Have you ever felt like your quiet strength goes unnoticed? In reality, it’s your secret superpower. 💥 How have you used your quiet intensity to make an impact? Let’s share experiences and tips in the comments!👇 Also, exciting news-the INFJ Epic Life Bootcamp launches on October 26th! 🚀 Details are in the description. Don’t miss out on this transformative 6-week live experience!
Thank you for always just putting it so simple and completely understandable you're a great teacher and I it's very cool what You have been able to do so simply.
I have a term for that - declaring a psychological space. You don't need to talk a lot, you just have to make people listen to your words when you have something to say, to make people think that they have to pay attention to you because you have declared your psychological space into them. I have been betrayed by someone who seemed to be a friend of mine this summer with no logical reason and explanation so I know that the mistake was initially mine. If I had declared my psychological space he wouldn't do that. He showed to me that he actually doesn't care. There are people who will never care about us, but we will never get to them initially if we keep ourselves in our power, if we insist for declaring a psychological space and stay away from people for whom that is not possible.
If I had been able to watch these videos years ago I could have saved myself a lot of time investing in self-help for thinking there was something wrong with me, you are really making a difference in my life. Also on this topic it would be great if you did a video on confronting (or not) people that look down on the INFJ.
INFJs tend to appreciate depth, authenticity, and emotional intelligence in others, so they’re naturally drawn to those who demonstrate confidence and strength without being loud or attention-seeking
I had a friend who once told me that I had a "silent power." I sometimes feel like I'm overlooked but I've turned it into a game. I let them think whatever and then step up with new skills nobody knew I had when least expected. It's a shock-factor. Wow...INFJs we have sumn and don't know it!
I do this a lot too. It is because INFJs are incredibly talented but very humble and shy away from gaining this kind of attention. But the INFJ/INTJs are the the quiet ones people should look out for but often overlook.
Once my ex told me he thought I had given him so much love that he did not even think he needed to give it back. So INFJs, start value your energy first because people could really overlook your worth. Thank you Wenzes! This video is so inspiring!
People start feeling so good in our presence that they dont even realize the worth and side effect of it , is that they start pointing fingers towards us only .
I use to have a negative self belief that I was a boring person because I often felt overlooked and that others did not find me interesting. When you said " of course were interesting " it felt validating and empowering. I realized that I've spent alot of my life overcompensating others by letting them know how unique and special they were because I wanted them to reassure me that I was too. Could you if you haven't already speak to this?
I always find myself trying to fill the quiet to keep things light. And it usually makes me end up looking like a fool. If you have nothing to say or to convey. Simply just be, that's more than enough. INFJs, true ones are incredibly rare, you don't need to pander to others.
I’m 44 and have had multiple relationships where I have brought up my bf’s confidence to the point where they end up cheating on me…. Then they ALWAYS come back…. But by then, the door has been slammed.
The most one’s who don’t care about the enlightened are the ignoramuses. Usually it’s your family, tribe, circle of friends and confidantes who oppose.
I was on a neighborhood association and I brought in women who after I built them up for months to build my team - well they turned on me! I created a monster. After they had their big power grab of course it became clear how inept a few of them were, and how they really could not cut it. I should never have given them so much free rein, they became overconfident and betrayed me.
@@FanTasteRPG I am very intuitive and a critical thinker. For instance, I don’t think that I INFJ could be manipulated by a Donald Trump. I can’t stand being around small talk niceties and gossip. I much prefer solitude with an animal other than human.
Have you ever felt like your quiet strength goes unnoticed? In reality, it’s your secret superpower. 💥 How have you used your quiet intensity to make an impact? Let’s share experiences and tips in the comments!👇
Also, exciting news-the INFJ Epic Life Bootcamp launches on October 26th! 🚀 Details are in the description. Don’t miss out on this transformative 6-week live experience!
Thank you for always just putting it so simple and completely understandable you're a great teacher and I it's very cool what
You have been able to do so simply.
Yeah ; more than a year of watching your videos, I became a real bitch 😏
I have a term for that - declaring a psychological space. You don't need to talk a lot, you just have to make people listen to your words when you have something to say, to make people think that they have to pay attention to you because you have declared your psychological space into them. I have been betrayed by someone who seemed to be a friend of mine this summer with no logical reason and explanation so I know that the mistake was initially mine. If I had declared my psychological space he wouldn't do that. He showed to me that he actually doesn't care. There are people who will never care about us, but we will never get to them initially if we keep ourselves in our power, if we insist for declaring a psychological space and stay away from people for whom that is not possible.
If I had been able to watch these videos years ago I could have saved myself a lot of time investing in self-help for thinking there was something wrong with me, you are really making a difference in my life. Also on this topic it would be great if you did a video on confronting (or not) people that look down on the INFJ.
I should add, when it's been done in the past should we confront them to set things straight etc.
not wenzes but for me, i stop thinking about them and turn it inwards. when we think bout them we take on their negative energy.
INFJs tend to appreciate depth, authenticity, and emotional intelligence in others, so they’re naturally drawn to those who demonstrate confidence and strength without being loud or attention-seeking
I had a friend who once told me that I had a "silent power." I sometimes feel like I'm overlooked but I've turned it into a game. I let them think whatever and then step up with new skills nobody knew I had when least expected. It's a shock-factor. Wow...INFJs we have sumn and don't know it!
I started to do the same!
I do this a lot too. It is because INFJs are incredibly talented but very humble and shy away from gaining this kind of attention. But the INFJ/INTJs are the the quiet ones people should look out for but often overlook.
Once my ex told me he thought I had given him so much love that he did not even think he needed to give it back. So INFJs, start value your energy first because people could really overlook your worth. Thank you Wenzes! This video is so inspiring!
Wow sounds like a filthy person. I wonder how he was able to be so self absorbed.
People start feeling so good in our presence that they dont even realize the worth and side effect of it , is that they start pointing fingers towards us only .
I use to have a negative self belief that I was a boring person because I often felt overlooked and that others did not find me interesting. When you said " of course were interesting " it felt validating and empowering. I realized that I've spent alot of my life overcompensating others by letting them know how unique and special they were because I wanted them to reassure me that I was too. Could you if you haven't already speak to this?
My teacher used to call me silent achiever
I always find myself trying to fill the quiet to keep things light. And it usually makes me end up looking like a fool. If you have nothing to say or to convey. Simply just be, that's more than enough. INFJs, true ones are incredibly rare, you don't need to pander to others.
As well as the content, I really enjoy the aesthetics of this video. I find it so calming to look at.
I’m 44 and have had multiple relationships where I have brought up my bf’s confidence to the point where they end up cheating on me…. Then they ALWAYS come back…. But by then, the door has been slammed.
Another excellent video. Can you do a video on INFJ I.Q.?
The most one’s who don’t care about the enlightened are the ignoramuses.
Usually it’s your family, tribe, circle of friends and confidantes who oppose.
Lol very true
Most kind INFP really TRY to understand the INFJ friend or acquaintances.
Beautiful they do and they are loveable.
Thank you so much for your wisdom.
Thank you so much for your help and the knowledge. You are the best ❤
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It's amazing how clear I can relate to what you say every time. Thank you for helping understand the way we manage relationships❤
Being ones’ self is a bore
Pretending else is a chore
You can do both, nothing,
And everything in between
You will win and have more
That color sets your eyes off.... Beautiful as ever ..! 👀
I was on a neighborhood association and I brought in women who after I built them up for months to build my team - well they turned on me! I created a monster. After they had their big power grab of course it became clear how inept a few of them were, and how they really could not cut it. I should never have given them so much free rein, they became overconfident and betrayed me.
Awww your safe yes probobly a extroverted thinker type do you think :);).
I really enjoy uncomfortable silences: watching the insecure squirm is very revealing.
I am INFJ and I am very self aware. Is being self aware common with INFJ?
It's more common to be self conscious, but if you use that right you can be more self aware. What is self aware to you?
I would say so yes.
Yes very much yay.
@@FanTasteRPG I am very intuitive and a critical thinker. For instance, I don’t think that I INFJ could be manipulated by a Donald Trump. I can’t stand being around small talk niceties and gossip. I much prefer solitude with an animal other than human.
@@END-THE-FEDthat’s me to the T , alone 90% of the time
Your hairstyle is pretty.
Gorgeous ❤
Thank you ❤
Thanks ❤
YES! thank you 🙏❤️ learning it.