Gemma Oaten
Gemma Oaten
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The reality of eating disorders...
Trigger warning ⚠
I've been wanting to do a video like this for so long but never felt the time was right & was also scared.
But if you know me, that's exactly when I know I SHOULD do a video like this.
As Mum & I slowly wade through emails & ring backs as we start to tentatively 'un-pause' SEED Eating Disorder Support Services the things I'm reading & hearing break my heart, but they spur me on to keep going. We are vitally needed. Thank you all for your continued support & patience.
We can't get back to everyone all at once as it's just Mum, Dad & I at the moment, but what I can do is share my truth in the hope that it -
🌱 Helps raise awareness of eating disorders
🌱Dispels the stigma in the ...
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Видео

It will be good for you - A monologue written by Damien Tracey and performed by Gemma Oaten
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Monday monologue club at the old red lion - done ✅ In a world where our industry is so hard for too many, it's important to keep creating. So honored to have done this with one of my best & most talented friends Damien. Whilst also raising awareness of eating disorders. Yes, I did get interrupted 3 times because people needed the loo.. (the most surreal performance experience ever... never in m...
SEED Eating Disorder Support Services resource room update
Просмотров 9621 день назад
Hi lovelies, This isn't easy so please bear with... I have been sitting on this for a long time it feels, as it's been so hard to discuss, but I know it's only fair to be honest, transparent &, for me - brave. I won't write an essay as it's all in the video but please be patient with me. I will never stop fighting for SEED - Eating Disorder Support Services or you. I forgot to mention in this v...
My skydive for SEED Eating Disorder Support Services
Просмотров 31Месяц назад
OK... Firstly, thank you!! You're all chuffin amazing!? Secondly, I'm so sorry, but I'm still overwhelmed, shattered, emotional & all that's inbetween 😂 So if it's OK, I'm going to let this video from the epic Skydive Hibaldstow (with a little edit from moi) do the talking & I will bore you silly with all my thoughts/photos, once I've got my head around it all. Nikki Grahame & Chelsea Blue I di...
Gemma Oaten acting showreel 2024
Просмотров 959Месяц назад
What's life been like since Emmerdale? Not too bad actually! My new showreel - here you go! Represented by Phil Dale at Qtalent Spotlight link - app.spotlight.com/profile #actress #actor #showreel #actingshowreel #acting #emmerdale #coronationstreetspoilers #holbycity #doctors #casualty
BBC Radio Humberside interview - Chris Charles (my big bro!)
Просмотров 36Месяц назад
That time I got to interview my big brother on my own radio show! Yep Golden Balls himself (AKA Chris Charles 😂) We take a trip down memory lane together, everything from his rugby league career, my nephews, Jack Charles, our childhood and our experience with my Eating Disorder. Chris and I are doing a skydive for SEED Eating Disorder Support Services and we would be so grateful for your suppor...
little announcement from SEED Eating Disorder Support Services
Просмотров 3083 месяца назад
Hello my lovelies 💚 I wanted to post a little update on SEED - Eating Disorder Support Services As you can imagine this is a hard one for me. I filmed the video this morning after little sleep worrying about posting it. But then after it was filmed I had a meeting with my fellow CEO's within REDCAN (Regional Eating Disorder Charity and Alliance Network) www.redcan.org.uk/ who raised me up no en...
Sky dive for SEED
Просмотров 474 месяца назад
Please donate if you can to raise vital funds for SEED Eating Disorder Support Services. You matter 🌱 www.givengain.com/project/gemma-raising-funds-for-seed-eating-disorders-support-services-77825 #eatingdisorders #charity #conversationsforchange #mentalhealth #pleasedonate #skydive
26 March 2024
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Throw back Tuesday (is that a thing? If not roll with it!) to that time @bowden5 went through therapy with me... Sorry... Sang therapy with me 😉 (after one rehearsal 😂 !) This was our duet from Tik Tik Boom at my @seedsupportuk gala last November which Max kindly supported & performed at (waiting for Maxy to share his solos because they are AMAZING!) I've known Max was leaving Eastenders for a ...
Gemma Oaten - BBC Morning Live Eating Disorders report
Просмотров 3626 месяцев назад
I was so lucky to get the chance to deliver and present this vital report off the back of eating disorders awareness week coming to an end. Here we look at eating disorders as a whole and also ARFID (Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder) I hope it helps even just one person. You are not alone. You matter 🌱 We at SEED Eating Disorder Support Services www.seed.charity are here as are many re...
Let's discuss ARFID & eating disorders.
Просмотров 606 месяцев назад
I was asked to be interviewed by BBC radio Nottingham for eating disorders awareness week and discuss ARFID (Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder) I hope it provides useful, informative & gives inspiration, awareness & hope. The government must do better. We can't do it alone, as in all honesty, we're struggling to keep up as a charity within SEED Eating Disorder Support Services too. We n...
My Dad, my Hero.
Просмотров 696 месяцев назад
Trigger warning ⚠ I've not been well today with a sickness bug, but I wanted to share this for eating disorders awareness week. Forgive short caption, but in all honesty, one isn't needed. Eating Disorders don't just try and destroy the person directly affected, it tries to destroy the loved ones and families too. And this is why @seedsupportuk was set up by my amazing mum and dad 24yrs ago. Th...
Eating disorders. a letter to my 11yr old self
Просмотров 1367 месяцев назад
Trigger warning ⚠ Many of you may know of the story from last year where I was reunited with the amazing Joyce, the woman who, unbeknownst to her, once saved my life through a single act of kindness. After I bumped into her again after 28yrs, my therapist encouraged me to write a letter to my 10/11yr old self, which was when the moment happened. It was an exercise to help me let go of the pain ...
Gemma Oaten on BBC breakfast for eating disorders awareness week 2024
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So overwhelmed by the response to my appearance on BBC Breakfast this morning along with the amazing Lisa Valentine & Kerri Fleming from BEAT I am so grateful to bbc breakfast for continually supporting me and our work at SEED - Eating Disorder Support Services and for putting up with my constant pitching!! It's so important we keep discussing and normalising the conversations around eating dis...
Don't tell mamma, cabaret. Gemma Oaten at the SEED gala
Просмотров 607 месяцев назад
A little flash back Friday (is that a thing!? 😂) It's been a bloody hard few weeks. I'm Focusing on all the positives though & there are so many, especially today 🙏 Grateful for the power of the universe daily. All we can do is take each hurdle or challenge as it comes & hope to execute the leap or barrier as best we can. I'm hurdling & I feel at peace that I am doing my upmost to conquer. So I...
Part of your world - the little mermaid, sang by Gemma Oaten
Просмотров 2878 месяцев назад
Part of your world - the little mermaid, sang by Gemma Oaten
Viking Fm breakfast show hi lights! Gemma Oaten and Alex Duffy.
Просмотров 7011 месяцев назад
Viking Fm breakfast show hi lights! Gemma Oaten and Alex Duffy.
Mental Health journey
Просмотров 65Год назад
Mental Health journey
SEED Eating Disorder Support Services on BBC Look North for our thames trek challenge
Просмотров 112Год назад
SEED Eating Disorder Support Services on BBC Look North for our thames trek challenge
Eating Disorder recovery and mental health journeys.
Просмотров 92Год назад
Eating Disorder recovery and mental health journeys.
Trusting the process in mental health & Eating Disorders.
Просмотров 45Год назад
Trusting the process in mental health & Eating Disorders.
An insight into eating disorders.
Просмотров 159Год назад
An insight into eating disorders.
bbc look north discussion on filters and social media /mental health
Просмотров 48Год назад
bbc look north discussion on filters and social media /mental health
Nikki Grahame and Chelsea Blue - two years gone.
Просмотров 81Год назад
Nikki Grahame and Chelsea Blue - two years gone.
Eating disorders awareness week - Gemma Oaten and SEED on BBC Look North 1/3/23
Просмотров 63Год назад
Eating disorders awareness week - Gemma Oaten and SEED on BBC Look North 1/3/23
Eating Disorders awareness week 2023 - Gemma Oaten on the BBC One show 28/02/23
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Eating Disorders awareness week 2023 - Gemma Oaten on the BBC One show 28/02/23
Gemma Oaten and SEED on BBC Breakfast - Eating Disorders report 27/01/23
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Gemma Oaten and SEED on BBC Breakfast - Eating Disorders report 27/01/23
Our new SEED Eating Disorder Support Services resource room. The journey so far!
Просмотров 576Год назад
Our new SEED Eating Disorder Support Services resource room. The journey so far!
A little Christmas message. Some tips on coping with Christmas and eating disorders
Просмотров 72Год назад
A little Christmas message. Some tips on coping with Christmas and eating disorders

Комментарии

  • @susandavey9084
    @susandavey9084 8 дней назад

    Gemma I think sharing this will help so many people understand that it's not just a desire to be thin and look good. I've been in recovery for 20 years and still have my moments with anorexia. You are such an inspiration to so many. Don't forget to take care of yourself too ❤️

  • @roccogil2804
    @roccogil2804 13 дней назад

    Beautiful voice❤❤ the little mermaid Ariel is My favorite Disney princess

  • @WesLewis-jb3ri
    @WesLewis-jb3ri 27 дней назад

    Gemma ❤❤❤❤❤wes

  • @meganmclarnon3998
    @meganmclarnon3998 Месяц назад

    Hi gemma. I hope your well. Thank you so much for your videos in currently going through recovery and experiencing edema its so uncomfortable and also sore. Im just giving myself time to rest and heal. It feels like it will last forever but with your videos i feel much better that it will fade. X

    • @Gemma10O
      @Gemma10O Месяц назад

      @@meganmclarnon3998 bless you! It will get easier I promise. Your body is just protecting you a little that's all and it will pass I swear. You matter 😘 xxx

  • @WesLewis-jb3ri
    @WesLewis-jb3ri Месяц назад

    Gemma you are sooooo cute and a PRINCESS ❤❤wes

    • @mrdeafa25
      @mrdeafa25 Месяц назад

      she aint going to reply mate

  • @WesLewis-jb3ri
    @WesLewis-jb3ri Месяц назад

    Hi Gemma you are a PRINCESS, beautiful in everyway ❤❤❤❤wes

  • @shortlandstreetfan
    @shortlandstreetfan Месяц назад

    Gemma, you are THE BEST! Have a very Blessed and Magical day X

  • @WesLewis-jb3ri
    @WesLewis-jb3ri 3 месяца назад

    Hi Gemma you are the best and the world's most beautiful and lovliest lady ❤❤❤wes

  • @NuttyEllaLovesNutella
    @NuttyEllaLovesNutella 3 месяца назад

    Thank goodness for Evolve

  • @WesLewis-jb3ri
    @WesLewis-jb3ri 4 месяца назад

    Hi Gemma how are you? Hope you dont mind me saying this but you are the world's lovliest, sweetest, cutest, most attractive and gorgeous lady ❤❤❤❤wes

  • @sojibrajii
    @sojibrajii 6 месяцев назад

    Hello friends, U need a professional RUclips thumbnail designer? Let me know please Thanks

  • @wesleylewis7063
    @wesleylewis7063 6 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤Gemma❤❤❤❤❤Wes

  • @mariannehavisham8323
    @mariannehavisham8323 7 месяцев назад

    All eating disorders are deep seated psychological issues (there's a reason there are MANY co-morbidities) and that it's an obsession with low weight and appearance is a unhelpful stereotype/trope. Most people with eating disorders are in fact overwight. Binge eating disorder is FAR more common then anorexia and most bulimics are a normal weight or slightly overweight (its a largwly invisible illness)

  • @evie4824
    @evie4824 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve had ARFID basically since birth. Tried everything from hypnosis, to CBT. Recovery is difficult itself let alone when no GPs know what the diagnosis is, nor therapists know how to treat and help you. I’m so glad this is getting more awareness, makes me feel so seen. Thank you to those who are helping to make a difference and speaking out on their own experiences ❤

  • @AmandaElizabethIvyAyari-fb7ub
    @AmandaElizabethIvyAyari-fb7ub 7 месяцев назад

    Very brave & emotive and so well spoken, this will help so many others much love x

  • @aledrob
    @aledrob 7 месяцев назад

    suffered from ARFID since I've been 7 years old (now 45). Great to get more awareness in public domain. ARFID as an eating disorder has no support by our local NHS and Primary Care Trust. I had to seek private help in the end. Been through the full experience of arfid ruining personal life, socialising, work and career opportunities.

  • @Lester-hi4ez
    @Lester-hi4ez 7 месяцев назад

    Stay cheerful Gemma 😂

  • @Lester-hi4ez
    @Lester-hi4ez 7 месяцев назад

    The forever looking vibrant beautiful Gemma oaten 😂

  • @Lester-hi4ez
    @Lester-hi4ez 7 месяцев назад

    The lovely Gemma very good actress 😂

  • @autismguy2060
    @autismguy2060 7 месяцев назад

    Great Job Gemma didn't know you could sing like that!!!

    • @Gemma10O
      @Gemma10O 7 месяцев назад

      Aw thank you so much xxx

  • @EubenHope
    @EubenHope 8 месяцев назад

    Woow This is very beautiful my friend! 👏🏼You did an awesome job 😊 (I covered this too btw) ☺️

    • @Gemma10O
      @Gemma10O 8 месяцев назад

      Aw. Thank you so so much! And I'll go take a look! 🧜‍♀️ 😘 X

  • @shortlandstreetfan
    @shortlandstreetfan 8 месяцев назад

    OMGiddy Aunt!!! How lovely!! Really miss you in me soaps, petal. Have a very Blessed and Magical week end. Love, everafter, Eden XXXXXX

    • @Gemma10O
      @Gemma10O 8 месяцев назад

      Huge love xxx

  • @AmandaElizabethIvyAyari-fb7ub
    @AmandaElizabethIvyAyari-fb7ub 8 месяцев назад

    So beautiful ❤

    • @Gemma10O
      @Gemma10O 8 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much 😘 xx

  • @angienurse8415
    @angienurse8415 8 месяцев назад

    Wow! Where have you been hiding this beautiful voice. I want more……

    • @Gemma10O
      @Gemma10O 8 месяцев назад

      That's so lovely xx

  • @pcockerton
    @pcockerton 11 месяцев назад

    Really powerful and honest update.

    • @Gemma10O
      @Gemma10O 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much Paul, I really appreciate it. No one should ever feel ashamed or alone 🙏 we must keep Normalising the conversation ❤️💚xxx

  • @pcockerton
    @pcockerton 11 месяцев назад

    Really powerful and honest update.

  • @wesleylewis7063
    @wesleylewis7063 Год назад

    Gemma hope you don't mind me saying this, but you are one very attractive lady who has the most gorgeous smile and eyes. Gemma you are so lovely. Love Wes ❤️❤️❤️

  • @NuttyEllaLovesNutella
    @NuttyEllaLovesNutella Год назад

    Why doesn’t seed help those who don’t have Anorexia? I got told I wasn’t ‘sick’ enough by seed even though I have BED and going through Bulimia 😮 Luckily I’m with Evolve now (I seeked out Seed first as I didn’t want go to my gp but had no choice) ..I am glad you’re doing better 🤍

  • @AhmaduAbubakar-hi3gi
    @AhmaduAbubakar-hi3gi Год назад

    attempts

  • @KlaudijaGreen
    @KlaudijaGreen Год назад

    I’ve had bulimia for 27 years. I waited for treatment for year and a half on NHS. I got my treatment in Jan this year. Treatment only consists of 8 sessions, 30 min each. For bulimia it is outpatient only. So many of us are dying but society seems to abandon us and I was told that there is only Self Help programme for bulimics which you do through the book. I am losing faith and hope that I will ever get well.

    • @Gemma10O
      @Gemma10O Год назад

      I am so sorry to hear this! Can we support you? We have lost of support around bulimia, having struggled with it myself I hear you! Email support@seed.charity if you feel able. You matter xxx

    • @KlaudijaGreen
      @KlaudijaGreen Год назад

      @@Gemma10O thank you so much for your response. I will contact you. Thanks again x 💖

  • @tanyacurtis8172
    @tanyacurtis8172 Год назад

    Wow Gemma you ,your Mam & Dad have done an amazing job. I'm sure you will save many young people's lives.

  • @NuttyEllaLovesNutella
    @NuttyEllaLovesNutella Год назад

    🥰🌻💠🥰

  • @wesleylewis7063
    @wesleylewis7063 Год назад

    Gemma hope everything goes well. Sure it will. Gemma ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Wes xxxx

  • @NuttyEllaLovesNutella
    @NuttyEllaLovesNutella Год назад

    Congratulations on the resource room🙏🏻☺️ I think I will pop in, I'm struggling with BED right now and wanted some face to face advice 😩stay safe 💕

  • @wesleylewis7063
    @wesleylewis7063 Год назад

    Hi Gemma how are you?? Gemma you are such a lovely lady. Sending you lots of love and cuddles. Love 💕💕💕 Wes

  • @wesleylewis7063
    @wesleylewis7063 Год назад

    Hi Gemma hope you don't mind me saying this, but you are one very attractive lady and sooo beautiful in every way. Love 💕💕 Wes

  • @wesleylewis7063
    @wesleylewis7063 Год назад

    Gemma ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Wes

  • @wesleylewis7063
    @wesleylewis7063 Год назад

    Gemma ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 Wes

  • @SergeantSargeant
    @SergeantSargeant Год назад

    I'm at that 03:00 point currently, again, trying to figure out what to do. Thank you for all the work you're doing x

  • @hayleymills3745
    @hayleymills3745 Год назад

    You are a true inspiration Gemma. Fantastic advice as always x

  • @2002ChrisK
    @2002ChrisK Год назад

    Hi Gemma. It's really good to see you looking so well and of course so beautiful after everything that you have been through, including your fairly recent hospital stay. What a selfless person you are, truely lovely both on the inside and outside. Take care. Chris

  • @paulsmith4488
    @paulsmith4488 Год назад

    Truly inspiring well done Gemma

  • @NuttyEllaLovesNutella
    @NuttyEllaLovesNutella Год назад

    HII 👋🏻 Thanks for this video, I agree with you 100% I currently have BED and Bulimia and my weight varies from being underweight to overweight and the comments I get at all stages of my ED is shocking! Another thing is I wish people would stop commenting on what I'm eating/not eating ..ugh I feel your frustration and give you a big HUG 🤗 I will say you are absolutely beautiful inside and out and you make me proud to be from Hull 🥰

  • @hayleymills3745
    @hayleymills3745 2 года назад

    The circle of life Gemma! You have done amazing. What a lovely story X

  • @wesleylewis7063
    @wesleylewis7063 2 года назад

    Hi Gemma you are the loveliest, sweetest, cutest, kindest lady on the planet and you are a PRINCESS, beautiful in every way. Love and cuddles for you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Wes ❤️❤️❤️

  • @hayleymills3745
    @hayleymills3745 2 года назад

    You are such a strong, courageous lady Gemma. A true inspiration to many. I suffered from anorexia for too many years and now I'm a proud e-mail buddy volunteer for SEED. An amazing charity. Sending you lots of love Gemma on your next Chapter. Xx

    • @Gemma10O
      @Gemma10O 2 года назад

      Thank you for the support you give to us and our seedlings, and for your kind words! So much love to you xxx

  • @wesleylewis7063
    @wesleylewis7063 2 года назад

    Gemma I'm sending you all my love. Stay strong and you are adorable and loved by many. Love ❤️❤️❤️ Wes

  • @NuttyEllaLovesNutella
    @NuttyEllaLovesNutella 2 года назад

    I have BED and Bulimia and I'm currently looking into getting my teeth fixed 🧡

    • @Gemma10O
      @Gemma10O 2 года назад

      It will be the best thing you ever do lovely. Sending strength xx

    • @NuttyEllaLovesNutella
      @NuttyEllaLovesNutella 2 года назад

      @@Gemma10O Thankyou Gemma...Thankyou for speaking out on your struggles and journey 🧡🧡

  • @wesleylewis7063
    @wesleylewis7063 2 года назад

    Hi Gemma how are you? Gemma I'm sending you lots of love and cuddles. Gemma you are adorable and the world's most beautiful lady. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Wes ❤️❤️

  • @NuttyEllaLovesNutella
    @NuttyEllaLovesNutella 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️