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Lily Sais
Добавлен 12 ноя 2012
I help people effortlessly find freedom from overthinking, anxiety, & panic 💫
Your Anxiety Isn’t Reality | Stop Believing Every Thought!
Ever watched a TikTok and thought, 'Is that me?' You’re not alone! Social media is full of personal stories that can make us feel like every diagnosis, every story, and every anxiety belongs to us. But here's the truth: It's their journey, not yours. In this video, I’m diving deep into why you shouldn’t trust every thought that crosses your mind-especially when you’re anxious. Discover how to break free from the trap of self-diagnosis and live more peacefully without making other people’s experiences about you. Let’s stop the spiral together!
Key Topics Covered:
- The Pitfalls of Self-Diagnosis from Social Media
- How Social Media Can Feed Anxiety
- Why You Don’t Have to Trust Every Thought
- ...
Key Topics Covered:
- The Pitfalls of Self-Diagnosis from Social Media
- How Social Media Can Feed Anxiety
- Why You Don’t Have to Trust Every Thought
- ...
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Your Anxiety Isn't Forever | Here’s My Story
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I spent years overcomplicating my mental health journey, thinking I was broken and needed fixing. From CBT to meditation, I tried it all-and none of it gave me the peace I desperately wanted. But then something shifted. Join me as I share the truth about my journey, the insights that changed my life, and why sometimes, doing less is the key to feeling better. No false hopes, No crazy routine-ju...
Overcoming Anxiety Isn't About Doing More | Sarah’s Story of Hope
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Overcoming Anxiety Isn't About Doing More | Sarah’s Story of Hope
False Memory OCD Explained | Practical Tips for Clarity
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False Memory OCD Explained | Practical Tips for Clarity
The Life-Changing Mindset That Freed Me From Health Anxiety
Просмотров 39328 дней назад
The Life-Changing Mindset That Freed Me From Health Anxiety
How to Keep Your Cool When You Have Heat Anxiety!
Просмотров 365Месяц назад
How to Keep Your Cool When You Have Heat Anxiety!
Healing from DPDR | Real Stories, Real Hope
Просмотров 774Месяц назад
Healing from DPDR | Real Stories, Real Hope
Anxious And Disconnected? Here's What You Need To Know!
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Anxious And Disconnected? Here's What You Need To Know!
Anxious About Flying? This Is For You!
Просмотров 305Месяц назад
Anxious About Flying? This Is For You!
Feeling Anxious Every Morning? This Will Help
Просмотров 5732 месяца назад
Feeling Anxious Every Morning? This Will Help
Anxiety Free Life Retreat Video With Jessie and Lily
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Anxiety Free Life Retreat Video With Jessie and Lily
Beyond OCD: Embracing Innate Health in Business and Life with Cassie
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Beyond OCD: Embracing Innate Health in Business and Life with Cassie
Stories of Hope-Lily & Falon talk about Having Freedom From Panic Attacks
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Stories of Hope-Lily & Falon talk about Having Freedom From Panic Attacks
Keys to Peace, Love, and Less Anxiety
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Keys to Peace, Love, and Less Anxiety
It's Their Journey, Not Yours (How Not To Be Anxious About What You See Online)
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It's Their Journey, Not Yours (How Not To Be Anxious About What You See Online)
Finding Solid Ground in Uncertainty
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Finding Solid Ground in Uncertainty
Dissolving Depersonalization and Derealization with 4 Simple Premises
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Dissolving Depersonalization and Derealization with 4 Simple Premises
How to Let Go of Your Anxious Thinking
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How to Let Go of Your Anxious Thinking
You are so cute young lady, I have learned a lot from your video's. I am a 67 year old man. I am amazed at some of the wisdom you have. I have had insomnia for quite a while now but slowly but surely it is getting better. I don't worry about social media much but this anxiety about sleep has been one heck of a challenge! God bless you! Thank you for making video's that people like me can watch a learn about our thoughts. I know about the 3 principles... but I don't give credit to any one except God.
Thank you, im at my nephews football game afrer months off work and cant stop thinking "omg ehat am i doing in life? Nothing?" And it made me feel dpdr and sad and the thoughts of what if it leads me to depression etc really came flying in... then i saw the notification to this video. Perfect timing! I need to come back to the PFW group asap!
Thanks lily🤍🙏🏼
What are the 3 principles?
love the robe (or is it a dress?)! where is it from? :)
1. "Healing is a gradual process, with insights leading to gradual changes in life." 2. "Overcomplicating mental health can prolong suffering." 3. "Wisdom guides us through challenging experiences, even when we're unaware." 4. "Human beings are designed to return to balance." 5. "Thoughts come and go; we don't need to do anything to have a new thought." 6. "We're always feeling our thinking, not our reality." 7. "Simplicity is key to understanding the human experience." 8. "The principles of life are always at work, whether we know about them or not." 9. "Freedom from anxiety comes from understanding, not just managing symptoms." 10. "Gradual freedom from anxiety leads to increased peace, happiness, and calm." 11. "Patience and trust are essential for continued growth and improvement." 12. "Life continues to get better with increased understanding and presence."
Jumped on RUclips to do exactly that! Needed to see this. Thank you 🙏
Thank you so much! I really needed to hear this today because I'm always trying to figure out if I actually did anything wrong or not 😅❤
I shouldn't laugh but when you said your eyes felt loose it made me laugh so much 😂 it's not funny sorry ❤
Gotta not jump on the wrong bloody bus 🤦♀️
So I’ve been “healing” for 25 years? I’m cooked
I refuse. Lol I get someone else to if it HAVE to.
So is everyone’s experience different because I dont see the world weird. People look normal to me. I had a panic attack a week straight and then a month later I woke up feeling drunk. The doctors say im 100% healthy and its anxiety but I feel so slow and not here
❤❤❤❤
But the breathing one is bad What do i actually do
Best video I have watched. I feel like I am so close to my baseline, living my life, having the knowledge of what is going on with me, enjoying the moments of ease but still struggling during the higher intensity moments. It’s like can I just wash the dishes and be in the moment or go on the walk with the dog and not have anxiety lingering?
Lovely. As always. I have limited myself over the last decade because, for whatever reason, I started to feel panicky while flying. I even let tickets to Seattle (I'm on the East Coast) expire for me and my oldest son. I was so disappointed because it was truly passive fear to just let them expire and not take the trip. But after learning so much about the Three Principals and other "thought" understandings, I realized I want to live free with my wisdom. I flew to Memphis last year with my son, and while I was nervous, I did it. And we had a great trip. I am flying to Vegas in three weeks with my husband. Its a longer flight, but I know I'll handle whatever arises. I really liked your tiktok where you said we are our own safe space and that I can trust my own mental health. I got my own back and what I need will arise when I need it. I love the shirt. Living Free. Thanks for everything Lily. Keep changing the world.
This is so helpful. I feel like when I found out I had OCD I was so obsessed with my obsessions and compulsions and ERP and so much thinking and so much guilt around not being able to do my exposures. You’ve helped me change so much. Your approach has brought me so much more peace and health than anything ever has. ❤
So is the mindset being care free? I'm confused
Merci
I’m sorry but what is the life changing mindset that worked for you? You never explained that?
It’s so hard to get out of your head when the anxiety takes over but I hear you I know doing less is the way forward
Hey thanks I trying to cancel my subscription on the heal with in I signed up today I would like to cancel the 3 day trail how do I go about it
Hi! Can you message me in the PFW Community so I can have your account info and help you cancel?
@@LilySaispeacefromwithinok just did
I appreciate you darling
Deez,Deez,Deez NUTS DEEZ NUTS
I usually never leave comments on anything but I have to let you know Lily, you are changing my life. I'm only 21 yet I've spent all my teenage years looking for solutions for my anxiety. It has consumed ALL of me and my time since I was 14. Really! I have obsessed with it. Your videos and your thinking has been the only thing that has worked, out of all the literally 100s of things I've tried. I have spent all this time just thinking "I'm not thinking enough!" when I already did SO MUCH thinking. I tried so hard to understand my anxiety, my past and my childhood. Little did I know, I needed to think less... Do less. Obsess less. Let it be, let it flow. Anyone with anxiety knows how distorted thoughts can be because when you're snapped out of it, it's like "did I really genuinely feel like that was my reality?" haha..! Gosh.. Laughing at it but it has been HARD - I haven't lived. Thank you Lily. During the days I'll literally ask myself "what would Lily have said to me?" and most of the time you'd reply in the most gentle and kind voice "no big deal!" and yes, no big deal! Wow. You are a gift to this world Lily!!
Thank you so much!! I took a screenshot because what you wrote means so much to me! ❤❤❤
There are many diseases that don't heal themselves...
This happens to me 24/7 after my first panic attack during covid.... especially during summer... I'm so calm and relaxed when it's rainy or overcast. As soon as the sun is out in full effect,agoraphobia and anxiety kicks in and I can't go outside because I'm thinking that I might faint etc...my heart rate increases so much. Another issue is when I see any form of smoke or smell anything strong...I instantly go into panic mode
I'm the opposite I love the heat and hate the cold
@@sophia231990 Really! It's so different for everyone
Time, patience and a continuous "fuck off" to any explanation premised on wonderment. Excruciatingly beautiful. Patience and self love at his/her finest
Stupid music
Loll, but in all seriousness, pleade give me advice how to get out of this feeling.
do research on your own
@@juniper-u1e I have, luckily I'm better. No need to be mean!
@@jessicagomez4918 sorry i was feeling nasty that day
@@jessicagomez4918 i apologize for my behavior
@jessicagomez4918 oh my reply didn't send. i was being rude, im sorry. i was in a bad mood and wanted to be mean
I'm so happy i came across this channel. I never click on videos that don't have that many views. Your channel really deserves more. I've been hoping i would find something like this. I'm going to check out your Stories of Hope. Thank you!
I know I'll feel better after having anxiety or intrusive thoughts BUT I don't know why they keep coming back making my life unbearable... I mean, I know they'll go away but I also know they're coming back so how can I feel ok?
@@ciao3926 it sounds like you are fustrated about anxiety. But anxiety will keep coming back if you worry a lot. If you worry a lot about the thoughts coming back, what if you always have them, what to do, etc etc. all that thinking is bound to make you feel anxious. All the questions you have are just noise, that comes with being anxious/worrying. The fact you know you’ll feel better is great and is the first step! The rest is just letting it take the time it takes. You don’t know how long it’ll take, and you don’t have to know how long it’ll take until you feel okay. You can have peace with intrusive thoughts even if they come back all the time. Everyone has all types of thoughts, it’s not the thoughts, it’s your reaction to them. Overtime when you heal it’ll all happen naturally. You don’t need to obsess about any of the questions you have about getting better. It’s just anxious thinking, which means it’s all distorted and not worth listening to
You’re really an angel on earth. Thank you so much for everything. ❤
But why do I experience it 24/7 without it going away?
Because you are having lots is stressful thinking that you are taking too seriously. It’s your thinking, but you’re so used to being stressed/anxious/dissociated that you don’t even realise the thoughts anymore. But you’re not stuck, lilys videos also apply to you! I can relate to it being 24/7, but you can still heal
@@dominos1529 thank you. Did you have DPDR?
@@PilotMusicc yes I had it for ages , when I get really stressed, sometimes it comes back now but it’s much less scary
@@dominos1529 okay thanks for the reply. What would you say helped you get rid of it? Or deal with it better
@@PilotMusicc best thing for me was watching lilys videos, and realising that despite everything I’m still okay mentally, and not mentally ill, just have big habits of worrying/feeling weird. And realising I only feel weird/lots of anxiety because my thinking is distorted, not because anything is seriously wrong in my life/with me. Also just being really kind to myself when I can, healing takes a bit of time. But yeah just understanding how the human body and mind works is what helped me. Wish you the best
What about thoughts that make you freeze sad af and make you feel like the depression youve always feared is happening now finally 😱😱😱😱😱😱
Thank you for your video's
Hi,I don't know if you deal with this...but one of my biggest issue now is that I have anxiety over the foods I eat and every single scent...thinking that I might be allergic to everything.... I've stopped eating so many foods especially dairy ....as soon as I try certain foods I start to panic thinking that I'm feeling all sorts of symptoms...so I've just stopped eating like fish,eggs,nuts all together and It's really sad
I was looking into Candida causing anxiety
@@jessi6655 I think lots of people relate to this. I worry about eating certain foods that’ll make me really sick etc. it helped me to realise if I feel like somethings really scary, or I feel really anxious/panicky it’s because my bodies telling me I’m taking my thoughts too seriously. It’s just a reminder that you’re thinking crazy things that are untrue
Ugh I’m so in love with coffee, since panic attacks came i havnt had a cup in 3 years I know one day I will and that’s gona be a very special day lol
This is such a self flex for those who know! I just had a second STRONG giant black tea today and im chillin 😎 cheers, babe!
I wish I knew Olivia because I think I'm headed somewhere that she's been and not a single person in my life understands how scary it is. Thankful to know there are people coming out the other side or at least I hope they are.
So basically you can say, those thoughts aren't true, I'm allowed to be free and happy and enjoy and let it flow? It's so hard not to self sabotage
Time to forgiven move on
Hi I was wondering if the freeze response can lead to derealization It has happened to me my thought s freeze and then I slowly feel disconnected
What about when your thoughts create physical sensations almost out of the blue instantaneously. And when it happens when you’re driving 😳 It’s traumatizing
Great video 👍👍 ps ignore my username, my son changed it lol
Thank you! ❤
Wrong I have anxiety 24/7
I never know know when it's coming.😮
It really is that simple ✨️ how liberating