I'll never understand why some women will get all dressed up, looking good and then accept a guy wearing jeans and sneakers. That tells you a lot about a woman and her standards.
They make a nice couple. I hope it works out for them. More people need to take Chancia's approach and not judge based on the outer clothing and things like that can be changed or adjusted but to listen to the their responses and be intentional about trying to connect with someone for real. We are too old to be saying that "I didn't like your belt or your glasses" This gives me hope! Thanks for sharing. Great questions, Arlette. I love these Catch ups!
It's not judging some people have standards morality and principles dressing promiscuous when someone doesn't want to deal with that you can't negate it to show self-respect. Dressing like a city girl and wanted to be treated like a lady goes against the law of attraction in correspondence to the universe!
Mike is my childhood friend and thinks he can still beat me in basketball, but that's not happening lol. Seriously though, he's a great guy and has really good character and integrity. Im sure, if they work in their relationship, it'll be successful. Keep Jesus at the center of it bro!
The fact she focused more on his responses and less on the outfits! 🙌🏼 & congrats again Arlette & BM making it to SNL & being mentioned again on the breakfast club! We already knew yall were great!
I LOVE that SNL used your real name during the skit! God is great! I’ve seen soooo many cheesy classless copycat pop the balloons looking to go viral, but they could NEEEVVAAAAAA❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Arlette, is so happy that it is working out for the couple. I am too instead of the couples coming on here after they match and dragging each other. I am rooting for you two.
At first i thought he was a little nonchalant but i think he’s just more reserved and that’s ok. You can tell he is more introverted. Wishing them the best!
Yes! He's introverted and peaceful, and she seems to be compatible with him, I hope it works out for them it's tough being a man there are alot of expectations, especially when the woman doesn't understand her role and is in it for all the wrong reasons....
@TyrahStarkeTV I think he's definitely a little too nonshalant. Not getting her a gift for Christmas while she was in there visiting him and she got him a gift felt off for me. He doesn't seem too excited about the relationship. Feels a bit off.
@@blackjoy9079 Also! He said his Mom lives minutes away yet he didn't bother to introduce her; meanwhile, he met her family and friends, he did say next time, tho.....I think she needs to let him come to her, she already did her part, she didn't even know what his job was and she picked him even though his outfit was not up to par,,,,He works alot of hours and obviously needs rest, she's a dancer with lots of energy to put into a new relationship....I feel like they can work it out👍🏽
@@Way2Go-r3gmy husband is very introverted and doesn’t really talk around others and hates social media lol so that’s why I’m trying to root for them . I’m the radical loud one lol. So I’m hoping. Hopefully there is another catch up
@@blackjoy9079i noticed that too. I’m hoping he’s just shy and doesn’t like the forefront so hopefully there’s another catch up with them on BM talks to them
Yes, I’m pleasantly surprised by her personality she seems like a feminine soft lady. I can tell they really like each other. I hope this works out for them.
Why on earth would you think she was bougie? She was down to earth and pleasant. Plus she was clear she didn’t like flashiness and overt displays of materialism. Sounds like you’re a misogynist and projecting what you wanted to see and not what was actually there.
Wow these 2 seem to have a real connection. You can tell Arlette is genuinely happy about matching 2 people. Salute to this amazing show and everyone involved!
This relationship worked because she is FEMININE, both of them were INTENTIONAL and neither one is superficial. I love seeing people happy, I wish them both the best
This is the epitome of intentional dating and seeking authentic love. I like how they are both building good communication and intimacy. I wish them much triumph in the trejectory of their dating experience. To see the immense elation on Arlette's countenance was phenomenal! Notice the young lady did not judge him on his dress; however, character and intentionality trump his attire.
I love the fact that they BOTH key word “both” initiated energy which is why they are still thriving on getting to know each other. Wishing them all the best, such a beautiful match !
One of my fav catch ups!! This is what I call dating with intention and not letting the opinions of others ruin a good thing 🎉 Hope this couple thrives in 2025!
I was screaming when my hubs played that SNL clip I told him ARLETTE has this hosting thing in the bag! Name drop and everything WOW y’all stay blessed 🙏🏾🙌🏾
The more I watch, I love how easy going SHE is. It’s refreshing, nothing extra! Overly complicated. She like him and she is fully content just getting to know him. And he’s into her and he’s not acting overly cocky or aggressive, or nonchalant. I truly wish them well
Tbh I liked the fact when she new his schedule already and started talking about it even before him She was like he works nights and doubles and side jobs, she def knows a lot abt him and wasn’t playing no games in getting to know him And the little way she looked at the camera and said no when he said he’d get sleep in the grave, she cares truly 😂😂 Wish yall the best 🙏🏾🙏🏾
The chemistry is real between the two , humble and sweet. First time I’ve actually seen this interaction aftermath go so well. They’re going to make it 🙏🏾🙌🏾💯🫶🏾, it’s out in the universe now 👸🏾🤴🏾🥂. BOOM 💥
She is truly ready for marriage, she allows him to take the lead in conversations all of the time, meaning she listens to understand and contribute to what her partner says. Their energy is pure.
🎉🎉🎉yayyy can’t wait to hear update. You both definitely are intentional. Wishing you both the best for love and more friends who surround you with nothing but support
Congrats on the SNL recognition, although nothing-and I mean NOTHING-beats Wednesday afternoon!!! Thanks for the show! And congrats on a good couple follow-up!!!
This great.... Makes such big difference when both ppl actually interested in each other and how they can partner as what they can get out of it for themselves
Does anyone else go straight to the comments to see if the outcome was positive or negative before watching? (I typically only watch the positive outcomes since I started doing that.)
I watch for the first few minutes. Looking at mannerisms & body language to make a prediction about the outcome. Then I make my way to the comments while I continue watching.
This part of your show is the golden goose!!!! To see 2 nice ppl get together because the experience you created is so awesome!!! God bless you for creating this divine experience 💯💯💯
Finally another couple that we can smile about. Intentional and maturity at the same time. A breath of fresh air.
I smiled the whole time watching them.
Well said 😎😎😎😎😎
Success. Hope they can grow together, settle down, and have Children.
Not me over here smiling and cheesing like I have something to gain out of this 😂😂😂😂😂
Same here😂
Lololol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I know exactly what you mean 😂😂😂😂😂. Love is lovely........and that's why 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
Hope and optimism are great gains!
This is what it's all about!
Can the catch ups go back to be in person instead of virtual?
@@restlesspolymath92Virtual is free. In person somebody has to pay for the airplane tickets
@@restlesspolymath92 what if everyone isn't available to travel at that moment? Nothing wrong with a zoom call
The girl looks happy but the guy looks upset.
@@denissedenisse5497 upset how🙄
Shes not obsessed about fancy dates or first impressions she wanted to spend time and get to know dude, I definately respect that
Facts. Hopefully he takes her out for Valentine’s Day / her birthday
@@halftimehomesyes hopefully he gets on the planning asap and takes initiative! 🎉
@@arnold2106 he seemed a little uncertain imo
Nah every woman that come on these shows are red flags. Dancing for music videos etc is huge red flags. Never wife a dancer.
I'll never understand why some women will get all dressed up, looking good and then accept a guy wearing jeans and sneakers. That tells you a lot about a woman and her standards.
Congrats on the SNL skit/recognition, Arlette! I felt like a proud mama! 😂❤
That was hilarious
I'll look that up. I missed it!!
Man why you all popped on Smokey😂
Yes! Congrats!!
Right!!!
HELL YEA!! an honest hard working brother out here winning with a fully functioning gorgeous woman.
Know this! Proper thing! 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
@@dalegriffith2047you from the Caribbean by chance? Lol
Amen!!!! 🙏🏾
Mike is moisturized and it seems like the relationship is too.
Congrats to them🎉
Right lol I’m like I need his skincare routine 🤣
😆…got that glow for sure! Healthy skin.
😂😂😂
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They make a nice couple. I hope it works out for them. More people need to take Chancia's approach and not judge based on the outer clothing and things like that can be changed or adjusted but to listen to the their responses and be intentional about trying to connect with someone for real. We are too old to be saying that "I didn't like your belt or your glasses" This gives me hope! Thanks for sharing. Great questions, Arlette. I love these Catch ups!
👏🏽
It's not judging some people have standards morality and principles dressing promiscuous when someone doesn't want to deal with that you can't negate it to show self-respect. Dressing like a city girl and wanted to be treated like a lady goes against the law of attraction in correspondence to the universe!
They both seem humble - a great match. I hope they continue to make it work
A Great match . Sinlge Man and Sinlgle Woman with n Children equally matched and able to travel and do things together. Natural growth.
Their chemistry is really cool to see this is what this show is about happy things are going well for them
I love this soo much! No fussing just two adults getting to know each other in real life. That's what this show is all about.
Exactly 👍🏾
Best case scenario
No lie!!
PERIOD
Yes! About time
Mike is my childhood friend and thinks he can still beat me in basketball, but that's not happening lol. Seriously though, he's a great guy and has really good character and integrity. Im sure, if they work in their relationship, it'll be successful. Keep Jesus at the center of it bro!
Thanks childhood friend
@mandisamthembu245 Your welcome
Sounds like we got a match 🎉❤🎉❤❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉
ARLETT YOUR HUMBLENESS AND MODESTY IS A PLEASURE.
CONGRATS ON SNL🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
This couple is vibing well. I'm loving it! 💑😍😍😍😍😍💖🔥🔥🔥
Ofcoure....she is aquarius❤
I hope bruh shows up as an intentional man and becomes a lil less nonchalant. She really likes him
This lady hasn't been rude, belligerent, or vulgar. She allows the man to talk and doesn't cut him off. I am impressed with her.
for a black woman, that's impressive AF...
@@negative949 maybe its the black women your around or that you engage with.. dont generalize.
This is common courtesy tho? Lmao. The baseline is on the floor.
Low bar 😂
@@negative949your name fits you
The fact she focused more on his responses and less on the outfits! 🙌🏼 & congrats again Arlette & BM making it to SNL & being mentioned again on the breakfast club! We already knew yall were great!
What the breakfast club say?
@@MrDcrawfod they pretty much reiterated the SNL and recognizing Arlette does pop the balloon. It’s was pretty dope
They actually making me blushing during the whole danm video . Danmm. Im happy for the homie. I love when genuine ppl fallin in love
I LOVE that SNL used your real name during the skit! God is great! I’ve seen soooo many cheesy classless copycat pop the balloons looking to go viral, but they could NEEEVVAAAAAA❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
She didn't create the concept of Pop the Ballon but they definitely perfected it.
@@foreverfougasie oh I didn’t know that, I guess it was the first I’ve seen…who’s concept?
@@rashandamichelleruh6227 ninja turtle dude made her show go viral 😂
@@foreverfougasieno one said she did . Move around hater
They even use the same font and color on the thumbnail like how unoriginal can you be?
Arlette, is so happy that it is working out for the couple. I am too instead of the couples coming on here after they match and dragging each other. I am rooting for you two.
A woman who would ditch movies to stay home and learn her man more IS AN IMMEDIATE TROPHY. Dude lock that girl down as of yesterday
She's definitely a 🏆
I was thinking the same thing!!!
Right, lock her down like he locking up criminals lol
This is REFRESHING! Love to see when those who matched actually put effort into getting to know each other to pursue a relationship.
Finally some more catch ups. I feel like there should be Moreee. I’m nosy I wanna know everythingggg post match lol
People are probably not agreeing to do them or not going out lol
@@rashandamichelleruh6227 I don’t like the best dress segments either 😭😭😵💫😵💫😂😂 like the judges can’t dress themselves
@@goldiejomanifest8447 same I been saying this as well loo
@@goldiejomanifest8447I think judges who are men dress well
I'm so nosey. I really need to mind my business this year :)
She’s a beauty!! And he’s handsome both seems to compliment one another. I believe they will have a long-lasting relationship. This set was different💯
They smashed and still conversating
@@ronde1135whattttt 😂😂😂😂
@@ronde1135Sirrrr CHILL 🤣🤣🤣
@@ronde1135That's what you are on. Grow up.
Finally a nice catchup ☺️ keep it up you two!!!
At first i thought he was a little nonchalant but i think he’s just more reserved and that’s ok. You can tell he is more introverted. Wishing them the best!
Yes! He's introverted and peaceful, and she seems to be compatible with him, I hope it works out for them it's tough being a man there are alot of expectations, especially when the woman doesn't understand her role and is in it for all the wrong reasons....
@TyrahStarkeTV I think he's definitely a little too nonshalant. Not getting her a gift for Christmas while she was in there visiting him and she got him a gift felt off for me. He doesn't seem too excited about the relationship. Feels a bit off.
@@blackjoy9079 Also! He said his Mom lives minutes away yet he didn't bother to introduce her; meanwhile, he met her family and friends, he did say next time, tho.....I think she needs to let him come to her, she already did her part, she didn't even know what his job was and she picked him even though his outfit was not up to par,,,,He works alot of hours and obviously needs rest, she's a dancer with lots of energy to put into a new relationship....I feel like they can work it out👍🏽
@@Way2Go-r3gmy husband is very introverted and doesn’t really talk around others and hates social media lol so that’s why I’m trying to root for them . I’m the radical loud one lol. So I’m hoping. Hopefully there is another catch up
@@blackjoy9079i noticed that too. I’m hoping he’s just shy and doesn’t like the forefront so hopefully there’s another catch up with them on BM talks to them
I thought she would be too bougie for him but I'm pleased to be wrong, thank Goodness coach, WE GOT 1😂🎉
Yes, I’m pleasantly surprised by her personality she seems like a feminine soft lady. I can tell they really like each other. I hope this works out for them.
Really? That's surprising cuz she works two 9-to5s (I didn't see the episode).
Facts! I thought they were completely incompatible, but hey, we can all learn a lesson here, never judge a book by its cover fr
😂
Why on earth would you think she was bougie? She was down to earth and pleasant. Plus she was clear she didn’t like flashiness and overt displays of materialism. Sounds like you’re a misogynist and projecting what you wanted to see and not what was actually there.
This is one of the best follow up interviews! Congratulations to this couple, and best wishes for their future.
Wow these 2 seem to have a real connection. You can tell Arlette is genuinely happy about matching 2 people. Salute to this amazing show and everyone involved!
My gawd I’m smiling through this entire video. Best wishes to them!
okay Arlette with the hair 🤩
I LOVE it!!!
This relationship worked because she is FEMININE, both of them were INTENTIONAL and neither one is superficial. I love seeing people happy, I wish them both the best
Also because he is MASCULINE
Also because of OXYGEN
Yes and she didn’t need his masculinity to become naturally feminine vice versa .
@@imounaite711that stupidity. Just a person who is broken and a controlling dictator.
@@jl7662 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is nice. I really hope this couple with get married😊
This is the epitome of intentional dating and seeking authentic love. I like how they are both building good communication and intimacy. I wish them much triumph in the trejectory of their dating experience. To see the immense elation on Arlette's countenance was phenomenal! Notice the young lady did not judge him on his dress; however, character and intentionality trump his attire.
this seems like only the second match that feels and looks real hope they continue working out great!!! this is reallyy what the shows is for 👏👏👏👏
Mike is very kind, simple yet a hunk of manly-charm 💪🏾, Congratulations you 2❤
Pop the Balloon (Arlette & BM version) has arrived!! You guys made it on SNL!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Congrats!! 🎉🎊🎈
I love how they interact. They protect each other without realising it. A natural connection! ❤️
Congratulations on the SNL skit recognition. That was amazing!
Damn im jealous 😂 she was one of the finest and dope women on the show 🎉
I love this for them. That’s one of the few genuine ladies that have appeared on the show.
Two grown ups they have such natural chemistry and are so genuine. Wishing them well THIS IS WHAT YOU COME TO THE SHOW FOR 😊😊
Heyhey there she is 🤩SNL superstar!!! Congrats to you and BM 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 OK…let’s see this catchup 🙃
I love the fact that they BOTH key word “both” initiated energy which is why they are still thriving on getting to know each other. Wishing them all the best, such a beautiful match !
One of my fav catch ups!! This is what I call dating with intention and not letting the opinions of others ruin a good thing 🎉 Hope this couple thrives in 2025!
Those 2 look really good together. I hope they keep it up and tie the knot if they really enjoy each other.
Yay 🎉 congrats on making it to a skit on SNL!!
So glad to see these two genuinely taking things seriously and wanting to be together. Big ups on them for sure !
I was screaming when my hubs played that SNL clip I told him ARLETTE has this hosting thing in the bag! Name drop and everything WOW y’all stay blessed 🙏🏾🙌🏾
The more I watch, I love how easy going SHE is. It’s refreshing, nothing extra! Overly complicated. She like him and she is fully content just getting to know him. And he’s into her and he’s not acting overly cocky or aggressive, or nonchalant. I truly wish them well
Arlette! You look beautiful, sis! I love the hair. I love the effort these two are putting towards each other. This makes me happy!
Mike's demeanor is so attractive -- like you can just tell he's a secure man.
I hope they keep the momentum going!! Congrats ❤🎉
Arlette, you look so pretty. Congratulations on your SNL debut. I was blown away
Congratulations on the SNL skit recognition Arlette! That's major 💪🏾💖
She’s fireee. On the show and now. Mike you did good my boy. Wish yall the best.
Arlette, this HAIR?! Girl you are absolutely stunning!
I'm addicted to this show.
Tbh I liked the fact when she new his schedule already and started talking about it even before him
She was like he works nights and doubles and side jobs, she def knows a lot abt him and wasn’t playing no games in getting to know him
And the little way she looked at the camera and said no when he said he’d get sleep in the grave, she cares truly 😂😂
Wish yall the best 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Me clapping my hands when Chancia knew Mike's and answering his question for him. I'm so happy for them. Mike is a gentlemen.
Saturday Night Live not only parody you, but ACTUALLY CREDITED YOU. Major props! Congratulations
The chemistry is real between the two , humble and sweet. First time I’ve actually seen this interaction aftermath go so well. They’re going to make it 🙏🏾🙌🏾💯🫶🏾, it’s out in the universe now 👸🏾🤴🏾🥂. BOOM 💥
First the Tamron Hall show and now SNL? Let me get an autograph lmao!
So refreshing! Wishing these two a very successful dating journey ahead. ❤
I am over here SMILING😊🤭!!! Such a cute couple! I wish them the very best & congrats on the skit, Arlette!
Yeah she is right, never judge a book by its cover. Good luck to you both. Love wins❤❤❤❤❤❤
She is truly ready for marriage, she allows him to take the lead in conversations all of the time, meaning she listens to understand and contribute to what her partner says. Their energy is pure.
I think this is one of the best interview yet,
They both Amazing, I really wish them the best of everything❤
Besides another interview ❤
I was smiling from ear to ear while watching this 🥹
You know you've made it when your show is referenced on SNL. Kudos!
What's SNL?
@@oscarchs2239Saturday night live. Look it up, it’s a good watch
@@oscarchs2239Saturday Night Live
@@oscarchs2239 Saturday Night Live. Primetime television
@@oscarchs2239Saturday Night Live,it's a popular TV show
Besides the proposal couples this was refreshing to see to adults enjoying each other for real for real.
Congratulations on the ❤SNL
They do look alike. She's a natural beautiful soul.
@@EdwardW-p5i And when it sinks in and he gets some rest and good loving he will be the handsome prince that he is......❤️
Congratulations on the SNL skit. That was HUGE!!
I love this! I truly hope they make it! They seem like a lovely couple and have great vibes!❤
She is so mature & positive, well done girl❤😊
THIS IS PERFECTION! I smiled listening and enjoyed the
genuine maturity displayed. ❤👏🏾✊🏾
You can see the BIG sigh of relief on Arlette’s face…. 😂😂
She seems like a real treat, glad they’re making progress.
It's giving grown and intentional! Love it!
SNL doing skits with your show... big things are coming! Congrats 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 ❤💯
This is organic and love how they be real and honest. They really want to get to know each other.
Arlette we not gone skip over that SNL nod. Beautiful
I mean, the eating leftovers while you're at work is points in itself, and the fact ya'll trusted each other at ya'll houses and your families.
🎉🎉🎉yayyy can’t wait to hear update. You both definitely are intentional. Wishing you both the best for love and more friends who surround you with nothing but support
FINALLY a great match I can get behind! Great couple.
I think she really likes him. She is already standing up for him that cute, and she is smart.
Sprained my fingers coming here 😂
Lmaooo same
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Congrats on the SNL recognition, although nothing-and I mean NOTHING-beats Wednesday afternoon!!! Thanks for the show! And congrats on a good couple follow-up!!!
WISHING NOTHING BUT THE BEST AND HAPPINESS FOR THESE 2‼️MAY GOD BLESS THEM BOTH‼️
This great.... Makes such big difference when both ppl actually interested in each other and how they can partner as what they can get out of it for themselves
Shout out to them! Its always good to see ppl doing well after the show.
Also, Congrats on the SNL recognition! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Congratulations🎉 I was screaming when I saw the SNL skit. I'm so proud of you and BM!!!!❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Finally 2 people who didn’t waste our time 🎉 All the best guys 🤩
Does anyone else go straight to the comments to see if the outcome was positive or negative before watching? (I typically only watch the positive outcomes since I started doing that.)
I watch for the first few minutes. Looking at mannerisms & body language to make a prediction about the outcome. Then I make my way to the comments while I continue watching.
Only us with anxiety 😂😂
@@megangarrett2455big Anxiety sis 😅
Me too because I’m not about to my data on bad energy
Arlett set that brother up with February 14th 😂 wish them the best.
This part of your show is the golden goose!!!! To see 2 nice ppl get together because the experience you created is so awesome!!! God bless you for creating this divine experience 💯💯💯
This kind of positivity is rare on catch-up. I wish them the best
Finally he was not annoyed during the show: just a peaceful hardworking guy minding his business. Great catch up ! Wish them the best !!
She got a nice vibe
Watching this video with the biggest smile on my face. Love is beautiful, y'all!!🥰