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Melonie Renee’
Добавлен 11 фев 2018
Hi, I'm Melonie, and welcome to my channel!
After 15 years of marriage, my life took a major turn when I went through a divorce. Now, I’m here to share my experiences and offer support, whether you’re single, married, widowed, or divorced. From dating and parenting to travel and lifestyle, I’ll be sharing tips and insights-the highs, the lows, and everything in between. My goal is to help you navigate your journey with confidence as we embrace new beginnings and build the lives we deserve-together!
#thrivingafterdivorce #womenover50 #melonierenee
After 15 years of marriage, my life took a major turn when I went through a divorce. Now, I’m here to share my experiences and offer support, whether you’re single, married, widowed, or divorced. From dating and parenting to travel and lifestyle, I’ll be sharing tips and insights-the highs, the lows, and everything in between. My goal is to help you navigate your journey with confidence as we embrace new beginnings and build the lives we deserve-together!
#thrivingafterdivorce #womenover50 #melonierenee
10 Things I Needed to Stop or Change After Divorce
Divorce can be a difficult journey, often revealing habits, beliefs, and thought patterns that need to shift for personal growth and healing. While the process of change is ongoing, this video shares the steps that helped me begin my evolution.
#thrivingafterdivorce #divorcetips #womenover50 #womenover40
#thrivingafterdivorce #divorcetips #womenover50 #womenover40
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Answering Your Questions on All Things After Divorce
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You all have left some great questions that I wanted to give more time to. If I didn't get to yours...please let me know and I'm happy to add it to the next Q&A video! #thrivingafterdivorce #womenover50 #datingover50 #financialfreedom
Becoming Financially Savvy After Divorce
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I’ve struggled with fear and shame around managing my finances. For a long time, I was afraid to ask for help or even talk about money. It felt too personal, too vulnerable. But I’ve learned that it’s okay to ask for support and to take control of my financial future. It’s time we normalize talking about money, especially in our communities. We don’t have to do it alone, and it’s never too late...
Healing From Infidelity Can Take Years
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Healing during and after infidelity can take years, especially if you're married with children. It takes a tremendous amount of strength and self-reflection to realize that you are still worthy of love, kindness, and peace. #thrivingafterdivorce #womenover50 #infidelity
Finding Happiness After Divorce
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Finding happiness after divorce can be challenging, but it is possible with time and effort. A few reasons that I experienced are: emotional instability, fear of the future, identify shifts, and social changes. While these challenges are real, I found that with time, support, and self-care, we can overcome these obstacles and find happiness. It often involves a journey of self-discovery, rebuil...
Learning to differentiate Needs vs. Wants and Chemistry vs. Compatibility
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As we embark on new journeys in dating, it’s essential to distinguish between our needs and wants, and to recognize the difference between chemistry and compatibility-especially if we’re seeking a lasting connection. Understanding this balance can be the key to cultivating relationships that not only ignite passion but also stand the test of time. #thrivingafterdivorce #datingover50 #relationships
Co-parenting After Divorce, My Lessons Learned
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Co-parenting After Divorce, My Lessons Learned
What I Learned About Dating After Divorce
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What I Learned About Dating After Divorce
Rebuilding Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence Was My First Step to Thriving After Divorce.
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Rebuilding Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence Was My First Step to Thriving After Divorce.
Grieving the future life you thought you would have after divorce.
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Grieving the future life you thought you would have after divorce.
Jenee Naylor | Target Collaboration
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Jenee Naylor | Target Collaboration
The Beginning of Becoming (My Divorce Story)
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The Beginning of Becoming (My Divorce Story)
I enjoyed you & Lori. It was a lot of fun!! Thank you both for taking the time.
@@irisking3769 Thank you!!! She was amazing!! 🤩
Merry Christmas Meloni!!!
@@carltimmons3198 🥰
It was a BLAST
@@Veewdsn Thank you!!!! 🥰🥰
Come with the black girl magic
The smile on your face is priceless🥰🥰🥰🥰
Binged watched it couple weeks ago, it was amazing. I realized it's never to late to find ❤. Hopefully, she will find someone.
@Scorpion_1956 She will…♥️🙏🏾
🧡🍂☕️🙏🏽
So true! 🫶🏽👑
I really like how you said that.. "I don't want to be agreeable, I want to be happy". I felt that ❤. My philosophy is simple.."I'mma be easy, move easy, & love easy." The words are few, but I'm saying a lot. 🥰🥰❤️🌹❤️
Hello there 🥰❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️
Do u still have a relationship with your stepchild
You're gorgeous 🌹 thank you for the message
@@YourUnknownBestfriend Thank you so much!!
God is good all the time. Even, when things don't go well. Times like this, ask God to help you, he will. I promise you. 🙏♥️💯
Yes
U r so pretty!
You are awesome, thank you!
Thank you for the reminder! You look absolutely fabulous! ✨💕
@@TimelesssSpacess-jw9xf Thank you!!! 😊
Great reminder. I'm rooting for you along with the angels.
@@roberthazzard8874 Thank you!!! My day was so much better. How about yours?
@@meloniereneeMy day was outstanding! Let's keep winning and shining ✨️
@@roberthazzard8874🙌🏾♥️
Thanks! Have to stop being scared of a financial advisor. I know it’s for the best!
I can totally relate to consulting with a financial advisor. After my first meeting I cried for days. My entire life and financial decisions were laid out on the table. It was a hard step to take, but oh so necessary to take care of yourself and your future.
Thanks for answering my question! I appreciate you putting this video together❤
Any time❤
Always dropping great gems.🥰🥰🩷🌹🩷
@@Veewdsn Thank you…Which was your fave? ♥️
@@melonierenee The ones that are my favs...#2(❤️), 5, 8, 9, & 10. These are life learning lessons, I've had to learn the most.
True.
❤❤❤
@@higherliving25 ♥️♥️♥️
Great tips. As far as augmenting your tribe and trusting yourself. I would also add to be careful who you add to your tribe as you are in such a vulnerable state after divorce. I opened up to some ladies who had also been divorced and they took that information to gossip and make fun of me behind my back. I should have done counseling first and build new friendships later.
@@deluxecoco2789 Wow!!!! I’m so sorry this happened to you. This is actually very sound advice. 🥰
These are 10 excellent nuggets of wisdom! They are so healthy & from a space of self care, self love & self discovery. Thx for sharing!
Awww...thank you, Kel!!! I used to wish that I knew these things years ago, but then realized...we learn things when it's time for us to use them. At this point, I'm just letting life...life. 💕💕💕
@@melonierenee I get that, I do. And the fact that you were letting life life and helping others along the way is a true testament to your heart, 💛
Thank you so much! I really needed this.
I'm SO glad! What resonated with you most? ☺
@@melonierenee Getting finances a little better and also decentering men. I have no desire to date. I get approached but turn them away. I notice women seem to do much better when they are single, focused on themselves and have their circle of female friends and family around. Since going through my divorce, I’ve met and talked to many women and they all have their own experiences, but, I’ve noticed they are all thriving.
@@Time77738 You are SO right!!! thank you so much for sharing!! You sound like you’re well on your way to ‘wholeness’. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾♥️ I was so focused on finding someone to remarry that I lost me. Since turning inward, I’ve focused on my health, my career, my children, and my finances. AND…every single one has improved post divorce! 🥰💅🏾
@@melonierenee Yes! Thank you so much for your channel. Whenever I find myself sliding into self pity I always refer back to your channel. Thanks for all you do and keep the wonderful videos coming!
💯 facts because I don't care what ppl think of me. Mot one bit and will not start now as I get older.
Cheers to you for owning your own happiness! I'm finally there! ✨❤️🥰
❤ "I don't want to be agreeable, I want to be happy".
Did that hit as hard with you as it did for me??? 🥰❤️🥰
Agreed! No pun intended. I am working on that, too. Thanks for the reminder 🌺
I see what you did there! 😂❤️
Definitely food for thought… Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom. ✨💕
So glad we ran into each other this way! It was meant for you to see it. 🥰❤️
This was great as always hun!! ❤ thanks for sharing :)
@@soulfullyroyalnita thank you! 😊
Doing most of these things … will add tracking my spending. I’m currently in an apartment but I want to buy a house because I think that will be helpful but I’m scared to take that leap. Thanks for sharing!
@@aneesahm4301 You’ve got this! This is the first home I owned by myself…and the one I’m most proud of. ♥️♥️♥️
🤎❤️😍❤️🤎
I’m so proud of you!
I needed this. I will be utilizing your resources. I am a 59 year old working two jobs to live comfortable and no nest egg. So a little fearful of what my future holds if I do not turn my finances around.
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:)
True Facts ❤❤
This is so true!!!! 💯
True💯💯💯💯
So RIGHT!!
Good stuff
Great job!
Thank you! 🥰
Can you help those of us , who after divorce was left with bad credit or bankruptcy no savings, just basically starting from the bottom. Where do we start? By they way you are so beautiful and we thank you for all the informational youve pured into us.
Sure! First, I'm really sorry that you're going through this...you will make it through, I promise. 🥰 I can answer it here in the comments or put it in a short video tutorial for you with resources linked. Which would you prefer?
Amazing! I love the steps for becoming financially stable!! Thanks for sharing!! 🥰🥰🥰
Absolutely! It was way simpler than I thought. My fear was crippling me...
I had to start over also 😖 I would be doing SO MUCH better had I not married. It turned out to be a HUGE set back to my financial progession.
I agree, it's a BIG hit! But honestly...I think I'm further along now than I would've been had I still been married. Being able to make smart decisions on my own has been liberating. ❤
Life is not fair but my own father told me at 22 years olds not to co mingle my funds with my husband. That was the best advice he ever gave me.❤
Very smart! I separated my money after I found out about the infidelities...very smart father.
Great information. You sound like a GREAT financial advisor yourself, my friend. 💃🏾🥰🥰❤️🌹❤️
No where close! But I'm learning...😅❤
Love seeing you Groove 💃🏾🔥💃🏾🔥💃🏾 Smooth & Easy 🥰🥰🥰