Musician reacts to Ren x Chinchilla - How to be Me

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @bbqueen1578
    @bbqueen1578 Год назад +45

    Really a great reaction. You really know music at a deep level. I watched the interview last week with Chincilla and reaction vocal coach etc. Chris Liepe. He also identified & discussed advanced music observations of her & Ren's work. Blew me away that what you identified also discussed--i.e. her "choices' of a certain note which wouldn't have been planned in advanced & just happen in live performance. (why he prefers Live even though he appreciates studio too. That due to her & Ren's training & diligent practically their craft frequently that it becomes part of muscle memory & how in live they will just go for different note---but they have practiced that one frequently for years repeatedly so it becomes part of kinetic memory that gets used years later. He said I bet you practiced in front of mirror didn't you...for different sounds? He observed what you talked about---the sound of note from Ren with normal mouth vs. when he sang it with wide mouth. You are Master Musician McFly! Look forward to your next reaction. Beautiful sharing.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +6

      Thanks very much. Chris Liepe is a cool dude.
      All of those nuances are fun to point out for a video, but they don't go over so well when you're just hanging out with friends stopping the video or song to point out every detail 😅

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      @@krotchlickmeugh627 this is a different bridge from what I saw. But I'm sure they are on a bridge to commemorate that

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      @@krotchlickmeugh627 just going by what I read in the comments. I could be totally wrong.

  • @mrpatrickhobot
    @mrpatrickhobot 7 месяцев назад +6

    I do not know of any modern artists that allow themselves to be so naked. I think that hits harder than the lyrics and the genius of the songwriting.

  • @bosbornefischer
    @bosbornefischer Год назад +68

    It takes a strong person to admit their struggles. Especially for men to admit their struggles. Thank you for speaking as much of your truth as you feel comfortable with.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +11

      If I can help just one person then I am happy.

  • @cody2oo
    @cody2oo Год назад +86

    These two are in fact a lethal combo to your emotions.
    Chinchilla has new music soon too she's been talking about.
    Check out her fingers live performance. This is hers and Rens year.

    • @PeteFindsObscureStuff
      @PeteFindsObscureStuff Год назад +4

      Facts!!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +34

      Fingers live will be my first Chinchilla solo reaction.

    • @PeteFindsObscureStuff
      @PeteFindsObscureStuff Год назад +12

      @@mcflyjp you are in for another treat. Do the live version for Hunger TV

    • @lisapattison5605
      @lisapattison5605 Год назад +5

      They are so emotive, love this duo 👌🏼 the connection between them is so special ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

    • @stumeat77
      @stumeat77 Год назад +3

      ​@McFly JP prepare yourself! It's kinda amazing!!!

  • @annasaunders2167
    @annasaunders2167 Год назад +3

    Ren calls Daisy (Chinchilla) his sister from another mister. He says they are so similar in the way they approach writing and performing, like she is his female counter part. They are both amazing. Hope they will always be able to find opportunities to sing together.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      They are perfect together. And their chemistry is amazing.

  • @sherrygardner2840
    @sherrygardner2840 Год назад +37

    I have never, in my 60+ years, heard a duo with such chemistry. I truly believe they've known each other in past lives.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +7

      It's almost impossible their chemistry.

  • @ananda-b3u
    @ananda-b3u Год назад +6

    What a beautiful, honest, BRAVE reaction! To me, this is REN’s message. Allowing us to be vulnerable and share our emotions with each other. Normalizing this sharing of ourselves so the next generation feel safe doing this. Well done ❤

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +5

      At first I was mad at myself for letting myself get emotional. But then I realized the healing properties of it all.

  • @melissabieber2439
    @melissabieber2439 Год назад +3

    Please don’t ever stop being vulnerable and showing emotion. It’s so refreshing to see men let themselves show emotion. Great review!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Thank you! It wasn't planned I promise! Ren and chinchilla together can do that to me.

  • @PoliticallyPink
    @PoliticallyPink Год назад +3

    for me, this song isn't about generally losing someone to death, but the experience of being so shocked & traumatized that we just don't know how to be the person we were before it happened. We're someone so different afterwards that "I forgot how to be me." I had to rebuild a new me. And again.
    I lost my faith, too, & that hurts, on top of whatever causes it. I'm sorry you had that experience.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      It's for the best to be honest. Some people use religion to get through hard times, others use it for deniability and an excuse to not take responsibility. It can cloud judgement. I feel better off this way.

    • @PoliticallyPink
      @PoliticallyPink Год назад

      @@mcflyjp Absolutely agree. However, I miss knowing that I'll see my beloved dead again after life, I miss feeling faith to my core that there's more than this life. This life is more painful if it's all there is.

  • @woodywoodman2319
    @woodywoodman2319 Год назад +2

    The imperfections make this Perfect!!!!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +2

      Imperfections are what make everything great and unique.

  • @highlightspotent127
    @highlightspotent127 8 месяцев назад +1

    Dissonant chords for the intention of building anxiety and anticipation for the inevitable climax . Reminds me of Tori’s Amos in a way . Tension. It’s haunting . It’s deliberate, and it works so amazingly well. This song is incredible.
    Great reaction .
    Oh hey if you want and haven’t already reacted to , check out Chinchilla Fingers live . Wooooooooow!!! Mind blown vocals. Wait a second, just checked and see you have . I’ll be checking that reaction out next .
    Edit lol, I’m writing as I’m listening to you so I keep adding here . I too am affected by the emotional intensity of the voices and words . It’s impressive . I become overwhelmed and beyond choked up . It’s an amazing ability they have to evoke that strong of a reaction from the listener . So powerful. I bask in it . He’s connected with so many of us who can relate and are in need of understanding and compassion.
    Cheers
    🇨🇦🍻

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  8 месяцев назад

      I agree wholeheartedly that they have a way of evoking emotion that should be considered art in itself.
      Also I did react to that. If you'd like to check it out it's here: ruclips.net/video/5X22985ZAw0/видео.html

  • @suemiller2522
    @suemiller2522 Год назад +2

    This was a fantastic reaction. Ren is amazing; for more emotional gut punches, try 'Freckled Angles' and 'Dominoes', both by Ren solo. You should also check out the band he used to be in, the Big Push. Their cover medley of "I Shot the Sheriff/Road to Zion/Hip Hop" is amazing, as well as their "Wade in the Water/Nina Simone" cover. The you have Ren and Sam Tompkins together, "Walking on the Moon/No Diggity" and "Blind Eyed".
    I just found your channel today and am loving it. Great job. :)

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      I want to go through the entire Freckled Angels album to be honest. And I am going to get into the Busking Big Push stuff real soon. Starting with that I shot The Sheriff medley.

  • @ianhislop6782
    @ianhislop6782 Год назад +47

    Great reaction. It has to be Fingers live next. Chinchilla’s performance is breathtaking.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +8

      It will be coming soon.

    • @syyneater
      @syyneater Год назад +7

      Holy crap, that performance was mind blowing and so impressive. The way she moved, and how she emoted during the performance, left me speechless. It’s a song I’ve been listening to heavily for the last few days (when I first saw it).
      She’s crazy talented.

    • @miggy051
      @miggy051 Год назад +6

      I agree. Prepare to be amazed! Fingers (live) is another level of emotion and artistry. Cheers.

    • @StephenJacob
      @StephenJacob Год назад +5

      Watch the *live* version of Fingers. :) (VERO Presents: CHINCHILLA - FINGERS Live for HungerTV) The "CHINCHILLA - Fingers (Official Music Video)" version is great, too, but the live one is next level. You could always react to both in one super-sized video if you like. 😅

    • @willbender9035
      @willbender9035 Год назад +2

      Was coming to comments to say the same thing.

  • @dirkmcgurk1
    @dirkmcgurk1 Год назад +24

    I know when you were getting into doing the music reactions that you mentioned wanting to focus on the technical details (keep doing that please) but I really connect with your reactions to the emotional impact some of these songs are having on you. I'm very empathetic to the point that I tend to block my emotions and push people away to avoid negative feelings because they hurt too badly. Music and songs like this help me to allow myself to let go for a moment and feel my emotions that I keep bottled up.
    I think the reason we're seeing a rising popularity to reaction content is that a lot of people don't have the ability to share their feelings and emotions with others in their daily lives. Channels like yours allow people who feel isolated to share an experience with someone even if it is only a one way conversation. It allows people to see that they aren't alone in feeling the way they feel.
    I used to scoff at reaction videos until I found myself lacking genuine human connection. It may be para-social in nature but it scratches that very human itch, that feeling of sharing something with someone that you found profound or moving and seeing their genuine reaction for the first time.
    This is all a long winded way of saying thanks for being here and doing what you do. Thanks for helping me feel like a human being.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +7

      I appreciate that. I've always known music to have that ability. To see it in action is humbling. I'm just here trying to be me (I haven't forgotten yet).

    • @XXChacowXX
      @XXChacowXX Год назад +3

      Samesies! I’m really bad at expressing my emotions except through anger, and that’s just the bottle thing. Well put; I didn’t understand why I enjoyed reaction videos. Thanks for the perspective. And the raw react McFly

    • @wexfordgirl1
      @wexfordgirl1 Год назад +2

      Exactly this.

  • @lunchbox9864
    @lunchbox9864 Год назад +3

    Do not lament the loss of faith. Embrace the feeling of exposure to free thinking. The world is a much more interesting place when you don’t think all questions have answers readily available. Seek your own answers and build on what we know of the natural world. There’s so much more out there for those who seek rather than rest in what they think to be true.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      I feel blessed for realizing that there isn't some other worldly entity that can save you. You have to help yourself.

  • @loganyarborough7783
    @loganyarborough7783 Год назад +20

    Never apologize for showing emotion. Ren pulls it out of you whether you want it out or not, then you add Chinchillas haunting vocals. No chance! I wish I could give you a hug so bad!🥺 when you did chalk outlines your knowledge about music combined with your life experiences immediately made me want you to do this song. After losing my nephew (aged 20) 3 yrs ago to a quick decision in the night this song is what I could never put into words when asked how I was doing. Much love from TX❤

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +3

      That's very sad and I'm sorry for your loss. That must be hard to deal with, still.
      Chinchillas vocals are astounding and I'm excited to check out Fingers.

    • @loganyarborough7783
      @loganyarborough7783 Год назад +3

      Thank you💕 and you will LOVE Fingers! She might be my favorite female artist right now!

  • @polyesterspecter
    @polyesterspecter Год назад +30

    All the hugs man. I still get chills and tear up every time I hear this song. I appreciate you allowing yourself to feel the feels. Long live the RENaissance!!!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +8

      This rabbit hole is vast and I want to go deeper.

  • @alicegoode1599
    @alicegoode1599 Год назад +1

    You know what man, you sound so much like me. I've just watched this reaction, your Crutch reaction, and the thankyou video to Ren, and talking about what you've been through. Just know, I'm SO proud of you, I'm sure your wife and kids are more than happy to have you around. As a husband, as a father. I'm not going to bore you with my own life too much I promise, but I've recently left a relationship, and after being abused for 3 years, I'm glad to be away. But like this song says, I literally forgot how to be me. I've been diagnosed with depression severe anxiety, and PTSD, recently, and the man I was with wouldn't let me be alone, dress how I wanted, do with my money what I wanted. Ive recently been diagnosed with an autoimmune disease. This song hits me on another level. Also ren likes people to portray his songs in a way that resonates with them personally, and I love that. I would really recommend "humble" by Ren and Eden Nash. Also "Its alright" and "Hold on". Also its okay to cry and be vulnerable, loving the content. You've got a little online family here 💜

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      The a.oint of people that my content has resonated with is very humbling and just proof that there actually are empathetic and sympathetic people out there.
      I'm sorry you went through that. Another way we are similar is I had my pre assessment appointment to get back into therapy after a year and instead of just anxiety they have now diagnosed me with anxiety/depression. So I am hoping to navigate that as best as I can. We are all always continuously figuring out this game called life.

  • @steveknutson5617
    @steveknutson5617 Год назад +2

    what a great reaction. this is what we ren obssessed humans are hoping for with each reactor

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Thanks. I try to bring a unique interpretation of everything I react to.

  • @ElWray8
    @ElWray8 Год назад +6

    Forged in pain, tempered in rain, this is the human existance.

  • @99subetai
    @99subetai Год назад +1

    Just exceptionally powerful. The two of them are so very talented. I think Ren is a generational talent. We are witnessing greatness. A really good reaction video, with some insightful tidbits that others have missed. I love your analysis of modern music, where everybody has the same template, to the point where so many things just sound alike. Ren defies that trend. This is real music and artistry.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Best artist I've seen in my lifetime for sure. Hands down.
      I appreciate the kind words. Both of them have a way to invoke emotion that I haven't seen from anyone else.

  • @janicekelly6667
    @janicekelly6667 4 месяца назад +1

    It takes a baby step toward healing to recognize it hurts and not to just shut it down 😢😢😢

  • @iamlpinthe312
    @iamlpinthe312 Год назад +1

    There has to be a lot of trust between them. It feels like a pas de deux and their voices feel like smoke swirling around one another. I went and bought both of their back catalogues, including the Big Push. Chinchilla is phenomenal; there are a few busking sessions with both of them.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      There is so much to go through with both of them. But I am ready for both of their journeys.

  • @davideastham
    @davideastham Год назад +19

    I appreciate your raw and honest reaction. Thank you for doing this.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +3

      I can't be anything but. Thank you for the kind words.

    • @davideastham
      @davideastham Год назад +2

      @@mcflyjp Ren just posted a video about how CNN just threw him under the bus on a news story about Tik Tok.

  • @leahtolley9977
    @leahtolley9977 11 месяцев назад +1

    I've been chasing the Ren rabbit hole, so to speak, for the past few weeks. Utmost respect, as I am Wales, Irish and Scottish. Hate that I JUST recently found out about him, but so thankful. Bitter sweet. I appreciate your acknowledgement of him (and her). I am a musician as well, I think and feel things that others don't, so you get it! Thank you for your raw exposure. I cry at most of his songs. They make me laugh and cry. 😮😅. I get him to an extent. My middle son committed suicide 2 weeks before Christmas last year... Was on ketamine. Burned down our house and then shot himself....Less than at year after my now ex husband left us after 20yrs for a new family. Child was a straight A student, just got lost. But God.... Wow man. I feel ya. I'm a praise and worship leader... All 3 of my kids and my husband (at the time) with me. HUGE adjustment. There were weeks I'd just sit at the keys and mic, start the song , lost it and just bawled the whole service. Totally get it. We can't truly help someone if we haven't gone thru it. God DOES give us more than what we can handle so we HAVE to depend on Him... If not, WE play god and don't need Him. EVERYTHING for our good and HIS glory.... Even when it doesn't make sense at times. I'm glad I stumbled across your video reaction. Can't hardly see what I'm writing, but I'm praying for you my brother. Again... Bitter sweet

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  11 месяцев назад +1

      I appreciate the kind words. That's a very tragic story about your son and I'm so sorry for your loss. Being a child of parents who went through a divorce it's a tough tough thing for a child to go through too (the situation you described sounds a little more tragic). I couldn't imagine any of my kids going through that and making that decision. I feel so much for you!

  • @jamescurrie7678
    @jamescurrie7678 Год назад +25

    A tremendous reaction, very raw and very real! Thank you for being strong enough to show and share your emotion with us. Thank you

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +5

      Thanks for the kind words. I appreciate that.

  • @bobbistevens5648
    @bobbistevens5648 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for your reaction. It was so heartfelt vulnerable and real. It showed its ok to be open. Even when it's painful.
    You ate right Ren and Chinchilla are an amazing, amazing duo.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      They are an unmatched musical duo. I don't know if I've seen in my lifetime a duo that can get me so emotionally invested in a song.

  • @brigittemainella6412
    @brigittemainella6412 Год назад +12

    This song is so hauntingly beautiful. You feel the incredible sadness in their voices and in the lyrics! You feel the loss of Ren's friend and just want to hold both of them close and say I'm so sorry! Big hugs to you as well 😢😊😢😊

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Thank you!
      Very emotional piece but that's what makes it beautiful.

  • @MissyMedusa83
    @MissyMedusa83 11 месяцев назад +2

    Your raw emotion is so strong and wonderful. Thank you.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  11 месяцев назад

      I appreciate that! I have revisited this video many times and it still hits. Me the same.

  • @alimac1469
    @alimac1469 Год назад +2

    I lost my friend this way 43 years ago. It still hurts.
    Chinchilla's voice and harmonies actually cry.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      This song definitely gave me a good cry, for good reason. Their emotions are contagious.

  • @patriciaspaeth4215
    @patriciaspaeth4215 8 месяцев назад +1

    We are here for you, you are wonderful

  • @danielmeola3651
    @danielmeola3651 Год назад +1

    Fingers live is the obvious choice for next chinchilla reaction, a super great performance of a great song. Thanks for this video.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      100% will be coming soon.

  • @deborahcarson8310
    @deborahcarson8310 Год назад +2

    Glad l caught the premiere....really enjoyed!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Glad you did too! Thank you!

  • @janebird723
    @janebird723 Год назад +1

    Loved watching this reaction. This song hurts my stomach with tension and emotion evoked while watching.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      That's how music should be though!

  • @michellelevert5128
    @michellelevert5128 Год назад +1

    Great reaction. I love seeing raw emotion. I find it hard to let out my feelings so it helps me to get in touch with my own emotions to see it.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      This channel has helped me do the same. I appreciate the kind words.

  • @eretlippand9965
    @eretlippand9965 Год назад +18

    This is so good. Every time I get chills.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +4

      Every. Single. Time.

    • @johnnypasho
      @johnnypasho Год назад +1

      Surely you mean chinchills right? :P

  • @simontemplar3359
    @simontemplar3359 Год назад +3

    Chinchilla kills it. She's a badass performer and an incredible vocalist. Well worth checking out.
    This song kicks the piss out of me also. There's another thing that gets me about it is the end where the way the lyric is written, there are a few ways to read it, the "where oh my God where are you?" Specifically. In the context of the song it could be an absolutely shattered soul screaming out for God and demanding to know where he is, or it could also be a moment of freaking out and asking where his friend is with a 'my God' in there for emphasis.
    It amazes me how this stuff is at a level where you can even dig into subtext. By the hallelujah part, I'm a teary snotty wreck.
    This shit is hard. Thanks for being strong enough to be vulnerable. We all felt it too i think.
    Just sending some good vibes and compassion your way. Thanks for hanging in there. Glad to have you with us. Existential despair is brutal.
    Don't feel bad for having the feels. You're human. With AI on the rise, you never know who may be a cylon!
    Real talk: if you or anyone who reads this ever feels alone and thinks they don't matter, hit me up immediately. I don't care what time it is. 🫂

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      This. This right here is what people need to do. Be empathetic and sympathetic.
      It was a long time ago but sometimes bringing it up does hurt. I still have some stuff now but it's different stuff.
      I just hate crying when I'm trying to create an intelligent explanation for something.

    • @simontemplar3359
      @simontemplar3359 Год назад +1

      @@mcflyjp No worries, man. You were still successful in making that intelligent explanation. Having stuff come up is something that makes us feel uncomfortable for a variety of reasons, and I get it, but the fact that we can feel is a reminder that we're still in the game. It's cool to be human. One more blaze of glory while it's still 4/20. 👽✌

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Haha. You got it! But yeah man. People need to not worry about feeling things and let it ride.

  • @PoliticallyPink
    @PoliticallyPink Год назад +2

    Ren said Chinchilla is his "musical sibling."

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      I heard that and it makes so much sens e

  • @AviarSavijon
    @AviarSavijon Год назад +1

    A great reaction/break down of the song. Your thoughts and words express and let myself understand so much more of music its blowing my mind thank you so much. Until next time keep dancing in the sunshine cuz you are the blessing of my sunset peace

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Thank you very much. Sometimes I am right on and locked in with my analysis. Other times not so much!

  • @stephenpodeschi6052
    @stephenpodeschi6052 Год назад +11

    Well you just subconsciously (out loud) recommended your next Chinchilla track 'Fingers' live ...lol.......Cheers for reaction & comments...

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Wait I did? How?

    • @jamescurrie7678
      @jamescurrie7678 Год назад +2

      @@mcflyjp Stephen is 100% correct, Chinchilla Fingers (Live Hunger TV) is a masterpiece

  • @TwistedDragon1
    @TwistedDragon1 Год назад +2

    Just caught some of your reactions, much love from the uk. Have subscribed as love your content.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much! I appreciate that. We love Ren here and an addicted to his music and his message.

  • @Weed4daSoul
    @Weed4daSoul 2 месяца назад +1

    Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable. You are watching a guy who puts his heart and soul out to the public, and even you said it’s refreshing. There’s no reason you should be ashamed to do the same. We’re here for you 😊

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  2 месяца назад

      I appreciate you! As I always say in the streams and in the videos I may not be a therapist but I'll do my best to be someone to lean on for the community. We all need to be better at expressing ourselves.

  • @ZeteR1989
    @ZeteR1989 Год назад +1

    A true reaction, thank you.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Came here for the great music left with tears. I wasn't ready even though I should've been.

  • @davidgibbs9950
    @davidgibbs9950 Год назад +1

    Good stuff, Thanks brother!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Glad you enjoyed. They have a way of getting to me.

  • @patriciaspaeth4215
    @patriciaspaeth4215 8 месяцев назад +1

    Great reaction

  • @jamiemacdonald6899
    @jamiemacdonald6899 Год назад +1

    Thank you for such an open and honest reaction. New sub here. Keep going fella you got this.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Thank you so much that means a lot!

  • @sarahk3925
    @sarahk3925 Год назад +8

    I was so moved when I listened to this I was in tears. Still moves me to tears. And at the same point you did too. It's so powerful and full of emotion. Just beautiful.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +2

      That line is too powerful and the vocal choices are just too good.

  • @VideosbyLisaLisa
    @VideosbyLisaLisa Год назад +1

    Check out "Ocean" or "Humble" for Ren upbeat or "Losing It" for kicks.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      All of these I've been impatiently waiting to hear lol.

  • @francesdoll4039
    @francesdoll4039 Год назад +1

    I think this song is supposed to be from the pov of the friend. But it can work from his view too.
    I cry every time.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Really? That gives hit a whole different dynamic.

    • @francesdoll4039
      @francesdoll4039 Год назад +1

      @@mcflyjp kinda scary that it could be either or both! There is just so much pain around suicide! One big open wound involving so many souls.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Mental illness and suicide effects everyone in one way or another.

  • @kadathsmith
    @kadathsmith 9 месяцев назад +1

    No one is making art like this right now. Its unique.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  9 месяцев назад

      100% no one is doing this.

  • @Dstinii
    @Dstinii Год назад +3

    Those few lines near the end of the song, 'Where is my god, where are you?' and 'Nothing is pulling me through'...those are some of my FAVOURITE vocals from Ren ever, the way he goes down when many would go UP. His voice there is deep and rich and I could listen to it all day long. It makes it so much more emotional. Need more lower register Ren in my life!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      This song is just great alk around because it's so different. I love it too.

    • @ananda-b3u
      @ananda-b3u Год назад

      That part gets me every single time. The pain and desperation in his voice and in his eyes. It’s just so raw and real.

  • @mckillen100
    @mckillen100 Год назад +1

    been loving your reactions and breakdowns. .

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Thank you so much. Glad you enjoy. Plenty more to come.

  • @alexiaspaedt-mcintosh5311
    @alexiaspaedt-mcintosh5311 Год назад +5

    I absolutely love this one! You can see how emotional Ren is with this song. Great reaction again! Also the rawness you got at the end really touched me and I really relate as well!

  • @helenjarvis7755
    @helenjarvis7755 Год назад +1

    Respect and love

  • @mothermaclean
    @mothermaclean Год назад +3

    Thank you for sharing you thoughts and feelings it is so brave of you to share, I had similar experiences with my mental health all my life.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Mental health plagues everyone. It is just how we are able to deal with it.

  • @curmudgeon1933
    @curmudgeon1933 Год назад +3

    What I love about Ren's music, is seeing reactors realize that modern music is often so over-engineered, which makes it perfect, but sterile. Watching a raw, unpolished performance like Hi-Ren, or this one, is so much more affecting and visceral, as opposed to a sanitized, 'radio-friendly' product.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Think about who that music is catered to and it makes sense but I'd also appalling considering stuff like WAP is catered to kids and Young Teens.
      That's a whole other argument though.

    • @curmudgeon1933
      @curmudgeon1933 Год назад +1

      @@mcflyjp Maybe, but I would think that music that glorifies violence and misogyny is far more damaging to people than one that seems to be celebrating women's appreciation of their sexuality...though I'm sure that pricks the egos of men who feel threatened by powerful women. The pious pearl-clutching that went on when WAP was released, especially from such heroic male icons as Ben Shapiro, Tucker Carlson and Matt Gaetz, was beyond parody.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      True. And that stuff has been rampant since forever. But Gangster rap in the early 90s ar what my generation and boomers lived through. Maybe that explains a lot.
      I agree with you on the women's sexuality part but I also think it should stay preaching WOMENS sexuality. Not little girls.

  • @samuelroth6590
    @samuelroth6590 Год назад +1

    Makes me cry too

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      I didn't expect it.

  • @rebeccaburnell9319
    @rebeccaburnell9319 Год назад +3

    "Nothing is pulling me through" is a heavy line for me, too, even though I don't have a background with religion to cause the extra impact coming straight after asking where god has gone.
    You did an incredible job discussing the performance. I 100% agree with how important it is that Ren puts all this emotion into his song lyrics and performances, and has a voice that can deliver it all extraordinarily well (which he's then pushed, searching for additional ways of delivering expression)
    There's also a point in the first verse where Ren looks skywards - on the lyric "talking" - it could be (and probably is) to god (or the dead), but it's also usefully right where he needs to hit that high note without a power onset, so it's cool to watch on both those levels of performance - a great demonstration of literally visualizing the note you need to hit before you sing it.
    I full on can't imagine that there's a vocalist that's a better match for Ren to sing with than Chinchilla, even though he's amazing with Sam Tompkins and he's amazing with his bandmates in The Big Push and he's amazing with Eden Nash and I'm sure he's amazing with plenty of others. How he and Chinchilla use their voices together is unmatched anywhere in any modern music I've listened to in my 49 years on this planet.
    You ABSOLUTELY have to do "Fingers" *now* (or *very* *very* *VERY* *soon*) and it ABSOLUTELY has to be the Live version.
    You will be extremely angry with yourself later if you don't.
    The official music video is great too, but it's the live version you need to see.
    I also love love love Elements, and the Awakening EP, but *you* need to watch "Fingers" live.
    Thanks for going ahead and not editing your reaction to hell to avoid showing how heavily the song hit. I think it will be meaningful to lots of people. It must be uncomfortable, but maybe it's part of a process for you (though of course it's always heavy to revisit difficult memories, much less "not exactly purposefully" and "to an audience"). Be well. ❤

    • @rebeccaburnell9319
      @rebeccaburnell9319 Год назад +1

      K, I see you've already responded to about 100 other people who're telling you to watch Fingers live too, glad to see you're headed there now/soon, can't wait for the video!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      I am definitely going to be getting to it soon.
      Thank you for the kind words I agree that their voices together are unmatched. And the emotion and meaning of that song for Ren was apparent.

  • @jrbush1
    @jrbush1 Год назад +1

    Great reaction!

  • @inuchan74
    @inuchan74 Год назад +2

    I've never seen two people perform who actually look like they are having an intimate moment - a complete understanding of each others pain. It's really amazing to see. As for Chinchilla's voice - I'm always finding myself thinking, man, she could blow Adele out of the water. Singers like Adele or Celine Dion, you know they have such powerful voices and they sing so beautifully. But they are just singing something the way it was written. Chinchilla has that power but also is pouring out raw emotion that you just don't hear very often. Both of them get completely lost in their singing and like you've pointed out, it might not technically be flawless, but it effects the listener in a different way. I can't remember what you called it, but that anguish is what puts them on a totally different level for me.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +2

      I think the problem with Adele is just that; she's following what the companies want. I guarantee she could show just as much emotion as Chinchy and she'd gain so many more fans. But the Industry doesn't want that vulnerability.

  • @peterdobos1606
    @peterdobos1606 Год назад +1

    "peotic yet succint"
    Yup. I've said it before and I'll say it again: Ren is a savant of the highest order when it comes to lyrics. Everything he writes is like a super-extended haiku, where every word needs to be "le mot juste", and in his rap/ hip-hop stuff every syllable has to be exactly right. It's bonkers.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      That takes immense care and genius to do what he does;

  • @robertsuperina3834
    @robertsuperina3834 Год назад +4

    I think Ren is one of those "gifted" individuals who are able to obtain access to our internalised emotions. I'm a 65 yo man who is nearly brought to tears at all Ren personal performances.
    There's an intangible about Ren.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      I think his music is so powerful we want to analyze what it's about. And in that analyzing we find how good it is. I think if we actually go back to some of the music we grew up with and reanalyze we'll find we missed a lot.

  • @debrashrider4062
    @debrashrider4062 Год назад +1

    Ren music tends to slash open old wounds, release the festering, and promote healing. Seems no matter what his topic is, it strikes a cord in a variety of personal topics in others.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      That's what's great about his music. For some reason, it resonates with pretty much everyone.

  • @samuelabernetti658
    @samuelabernetti658 Год назад +19

    FYI: Ren and Chinchilla define themselves as musical siblings.

  • @gbud888
    @gbud888 Год назад +1

    Bro, what is going on with you, and me, is the fact that we are getting some amazing emotional art from these two. I know for me, I cut myself off from highs and lows.. but these two drag it out of me with ease. And I love the. For it.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Definitely finding out about myself with these songs.

  • @Veeliscious
    @Veeliscious Год назад +3

    A very touching reaction to a beautifully sung heartaching song. When Ren sings "Where is my God, where are you?" you see he is reliving that feeling and pain in that moment and he means it - it breaks me every time

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      That's what got me. That moment right there.

  • @Jillightful1
    @Jillightful1 Год назад +3

    Yes I LOVE how Ren uses his face to sing. When he looks up to the sky searching for God I just lost it. 😭

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      That's definitely what put me over the edge. I lost it there as well.

  • @mldkenny
    @mldkenny Год назад +2

    This so beautiful , two amazing people. FINGERS LIVE by Chinchilla is just stunning.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      It will be soon!

  • @Clarkchapin
    @Clarkchapin Год назад +1

    Great break down and analysis, fellow traveler.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Thank you sir. I appreciate it.

  • @laurelhager8495
    @laurelhager8495 Год назад +2

    I get it and relate on a very deep level with you. I cried when you shared some personal info. You are starting to heal. I support and sennd light and love.❤

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Thank you so much! That's so sweet!

  • @ojayferojay478
    @ojayferojay478 Год назад +1

    Be strong my guy! Great reaction. You need to watch crutch Ren Ft Bibi his ex but he said it’s one of his favourite songs. It’s another sad one even though he has great fun stuff.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      I'm gonna have to mix it up with sad and happy or else this could just be a complication channel of me crying. Lol

  • @belinda35
    @belinda35 Год назад +3

    Such a great reaction!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much

  • @frankensteinfpv
    @frankensteinfpv Год назад +3

    Great reaction bro! And thank you for being real and sharing your emotion with us! Can't wait for you to do crutch! 👏👌🤌🔥❤️

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      That one is on the list for sure. And thanks for the kind words as always man!

    • @frankensteinfpv
      @frankensteinfpv Год назад

      @McFly JP my pleasure bro 😉👍

  • @joannewilson2395
    @joannewilson2395 Год назад +1

    I told you to bring the tissues 😢😢

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      5hey seem to always get me!

  • @maxmacpherson1957
    @maxmacpherson1957 Год назад +3

    Interesting to note the name of your channel because Chinchilla was opening act on a McFly tour!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      I heard that and its pretty cool to be honest.

  • @loganyarborough7783
    @loganyarborough7783 Год назад +2

    You are by far one of my fav reactors, and if you ever decide to do country I have a ton of emotional songs that are NOT pop country! Also check out a video "Hi Ren Reactors Expose RUclips Humanity" I believe the channel is Lower your Shield. It's not a reaction suggestion, it's just for you. The guy is a trauma therapist and he explains why your body and mind react to specific vocals and tones. It's really interesting hearing him explain why I was physically tense at times during that song!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +2

      In literally watching that video right now! It's super interesting.

    • @rebeccaburnell9319
      @rebeccaburnell9319 Год назад +2

      Agreed! I was really happy to stumble across that video! Glad to see from @McFly JP's response to you that he's already found it too.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Yo, what are the country songs you'd like me to react to. I want to try and get into them.

  • @IngaSin
    @IngaSin Год назад +3

    New sub here, because of Ren, of course, but because of you, too. I didnt subscribed to so many, cause I'm not into that at all. Actually I made my You tube account only to be able to like Ren's song. I'm learning... As long as people are honest, I follow that. Good job, btw!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Thank you very much that means a lot!

  • @ant1010
    @ant1010 6 месяцев назад +1

    Great, heartfelt reaction bro I don't know if you've done REN, Dear God but worth a listen,. Subscribed ❤ from the UK

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  6 месяцев назад

      Check out my Ren playlist. Majority of my content is Ren.

  • @91adam12
    @91adam12 Год назад +1

    So Artistic!
    It’s so hard to watch without expressing some kind of emotion.
    Great Job!❤

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate it.

  • @Elizabeth-vx2xm
    @Elizabeth-vx2xm 3 месяца назад

    Love that your Ren playlist is the biggest 😊

  • @allanbach67
    @allanbach67 Год назад +2

    Enjoying your intelligent, thoughtful and emotional reactions. Subbed, and take care! Chinchilla fingers live as everyone else says!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +2

      That one will be up shortly

  • @salishseamermaid
    @salishseamermaid Год назад +2

    Just wait until you hear her belt in her live performance of Fingers. Holy crap.
    I'm sorry you went through such rough times.

    • @Tessimistic420
      @Tessimistic420 Год назад +2

      ❤️💯❤️

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Thank you for that. And yes that one has been chosen in the comments. It will be soon

    • @Tessimistic420
      @Tessimistic420 Год назад +2

      @@mcflyjp little girl gone #chinchilla just dropped today and it is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      I will be reacting to that eventually.

  • @MarkTomblin
    @MarkTomblin Год назад +1

    Heheh. Chinchilla did her signature knee lift at 11:05. 😍❤

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      That's her emotional tell! I'm here for it.

  • @wizardflaps
    @wizardflaps Год назад +1

    You've got the fight in you mate

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Is that a good thing? Haha thanks. We all gotta fight it.

    • @wizardflaps
      @wizardflaps Год назад +1

      @@mcflyjp Nah man, it's rough, won't lie. Some more than others. Chin up.

  • @RonNL70
    @RonNL70 Год назад +1

    Thank you for your heartfelt reaction. This song gets me every single time 😢
    Big hug bro

  • @papacarl2002
    @papacarl2002 Год назад +6

    👏well done

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Thanks. This was a good one.

  • @leeallen9182
    @leeallen9182 3 месяца назад +1

    im glad you are here❤

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  3 месяца назад

      Thank you! I'm glad you're here too!

  • @jacks9624
    @jacks9624 Год назад +4

    it's not the voice, it's the pain you responded to...
    just as the rest of us

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +3

      Can it be both? Both is good.

    • @jacks9624
      @jacks9624 Год назад +1

      @@mcflyjp ofc. but the voice is a tool, while emotion is the power behind it. they just sing the emotion into us. so bloody effortlessly...

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      I would have to agree with you. It's one thing to sound good singing but I think what differentiates a fantastic singer from a good singer is emotion.

  • @ManneyM
    @ManneyM Год назад +2

    Heartfealt reaction Mcfly, the two songs with these two, tap into your soul... they get me everytime... i think Ren's Dear God might resonate... and chinchill's new live verson of Fingers is class 😉👍

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      That one will be reacted to soon. Thank you for the kind words;

  • @iamlpinthe312
    @iamlpinthe312 Год назад +1

    Yeah, I was feeling ballsy and did Chalk Outlines AND How To Be Me in one sitting. 😭 😭 😭

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Couldn't imagine. How did you recover? Lol

  • @syyneater
    @syyneater Год назад +4

    Another great reaction, your authenticity shows and we appreciate what you’re doing!

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      Thank you so much! I appreciate your kind words.

  • @suzannezdrowski6520
    @suzannezdrowski6520 Год назад +1

    If these two don’t get you in your feels and cross up your frequencies… then I suggest you might be missing a part of your humanity. You’re not alone.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      LOL some people I've seen react to this said they just don't get what's so sad about it. There are those people out there.

    • @suzannezdrowski6520
      @suzannezdrowski6520 Год назад +1

      @McFly JP If the words don't resonate, their voices and emotion should be pulling you feet out from under you. I suspevt those people ... 1. Lost their humanity along the way. 2. Are afraid to be vulnerable and either didn't listen to the song or turned it off. 3. Are absolutely turned off by either Ren or Chinchillas voice that they can't listen to appreciate it.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Not all music is for everyone. And that's ok.

    • @suzannezdrowski6520
      @suzannezdrowski6520 Год назад +1

      @@mcflyjp agreed 100%

  • @VynxeVainglory
    @VynxeVainglory Год назад +3

    Mediant chord changes for dramatic feeling.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      100% a great tactic.

  • @lisab407
    @lisab407 Год назад +1

  • @simplysimon9868
    @simplysimon9868 Год назад +1

    Chinchillas voice is 🔥 Fingers - live for Hunger TV and Elements are so good.
    Such a sad and beautiful song and together they're so good.
    Great reaction 👍👍👍

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +1

      Thanks man I appreciate you.

  • @skunkworksu7638
    @skunkworksu7638 Год назад +1

    Hey mate . You have to do Fingers live by chinchilla 😮 so amazing .what ever happened to you I'm glad your here and made it through ✌️

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      That will be coming up soon.

  • @MCeciPinto
    @MCeciPinto Год назад +1

    Her voice it's just another level. Not much more to tell about Ren, pure genious, but just wanted to keep remarking the beauty and talent in her vocals and overall performance. It's amazing.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      100%! I do a deep dive into her vocals on my Fingers reaction. She's a powerhouse. Best singer out there right now.

  • @kjcile8334
    @kjcile8334 Год назад +1

    I love how these feelings are normal to our circumstances. We go through so much & we just stuff them down because we feel shame that we could even have those thoughts. Since I'm not a man I can only imagine how it is for a man but I know how a man wouldn't want to show weakness. It's refreshing how people realize how much we need each other. Specially during those hard times

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      I grew up in a broken home but my Dad was pretty good about keeping me straight about it being ok to show emotions. Society didn't do us men any favors at all.

  • @carolmillins9199
    @carolmillins9199 Год назад +2

    Pure raw emotions

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад +2

      This song just spoke to me.

  • @tonywalsh6054
    @tonywalsh6054 Год назад +1

    Difficult to understand how they kept it together performing that track on the very bridge ( I've been led to believe) Joe jumped from.

    • @mcflyjp
      @mcflyjp  Год назад

      According to some comments it's _NOT_ the same bridge. But still that song was about him. Definitely had to be difficult.