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Blessed Marriage
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Shawn & Rhonda Bardon talk about having a blessed marriage.
Parenting Together
Parenting together well requires husband and wife coming together, blending very different ideas about parenting. Here are some thoughts to get you started.
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When Your Spouse Isn't Perfect
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Have you been married long enough to realize your spouse isn't perfect? Once the honeymoon is over, reality of day-to-day life sets in when everything isn't as perfect as we'd imagined. So how do we adjust? Check our our website at blessedmarriage.net Find us on Facebook: shawnrhondabardon/?ref=pages_you_manage Instagram: blessed_marriage_ #blessedmarriage #marriage ...
Resolving Conflict
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Here’s an overview of resolving conflict in various relationships.
Focus for the Early Years and Beyond
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Returning to our first love and doing the first works (Revelation 2) maintains our walk with the Lord and also applies to our marriage.
How Thoughts Hurt Relationships
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What do we do with negative thoughts about our family? We can control our thoughts and avoid assuming. Check our our website at blessedmarriage.net Find us on Facebook: shawnrhondabardon/?ref=pages_you_manage Instagram: blessed_marriage_ #blessedmarriage #marriage #marriageadvice advice #marriagegoals #godlymarriage #biblestudy
Male Female Differences
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Here's a brief overview of some male-female differences. How might these affect the way we find "we" in marriage? Check our our website at blessedmarriage.net Find us on Facebook: shawnrhondabardon/?ref=pages_you_manage Instagram: blessed_marriage_ #blessedmarriage #marriage #marriageadvice advice #marriagegoals #godlymarriage #biblestudy
I loved the delivery to this message. Beautifully done! Thanks guys!
My wife has filed for divorce and I’m devastated. Her heart is so hardened. Satan hardens hearts and those who have them cannot see it. Only God can soften a hardened heart. I’m praying for a miracle. Any prayers would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for your wonderful message and I pray blessings for your ministry. God bless.
GOD soften my husbands Jason’s heart and save his soul, restore our marriage and family in JESUS mighty name Amen
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Naked is wonderful
Please pray for complete restoration of my marriage and protection from spiritual warfare. That my husband would only have a sexual desire for me and that all perversion and desires for his mistress would be crucified.
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How to forgive an abuse husband i forgive so many times now i feel cold and empty inside but i will continue to pray for his salvation
This video does not address abuse. There is a difference between forgiving - so you can move on - and trusting again to rebuild. Praying for him from a safe place is a good idea.
So is it ever appropriate for a spouse to think about his or her own needs, wants, or desires? It’s a pretty common problem whereby only one spouse puts in the effort. Most likely they are the ones watching your videos. The answer always seems to be “just live with it”.
That's a difficult place to be in, for sure, when you don't feel your needs are considered. Our perspective is to help those who want to honor covenant marriage by remaining in the marriage. From this perspective, we don't look at leaving the marriage to find another spouse or going outside the marriage to have needs met. Since we can't change our spouse, what do we do when it isn't what we'd hoped? Often, a spouse withdraws from meeting needs because he/she feels the same way- that his/her needs aren't being met, so why try. For many couples, when one chooses to meet the other's needs and pour into the spouse, connectivity can possibly be revived. The thought is to repair the connection before asking for needs to be met, supplying the relationship needed for meeting needs.
My experience of 28 years of marriage is you keep on pouring in with nothing in return. Or more truthfully, you pour it in with very little being returned. Wife actually says “I don’t have to do anything for you.” Of course then I’m told by the same people who say marriage is rewarding that having expectations and wanting needs met is selfish. Oh well.
Ok this is probably gonna get hate but u do u :]
Amen to this.
My husband has moved out and has OW and hardened his heart as well. Please pray for his heart to soften and to come home changed through Christ and leave the OW
In Jesus Mighty name your marriage is restore, all for his praise and glory.
We are so sorry to hear this for you. Praying for your husband.
We are so glad to hear this has been helpful! Maybe the two of you could get help as a couple. Working on sharing and hearing hearts in a non-threatening can be a good next step.
You are a genius.. I used a lot of your points to humble myself and ask my husband to forgive me and he began to cry. He hugged me and held me. The 1st day of a new beginning
Can you please pray for my ex fiancé. She left me. And I still love her. I want her to come back so we can get married under God's holy temple. Please pray for Cheryl Ebright and I ( Anthony Espinoza). Please help with prayers.
This is a difficult time for you. We pray the Lord leads you and her in what is best for each of you.
Please pray for my husband Jeremy. He has bipolar disorder and is in a very dark place. He has become bitter and angry. He has been saying he wants to give up on life. He is a believer but he has quit going to church and reading the Bible. He says he can no longer hear Gods voice and is lost. He's making financial mistakes that are concerning me. We have a young son who needs his daddy to be okay again. Please pray for him. Thank you for your prayers ♡
Hopefully you can help him find someone he feels he could talk to. Praying for him.
You guys are very helpful in appreciating our spouses.
Thank you for your comment! Yes, we believe that, since we cannot change another person nor play God to them, we must love and accept them where they are. This is difficult in relationships that should be mutual, but do not feel that way. However, unconditional love and acceptance can lay the foundation for those delicate conversations about moving forward in meeting relational needs.
I see a reply here in my notifications but it doesn't show up under the comments. Maybe it was erased? My basic unresolved issue (and we've been married 27 years with this issue) is my wife does not do house cleaning even though she said she wanted to be a homemaker before marriage and she does not work outside the home. She also has some hoarding issues and suffers from chronic depression (which I didn't know before we got married) and I know that certainly contributes to the problem. Occasionally she will clean if we have family visitors which is not often. Frankly I'm embarrassed to have anyone over as it is such a mess. It is not a good situation as we have 4 kids (3 still in the house) and we certainly haven't raised them right in this regard. We will be starting marriage counseling next week but I tried to bring the church into it years ago which was a big waste of time. So when I see videos of unresolved issues I have to wonder what these people are thinking. I take accountability for letting this issue fester for decades but for the longest time I believed marriage was permanent and felt stuck with no leverage (and why should I need to exercise leverage in a marriage), especially after the church not helping. You guys look like you have the marriage I dreamed of having and to think about it crushes my soul. Just an FYI, I cook dinners, wash dishes, do my own laundry, wash all household towels and vacuum the floors. So I contribute to the care of the house
We saw more than one response so wanted to wait about addressing one without the other. That is difficult. Hopefully with marriage counseling you two will be able to come to a place you can both be ok with, to find some common ground. We are praying for wisdom for you both as you work on this.
@@blessedmarriage3591 Thanks for your prayers. Maybe the marriage counseling will work but I expect actual progress and improvement and not just discussing problems with no resolution.
The content you share is good but, it is definitely not a one size fits all. If you have begged and pleaded with your spouse for years to get help and they refuse and they continue to be controlling, abusive and destructive I feel the marriage vows have been broken. There is a great difference between a difficult marriage and a destructive marriage. Sometimes the best thing you can do is leave and get to a safe place. Jesus does not want anyone to be abused.
Yes agreed, it doesn’t fit all situations! Check out the video about boundaries with ideas when someone is crossing lines and consider a counselor to help develop a safety plan for specific and more complex situations.
I guess I should just get used to living in a house treated like a garbage dump. Thanks for the advice.
Label me cynical and jaded. I had a little chuckle over the statement "be happy with where we are and what we have right now" as I look around the house I provide for my family but treated like a garbage bin by my lovely wife with boxes of stuff filling up entire rooms and so much junk on the floor of the bedroom I can't even walk to my side of the bed. Basically 27 years of that [insert bad word here].
Thank you for your wonderful suggestions
Praying for you and your husband. Here’s a video we did that might be helpful. ruclips.net/video/Z_MyPaO_gG0/видео.htmlsi=qAkVFpL6Naa8MwK3
Hi, Could I ask for a prayer. My husband John is still angry at me. Like the hardening of heart in your video. Pls. help me with our marriage restoration. Our deadline is scheduled Sept 2024. He requested a cool off. My heart is breaking.
Wise advice
This is on my rewind playlist. Thank you for this. This is what I have been feeling. Sometimes it is quite hard to forgive. Although, I have forgiven yesterday. It is hurtful when someone neglects you and the other party just shuts down. Thanks for the point of view. Pls. pray for me and my husband John. For his heart to soften. I pray he comes back to the light.
This is a difficult position to be in. Praying for you both. Please check out the playlist on repairing broken relationships:ruclips.net/p/PLiplyTaUAAI_3bTa3J5aEkaReIk8gWUkp You might also find this video helpful: ruclips.net/video/Z_MyPaO_gG0/видео.html
@@blessedmarriage3591It is thank you but pressing on
We’re living in a world where gender lines are currently blurred, your video brings a refreshing and helpful perspective. Thank you!
Mine want talk to me want answer any of my text
Please check this video ruclips.net/video/Z_MyPaO_gG0/видео.htmlsi=30R3iH12xHb1sy9t
Thank you that is exactly what has happened in my marriage he has moved out .and has another woman in his life.Thank you for your words. Please pray that God will soften his heart to love me again
Praying for you.
I have a command voice mixed with inflection. LEADERSHIP 101.
Jesus used firmness with church leaders who were proud and heavy-handed with His people. Worldy leadership can cause challenges in the intimacy of marriage and in ministry. For leadership in ministry and personal relationships, we look at Matthew 20:25-28 and 1 Peter 5:2-3 as a couple of leadership rules, among many.
Please pray for my husband to love me. He has been saying he wants to be single. We have been married 25 years.
April, please check out this video. Maybe something will stand out that will be helpful. Praying for you. ruclips.net/video/Z_MyPaO_gG0/видео.htmlsi=PNKdx9nKUkRPxufv
@@blessedmarriage3591 Thank you, it has been very difficult because we have to live together. Right now my Dad is also in hospice care for cancer. I can’t seem to stop crying.
Spouses need to be each others help meet.
Yes and it takes two- not one- to be present in the marriage.
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I pray unto God im a broken 💔 man. My wife is in an affair and wants a divorce, She is a Christian but over the years has fallen away from Jesus. My Heart yearns for my wife to come back to God and be Cleansed by the holy blood of Jesus Christ. May he cast the Devil away from here that she is not bound in Adultery and in Fornication, In Jesus Christ blood I cast out all bitterness we've both had. In JESUS Christ name. On bended knee i pray and and have absolute faith in Jesus our Marriage will be fully restored. In Jesus name i pray Amen ✝️🙏🏻✝️🙌🏻 I pray for every single person on her. God bless Amen. 😔✝️🙏🏻🙌🏻
We are so sorry. Infidelity is so difficult. Praying for you.
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What if you couldn’t sacrifice because you were depressed due to losing a parent and unknown health issues. Health issues have been fixed but he hastily filed for divorce after telling me that he thinks I’m miserable. I went back to the church and found me again. I have unconditional love for him. He won’t even talk to me. How do I help the situation?
You can only do what you can. This video offers ideas that help. Maybe there are things in it that would work for you. The best thing we can do is seek the Lord for guidance.
Once again, the aggrieved spouse is called upon to make the change. Unrealistic in most situations.
It’s so difficult when someone we love has a hard heart, and we’re so sorry for those facing this. There are multiple options. They’re offended for a reason, and we can work to soften the heart and resolve it; we could live as roommates; or we could walk away. This video is for those who choose to attempt to repair a broken relationship.
We are so glad you are finding the videos helpful!
Very insightful especially Matthew 19:8. A lot of hardness of the heart in people that wasn't of God's design.
Thank you for sharing this with us ❤
This was so good Don’t know why you don’t have more subscribers!!!
We are so glad this info has been helpful!
Please pray for my heart. The holy spirit showed me my heart was becoming hard against my now ex-wife😪
It is such a temptation when we’re hurting and feel misunderstood. May the Lord help you yield your heart to Him for healing.
Praise God for this prodigal coming home. Go home to your wife friend. She’s praying for you
Thank you, all for your comments. Praying for these requests. We went through some difficult times in our family a few years back and felt the Lord taught us how to pray through that situation. We would encourage you all to seek the Lord for his pathway of healing for your marriages, how to pray and for his wisdom for you and your specific situation. He is a personal God, and is there for us to give wisdom when we ask.
Please pray for a miracle in my marriage. 19 yrs gone. But I'm hoping God will soften her heart and open her eyes. She doesn't believe in God. I pray daily for her salvation. 🙏
I am sorry. God can show you how to pray for her. Please check out our Restoring Broken Relationships category.
This one resonated with me immensely!
These videos are helpful, I hope you post more!
Thank you! We are glad they are helping!
Please pray for bonnie that gods love and forgiveness ❤️ would heal her heart I will always love her 🙏🙏
Praying for Bonnie. Please check out some ideas for restoring broken relationships on our website blessedmarriage.net.
Please take a moment and pray for Jeff and Shay to be reconciled in marriage. Thank you.
Praying for reconciliation. Please check out our website at blessedmarriage.net under the “Restoring Broken Relationships” tab for ideas on working with a distant relationship.
Greetings from Morocco ❤❤
Praying for you all. Jesus made a way for us to walk in His peace even during difficult circumstances.
Please take a moment to pray for me and my wife Ale. Her heart to be softened
Praying for her. Sorry, we thought we had already posted it.
Yes that wat is happening to me after my husband discarded me for 4 years. Yes my heart is also hard towaards the Lord now, i dont know how to soften my heart
We encourage you to find a good church to connect and get support and spend time in God’s word and in prayer just developing relationship with Him. He’s the Healer and Comforter.
@@blessedmarriage3591 yes thank you so much