Halal Moaaz on Marriage, Dental School, TikTok & Western Muslim Struggles |

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

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  • @halalmoaaz
    @halalmoaaz 2 года назад +188

    It was a pleasure, thank you guys so much for having me on❤

    • @stephenjennings3478
      @stephenjennings3478 2 года назад +3

      As salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu my ahki Halal Moaaz your mash'Allâh name fits you according to your fiqh insh'Allâh
      الحمرلله

    • @TheRealNabil
      @TheRealNabil 2 года назад +3

      Yessir bro Mabrook🤞🏼

    • @softprod.1661
      @softprod.1661 2 года назад +4

      Mashallah i see potential in you!

    • @stephenjennings3478
      @stephenjennings3478 2 года назад +3

      As salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu my ahki Halal Moaaz my peace and blessing be upon you and you i.e. insh'Allâh and journey's may go on fisa billah may Allâh protect everything I named and i.e. to e.g. BISSMIALLAH AR RAHMAN AR RAHEEM if saying or hearing you insh'Allâh get 190 blessings Bara kallahu aficim khairun fi mana Allâh
      الحمرلله

    • @stephenjennings3478
      @stephenjennings3478 2 года назад +3

      Afwan excess me forgive me Allâh for not saying Nabil may peace be upon you insh'Allâh bara kallahu aficim khairun my ahki BISSMIALLAH AR RAHMAN AR RAHEEM hearing and saying insh'Allâh 190 blessings
      الحمرالله

  • @osama4889
    @osama4889 2 года назад +54

    You all should try to get ustadh Abu Taymiyyah on, he works with imran (dawah man), his knowledge is really beneficial tabarakAllah

    • @rumaanadil3481
      @rumaanadil3481 2 года назад +2

      Stop giving these salafis a platform please. I love your content but please be careful with these guys

    • @osama4889
      @osama4889 2 года назад +7

      @@rumaanadil3481 man tone Your self down, What even is a salafi? sOmEoNe wHo fOlLowS sAuDi? If thats your belief than you are wrong, a salafi is a follower of the quran and sunnah and the understanding of the salaf, the salaf meaning the righteous predecessors, the first three generation, their methodology more specifically , like the prophet pbuh said:
      The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "The best people are those of my generation, and then those who will come after them (the next generation), and then those who will come after them (i.e. the next generation), and then after them, there will come people whose witness will precede their oaths, and whose oaths will precede their witness. - Sahih al-Bukhari 6429
      Hope you understand now, salafi doesn’t mean following a specific sheikh today, cause that wouldnt even make sense with the word, salaf like I said meaning those who preceded us, and we mean by that the first three generations, following someone specifically today would be khalaf not salaf since they are present today, may Allah guide us all

    • @gogerama9973
      @gogerama9973 2 года назад +1

      @@osama4889 Aameen

  • @Kicki0044
    @Kicki0044 2 года назад +42

    SubhanaAllah it's 9pm here in Namibia, Africa I just got off the prayer mat after Isha crying my eyes out about the difficulties I'm facing with my non Muslim family and questioning where I'm meant to be. Stumbled across this while making dinner and here comes brother Anghel with the word at 26:35 about how maybe where you are is exactly where you are meant to be, SubhanaAllah. The points you brothers raised about the fitnah and opportunity to do dawah wherever you may be is 100% true. I did have moments thinking that perhaps me being facing the difficulties I've been facing on the daily basis to keep wearing my hijab to keep talking to Allah, to keep talking about Islam is probably a good thing for me, versus perhaps fleeing to a more comfortable place where I might get lazy with my deen. Allah knows best...but I truly appreciate what you brothers are talking about, it hit home and especially for me at this moment. Im taking this as a sign from Allah Swt. May Allah reward you all in your efforts brothers.

    • @asadullahsaaid3794
      @asadullahsaaid3794 2 года назад +4

      Well Said sister
      _May Allah ﷻ bless you sister & ease your affairs._ 🤲🏻

    • @gogerama9973
      @gogerama9973 2 года назад +3

      @@asadullahsaaid3794 aameen

    • @gogerama9973
      @gogerama9973 2 года назад +4

      Aameen

    • @Kicki0044
      @Kicki0044 2 года назад +3

      @@asadullahsaaid3794 ameen. Likewise brother. JazakAllah Khair

  • @SaadAli-kt2ox
    @SaadAli-kt2ox 2 года назад +10

    Alhamdulillah this brother was a great addition. Great chemistry between all of you. InshaaAllah would be great to have him on in the future

  • @selineren128
    @selineren128 2 года назад +16

    This has been the only podcast I've listened to carefully almost every second of on RUclips. I found your thoughts very valuable and you guys also gave me a completely different perspective on marriage. It was a really valuable conversation. I came because I know Moaaz but now I'm a subscriber. Greetings from Turkey. Assalamu alaikum, thank you for this video.

  • @asadullahsaaid3794
    @asadullahsaaid3794 2 года назад +37

    *Timestamps:*
    0:00 - Countdown
    5:12 - The 3 Muslims & Moaaz join
    5:25 - Backstory of the name Halal Moaaz
    6:19 - Background & Goals of Moaaz
    11:01 - Career Advice & the Myth of Passion
    17:30 - Rami's favorite job
    19:53 - Muslims living in the West vs Islamic countries
    25:02 - Becoming content with your habitat
    29:17 - Becoming Ready for Marriage
    33:07 - Marriage making a Mature Man
    36:29 - Requirements for marriage
    40:45 - Marriage status of the 3 Muslims
    41:15 - How to know if you're ready for marriage?
    45:52 - Trusting Allah's ﷻ plan when things don't work out
    49:04 - Anghel's view on being ready for marriage
    51:50 - Rami's advice for marriage
    54:41 - Men & Women being equal but not the same
    56:47 - Playful Chat
    57:50 - Achieving personal goals while being married
    1:01:03 - Importance of Istikhara & List
    1:02:29 - Advantages of being Married
    1:05:10 - Rami leaves
    1:06:09 - Dangers of Unrealistic Expectations
    1:11:38 - Lessons from College
    1:13:47 - Addiction of Social Media
    1:14:21 - Muslim Men showing their wives online
    1:16:42 - Female Subscriber liking Moaaz
    1:17:40 - Modern women not focusing on motherhood
    1:18:14 - Interacting with the chat
    1:19:23 - The Key to The 3 Muslims' Consistency
    1:23:23 - The 3 Muslims' In Person Podcast Studio
    1:24:14 - Importance of Discipline
    1:25:31 - Closing Remarks & Wrapping Up
    SubhanAllah 💖🤍❤️
    Amazing & Insightful Discussion 👍🏻👌🏻
    _May Allah ﷻ bless you all and accept your efforts._ 🤲🏻

  • @danaeskandarani4251
    @danaeskandarani4251 2 года назад +6

    Mash'aAllah! Jazakum Allahu Khiran for this beneficial episode! May Allah (SWT) grant y'all goodness in this life and the next! Ameen! Looking forward to the in person episodes insh'aAllah!

  • @Marawan
    @Marawan 2 года назад +2

    Beautiful guest with beautiful hosts. May Allah bless you guys

  • @TheAbdlMalik
    @TheAbdlMalik 2 года назад +4

    37:09 - Man… Rami surely is wise. Learning from my Lil Ahki. Jazakallah Khair Ahki.

  • @MadAdz64
    @MadAdz64 2 года назад +5

    I could of been like him if I didn't start smoking weed we have things in common.. May Allah forgive our shortcomings ameen.

  • @aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
    @aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 2 года назад +1

    loved every minute of this, mashaAllah!

  • @sunduso2511
    @sunduso2511 2 года назад +2

    I was watching social dilemma on Netflix and bro I had to stop watching it, like I couldn’t finish it coz I was getting so creeped out, that documentary was so scary to watch but inshallah I’ll go back and finish it :)

  • @sanjidahahmed3823
    @sanjidahahmed3823 2 года назад +1

    Absolutely loved this!!!!

  • @Peywend712
    @Peywend712 Год назад +1

    alhamdulilah!

  • @sisterwaad
    @sisterwaad 2 года назад +9

    1:17:50 this💯 The greatest deception the shayateen played was to convince women that their roles as mothers in the society was not as important as careers and that in order to be part of society they need to get out of their homes, in other words they alienated Motherhood to seem like a role out of society, that's why you hear a lot of feminists saying the reasons they wanna work is to be a part of society, little do they know the role of Motherhood is not only a role but the most important role in society.
    The main objective of Feminism was to get all women into the work forces (economy) and then the ruling class raise their children in educational institutes and like this comment mentioned day care centres which were greatly advocated for by Gloria Steinem and other feminist icons during Feminism's Zeitgeist of the 1960s. The school becomes the parents, they now raise the children into secularist mind controlled corporate slaves and you who were busy chasing you career will lose you children, if you can even beget them to begin with.
    It was pivotal for them to get children (ages below 7) into their system due to the low frequency of the brain in that time making them more susceptible to programming, since at this age their values and perspectives are being formed. Their fitrah is at it's purest most fragile state and if they corrupt it then it's hard to get it back.
    Furthermore there is a more deeper insight in this regard and that is the one of trust, from my studies I have devised that there are 3 stages of Trust Bonding between mother and children. That is, the bond of trust (below 7, created through dependency and time) which turns into the bond of guidance (b/w 7-14yrs, manifestation of trust...when the trust is established with the secular school instead of you they believe everything they are taught without question, over you because they don't trust you) and that develops into the bonding of friendship which is only established through trust and guidance. This demonstrates why the importance of recruiting children into school systems as early as possible and away from mothers (destruction of motherhood) in the first 7 yrs in particular was so important because when they take over Bonding of Trust that child is now theirs and not yours. They become the parents of your children.

  • @zaidhernandez4601
    @zaidhernandez4601 2 года назад +1

    Very insightful

  • @TheMrpalid
    @TheMrpalid 2 года назад +7

    Very few women who can work demanding career like doctor or dentist and be a high value wife . Most of them just looking to keep their money and they spend 60+ hours a week for work rather than for husband or family

    • @cooljool1
      @cooljool1 2 года назад

      correct, economically dysfunctional

  • @qasis42
    @qasis42 2 года назад +6

    Why would anyone need Instagram/tik tok etc? The harms outweigh any good. Unless your using it for business or dawah purposes. Its not worth it really.

  • @saaleha6603
    @saaleha6603 2 года назад +12

    Awesome podcast with such important topics!Trust when you completely give into Allahs plans for you, you feel such a burden has been lifted from your shoulders. But you need to completely submit your affairs, be it educational, personal, social, religious ect. Trust the journey that's been laid out for you ☺️Also! Allahumma barik! 🎊🎊 Both FINALLY getting hitched and joining the marriage club 😂! Feel like my younger siblings are getting married MashaAllah 😭😄 Allah grant you both pious and riteous spouses and happy fulfilling marriages ameeen!

    • @The3Muslims
      @The3Muslims  2 года назад +2

      Ameen

    • @stephenjennings3478
      @stephenjennings3478 2 года назад +1

      As salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu Saaleha reals words that came out of your color bone insh'Allâh may Allâh reward you to also sister love the hijab real women wear real hijab sister bara kallahu aficim khairun Taqabballahu minna wa minkum fi mana Allâh sister BISSMIALLAH AR RAHMAN AR RAHEEM sister thats 190 blessings for you saying plus reading
      الحمرلله

  • @_lojayn
    @_lojayn 2 года назад +2

    nice episode 👍🏻

  • @shosho3166
    @shosho3166 2 года назад +8

    This way of thinking will only end up with men marrying beyond their prime or not even getting married. I was a nut case before I got married I was robbing drug dealers selling drugs just a complete thug I smoked weed you name it I done it. I fell in love and got married right away because I knew That’s a must. I wasn’t ready to marry so I thought I was still smoking still had the urge to do bad things but step by step I stopped all my bad habits because I knew it’s not just me anymore if I continue this they will speak ill of my wife it wasn’t easy but I did it alhamdulilah today I’m free from my old life, marriage is what calmed me down today when I look at my age group the majority that are married are ex criminals the ones who studies are still single living in their mum’s basement because society keeps telling them that you are not ready but the reality is nobody is ready this something you learn step by step the same thing with kids you don’t provide for them Allah does so why are you scared. Don’t be 40 years old trying to have kids you will regret it!

    • @cooljool1
      @cooljool1 2 года назад

      speak for yourself. men in their 40s can easily get married and have kids. a man's prime booms later than that of a woman

    • @shosho3166
      @shosho3166 2 года назад

      @@cooljool1 I never said they couldn’t but good luck chasing around a teenager in your 60s if you even make it that far inshAllah.

  • @ifrakhan200
    @ifrakhan200 2 года назад +2

    That currency was rupees (India and Pakistan's currency)

  • @stephenjennings3478
    @stephenjennings3478 2 года назад +2

    As salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu my ahki's my phone Android ariostrate is old didn't know it forgive Allâh. thats why I sercribed

  • @djahsuahsb2116
    @djahsuahsb2116 2 года назад +2

    Asalamualaykum guys right now I feel like I just lost half of my sanity. I wasted 1 hour of my life watching x rated haram videos and I just feel like a piece of me has been lost, I repent almost everyday for the past 2 years but nothing has changed so inshallah if you have any advice please let me know because at this point I'm gonna see a doctor

    • @mhdlbn02
      @mhdlbn02 2 года назад +5

      Brother, I advise you to watch the video of Aanghel talking about coping mechanisms. Thereafter sit with yourself, repent sincerely as if it is your last and continue praying ON TIME. If you keep praying on time sincerely (perhaps go to the masjid in your first weeks and see it for yourself) and read the Quran, always seek Allah and spend only the necessary time on electronics, I guarantee you will succeed in the end my brother. Keep increasing your good deeds while being consistent on it and you will succeed in this world and in the hereafter no matter what struggle you face.

    • @osmanbey8796
      @osmanbey8796 2 года назад +1

      Bro repentance is for your relationship with Allah. But its not going to change your body & mind. U have to change your daily habits. I guarantee you probably have a poor diet, dont go to the gym regularly & aren’t doing a job that challenges you.
      What you need is not a doctor. You need to clean up your diet, start lifting weights at the gym 5 days a week & you need to change your job

    • @Prosperity85
      @Prosperity85 Год назад

      Take steps that will strengthen your deen like, 5 daily prayer, good Muslim friends, stick to Islam content and material and always go to the Mosque 🤲🏾👆🏾

  • @abdimalikmohamed1432
    @abdimalikmohamed1432 10 месяцев назад

    What was the movie moaz recommended to watch on Netflix

    • @hadeela8819
      @hadeela8819 7 месяцев назад

      "the social dilemma" highly recommend. used this concept during one of my classes and haven't been into social since

  • @stephenjennings3478
    @stephenjennings3478 2 года назад +3

    As salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu ahki's I been salbent I stopped counting at 20+ I die this way having sex is scary if Allâh doesn't say AMEEN to a righteous muslimina but you half to be from prison but death set on my shoulder in one day theirs la comparisons
    الحمرلله

  • @0xlol64
    @0xlol64 2 года назад +2

    100 rupees is 1.29 dollars

  • @softprod.1661
    @softprod.1661 2 года назад +1

    Bro rami. A nassiha from me is to get better groomed. You look alittle bit dusty

  • @islamtube2672
    @islamtube2672 2 года назад +4

    DAILY DHIKR TO REMEMBER ALLAH (SWT)
    SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, Subhan-Allahi 'l-`adheem (Glory be to Allah, and Praise, Glory be to Allah, the Supreme)
    Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the balance, they are loved by the Most Merciful One." [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:67, Sahih Muslim, #4:2071]
    2. Whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi (Glory be to Allah and Praise Him) a hundred times during the day, his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea
    [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:168, Sahih Muslim; #4:2071]
    Abu Dharr reported that the Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) said, "Shall I tell you the words that Allah loves the most?" I said: "Yes, tell me, O Messenger of Allah." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The words dearest to Allah are: subhanAllah wa bihamdihi”. [ Muslim and at-Tirmidhi.]
    3. La Hawla wa la Quwatta illa Billah (There is no Might or Power except with Allah)
    [the above is] a treasure from the treasures of Paradise.[Sahih al-Bukhari; al-Fath al-Bari #11:213, Sahih Muslim #4:2076]
    4.SubhanAllah, walHamdulilah, wa La illaha ilAllahu, waAllahu Akbar (Glory be to Allah, All Praise is for Allah, There is No God but Allah, Allah is the Greatest)
    The above are mentioned as the four most beloved words to Allah. It does not matter with which one of them is begun.[Sahih Muslim; #3:1685]
    Abu Sa`id (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) said, "Perform the enduring goods deeds (al-baaqiyaat al-SaliHaat) more frequently." They asked, "What are these enduring good deeds?" The Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) replied: Takbir [Allahu Akbar], Tahlil [la ilaha illallah], Tasbih [Subhan'Allah], alhamdulillah, and la hawla wa la quwwata illa billah.
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