasakwa4107
    @noellasakwa4107 4 года назад +2

    I thank God for my mom everyday.

  • @pamelamonyangi7125
    @pamelamonyangi7125 4 года назад +2

    Losing a loved one and a partner is a painful experience that time will heal. i dint know that even men go through such. Take heart and one thing for sure i can tell you, having been in these for the last 14 years, is that God is faithful, He will see you through. Spend time with Him and He will show you the way. Sorry for the lose

  • @ritaopiyo7163
    @ritaopiyo7163 4 года назад +1

    I feel for these men. you will only realize the importance of someone once she is gone. people should treat each other with love and respect.

  • @patriciaanyembe9441
    @patriciaanyembe9441 4 года назад +1

    Waaaa...may God continue giving you the peace of mind and strength you need! This was emotionally draining for me.

  • @blessedjackeykarii4612
    @blessedjackeykarii4612 4 года назад +11

    Who cooks at home😥😥 painful

  • @edwinoketch3364
    @edwinoketch3364 4 года назад

    Mike you are a strong pillar to your family. These are inspiration stories to overcome grief. Happy Father’s Day to all.

  • @miriammwangi1520
    @miriammwangi1520 4 года назад

    Am mesmerized by how much you loved your. wife I have always believed that men dont liove take heart brother and get another companion.

  • @KIM-xl6zs
    @KIM-xl6zs 4 года назад +3

    The first borns don't accept early, they just have to be strong for the others, I think I know mr chessana

  • @steveomondi2839
    @steveomondi2839 4 года назад +1

    The story is great. let me complement on the cutaways and how you've used them to add to the story. brilliantly done!

    • @simonkimani7062
      @simonkimani7062 4 года назад +1

      She told the story in the best way possible.The editing was super fine

  • @achiengnyasuba
    @achiengnyasuba 4 года назад

    It's never the same. And when you try to move on after and that next person hurts you. You close doors, never to be reopened. May God grant ppl in this situation peace that can only come from him.

    • @culateemma349
      @culateemma349 4 года назад +1

      It really hurts when you try to move on then you find it's the wrong decision you ever made.

  • @dorcusnjeri4251
    @dorcusnjeri4251 4 года назад +2

    Jeeez chess you are always strong it's hard to tell that you've gone through all this...and to all fathers who played the role of a dad and a mum at the same time we always celebrate you

  • @jazzwambu575
    @jazzwambu575 4 года назад +15

    The teacher should had ask why does the father cook not punising the kid.

    • @joanmungai7573
      @joanmungai7573 4 года назад +1

      True...felt sad for that kid😥😥got me sooo mad btw...smh

    • @Monnie_Noniot
      @Monnie_Noniot 4 года назад

      True.. some teachers thou. Nkt! !

    • @KIM-xl6zs
      @KIM-xl6zs 4 года назад

      The stupidity of this society

  • @metrinekaxoha8997
    @metrinekaxoha8997 4 года назад +1

    Great piece NTV, May God grant all widowers strength, resilience and wisdom.

  • @florriewairimu3408
    @florriewairimu3408 4 года назад +1

    Happy fathers day to this man and dear dad ..i wish i had a dad 😢

  • @glorykk1364
    @glorykk1364 4 года назад

    Wow! Very encouraging. May God bless you all for even when u were about to fail you can tell God still held you. May he give u happiness not just for your Kids to see but for your own personal joy. Be blessed

  • @marysteve1814
    @marysteve1814 4 года назад +2

    That thought of me passing away makes me reluctant of adding more kids. It's scarely. This dads are 1 in a million. Wengi wao watoto huteseka.

  • @mercylinenzaro1104
    @mercylinenzaro1104 2 года назад

    It's painful I am a widow I know the cry when everyone is asleep. Above all you are strong men

  • @lilianlee9775
    @lilianlee9775 4 года назад +5

    Great Ecncouragement..Death is so cruel.💔

  • @Joyful-gu5bj
    @Joyful-gu5bj 4 года назад

    Belated happy Father's Day to this amazing Fathers. May the Holy Spirit continue to strengthen you all. Congratulations to taking care of your children. God bless you all.

  • @faithgatwiry
    @faithgatwiry 4 года назад +2

    Oh my, may God bless those kids that were left with their mothers.

  • @hassanpixels5938
    @hassanpixels5938 4 года назад

    His strength to share the story. A very good story teller!

  • @fridajeremy6445
    @fridajeremy6445 4 года назад +2

    I lost my mom 5/5/2018 for the first time I saw my Dad crying, but to some extent some men suffer after losing their wives due to quilty cos they never treated them well when they where alive a wife anapelekwa kuishi bara & the man is in city na tu slayqueen.

    • @geoffreymwaura5733
      @geoffreymwaura5733 4 года назад

      Men May Almighty God help us to love our wife's always , because they mean great to us,,,,, Mungu wetu tupe upendo kabisaaaa, thanks mother's of our children kudos.

  • @Suesinging
    @Suesinging 4 года назад +1

    Woie mpaka tuchapo wanapikanga....may God give strength...

  • @rosegathungu6640
    @rosegathungu6640 4 года назад +7

    His father to the fatherless and husband to the widows! Take heart and know that God is with you all. Shalom

  • @janies3581
    @janies3581 Год назад

    I'm so proud of this gentleman

  • @giannazanelle8751
    @giannazanelle8751 4 года назад +1

    These dad's are very strong and a very good example to the society. May God bless them.

  • @cutecutecute7970
    @cutecutecute7970 4 года назад +1

    The most painful thing is when you know it that the father to your children is alive, and he seriously make sure he avoids those children, to avoid any responsibility,.

  • @jackieben1844
    @jackieben1844 4 года назад +1

    Have you realised all those men had beautiful wives...mungu kumbuka hawa baba

  • @nancynjoki9002
    @nancynjoki9002 4 года назад

    Sorry for the loss may our good Lord continue to help you accept those things you can't change.

  • @rukungahjohn4631
    @rukungahjohn4631 4 года назад +1

    That remends me what Dad used to say. He never remarried.

  • @karenmuthoka1574
    @karenmuthoka1574 4 года назад

    V touching.God bless you dads.May he continue upholding you as you take care of your children.

  • @valerieokoiti9010
    @valerieokoiti9010 4 года назад +2

    May God continue giving you all strength to endure 🙏🏽

  • @henixobuchunju6454
    @henixobuchunju6454 4 года назад +3

    Kudos Rose Wangui, such a nice piece

  • @njokiwaititu3964
    @njokiwaititu3964 4 года назад

    This is my former Boss...and my mentor @chess this is so sweet...

  • @kihahu248
    @kihahu248 4 года назад +8

    RIP my dear sister..u left 2 weeks old baby

  • @dennismuvaa6029
    @dennismuvaa6029 3 года назад +1

    So sad for these men. May they find peace and comfort

  • @kananu578
    @kananu578 4 года назад

    I salute those men may the good Lord keep them save to take care of their kids

  • @vokstheboss
    @vokstheboss 4 года назад +1

    I shed some tears after hearing stories from these men, where did death come from?

  • @lucykaranja3287
    @lucykaranja3287 4 года назад +5

    I know this first family. Fantastic people

  • @perismugo138
    @perismugo138 4 года назад

    The dads are so strong,may God continue give strength

  • @perismathenge1063
    @perismathenge1063 2 месяца назад

    Am a widow and i know its tough 😢😢😢

  • @dodosmile7744
    @dodosmile7744 4 года назад

    How painful it is to have a dad but you can't be with him because he decided to leave and listen to her mum ,ooooh God I miss him but only God knows why I love you thou

  • @wekesamoses5316
    @wekesamoses5316 4 года назад

    "There is no school on parenting. Its figured out. " Wise words from a father.
    May God strengthen and comfort us who have lost our loved ones.

  • @sharonjumba4648
    @sharonjumba4648 4 года назад

    My condolences to the young children who didn't have a chance of growing up with their mum and the husbands for loosing the love of their lives.
    I think it's time men learn how to do house chores just like women have to learn to provide, the future is unknown.
    Lastly, let's appreciate our spouses.