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Thank you for doing this video. These were some very helpful tools. I really appreciate it. I will be dming you on instagram. 💕

good evening. I have also been single for almost 5 years. and I don't know how to overcome the urges. and I sink into pornography and masturbation I don't know if it's the same on your side or how do you manage this celibacy without masturbation please. help me. I feel alone in this. thank you.

I did the big chop the first time I went natural in 2011. It was faster to grow my hair out and the length was even all over. Went back to relaxed in 2021 bc i wanted a pixie. Now im going back natural and transitioning with braids. I’ll take week long breaks from braids in between getting them redone but i think braids for me is the best bet. I used to be a wig girlie but i can’t see myself rocking one if it isn’t a v part wig.

I recently pledged Delta this Spring and renounced after only 90 days. There is no way you can be a bible reading Christian and not feel convicted. I couldn’t sleep until I renounced and got rid of all that stuff from my house. I learned a powerful lesson about being caught up in hype. I was aggravated during the entire process but stayed in due to peer pressure which is sad at 41 yrs old. Nevertheless it didn’t last long. I sent my letter, messaged my line sisters, informed the chapter president and rolled out. Been in peace ever since. 🙏🏽❤️ I’m waiting to see how He wants me to make it public because I am influential in my community and folks are going to be tight. 🤦🏽‍♀️

It's been 3 months now and my god its so hard to handle . Its so thick 😢 i could feel some curl but each part of my hair texture is different. I cant even comb the back 😭 lol

what if I wat to transition but i want to put heat on my hair (blow drying)? also is it okay if I blow dry with cold air? if not what temperature do i use

Thank you beautiful ❤❤❤

What do you consider a video on dating while celibate? This was good

Thank you so much for this!

How long was your transitioning period?

All of your hair pics are beautiful, as are you!! Your description of your hair sounds like mine!

I will be starting college for the first time soon and I don't want this transition to be problematic for me. I want to know if you'd recommend that I wait until I am older since I have been contemplating a lot(I am wearing extenstions now in a twist style). I have had my hair relaxed since as long as I can remember so I haven't had to do much with it at all!

hey my mom wont let me get a big chop but i told her i wanted to go back natural so i'm going natural and cant cut the ends and its killing me its because we have to love our hair

Ever since I was a child, my hair has always been thick and healthy, thanks to my mom's diligent care. However, just before I began high school, it suddenly became tangled and unmanageable. Unsure of what to do, my mom took me to my aunt for help. Thankfully, my aunt was able to untangle my hair, although she had to cut the middle section as it was severely tangled. From that point on, I started using relaxers in my hair, and I have continued to do so until now. Now I am ready to embrace my natural hair again because I didn't know what type of hair I have.

Hey Sis. Do you straighten your hair to trim it.

This was extremely helpful!

Thank you.

I need help!!!! No heat??? My roots are about 3 inches fluffed but mid shaft is straight. I’ve gotten relaxers for over 30 years then stopped in October 2023, and so far 3 keratin treatments last one was March 1st this year. I’m so lost to what to do next. I don’t do weaves or sew-ins. I’m just lost. I feel I need a relaxer which is so much easier and convenient. I have no idea what products to use. I’m just clueless

Great information and insight I respect your decision. I wish you well!

Lol you really are ignorant if you think you can't be in an organization and still a Christian. That's the problem with Christians, so many within our religion want to use everything else as a crutch for your choices and your mistakes. The organization had NOTHING to do with any of that and if you didn't want to be in it anymore just leave, instead of looking for clout

Today, I made the first step of renouncing membership with the same organization. God has been merciful and patient and I’m grateful to Him.

I trim my hair every two months

This has been helpful......im just 4 months into transitioning...i feared to chop the hair bse i had done it before but my cheeks bulged.....so will keep trimming the ends n staying away from dryers

Ive been relaxed for 20 years, almost to the day and my spirit was being pulled into the direction of transitiong to natural for a while and i made the decision as of last night to not relax my hair ( due for a touch up today) I will admit i am nervous about enbarking on this journey but i am ready. Thank you for your video!!

I have a hair dresser and will have her help me transition. I will just be starting haven’t had a perm since February and was wearing braids. My first appointment to get my hair washed by my hair dresser is today. That’s my biggest thing what to do with my hair. I don’t wear weaves but I do like wigs, and rollers also.

I'm soooo proud of you!!! Great to see you here...👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 (Kayla H. from U of M)

Praise God for leave DST continue your journey with Jesus and many blessings always. Thank you for the video.😢❤

So encouraging! My last relaxer was December 2023. I found the most important tip was trimming and patience! How lucky am i that my twin had some hair training and trims my hair, as i'm going for the long term transition. Many days i think to myself WHAT AM I DOING?? I wear a lot of headwraps, headbands...the journey continues!❤

Really helpful!

Now you are free to be a Real True Queen!

Thank you from the author of The African Holistic Motivational Healing Guide

This video has been a blessing to me today. I hope that you will come back to YT to create more content, to discuss your Walk with Christ because sis been feeling like I’m all alone out here and no one understands me. You go girl👑

This is powerful!!! And yes, it truly is not easy but very much worth it. I've been celibate for 8 years now, but I battled in the flesh for years with masterbation and pornography. I identified the root more so in the past year, but I am on path to continue to do the healing work on it as well and I have been walking that journey out with community as well In short, I was delivered this month from masterbation and pornography 🙏🔥🔥🔥 God is so good

So I have been transitioning for almost two years now but I have a question what do you do if the ends of my hair is much much thicker than the roots of my hair because I like to get protective styles like braids but it’s so hard to get my ends to get straighter when blow drying what should I do?

Hair on point - Good presentation- so glad you are free from Satan's Bondage

When you marry, Don't settle for Luke warm. Please don't. Make sure that you forgive your debters.

How did you hear him speak?

@NaturallyKe, what shampoo's do you use? Do you know of any that provide "slip"? I have not had a relaxer in 6 months and am finding it difficult to detangle my hair

Thank you. God is good and I have taken the first steps

I just let my hair air dry and blow dry only at the end when it’s almost dry

There’s no way I can do this without blow drying. Suppose I just want to stop relaxing my hair but still want a silk press look. That’s actually what I’m looking to do

Very concise and practical message without emotion and drama. Really helpful.

Thank you for plainly sharing your testimony! I have renounced any affiliation I have with the co-ed business fraternity I was apart of in the spirit realm. I was praying on how to write the email and I saw your video via Google. I bless God for His mercy and the blood of Jesus that has set me free! May God bless you and keep you!

Thanks for your transparency & sharing your journey. Do you think in 2023, people seeking to join Black Greek Orgs, Masons, Eastern Star, & etc. now have access (due to Social Media & the internet), to know everything entailed in the membership intake process & initiation rituals, such that nothing will be a surprise to them? I guess I'm asking, is the secret not so much a secret anymore? If a person does their research can they say that they didn't know what they were getting into (both the good aspects and the controversial aspects? I'm not questioning a person who joins and changes their mind and denounces, because as you mentioned, people's values and interests change. I'm asking (and forgive the rambling), do you think a Sophomore in college/university in 2023 has the full picture of what membership in an org is vs. a Sophomore in 1989. Thanks!

Hello. I am trying to renounce from Delta but I cannot find anywhere online any emails or contact information on any website to send an email to renounce. Could you please let me know who you were able to send yours to? UPDATE: I emailed someone from regionals my letter, they gave me more instructions of more steps to complete online and I’m OFFICIALLY NO LONGER A MEMBER OF DELTA SIGMA THETA. GLORY BE TO GOD!!!!! I have been barred and I renounced and denounced. God has been showing OUT every since!

How do I denounce and renounce my sorority ? What letter did you write?

This is only evangelical Christian’s they think everything bad and wrong makes no sense why even join

I've been celibate for 6,5 years. Haven't felt more powerful, wholesome and happy in my whole life. And I'm not even religious, I am spiritual though.

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Even the devil do community service