Girl, you walk into that court room like you own it💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻. Don’t let him see you sweat! The judge is going to find out what kind of a man he is by not taking care of his family. You got this! What would Gary advise you to do? Make Gary proud and be strong!! His family will understand you missing the service. ❤
I’m with Theresa Curtin @theresacurrin6395, her post 3 days ago. I’ve just heard your news from watching my dear friend Angela Kerr and am happy to be a part of the ‘Sisterhood’ that looks after each other. God Bless you♥️🙏🏻♥️
Hi Tina, I was so touched by your candidness! I know you are under great stress right now. I never told you this but I feel compelled to share with you that I found you on RUclips right after I lost my beloved husband of 39 years to Covid-19. I instantly fell in love with your British accent (I live in USA) and your conversational style and your creativity. There were very many days when I did not want to go on living without my husband, and for the life of me I didn’t know how I would possibly get through the day! The only thing I could think to do was to put on your videos and watch them one after another after another, because your voice and your cheerful demeanor relieved my horrible anxiety. So - we, your viewers, owe you a massive THANK YOU! May God be with you tomorrow! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
You will climb this mountain and reach the top , the sun will shine and Gary will be there with you . To everyone following Tina in this crap time please head over to her shop and buy some beautiful papers and journals . We crafters need to stick together sending much love and hugs to you and your family Tina ❤
Tina, my heart is breaking for you. You’re showing so much courage in the face of difficult circumstances. Gary understands and know’s what you’re going through more than anyone else. FEEL HIS STRENGTH and know that he is still somehow with you. Keep your faith and please know that you needn’t be ashamed. I, too, went through a difficult divorce and ended up with a jumble of feelings and not knowing what the future held or how I would EVER get through it. But, I did and so will you. This isn’t meant to be harsh, but know that this, too, shall pass. Try not to worry about the future, as every day will take care of itself. Please know that there are many of us out here who are your cheerleaders who care. Your sweet dog will be there to lick your tears and see you through . . . The rest of us will pray.
I know you don't know me. But is there some how all her fans could set up a fund for her? No one should have to deal with all this. What a jerk of a husband. What do you think we all could do for her?
I just bought her a coffee… you get to choose how many. She has this option set up on her RUclips channel to support her that way. Man, she’s really going through a lot, too much. I hope we can all contribute a little something, it all adds up. Even prayers send a ripple of love and kindness into the stream.
God love you. Praying He blesses you with all your needs met SOON and more. Keep looking up. I am sorry you have so much on your plate...you are dealing with so much. My sympathy to you in the loss of your dear friend, Gary. I am so sorry for your pain. You are a strong woman. The Lord will bless you. He knows your needs. God bless and thank you for all you do. I love your work. Praying.🙏
SUBS-- PLEASE READ. I think if we all throw in a few dollars, even one dollar, we can make a difference in Tina’s situation at the moment. I can throw in $10. I wish it was more but at this time that is all I can manage. Tina has done so much for all of us, kept us company when we were lonely, taught us how to make junk journals and gave us all lots of smiles and giggles. It’s time for us to try to help her. If you can’t make a donation maybe you can say a prayer for her or leave a positive message.
I would love to help Tina. She has given so so much to all of us! What would be the best way? Like to do it thru the “Thanks” button or the “Buy Me A Coffee” ?
Please know you have nothing to be ashamed of. You have given so much to this community. We all go through difficult and scary situations, it took a lot of courage to share what you’re dealing with. Prayers and positive thoughts for tomorrow. I bet Gary knew how much you valued his friendship so he would understand. Sending you a big hug. Hang in there❤ ,,
Oh Tina...I saw this & feel so saddened about your heartbreaking situation hun .. I also wanted to give you my sincere condolences to you, for the loss of Yr friend Gary too. 😢 Going through a divorce is undoubtedly taking its toll on you too & I also wanted to say your ex husband (instead of trying to assist you, by doing the 'right thing ' by you financially) has shown just how incapable he is of any communications or empathy at all, for what undoubtedly is currently, a traumatic time for you. My heart cries out to you hun & I (& no doubt all your followers too) wish you, that extra strength & tenacity, to get through tomorrow . I sincerely hope also, that ALL others present at court , will see the truth, in your genuine situational (& vulnerability) & show everyone just how unreasonably callous , cruel & vindictive your EX is coming across too. HE should be , legally forced to pay you ALL he owes you & to grant you the 'means' to reduce your mortgage. You should not be the victim & I pray he will be made responsible! xxxx 😢❤
Oh, Tina, I am so sorry you have to go through all of this. It’s ok to feel scared given the circumstances. No apologies to us, because we are all here for when you are up to filming. You absolutely should not feel embarrassed because the fault lies elsewhere. Praying you prevail in court tomorrow. Thank you for your candidness in making this video. Get some rest; sending hugs and love. ❤️
Tina.. you are one of my favorite Junk Journal Crafters! You're the Top Banana to me kiddo! You go ahead and do life and we will be right here waiting and praying for you my sweet girl! Let God hold your hand through this because He knows the outcome already and He is going to make things right. You got this and I know that your stronger than your circumstances... that said.. Gather strength and not sorrow and fear. The Lord has gotten you through many dark times in your life like He has most all of us and He's not about to let you down and leave you alone in the desert! We love you Tina even though we've never met that's not what it takes to care about someone! We'll cry with you and we will share your joy and celebrate with you! Hang in there and do what you do best and that's being a wonderful person and get back to what God blessed you to do and that's Junk Journaling!😂😅❤❤❤
There is no need to apologize. I'm sure your friend knows how you feel in your heart. He may be there with you tomorrow. I must say I don't get how HE'S taking YOU to court when he isn't paying for anything! I hope you win!
Bless you Tina, so sorry you are struggling and you are not able to go to the funeral, but Gary will understand , if it helps write everything down and then put a candle to it, it might feel silly but it might help you with your anxiety. Please apply for assistance I do believe you should be entitled to some help, there is no shame, that is what it is for. Please don’t apologise, you have an awful lot on your plate. Lean on your family. It’s a rough time but you must look after you. Lots of Love and big hugs Take care Sweetie we are all here to cheer you on.Xx😘
There is no need to apologize to us. Do what you have to do and know that we will always be here for you. I’m so sorry you are having to miss your friend’s funeral. Love and prayers ❤
Sending my love to you Tina. I support you. The sun will shine again for you. Keep looking forward, do what you need to do, just get through one day at a time. We all know this could happen to anyone of us at any time. Just share your feelings freely and we can help you through it. Hug your kids and your dog. Feel better, life has dealt a big blow, but you will come out the other side as the winner.
Yes, I was thinking the same as I watched 👍🙏🙏 If we all do a little the Lord will and can make it much for Tina🤗Tina I also am going to pray for you🙏 the kids deserve to live in their family home that they have lived in their entire life. They don’t deserve any of the burden. They should be able to just focus on being kids and having a great childhood, which is what she is trying to do for them. So, I am also in if someone could let me know the when, where, and what. God Bless Everyone!
So sorry on the loss of your dear friend and the stress of an unnecessarily hurtful divorce. I divorced a narcissistic nightmare, many years ago, with less than $10 in quarters to my name and two disabled children. The three of us survived for the better. I hope the universe will help your family through this awful stressful time, and get you all into a position of peaceful and supported space. I agree with previous commentary, your home is where you are. Hugs from across the pond.
Tina, don't apologize to us. I feel like I can speak for all your followers, you have our support and prayers. "Father I ask you bring peace and justice to Tina and her family. God be with you! Peace and comfort to you."
Hang in there, Tina! For the rest of the subbies, it’s better to purchase through Etsy than to do a super thanks as RUclips takes 30% of super thanks contributions. Etsy only takes 6.5%
My dear sweet Tina, if I could wrap my arms around you and hold you and make everything better I would. You have nothing to apologize for, you are in an impossible situation and trying hard to keep every thing together. You are in my thought and prayers, may God blanket you with his love and care. {{{{{{hugs}}}}}}
Oh gosh, I can hear the pain in your voice. I can see the pain in your eyes. I just want you to know that you will come out on the other side of this. It’s way too much to tell you, but I had a brutal first marriage and the divorce Was horrific and no one was there for me or my kids including the court system but we did manage and we have managed. My kids are now grown and I am so thankful for who they are and who I am. I’m sorry you will miss your friends funeral, but he is hugging you, and he’s absolutely, OK with that you can’t be there. ❤ be strong.
I am so sorry Susan that you also went through a horrendous ordeal, it is so encouraging to hear that you are through the other side and that you and your kids are all doing well now. Thank you for saying that Gary would understand my not be able to be there to say goodbye to him, missing his funeral was as bad as all the other things wrapped into one. Thank you for sharing, lots of love xx
Hang in there Tina, I've been there, and it took 5 years of borderline poverty, and wondering some days if I would have enough to feed my children. It is tough times and, as others have commented who've been in similar situations, I have to say, it does get better. Sending thoughts and prayers for a quick and easy solution. Stay strong!
You do not have to apologize for not being able to put up a video, especially given the circumstances. Your mental health and family business must of course come first! Know that all of us here support you and care about you; the fear and stress are written all over your face, and we all want to just reach out and hug you! Life is hard for you right now, which is awful, and no amount of platitudes can make it easier. BUT- while we can see the anxiety, we can also see the strength inside you, we can see what a true lady you are, and that all you want is to take care of your kids. I cannot help but think any judge on the planet will be able to see these things also. I hope that venting here helped you some. My last bit of advice, for what its worth, is that going to court could be the best thing ever, since your lack of financial support from your ex will now be made public, so to speak, and hopefully things will backfire on him, forcing him to begin handling his responsibilities towards the children.
I love the idea of gifting through Buy Me a Coffee so Tina gets all the $$!! I have always appreciated her devotion to daily videos and her digital kits are SO reasonable!!! Unfortunately, I have heard that Etsy keeps taking a larger and larger percentage. Another way we can help is to watch her videos to the end, like the videos and even let the ads play out. It will help her algorithms and increase what she gets from RUclips.
Tina, I admire the courage you have to make this video. So many of us try to hide our problems. You are genuine. 1. I love hearing you interact with your children. You sound like such a gentle, nurturing soul. They are fortunate to have such a good mom. 2. Gary understands and loves you. 3. You have taught me how to laugh at mistakes and collage over them. That touches my heart, and I know that other crafters experience your kindness like I do. 4. Pray. Nothing is too big for God. I will keep you in my prayers, especially tomorrow. 5. I’m not familiar with British law, but I am praying that you will have a fair, honest, thoughtful judge who can clearly see your situation. Finally, one step at a time. Continue to be the good person you are. Much love and admiration.
Tina , I just want to wish you all the very best tomorrow and will be thinking of you. I’m sure you will have the thoughts of many of us here and we may not be present with you but we are all sending you love and strength. I have been through a divorce and a nasty situation and am in a much happier place now and feel blessed that I have my children living with me and their love and respect. As devastating as it is for you to be missing your friend’s funeral I’m sure he would understand that you are where you have to be and would want your situation resolved. Sending you my thoughts and best wishes x
I’m very sorry for what you are going through. I too hope that the judge you get can clearly see what hard work you have done to keep a roof over your children’s heads, and I hope your ex can get a grip and not treat you and your children so badly; he should be ashamed of himself. Please come on and tell us how you are doing when you’re ready. We’re not going anywhere and we will continue to support you. Big hugs from all of us.
I too, went through a messy divorce where money was used as a tool to get back at me when I did nothing wrong. It stinks. I’m praying for you and your children. Hang in there. Be strong! You’ll make it through!!
As someone who went through something very similar many years ago, I can assure you that this too shall pass. Uncharitably, I used to say (to myself) that with any luck, he would pass too. (And when he did, much later, I cried.) Your children’s home is wherever you are, and your home will be wherever you land after this massive shakeup. These things I KNOW to be true. And after saying all the positive things, I will also say that I am so sorry this is happening to you. Now to find the “thank you” button.
Oh Tina...please, please don't apologize to us...honey, I prayed as you spoke, and will continue to pray for you and the kids. I can't even put into words how much I hate seeing you go through this horror at the hands of someone who should have been protecting you and his children!! I pray the courts have the decency to make this "man" fulfill some sort of duty toward his family! You are so loved honey...I just hope you always know that...💕💕🙏🫂
I know you don't know me. But is there some how all her fans could set up a fund for her? No one should have to deal with all this. What a jerk of a husband. What do you think we all could do for her?
Oh sweet Tina, I’ve been through this and I can tell you it gets so much better! 10 years after I filed for divorce my life is unrecognizable for the better. Hugs and You’ve got this!!
You’ve got this, head up, crown on and walk in with head high. It’s not easy to share, but I hope you realize we all have your back and you’re in my prayers.❤
Hi Tina, it’s Erin this time from Epapere. From one momma who has gone through it and had to hit “reset” on life in a major way-I’m sending my love and a little money to try and help even if it’s just a small way. Warm hugs to you hon. I’ve been through it. It sucks. But I promise you have SO much love and support out here from us and there is happiness on the other side of all this crap. Reach out if you need a friend. Happy to do what I can.
If his name is on the mortgage he should be at least paying half! I have been there lost my home had to file bankruptcy and that was not fun! But 7 years later I’m stronger and I’ve grown in so many ways! And you will too, don’t let him get the better of you. Your a strong Women and mother. Never be ashamed of whom You are or what your going through, sharing it does help.
You are definitely not alone in this, Tina, though I know it feels like it sometimes. You are so loved. You are right that many of us have experienced similar hardships, willfully inflicted by others. It doesn’t make sense, but you have to endure. Praying for you and your children, dear! Keep going, one day (or moment) at a time. xoxo
Tina, it's okay to have tears, to be scared and to be sad to miss your dear friend's funeral. Do not feel ashamed, embarrassed or even sorry! Life is challenging!!! You will be in my thoughts!😘
oh my god I'm so sorry you're going through this %#&. You deserve so much better! You take care of your self first, worry about the videos when you can. I'm sure all of us will be here for you. You have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. Sending you strength and love Tina!
I know you don't know me. But is there some how all her fans could set up a fund for her? No one should have to deal with all this. What a jerk of a husband. What do you think we all could do for her?
I’m so so sorry. How can he not have to at least pay child support (maybe it’s called something different in the U.K.). I learned about your situation from Scrapbooking With ME, and my heart goes out to you. One day you’ll look back on this from a much better place. Hug your sweet doggie for comfort and know thousands of people obviously care and support you.
So sorry you cannot go the Gary's funeral, I am sure he will know , and understand your predicament. I wish you all the strength you will need to have. BE BRAVE X
I'm sending love and hugs....this year is a challenging one. I wish you all the best for your journey so that we can see Happy Tina crafting away soon. Joie ❤
Thanks! I have watched you a long time Tina. Money can't help emotions, but maybe this will buy you and your children a snack or some gas! . Praying for you and your family.
So incredibly brave to share your struggles on your channel. It physically hurt my heart to hear this and I think that all women need to raise each other up and love and support each other. I agree with another subscriber that if all the likes could donate a few dollars it could take some weight of Tina’s shoulder. Much love to you
No need to apologize, or to feel ashamed or embarrassed... You have obviously been holding it together, with no help, all this time and now this... I am so sad you have to miss the funeral but I am sure Gary, were he here, would understand completely. I hope things improve soon - my thoughts are with you.
Oh, honey, don't feel embarrassed or ashamed. We all go through hard times, and it helps to talk about it. Pray, and trust in God. It will all work out for the best. My heart goes out to you! Good luck.
Tina... I don't say much, usually, but I must say this: you are strong, and it took a great deal of that strength to say all that you have said to us. You must surely know that many of those of us who are watching you are lonely ... homebound... or both. As I enter this message, your video has been up for one hour, and already you have 1.3K views! Clearly you are loved and admired by many people. This storm you are in will pass. It didn't come to stay!
Oh Tina, I am so sorry for the dreadful situation you are in. You must know that we will all be here to support you. You should not feel guilty about falling behind a bit with us. Remember that you are a strong woman, you've been keeping your head held high, and you certainly do not have to apologize to me. Good luck tomorrow, be well.
Your sweet little dog knows, you’re feeling bad, and it’s trying to help you, they know….. let you’re sweet fur baby love ❤️ you…. May God Bless and help you threw this difficult time ❤️
Oh, Tina! I am so sorry you are having to go through all the stress and worry and dealing with an ex... I love your little dachshund. I raise them and they always lift my spirits. God bless you. I'll pray that you get to keep your home and the ex has to pay what he owes you. My ex torpedoed me and the house I bought after the divorce and drove a wedge between me and my two boys...he's English... ( so was my grandfather but he was a sweet old school gentleman). I hope this community can help in some way. A Go Fund Me page...? Or what ever it's called...You are an incredible lady!
Tina please don't apologize to us for anything. You need to take time for yourself and get everything straighten out. Please don't feel embarrassed or anything like that. Life sucks at time but you will pull through this as you are a strong woman. Don't worry about videos at this time and please know we are all here for you. Wishing you all the very best!!!😢
There is nothing that any of us can say that is going to make you feel less fearful about going to court. Let me just tell you that my ex-husband took me to court six times. He lost every one of those times, but each time was nerve-racking and painful. You will get through it. Regarding Gary‘s funeral, of course, you want to be there, but your letter to Gary‘s mother is going to mean so much more to her than your attending his funeral. She is going to have something that she can look at, and hold, read, and reread, and that is going to mean everything to her.
Lovely message and I am sure you are right about the letter being more meaningful and lasting for Gary's mum....when everything on the day just seems unreal and you are rarely aware of who is there and who isn't, a heartfelt letter will give her much comfort 💜
Oh, sweet Tina, bless your heart. You are such a bright spot for so many and all of us are feeling heartbroken for you. I understand feeling the need to share with your viewers…they are our family. I will be praying for you, your children and your circumstance. 🙏. Keep on keeping on, sweetheart. I truly believe that good will prevail. God bless you, my friend. ❤
I don’t know if you will see this message but your friend most definitely knows what is going on. He’s an angel now and he can be with you all the time. I think you should have your own private goodbye and either talk to him as if he was there or write him a letter. The other thing is you should definitely offer a membership to your channel. I’m sure you would do very well!!! I know I would join.
I hear you. This is economic abuse - attempting to control your life by putting you in financial distress. The sadest this is it affects your children as much as yourself. Court is the scariest thing, I hope it went OK. xx
You don’t need to apologize. Keep your head up and trust in God. I definitely will be praying. I have been where you are at and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
I couldn’t get the slide to move previously and even now I can’t get an even number. I’ve been through what you’re going through and you will come through it. I don’t know if y’all do yard sales in the UK but it’s quick money or maybe sell on consignment at a shop. Your children see you but also see him.
I am so sorry you had to miss your dear friend's funeral. That is so sad. And, I am so sad you are going thru this! No need to apologize....Hope brighter days are coming soon. Thinking of you hugs
My heart goes out to you my friend, keeping you in my thoughts tomorrow. You give so much to others, I hope life gives you something back soon. Take care
Just came from Edith Wreys channel at Scrapebooking w me. It just saddens me to no end to hear all the devistation in your life. You are highly respected in the crafting community, so keep that chin up, help is on its way. We are in this together. Soon, things will look brighter for your children and you. May God Bless and keep you strong. Your friend that passed knows the struggle you are going thru and understands why you can’t be there at his funeral tmrw. Gary is with you in spirit, and always will be.
I just came from Rhonda Winsteads page where she talked about your video. Definitely going to help! Please keep us updated on your situation and know that you are held close to the hearts of your crafting community ❤
Girl, you walk into that court room like you own it💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻. Don’t let him see you sweat! The judge is going to find out what kind of a man he is by not taking care of his family. You got this! What would Gary advise you to do? Make Gary proud and be strong!! His family will understand you missing the service. ❤
I’m with Theresa Curtin @theresacurrin6395, her post 3 days ago. I’ve just heard your news from watching my dear friend Angela Kerr and am happy to be a part of the ‘Sisterhood’ that looks after each other. God Bless you♥️🙏🏻♥️
Here, here! 💯
Hi Tina, I was so touched by your candidness! I know you are under great stress right now. I never told you this but I feel compelled to share with you that I found you on RUclips right after I lost my beloved husband of 39 years to Covid-19. I instantly fell in love with your British accent (I live in USA) and your conversational style and your creativity. There were very many days when I did not want to go on living without my husband, and for the life of me I didn’t know how I would possibly get through the day! The only thing I could think to do was to put on your videos and watch them one after another after another, because your voice and your cheerful demeanor relieved my horrible anxiety. So - we, your viewers, owe you a massive THANK YOU! May God be with you tomorrow! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
You and your children are in my prayers. Always remember “When one door closes, God provides a window to be opened. “
You shouldn’t feel ashamed or be embarrassed. Its life and you are a strong women. Gary would’ve understood. Stay strong. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Please don't feel shame. Life can be tough and its so easy to beat ourselves up.
Please Be kind to yourself❤
You will climb this mountain and reach the top , the sun will shine and Gary will be there with you . To everyone following Tina in this crap time please head over to her shop and buy some beautiful papers and journals . We crafters need to stick together sending much love and hugs to you and your family Tina ❤
I would suggest buying from her UK site as Etsy takes a lot out in fees she has said.
Sending prayers for you and your family 🙏
What is her uk site Please ?
@@patriciamason9884 how about the “buy me a coffee”? I think someone said they don’t take any of the money.
Tak!
Tina, my heart is breaking for you. You’re showing so much courage in the face of difficult circumstances. Gary understands and know’s what you’re going through more than anyone else. FEEL HIS STRENGTH and know that he is still somehow with you. Keep your faith and please know that you needn’t be ashamed. I, too, went through a difficult divorce and ended up with a jumble of feelings and not knowing what the future held or how I would EVER get through it. But, I did and so will you. This isn’t meant to be harsh, but know that this, too, shall pass. Try not to worry about the future, as every day will take care of itself. Please know that there are many of us out here who are your cheerleaders who care. Your sweet dog will be there to lick your tears and see you through . . . The rest of us will pray.
I know you don't know me. But is there some how all her fans could set up a fund for her? No one should have to deal with all this. What a jerk of a husband. What do you think we all could do for her?
@@Sircaymen one way to help would be to buy from her etsy shop or someone could set up a gofundme account
I just bought her a coffee… you get to choose how many. She has this option set up on her RUclips channel to support her that way. Man, she’s really going through a lot, too much. I hope we can all contribute a little something, it all adds up. Even prayers send a ripple of love and kindness into the stream.
God love you. Praying He blesses you with all your needs met SOON and more. Keep looking up. I am sorry you have so much on your plate...you are dealing with so much. My sympathy to you in the loss of your dear friend, Gary. I am so sorry for your pain. You are a strong woman. The Lord will bless you. He knows your needs. God bless and thank you for all you do. I love your work. Praying.🙏
Bless you, sweet lady. There is no shame in talking about your heartache and difficulties. You are not a robot!
Thank you so much for your taking the time to comment and for your super thanks, I really appreciate it xxx
SUBS-- PLEASE READ. I think if we all throw in a few dollars, even one dollar, we can make a difference in Tina’s situation at the moment. I can throw in $10. I wish it was more but at this time that is all I can manage. Tina has done so much for all of us, kept us company when we were lonely, taught us how to make junk journals and gave us all lots of smiles and giggles. It’s time for us to try to help her. If you can’t make a donation maybe you can say a prayer for her or leave a positive message.
Agree!!! Or buy some digitals from her shop
10.00 as well
i'm in. how do we do that?
I would love to help Tina. She has given so so much to all of us! What would be the best way? Like to do it thru the “Thanks” button or the “Buy Me A Coffee” ?
I am so sorry Tina, god love ya. Take all the time you need & we will be waiting here for ya. We love ya hugs.
Thanks
Wow!!! Love the generosity!!
Thank you so much for your taking the time to comment and for your super thanks, I really appreciate it xxx
Please know you have nothing to be ashamed of. You have given so much to this community. We all go through difficult and scary situations, it took a lot of courage to share what you’re dealing with. Prayers and positive thoughts for tomorrow. I bet Gary knew how much you valued his friendship so he would understand. Sending you a big hug. Hang in there❤
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Oh Tina...I saw this & feel so saddened about your heartbreaking situation hun .. I also wanted to give you my sincere condolences to you, for the loss of Yr friend Gary too. 😢 Going through a divorce is undoubtedly taking its toll on you too & I also wanted to say your ex husband (instead of trying to assist you, by doing the 'right thing ' by you financially) has shown just how incapable he is of any communications or empathy at all, for what undoubtedly is currently, a traumatic time for you. My heart cries out to you hun & I (& no doubt all your followers too) wish you, that extra strength & tenacity, to get through tomorrow . I sincerely hope also, that ALL others present at court , will see the truth, in your genuine situational (& vulnerability) & show everyone just how unreasonably callous , cruel & vindictive your EX is coming across too. HE should be , legally forced to pay you ALL he owes you & to grant you the 'means' to reduce your mortgage. You should not be the victim & I pray he will be made responsible! xxxx 😢❤
Oh, Tina, I am so sorry you have to go through all of this. It’s ok to feel scared given the circumstances. No apologies to us, because we are all here for when you are up to filming. You absolutely should not feel embarrassed because the fault lies elsewhere. Praying you prevail in court tomorrow. Thank you for your candidness in making this video. Get some rest; sending hugs and love. ❤️
Tina..
you are one of my favorite Junk Journal Crafters! You're the Top Banana to me kiddo! You go ahead and do life and we will be right here waiting and praying for you my sweet girl! Let God hold your hand through this because He knows the outcome already and He is going to make things right. You got this and I know that your stronger than your circumstances... that said..
Gather strength and not sorrow and fear. The Lord has gotten you through many dark times in your life like He has most all of us and He's not about to let you down and leave you alone in the desert! We love you Tina even though we've never met that's not what it takes to care about someone! We'll cry with you and we will share your joy and celebrate with you! Hang in there and do what you do best and that's being a wonderful person and get back to what God blessed you to do and that's Junk Journaling!😂😅❤❤❤
There is no need to apologize. I'm sure your friend knows how you feel in your heart. He may be there with you tomorrow. I must say I don't get how HE'S taking YOU to court when he isn't paying for anything! I hope you win!
Bless you Tina, so sorry you are struggling and you are not able to go to the funeral, but Gary will understand , if it helps write everything down and then put a candle to it, it might feel silly but it might help you with your anxiety. Please apply for assistance I do believe you should be entitled to some help, there is no shame, that is what it is for. Please don’t apologise, you have an awful lot on your plate. Lean on your family. It’s a rough time but you must look after you. Lots of Love and big hugs Take care Sweetie we are all here to cheer you on.Xx😘
There is no need to apologize to us. Do what you have to do and know that we will always be here for you. I’m so sorry you are having to miss your friend’s funeral. Love and prayers ❤
Please pass on my support...the comments are turned off now. Higs from Australia.
Sending my love to you Tina. I support you. The sun will shine again for you. Keep looking forward, do what you need to do, just get through one day at a time.
We all know this could happen to anyone of us at any time. Just share your feelings freely and we can help you through it. Hug your kids and your dog. Feel better, life has dealt a big blow, but you will come out the other side as the winner.
Yes, I was thinking the same as I watched 👍🙏🙏 If we all do a little the Lord will and can make it much for Tina🤗Tina I also am going to pray for you🙏 the kids deserve to live in their family home that they have lived in their entire life. They don’t deserve any of the burden. They should be able to just focus on being kids and having a great childhood, which is what she is trying to do for them. So, I am also in if someone could let me know the when, where, and what. God Bless Everyone!
Agreed! You take as much time as you need. People who watch you will be here for you whenever you can do video's again.
Praying for you and your family! Jesus loves you so much! Don’t forget to ask Him for guidance and grace.💖
So very generous!!! I am sure she will appreciate your help!!!
God bless you for your generosity. ❤
Thank you for helping Tina!
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So sorry on the loss of your dear friend and the stress of an unnecessarily hurtful divorce. I divorced a narcissistic nightmare, many years ago, with less than $10 in quarters to my name and two disabled children. The three of us survived for the better. I hope the universe will help your family through this awful stressful time, and get you all into a position of peaceful and supported space. I agree with previous commentary, your home is where you are. Hugs from across the pond.
I pray the judge will hear your side of his negligence in taking care of his family financially.
Tina, don't apologize to us. I feel like I can speak for all your followers, you have our support and prayers. "Father I ask you bring peace and justice to Tina and her family. God be with you! Peace and comfort to you."
Thinking good thoughts at you!
Hang in there, Tina! For the rest of the subbies, it’s better to purchase through Etsy than to do a super thanks as RUclips takes 30% of super thanks contributions. Etsy only takes 6.5%
My dear sweet Tina, if I could wrap my arms around you and hold you and make everything better I would. You have nothing to apologize for, you are in an impossible situation and trying hard to keep every thing together. You are in my thought and prayers, may God blanket you with his love and care. {{{{{{hugs}}}}}}
Oh gosh, I can hear the pain in your voice. I can see the pain in your eyes. I just want you to know that you will come out on the other side of this. It’s way too much to tell you, but I had a brutal first marriage and the divorce Was horrific and no one was there for me or my kids including the court system but we did manage and we have managed. My kids are now grown and I am so thankful for who they are and who I am. I’m sorry you will miss your friends funeral, but he is hugging you, and he’s absolutely, OK with that you can’t be there. ❤ be strong.
I am so sorry Susan that you also went through a horrendous ordeal, it is so encouraging to hear that you are through the other side and that you and your kids are all doing well now. Thank you for saying that Gary would understand my not be able to be there to say goodbye to him, missing his funeral was as bad as all the other things wrapped into one. Thank you for sharing, lots of love xx
Hang in there Tina, I've been there, and it took 5 years of borderline poverty, and wondering some days if I would have enough to feed my children. It is tough times and, as others have commented who've been in similar situations, I have to say, it does get better. Sending thoughts and prayers for a quick and easy solution.
Stay strong!
Sorry you are going through these legal issues...I hope everything is sorted out for the good of you and your kids
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You do not have to apologize for not being able to put up a video, especially given the circumstances. Your mental health and family business must of course come first! Know that all of us here support you and care about you; the fear and stress are written all over your face, and we all want to just reach out and hug you! Life is hard for you right now, which is awful, and no amount of platitudes can make it easier. BUT- while we can see the anxiety, we can also see the strength inside you, we can see what a true lady you are, and that all you want is to take care of your kids. I cannot help but think any judge on the planet will be able to see these things also. I hope that venting here helped you some. My last bit of advice, for what its worth, is that going to court could be the best thing ever, since your lack of financial support from your ex will now be made public, so to speak, and hopefully things will backfire on him, forcing him to begin handling his responsibilities towards the children.
I think we could give her a hand by watching a lot of her videos and not skipping the ads. Tina could get a little extra income.
I love the idea of gifting through Buy Me a Coffee so Tina gets all the $$!! I have always appreciated her devotion to daily videos and her digital kits are SO reasonable!!! Unfortunately, I have heard that Etsy keeps taking a larger and larger percentage. Another way we can help is to watch her videos to the end, like the videos and even let the ads play out. It will help her algorithms and increase what she gets from RUclips.
Could a go fund me be set up in her honor so people could donate to it
Tina, I admire the courage you have to make this video. So many of us try to hide our problems. You are genuine. 1. I love hearing you interact with your children. You sound like such a gentle, nurturing soul. They are fortunate to have such a good mom. 2. Gary understands and loves you. 3. You have taught me how to laugh at mistakes and collage over them. That touches my heart, and I know that other crafters experience your kindness like I do. 4. Pray. Nothing is too big for God. I will keep you in my prayers, especially tomorrow. 5. I’m not familiar with British law, but I am praying that you will have a fair, honest, thoughtful judge who can clearly see your situation. Finally, one step at a time. Continue to be the good person you are. Much love and admiration.
So well said Laura!
So sorry to hear. I personally love watching your videos. Thank you for sharing with us.
Tina , I just want to wish you all the very best tomorrow and will be thinking of you. I’m sure you will have the thoughts of many of us here and we may not be present with you but we are all sending you love and strength. I have been through a divorce and a nasty situation and am in a much happier place now and feel blessed that I have my children living with me and their love and respect.
As devastating as it is for you to be missing your friend’s funeral I’m sure he would understand that you are where you have to be and would want your situation resolved. Sending you my thoughts and best wishes x
This lovely comment said all what I was trying (and failing!) to say. So well put!
I’m very sorry for what you are going through. I too hope that the judge you get can clearly see what hard work you have done to keep a roof over your children’s heads, and I hope your ex can get a grip and not treat you and your children so badly; he should be ashamed of himself. Please come on and tell us how you are doing when you’re ready. We’re not going anywhere and we will continue to support you. Big hugs from all of us.
I too, went through a messy divorce where money was used as a tool to get back at me when I did nothing wrong. It stinks. I’m praying for you and your children. Hang in there. Be strong! You’ll make it through!!
As someone who went through something very similar many years ago, I can assure you that this too shall pass. Uncharitably, I used to say (to myself) that with any luck, he would pass too. (And when he did, much later, I cried.) Your children’s home is wherever you are, and your home will be wherever you land after this massive shakeup. These things I KNOW to be true. And after saying all the positive things, I will also say that I am so sorry this is happening to you. Now to find the “thank you” button.
Oh Tina...please, please don't apologize to us...honey, I prayed as you spoke, and will continue to pray for you and the kids. I can't even put into words how much I hate seeing you go through this horror at the hands of someone who should have been protecting you and his children!! I pray the courts have the decency to make this "man" fulfill some sort of duty toward his family! You are so loved honey...I just hope you always know that...💕💕🙏🫂
I know you don't know me. But is there some how all her fans could set up a fund for her? No one should have to deal with all this. What a jerk of a husband. What do you think we all could do for her?
I’m in
Thanks!
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Oh sweet Tina, I’ve been through this and I can tell you it gets so much better! 10 years after I filed for divorce my life is unrecognizable for the better. Hugs and You’ve got this!!
You’ve got this, head up, crown on and walk in with head high. It’s not easy to share, but I hope you realize we all have your back and you’re in my prayers.❤
Praying for you. Thank you for trusting us with your news.
Tina, My heart goes out to you. So many of us know the depths of your situation. Which Beatle sang “I Get By with a Little Help from My Friends”?
Tina, you are loved!! Thanks!
Hi Tina, it’s Erin this time from Epapere. From one momma who has gone through it and had to hit “reset” on life in a major way-I’m sending my love and a little money to try and help even if it’s just a small way. Warm hugs to you hon. I’ve been through it. It sucks. But I promise you have SO much love and support out here from us and there is happiness on the other side of all this crap. Reach out if you need a friend. Happy to do what I can.
Totally get it!!! Strongs...always let it out...we are YOUR tribe!!! God bless you!!!❤
If his name is on the mortgage he should be at least paying half! I have been there lost my home had to file bankruptcy and that was not fun! But 7 years later I’m stronger and I’ve grown in so many ways! And you will too, don’t let him get the better of you. Your a strong Women and mother. Never be ashamed of whom
You are or what your going through, sharing it does help.
You are definitely not alone in this, Tina, though I know it feels like it sometimes. You are so loved. You are right that many of us have experienced similar hardships, willfully inflicted by others. It doesn’t make sense, but you have to endure. Praying for you and your children, dear! Keep going, one day (or moment) at a time. xoxo
Tina, it's okay to have tears, to be scared and to be sad to miss your dear friend's funeral. Do not feel ashamed, embarrassed or even sorry! Life is challenging!!! You will be in my thoughts!😘
Very true!!
Thanks and I wish you the best of luck with everything!
Danke!
oh my god I'm so sorry you're going through this %#&. You deserve so much better! You take care of your self first, worry about the videos when you can. I'm sure all of us will be here for you. You have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. Sending you strength and love Tina!
I know you don't know me. But is there some how all her fans could set up a fund for her? No one should have to deal with all this. What a jerk of a husband. What do you think we all could do for her?
@@Sircaymen I just went and bought things from her shop. That's one way we can help. I know it's not much but it's what I could do.
here in Australia we have a go fund me is this possible in England i would donate
STAY STRONG AND PRAYERS GOING UP FOR YOU AND YOUR KIDS!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
God bless you!
I have ADHD and suffer from mild anxiety. Your videos and digitals have allowed me to explore my creativity. Thank you!
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May you and your children be safe, happy, well, and at peace.
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Thanks! My prayers are with you.
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I’m so so sorry. How can he not have to at least pay child support (maybe it’s called something different in the U.K.). I learned about your situation from Scrapbooking With ME, and my heart goes out to you. One day you’ll look back on this from a much better place. Hug your sweet doggie for comfort and know thousands of people obviously care and support you.
Hope this helps. We all love you. Stay strong girl ❤️❌⭕️
So sorry you cannot go the Gary's funeral, I am sure he will know , and understand your predicament. I wish you all the strength you will need to have. BE BRAVE X
Stay strong.
I am so sorry. I wish I could help more. I understand how hard divorce is. Bless you!
Thank you for all you do, I hope this little bit will help you out!
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Wish there was more I could do. Hugs!
I'm sending love and hugs....this year is a challenging one. I wish you all the best for your journey so that we can see Happy Tina crafting away soon. Joie ❤
Thanks! I have watched you a long time Tina. Money can't help emotions, but maybe this will buy you and your children a snack or some gas! . Praying for you and your family.
Love, hugs, and prayers for you. The junk journal community will support you. We are here for you and your family.
So incredibly brave to share your struggles on your channel. It physically hurt my heart to hear this and I think that all women need to raise each other up and love and support each other. I agree with another subscriber that if all the likes could donate a few dollars it could take some weight of Tina’s shoulder. Much love to you
No need to apologize, or to feel ashamed or embarrassed... You have obviously been holding it together, with no help, all this time and now this... I am so sad you have to miss the funeral but I am sure Gary, were he here, would understand completely. I hope things improve soon - my thoughts are with you.
Oh, honey, don't feel embarrassed or ashamed. We all go through hard times, and it helps to talk about it. Pray, and trust in God. It will all work out for the best. My heart goes out to you! Good luck.
Tina... I don't say much, usually, but I must say this: you are strong, and it took a great deal of that strength to say all that you have said to us. You must surely know that many of those of us who are watching you are lonely ... homebound... or both. As I enter this message, your video has been up for one hour, and already you have 1.3K views! Clearly you are loved and admired by many people. This storm you are in will pass. It didn't come to stay!
Good luck tomorrow.
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Oh Tina, I am so sorry for the dreadful situation you are in. You must know that we will all be here to support you. You should not feel guilty about falling behind a bit with us. Remember that you are a strong woman, you've been keeping your head held high, and you certainly do not have to apologize to me. Good luck tomorrow, be well.
Prayers for Gods grace and mercy
Thanks! You've been a great comfort to me these past couple of years and I greatly appreciate it. I will be praying for you. Take care of yourself.
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Your sweet little dog knows, you’re feeling bad, and it’s trying to help you, they know….. let you’re sweet fur baby love ❤️ you…. May God Bless and help you threw this difficult time ❤️
Oh, Tina! I am so sorry you are having to go through all the stress and worry and dealing with an ex...
I love your little dachshund. I raise them and they always lift my spirits. God bless you. I'll pray that you get to keep your home and the ex has to pay what he owes you.
My ex torpedoed me and the house I bought after the divorce and drove a wedge between me and my two boys...he's English... ( so was my grandfather but he was a sweet old school gentleman).
I hope this community can help in some way. A Go Fund Me page...? Or what ever it's called...You are an incredible lady!
hang in there , it will all work out . God is good all the time. Prayers for you. Judy
Tina please don't apologize to us for anything. You need to take time for yourself and get everything straighten out. Please don't feel embarrassed or anything like that. Life sucks at time but you will pull through this as you are a strong woman. Don't worry about videos at this time and please know we are all here for you. Wishing you all the very best!!!😢
Tina, put your crown on and walk into court with your head high. You are in my prayers.
I wish I could give more. I do pray that everything will come together for you. Sending love and prayers ❤
There is nothing that any of us can say that is going to make you feel less fearful about going to court. Let me just tell you that my ex-husband took me to court six times. He lost every one of those times, but each time was nerve-racking and painful. You will get through it. Regarding Gary‘s funeral, of course, you want to be there, but your letter to Gary‘s mother is going to mean so much more to her than your attending his funeral. She is going to have something that she can look at, and hold, read, and reread, and that is going to mean everything to her.
Lovely message and I am sure you are right about the letter being more meaningful and lasting for Gary's mum....when everything on the day just seems unreal and you are rarely aware of who is there and who isn't, a heartfelt letter will give her much comfort 💜
Oh, sweet Tina, bless your heart. You are such a bright spot for so many and all of us are feeling heartbroken for you. I understand feeling the need to share with your viewers…they are our family. I will be praying for you, your children and your circumstance. 🙏. Keep on keeping on, sweetheart. I truly believe that good will prevail. God bless you, my friend. ❤
I don’t know if you will see this message but your friend most definitely knows what is going on. He’s an angel now and he can be with you all the time. I think you should have your own private goodbye and either talk to him as if he was there or write him a letter. The other thing is you should definitely offer a membership to your channel. I’m sure you would do very well!!! I know I would join.
Heartfelt support sent your way Tina. It's a hard road, thank you for your courage to share with us 💜
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I know this isn’t near enough, but I do want to help. I’m praying for you!
I hear you. This is economic abuse - attempting to control your life by putting you in financial distress. The sadest this is it affects your children as much as yourself. Court is the scariest thing, I hope it went OK. xx
Sending much love and hugs 💕
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So sorry for you and your children! Hugs from Pennsylvania!
You've got this Tina! There is so much support and love from all of us..never forget that. And of course, like most of us, find comfort in crafting❤
You don’t need to apologize. Keep your head up and trust in God. I definitely will be praying. I have been where you are at and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
Thanks - sending an endless supply of positivity from australia, best of luck for tomorrow🙏💪🙏
You never have to apologize for being real. Take care of yourself, your kids, and your fur baby. Nil desperandum carborundum illegitimi. ❤️
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Another virtuele hug for you.
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I have been where you are right now, know that it gets better. Hugs Tina.
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God bless I hope the court day went well. Sending hugs and support
I couldn’t get the slide to move previously and even now I can’t get an even number. I’ve been through what you’re going through and you will come through it. I don’t know if y’all do yard sales in the UK but it’s quick money or maybe sell on consignment at a shop. Your children see you but also see him.
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Gary understands hun he's still able to hear you even if you can't hear him . Sending virtual hugs xxx
I am so sorry you had to miss your dear friend's funeral. That is so sad. And, I am so sad you are going thru this! No need to apologize....Hope brighter days are coming soon. Thinking of you hugs
Praying your situation turns around, and only good comes your way. I wish I could send more. Thank you for all the beauty you create.
My heart goes out to you my friend, keeping you in my thoughts tomorrow. You give so much to others, I hope life gives you something back soon. Take care
I hope the judge sees the truth. Sending hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️
So so sorry, Tina!😢
My heart is with you Tina. I will be praying that everything goes your way. I'm so sorry you have to go thru such hard times.
Just came from Edith Wreys channel at Scrapebooking w me. It just saddens me to no end to hear all the devistation in your life. You are highly respected in the crafting community, so keep that chin up, help is on its way. We are in this together. Soon, things will look brighter for your children and you. May God Bless and keep you strong. Your friend that passed knows the struggle you are going thru and understands why you can’t be there at his funeral tmrw. Gary is with you in spirit, and always will be.
You are a blessing to so many. God bless you!
Praying
I just came from Rhonda Winsteads page where she talked about your video. Definitely going to help! Please keep us updated on your situation and know that you are held close to the hearts of your crafting community ❤
Thank you for all the inspiration over many years. You were one of the first RUclips junk journal creators I followed.