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Solidarity with NEETs from a wagie.

Hey, author! How is your life going? Have you found your passion?

my reserved nature prevented from having an rna experimental you know what .. i consider this a win ... although the fact that i feel i don't belong anywhere, can't connect, i'm somewhat paranoid of other this hasn't helped much bonding or staying in a job very long

80% of neet didn't choose to become one.

NEETdom is based if you're gaming the system for as much money as possible, are actually proactive with your time, have hustles, are learning skills and ultimately investing energy into improving your circumstances so you don't have to wageslave. Just rotting as a NEET is a death sentence though. It's a trap because the situation will progressively worsen as you fall deeper into poverty and mental decay without realizing the death by a thousand cuts. Wageslaving without progression and movement is as bad.

a year? lol lmao a year does not qualify you as a NEET

sero-what now? It's Dopamine my dude

What a degenerate.

What I never understood is why every stinking human needs to be employed, at some kind of school, or in training at any or all times in life. As though there was no other possible formula out there that led to a good, livable existence. Almost as if "neet" is an acronym capitalists invented to shame the disabled, unfortunate, or those awakened to a corrupt system.

I don’t wanna watch the whole video. How do NEETs make enough money to live???

I dont want be neet anymore the internet f my mind, i feel like to cry and i hate my life so much

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Here in Brazil we call this nem nem.

Ngl things are gettin kinda scary

What do you call someone who goes to work, earns just enough to support a life. Does not pursue higher education. Does not pursue women. Does not socialize outside of internet circles. Does not receive from safety net programs.

I’m 16 with autism and adhd and I’m lowkey going down this path, failing school and I have no friends or really any hobbies.

Are you ever going to upload more?

Hello I'm the guy from video. If anyone is reading this. I came back to this video after long time (5 years it seems) and was surprised that it has so many comments and views. I felt like I needed to give some update, it feels weird because I doubt anyone cares but if so many people saw it then surely someone must. There are few regrets I have with the interview first I said I have Avoidant Personality Disorder. That turned out to not really be true. It's what I though I had but not really, I had some different personality disorder but honestly it doesn't matter with psychiatry diagnosis can change and they did a lot so it's not that big of a deal to me anymore. Technically I'm diagnosed as social phobic which I think fits. Also I was definitely very hopeless in the video and there's nothing wrong with that but I do want to give some kind of hope. A lot of has changed. I'm not really a NEET or Hikikomori anymore. I'm currently studying trying to finish high school. If everything goes well I graduate in a year. I also have plans to further study Psychology. My dream is to be helpful to others who struggle with mental health and to whom feel lonely, neets, hikikomori.... as I feel lucky to overcome something like that and I owe it to myself to give that back to someone. I also just really enjoy talking to people and listening to their stories, despite my social anxiety. I honestly love people which causes me sometimes great suffering but might aswell use that for something. I have made two seminars about hikikomori in different cities with a japanese person trying to spread awareness of it, as it is not that well known here yet but I already met many who would be considered such and talking to them brings me joy. Honestly it would be very long to describe how I got out of it, all I can say is, even if it feels pointless and hopeless try taking tiny step into taking care of yourself. For me I actually didn't brush my teeth everyday only once every two days. I prommised to myself to try to do it everyday. I was surprised when I sticked to that and it honestly felt amazing and motivating, yeah I know that might seem silly its such a little thing but if we don't compare that to others and to ourselves only its a huge step you can be proud of. I believe that was my first step into improving. Finally I must say not all is rainbows while I definitely improved and honestly I'm quite happy with myself, I still have some way to go. One of my biggest issue still is loneliness. I have no idea if that ever will be solved for me and to be honest I don't exactly understand why many people don't stick with me but hopefully one day. As much suffering as that brings all we can do is move forward and hope for better. It's a big sacrifice to help yourself but do not wait, no one will magically appear and help you but you have yourself and that's who you need to care for even if you think you don't deserve it. That's all from me. Hopefully this will reach someone and have a good life y'all.

Ive been a neet for 15 years

Dude has some pretty good points. How to say that.

I enjoy my neethood :) And yes i have things to do that i enjoy on a daily basis all day :) If neeting is not working out for you then i guess you were meant to be a job slave or something else lol

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I can relate to this guy too much, almost feels like a second version of myself, not to mention that I myself played only MMOs over these years, even during high school while I was already socially distancing myself as much as I possibly could, I am into Visual Novels as well, which is quite a niche in itself. Social anxiety, depression, maybe some form of PTSD too. Still want to find a suiting psychiatrist, but I can't bring myself to make the first step and calling around. Can't bring myself to go back to university, I have a hard time talking to anyone, I always wish that I am not crossing a single soul if I ever must go out. The thought of ever having to work somewhere (excluding home office or smth) makes me wish I just never were born in the first place. But usually I even skip the supermarket visits. Because of my restlessness I take adderall, which literally makes me playing the same game for sometimes 30 hours straight, no appetite or will to sleep, if I can't sleep, which is almost everyday (my sleep schedule varies just as much), I will just smoke myself high enough to be tired after a while. This has been my life for 2 years now, before that it always was similar with the only exception of me forcing myself to go to school, obviously skipping quite a few days or going home early if I felt the need to. Now living off of student loan as long as I can, always in doubt and fear what could happen afterwards...

4:40 I have a feeling that "personality disorders" are actually not a "disease" like thing. But it's more like how you are always getting mnegative treatments all the time because maybe how you look, and then eventually you grow to resent social interactions and become withdrawn and "shy"

1:13 agaian, not surprised if 1/3 or even more are doing NEET lifestyle there, because in those Euro countries, they have extremely generous Welfare System that pays people for not working. Heck, if I am a European, I will choose NEET lifestyle,. Why work when they pay you for doing nothing? We choose the easiest path anytime

0:00 Well, if he's from Czech Republic, he's from an EU country yea? I thought in the EU, they have very generous welfare system, so even if you literally do nothing, the government will still pay you a liveable generous salary anyways? So i doubt it's relatable

0:35 TO be honest with you, it's not that NEETs "withdraw" from social life. But we did try our best to socialize with people, and it's always negative feedbacks after negative feedbacks all the time, and one day we just say "fcuk it!" and just give up.

The point regarding Alexander the Great is somewhat null. Alexander had an excess of opportunity due to being the son of an already mighty king (of Macedon). He was tutored by the best minds of the era, even by Aristotle, Diognenes, etc. Read more into diognenes the cynic. Alexander actually said “Had I not been Alexander, I should have liked to be Diogenes."of Alexander had not been in the position he had been, he would have been a loser wandering the streets of Athens mocking the sheep.

i used to be a borderline NEET (uni student) for awhile and it's so easy for me to fall back into that hole...

Listening to this again, amazing conversation you guys had.

I'm neet, my brother is neet, my mom is neet my dad is neet.

lol being out of work or college for a year is not a neet. Now 11 years like me.... That's a NEET. And NEET LIFE IS GREAT.

i was like this for long period since turning 18,it sucks

Videogames is kind of like having a job that is true is kind of a job replacement, if you play 8 hours per day or more xD

being unemployed in germany is not so bad, you get about 500 € per month to pay electricity bill, food and clothes, you get your healthcare insurance payed by the state, you get payed a flat including heating costs and even you can sometimes get a one-time payment (about 1200 € I assume) for your basic houshold intereur needs, when you need to rent a new flat, like buying a small kitchen and a bed and stuff, because flats in germany mostly come unfurnished

I was actually thinking of a different kind of NEET in today's society. It's practically financial freedom, just with extra.. steps? Handicaps? But anyways, rather than living off of your parents. I was thinking of a concwept of NEETS living off of dividends or trading in stocks. 1. It doesn't necessarily requires you to socialize. 2. You don't need to get out of your room. 3. You're practically sustaining yourself. What do you guys think?

ive been a neet for nearly a decade. Sooner or later i had to stop using anxiety and depression as an excuse for being in this sedentary lifestyle. i forced myself to go out and make a life for myself because it made me feel shame and regret that i wasted years so many years doing nothing with my life and there's millions of people that are moving forward with their lives accomplishing so much. Although i have been criticized for being a neet, at least i wasn't out there being a drug addict or becoming a criminal

Incredible honesty and credit to all

I'm not a NEET but I can see how much help our young men and boys need in this modern, complicated life. Can we get an update after 4+ years? It'd be great to know you guys are alive and in a better place. My best wishes bros

Asked myself what is all for And the funny thing is that I couldnt answer I couldnt answer...

One advice, Put yourself out there. It saved my future.

neet has become very easy in this day and age especially when you can easily stay home and eat and watch from your devices

I'm looking for a neet girlfriend, anyone?

I'm somewhat of a NEET. This year I've only had 2 job so far that lasted less than 1 month each. The whole time, what ruined these jobs for me was trouble sleeping, and not having the discipline to turn off the games and phone. Back in 2018 I lost my smart phone, and was kinda glad and got a old school prepaid phone from Nokia, and stopped having wifi at home, and noticed that my life was better. It wasn't until in 2021 when I decided to get wifi at home, and when I did....that's when things went bad...the constant internet at my hands....i got addicted to RUclips and Anime streams that it kept me up at night...and got me tired to go to work....my sleep problem from not having discipline can ruin my life. At the moment I've been fortunate to live with family again who would put up with it. I wanna get a job again...I really do.

This should blow up

4 years? those are rookie numbers

Not sure why you're so obsessed with genetics. The guest brought up some great points and you kept going back on how genetics are the end all, be all that determines how one will end up.

I never looked down on neets alot of them have mental health issues and low self-steem keep you heads up and start small

I've been a Neet for 2 years or so now. Through high school I felt listless and just scraped by but the shift to college I got significantly worse and eventually stopped going. Failed 2 college courses due to attendance. I hate relying on my family to keep afloat but I can't hold down a job and I cant stay consistent with anything.I have a girlfriend who adores me and family who provide for me but I just cant seem to be satisfied with life or be grateful for everything thats done to support me. I dont know if im a lost cause or if im just selfish. I went to a job interview today but ended up coming home feeling demoralised I dont know what to do anymore anyone got any advice? I just dont want to be like this anymore lol.

This guy is a nice, intelligent dude. God bless this man