Very early in my relationship I told my partner that his friendship with a particular woman made me a little uncomfortable she was very rude to me when I met her and she asked him “is she a void filler?” And it really hurt my feelings. I sat him down and said if that’s the kind of woman you’d rather have by all means go for it but I don’t have time for this. And I left it at that and decided not to talk to him anymore. The NEXT day he texts me screenshots of a conversation he had with her where he expressed that he didn’t like how she talked to me and they can no longer be friends. But I especially remember a line where he told her “And I definitely didn’t like when you asked if she was just filling a void because she is not. She’s going to be in my life for a very long time.” And he never spoke to her again. This man is now my beautiful and amazing husband. Men CAN say no ladies. And they CAN and SHOULD set boundaries.
@@BaptizeInFire exactly. I knew my worth and I was vocal about it, walked away. And I think he loved that about me to be honest. He knew he was dealing with a real woman.
I actually find this very endearing the only women who want to steal your bf are extremely insecure. I was friends with a girl who would only want men who were taken (she would actively go for married men) it wasn’t until last year she successfully destroyed a marriage. I know that men are to blame but honestly there’s girls out there who def want to take your man just because it makes them feel good… not cos they like them.
Agreed. Miley got all of her hype from her Bangerz era selling sex to the point where it was nearly porn. That’s not liberation that’s insecurity. Since that rain let up now her inner insecurity is coming out by being promiscuous and taking people’s men. Or making shady tweets @ ppl from time to time. She doesn’t strike me as a happy successful woman.
They are seeking self-validation. It's the delusional idea that someone worships and adore you so much that he is willing to leave and destroy everything to have/be with you. The keyword is 'DELUSIONAL'.
It makes them feel powerful, cuz it's not enough to get A guy, any girl can do that. But if he's willing to implode and set his world on fire "for me (says the man theif), then I must be incredibly special". I remember this was basically the thesis of one os Shallon's videos, I know it's just that obvious, but when I heard that I was floored.
Miley and Pete would be such an interesting couple bc they both have the same chaotic energy. They probably have hooked up tho. I’m still 100% convinced Kim and Pete aren’t a real couple
The best revenge for a cheating man is let the mistress keep him...they can both be miserable together, i'm sure that emotion of 'Regret' is a killer🤭i've seen males who have a beautiful wife and life and needed an ego boost so had an affair, the wife found out and kicked him out. Their shame together far outreaches your heartbreak. Let them play 'house' together because they can't play 'family'. Losers.
Shallon, you do not look horrible. You mentioned in your previous video that sometimes we're all just tired and can not be bothered. I was on a video call with my boss earlier this week with a freaking hair bun and a tired look on face (getting better from COVID) and it felt liberating. I always dolled up for these 15-30 minutes calls, but on that day I just couldn't care less and to my surprise he couldn't care less either. It's fine to get all dolled up when you want to and it's also fine to show up as your natural self as well. We get you. We've all been there. Natural beauty is still beauty!
@@shallonlester Shallon you're such a professional. Just know we love you back no matter what you're wearing or how your hair is done. You've helped us SO much!!
@@shallonlester YOU are our best "au naturelle". Honestly, I - personally - do not care if so is "dolled up" for a video. I rather care for what they actually have to say and if they actually did their research. (If so WANTS to put on makeup, do their hair - fine.)
So I find it amusing when other women (and men) hit on my boyfriend. I even enjoy the show. The reason for that is because my boyfriend makes me feel so secure on a very deep core level that I'm confident about the outcome and take some distance just to watch the scenarios play out with quiet glee. Even more overtly; one time in a club, while my bf and I were dancing, an arguably very attractive girl wanted to attract his attention (presumably so that he'd move on to her and leave me...?), getting visibly frustrated when she couldn't. Later on at the bar she "accidentally" pushed me and I couldn't help but laugh with an innate sense of superiority because, if she knew what I knew, she would realise how immature and crazy she was being. Bottom line; I think if your relationship is solid, it doesn't need verbal confirmation - you should feel it; and a lot of that is rooted in the man's consistent actions towards you and investment into the relationship.
Wow this is amazing. My boyfriend does everything to make me feel 1000% secure in our relationship but as a 20 year old girl I still struggle with feeling less attractive and him possibly being attracted to other girls more than me in his mind. This is why I am not as secure in my relationship as I wish. Especially the situation you described I would’ve been at least a little off if a girl did that to me in the club
@@samyray2k851 you know, that's a great point. I think age is also such an important factor. Speaking only from my example; I'm much older now, but I was 21 when I first got together with my bf and I sure as hell wasn't as secure in myself as I am now (note: this is different from that security I feel from my bf) - and it was for the exact same reason as you - I didn't have confidence in my appearance in comparison to the perfectly made up glamazons out there. The bf's loyalty never waivered; it was just me mad at myself for not being the most gorgeous woman alive and wondering why he would even choose me over other "sexier" girls. Turns out, as simple as men are, there's a lot more to attraction and long term relationships. Also turns out I wasn't as hideous as I thought I was. All these insecure boys here making us believe that all men think with their dicks 🤷♀️
I was always like this with my boyfriends. I know there's no competition so as long as no one is getting out of line, I like that he got attention. 💁🏽♀️
Pete and Miley were on some talk show several weeks ago and she sang this song to him with the lyrics “it should have been me.” I knew right then something was off.
I always wonder how I’ve been watching every video you put out for a year now, but have never feel like you’re spewing the same ideas. How do you manage to make every video new and filled with all different kids of novel outlooks and knowledge? Amazing. You are really meant for this.
Shallon, I don’t know if you read your comments. As a relationship counselor, you said one HUGE statements that I tell all my clients. “You say what you have to say once!” They heard you!
But he started and this is what Narcissistic people do. His whole woo is me thing, makes people forget he was the first person dating during their divorce but the moment Kim finds one person to hang with he makes a whole scène and begs for her, and it seems like he just now started dating. I have seen so many publications state that after kim and pete's new relationship Kanye is now also dating. When he was publicly dating from the start. Its more than ego, it flipping the narratieve so that he is the victom. Even him stating his kids want them to be together, and he wants that too but kim has people in her ear, if one of their kids stumbles upon that interview. Mommy is the bad guy, removing him from all the guilt and all the reason why Kim absolutely had to leave that situation.
@@BrittneyNicoleflicks I’m with you on that. Since day UNO I think that’s super staged. Specially after seen it’s more of like a marketing campaign for balenciaga and Diesel !
Pete will probably have a mood swing and ghost Kim after she’s totally wrapped and in love. And Miley, she’s being rock and roll, cool girl. This triangle is a mess I kinda want to watch ngl.🤣
Constantly need an audience and can’t be alone. You just described my highly narcissistic ex. He used to say all the time he could never be alone! If I was running late or wasn’t available, he would immediately find someone (a friend, or probably other girls too) to “fill in”. Constantly. All day, all night, every single time. He needed an audience and honestly, the bigger the better. I used to call it “the David show!” To my friend. “Hey, we watched the David show last night!” Haha. You crack me up. I love that “you there! By the water fountain! Can you act?” Haha. Love it. And a tooth clown 😂 ah I love Shallon.
Hahaha “I’ve got a vagina!” stage haha. And Pete’s voice. I left my ex because of women like Miley around my ex…and he’s like a Pete. So yea, you’ve helped me to get over that situation.
My ex found a girl who looks just like me is doing the same thing. And I also think the more hurt they are, is the faster and more intensely they pursue their substitute girls.
tooth clown!! 😭😭Only Shallon can make such a serious comment funny, all the while raising deep reflection and giving life advice. it's truly a magical gift.🙌🦄💝
I think it's possible that maybe Miley got the vibe that Pete and Kim aren't a serious thing and has maybe been trying a little hard to be "friendly" with him since they hosted New Year's together. But who knows? I personally think that Pete and Miley would have way more in common than Kim does with Pete. I mean, she's a mom of 4 with a huge business. Pete seems nice and it's good for Kim to have some fun after the whole Kanye saga. I just don't see her and Pete lasting for a significant amount of time. And Tristan and Khloe. Wow. His apology to her was ridiculous. That line about him not acting in the way he "views" her was too much. In my opinion, he treated her exactly the way he views her: a doormat that will always forgive his infidelity with time. He went way far this time though, by actually conceiving a child behind her back. Hopefully, she can heal and find a man that truly loves and respects her and doesn't mistake her kindness for weakness. As for Tristan, I suspect in a few years he'll make a public showing of going to rehab to change his ways and learn to be a "better man." Hopefully by then, Khloe will not fall for it. Best wishes to Tristan's kids though, I hope he's a good father to ALL of them regardless of what a POS he is to their mothers.
Hey, shallon i’ve been following you since 2 years and i juste need to say that you helped me to grown so much. I am 20 and french and have such a low self estime like its baffling. And going trough a journey listening to your advices really help me. I wish i had heard your word years ago!! I was such a push over and a people pleaser. I still have many flaws and stuff to work on. But i truly am greatfull and ready to grow even more for this new years with you !!!!
It could be just because Kim sees Miley as a bad influence, or maybe she's envious of their relationship. Miley and Pete seem pretty tight. They're on very similar wavelengths, and I can see where Miley could relate to him in a way Kim can't.
I have to say I always liked Pete. When he started I admired he was so young on SNL and when he looked more matured I got a crush on him and I totally get the appeal. He reminds me of my HS crush. Looks and hangs out wit the cool crowd/ bad boys but he is nice, sweet, shy and kinda dorky. Idk why but I dig it, and now everyone does too apparently lol. So I love Pete and I love Kim with Pete as I feel she can relax and not having to be her glam self. It's an over correction from kanye but it's probably more relaxing for her. With all that said, I also find Shallon's impression of Pete to be hilarious and spot on lol.
Hey Shallon! Thanks for all of your advice, especially around confidence. I recently landed a job at an exclusive, very desired workplace and I have you to thank for leveling me up. X
U nailed it! I thought the exact same thing…Miley is trying to one up Kim. It’s a competition for her. It’s not about Pete. She’s jealous. I knew something was coming because Miley kept commenting on the BDE stuff with Pete and his relationship status. She’s trifling and you can see it plain as day. I hope Pete realizes she’s not a friend and don’t hang out with her anymore. Friends don’t put each other in compromising positions
She just started dating him. It's not her man it's just her turn. He been rotating ladies in and out of his life haven't y'all been paying attention it's just her turn
If you have a faithful man, you don't have to worry about someone "stealing" him. If a woman tries this, you have to give her zero attention. If you do, it will make you look insecure to her, and your man. She then gets what she wants and makes you look bad doing it. It will make her feel like shit when you don't give her any attention. If something is making you uncomfortable, it's best to address it just once, as Shallon explained. If he cares, he will listen and address it right away. If he does it again, he will continue to. I had this happen recently but it ended up being hilarious. No one I was worried about in the slightest. My boyfriend blocked her. Then she blocked me because she wasn't getting any response from either of us. She continues to spy on my page using some lame "glamping" page, and endless other fake pages. I didn't have to tell him how to handle any of this. He is smart enough to avoid anything that would risk our relationship. I know it's a tough world out there. I dealt with plenty of sketchy ones over the years. Shallon has helped me navigate a lot of situations. I now have higher expectations and am getting the respect I deserve from people.
I used to know a girl who's boyfriend was seeing a girl at work behind her back...her revenge was the dude like a**l and the girl liked to give bjs.. so she was essentially sucking her poop off him. Lol karma
My ex best friend of 4 years tried to steal my ex of 6 YEARS right after we broke up. She even would say bad things about me to him behind my back. You know what I did? I told her once that I'd appreciate it if she stopped talking to him (she didn't know I knew and my ex was sending me screenshots). She said okay but kept talking to him anyways. I blocked her immediately. She found me on another platform we never talked on and started saying some shit and tried to gaslight me and tried to act like "she knew something I didn't (my ex sending screenshots to her which I already knew about and her dumb a$$ thought she was the only one getting them). I ignored all the bait and said, "when you are ready to talk to me, you can come to my house and we can talk in person." She never replied after that because we both knew she could not act all tough to me in person. That she would fumble and I'd have all the evidence. I'm so proud of myself for being only 22 and handling it that way. A few years later I'm with a WAY better man. Also haven't talked to her since.
I will never understand how Pete managed to score Kim to begin with. (Or Ariana, or Kate.) And if he did cheat on her with the trash, I just hope Kim has better self esteem than her sister, and that she dumps his ass. It’s so important to know your worth.
thank you shallon! i needed this and when you said you’re at the gym n you don’t feel like you belong -i’m on the stairclimber determined to lose all the weight i’ve gained n leave behind the douche that i was chasing. it’s been 4 wks n eventho it’s hard -i know it’s worth it on both fronts!
I love how you use the terms about girls being “girls being one of the boys” I love being a girls girl, having real authentic friendships is what life is all about!
Shallon CANNOT I literally mean CANT look umm MORE drop dead gorgeous ,when she's with or without makeup,,hair up or down, bangs , no bangs , red purple, pink ,blue lipstick no lipstick , she's more beautiful with everyday ,this is due to her beautiful soul, spirt ,energy ,vibe personality 💜 💖 ♥️ ♥️ ♥️ ♥️ it's her She's a beautiful flower, who needs to continue to grow and gain knowledge so WE the shaligators can also gain more knowledge ,she's been there for me when i lost my mother ,my daughter, my life, myself ,my eyesight I will forever be grateful for Shallon she is just a,beautiful human being, I adore her ,, kisses 💋 & hugs 🫂 xo. Abundance, prosperity, love ,light, peace ,health, always and forever for each and everyone of you. Your all beautiful,, don't ever forget !!!!
Pete and Miley are kindred spirits, they have the same energy. They are a good match. Kim just needs to focus on her kids and her business…Pete is not on her level.
Great insight. Kanye is a crazed narcissist that wants to control Kim yet is mad about Kris controlling him. How does that work? Has Khloe apologized to Jordyn Woods???
I can’t stand Khloe anymore however I don’t think ANY woman should have to apologize to any woman who her man cheated with when she fully knew they were supposed to be in a relationship. 🤯
when my younger brother comes into my room as i am watching your channel he gets tongue tied and cannot look away from the 52 inch tv monitor, and forgets what he was bugging me for, and, he is a grown ass divorced 50 year old man that I have never seen, go all puppy eyes over any woman.... Shallon you are stunning!😍
I think Miley’s gestures and behaviors with Pete Davidson are distasteful and inappropriate. A lot of people think they would be good together, but they are not together. She never showed public interest in him until she found out about Kim. She wasn’t serenading him when he was single, she did not race over when Ariana ended the engagement. What does she think? He will break up with Kim to be with her because she feels like it now. She just wants what she can’t have. So now, she needs to sit back and wait her turn- because regardless of if the public likes her or not for him and in general, it’s Kim’s turn. Also, Kim is way more Pete’s type than Miley Cyrus- she’s more aggressive, assertive and intense while he seems to go for the gentle, softer, hyper feminine personalities. I do think Kete will expire due to a lack of maturity on Pete’s end but for now they are both smiling.
My ex-husband moved on super fast, too. Of course he did. His meal ticket (me) finally had enough and left him. He needed another meal ticket AND FAST.
Goddamnit these Kardashians will never go away they’re just too good at the fame game. I’m so bored. I want a new famous it girl. Am I the only one? Pete and Kim still doesn’t make sense to me
So, is it the same with John Mulaney and his wife? Could he not stand being alone or is it that he had to get rid of his old life and his wife was just a part of it? Or is it both?
I couldn't help but wonder if she was part of his old life he wanted to get rid of, and perhaps he wasn't his best self around her anymore. Any number of things could have been called to his attention about their relationship during rehab. I couldn't help but think too that maybe he wanted kids and she didn't. Remember how quickly Olivia got pregnant after they started dating. Something else too- Olivia had been trying to get her hooks into him for a while. She might have done what Megan Markle supposedly did with Prince Harry.
Right before minute 4, Shallon says something like "it's hard to know a guy's intentions." That is why you wait. Maybe 2 months, maybe 6 months, maybe 18 months before you sleep with them IF you're sensitive. The point is, a guy who is kind-hearted and truly wants to be with you WILL let you know his intentions. Until the intentions are clear, you are just playing the cool girl going with his flow. Don't ignore your internal flow- that is what you should follow. If you want casual, good for you! If not, you have to wait for them to be clear and have the tough conversations. That is honestly the only way to know what's up and what's down.
Shallon, you have the best Pete Davison so spot on. I am like cackling every time you do it. What you were saying about always needing an audience and they cannot be alone, Reminds me so much of the Charlie Puth song Attention, specifically the lyrics “ You just want attention you don’t want my heart maybe you just hate the thought of me with someone new”
An interloper is your partner's problem, never yours. If they won't or can't make them back off, you are never obligated to do it yourself and you deserve better. Wise words as always, Queen!
What are your thoughts on kim & Pete being a PR relationship though? they hung out but maybe Pete also doesn’t shoot his shot w Miley because he’s under contract
Oh Shallon! This happened to me with a guy I use to date and a supposed friend. She ended up sleeping with him. I didn't acknowledge her at the time but I definitely told him off and left him crying. She wanted to be me and I didn't understand why? Thank you for clarifying what I was thinking.
OMG - Queen - same nails. I decided to give my poor nails a break and to try to let them grow so I did gel nails, in black, and they are kinda short, but so much healthier!
Regarding women coming for your man: I would first confront the man because they set the tone and it’s HIS behavior and demeanor that invites her behavior. Now there are definitely some predatory women out there. But most sane adults respect boundaries. So if he didn’t set them that’s his fault. I can definitely see Miley being predatory she is such a pick me girl, but he could have said no thank you to hanging out after work.
People never understand when I tell them that women are not constantly hitting on their man cause he’s the finest thing alive it’s because he’s giving the impression and vibe that he’s OPEN to their advances..9/10 that’s the problem
I'm cracking up all the time at your jokes, the million jokes in the intro 🔥and always at the Pete impersonation😂 But of course very useful advice as always that can be applied to different situations. Loved it. I was wondering whether you will make a video on Nicolas Cage having a baby? Would love to hear your opinion!
I needed this today! Actually just found out last night that a girl that once asked out my boyfriend, before she knew he had a girlfriend, has been pursuing him lately. She's been messaging him late at night and trying to get with him. I had to confront him when I noticed that messages from her had been deleted and he set it to where he didn't get notifications for her messages. I know I've got to quit snooping LOL but I've just had this feeling lately that something I had to worry about. I mean maybe I was better off not knowing like he told me, but I was going to go crazy. But he says he has shut her down and he's not doing anything wrong. And I want to trust him. I feel like if she's going to be inappropriate, then yeah he needs to keep his distance. I don't think I would ever confront her myself. I'm too shy, but it is tempting. Lol. She rents a house that his aunt owns, and he has to help when there's a problem with something. I told him if she's going to keep it up, they need to find someone else to do that. But supposedly she's moving soon, and trying to get back with her kid's dad. Maybe that will help. 🤷🏼♀️
I will never ever fight over a guy. If he’s your boyfriend he’s the one that should have loyalty towards you instead of getting mad at the girl who you’re probably not even close to so has no loyalty towards you.
I think It's ALL a publicity stunt. Kim and Petes entire relationship, her unfollowing Miley because Kim Knows people will see that and it just adds to the juicy drama and gives her more publicity!
I thought Miley was overstepping when she sang to Pete on one of the late shows and then I thought wow she is really flirting with Pete and tbh I think she and Pete make a better couple 🤣
Thank you so much always for your honesty and advice. I don’t know how you always manage to talk about things that seem to be affecting me in my life at any given moment, but I greatly appreciate you!
Last year I used Shallon's "How to steal a guy" tips from Flaze video in summer and now I feel so called out like, chicken shit, omg?? 😭😭 Also I really miss those Flaze videos
Very early in my relationship I told my partner that his friendship with a particular woman made me a little uncomfortable she was very rude to me when I met her and she asked him “is she a void filler?” And it really hurt my feelings.
I sat him down and said if that’s the kind of woman you’d rather have by all means go for it but I don’t have time for this. And I left it at that and decided not to talk to him anymore.
The NEXT day he texts me screenshots of a conversation he had with her where he expressed that he didn’t like how she talked to me and they can no longer be friends. But I especially remember a line where he told her “And I definitely didn’t like when you asked if she was just filling a void because she is not. She’s going to be in my life for a very long time.”
And he never spoke to her again.
This man is now my beautiful and amazing husband. Men CAN say no ladies. And they CAN and SHOULD set boundaries.
❤❤❤ this gives me HOPE
They definitely can, but ladies you must follow her lead! Know your value, set your standards high and create CLEAR boundaries!
See if my relationship isn’t like this I’m better off single and care free 😩❤️
@@BaptizeInFire exactly. I knew my worth and I was vocal about it, walked away. And I think he loved that about me to be honest. He knew he was dealing with a real woman.
Real men can
Tristan basically said “I cheated on you with the utmost respect” 😑
Totally
😂😂😂
Haha 🤣🤣☺️☺️
straight trash... AND he pushed up on a young woman who is best friends with the sister. so gross
Shallon’s Pete impression deserves an Oscar.
It always cracks me up 😂😂
I cannot get enough of it
Facts 😂😂👏
Yes!!!
Hahahhahhaha omg it does!!!!
I actually find this very endearing the only women who want to steal your bf are extremely insecure. I was friends with a girl who would only want men who were taken (she would actively go for married men) it wasn’t until last year she successfully destroyed a marriage. I know that men are to blame but honestly there’s girls out there who def want to take your man just because it makes them feel good… not cos they like them.
Agreed. Miley got all of her hype from her Bangerz era selling sex to the point where it was nearly porn. That’s not liberation that’s insecurity. Since that rain let up now her inner insecurity is coming out by being promiscuous and taking people’s men. Or making shady tweets @ ppl from time to time. She doesn’t strike me as a happy successful woman.
They are seeking self-validation. It's the delusional idea that someone worships and adore you so much that he is willing to leave and destroy everything to have/be with you. The keyword is 'DELUSIONAL'.
@@saikikarin320 yess. That’s what the drug of fame is all about. Including other drugs.
It makes them feel powerful, cuz it's not enough to get A guy, any girl can do that. But if he's willing to implode and set his world on fire "for me (says the man theif), then I must be incredibly special".
I remember this was basically the thesis of one os Shallon's videos, I know it's just that obvious, but when I heard that I was floored.
I tried explaining this to my guy...that she didn't want him as much as to show me up. He had a hard time with that!
Surprisingly, Shallon does the most spot on impersonation of Pete. It gets me every time 😂
Her impressions are Everything 🤣🤣🤣
I love it!
She knows the New Yorkers 🤠
@@lostphilosophy5617 I love the Selena Gomez one too
I want to watch Selena's impersonation. Can u recommend me one? ty
Miley and Pete would be such an interesting couple bc they both have the same chaotic energy. They probably have hooked up tho. I’m still 100% convinced Kim and Pete aren’t a real couple
I don’t know why anyone wants to date Pete. He must be full of herpes by now. Super gross. If Tristan Thompson is the Groupon penis, WTF is Pete?
*Pete got the meat*
Couldn’t agree more.
I'm trying to imagine what those crazy fights would be like😂 sounds funny to spectate not so much to be in.
The best revenge for a cheating man is let the mistress keep him...they can both be miserable together, i'm sure that emotion of 'Regret' is a killer🤭i've seen males who have a beautiful wife and life and needed an ego boost so had an affair, the wife found out and kicked him out. Their shame together far outreaches your heartbreak. Let them play 'house' together because they can't play 'family'. Losers.
Shallon, you do not look horrible. You mentioned in your previous video that sometimes we're all just tired and can not be bothered. I was on a video call with my boss earlier this week with a freaking hair bun and a tired look on face (getting better from COVID) and it felt liberating. I always dolled up for these 15-30 minutes calls, but on that day I just couldn't care less and to my surprise he couldn't care less either. It's fine to get all dolled up when you want to and it's also fine to show up as your natural self as well. We get you. We've all been there. Natural beauty is still beauty!
Thank you! You’re right, I need to switch the word from tired to liberating! I just feel like you guys deserve my best!
@@shallonlester Shallon you're such a professional. Just know we love you back no matter what you're wearing or how your hair is done. You've helped us SO much!!
@@shallonlester YOU are our best "au naturelle". Honestly, I - personally - do not care if so is "dolled up" for a video. I rather care for what they actually have to say and if they actually did their research. (If so WANTS to put on makeup, do their hair - fine.)
@@shallonlester r u a Leo or sag rising u get annoyed by ur lovely hair I get it
So I find it amusing when other women (and men) hit on my boyfriend. I even enjoy the show. The reason for that is because my boyfriend makes me feel so secure on a very deep core level that I'm confident about the outcome and take some distance just to watch the scenarios play out with quiet glee. Even more overtly; one time in a club, while my bf and I were dancing, an arguably very attractive girl wanted to attract his attention (presumably so that he'd move on to her and leave me...?), getting visibly frustrated when she couldn't. Later on at the bar she "accidentally" pushed me and I couldn't help but laugh with an innate sense of superiority because, if she knew what I knew, she would realise how immature and crazy she was being. Bottom line; I think if your relationship is solid, it doesn't need verbal confirmation - you should feel it; and a lot of that is rooted in the man's consistent actions towards you and investment into the relationship.
You sound annoying
Wow this is amazing. My boyfriend does everything to make me feel 1000% secure in our relationship but as a 20 year old girl I still struggle with feeling less attractive and him possibly being attracted to other girls more than me in his mind. This is why I am not as secure in my relationship as I wish. Especially the situation you described I would’ve been at least a little off if a girl did that to me in the club
@@samyray2k851 you know, that's a great point. I think age is also such an important factor. Speaking only from my example; I'm much older now, but I was 21 when I first got together with my bf and I sure as hell wasn't as secure in myself as I am now (note: this is different from that security I feel from my bf) - and it was for the exact same reason as you - I didn't have confidence in my appearance in comparison to the perfectly made up glamazons out there. The bf's loyalty never waivered; it was just me mad at myself for not being the most gorgeous woman alive and wondering why he would even choose me over other "sexier" girls. Turns out, as simple as men are, there's a lot more to attraction and long term relationships. Also turns out I wasn't as hideous as I thought I was. All these insecure boys here making us believe that all men think with their dicks 🤷♀️
I was always like this with my boyfriends. I know there's no competition so as long as no one is getting out of line, I like that he got attention. 💁🏽♀️
You got a good one! He loves you. I predict on old happy married couple holding hands and snuggling their way thru life.
Pete and Miley were on some talk show several weeks ago and she sang this song to him with the lyrics “it should have been me.” I knew right then something was off.
I always wonder how I’ve been watching every video you put out for a year now, but have never feel like you’re spewing the same ideas. How do you manage to make every video new and filled with all different kids of novel outlooks and knowledge? Amazing. You are really meant for this.
Shallon, I don’t know if you read your comments. As a relationship counselor, you said one HUGE statements that I tell all my clients. “You say what you have to say once!” They heard you!
I literally burst out laughing every time Shallon does her Pete impression 😂😂 I can’t lolol
Me too! I had to pause the video to compose myself 🤣
That and the Selena goose impression always get me 😂
She's so spot on tho! lol
I feel like Kanye is dating other women because Kim started dating people publicly. Kanye’s ego is huge 😬
But he started and this is what Narcissistic people do. His whole woo is me thing, makes people forget he was the first person dating during their divorce but the moment Kim finds one person to hang with he makes a whole scène and begs for her, and it seems like he just now started dating.
I have seen so many publications state that after kim and pete's new relationship Kanye is now also dating. When he was publicly dating from the start. Its more than ego, it flipping the narratieve so that he is the victom. Even him stating his kids want them to be together, and he wants that too but kim has people in her ear, if one of their kids stumbles upon that interview. Mommy is the bad guy, removing him from all the guilt and all the reason why Kim absolutely had to leave that situation.
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He’s definitely paying this Julia fox woman to say the dates were wonderful and he’s wonderful..the timing is just too weird
@@BrittneyNicoleflicks yes! And she’s too random.
@@BrittneyNicoleflicks I’m with you on that. Since day UNO I think that’s super staged. Specially after seen it’s more of like a marketing campaign for balenciaga and Diesel !
Kanye is clearly hurt from losing Kim. Esp how she's moved on so publicly... And Kim wants to be like Kourtney & meg fox but Pete is a dork
Pete will probably have a mood swing and ghost Kim after she’s totally wrapped and in love. And Miley, she’s being rock and roll, cool girl. This triangle is a mess I kinda want to watch ngl.🤣
It’s what she deserves
Yup been saying this... Pete has mental issues of his own. AND he's a Scorpio to boot.
Constantly need an audience and can’t be alone. You just described my highly narcissistic ex. He used to say all the time he could never be alone! If I was running late or wasn’t available, he would immediately find someone (a friend, or probably other girls too) to “fill in”. Constantly. All day, all night, every single time. He needed an audience and honestly, the bigger the better. I used to call it “the David show!” To my friend. “Hey, we watched the David show last night!”
Haha. You crack me up. I love that “you there! By the water fountain! Can you act?” Haha. Love it. And a tooth clown 😂 ah I love Shallon.
Hahaha “I’ve got a vagina!” stage haha. And Pete’s voice.
I left my ex because of women like Miley around my ex…and he’s like a Pete. So yea, you’ve helped me to get over that situation.
My ex was the same. I used to call him the one man Matt show!! Very funny. And yeah if I wasn’t there he’d just have another girl take my spot
My ex found a girl who looks just like me is doing the same thing. And I also think the more hurt they are, is the faster and more intensely they pursue their substitute girls.
Wow he sounds exhausting
@@buggy627 haha one man Matt show 😂
You almost have to feel sorry for them with how desperate they are for validation.
tooth clown!! 😭😭Only Shallon can make such a serious comment funny, all the while raising deep reflection and giving life advice. it's truly a magical gift.🙌🦄💝
I think it's possible that maybe Miley got the vibe that Pete and Kim aren't a serious thing and has maybe been trying a little hard to be "friendly" with him since they hosted New Year's together. But who knows? I personally think that Pete and Miley would have way more in common than Kim does with Pete. I mean, she's a mom of 4 with a huge business. Pete seems nice and it's good for Kim to have some fun after the whole Kanye saga. I just don't see her and Pete lasting for a significant amount of time. And Tristan and Khloe. Wow. His apology to her was ridiculous. That line about him not acting in the way he "views" her was too much. In my opinion, he treated her exactly the way he views her: a doormat that will always forgive his infidelity with time. He went way far this time though, by actually conceiving a child behind her back. Hopefully, she can heal and find a man that truly loves and respects her and doesn't mistake her kindness for weakness. As for Tristan, I suspect in a few years he'll make a public showing of going to rehab to change his ways and learn to be a "better man." Hopefully by then, Khloe will not fall for it. Best wishes to Tristan's kids though, I hope he's a good father to ALL of them regardless of what a POS he is to their mothers.
You’ve got a point there, Miley does seem like a better match for him
Hey, shallon i’ve been following you since 2 years and i juste need to say that you helped me to grown so much. I am 20 and french and have such a low self estime like its baffling. And going trough a journey listening to your advices really help me. I wish i had heard your word years ago!! I was such a push over and a people pleaser. I still have many flaws and stuff to work on. But i truly am greatfull and ready to grow even more for this new years with you !!!!
It could be just because Kim sees Miley as a bad influence, or maybe she's envious of their relationship. Miley and Pete seem pretty tight. They're on very similar wavelengths, and I can see where Miley could relate to him in a way Kim can't.
I have to say I always liked Pete. When he started I admired he was so young on SNL and when he looked more matured I got a crush on him and I totally get the appeal. He reminds me of my HS crush. Looks and hangs out wit the cool crowd/ bad boys but he is nice, sweet, shy and kinda dorky. Idk why but I dig it, and now everyone does too apparently lol. So I love Pete and I love Kim with Pete as I feel she can relax and not having to be her glam self. It's an over correction from kanye but it's probably more relaxing for her. With all that said, I also find Shallon's impression of Pete to be hilarious and spot on lol.
Shallon’s insanely accurate impression of Pete Davidson gives me so much life.
Tristian did what??… ***acts like I’m actually surprised***
Hey Shallon! Thanks for all of your advice, especially around confidence. I recently landed a job at an exclusive, very desired workplace and I have you to thank for leveling me up. X
U nailed it! I thought the exact same thing…Miley is trying to one up Kim. It’s a competition for her. It’s not about Pete. She’s jealous. I knew something was coming because Miley kept commenting on the BDE stuff with Pete and his relationship status. She’s trifling and you can see it plain as day. I hope Pete realizes she’s not a friend and don’t hang out with her anymore. Friends don’t put each other in compromising positions
She just started dating him. It's not her man it's just her turn. He been rotating ladies in and out of his life haven't y'all been paying attention it's just her turn
Pete and Miley would be a great New age rock couple . Kim need to teach alphabet for the 4 kids . Okay period.
LMAOO AMEN
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Kim can start by teaching you to write a grammatically correct sentence.
@@mave143 English is not my native language but you can learn culture as well
Agreed! 🎯🎯 she needs to focus on her kids. And stop hanging with the kids
If you have a faithful man, you don't have to worry about someone "stealing" him. If a woman tries this, you have to give her zero attention. If you do, it will make you look insecure to her, and your man. She then gets what she wants and makes you look bad doing it. It will make her feel like shit when you don't give her any attention. If something is making you uncomfortable, it's best to address it just once, as Shallon explained. If he cares, he will listen and address it right away. If he does it again, he will continue to. I had this happen recently but it ended up being hilarious. No one I was worried about in the slightest. My boyfriend blocked her. Then she blocked me because she wasn't getting any response from either of us. She continues to spy on my page using some lame "glamping" page, and endless other fake pages. I didn't have to tell him how to handle any of this. He is smart enough to avoid anything that would risk our relationship. I know it's a tough world out there. I dealt with plenty of sketchy ones over the years. Shallon has helped me navigate a lot of situations. I now have higher expectations and am getting the respect I deserve from people.
I used to know a girl who's boyfriend was seeing a girl at work behind her back...her revenge was the dude like a**l and the girl liked to give bjs.. so she was essentially sucking her poop off him. Lol karma
@@aflawedhuman2046 that's brutal. 🤣
We seriously need a shallontourage compilation of Shallon's impersonations of people and situations. You are an amazing actress.
My ex best friend of 4 years tried to steal my ex of 6 YEARS right after we broke up. She even would say bad things about me to him behind my back. You know what I did? I told her once that I'd appreciate it if she stopped talking to him (she didn't know I knew and my ex was sending me screenshots). She said okay but kept talking to him anyways. I blocked her immediately. She found me on another platform we never talked on and started saying some shit and tried to gaslight me and tried to act like "she knew something I didn't (my ex sending screenshots to her which I already knew about and her dumb a$$ thought she was the only one getting them). I ignored all the bait and said, "when you are ready to talk to me, you can come to my house and we can talk in person." She never replied after that because we both knew she could not act all tough to me in person. That she would fumble and I'd have all the evidence. I'm so proud of myself for being only 22 and handling it that way. A few years later I'm with a WAY better man. Also haven't talked to her since.
Wow you are so strong! And handled that situation perfectly.
You’re like the bestie every girl should have 🥰
I will never understand how Pete managed to score Kim to begin with. (Or Ariana, or Kate.) And if he did cheat on her with the trash, I just hope Kim has better self esteem than her sister, and that she dumps his ass. It’s so important to know your worth.
Idk if Kim will leave him. It’s very rare to find a man in Hollywood who doesn’t cheat. Ultra rare even Shallon has said that
On Twitter Ariana grande when she was engaged to him said he had a ten inch penis
Kim hasn't felt affection for awhile...so that "kiss" affected her like a school girl. Especially the fact that he is way younger than her..
I say Kim step aside and let's watch Pete and Miley be the Sid & Nancy we deserve.
Yeah, at least Miley and Pete are close in age
thank you shallon! i needed this and when you said you’re at the gym n you don’t feel like you belong -i’m on the stairclimber determined to lose all the weight i’ve gained n leave behind the douche that i was chasing. it’s been 4 wks n eventho it’s hard -i know it’s worth it on both fronts!
Just binge watching shallon after being out of the loop a few weeks. God I love shallon. So much truth and inspiration and laughter.
I love how you use the terms about girls being “girls being one of the boys”
I love being a girls girl, having real authentic friendships is what life is all about!
Shallon CANNOT I literally mean CANT look umm MORE drop dead gorgeous ,when she's with or without makeup,,hair up or down, bangs , no bangs , red purple, pink ,blue lipstick no lipstick , she's more beautiful with everyday ,this is due to her beautiful soul, spirt ,energy ,vibe personality 💜 💖 ♥️ ♥️ ♥️ ♥️ it's her She's a beautiful flower, who needs to continue to grow and gain knowledge so WE the shaligators can also gain more knowledge ,she's been there for me when i lost my mother ,my daughter, my life, myself ,my eyesight I will forever be grateful for Shallon she is just a,beautiful human being, I adore her ,, kisses 💋 & hugs 🫂 xo. Abundance, prosperity, love ,light, peace ,health, always and forever for each and everyone of you. Your all beautiful,, don't ever forget !!!!
Pete and Miley are kindred spirits, they have the same energy. They are a good match. Kim just needs to focus on her kids and her business…Pete is not on her level.
She’s with him for that 10” d
Fact is.. Most men have 7 "options" waiting in the background in case there's an opening/ opportunity/ trouble, in their main relationship.
I’ve heard that exact thing said about women😂
Entertainment value and advice on 10, those impressions had me dying 😅. Great advice as always x
Great insight. Kanye is a crazed narcissist that wants to control Kim yet is mad about Kris controlling him. How does that work? Has Khloe apologized to Jordyn Woods???
Only one narcissist can run the show at a time hahaha
I can’t stand Khloe anymore however I don’t think ANY woman should have to apologize to any woman who her man cheated with when she fully knew they were supposed to be in a relationship. 🤯
@Cindy L truth don't feel sorry for the KarTrashians and their losers men. Only the kids garner my empathy.
@@coolasice7560 Khloe doesn’t own an once of apology to Jordyn.
@@RUclipsoooooooooo kloe wasn’t his wife . He’s never been married. Cheating may be morally wrong but not illegal.
when my younger brother comes into my room as i am watching your channel he gets tongue tied and cannot look away from the 52 inch tv monitor, and forgets what he was bugging me for, and, he is a grown ass divorced 50 year old man that I have never seen, go all puppy eyes over any woman.... Shallon you are stunning!😍
You’re beautiful as well! Wow
I think Miley’s gestures and behaviors with Pete Davidson are distasteful and inappropriate. A lot of people think they would be good together, but they are not together. She never showed public interest in him until she found out about Kim. She wasn’t serenading him when he was single, she did not race over when Ariana ended the engagement. What does she think? He will break up with Kim to be with her because she feels like it now. She just wants what she can’t have. So now, she needs to sit back and wait her turn- because regardless of if the public likes her or not for him and in general, it’s Kim’s turn. Also, Kim is way more Pete’s type than Miley Cyrus- she’s more aggressive, assertive and intense while he seems to go for the gentle, softer, hyper feminine personalities. I do think Kete will expire due to a lack of maturity on Pete’s end but for now they are both smiling.
My ex-husband moved on super fast, too. Of course he did. His meal ticket (me) finally had enough and left him. He needed another meal ticket AND FAST.
Your impersonation of Miley & Pete had me screaming.😂 So accurate! I adore you Shallon .❌⭕️❌⭕️
Goddamnit these Kardashians will never go away they’re just too good at the fame game. I’m so bored. I want a new famous it girl. Am I the only one? Pete and Kim still doesn’t make sense to me
So, is it the same with John Mulaney and his wife? Could he not stand being alone or is it that he had to get rid of his old life and his wife was just a part of it? Or is it both?
I think Olivia was the hottest chick he’d ever touched and he got hypnotized. Men aren’t the brightest.
I couldn't help but wonder if she was part of his old life he wanted to get rid of, and perhaps he wasn't his best self around her anymore. Any number of things could have been called to his attention about their relationship during rehab. I couldn't help but think too that maybe he wanted kids and she didn't. Remember how quickly Olivia got pregnant after they started dating. Something else too- Olivia had been trying to get her hooks into him for a while. She might have done what Megan Markle supposedly did with Prince Harry.
@@shallonlester please do a video on them next lol
Right before minute 4, Shallon says something like "it's hard to know a guy's intentions." That is why you wait. Maybe 2 months, maybe 6 months, maybe 18 months before you sleep with them IF you're sensitive. The point is, a guy who is kind-hearted and truly wants to be with you WILL let you know his intentions. Until the intentions are clear, you are just playing the cool girl going with his flow. Don't ignore your internal flow- that is what you should follow. If you want casual, good for you! If not, you have to wait for them to be clear and have the tough conversations. That is honestly the only way to know what's up and what's down.
Shallon, you have the best Pete Davison so spot on. I am like cackling every time you do it. What you were saying about always needing an audience and they cannot be alone, Reminds me so much of the Charlie Puth song Attention, specifically the lyrics “ You just want attention you don’t want my heart maybe you just hate the thought of me with someone new”
OMG your impersonations are so hilarious 😂 Girl I love it 😆🤣
Shallon’s Pete Davidson impression actually sounds more like Pete than Pete himself! 🤣
An interloper is your partner's problem, never yours. If they won't or can't make them back off, you are never obligated to do it yourself and you deserve better. Wise words as always, Queen!
Your pete Davidson impression will never fail to brighten my entire day 🤣
What are your thoughts on kim & Pete being a PR relationship though? they hung out but maybe Pete also doesn’t shoot his shot w Miley because he’s under contract
Oh Shallon! This happened to me with a guy I use to date and a supposed friend. She ended up sleeping with him. I didn't acknowledge her at the time but I definitely told him off and left him crying. She wanted to be me and I didn't understand why? Thank you for clarifying what I was thinking.
Have you listened to The Weeknds new album? I feel like Here We Go Again and Starry Eyes are about Angelina Jolie
Your Pete Davidson impression made me die of laughter
Could you do a video on how to deal with possessive mother-in-laws/bf’s moms? I know it’s super common but it’s still anxiety inducing 🥴
“You have to zombie walk through it until it’s real. You can’t wait for it to feel real and then do it.”
Damn that hit home.
OMG - Queen - same nails. I decided to give my poor nails a break and to try to let them grow so I did gel nails, in black, and they are kinda short, but so much healthier!
Ahhh nail twins! I love a long claw but yeah, I just needed a break! A black gel goes with everything 😎
"Like Ross's music on friends." Gotta love Shallon
Thank you so much for this realistic and timeless advice on relationships. I love this piece. Watching you from Kenya
Regarding women coming for your man:
I would first confront the man because they set the tone and it’s HIS behavior and demeanor that invites her behavior. Now there are definitely some predatory women out there. But most sane adults respect boundaries. So if he didn’t set them that’s his fault. I can definitely see Miley being predatory she is such a pick me girl, but he could have said no thank you to hanging out after work.
100%! When Shallon said Kim unfollowed Miley after hanging out with pete, my first though was, "did she also unfollow Pete??"
People never understand when I tell them that women are not constantly hitting on their man cause he’s the finest thing alive it’s because he’s giving the impression and vibe that he’s OPEN to their advances..9/10 that’s the problem
Miley has a boyfriend, she was not hitting on Beetlejuice Pete Davidson please...
@@irinafms yeah.. people with boyfriends *never* hit on other people's boyfriends.... 🙄
I'm cracking up all the time at your jokes, the million jokes in the intro 🔥and always at the Pete impersonation😂 But of course very useful advice as always that can be applied to different situations. Loved it. I was wondering whether you will make a video on Nicolas Cage having a baby? Would love to hear your opinion!
Lucky to be alive at the same time as Shallon and Memes
Yesss!!
Your explanation on how can they move on so fast is so on point!
I love when the pigeon vs eagle speech ties into a topic!
Please more Pete’s impersonation 😊👏👏👏👏🎉🎉🎉
“This is like Ross’ music on friends” sent me. 😂😂😂 The accuracy…
Shallon, you made me laugh out loud with your impersonations 😂😂😂 have a good day lovely 😊
“You have too many teeth” 😂😂😂😭
Was waiting for this video! Kim must be feeling some type of way for unfollowing Miley
I’m surprised she even followed her in the first place.
Good point 🤔
"Ross' music on friends".
Gold one!
Thank you I needed that especially the end,It made me realize I just need to dig deep be strong one foot in front of the other
Please do a video on the balance of not settling but also not having unrealistic expectations.
can you address why we get so twisted on toxic ex's but not on health relationships?!
Ryan seacrest made me literally laugh out loud
I’m sorry I’m a mom and this is my fun time🤣
Wait, what’s the tea on Reese Witherspoon?! (Not the point of the video, but it wasn’t lost on me).
Shallon has "Dealing with "sweet" mean girls"-video about her here on RUclips
I think she's sweat but doesn't take shit - not a mean girl lol some people not just men can't take confident women
I love listening to your show! Some great advice, good gossip and humorous as hell!
Miley is dating some dude named Max, so if anything did happen with Pete, she was cheating too, not just infiltrating
I needed this today! Actually just found out last night that a girl that once asked out my boyfriend, before she knew he had a girlfriend, has been pursuing him lately. She's been messaging him late at night and trying to get with him. I had to confront him when I noticed that messages from her had been deleted and he set it to where he didn't get notifications for her messages. I know I've got to quit snooping LOL but I've just had this feeling lately that something I had to worry about. I mean maybe I was better off not knowing like he told me, but I was going to go crazy. But he says he has shut her down and he's not doing anything wrong. And I want to trust him. I feel like if she's going to be inappropriate, then yeah he needs to keep his distance. I don't think I would ever confront her myself. I'm too shy, but it is tempting. Lol. She rents a house that his aunt owns, and he has to help when there's a problem with something. I told him if she's going to keep it up, they need to find someone else to do that. But supposedly she's moving soon, and trying to get back with her kid's dad. Maybe that will help. 🤷🏼♀️
I will never ever fight over a guy. If he’s your boyfriend he’s the one that should have loyalty towards you instead of getting mad at the girl who you’re probably not even close to so has no loyalty towards you.
Bravo regarding your impersonations!🤣🤣
I think It's ALL a publicity stunt. Kim and Petes entire relationship, her unfollowing Miley because Kim Knows people will see that and it just adds to the juicy drama and gives her more publicity!
I think Kim has just a midlife crisis lol
I missed you girl! At the same time I was happy to see you were having fun in my home Todos Santos!!
Greetings from México 🇲🇽!
Great video like always! The part about narcs not being able to be alone is spot on.
I thought Miley was overstepping when she sang to Pete on one of the late shows and then I thought wow she is really flirting with Pete and tbh I think she and Pete make a better couple 🤣
To me it looked like they're friends and she is making fun of him and his crush on Kim.
Thank you so much always for your honesty and advice. I don’t know how you always manage to talk about things that seem to be affecting me in my life at any given moment, but I greatly appreciate you!
I got sibling vibes from Pete and Miley, nothing sexual
OMG!!! your Pete impersonations are sooo awesome I just LMAO
"you want me back but you're boning half of miami?" LMFAOOOOO 😭🤣
Can anyone make a compilation of Shallon's impressions? 😂
Lmao those impressions are killing me. The Pete one is everything
“ this is like Ross’ song on friends “ I’m dying
You are so brilliantly funny that you should be a stand up comedienne. Very few ppl can make me laugh out loud.
Miley and Pete look like they belong together, you know what I mean
Excellent video Shallon, thanks!!! 👍🏻💯🌟🔥🔥
Last year I used Shallon's "How to steal a guy" tips from Flaze video in summer and now I feel so called out like, chicken shit, omg?? 😭😭 Also I really miss those Flaze videos
I died at "tooth clown" 😂😂😂
Your Pete impersonation is gold lmao