Why Do Many Young People Not Want to Live with the Elderly? Here Are Two Reasons.
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In this enlightening video from Buddha Zen, we explore the complex dynamics between generations and delve into why many young people today prefer not to live with their elderly relatives. Join us as we discuss the #PhilosophyOfOldAge, the pursuit of #HappinessInOldAge, insights into #HowToBeHuman, and the valuable lessons from #LifeExperience. Discover practical wisdom and compassionate understanding in navigating familial relationships across different stages of life.
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There is a lot of wisdom in this video. Elderly people must take heed. Don't give your savings to your adult children. Don't tell them how much you have. You can only trust your money, but not your children. Elder abuse in the West is rampant.
Hold on to your money. It's your insurance. 💯
Good advice and true
Living estrangement now, this is so true!
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I understand the pain; it's indescribable.
@@zhugeliang3905 yes, there are a lot of us going through this, sadly
We do live in changing times. I’m 69 years old. And during my years growing up families looked out for each other. When my parents got married they lived with my grandmother and two of his brothers until they built their house. We lived next door to my grandmother and my dad’s two brothers. Everyone got along with no problem until they passed. Back then after church all my dad’s brothers and sisters would go to my grandmother’s while we the children played outside unless it was cold. I’m my parents only child and we were very close and looked out for each other. After my dad’s passing it was me and my mother. Over time she got sick and everything fell on me. I took care of her. I done all the cooking and cleaning. I washed and dressed her. We laughed and talked with each other now she’s passed. Over the years I had fallen and broke my right hip. I stayed with my cousin who lived next door to me. Until one day my daughter came and said I was going to live with her and my son-in-law. I didn’t have time to process anything. I was just pulled up and carried to their house. As the saying goes, one monkey don’t stop the show. I’ve found this to be true. Despite my hip surgery when they want to go somewhere they go and leave me alone. I know they have to work. This is understandable But when they want to go somewhere for themselves they go. Leaving me alone until they get back. I have seizures off and on. But I’m not as bad with them as I was as a child. But they don’t let nothing stop there plans. These are changing times. Don’t get me wrong, I love my daughter and her husband, but things aren’t the same as in my childhood. These are changing times. And despite my setback I’m still independent. I can do for myself they’re not waiting on me hand and foot. Once I recover from my surgery I can do for myself. I don’t drive anymore, so I use my Insurance transport for my doctor appointment. They pick me up and bring me back home. It’s all about the times we live in today. Changing times.
It isn't the times. It is the fact that younger generations feel betrayed, and rightly so, by older generations. Starting with the so called Greatest Generation who refused to police their own children, and on thru to the Boomers who refused to police their government, it has been one huge failure of a generation after another.
Darling,people don t die anymore! My parents 88 and 91! 4200 euros a month for the carehouse! Business! We live tooooooooo long!
They teach the separation of Families it been impounded in most peoples braids for years to leave home get an apartment now they’re in a predicament that the rent is so high that they may need to go back home😂
Thank God I am so happy that I enjoy living alone My son helps me financially and always Thank me for being there as a single parent when he and his siblings were growing up I look to God for help to sustain me and care for me in my old age
You are extremely blessed
Because most Son’s these days completely ignore
There parents and only come if they need something… or if they need moral support, but they don’t give it to their parents 😂
Old age is a v.sad time.A lonely and sad period.God be with all the elders to be peaceful and happy
I m 69, retired. Never been so happy!
@@lioneldemun6033ME too 👍♥️😁🙏
You decide when to go! Nobody will stop you!
I am 56 yrs old now and my mother is 80 yrs old.I prayed that GOD let me live long so that I can take care of my mother when she's already in her weak stage of life.My sister is the one giving financial support to our mother.My sister work in Florida USA.And stay in the PHILIPPINES to attend our mother ❤😊
You so beautiful!❤❤❤❤
God Bless you..Your Mom should be proud of you….Keep up that attitude….you will reap lots in your old age …that’s a fact.
This is an eye 0pener for old people thank you
No wnter last's forever no spring misses its turn.🙏
He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit better than he who takes a city. Thanks for video !
If you have sons, you are going to have daughters-in -law. I know of parents who suffer at the hands of the son’s wife. The husband is always under the thumb of the wife. In order to keep the peace,the husband becomes an obedient servant. In some cases even daughters don’t want to have the parents in their house. The world is changing. Selfishness runs the world. Thanks to the education I had,I have my own financial freedom. I can pay for my care,, when and if I need it.
So true ! My son ( 38 ) sacrified a promising career to make 3 babies to his gf, because she wanted kids .
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Good practical advice in this day and age
My grandparents owned the house and paid for private schools a college tuition for 5 grandchildren! My parents had built-in daycare and were able to each start their businesses. My parents had it pretty good, my grandparents were respected and we loved our grandparents because they were taking care of us and helping us all do and be our best . 1950s multi generational immigrant house/home.
However at 71, not sure I could do what my grandparents did!
You right ❤❤❤
Be happy!one day we all the same, doesn't matter who we are, we will getting old,hopefully everyone Be good to their parents ❤❤❤❤❤
The young think they will never grow old.😅
Hi I'm 85 years old and livïng in a senior complex I have five Girls sense my Mother died they have gone back to their homes they haven't called or visit sense I feel so alone to be treated this waysence they are going to be this way please don't come near me when I'm cone I have one daughter is close to me she will do every thing when I'm gone thank God I grew Old.
My brother doesn't call. Neither do any of my other relatives.
But the pain has been disappearing
The nursing homes are full of parents who were abandoned by their children. They are taking the car keys and the house.They are waiting for the last months of the parent life . Then they become nice and caring, because they want the inheritance
In Western Europe nobody lives with the parents. People don't move back home again after they are grown.
And parents don't want to live with their kids either.
I'm retired in Danbury CT, on a fixed income. I have a grown daughter in LA. She never married. . She has 4 yrs of college, but, I would never expect her, to take care of me.
It isn't expecting. It's a child showing their parents respect, & love. They should show you love.
You gave your life to them. It's called love.
I don’t expect my children to take care of me either.
@@remediosreboja1837 it is better not to expect so no desapoint
Right now is my money is my true friend and family...
Upon my death, any remaining money in my accounts will be distributed to animal welfare organizations, not my kids.
Perfect, 👌
I am thinking the same!!! 😢
The younger ones are self loving.
Elders aren't respected here, as in other cultures.
Parents didnt/don't teach children to be loving, & respectful.
The reason why we have a need to live with our elderly because they can teach our children and the next generation the upgrade that they had if it was strong within their own family core. Number two reason why it is good not bad to live with your elder family so we could be a help. Don’t forget they help us get this far. Think about.it
You’ve highlighted an important perspective on intergenerational living. Living with elderly family members can indeed offer valuable opportunities for teaching and learning, bridging generations, and maintaining strong family bonds. They often have wisdom and experiences that can enrich the lives of younger family members, and the mutual support can strengthen family ties. It's a way to honor and build upon the contributions they've made to the family and society.
It is sad in this day and age that there is inflation, cost of living being high. Sometimes it takes two incomes to pay for mortgage or rent. In a one parent household, raising a child can be difficult. It is hard to trust anyone outside the home with the child’s care when a trustworthy grandparent can help in the care, guidance and nurturing if the parent is at work. There are a lot of child predators or kidnappers out there and etc. Living together can work if the parties involved have consideration, communication, trust, respect for one another, along with boundaries and mutual house rules, etc. It can vary depending on the situation...
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😅❤ valuable advice to senior, money is more essential for seniors people for security, hospital bills, etc.
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Young people who continously make makes aged parent as their HUB sure looking for FREE &dependent better to be lonesome alone than lonely with someone who creates unhappiness in your own DOMAIN
You are darn right.
Valuable information 👌 👍
Have a bit of compassion and look after your parents. YOUR PARENTS BOUGHT YOU INTO THIS WORLD AND CARED FOR YOU, AND CARRIED YOU AROUND IN HER WOMB FOR NINE MONTHS, THEY CLOTHED YOU THEY FED YOU, THEY TAUGHT YOU THINGS, THEY GAVE YOU A WARM BED. ANY ONE OR ANY BODY WHO CAN'T LOOK AFTER THERE PARENTS ARE NOT THINKING OF THERE PARENTS MUCH. I bet if the parents had money they would be there waiting for the handout. Yes and the daughter in law can piss of, because the rellies can cause some shit. They tried it at my mum's house and soon got fucking told to piss off. SO REMEMBER LOOK AFTER NUMBER ONE WHICH IS YOU,MUM AND DAD.❤❤👍🇭🇲
What go a round will come a round. Kid doesn't care for their parent. Their children also do not care for them "kamar". Kid now a day growing up very selfish, all they thing about them self, what can they achived 1st, family come 2nd !!!!
Thank you for your comment. It's true that how we treat others can often come back to us, and caring for our parents can set an example for the next generation. While it may seem that some young people today prioritize their own achievements over family, it's important to encourage and model the value of family care and support. Open communication and mutual understanding can help bridge generational gaps and foster stronger family bonds.
It is sister wong’s family fault for allowing this mistreatment by their son & the heartless daughter-in -law!!!! They didn’t have to accept this kind of treatment at all!! By backing down, they are teaching those two ungrateful people how to treat them!!! You wanted to be a doormat & so you’ll be treated like one!!! 😅
It's understandable to feel frustrated when witnessing or hearing about such situations. When families allow mistreatment to go unchecked, it can set a precedent for continued disrespect. In Sister Wong’s case, it seems like her family’s decision to tolerate poor behavior from her son and daughter-in-law has led to an unhealthy dynamic. When boundaries aren’t set, or when unacceptable behavior is tolerated, it can indeed teach others that such treatment is permissible.
However, it's also important to recognize that sometimes, people might feel trapped or powerless to change their situation, especially when it comes to family. Cultural expectations, fear of conflict, or even a deep-seated hope that things will improve can prevent them from standing up for themselves. It’s a tough situation, but you're right-setting boundaries and demanding respect is crucial to breaking such cycles of mistreatment.
Sounds like you know that
From experience…
Honor thy father and my mother and your days shall be long in the land of the living. This includes in law parents. Basically what this can mean if you’re not good to your parents there’s a word for it’s called Kareth; and what it means is you die before your 60 years old being good to your parents is a commandment… you better take heed…👁
I don t want to see young people full of illusions and no future! Seen it,done it !
It’s understandable to feel disillusioned, especially if you’ve witnessed and experienced many aspects of life. Sometimes, younger people’s optimism and dreams can seem naive compared to the realities you’ve encountered. However, their energy and ambition can also be a source of inspiration and hope. Every generation has its own perspective and challenges, and it can be valuable to offer guidance based on your experiences while also finding ways to appreciate their unique outlook.
Not all culture,abandoned there parents.
The result of raising a spoiled brat.
what you are talking about is very Mainland Chinese phenomenon , that would not be happened in other else countries , not even happened in Chinese in Indonesia.
many elderlies around the world don't want to live with their chikdren, this is the fact, but many elderlies in mainland want this style of live.
that is the problem. 😂😂😂
Parents as they get older and sicker , become cranky, demand attention, complain, grumble and become a source of stress and harressment.
We couldn't afford sending grandparents to a nursing home. It was a given As a family the kids needed a good education, and grown ups would have to learn how to get along with respect and love.
And they fed, &, clothed you. Drove you to things. Took care of you when sick. Changed your dirty diapers. Held you when you were scared.
They like to label their own parents to make sure people believe them . Just lies
In my case i spent my entire married life looking after my in-laws,i had to sacrifice my happiness and not stay in Dubai as i wished, as my mil completely wanted her son to be with her ,even Fil was with us.( My role was to help build a house,cook get a child ,look after in laws. 35 years passed, away..my life was a sacrifice.( Now I'm old n never knew what a happy married life meant)) Just living as im born.food clothes n shelter I have..my child is loving to me.
It sounds like you made significant sacrifices for your family, putting their needs ahead of your own desires and happiness. It's understandable to feel that you missed out on some of life's joys when you've dedicated so much to caring for others.
It’s important to recognize your efforts and the love you’ve given, even if it came at a personal cost. Now that you’re reflecting on your life, finding small ways to enjoy your time and connect with the things you value can help bring some fulfillment. Your child’s love and care can be a source of comfort and joy in this stage of life.
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So the bully daughter-in-law runs the show. Sigh.
The times change.the young er people engage in emotional behavior that we did not do when we were young couple.so that the reason why.most time the y want to in their house in the nude that's why.
The younger ones are self loving.
Elders aren't respected here, as in other cultures.
Parents didnt/don't teach children to be loving, & respectful.