The lady with the newborn...So sad :( I was in an almost similar situation and what Lyd has said is what I did. I committed to bettering myself so I would feel great about myself again. It took me 1yr+ to feel like an actual person and not a complete loser. A lot of tears were shed but praying daily about it really helped me cause I truly believed I was the problem cause on top of being 20+ Kgs heavier, I also had no job so my esteem was in the pits and it felt like he was doing me this huge favor. As soon as you start feeling good about yourself, your BS threshold will drop significantly. The day I left that house, I had not even planned on it. It took one condescending tone and I was out the door. It's exactly 2yrs ago now, I'm planning my move from my folks' house, I have a great job, I lost the baby weight, I feel GREAT! Please feel encouraged mama that your best days are yet to come and you will come out of this sooo much better than you can fathom. Utilize your support system by talking to them and asking for the help you feel like you need. God uses people to help us when we're stuck. Praying for you bc that's TOUGH!
Been watching for a while and didn't even realise i wasn't subscribed. Henceforth i will make a conscious effort to like every episode i watch. From Naija, love always.
When Lydia said Shame is when you fall short of societal standards while guilt is when you fall short of personal standards, that tagged at my soul......like woooow
The spark dying in the friendship is simply us outgrowing them honestly. We are ever-growing. Just find your own place and ask for space. People showing off spouses should be a personal decision not for a brand or content or whatever. Are you okay with it? That is what matters so that you do not have to battle sleepless nights over posting or not posting. And posting spouses definitely exposes them more but even the ones you do not post can still have the same issues. When I found out my sister was reading my diary, I started writing things intentionally for her to read 🤣🤣and it was hilarious. She had to confront me and admit she was reading it, I think she learnt her lesson but I could never apologise for that too.
The lady with the cheating husband and a baby, love on your self baby girl. Giving birth affects your esteem in many ways,but love yourself, know that you are whole, you brought life to this world and that alone should make you celebrate yourself, give yourself time away from the man and you will begin to love and appreciate yourself. Lose that baby weight whenever you feel ready not to make him happy. We love you. Love you Lydia and Murugi from the 256
Wait,I think I have too much to say.First women should stop feeling woiye after posting the love of your life then things go south, sis you enjoyed while it lasted so walk with your head high.secondly whether you're married or not kindly note that no man will go for months without making out,not to mention a year.nooo...I refuse
I started watching you guys recently and i rem 3 consecutive days I would binge your videos while I’m eating or taking break from my assignments. You’re such a ball of energy and fun to watch XX💛
Whether your relationship is gonna work out or not, it doesn't depend on posting him. Also not posting him is not a guarantee that it will work. Live in the moment.
Actually for that second last dilema , the reason why she doesn't get wet when with the guys she likes is simply because as a lady you're worried about what the guy will think about you, your body and the sex generally, because you care so much about what he thinks about you so it disturbs you so much thus preventing you from enjoying the sex even when you want to, since you're so concious the whole time about whats happening as opposed to just enjoying the moment. And when you're having the sex with someone you don't like, it doesn't matter what this guy thinks about you, cause you don't like him anyway so its easy to just be in the moment because the aftermath of it doesn't matter to you.
Friendships are seasonal. If someone is ment for your future they still will come around again but in the now one should move on. Can happen as a result of marriage, growth in job or becoming a patent. Priorities do change.
Lovely content . The dilemma that involves coming at you as a woman ....wooooh girl just dont ..I dealt with this nonsense before coming to realise ...the lady was an ex with ill motives.
This last dilemma, i feel like depending on the level of friendship, having stumbled upon this info, I'd want to have a conversation about it with this friend. Because I'd want to have a friend who can vouch for me and in this situation if my friend thinks i stole from her, then she wouldn't vouch for me if she heard it elsewhere
Two emotions that I despise, fear & shame coz they will both paralyze u. When Lydia so eloquently said,"Shame is falling short of societal standards whilst guilt is falling short of ya own standard," I said P.R.E.A.C.H! Let's always work hard to remove those two shackles frm our lives...unless offcourse u've committed a heinous crime then definitely reside in the sunken place wallowing in both ya shame & guilty.
Once you meet a man who loves you... they'll always communicate if they need you to move a certain way... otherwise a man who loves you..loves you through and through
I have related so well with the friendships ending dilemma. We outgrew each other but she somehow wants me around to listen to her. Am empathetic but am uncomfortable juu kila saa ni mashida zake bila solutions. Nili slide tu
I love watching you guys , i don't have many friends actually I don't have close friends I am my own close friend 😅 is that normal ,I like doing life alone with my son but I have people I talk to ,I can't call them close friends
Regarding moving in with your boyfriend it’s true people even your own close friends give u that kastatement that after the honeymoon period things will change but in my case nothing changed and when it comes to posting each other, we used to post each other so often but then I realized not everyone is wishing u well n so i stoped, I only post once in a blue moon on occasion
Lol not the “come to me as a woman DMs” hehehheheeee lord save us. I personally enjoy when I see thriving authentic relationship seasons, I learn a lot but hopefully not at the detriment of the influencers mental health or relationship.
I love you Radies' energy. Since mumekataa #BiGSis so then you will be #cuzin 😅🙌 I listened to this episode on #CastBox. I am watching all of these episodes on YT. Thank you both for your energy and honesty. 🌻💚
Well........ Posting my relationship on socials is a big NO... why? Sooo i dated this man for 7yrs and we even got a child together only for him to go overseas (to secure the bag) and he started treating me soo badly and he became soo disrespectful 😒. He left me 5months pregnant and till date he has never come to see baby.My child is 4yrs now. Yoh!!we were goals out here and i knew this is it for me so Posting him was not a big deal 🤷♀️🤷♀️ Anyway we broke up last year but it has not been easy feeling rejection especially 🙃 I really have a hard time trusting men 🤔🤔🤔‼️‼️‼️
Been listening in & just realised not subscribed yet. Yeah, don't read people's personal stuff. I'm in that not wanting to hear,see or hang out with a friend.Feels mean , but i just want to be as I sieve on what it is all these about internally.
You're so wrong! Big weddings were back as soon as lockdown was lifted in 2020! Even in 2020, in the thick of Covid, people were having 700 pax weddings.
I love it when my intuition tells me what to do and it's always right About posting your man or woman on media, this should be a personal basis and how comfortable you are in the relationship
Weeuh the way Joane got shook on the third dilemma🤣🤣🤣. Personally, I feel if you let us see your man in your happy times let us know when you guys part ways. We invest a lot in consuming your content together.
"The reason alot of time you're so obsessed a toxic man is because, sex is the only time you experience the intimacy you're looking for ."I felt that
#FACTS
The lady with the newborn...So sad :(
I was in an almost similar situation and what Lyd has said is what I did. I committed to bettering myself so I would feel great about myself again. It took me 1yr+ to feel like an actual person and not a complete loser. A lot of tears were shed but praying daily about it really helped me cause I truly believed I was the problem cause on top of being 20+ Kgs heavier, I also had no job so my esteem was in the pits and it felt like he was doing me this huge favor.
As soon as you start feeling good about yourself, your BS threshold will drop significantly. The day I left that house, I had not even planned on it. It took one condescending tone and I was out the door. It's exactly 2yrs ago now, I'm planning my move from my folks' house, I have a great job, I lost the baby weight, I feel GREAT! Please feel encouraged mama that your best days are yet to come and you will come out of this sooo much better than you can fathom. Utilize your support system by talking to them and asking for the help you feel like you need. God uses people to help us when we're stuck. Praying for you bc that's TOUGH!
Girllll wooow!!that so inspiringg
This is such great advice
❤
Been watching for a while and didn't even realise i wasn't subscribed. Henceforth i will make a conscious effort to like every episode i watch. From Naija, love always.
The triangle is Sex, Friendship and Respect. Don't settle until you have found all three
When Lydia said Shame is when you fall short of societal standards while guilt is when you fall short of personal standards, that tagged at my soul......like woooow
The spark dying in the friendship is simply us outgrowing them honestly. We are ever-growing. Just find your own place and ask for space. People showing off spouses should be a personal decision not for a brand or content or whatever. Are you okay with it? That is what matters so that you do not have to battle sleepless nights over posting or not posting. And posting spouses definitely exposes them more but even the ones you do not post can still have the same issues.
When I found out my sister was reading my diary, I started writing things intentionally for her to read 🤣🤣and it was hilarious. She had to confront me and admit she was reading it, I think she learnt her lesson but I could never apologise for that too.
The lady with the cheating husband and a baby, love on your self baby girl. Giving birth affects your esteem in many ways,but love yourself, know that you are whole, you brought life to this world and that alone should make you celebrate yourself, give yourself time away from the man and you will begin to love and appreciate yourself.
Lose that baby weight whenever you feel ready not to make him happy. We love you.
Love you Lydia and Murugi from the 256
You know you are a die hard inbetweener when you confirm what day is today😍😍..love the surprise.
Wait,I think I have too much to say.First women should stop feeling woiye after posting the love of your life then things go south, sis you enjoyed while it lasted so walk with your head high.secondly whether you're married or not kindly note that no man will go for months without making out,not to mention a year.nooo...I refuse
Totally agree. When things are good jibambe..zikienda south cry, heal and move..no shame..its just life
@@gracethuku4555 exactly and didn't come with a manual
😂😂😂 when Murugi said, 'Wow Mike, look at my Mike '
I agree with her on that though.
Murugi is so smart in that pink ..I love u girl and Lydia toooo thanks for the talk❤️
That dilemma of the married lady who has a baby. WHAT IS HAPPENING?! Weh! Love from Namibia 🇳🇦
I started watching you guys recently and i rem 3 consecutive days I would binge your videos while I’m eating or taking break from my assignments. You’re such a ball of energy and fun to watch XX💛
The lady and the husband dilemma🥺🥺🥺...hugs and kisses baby girl
Whether your relationship is gonna work out or not, it doesn't depend on posting him. Also not posting him is not a guarantee that it will work. Live in the moment.
FACTS!
Joan had to say goodnight as fast as possible🤣🤣🤣🤣
Murugi make up is on point
Actually for that second last dilema , the reason why she doesn't get wet when with the guys she likes is simply because as a lady you're worried about what the guy will think about you, your body and the sex generally, because you care so much about what he thinks about you so it disturbs you so much thus preventing you from enjoying the sex even when you want to, since you're so concious the whole time about whats happening as opposed to just enjoying the moment. And when you're having the sex with someone you don't like, it doesn't matter what this guy thinks about you, cause you don't like him anyway so its easy to just be in the moment because the aftermath of it doesn't matter to you.
Friendships are seasonal. If someone is ment for your future they still will come around again but in the now one should move on. Can happen as a result of marriage, growth in job or becoming a patent. Priorities do change.
The special moment for me is the "its definitely TNI' then I scream alone. Looove you ladies from SA
Lovely content . The dilemma that involves coming at you as a woman ....wooooh girl just dont ..I dealt with this nonsense before coming to realise ...the lady was an ex with ill motives.
I love watching you guys..I have subscribed on all podcast platform but I prefer watching watching you guys on RUclips
Me am so used to Lyd sitting on the right 😂😂
🥰🥰🥰 Wednesday joyous feeling on a Tuesday Soo nice
This last dilemma, i feel like depending on the level of friendship, having stumbled upon this info, I'd want to have a conversation about it with this friend. Because I'd want to have a friend who can vouch for me and in this situation if my friend thinks i stole from her, then she wouldn't vouch for me if she heard it elsewhere
Two emotions that I despise, fear & shame coz they will both paralyze u.
When Lydia so eloquently said,"Shame is falling short of societal standards whilst guilt is falling short of ya own standard," I said P.R.E.A.C.H!
Let's always work hard to remove those two shackles frm our lives...unless offcourse u've committed a heinous crime then definitely reside in the sunken place wallowing in both ya shame & guilty.
I love you girls,I learn a lot about myself through you. You are such good girls.
Tmi its not just kenyaaaaan's kuna tanzanians uku aaaaaaaa
You guys are authentic, the level of intelligence and approaching matters with kindness is beautiful. You are a matured duo love you guys
Once you meet a man who loves you... they'll always communicate if they need you to move a certain way... otherwise a man who loves you..loves you through and through
Lydia; So ghost?
Murugi; Not ghost....okay ghost
🤣🤣🤣
i like that, '"dare you be comfortable with not doing things the way everybody else does it..."
I have related so well with the friendships ending dilemma. We outgrew each other but she somehow wants me around to listen to her. Am empathetic but am uncomfortable juu kila saa ni mashida zake bila solutions. Nili slide tu
Aki the dilemmas are so REAL! Thanks guys for always coming through for in betweeners! Always a vibe to watch you. Oh and your advice is sound!
Its Murugi for me when she said "cheating"🤣🤣🤣
I love watching you guys , i don't have many friends actually I don't have close friends I am my own close friend 😅 is that normal ,I like doing life alone with my son but I have people I talk to ,I can't call them close friends
That makes us two 😊, hello there
Me too... My personal person is my daughter. We hangout together,travel do dates and I like it
me too✋🏿✋🏿
Same here
This is so me.... I trust noone apart from my son!!
Great point there about the wedding and honoring family during that process, especially in Africa!
I really feel for that lady with a newborn, that's too much sending her love and light, may she get the confidence to choose her happiness.
Hey in between us finally another episode is out the last episode was epic 🔥
This was Awesome!!..The real in between ...Great job..Thanks Sisters❤❤
Regarding moving in with your boyfriend it’s true people even your own close friends give u that kastatement that after the honeymoon period things will change but in my case nothing changed and when it comes to posting each other, we used to post each other so often but then I realized not everyone is wishing u well n so i stoped, I only post once in a blue moon on occasion
Lol not the “come to me as a woman DMs” hehehheheeee lord save us. I personally enjoy when I see thriving authentic relationship seasons, I learn a lot but hopefully not at the detriment of the influencers mental health or relationship.
Murugi in pink😍😍🔥
I love you Radies' energy. Since mumekataa #BiGSis so then you will be #cuzin 😅🙌 I listened to this episode on #CastBox. I am watching all of these episodes on YT. Thank you both for your energy and honesty. 🌻💚
60K Subscribers is that you?
Waaaiitttt on a Tuesday..
Yeyyyyyy
Well........ Posting my relationship on socials is a big NO... why?
Sooo i dated this man for 7yrs and we even got a child together only for him to go overseas (to secure the bag) and he started treating me soo badly and he became soo disrespectful 😒. He left me 5months pregnant and till date he has never come to see baby.My child is 4yrs now.
Yoh!!we were goals out here and i knew this is it for me so Posting him was not a big deal 🤷♀️🤷♀️
Anyway we broke up last year but it has not been easy feeling rejection especially 🙃
I really have a hard time trusting men 🤔🤔🤔‼️‼️‼️
Hugs gal
Oh my ...hugs
Always a vibe every week great to always turning in
Been listening in & just realised not subscribed yet. Yeah, don't read people's personal stuff. I'm in that not wanting to hear,see or hang out with a friend.Feels mean , but i just want to be as I sieve on what it is all these about internally.
When Murugi says Steven .... My heart Mbwa😂
😂😂😂😂
This episode's title had me rolling on the floor 🤣🤣the Og inbetweeners gerrit.
Happy to watch girls that inspire to wake up and be a doer. Mob love
Emotional damage, girls people have being through a lot.
I'm really feeling for the married lady🥺....makes me just fear marriages
one children" ...one child" ..🤣🤣ugh I just love these two. always watching ..
Awwwwh on a Tuesday ❤️ what a surprise😍😍
The way i rhyme with u guys when you say its definitely TMI....
Nooooo lydiaa🤣🤣🤣am just with my shosho took me out...factsss
#1m views loading 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ummm,, am I allowed to ask about yesterday?😅😆I was halfway in mahn, anyway, excited to watch the rest😘
same happened to me and I was like aaaiii🤔🤔
Grateful to always learn something in each episode 😍😍 I love y’all TMI family🤍🫶
I have just discovered your channel and I love you guys already
Could we please get an episode on that triangle(committment, sexual chem and friendship)because I think I will finally be able to define my dilemma
Lyd's dress😍😍
on a Tuesday 😛 and here I was waiting for Wednesday
Beautiful content..keep going ladies 💕💕
Emotional damage 😭😭
2 videos per week detected😊❤❤❤
You two would exhaust me in a convo!
But you look like you've got that good good😋
Great advice guys
Loved this episode!
I was so confused I even checked my day and time...are we at 2 episodes per week?? 💃💃💃
It’s TMI O clock ⏰
can we talk about being gay in kenya?
It's crazy how I will get mad at you if you ever not post😠,,,it's always TMI all the way 🎉🎉🤗🤗🤗❤️
the jaw drop at 26:58 omg!
I would love to know what the friend said in her diary after getting her cash.
You're so wrong! Big weddings were back as soon as lockdown was lifted in 2020! Even in 2020, in the thick of Covid, people were having 700 pax weddings.
I love it when my intuition tells me what to do and it's always right
About posting your man or woman on media, this should be a personal basis and how comfortable you are in the relationship
Weeuh the way Joane got shook on the third dilemma🤣🤣🤣.
Personally, I feel if you let us see your man in your happy times let us know when you guys part ways. We invest a lot in consuming your content together.
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣factssssss
true!!!!!!
Kwani Leo ni Wednesday??😳😳
I know right, hahaha I had to reconfirm
Kwani when is today?
Is it Wednesday?
I'm just with my cucu😂😂😂😂😂
Lyd you are shouting😂😂😂
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
🎉🎉🎉
on time today
Steven caught strays 😭
Thanks for the good advices you girls are giving us.
Haiya 😂😂😂😂
❤️❤️
Tuesdays feels so lovely much love sisters ♥️
Aki nawapenda bureee
I thought Murugi would cry back there 😂😂😭❤️
Me too
🍷🍷🍷
Is it Wednesday or am using a wrong calendar 😳😳
I'm here...
I know am late but never late than never
It is so sad being with a child and unsupportive man. That lady made a good move by reaching out. It shall be well.🤗
Lydia with "problematic"😂