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If you wear that much makeup, I won't believe you for a second.

She cute

I hate myself but this is untrue. No matter what. Self love is real and all you need is you. Dont care if you have ingrown hair bad genetics that show up as phenotypes. All these things can be altered in ways but to get there you have to start with self love. And no in the end after all the changes you will be insecure because you wont be happy. You will just move on to other insecurities and coping addictions. True happiness comes from the courage to love yourself. True courage comes from self validation. BE YOURSELF. its not a cliche. Its real life values. Be humble and be kind to YOURSELF. Your self worth is defined by all the things but you cannot control all the factors. LEARN TO LET GO. ACCEPT YOUR FLAWS. MOVE ON. BE IN CONTROL. In a way i understand nudists. Its the same with many religious practices of minimalism and non suffering. Monks dispossessing their earthly connections... We were born naked. We cannnot hide our flaws behind layers of insecurities. Embrace who you are and you can change with acceptance.

Bravo 😊

It looks stunning on you ❤

thank you so much for this! i literally want to change myself because i literally obsessed and tired about being perfect. But i want to be myself, love and be kind to myself as well to others, i want to stop thinking about what people think of me and enjoy my life as long as i lived. Because literally im very very obsessed about my looks, trying to be impressed by everyone, and seeking validation from others, im very tired of it, but now i just want to accept the very flaws that i have. i realized that as well. sometimes i look at people, they have some flaws to but i couldn't pay attention to it, thats when i realized that people couldn't care that much about how i look and they pay attention more about themselves. and the truth is if im asking why am i so obsessed about how i looks is because i felt people always point out my face, they point out a little tiny things in my face and saying im ugly in my past self. so now I've been trying to be perfect, trying to be more pretty so people could like me but i had to stop because its literally control the way i lived, i want to lived...

I was he exact same and got diagnosed with OCD and everything started to make sense.

Tu te débrouille tres bien !!

I feel really aligned with your words, thanks for bringing up this content🤍

thank you! 🥺

You need to differentiate between someone who unfollows because the other posts are obnoxious and people who unfollow because they are assholes. My MIL virtually begged me to add her to my social media, to spy on me and her son, then dumped me several months later while keeping the rest of the family on her Instagram. I don't post often. This is not self-care, this is just mean and narcissistic and some sort of revenge. Did I mention that she never liked me and that she is a huge manipulator?

hey thanks Cassandra i feel very relatable about your views and thanks you a lot to help sharing your experience and your understanding you got from your experiences. Wish you that your all wishes and dreams comes to reality

My case is SO much worse than yours. I am thinking about and obsessing over about my appearence for about 10-15 hours a day. I am literally spending around 5 to 6 hours a day just doing my makeup (multiple times a day). My makeup/beauty addiction is ruining my life and I feel trapped. I am going to therapy for this and other issues I have, I hope I can overcome it and be free again😢

"Why would I wanna look basic when I can be this perfected version of myself" "I was constantly looking to perfect myself, it was becoming an obsession for me -you spoke my exact thoughts.

I am unable to exist without makeup on my face. My obsession/dependency has gotten so bad that I even wear it inside the house. I put it on to go to work, then come home, take it off, and then put it on again. It has spiraled into a compulsion. Sometimes I even wear makeup to go to sleep. I can spend 5 to 6 hours a day doing my makeup. I want to live a normal life but I feel trapped and I don't know what to do😢😢😢

Your so gorgeous!

No I just am😭btw your so pretttyy🤭🤭

Thank You for sharing Cassandra, i found this video exactly when i need this answer, let me share my taken notes (in Indonesian) @0:35 kita nggak wajib untuk followback kalau kita nggak mau. @1:10 Terutama orang yang kita nggak pernah punya Interaksi langsung sama sekali, @6:33 yang kita juga nggak interest gitu sama kontennya, daripada kita jadi judging @1:48 Hal ini baik dalam mencegah kita jadi scrolling kelamaan karena following kita yang kebanyakan, @1:38 Kita nggak mau justru jadi ngelewatin postingan teman kita yang benar-benar kita punya Interaksi langsung dan emang punya hubungan langsung @4:27 Ingatlah bahwa sosial media memang didesain untuk menciptakan ketagihan kepada kita, @4:44 waspada jangan sampai energy kita kesedot ke social media @4:49 Mungkin kita jadi nggak enak unfollow orang, sebenernya justru kita harus nggak enak ke diri kita untuk ngelakuin sesuatu yang nggak baik buat kita @7:00 tidak ada aturan yang tertulis Siapa saja yang harus di unfollow semuanya balik lagi ke common sense kita apa yang penting bagi kita apa yang mempunyai value bagi kita (value entertaintment, value motivasi/inspirasi) Per Hari ini 10 Februari 2024 Aku justru say Thank you kepada seseorang, Dia adalah orang yang unfollow aku, waktu itu efeknya kerasa banget, tapi sekarang aku justru nggak apa-apa sih, Emang kita nggak kenal juga gitu dan dari dia aku belajar detachment, dia juga bener-bener ngasih bukti bahwa dia improve banget, Nah gua skrg memetik positifnya banget dari cara dia

Trop chouu ❤

Ben tu te débrouilles extrêmement bien

Tu te débrouilles super bien ! Laches rien, le français c’est compliqué mais on en a conscience donc on t’en voudra pas😂❤

ok now take the filters off

The statement isn't wrong though. You don't look that much different

Why is she so much prettier without makeup?

You’re so gorgeous I love your skin it’s perfect ♡😭✨

You're gorgeous❤

Actually it doest😅

Ur so beautiful❤

Beautiful 😍

NICEE

yes i literally would put a bobby pin on my nose and i couldnt breathe because i told myself id finally be pretty and desireable if my nose was slimmer, if skip classes and have whole panic attacks.. ik exactly how u feel and though ive grown its now grown into my asymmetrical features and now im analyzing how i look… im watching this for help

I have been obsessed with instagram for the longest time until one day this week when I realised I was so desperate for likes and followers even though they were complete strangers. I think one good friend in your life is better than 10000 strangers following on instagram.

I love this, you’re absolutely right. You should be a speaker, wise for someone so young

'did you care so much about your apperance when you were 3 years old? Probably not" Yeaaaaah The problem is I did. Even in the kindergarden I had face dysmorphia.

Gurl-, you are so underrated. New sub! <3 (I discovered your channel with the video about studying)

This video helped me a lot, thank you I was picked on a bit for my looks but I am trying to not seek validation from everyone else and just accept myself, especially for things I cant control

I normally don’t comment on videos, but I just have to say I watched this at the right time, and you helped me IMMENSELY! Thank you 💚

Hi can I do reaction video to your video? I think it's Brave that you're talking about a real problem that women want to ignore.

What shade number is it?

Do u have like a superpower for making videos and slayin super influencer

Deleting your page is even better. Instagram is a crap platform that is dying and rightfully deserves it

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Far too much of our lives, we try to please OTHERS. We should learn to accept others the way they are and NOT how we'd like them to be!

Normally i preferr black but brown is such a slayyyyy

i really really, emphasised on the "really" love this outfit. 😊😊😊

I'm crying watching this. I wasted many precious years of my life trying to look "perfect". Looking back i look so pathetic doing so....i cared too much about what peaple will think about me,it felt like a big rock in my head my head was always heavy...many girls compliments about my looks but i always felt i should do better :( i failed to enjoy my school years because of this.i hope the one who is reading this will get to enjoy their life at it's fullest

The thing for me is that most girls hate the beauty standards but still participate in them. If we truly want to let go of these standards, so that people are appreciated for more then just their appearance, but also for who they truly are, then we have to do the work ourselves. Then again I am not saying that you should not care for your body, like go to the gym, or eat healthy food or have a good hygiene or take care of your skin, but realize that you more then just that. You should love yourself regardless of what you look like, don’t become shallow and think that appearances are the only thing that will get you somewhere. Humans should be able to love others regardless of their appearance too. It is hard but the people that will love you, should not only let appearance guide their affection for you. Honestly I don’t dream to be like by others just because I am pretty now, we should make true connections. It is okay to want to look pretty but it should not be for others to like you or accept you, and it should not be to escape your “normal appearance”. If it is then you should ask yourself if you truly love yourself and why?

Really wise words and eloquently said. Thank you!

thats why i post my rant on twitter. treads.. not really because its part of IG

cute! might save up to buy these!