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Holding women accountable isn't misogyny, it's equality.

It never ends I'm 71 yrs old and I still have to deal with this foolishness. Its sicking.

Tanya, your insights on how consumer culture feeds into FOMO are spot on! The way you tied it to financial habits is so eye-opening. I've just uploaded a video on embracing simplicity and freeing ourselves from the grip of FOMO-it’s something we all need to hear more of. Feel free to check it out and share your thoughts! ✨x

I love how people are trying to act like there is not a double standard and like people haven’t been commenting on the Love is blind Instagram about Hannah‘s body and looks (disgusting and horrible things while calling her a bully) on a regular basis condoning what Nick did and saying how Nick needs a good woman like no Nick needs to grow up and he needs to be honest with the situation that went down with Hannah but he’s not going to because people are giving him such grace I think two things can be true at the same time and I think they were both horrible then they yell we don’t love Nick. We just don’t like Hannah when you point stuff out that he also did wrong. The list of lies that this man said was astoundingly long from his height to saying he has a medium to large build to comparing himself to Travis Kelce and Henry Cavill to saying he is a good cook to saying that he likes to clean and having the audacity to say he doesn’t understand why she thinks he can’t lead the family when his parents are still cooking for him cleaning for him and even down to feeding his cat because he is too lazy to do so dealing with someone like that with any woman crazy and I was disgusting to him and mean, but we have to realize that we are watching a very highly edited show where 90% of the conversations that we watched were 80% way through by the time we got to hear in on it. I honestly feel like I wasn’t a fan of anybody this season not one not even everybody’s precious Garrett and Taylor some Garrett to me too. I think that all of these people have large issues that showed exactly why every single one of them with single at that age. (Throwing around the words abusive and gaslighting and narc are harmful and I don’t know them personally and I’m also not a licensed therapist to be diagnosing and wasn’t there and watched a highly edited version of a reality show so yall need to stop with that it’s harmful)

the way the comment section has lost the message. it’s like ya’ll have short term memory loss she literally started this by stating that hannah’s behaviour was not okay, but that doesn’t excuse the amount of hate she is getting. hannah’s not the devil bro..

Thank you!!

Not sure how I’m just finding your channel but everything you said is so accurate. I love that you touched on the fact that it’s a reflection that we have not made true progress in dismantling misogyny because so many people are willing to call Hannah a bitch when she’s just speaking her mind and was edited to be the villain.

Thank you!!!!!! Hannah is only saying the truth. We should be glad she saw this relationship was bad and got out !!!

tbh girl i think ur trippin . i'm a feminist, but feminism doesnt excuse emotional abuse lol i think deep rooted hate is coming from hannah not taking accountability for her toxic behavior

I feel like you’re just excusing abuse cause she’s a woman.

Naaaah Hannah is evil, pure evil, abusive and mean. I thought people didn’t like even before the reunion or am I missing something?! However Nick is a man child… people forget about that. How come he can’t cook pasta. Hannah needs to go. She needs to go

I completely agree with you. Hannah does not deserve all this hate. Sadly, people are participating in groupthink.

Hannah is verbally abusive. [not just to Nick but her friends too, her brother, her mother] Abuse trumps clout chasing. They were both not attracted to each other.

No sis you’re wrong she was a bully … nobody likes Nick but we don’t condone verbal abuse

it's heart breaking that people get so closely defined and constrained by their melanin content : a tiny detail of their DNA. The uncomfortable conclusion is that white people aren't doing enough to make black people feel part of white society. Is this a problem for white people or black people : you be the judge !!

Love your long staightened hair...

Please move to a non-white country.

With few exceptions, universities are cultural marxist institutions. The black power movement is absurd and a marxist capillary. The US is the least racist country on earth. These same people who cry if a black girl only dates white guys, possibly because she grew up around whites, wouldn't levy the same complaint against a white girl who grew up in Japan and only dated Japanese. Last note: go to church, not weirdo hippy babble therapy. So much wrong here.

Interesting perspective. Thanks.

Going around and putting yourself in box is not fair why would you go around think you are black , I like people for who they are not for their coloure but racism changes you and puts you in defense after nearly a generation I never thougth I white women was/ is more beutiful then me I rather thougth I had figure and naturally tanned skin coloure but being a mom now ofcourse you want protect your child from systematic racism

Get a life and quit blaming phantom white men for your own problems. In my line of work I am always the lone black dude. And I don't care. I do my job and go home to my family. And no we ain't voting for Kamala the bumbling dumb word salad buffoon. I already voted for Trump. 2024. Victory is beckoning.

so what.

Why is this shite in my feed? Begone!

Being White is AWESOME! Sucks to be you.

You aint Black. Redish brown maybe. Go buy a box of Crayons.

This!!!!

Sounds like your racist. You had a problem that you stopped seeing color. You have been groomed by university to be a victim. University has planted this cancer in you and I pity you.

You are nothing without racial division...

So should black parents not send their kids away at all or just not to predominantly white schools? Where would you 'send' them? edit: great video btw

Whats a highschool diploma? Is it a grade 12 certificate to prove you have 12 years of schooling

Hi, im an American Descendant of slavery in the US (ADOS).. if i lived in the Caribbean solidarity with Caribbeans would mean me me supporting what the ppl of that nation feel is best for them.. If i was in africa solidarity means i would support what ever the ppl feal is best for them.. What is solidarity from the diaspora that live in the USA supposed to look like with the American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS) in the US? Just a side note, i think what we are mistaking for a diaspora war is actually arguments surrounding what solidarity and Allyship is supposed to look like versus what it currently is.

Why does an African care about this?

I think people of other races cant fathom black women existing in our own sphere outside of them

I've been asked at my blue collar job why I'm not modelling cause I'm super tall. I didn't even realise people perceived me that way cause I don't consider myself conventionally beautiful to be a model. I'm a shy introvert too and another colleague told me on one of my first days to not be shy, as if that's something I can just turn on and off.

Who f-ing cares! You people are so pathetic. Find something to do. Stop whining about your problems like ppl care. “Oooh I’m not talking to my Mommy and Daddy” Bunch of idiots.

The white girls on the internet always they love it when a black woman calls them "baby" saying they feel safe and well cared for like 🙄

I read the book the help and refused to finish reading it. It broke my heart.

Also everybody appropriating black cultural aspects BW have - hairstyles, braids. Even the whole bbl, big lips etc but beauty standards want s it all but on a white body.

Smh this has been a pattern in my life since childhood and now I’m taking my power back! I’m putting my faith into my dreams now

I am done and only helping myself, and the people who help me. The exhaustion is overwhelming, and when I look back at how much I put others first, I used to feel a huge impact of resentment. No respect but want help? Hunny look for ya own mama and auntie cause she is NOT ME 🤣✌🏾 I am RESTING now and it feels better than ever 🥰🩷

I'm a full on a Black American and all of this is true for us too. I'm wondering if this was one of things that our ancestors brought with them from the continent.

GIRL side note: I LOVE your wig! Please share the link sis! 🙏🏽

Only girl & eldest daughter, once I was out of the house I said i will never have children, I was raising children my whole adolescence. As adults my brothers do not see me as a person with needs.

I feel for melanin blessed kids. their single mothers screaming and raging at them CONSTANTLY. I have seem them in the stores. "DO you ever give one kind word to that child". NO Drop them. My Grandsons are black and they have chose to marry outside their race because of the raging berating patterns that linger in the kids of these mentally ill screaming angry depreciating mothers. My grandsons new families are so peaceful and their kids are being raised without screaming raging mothers. Forgive your mother but you dont have to talk to her. These screaming rages in in th WnbA a whole league of angry raging ladies. SOON to be left by there abused kids.

If you do choose to have some friends it's very important to choose your friends wisely and be careful who you trust and tell your problems to because everyone who smiles at you is not your friend

The older generation has all these issues and just imported their trauma on their kids. I’m not African, but I’ve been around the African culture to know it’s toxic because I dated someone who was African and had to deal with his parents. And no they don’t apologize. It’s horrible.