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Great topics of discussion once again, and so spot on with your description of how someone who has not experienced the depths of a black hole would perceive someone in such a state, 'just snap out of it', if only that helped :). I know from first hand experience of living with long running severe depression, when your in the depths of darkness and despair, in most cases, nothing anyone can say will change your mindset as the depressive mind is not in a receptive state to see the bright side of life, and will flip any positive into a negative, or any situation for that matter. Only seeds of optimism and change can be planted for the depressive mind to eventually germinate and balance itself in it's/our own time, if anything there's a delayed reaction, so someone trying there best to truly help, does not get that immediate acknowledgement of having helped. I believe you would have to have experienced some dark times yourself to be able to offer the insight that you do. Your posts have been really helpful John' and I've gained many valuable insights. Much appreciated brother.

Good Good Good listening!

MOST People do not know what love is .

Great Video

Thanks John for another super episode. I love the train-suffering-no suffering analogy. It reminded me of the old red train carriages we had in Australia - as a school child, I enjoyed the thrill of standing between the gap while the train was going- ultimate freedom.

I love this idea of looking for green flags. What a refreshing pivot. Thank you.

“when I can’t see the bright side I will sit with you in the dark.” Gold!

Thank You, and at 25min I sit smiling again, why cause it is true. One has to find out... what is true for me, and my lifes journey, I cant live someone elses life ;) thats true with families, friends, and workplaces and liveconditions, in oneself, all ways <3

Hello John I have been enjoying your videos especially the easy humorous recounting of your own experiences in learning about consciousness and the extraordinary beauty of the countryside you walk through . Today you talked about responding from love rather than winning the fight and hurting the other person. For many years I have been a dedicated persuader /arguer to attempt to sway people to my perspective and in the process have very slowly seen that mostly arguments are irrational emotional encounters to gain superiority over someone else. They hardly ever seem to be about the content that is talked about. I have found that profoundly shocking to see over and over again how much we all seem to want to be fixed in our own world view and to pull in others as supporters rather than really interact as 2 human beings seeing the business of life through different eyes and experiences . I suppose it also shows how conditioned we are into there being only one right way or one truth or one reality. No wonder power and status and competition are so rife. However shocking this discovery has been, it has also thankfully made it so much easier for me to decipher how able am I or the other person to really listen to each other in this argument right now...and depending on the level of intimacy with that person, to decide how much I continue to engage from the point of view of love towards myself,( although possibly for the other person as well). Valuing a sense of inner peace over banging my head and theirs against a concrete wall. (Different when we are talking about boundaries... sometimes I've found there does have to be a bit of broken record repetition) I have come to see that this is a great way to see who I really want to have close to me because it seems to me conflicts are inevitable in any relationship and offer great opportunities to raise our own consciousness about ourselves but also about others and the world. It's also inevitable that we change at different rates and have different ideas about life/spirituality all of which provides fertile ground for differences. A degree of openness rather than a culture of winning or being right, opens the possibility for multiple versions of truth that expand us. Because I originate like most of us from a culture of repression in the face of the dominant belief. person, Love critically involves expressing myself whilst also understanding the other's response doesn't make mine wrong. Love I have come to know just allows the other person to be different without me having to "consciously do anything" - it's just naturally in us underneath all the conditioning that would have us believe we are not OK. Quite possibly an argument against your argument but there you go ! I look forward to hearing your or others thoughts.

So true 😂

i laughed and laughed at your conversation with me, myself and I about no one coming to rescue you. That was so to the mark. Great cosmic joke indeed. Thanks John x.

Thanks John for this episode- jam packed with goodies. We are lucky to hear you and be able to listen to your insights. I also LOVE the thing you said- instinctively- when you were musing over an answer and said " 'or', or rather 'and' ". Reminded me that there doesn't need to be ONE answer, but rather many solutions. Hope that made sense!

Beautiful country there John', I love your work mate, and much appreciated from Australia.

Beautiful stuff! All very helpful I must say, Thanks so much for this sharing today John

Thank You! This is a sooo much kinder, softer, warmer, and better way, for starting to relate, to all voices, from outside, which have impacted and got stuck in, so many of us, to believe in the outside instead of what we have inside. Than all the flumhum spiritual brainwashings, who always think its everything only are a mirror, of oneself, it is not only that, which screws so many up further into selfblaming... Instead of taking a look at whats been shoved (brainwashed) into you from the outer also. Cause one cant, ever can help others with, more blame and that insidious "ego-stuff" many spiritual "masters" have a sthe onky thing, you got to get rid of. That serves those who have or have had, a huge ego, but us who havent grown up or havent had any much of any egostuff, will only blame ourselves more. I get so tired, of all those in the spiritual, realms, who never ever, do any other explorations, than in their brainwashed brains. I have a body, we all do, which have had to, need recovering, and healing, from deeper infested bullshit, which not any meditation would have helped me with. Only by doing, really deep, inner bodywork, have gotten in contact with, and that was so scary the first time. (rebirthingbreathing and a lot more bodywork) Then, it was such a relief, to see, in my own body when some of those frozen parts left me, people who do not dare to meet that in themselves, have some adventurous exploring to do, when they can or want to. So, This is for my kids to listen to, when they need, to. I Hope they do <3 Its interesting, I had a lot of this frightened parts, still have sometimes, when I have lived, with other persons, filled up, with so many more pushed down feelings, (than what I have had or have left in me) they would never acknowledge in themselves. As a woman, fostered into becoming a "helper"as women "should be", I could not help them get out of their angst, in whatever they carried around. If there is no willingness to listen, or get into, the softer warmer places, one cant help. Then for the last 5 yrs, I have lived close by to a relative, and suddenly, all got very crystalclear, the puzzlebits and pieces, which I could not see, before being very close to this person, after years, of living "my own life". I started to see, what I had grown up on and with, a very much more frightened, who always, "painted the devil onto whatever, dangers" might happen. Today it is not me, who have been so shy or afraid, it is this person/persons nagging on, which I have lived with, and taken responses, from, to not disturbe their comfortzones, or "peace" which they do not have, never had, they cant sit still five minutes even, ever have been able to, or did not had any peaceful inner. So afraid of real talks, or even having any connection with any feelings, without those they always have reffered to as "danger everywhere" , cause of their own childhood scary pieces, they had in them, or other stuff they have been through. And never searched for help for. That is the relief, not always blaming oneself, just have a look on what one has grown on. And do ones own, dance with life, after the grounding, puzzle is seen and felt clearly. Life goes on, a new day everyday, is very good reminder, on how to. Day by day. Thank You, this is so much Wiser, Kinder, Softly Warmer, than all the rest I have heard <3

Things you worry about, usually dont happen, other things come up and bite us...

Sometimes, the worry can make you dig and be stronger, worry at times will undoubtedly refine and at times intellectually make truth unavoidable. Worry is healthy for a healthy mind, not so good for an unhealthy mind. Good talking here on this Chanel again, best wishes for your future.

.... 5.25 in, I got that great smile inside =D yes so true. Takes a looong time to understand, and to reshape, and when we do, we may be starting, letting good things in. Everything is Energy, and just different wavelengths of us, all. Thanks :)

Ah, where to begin with such a verbose yet vacuous monologue, teeming with contradictions and drenched in the tepid waters of pseudo-psychological platitudes? Mr. Dalton, your rambling discourse on love and "green flags" embodies the very essence of philosophical insipidity, a mishmash of half-baked theories strung together by the thinnest thread of spiritual jargon, masquerading as profound wisdom. Let us dissect this tangle of banalities with the precision of a surgeon wielding Occam's razor, for there is much to unravel. You commence with an ode to love as the "driving force of life," a notion as stale as it is unsubstantiated. Vitality, you claim, is born of this amorphous "love," as if mere abstraction could animate the dead or inspire the uninspired. But let us pause to ponder: what is this "love" you so fervently champion? Is it eros, the sensual ecstasy of the Greeks? Is it agape, the selfless love espoused by theologians? Or perhaps it is merely a hollow catchphrase, devoid of any tangible meaning or coherent definition, a panacea for the unenlightened masses who seek comfort in vagueness? Your incessant diatribe against "red flags" and the ubiquitous "narcissist" betrays a fundamental misunderstanding of human nature. You bemoan the rise of awareness about toxic relationships, dismissing it as a passing trend, yet in the same breath, you advocate for focusing on the "green flags," the supposed virtues of others. Pray tell, how does one navigate the labyrinth of human interaction without acknowledging both the thorns and the roses? Your advice to overlook the "red flags" is akin to telling a sailor to ignore the storm clouds on the horizon and focus only on the calm sea beneath-a surefire recipe for disaster. Moreover, your attempt to psychoanalyze the complex dynamics of attraction and attachment is as crude as it is laughable. You posit that people are drawn to "bad boys" or difficult partners because they subconsciously seek to resolve childhood wounds. While there may be a kernel of truth in the theory of repetition compulsion, your reductionist approach fails to account for the myriad factors that influence human attraction, reducing it to a simplistic formula better suited for a fortune cookie than a serious discussion. And then we come to your advice on self-healing and independence, where you implore us to embrace the idea that "no one's coming to rescue you." This revelation, delivered with the gravitas of a prophet descending from Mount Sinai, is neither novel nor insightful. It is, in fact, a truism that has been espoused by thinkers far more profound than yourself, a mere echo of existentialist thought that fails to add anything of substance to the discourse. Your assertion that we must "focus on the green flags" and ignore the negative is not only naïve but also perilously irresponsible. It is a siren call to complacency, urging us to lower our guard and embrace a utopian ideal that exists only in the minds of those who fear confrontation with reality. To advise one to ignore the warning signs of toxicity is to lead them blindly into the lion's den, under the guise of positivity. Finally, your diatribe on being okay with not being liked, while commendable in theory, is marred by your self-contradictory and meandering rhetoric. You claim that not everyone will like us, a fact as undeniable as gravity, yet you fail to provide any meaningful guidance on how to reconcile this with our innate desire for acceptance. Instead, you oscillate between vague platitudes about authenticity and convoluted metaphors involving Oscar ceremonies, leaving the listener more confused than enlightened. In conclusion, Mr. Dalton, your video is a masterclass in intellectual disarray, a veritable tapestry of half-formed thoughts woven together with the flimsiest of threads. It is a testament to the dangers of pontificating without purpose, a stark reminder that wisdom is not measured by the quantity of words but by the clarity of thought and the depth of insight. Your soliloquy, while lengthy, offers little more than a cacophony of contradictions, a symphony of superficiality that masquerades as profundity. One is left to wonder whether you have indeed "gone into the mystery," or if you are merely lost within it.

Well there you are. Lots of shorts! Well done. I appreciate not only your insight and wisdom but your consistency.

We need to get this gold to more people. You are spot on. I would live to see you do YT. Shorts each day. I bet you would go viral before you know it. Thank you again.

Thank you so much, John 🦋

❤

I can relate' much appreciated, thank You John.

Appreciated, this came in a fitting spot.

Great words of wisdom.

Liberating is right, i spend a lot of time ruminating on insults....

Stunning clouds

Then there are those of us who have never had a chance to put down roots. Change can be good but everything in excess causes some damage somewhere.

Loving the wisdom and insights here. 🙏

Beautiful scenery there John, Ireland somewhere ? Thanks for the reminder.

John you are brilliant. You should be viral on social media. Thank you for your consistency and wisdom. 😊

“You are the light of the world..." Matthew 5-14

Thanks John for answering this question . I value your opinion xxxx

"Wherever you go, there you are." , B. Banzai

Intention is to leave and never be found once i have the funds to do so

Thank you very much for recording and posting this video, John!! 🌟☀️🌟 Quite an important concept to bring into our awareness for humanity and especially as lightworkers, healing guides, anyone on a healing journey, here for the sake of LOVE and everything that is possible through Love. Fear base and lower vibrations can simply be easier on this planet than choosing to rise UP in our truth and choose not to see things through the lens of judgment and separation. Beautiful reminder to fully acknowledge the light we are. 💖 Also, I love your walk through the outdoors! Thank you again.

Thought I was the only one that admitted to finding some women childish and immature…..

Man the way you walk, it's just.....I dunno makes me uncomfortable. I guess that's my OCD Demon?

Start ‘tír naomhaíoct’ or teernafing, holy landing, lovely way to look at it…

You're always surrounded by beauty in your videos. Peace John.

Brilliant insights as always 👏 keep up the great work

thanks John x

Love you John keep up the great work!

This is harassment your going to be met with a restraining order

I don't want to work with you though I don't even like you or your kind

Good insights

Thanks John

Set an intention each time you find yourself at the beginning of something…. Thanks

This popped up and looks like a good channel but what cheers me up is the sight of a tea cosy on the pot and a tea cup and the milk jug. and it looks like a proper home made tea cosy. I haven't seen that for decades.