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As an artist, I think that burnout and creativity are two sides of the same coin. We are naturally restless souls. Also it takes a lot of guts to move to a new place, I hope you find something to reinvigorate your spirit.

Hi, Ray! I am working as HR, and want to say to you that even if get Reject from some companies you should not be sad. Because when you loking for a job it's the normal part of it to have some % of reject. And you should not take it close to heart it's just usual part of cheking for a job. I can give you some advices: - check your CV - better if it will show you as a pearson who can get's any result, it will be better; - when you talking on interview, try talk with HR about benefits what you can bring to the company; - remember that HR it's not your enemy. He (or she) also what to fill a vacany. And always remember that even if you get rejected the reason is not you, believe me. I know what I am saying. Good luck, you will get it..

Walk and talks are better IMO

RAY YOUR BROKE?!?

You're describing all of us. No one is ever always or never.

Just found your channel - really like the way you talk No one's being "average" really resonates with me, I feel the same. In the end, I feel as if no ones *really* is a person at all.

that’s what makes us human. You’re a great guy, you are who you choose to be. You’re not stupid, you’re being yourself and that is what life is supposed to be.

I love this ASMR content ;) Soothing voice

It’s nice listening to you talk. It’s very calming.

終わるの時にそれは重要じゃないぼくとすべての人死ぬだろう。 In the end no winner or loser because everyone die, life is meaningless. From brazil Great video.

You speak a lot of truth 🙂 People get lost in trying to know what defines a loser or a winner; when social media’s true purpose is to share thoughts and ideas with people. And probably know more about yourself in the process. Or like what you said, to know “what makes you happy” 😊 People are just trying their best. Thanks for sharing those thoughts!

nice message. we all need to be reminded of this mindset from time to time.

Great vid once again ray!

I've had a different but similar experience. I have a lot of issues in my native language (English), but those issues vanish when speaking in other languages I know (Japanese is slowly becoming one of them). I wonder if this is a consequence of being poly-lingual; does the brain have certain thoughts associated with certain languages, meaning you can't access them all at once easily?

When the ego is involved, there are winners and losers. You have skin in the game, you care. Maybe it's an existential threat to you. When the ego dissipates none of this really matters. What can cloud our judgement is the ego and its obsession with winners and losers.

Don't know why but your content is captivating. Keep it up!

Hello from England dear Ray ❤

There's a certain peace in solitude. But then again human connection is also nice with the right people.

Supporting you from India brother...🤟

Great vid ray!

Congratulation, Ray! Love and cheers from America (US)!

The point where you said how you hear people speak fluent English and wish you were as fluent as them is the same way I feel about Japanese. I hear others speak so fluently and I put myself down wishing I was as fluent as them. Completely understandable.

i feel like i also have this problem of stopping mid sentence to find the right words for the next ones, especially when i talk in my native georgian, it seems rather strange, its liek i forget my words and then they all come back

Hey ray! Would love to edit your videos for completely free. If you have any social media i can contact you on for further information would be greatly appreciated!

Hey man, I really love your vibes and honesty. Would love to see your language learning journey and self-improvement keep going! ❤

Great Video Ray thanks

you're a cutie-pie. what is your favourite movie? and who is your favourite actor? which country would u most like to visit?

Yessir, daily uploads ray! Keep it up❤

congrats!!

Congratulations on 100 subscribers 🎉🎉

Another great video Ray! May I ask, what aspired you to make RUclips videos?

I love your vibe in your videos

Hey the time to make good choices for you is now and seem you have fear so work in your fears and make your own decisions life is too short

Hey Ray, first of all I love the vids where you sit down and talk. Second of all, I’m learning Japanese currently and I’m almost confident with the first alphabet (hiragana) and was wondering what I should do next? I heard that I should learn how to write Katakana and that sounds about right since they use the same grammatical structure just different symbols. Let me know, love the vids dude!

こんにちは、またリアムです。 （笑）日本語で手紙を書きたかっただけなんです！私は故松田優作さんの大ファンです！彼の作品を知っていますか？黒い雨の中で私は彼を愛した！彼が1989年に若くして亡くなったのはとても悲しいことです。

do you upload your music on spotify or youtube I would like to hear it

Congratulations

I think it’s possible to still be independent and in a happy relationship. You’d have to find someone like you, who is comfortable being alone and also supports you making music. Would that be difficult to find there? Also children are cute, but not everyone needs to have them. If you are happy then enjoy your life. Besides, if you wanted them, you’d have to find someone you like enough first 😅

And what about now? You are now the musician you wanted to become right? So how about having some children now?

I don't feel for it to be in a marriage, but a company of some sort would be nice. Going for trips, seeing things together, having spontaneous chats, that part would be really nice. Like kids, but can't quite imagine myself with one. Taking responsibility for such a small human beeing, while still beeing one.

Being in relationship means you have to adapt a new role and may lose your identity. I have found my own identity and so scared of losing it and no longer be myself... This is one of the reasons i don't actively look for a partner. Yes, I am also overwhelmed by taking care of myself. I cannot financially and mentally take care another living thing(including pet). The drawback is dealing with loneliness, it always here and i am still trying to make peace with it.

There's many archetypes that exist in this realm of ours. It is no shame to not be married, nor to not have kids. The God says there are some who will not have kids, and some who may not get married. Allah is the Omniscient, The Wise. Some aspects of it as well are conditions placed upon man by other men, for the purposes of greed, social engineering and control, that is a factor too. All in all you just have to do your best as an individual and only The God knows what bounty tomorrow holds for you.Where you will be in a future time and with whom. Peace, stay blessed 🙌 🙌 🙌

that's amazing man, how do you get more gigs freelancing as a musician in Tokyo?

It’s very easy to lose yourself in a marriage. Being alone can be lonely, but it’s also liberating.

Honestly, choosing to stay single in today age isn't even weird anymore. With the amount of toxic relationships you see around and the people valuing money over you it's a crazy thought to get with someone in the first place. Doing whatever feels right is the correct way in life. Not everyone needs to get married and have children. Great video Ray <3

Incel?

Relationships are tough tbh

Hi Ray, just found your channel! You seem to have a lot on your mind at the moment and I just wanna say I'm in the same boat as you. Don't feel pressured to get married and have kids so early! Live your life the way you want to (for a couple years at least haha) I know that's easier said then done of course but keep it in mind! Anyways, hope all goes well for you dude stay safe!

Please teach me Japanese

Why do japanese men think never getting married or never being into girls is something to be proud of?