Manoeuvering Midlife
Manoeuvering Midlife
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A visit to the police station didn't go as smoothly | Life #over40 @ManoeuveringMidlife
I've been to the police station a number of times. It's not really an exercise you want to do. This time I had to, especially for my daughter's sake. And I decided to document it for her and for myself.
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Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand.
Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self-assurance that can happen to people in their middle years, usually between mid-thirties and 60. The condition is defined as a psychological crisis triggered by life experiences that draw attention to an individual's advancing years, impending death, and potential lack of achievements. This may result in extreme sadness, regret, and worry, as well as the ...
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Видео

A super chill weekend vlog | Supermarket shopping haul | Life #over40 @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 6919 часов назад
Spend the weekend with me in rural Kenya. Can it get any slower than this? Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand. Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self-assurance that can happen to people in their middle years, usually between mid-thirties and 60. The condition is defined as a psychological crisis triggered by life experiences that dra...
Is self-imposed suffering ever worth it? | Life #over40 @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 8714 дней назад
This is what self-imposed suffering feels like. And I'm still at the early stages!! What's it going to be like months from now? Can somebody please tell me? Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand. Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self-assurance that can happen to people in their middle years, usually between mid-thirties and 60. The con...
How marriage for the soft life backfired | Life #over40 @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 51321 день назад
Marriage is not a walk in the park simply because love alone is not enough, and it's even more complicated when the partnership is purely for convenience. I have something to share... Watch the mentioned interview here: ruclips.net/video/XIDRrXOfW8c/видео.html Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand. Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self...
Gym struggles in my 40s | Returning to a past career | #life #over40 @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 42328 дней назад
When I stopped walking my youngest to school in the mornings (because now my oldest does that!) I lost my gym discipline. I find it hard to go, yet for me, gym is like prescription medication - I really must exercise. I also accidentally purchased Dlamini Nkululeko's tights! Secondly, I'm back to a career I thought I left behind years ago... Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're...
I smell something fishy and it's worrying | #life #over40 @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 425Месяц назад
If only I knew what it was. This is the second time I noticed this, so I should probably do something about it. I'm curious to know if it's happened to you... Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand. Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self-assurance that can happen to people in their middle years, usually between mid-thirties and 60. The c...
The virus finally caught me | What's in this drink??? | #Life #over40 @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 87Месяц назад
I take tangawizi tea every single morning. It's been good for me and so I don't usually catch a cold from my family members...or so I thought. And even with this cold, I decided to vlog my sick day and drank something that gave me wings... Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand. Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self-assurance that can h...
How to deal with hyperpigmentation | A banana bread recipe #life #over40 @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 104Месяц назад
Every body knows about about this hack. And yet I think I'm already twenty years too late to use it. I'm here to share my hard-learnt experience so that you don't turn into a character from Tinga Tinga Tales. Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand. Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self-assurance that can happen to people in their middle...
A new chapter in my life | House manager issues | Life #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 160Месяц назад
I'm starting a new journey in my life. It is mentioned in this video as a by-the-way, as if it's not a big deal. But this is a BIG DEAL for me. HUGE!!! Many of you have already gone through this chapter in your lives and it may even be a distant memory. For me it's been a long time coming. 20 years later, I am now here. Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may N...
The Vihiga vacation | Setting up a retirement project | Life #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 111Месяц назад
Is it a vacation when you go to shagz? Well, for many the answer is "no". But the fact remains that when we go to visit the old folks, it really feels like a vacation: the fresh air, delicious food, hospitality, rest, and just generally a good change of scenery. We come back feeling rejuve'd and for us in our mid-forties, it reminds us to set up a comfy shagz for our future grand kids. Everyone...
Why I had to accept hubby's old babies | Life #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 138Месяц назад
After years of inner torment, private tears, and contemplation, I've finally accepted his shiny, old, and rusty baby into our family. Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand. Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self-assurance that can happen to people in their middle years, usually between the ages of 40 and 60. The condition is defined as ...
Reunion After 30 Years: Catching Up With Girlfriends! | Life #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 118Месяц назад
What happens when high school girlfriends meet after 30 years? Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand. Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self-assurance that can happen to people in their middle years, usually between the ages of 40 and 60. The condition is defined as a psychological crisis triggered by life experiences that draw attentio...
Cooking my favourite chicken bits | Life #over40 #citylife #familyvlog @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 51Месяц назад
Another day in cold Nairobi. Plus, a bit of a Bobby Flay throw down...by yours truly! What am I cooking tonight? Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand. Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self-assurance that can happen to people in their middle years, usually between the ages of 40 and 60. The condition is defined as a psychological crisi...
What do I do in the city? | Life #over40 #citylife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 58Месяц назад
I'm changing my vlog style in this video and going forward. Let me know what you think. Be kind! Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand. Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self-assurance that can happen to people in their middle years, usually between the ages of 40 and 60. The condition is defined as a psychological crisis triggered by l...
The working mom versus mom guilt dilemma | Life #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 622 месяца назад
What's the working mom's biggest struggle? Everyone is welcome to my channel. However, if you're not over 40 you may NOT understand. Midlife crisis is a shift in identity and self-assurance that can happen to people in their middle years, usually between the ages of 40 and 60. The condition is defined as a psychological crisis triggered by life experiences that draw attention to an individual's...
Health risk | Why I need my cardio exercises @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 402 месяца назад
Health risk | Why I need my cardio exercises @ManoeuveringMidlife
46 Life Lessons I Wish I Knew in My 30s @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 3432 месяца назад
46 Life Lessons I Wish I Knew in My 30s @ManoeuveringMidlife
Levelling Up in Your 40s: 10 Self-Improvement Tips for Success #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 1862 месяца назад
Levelling Up in Your 40s: 10 Self-Improvement Tips for Success #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
The Truth About Perimenopause: What No One Tells You @ManoeuveringMidlife #midlifecrisis #over40
Просмотров 2063 месяца назад
The Truth About Perimenopause: What No One Tells You @ManoeuveringMidlife #midlifecrisis #over40
Overcoming 10 #Midlife Regrets @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 1713 месяца назад
Overcoming 10 #Midlife Regrets @ManoeuveringMidlife
15 Midlife's biggest regrets | A day of thrifting | #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 2743 месяца назад
15 Midlife's biggest regrets | A day of thrifting | #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Dealing with brain fog in #midlife | shopping haul shock and #villagelifestyle @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 2053 месяца назад
Dealing with brain fog in #midlife | shopping haul shock and #villagelifestyle @ManoeuveringMidlife
About sanitary towels and Kenya's rejected finance bill #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 1473 месяца назад
About sanitary towels and Kenya's rejected finance bill #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
A day in midlife | Unraveling expectations | Making wimbi uji #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 954 месяца назад
A day in midlife | Unraveling expectations | Making wimbi uji #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
A Day in Midlife | discovering new truths at AGE 45 #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 4914 месяца назад
A Day in Midlife | discovering new truths at AGE 45 #over40 #midlife @ManoeuveringMidlife
My embarrassing confession | A Day in Midlife #over40 #midlifewoman #parenting @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 1664 месяца назад
My embarrassing confession | A Day in Midlife #over40 #midlifewoman #parenting @ManoeuveringMidlife
A day in midlife | new career over 40 | #countrylife #musictherapy #ASD #over40 @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 434 месяца назад
A day in midlife | new career over 40 | #countrylife #musictherapy #ASD #over40 @ManoeuveringMidlife
Havanese Puppy with canine #parvo | #over40 #countryliving #midlifewoman @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 634 месяца назад
Havanese Puppy with canine #parvo | #over40 #countryliving #midlifewoman @ManoeuveringMidlife
Welcoming a new family member #over40 #midlifewoman #countryliving @ManoeuveringMidlife
Просмотров 785 месяцев назад
Welcoming a new family member #over40 #midlifewoman #countryliving @ManoeuveringMidlife
The toughest rally ever!!! | The Dinky safari rally | @ManoeuveringMidlife #over40 #countryliving
Просмотров 95 месяцев назад
The toughest rally ever!!! | The Dinky safari rally | @ManoeuveringMidlife #over40 #countryliving

Комментарии

  • @Bonakelephumo
    @Bonakelephumo 19 часов назад

    Catching up today! Thanks for sharing how you bulk shop, its most certainly cost effective.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 17 часов назад

      Thanks for watching sis. Yes bulk shopping is certainly cost effective. My only problem is where to put it coz I don't have a pantry. For instance, I keep the large bale of toilet roll in my wardrobe!!! 🤦‍♂😅

  • @Bonakelephumo
    @Bonakelephumo 19 часов назад

    Hi sis I could definitely relate to your experience at the police station. Our police system has deteriorated badly, that even something as quick as certification of a document becomes such a hassle. And its the same with us as well, still using paper and ink for fingerprints....when I went last month, I was not even provided with something to wipe my hands with doing the prints 😄 As for office politics, don't even get me started....kindness, helpfulness is slowly disappearing...quite sad!

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 18 часов назад

      We were also not given paper to wipe our hands 😅Good thing I had a file sleeve to carry the forms in. As for workplace politics, it's as if being kind to someone else takes away something from you 🤷‍♀. God will fight our battles.😁

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife День назад

    Hello!! Thank you for watching the video 🙏🙏🙏 I hope you got to the end to hear my thoughts. What are your thoughts on this matter? Please do share.

  • @wanjirualice35
    @wanjirualice35 6 дней назад

    Such a beautiful rustic home ,love those lawns and so envious of the chill country life.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 6 дней назад

      Hi Alice! Thanks for the compliments on my home🙏🙏 I'm grateful for this. To be honest, chill is nice but I also often long for the fast-paced city life.🙂

  • @Bonakelephumo
    @Bonakelephumo 14 дней назад

    An important life lesson you are teaching your daughter about managing her time Here mandzi is known as amagwinya Adapting to a new schedule takes time, glad you are giving yourself rest. Karibu 😊

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 14 дней назад

      Hey Sis, I really struggling with those time-management lessons with the little one...every morning, evening and night😭😓 What language is the word amagwiya? Yeah, I should allow myself some grace to adapt to a new routine. This is a marathon after all! Although the 'rest' tends to come with some guilt.

    • @Bonakelephumo
      @Bonakelephumo 14 дней назад

      @@ManoeuveringMidlife it takes time with these little ones 😊 Amagwinya is an isiZulu word which is my home language, but they are called the same in other tribal languages as well

  • @Bonakelephumo
    @Bonakelephumo 20 дней назад

    Hey Sis Haven’t watched the video you talked about but it’s a very important story/warning for younger people to not be caught up in the same. I like sharing about life experiences for the benefit of others.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 20 дней назад

      Hey Sis, yes. In the interview video, the lady is able to make it both light and serious. I think it takes a lot of courage to own up to one's own mistakes and to use that as a life lesson for others by sharing. I wish I had that kind of courage.

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife 22 дня назад

    Thank you 🙏for watching the video. I hope you'll go watch the interview to get the full plot ruclips.net/video/XIDRrXOfW8c/видео.html I think it's worth your while, especially if you're going through the themes or knows someone who is.

  • @alisonkabaarakiriinya5348
    @alisonkabaarakiriinya5348 28 дней назад

    Wishing you all the best! Going back is not failure - its just another detour in this exciting journey called life. I like the way your eyes lit up at the prospect of more money 😅

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 27 дней назад

      Hey Alison!! I really thought I had moved on...You're right, it's a detour. Thanks for the encouragement🙏 And yes, the 'more money' part is always a good incentive...for a while anyway! 😁

  • @livingrural_ke
    @livingrural_ke 28 дней назад

    Going back isn't failure. It's an opportunity to do it with the right mindset. Kudos dear.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 28 дней назад

      Thanks for that.🙏🙏🙏 I want to always remember my WHY...and then to also be grateful that I even have the opportunity to do it again.

  • @Bonakelephumo
    @Bonakelephumo 28 дней назад

    Hi Sis❤ Congratulations on your new job opportunity which will help to augment your income as well 🎉 Indeed sometimes life calls for us to revert to certain things in order to keep our lives going, until what we desire materialises. I laughed when you spoke about the squats guy 😂 I can’t get over the beauty of your backyard 👌

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 28 дней назад

      Thank you so much for the encouragement Sis B!!! 🙏Just the other you shared how you left your job, and here I am today going back to mine. It feels like it's not progress...On the other hand, I have a goal to fulfil so I'm going in until they materialize. When I wore the tights I immediately thought of the squats guy!😄😅 Thanks for complimenting my garden...I give all credit to out gardener.🙂

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife 29 дней назад

    I hope this resonated with some of you. Going back to a past vocation sometimes feels like you're taking a step back. I see it as an opportunity to finish 'properly' this time. To you in your thirties, please make the best of the time you have now!!! Learn from my mistakes. Peace & love✌💛

  • @mariamaj1432
    @mariamaj1432 Месяц назад

    Please get rid of the plastic cover. The micro plastics get into the food. Re: odour please go straight to your gynae. It could be nothing or BV or something else. Just get it checked. Also gentle exercise helps during your period. I’m a heavy bleeder with fibroids. I cut down on tampons when I noticed the smell and stick to fragrance free pads.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      @mariamaj1432 Yes, I don't like the plastics for food. I use glass containers but they come with plastic lids...what do you use? And where do you get them? 🤔 Re: odour, yes I really do need to get checked. The fact that I'm broadcasting it...it's definitely a matter of concern for me. Thank you for this! 🙏

    • @mariamaj1432
      @mariamaj1432 Месяц назад

      I use the ones with the bamboo covers (ikea) or reusable silicon covers (amazon).

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      @@mariamaj1432 👌👌👌Thanks for this idea!!!!🙏🙏🙏

  • @MBITHEify
    @MBITHEify Месяц назад

    My menses would take 5-6 days but noticed there was spotting going on 3- 4 days later, & a bit of an odour. Ignored ot for I'd say 6 months until one day I was at work & I was like I can smell myself & got paranoid that other could smell it too. Went to see the gynae turned, she prescribed anti bionics for me & my person at the time. Bur as she examined me she found 2 orange sized fibroids No brainer for me coz I'd decided 6yrs ago, no.kore kids...did a hysterectomy 3 months ago - ovaries intact (yay to no more expenses on pads & tampons). So YES...pls visit the gynae.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      @MBITHEify Yeah, the smell is weird, it comes up to your nose. Makes you self-conscious. Orange-size fibroids...how do they fit in there without being felt? I usually wonder.. Thanks for sharing. By the way, no more pads/tampons? Meaning, no more periods?

    • @MBITHEify
      @MBITHEify Месяц назад

      Yes...no more periods.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      @@MBITHEify Wow! I never even thought about that!

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

    🌷 Was it something I ate or drank??? Thanks for adding your two cents to this comment... And thanks for watching to the end of the video🙏🙏🙏

  • @MBITHEify
    @MBITHEify Месяц назад

    Yeah, I discovered years ago that sunscreen is not just for wazunguz. Laroche Posay is a really good brand.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      @MBETHEify Because of that, LaRoche Posay is also quite expensive...🙃

  • @MBITHEify
    @MBITHEify Месяц назад

    Love the 3rd dera, bright colours… it’s a kao thing ❤

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      @MBETHEify I think I have that in me, too!!! Bright colours...😁

  • @MBITHEify
    @MBITHEify Месяц назад

    House Manager issues …the bad - I had to fire one because she stole some jewellery, another one was just rude /arrogant. My current live in , is retiring at the end of the year,it’s like we’re losing a family member, she’s been with us 6 years 😢

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      @MBITHEify Oh nooooo! That's going to be hard for the littles😟. Is she that old that she has to retire now??????????

  • @Bonakelephumo
    @Bonakelephumo Месяц назад

    Hey sis ❤ You live in such a tranquil beautiful place

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      Hello Sis B.!!!! I'm grateful, it's very peaceful here. Sometimes I take a break from this and drive to the city just to jolt my senses! 😅 Thank you for visiting my channel 🙏

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

    We've nade it to 100 SUBS!!! 😃Whoop whoop!!💃💃💃THANKS GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!🙏🙏🙏

  • @christinegisege3041
    @christinegisege3041 Месяц назад

    That banana bread looks yummy, thanks for the info for sunscreen. i have never used it on my face, and i see the damage. Keep going, the channel is growing.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      Hi Christine, I also never applied sunscreen (for everyday use). I thought wearing a brimmed hat and long-sleeved tops was enough. This was a big lesson for me. I think I'll also add Vit C serum for my face. Yes, we're growing!!! Whoohoo!!!!👏👏👏 Thanks for being here.

  • @violetakibaya7323
    @violetakibaya7323 Месяц назад

    The strings are called phloem bundles. When am I coming for my bread😋

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      @@violetakibaya7323 Wow!!! I was not expecting an answer so quickly😅. Banana bread coming up!! Just tell me if you want it with or without sugar…

  • @alisonkabaarakiriinya5348
    @alisonkabaarakiriinya5348 Месяц назад

    Congratulations on taking that bold step!! Wishing you all the best. I like the wakeup time confession - midlife rocks - we can sleep in and feel absolutely nothing 😂

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      Thank you, Alison!!🙏🙏🙏 It really is a bold step. As for waking up late during the school break, that's my norm. Lazy mom guilt left a long time ago!😅

  • @sairakinuthia4969
    @sairakinuthia4969 Месяц назад

    Hey Mufu! I so enjoy your videos as we navigate midlife. So proud of you for going back for your Masters. It’s never too late and if it’s in your heart, go for it! I just went back for my doctorate after 11 years on my masters. Happy to say I graduated last December. Hang in there. Anything worth doing isn’t easy but you got this.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      Hey Saira! Thank you for the encouragement. It really means a lot 🤗🙏🙏🙏 And congratulations on your PhD!!! 🙌🎉🎉🎉 Academia is not easy. I need to hear these stories.

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

    The reason I have a hard time firing the help is that I imagine this story behind her employment situation. I tell myself, "She has small kids, she's the sole provider, good work is hard to come by, etc.." It totally disarms me and then I force myself to look at her soft skills..."she's punctual, polite, kind, etc..." as I continue to suffer.😓

  • @maddemadetv445
    @maddemadetv445 Месяц назад

    oh wow i saw vihiga and clicked so fast,you keep suprising me with your beautiful homes wow you so blessed. Your family is beautiful.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      @@maddemadetv445 Thanks so much! Indeed God has blessed us. We were visiting the old folks 🙂. Have you been to Vihiga?

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

    Vihiga is blessed with fertile soils and good weather. I hope you enjoyed the vlog. Thank you so much for watching!! 🙏🤗 Also watch my other vlog on rural TZ:👉 ruclips.net/video/-CpdVb_PQ20/видео.html Meanwhile, I'm really curious to know what your retirement plans are, if any.

  • @MBITHEify
    @MBITHEify Месяц назад

    It was awesome meeting up as a group after so many years...so much fun, laughter, sharing. Women are truely resilient. Not much is shared publicly, but in safe, private & authentic forums like THAT meet up...we flourish & thrive ❤

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      💯💯💯Good to share the highs and lows within a safe space...and also to be teenage girls again, at 46!!!😃

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

    If this was to be eaten with ugali, I wouldn't have stewed them... just fried in oil is the most delish. So yummy!!!!😋😋😋 So do you eat this part of chicken????

  • @christinegisege3041
    @christinegisege3041 Месяц назад

    I enjoyed the Vlog, I enjoy the previous ones too. Keep them coming. I love the authenticity.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife Месяц назад

      @@christinegisege3041 Hi Christine!! Thank you for the feedback… 🙏🏾 talking to the camera is not easy 🤭

  • @alexanderthegreat9884
    @alexanderthegreat9884 2 месяца назад

    My greetings and love from Greece.❤🇬🇷

  • @maddemadetv445
    @maddemadetv445 2 месяца назад

    wow i love your homes how many do you have? wow

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 2 месяца назад

      Thank you, dear🙏. Just one. We thank God for the blessing. The Molo house is employment housing.

  • @doreennekesaofficial
    @doreennekesaofficial 2 месяца назад

    How I missed being here❤❤

  • @maddemadetv445
    @maddemadetv445 2 месяца назад

    grow a thick skin ,allow yourself to feel so that you can know the difference.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 2 месяца назад

      💯I like the first part. What did you mean by the second part?

    • @maddemadetv445
      @maddemadetv445 2 месяца назад

      @@ManoeuveringMidlife sometimes when you have been verbally abused alot or any other form of abuse ad you get used to it ,then one day you realize its ot ok anymore.,because you have realised the difference and finally you can make and chose how to be treated.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 2 месяца назад

      @@maddemadetv445 💯Unfortunately, a lot of people don't get to the turn-around point. They remain stuck in the abuse. It takes a high level of self awareness or counselling to make that realization. Emotional abuse is subtle and often unrecognised.

  • @floshkitchen3061
    @floshkitchen3061 2 месяца назад

    I just saw your comment some where,i decided to come and see ur chanel,and I'm in love with the video...let me subscribe 😅

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 2 месяца назад

      So sweet of you! Thanks so much, you're welcome here!!!🤗 How come you stopped uploading your videos? I just watched your 'ndizi bukoba na nyama na nazi' video and remembered when I was almost enrolled at a vocational school in Bkb...zamani sana!!🙂

  • @creativechristiancontent
    @creativechristiancontent 2 месяца назад

    Please check your audio, it has a high pitch squeak I think it’s due to audio clipping (audio being to high) move further away from mic. And also sounds like you’re using a microphone with de-noiseer but you can hear the mic cutting in and out after every word maybe turn de-noise off. Good luck with the channel

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 2 месяца назад

      Yes, I noticed the cutting at the early parts of the video. It's 'noise gate' on the DAW. It tends to happen when I record in a noisy environment. This time it was raining outside so the noise cancellation was extreme. It was bearable when I turned off the 'noise gate' in the rest of the voice over. Thanks for helping with the feedback, I truly appreciate it🙏

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife 2 месяца назад

    A slight correction: @Milly_in_denmark was 49 when she got married again. She turns 50 next year, 2025! And here is the video that inspired this one ruclips.net/video/BP-2-ShG5b4/видео.htmlsi=9mQsH05rgWr8G_iD You will agree, except for the silver crown, she looks 30💫

    • @lilianw.k7905
      @lilianw.k7905 2 месяца назад

      Watched the video. Timely for me.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 2 месяца назад

      @@lilianw.k7905 Thank you for watching, Lilian🙏 I'm glad it helped. I also frequently need a boost.

  • @lekikil661
    @lekikil661 3 месяца назад

    Keep doing it, mama and hello from Nairobi! Turning 42 soon (not that i 'feel' it!) and these are important conversations to be having. Molo looks gorgeous!

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 2 месяца назад

      Awww thanks!! Molo farms are beautiful, but town CBD is something else altogether!!! Btw, I skipped my 42nd by accident. I was 43 twice!!😅

  • @MBITHEify
    @MBITHEify 3 месяца назад

    The night sweats...even in this Nairobi winterfeld weather..wth? I'm 45+ , It's been 4 weeks since i did a hysterectomy...Happy that nothing nefarious can grow in there. Ovaries are intact coz they're still healthy Thank you for being open about taboo subjects such as this

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

      @@MBITHEify A hysterectomy is a big deal by all standards!! Thank you so much🙏🏾 for so boldly sharing. Many won’t understand until they’re in your shoes. Respect 🙌 No night sweats for me. Just brain fog. It’s ridiculous!!

  • @maddemadetv445
    @maddemadetv445 3 месяца назад

    buy a chopper mummy or use onion powder

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

      Thanks, i bought an onion chopper from Jumia. It worked for about 59 seconds!!!😭

  • @MBITHEify
    @MBITHEify 3 месяца назад

    I love how you're now talking to us 😊 & not just captions...super engaging 🎉

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

      Thanks for the feedback. I got tired of typing them!!!😆 And the videos were a bit too calm...🙃

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

    On a much lighter note, I regret not cleaning up Kujo's🐱 paw prints from the windscreen! Thank you for subscribing 🤗

  • @mytulipliving
    @mytulipliving 3 месяца назад

    🙏

  • @beasaroseco5840
    @beasaroseco5840 3 месяца назад

    Hello 👋🏼 😂 from NYC.

  • @theatienor
    @theatienor 3 месяца назад

    Amazing and informative video 😊🫶🏾

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

      @@theatienor Thank you for watching and for your kind words ☺️. In your opinion what do you think is the 15th regret? Maybe you’ve observed elsewhere….

    • @theatienor
      @theatienor 3 месяца назад

      @@ManoeuveringMidlifeMy biggest regret is not having the confidence to pursue my talents and dreams when I was younger. I let self-doubt hold me back from exploring my passions and potential. I wish I had been more courageous and believed in myself more, as I feel like I missed out on opportunities that could have shaped my life differently. Now, I'm working on building my confidence and pursuing my dreams, even if it's later than I hoped.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

      @@theatienor I feel you 💯... As someone in my mid-40s, I’ve learned that self-doubt is a common hurdle we all face, but it doesn’t have to hold you back. It's good that you believe in your potential and are starting to take steps towards your dreams every day. Surround yourself with supportive people who lift you up and remind you of your worth. STAY CLEAR OF THOSE THAT ALWAYS DISCOURAGE YOU. They are not visionaries, they are DREAM-K!LL3RS. Be kind to yourself and watch your confidence grow with each step you take. You've got this!🤗

    • @theatienor
      @theatienor 3 месяца назад

      @@ManoeuveringMidlife Thank you so much for your encouraging words! I really appreciate your advice and support. You're absolutely right, self-doubt is a common obstacle, but it's not insurmountable. I'm grateful for your reminder to surround myself with positive influences and to be kind to myself. Thank you so much again 🫶🏾

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

      @@theatienor

  • @maddemadetv445
    @maddemadetv445 3 месяца назад

    hii am in my mid 40s too thank you for your beautiful videos very well put, so can we know your life story if you dont mind love from Nairobi.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

      Thanks so much🙏 for your kind words and for watching my videos! I sort of give my story in another video (which I linked it in this video). I intend to another one after I complete another milestone. Please stick around for that.. 🙂. By the way, what is the 15th biggest regret in your opinion as a midlifer?😊

    • @maddemadetv445
      @maddemadetv445 3 месяца назад

      @@ManoeuveringMidlife my biggest regret is honestly staying too long in a bad situation that never served me,am still here imagine such a shame ,another one of my greatest regrets is i should have persued my dreams now i just imagine them in my mind,but am working on my life i believe its not too late.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

      @@maddemadetv445 Sending you hugs 🤗 my dear! The fear of the unknown makes it harder to get out of a bad situation. I wish you courage. I am here with you, pursuing my dreams at mid-40s. I believe you can, too. Start by taking small manageable steps. If you can still visualize yourself actually achieving your dreams (no matter how big), then you're halfway there. And please guard and keep them private because there are people (even close relatives) who will always plant doubt, because it is human nature to fear the unknown. xoxo

    • @maddemadetv445
      @maddemadetv445 3 месяца назад

      @@ManoeuveringMidlife thank you girl i will

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

    The forties have been 'unpopularised' because it's the period when our pursuit of material successism is constantly being challenged by modern day society standards. All of a sudden, we're busy counting our regrets.

  • @violetakibaya7323
    @violetakibaya7323 3 месяца назад

    Wholesale is way to go especially for non perishable

  • @karakat-wt8pw
    @karakat-wt8pw 3 месяца назад

    Dont worry, when its new it heats up rather slowly , I bought the coil one and its slightly faster. First time it was slow, but now its faster. You are right about the mysogny. Lemme anger you a bit on something. Did you ever come across a BBC documentary about a man that was taking advantage of women and young girls at a tea factory a while back. Well guess what, the man has just won the director seat at the KTDA. That is the sad reality we are in as a country, leaders and a president who don't listen. Their only language is tribalism.

    • @ManoeuveringMidlife
      @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

      Thanks 🙏for the tip on the electric plate. That's encouraging to know, coz my water didn't get to boil. I watched that BBC Africa docu when it came out. It's heavy and deeply disturbing. One of the issues being sought by the protestors is the arrest of all public officials with a criminal 'record', even those with allegations. So far, no one has been taken to court. Honestly, I had despaired but now I really want to be hopeful for the future of our country.

  • @ManoeuveringMidlife
    @ManoeuveringMidlife 3 месяца назад

    As of now, the protestors are still soldiering on. The ditched finance bill is a reflection of a lot of issues that have gone unaddressed...some of us despaired and became numb to the corruption in Kenya. I'm so grateful to be here to witness this change.