How to feel better and not depend on some internet fantasy: Dark chocolate. Exercise, swimming is great. Have a pet or two. Play chakra music. Eat lots of green vegetables. Have a dinner date with yourself: light a candle, enjoy a nice dinner, dessert and thank yourself for a nice dinner. Be spiritual. Take up singing or playing an instrument, or handcrafts, art. Walk in the woods/parks. Talk to your guardian angel. Acts of random kindness to real people that does not cost money: smile, say some kind words, offer a home made cookie, etc. Volunteer for some charitable organization. Forgive yourself for your mistake. Be grateful for the lesson. Mistakes are no good unless we learn something. It is an opportunity to improve ourselves. And spread your knowledge.
This is sage advice to have people learn to love themselves. IMO, the people that are the most vulnerable to scammers are lonely people with a low self esteem. Between learning the scammers tricks, building one’s social circle outside of family, and building one’s self esteem through positive lifestyle changes, it’s a lot easier to tell these scamming jerks to [bleep] off.
John Ballard That is unwise. I had encountered internet dangers previously. Allow me to tell you this, internet far is more dangerous than before. Your alias email address does not always guarantee your anonymity. You are traceable by your I.P. address which is embedded in your photos and videos. You are not as anonymous as you like to be. Dating/matrimonial sites are infested with not only scammers, also stalkers, ID thieves, extortionists, hackers, and other ilks much, much worse. Flirting with strangers online is dangerous and you could fall victim to sextortion.
Daniel M. *GOOD ADVICE.* There were some US marine veterans who joined ISIS. Many traitors from armies and navies around the world had joined terrorist organisations. You'll be surprised by their numbers.
Lourdes Padilla definitely agree with you 100% hey baby my flower my angel block that person immediately and guess what I'm a beautiful Nigerian women and I'm so proud of it.
@@tahermahmud3053 I don't even give people I know Money, My Money is Mine alone & I work hard for it they don't have to explain to others why. I always tell them get your own.. Only things I would trust is salvation army.
Yes, and they always either work in highly specialised, important and/or risky occupations... and/or have extremely wealthy relations who are just in a spot of bother and can't access their millions at this present moment :)
Women who loves men telling them how beautiful they are & profess their love are those that are vulnerable to be scammed. Remember, men can say “I’m in love with you” as easily as “I want your money”.
I am always astonished by this. The last person I would be interested in would be a man who spoke to me like this. I am interested in intelligence, humour, kindness even strangeness but never this romantic bullshit, which, even in non-internet relationships means less than nothing to me. Talk is cheap, if anyone ever called me ‘my Queen’ I would fall over LMFAO!
I came across a few scammers like this. They always love sending long ass emails right off the bat... which is not necessarily a red flag, except if you look closer you'll see these emails lack depths apart from the flowery language. I love acting like I'm going to send them money and waste their time 😂
EXACTLy. Why do women accept friend requests from STRANGERS? If I don't know you or we don't mutually know many of the same people, you're a scammer. BYE!
WELL SAID! If you "know" someone online & they need you to send them money, they are a LOSER! If they were legit, they would have a friend or family member to borrow from. They would NEVER need to ask you for a loan. ALWAYS SCAMMERS...
They deserve all they get ... how stupid to believe anyone online. Im sure she has never given to a charity so willingly... she was emotionally needy, go help less fortunate, maybe you will find that emotional need met.
She's not even emotionally needy. If she was, she would have made an effort to mix with and make friends with older lonely men in her own area. Or spent more time with her family. Or found some welcoming club or church group. Or started volunteering. She didn't do these things, so we know for a certainty that her intentions were not genuine.
But how do people think when it comes to money and Ghana/Nigeria ? Lets make up a scam, we have fictional french-canadian scam artist Christophe Renard who's game plan is to seduce wealthy american women aged 40-45 and move in with them. While being boyfriend and girlfriend 24 year old Christophe reveal to these women that he got his rich uncle Jean-Luc who's living in Nigeria is the only remaining family. One day Christophe gets a phone call from his uncle's "lawyer" Jonathan Clarke of the lawfirm Clarke, Winters and Callahan Christophe gets the bad news that his uncle has passed away and has left Christophe as the sole heir of his 50,000,000,000 Nigerian Naira fortune (a bit over 138,000,000 usd) but there's one little hurdle, Jean-Luc didn't trust the banks in Nigeria so he there for kept his entire fortune in gold bars in a private vault underneath his estate. So if Christophe wants the cash he have to go to Nigeria and get himself. So Christophe leaves for Nigeria but ends up flying to Columbia instead, and then e-mail his american girlfriend that he has arrived and that he has the gold and that he will get a truck security guards and escort vehicles and that he will be home in about 3-5 weeks if everything goes smoothly. And all of the sudden Christophe starts to e-mail his girlfriend about the truck breaking down, or the guards being greedy by asking for more cash, or corrupt customs officials/cops or that all of his cash was stolen from his hotel and that he doesn't have the cash for food, fuel, hotels, shipping or salaries because of it. How many 40-45 year old women in love thinking that there will be a huge 138 million $$$ payout which mean that they can live happily ever after in the Bahamas, Miami or Hawaii with their boy toy will end up sending their retirement money and their savings to Nigeria so that Christophe can get the gold home ?
untill its done to you then you dont know, i didnt think i be scammed ever said the same as you but i was scammed by a man so before you made judgement think.
@@stevenschoenfeld5751 Yes paying for dates for both you and your love interest is also like a scam , especially when they will cheat on you or won't marry you.
soneelita Yes ma’am, I agree wholeheartedly with you on that, each person should pay for their own food on a date ; I couldn’t agree more with you on that; it sounds like a scam to me glad we agree on something
Sorry to hear that she has to go through this, but how can a person lend or give money to a total stranger on the internet? I don't get that. But, thanks for sharing and bringing awareness to other people.
You will never get that until it happens to you... because they are good at that they have earn the trust and emotion get involved so, the judgment are blur. . hope noone could never have to go through such anymore.
Online is the worst place to form a relationship cause the worst characters thrive online. Beings that could not be acceptable in the rest of society would have a good guise in ruining the lives of good natured people online.
You can't form a relationship online,what you can do is get an idea of a person's character so that if you did meet them in person there could be a relationship.
God bless you I'm going through the same thing now😪 I wish I would have listened to people when they told me it was a scam also. My online relationship lasted for 2 years. I lost $20,000 but I didn't even really have to give I took out a loan also it's devastating.
How can you be so mean! So uncaring for this poor woman. If you did more research, these scammers are intelligent, scheming scammers. They fill your heart with words of love because they know what women want to hear. They dazzle them with undying love and then feel them in. Men and women all over the world have been scammed and when they realize they have been scammed, it can be devastating, and it takes a long time to get over. There are groups on FB for people who have been scammed. Why because it is people like you who make the person feel even worse. Some women loose all their life savings plus a broken heart and all they get are responses like you to the point that they kill themselves. What ever happened to kindness because you surely do not have it. Remember, karma will be knocking on your door wherein you will need support and no one will help you. It won't be a romance scam but karma will bite you on your rump. NO ONE escapes karma....even these arseholes doing the scamming.
I'm sorry you got hurt again, this time in a different way. You were in love with being treated nicely after not having that & unfortunately it was easy to scam you because of that. You are one of the millions this happens to, both men & women, so don't be embarrassed. I hope your message helps someone else realize what is happening before it is too late, then something good will have come out of your circumstances. It is a very SAD sign of our times when people are all so sad & lonely we look for love online & learn sometimes you are better off on your own. I hope you have happier & better times ahead of you!
Scammer will use sweet words then later will ask you for money.. it happened to my friend.. the good thing is when it comes to money matter she wont give any... until she blocked the guy on facebook!!!!
She has made a bad decision and that decision is allowing judgmental people give their comments. She came forward to help people from being scammed. The more people talk about it, the more it will get out there and hopefully stop these bastards from preying on women. Because of the negative people leaving negative comments, others do not come forward. So let these women come forward so they can help other women, because you surely are not helping. SHAME ON YOU.
As bad as it was be thankful that it was only $5000. In some cases women lose hundreds of thousands of dollars and end up homeless after selling their homes and all their assets to pay scammers.
Great video, thanks for sharing your story, new info, for an old lost cause, you’re accent is beautiful, so are you darling, don't give up on us just yet:🌹👍👏👏👏😉😉😉❤️❤️❤️🌹☄️💋
@zumzy u Thank you for sharing. I still dont get it. How can a phone numbers tells a scammer or a fraud? The only thing is continue correspondence even she kept asking for money. End of the day she will move on to scam others whwn she knows she wont be able to scam a penny out of you or show that you are no more interested in emailing or txtsing.
Why are you so desperate for a man? All of you ignore your real friends while trying to impress someone who doesn't exist. Think about the friends you hurt instead of playing the victim. You gave the money to a stranger
I Use to feel so bad for people being taken advantage of and being Lied to by these nasty scammers ,but now people have been warned for a Long time to Not fall for all their Lies but Still so many are still ignoring all the warnings it's sad and at the same time I can't understand WHY this is still happening so much .people need to wake up and and Stop talking to these creeps
These poor women married forever and get divorced or widowed are lonely and the world is not the same when they were in their 20s. Back then u could trust. The world has changed these people are heartless and cruel. Never go to these websites for dates unless I meet personally. And the photos stolen from people's Facebook. Just don't. Ever.
I do not feel sorry for her, everybody knows about these scumbags, they do not even bother to change their legend, these women want to pay for deception, to hear flattery, why then complain?
i talked to couple scammers which i was not aware at first. too much promises and bull shits. what on earth the guy wanted to marry me even never meet in person. once they asked for money, I dumped them. I love my money more than men.
The scammers target vulnerable mature ladies who are not conventionally attractive as they figure they are easy targets not being used to male attention.
So so sadly ....... simple ........ trusting loving relationships ......... sometimes? ..... or mostly ....... belong in storybooks??? Life ....... today .... is mostly about a lot of hustle ..... bustle ..... competition and is very lacking ..... in social graces ...... period!??? ..... It takes a lot of real time ..... energy ...... and good sense ..... to build a solid enough relationship ....... that you are remembered in ...... and really "seen" ..... as the good person .... with perhaps ..... healthy enough social skills that were ignored ....... and or abused ...... for whatever absurd ...... reason! ....... We are all sometimes "broken" people ..... and we all deserve to reach out ..... and find healthy relationships ..... that can encourage us!
If you are a sociopath, its easy to make money, because there are so many suckers out there. There are plenty of sociopaths, and an ocean full of suckers.
Remember the old adage... "IT TAKES TWO TO Tango".. One cannot operate without the other. As long as there is a supply of suckers out there, then there will always be a good supply of scammers. !!!!
Why do these re-cycled teenagers think it's an obligation to feed-send money and pay for the scammers life style??????--a look in the mirror would give them an answer!!!
It’s really hard to trust anyone i’vent met before, no matter how sad you’re story is, if I don’t know you, I can’t get a loan just to satisfy your need... that’s a shitty thing to do..
I'm sorry, but I have absolutely no sympathy for these women...yes, its sad that had bad previous relationships, but to give a total stranger all that money???? Nope
Love is something which grows bit by bit, NOT something you can buy on the internet by sending money to a stranger who tells you what you think you should hear, that is that you're beautiful and "I love you." Nonsense!!!!
Me: Hi there. Online lady: Hello handsome. Me: What are you doing today? Online lady: I was about to replace my broken cell phone. Can I borrow some mone.... Me: > 😆
And people say try dating sites to get a relationships like tinder or bumble, I ran into 3 love scammers that try tool make you fall for them, that was a year ago now not only that I also ran into fakes, ghosters, and a catfish now I deleted them all i promised myself to never go on dating sites ever again, I find mine by going out there, sure it got some people found love, but not me it's was my worse experience in dating ever,
At least she woke up before she was bilked out of too much. Always follow the adage on lending. Only lend what you can afford to lose, no matter who you are lending to. If you are repaid it should feel like found money. Why would an adult not have the money to cover his own basics, especially since banks are only too willing to lend. Your borrower will be angry if you do not help? Ya, that is because he is likely a crook.
Always Listen to people too I have my money invested in my collection. SO I dobn't have thousands to give away just like that. I am disability & Special needs too. & I know when it is a scam am smarter then a lot of these that do fall for it. Just common sense to when people tell you it's a scam listen to them. Just can't believe too people would risk their home too for someone they never, ever meet.
An alle Frauen, keine anständige Mann verlangt keine Geld,, egal was er schreibt so lange sie ihm nicht persönlich kennen, aber auch dann nicht,,,, am besten ist Mund propaganda, reden sie darüber,,,
These scammers target women who are overweight or are mot conventionally attractive it seems. Tell them no see no chat.They are always contractors working abroad in a risk country like Nigeria,their wife has died,they are mugged and need hospital treatment,their daughter is sick,their bank account is frozen blah blah blah.
No kidding, a shame. I did have that happened to me. Except a person posing as a lottery scammer. Lost $ 700.00, I tried explaining to them, I needed the money bay, to pay, lost my job. It didn't change anything, they , continued for week, to get more, worthless sorry excuse for human beings. Then , online dating? One wanted to help me. Something just didn't seem right. I watched videos of that,. I had to quietly, remove myself from the apps , darn. I was really hoping. I could be wrong. She didn't want money from me, just wanted to help me. I uninstalled all apps,. No more, I am about to get evicted, I am flat broke,. May have a job, but , not going to count on it. Too much information given. So, I can't take the risk, I have to stay off, of those apps
How to feel better and not depend on some internet fantasy:
Dark chocolate.
Exercise, swimming is great.
Have a pet or two.
Play chakra music.
Eat lots of green vegetables.
Have a dinner date with yourself: light a candle, enjoy a nice dinner, dessert and thank yourself for a nice dinner.
Be spiritual.
Take up singing or playing an instrument, or handcrafts, art.
Walk in the woods/parks.
Talk to your guardian angel.
Acts of random kindness to real people that does not cost money: smile, say some kind words, offer a home made cookie, etc.
Volunteer for some charitable organization.
Forgive yourself for your mistake. Be grateful for the lesson. Mistakes are no good unless we learn something. It is an opportunity to improve ourselves. And spread your knowledge.
This is sage advice to have people learn to love themselves. IMO, the people that are the most vulnerable to scammers are lonely people with a low self esteem. Between learning the scammers tricks, building one’s social circle outside of family, and building one’s self esteem through positive lifestyle changes, it’s a lot easier to tell these scamming jerks to [bleep] off.
Rule of my thumb: *DON'T* trust anybody online.
Even don’t trust people in person at Old Navy
Of offline.
Do your due diligence check them out over the internet and do a live videochat where you ask them questions and see their reaction.
John Ballard That is unwise. I had encountered internet dangers previously. Allow me to tell you this, internet far is more dangerous than before. Your alias email address does not always guarantee your anonymity. You are traceable by your I.P. address which is embedded in your photos and videos. You are not as anonymous as you like to be.
Dating/matrimonial sites are infested with not only scammers, also stalkers, ID thieves, extortionists, hackers, and other ilks much, much worse. Flirting with strangers online is dangerous and you could fall victim to sextortion.
Daniel M. *GOOD ADVICE.* There were some US marine veterans who joined ISIS. Many traitors from armies and navies around the world had joined terrorist organisations. You'll be surprised by their numbers.
I hope I don't offend you but when a message starts with hey baby or I love you you need to block the person
Lourdes Padilla definitely agree with you 100% hey baby my flower my angel block that person immediately and guess what I'm a beautiful Nigerian women and I'm so proud of it.
Even if I know him I'm not giving him any money.
Why?
@@tahermahmud3053 I don't even give people I know Money, My Money is Mine alone & I work hard for it they don't have to explain to others why. I always tell them get your own.. Only things I would trust is salvation army.
Scammers always seem to have very farfetched stories as to why they need money. Red flag.
Yes, and they always either work in highly specialised, important and/or risky occupations... and/or have extremely wealthy relations who are just in a spot of bother and can't access their millions at this present moment :)
Women who loves men telling them how beautiful they are & profess their love are those that are vulnerable to be scammed. Remember, men can say “I’m in love with you” as easily as “I want your money”.
So true
I am always astonished by this. The last person I would be interested in would be a man who spoke to me like this. I am interested in intelligence, humour, kindness even strangeness but never this romantic bullshit, which, even in non-internet relationships means less than nothing to me. Talk is cheap, if anyone ever called me ‘my Queen’ I would fall over LMFAO!
So true. Naive and vulnerable ...stay off the internet. Its a dangerous place
And especially these tugs they aren't human at all disgusting monsters!!
Easier
I came across a few scammers like this. They always love sending long ass emails right off the bat... which is not necessarily a red flag, except if you look closer you'll see these emails lack depths apart from the flowery language. I love acting like I'm going to send them money and waste their time 😂
I've done that too
What is your point 👉 ??
@@abbidaycornelius2196 let talk on WhatsApp number is +2347066641229
You have never seen a person physically but you give money
A friend of mine fell for one of these scams and it was impossible not to be angry with her
I think the scammers put some kind of spell or something on the women🤪🤪
@@bharatirai527 no they are just dumb
I’m sorry but how can you give strangers money
FOOLS AND THEIR MONEY....
These scammers latch onto lonely looking women on social media and their m.o. is to start off by telling them how beautiful they are, blah blah blah.
EXACTLy. Why do women accept friend requests from STRANGERS? If I don't know you or we don't mutually know many of the same people, you're a scammer. BYE!
Remember love is a gift not to be paid for. Any guy on dating sites that ask for money just block him Irish Noreen
Just hire a male escort would be cheaper
I wouldn't even give my credit card info to SIGN UP for a dating site, Let alone give someone money im chatting with..
I've been scammed before. I didn't lose $5000 but I was scammed. Learned my lesson the hard way. Now I just block people who ask for money.
Never give money that you don't know. Having e-mails from this person does not count as a person you know.
@zumzy u Sounds like you're working with a scammer!! Piss off Scammer!!
zumzy u o
WELL SAID! If you "know" someone online & they need you to send them money, they are a LOSER! If they were legit, they would have a friend or family member to borrow from. They would NEVER need to ask you for a loan. ALWAYS SCAMMERS...
This woman seems like a sweet person. I hope things got better for her.
Yes, she is nice. Wishing her a better life
Add me
What a hell is wrong with people??? We had so many articles and films about scumers and people still get con !!!
They deserve all they get ... how stupid to believe anyone online. Im sure she has never given to a charity so willingly... she was emotionally needy, go help less fortunate, maybe you will find that emotional need met.
She's not even emotionally needy. If she was, she would have made an effort to mix with and make friends with older lonely men in her own area. Or spent more time with her family. Or found some welcoming club or church group. Or started volunteering. She didn't do these things, so we know for a certainty that her intentions were not genuine.
@@aureliusmarcus1817 she has self esteem issues to think a cyber romance would fulfill her needs
@@halimak625 More like narcissism and a borderline personality.
@@aureliusmarcus1817 its a character faulty mechanism
One compliment from an unknown stranger she had never met or seen, and she gave him $5K!
Just a gigolo
Sent $5K to a guy you have never met before? Really? 🙄
These people aren't losing money, they're willingly giving it away to people they don't even know.
But how do people think when it comes to money and Ghana/Nigeria ? Lets make up a scam, we have fictional french-canadian scam artist Christophe Renard who's game plan is to seduce wealthy american women aged 40-45 and move in with them. While being boyfriend and girlfriend 24 year old Christophe reveal to these women that he got his rich uncle Jean-Luc who's living in Nigeria is the only remaining family. One day Christophe gets a phone call from his uncle's "lawyer" Jonathan Clarke of the lawfirm Clarke, Winters and Callahan Christophe gets the bad news that his uncle has passed away and has left Christophe as the sole heir of his 50,000,000,000 Nigerian Naira fortune (a bit over 138,000,000 usd) but there's one little hurdle, Jean-Luc didn't trust the banks in Nigeria so he there for kept his entire fortune in gold bars in a private vault underneath his estate. So if Christophe wants the cash he have to go to Nigeria and get himself. So Christophe leaves for Nigeria but ends up flying to Columbia instead, and then e-mail his american girlfriend that he has arrived and that he has the gold and that he will get a truck security guards and escort vehicles and that he will be home in about 3-5 weeks if everything goes smoothly. And all of the sudden Christophe starts to e-mail his girlfriend about the truck breaking down, or the guards being greedy by asking for more cash, or corrupt customs officials/cops or that all of his cash was stolen from his hotel and that he doesn't have the cash for food, fuel, hotels, shipping or salaries because of it. How many 40-45 year old women in love thinking that there will be a huge 138 million $$$ payout which mean that they can live happily ever after in the Bahamas, Miami or Hawaii with their boy toy will end up sending their retirement money and their savings to Nigeria so that Christophe can get the gold home ?
untill its done to you then you dont know, i didnt think i be scammed ever said the same as you but i was scammed by a man so before you made judgement think.
Terrible scenario/ playing with lonely people's emotions....
Disgusting lot!!👿
She was fresh out of an abusive relationship. She was vulnerable... and a prime target for online predators.
Full blown idiots
If the person does not live in the same city within 50 km I'm not interested even if it's Brad Pitt.
The man can’t scam you if you don’t allow him to.
At least she didn't lose a million like some women.
Zumzy...’mr Patrick’...now you sound like a scammer, sorry to say.
@zumzy u Ok, saw it the 1st time, now you are obnoxious Or advertising your own company, perhaps, or a scammer also????
@@diannepriestley3175 clearly a scammer 😂
Ladies, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER give money to a man!!!
O, I'm SO sorry. Learn to love yourself, my dear lady.
But I met a few guys who can't afford to buy me dinner or even buy their dinner .....bunch of losers .
soneelita Bitter,aren’t we? Not every man out there is that sleazy, only a selected few; wouldn’t know myself, that’s what iv’e heard:👍😉🌹🌹💋
@@stevenschoenfeld5751 Yes paying for dates for both you and your love interest is also like a scam , especially when they will cheat on you or won't marry you.
soneelita Yes ma’am, I agree wholeheartedly with you on that, each person should pay for their own food on a date ; I couldn’t agree more with you on that; it sounds like a scam to me glad we agree on something
Common sense prevails........... be very aware of being scammed/the minute they ask for money get out fast(this person may not even exist).💩💩.
Ladies-Do not EVER send a man money-EVER! It is ALWAYS a scam-ALWAYS!
Exactly
Sorry to hear that she has to go through this, but how can a person lend or give money to a total stranger on the internet? I don't get that. But, thanks for sharing and bringing awareness to other people.
You will never get that until it happens to you... because they are good at that they have earn the trust and emotion get involved so, the judgment are blur. . hope noone could never have to go through such anymore.
Online is the worst place to form a relationship cause the worst characters thrive online. Beings that could not be acceptable in the rest of society would have a good guise in ruining the lives of good natured people online.
Exactly. BOTH parties are toxic ... the scammers, and those who buy love online.
You can't form a relationship online,what you can do is get an idea of a person's character so that if you did meet them in person there could be a relationship.
Scammers only help people to scam themselves
God bless you I'm going through the same thing now😪 I wish I would have listened to people when they told me it was a scam also. My online relationship lasted for 2 years. I lost $20,000 but I didn't even really have to give I took out a loan also it's devastating.
I'm so sorry that happened to you 😫
@@gingers8457 ♥️
This is not being scammed, this is just plain idiotic and foolish. She GAVE IT AWAY willingly.
How can you be so mean! So uncaring for this poor woman. If you did more research, these scammers are intelligent, scheming scammers. They fill your heart with words of love because they know what women want to hear. They dazzle them with undying love and then feel them in. Men and women all over the world have been scammed and when they realize they have been scammed, it can be devastating, and it takes a long time to get over. There are groups on FB for people who have been scammed. Why because it is people like you who make the person feel even worse. Some women loose all their life savings plus a broken heart and all they get are responses like you to the point that they kill themselves. What ever happened to kindness because you surely do not have it. Remember, karma will be knocking on your door wherein you will need support and no one will help you. It won't be a romance scam but karma will bite you on your rump. NO ONE escapes karma....even these arseholes doing the scamming.
Because we believe someone can love us😔😔
But they should be holding our hand
I am not sure why she would give a stranger money, especially that much.
Geez, thank god she only lost $5k! I’ve heard of people losing hundreds of thousands.
Read a romance novel! For God's sake! How gullible are you?
I am sorry. Never give anyone money that you don't know and have never met
I'm sorry you got hurt again, this time in a different way. You were in love with being treated nicely after not having that & unfortunately it was easy to scam you because of that. You are one of the millions this happens to, both men & women, so don't be embarrassed. I hope your message helps someone else realize what is happening before it is too late, then something good will have come out of your circumstances. It is a very SAD sign of our times when people are all so sad & lonely we look for love online & learn sometimes you are better off on your own. I hope you have happier & better times ahead of you!
How many hundreds of these stories have there been over the years,yet people still fall for these heartless scammers?
Scammer will use sweet words then later will ask you for
money.. it happened to my friend.. the good thing is when it comes to money matter she wont give any... until she blocked the guy on facebook!!!!
FGoodness sake, why are women so desperate for love?
She has made a bad decision and that decision is allowing judgmental people give their comments. She came forward to help people from being scammed. The more people talk about it, the more it will get out there and hopefully stop these bastards from preying on women. Because of the negative people leaving negative comments, others do not come forward. So let these women come forward so they can help other women, because you surely are not helping. SHAME ON YOU.
You should know it’s a scam if that good lookin guy with sweet words wouldn’t even be interested in you in person
Took me 6 yrs. to escape after a total loss of life savings!!!
It is sad, but come on. Unless you met him in person shame on you
This is why it's okay to be cynical. Use your head only, not your heart.
IF YOU FEEL LONELY get a dog HE WONT STEAL YOUR MONEY ,,BUT YOUR HEART ♥️
As bad as it was be thankful that it was only $5000. In some cases women lose hundreds of thousands of dollars and end up homeless after selling their homes and all their assets to pay scammers.
God bless you love!!
Glad you didn't fall for it
The min. they ask for money. Cut the line. When you start doling out your life savings, stupid is as stupid does.
It's been around 4 a while... you should of told him your broke... see what have happened.. a loan ...God Bless Yoi
Jackie Ostrander
“...should HAVE told
him YOU’RE broke...”
Why didn't she just tell *him* to get a loan
So stupid
This person knows what is going on unconsciously, there are no victims, there are only volunteers,
All these grannies believe that they are still hot enough for younger attractive dudes
Great video, thanks for sharing your story, new info, for an old lost cause, you’re accent is beautiful, so are you darling, don't give up on us just yet:🌹👍👏👏👏😉😉😉❤️❤️❤️🌹☄️💋
Steven Schoenfeld That’s
“...YOUR accent...”
@zumzy u
Thank you for sharing. I still dont get it. How can a phone numbers tells a scammer or a fraud? The only thing is continue correspondence even she kept asking for money. End of the day she will move on to scam others whwn she knows she wont be able to scam a penny out of you or show that you are no more interested in emailing or txtsing.
@@sylvialin6453 zumzy zu IS a scammer 🤣🤣
@@gingers8457
There are tons more. Thanks
Heart breaking/ do not trust anyone that ask for money.
Why are you so desperate for a man? All of you ignore your real friends while trying to impress someone who doesn't exist. Think about the friends you hurt instead of playing the victim. You gave the money to a stranger
Yes what about family grandchildren nieces neighbors friends senior groups community groups spend time there get OFF YOUR COMPUTER
Maybe someone can set up a legitimate business making videos of fake lovers for lonely people. At least they won’t take their money
Hmmm interesting.
I Use to feel so bad for people being taken advantage of and being Lied to by these nasty scammers ,but now people have been warned for a Long time to Not fall for all their Lies but Still so many are still ignoring all the warnings it's sad and at the same time I can't understand WHY this is still happening so much .people need to wake up and and Stop talking to these creeps
Are u serious..
Never feel bad for these creepy oldsters trying to buy young flesh.
Are these women that desperate.... unbelievable
With all scanning victims, they are so desperate for live they would tryst any one. They never go with there heads just there hearts
These poor women married forever and get divorced or widowed are lonely and the world is not the same when they were in their 20s. Back then u could trust. The world has changed these people are heartless and cruel. Never go to these websites for dates unless I meet personally. And the photos stolen from people's Facebook. Just don't. Ever.
WOMEN OVER 40, DO NOT GIVE MEN MONEY ONLINE!
Women AND men.
I do not feel sorry for her, everybody knows about these scumbags, they do not even bother to change their legend, these women want to pay for deception, to hear flattery, why then complain?
i talked to couple scammers which i was not aware at first. too much promises and bull shits. what on earth the guy wanted to marry me even never meet in person. once they asked for money, I dumped them. I love my money more than men.
If the person you are in love with ask for any money related help until both of you sleeping together,🤣😂 just know that he/she is a scammer.
Shut the hell up. 3rd time seeing in this comment section lol
@@BigBishop609 scammer
The scammers target vulnerable mature ladies who are not conventionally attractive as they figure they are easy targets not being used to male attention.
They never come to see you its always the same story and never did that ever show or real person
So so sadly ....... simple ........ trusting loving relationships .........
sometimes? ..... or mostly ....... belong in storybooks??? Life .......
today .... is mostly about a lot of hustle ..... bustle ..... competition
and is very lacking ..... in social graces ...... period!??? ..... It takes
a lot of real time ..... energy ...... and good sense ..... to build a solid
enough relationship ....... that you are remembered in ...... and really
"seen" ..... as the good person .... with perhaps ..... healthy enough social
skills that were ignored ....... and or abused ...... for whatever absurd ......
reason! ....... We are all sometimes "broken" people ..... and we all deserve
to reach out ..... and find healthy relationships ..... that can encourage us!
If you are a sociopath, its easy to make money, because there are so many suckers out there. There are plenty of sociopaths, and an ocean full of suckers.
Remember the old adage...
"IT TAKES TWO TO Tango"..
One cannot operate without the other.
As long as there is a supply of suckers out there, then there will always be a good supply of scammers. !!!!
Why do these re-cycled teenagers think it's an obligation to feed-send money and pay for the scammers life style??????--a look in the mirror would give them an answer!!!
Pay for potential lay
I'm so sorry looking for love and they give you nothing but heartache and pain..know. exactly how your life has been destroyed...
It’s really hard to trust anyone i’vent met before, no matter how sad you’re story is, if I don’t know you, I can’t get a loan just to satisfy your need... that’s a shitty thing to do..
I'm sorry, but I have absolutely no sympathy for these women...yes, its sad that had bad previous relationships, but to give a total stranger all that money???? Nope
I wouldn't give anyone any money! It's stupid!
They know who to scam people with money.very lonely woman sad.
At least she is honest and lost only 5K some Ladies goes over 100K....
I thought I could trust Gen Miller
So sad---another victim of a deadbeat con-artist---NEVER SEND MONEY TO PEOPLE YOU DON'T KNOW !!!!
The easiest victim. 😂
This is so sad. Victims being taken advantage of by online scum scammers.
The only way you can be taken advantage of, is if you LET THEM. !!!!
Love is something which grows bit by bit, NOT something you can buy on the internet by sending money to a stranger who tells you what you think you should hear, that is that you're beautiful and "I love you." Nonsense!!!!
Me: Hi there.
Online lady: Hello handsome.
Me: What are you doing today?
Online lady: I was about to replace my broken cell phone. Can I borrow some mone....
Me: > 😆
And people say try dating sites to get a relationships like tinder or bumble, I ran into 3 love scammers that try tool make you fall for them, that was a year ago now not only that I also ran into fakes, ghosters, and a catfish now I deleted them all i promised myself to never go on dating sites ever again, I find mine by going out there, sure it got some people found love, but not me it's was my worse experience in dating ever,
At least she woke up before she was bilked out of too much. Always follow the adage on lending. Only lend what you can afford to lose, no matter who you are lending to. If you are repaid it should feel like found money. Why would an adult not have the money to cover his own basics, especially since banks are only too willing to lend. Your borrower will be angry if you do not help? Ya, that is because he is likely a crook.
Is there any liability , for the Dating Sites?
I've never heard of them having to pay out any money because someone got scammed
Plzz am broke send me some of that give away money
U are scammer lol
looking for to scammers Donald Armstrong and Toby Keith is their names they use I know they are scammers
Always Listen to people too I have my money invested in my collection. SO I dobn't have thousands to give away just like that. I am disability & Special needs too. & I know when it is a scam am smarter then a lot of these that do fall for it. Just common sense to when people tell you it's a scam listen to them. Just can't believe too people would risk their home too for someone they never, ever meet.
An alle Frauen, keine anständige Mann verlangt keine Geld,, egal was er schreibt so lange sie ihm nicht persönlich kennen, aber auch dann nicht,,,, am besten ist Mund propaganda, reden sie darüber,,,
Good video. I'm sorry for Jan. She was emotionally vulnerable.
I'm so sorry. I am glad I saw these stories like yours on you tube. I hope you meet a nicer friend for real.
at least it was only $5K...never give any man any money even if yu know him. decent men never ask women for money!
Que triste
You are not the one who should be embarrassed. Those scammers must be ashamed of themselves.
These scammers target women who are overweight or are mot conventionally attractive it seems. Tell them no see no chat.They are always contractors working abroad in a risk country like Nigeria,their wife has died,they are mugged and need hospital treatment,their daughter is sick,their bank account is frozen blah blah blah.
She wouldn't give me the time of day.
No kidding, a shame. I did have that happened to me. Except a person posing as a lottery scammer. Lost $ 700.00, I tried explaining to them, I needed the money bay, to pay, lost my job. It didn't change anything, they , continued for week, to get more, worthless sorry excuse for human beings. Then , online dating? One wanted to help me. Something just didn't seem right. I watched videos of that,. I had to quietly, remove myself from the apps , darn. I was really hoping. I could be wrong. She didn't want money from me, just wanted to help me. I uninstalled all apps,. No more, I am about to get evicted, I am flat broke,. May have a job, but , not going to count on it. Too much information given. So, I can't take the risk, I have to stay off, of those apps
Usually when someone loses money to Lottery scammers, they have no one to blame but themselves for their obvious greed
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Most of there stories are the same bull s. ..t.
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self inflicted wound
Youre best off on yr own but its lonely
I sure hope this woman found a good decent man to love her since this video was made. Everyone deserves to be loved and respected.
Desperation