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How long does this crisis last? My husband is going through his right now, been a a few months and it’s killing me. I am trying to be as supportive as I can, but it hurts, I can feel my heart ripping every time I see him laughing and meeting his students, mostly girls while he has totally withdrawn from me and our two girls.

I gave him space and he used it to cheat on me. I trusted him and let him do his own things. His new hobby turned out to be picking up younger women when they were drunk.

I really enjoyed this video...my wife heard it too 🤩🤩🤩🤩

My husband has moved out and stopped all contact. He said he loves me so much but he has to focus on himself and he wants to be together after he “figures everything out”. But I’m lost and not sure what to do. It’s been 2 years in this mess. I thought it was depression as he was only 30 when it started. Realized it was a midlife crisis once he finally opened up to me the same day he decided divorce was best.

What a crock of sh*t

People thought we were the perfect couple. He wants a divorce after 17 years of marriage and a child. Im not aloud to go anywhere he is, gym, his work, ect... No girlfriend, seams depressed and agitated. Then acts like he could be trying then Sabotages everything rejects me tells me it’s over and blames me for everything.

I been returning to these words every so often for five years now. It’s good and simple advice 👍🏼

100% on the mark 👍🏼

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A wife here, how do I stop him from selling our house before he comes out?

It is ridiculous to spend eight minutes talking about how to help your midlife crisis husband. I am a man. Men are simple. Get yourself in shape and look as good as you can. Move on with your life. It will probably not save your marriage but doing what you are doing is why you are in this position. Dealing with a woman in midlife crisis? Quickly get to an attorney and file for divorce. It is over for you.

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how wil i know when my wife is coming out of midlife crisis. she has asked for divorce but hasnt done anything about it so are these just words. should i weather the roller coaster storm? she has no contact with me ,we live in the same flat. she is totally blank with me most of the time.

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Hi, Steve, I've just discovered your channel and I already love your content. My husband walked out on me 3-4 months ago but had only now admitted that he feels like he might be having a life crisis. I feel that his acceptance alone is huge and I am trying to be as loving and supportive as humanly possible without feeling clingy. He says that he's "got to get his head straight" and I'm trying to give him time and space but I'm terrified of losing him. I don't know how much longer his state will last and whether he'll be able to cope/find answers on his own or of he won't and then just run away as the easiest way out. Would you advise to seek professional counselling (if it works in these cases?) or leave him to it? I feel terribly powerless in this situation...

can you give tips on dealing with a wife going through midlife crisis

Ah... you make it sound so easy and sweet.... it sucks when your husband starts suddenly spending every single paycheck on trying to create a race car out of an old dodge truck..... he is hard to love through this......

An addendum: There have been quite a few women reaching out to me about their men cheating on them. My heart goes out to you. I can't tell you if your marriage will survive or not, but it's very difficult to recover from cheating. The advice in this video is about men who are struggling, but are not cheating. Also, if your husband is an addict, he needs to get into a 12-step program. Recall my first tip, defend your boundaries. Don't confuse giving him space with letting him walk all over you. If he's too far gone, sometimes the best thing to do will be to let him go and move on. Easier said than done, I know. I can't tell you when to call it quits and when to hang in there. Whatever you decide, I send my love. One more thing, you might have noticed there is no MidlifeCrisisCoaching.com. That adventure didn't pan out for me. If you want to explore coaching with me, go to the About page on my channel, and click on the For Business Inquiries button.

So glad I found this video and I will check out your channel. I'm 41, my Husband will be 60 soon. I Googled midlife crisis before clicking the video tab and landed here, He is way beyond the years this occurs according to search results but I don't think we have a set age when this will happen or if it already did and/or come again as I'm experiencing. I've only known him for 5 years, married 4. I don't normally say my age, for some reason I felt the need to on your video. Willing to donate if necessary, thank you for your advise God Bless!

Hubby going through midlife crisis. He filed for divorce and plans on moving to another state to start his new life. It's better this way, I need time to focus on me. All I can do is watch him make rash decisions, and just pray for him. I still love him and want what's best for him.

I feel like giving up. This is rediculous. I wanna be straight and to the point. No beating around the bush

My 40 yr old husband is showing definite signs of a major midlife crisis. “ I hate my life, or before I met you ...” is half of his vocabulary. He is looking for ever more “ online outlets” as well as a few direct contacts, so I fear an affair is already in the works or coming soon. It appears he is desperate to find another woman to validate himself or his ego even it does not involve actual sexual infidelity he is definitely seeking emotional confections or possible affairs online. He gets incredibly defensive of anyone even asks him even the most common questions so that’s another red flag. He has started multiple social media accounts and new email accounts mostly women including almost all of his exes. He has sold things he owns to buy a treadmill insisting we both need to be in top shape ASAP. He even suggested I get male friends and even shared a threesome fantasy which shocked me as he had always seemed very jealous previously. So it all adds to the writing on the wall. He even had a neighbor woman ( a friends ex wife even 😱) knock on the door randomly to say “ I’m here for you come take a walk with me” He acted like she was crazy and he had no idea what that was all about. It was creepy like a bunny boiler scene and humiliating because I know our other neighbors know about it. I’m an extreme introvert and this basically is so off putting and my reaction is to retreat within myself. I find it hard to even look at him or even want to converse or be around him. I’m not sure how I want to proceed. His crisis of his own aging and looking in the mirror and not seeing the twenty something he once was becomes a source of agitation and downright aggression which is more often than not directed at me without me having done anything. He has even woken me up in the middle of the night even when my 6 yr old daughter was sick and finally asleep beside me to “ talk about things” but it became a personal attack on me. I am his scapegoat and a burden as well as sadly possibly our child. He is not the type to accept responsibility for his actions due to his parents coddling him and supporting him well into adulthood. He may also be on the spectrum so lack of empathy really makes it easy for him to be cruel. I recently was in the hospital for kidney stone and was very sad when two nurses each in their own shift tried to be supportive but strongly suggest I look for my own path ( said I should do better without me starting any conversation on this or any topic outside my pain ) I can’t imagine they would go out of their way to say that unless he most likely was acting sleazy and flirting with them or somehow being negative or saying something thoughtless perhaps ( or maybe all of the above) which is plausible at this stage . He also is a perpetual hypochondriac and the entire time during my hospital stay he kept interrupting all medical staff when they were asking me direct questions to basically redirect the conversation to his own health issue ( which are vague things like chronic fatigue and are so intermittent and variable it doesn’t seem real). The doctors were becoming agitated I could tell because they had to do their rounds and see it patient and he wanted to turn it into “ all about me “ conversation. This is also an issue with ASD spectrum. He often doesn’t realize when he drone on and on yet many times he has admitted and joked he liked to attend parties or social events just to have an audience to stand there and listen to him speak. I’m exhausted and know full well who I am and that I nor my daughter do not deserve this treatment. I live him and cut him ALOT of slack but the midlife issue on top of the aspergers is really pushing my limits. I am now avoiding him for multiple reason but underlying I suspect the sense of betrayal after years of support through so many issues is wearing me down. Anyhow I feel for anyone going through all this.

I love my husband so much and I want to help him. We were amazing together, and then everything changed. We are separated now and he doesn't even want me to talk to him. He has shut me out completely.

What if he stopped sleeping in our bed?

Thank you so much for this video

Excellent sensitive informed Coach who seems to really care about the subject matter & people. I think I'm going thru it right now & this video helped clarify things. I'll have to figure out a kind way to tell my girlfriend so she doesn't worry etc. Thank you for this informational video.

Absolutely great video, I’m only 36 & going through this now myself, finding it all difficult to understand at the moment, why I have acted in a way that is not my usual self, I nearly lost my wife, the trust has slightly been shattered, as normally I confide in my wife with everything but with this situation I haven’t through fear, so my advice would be the same as yourself & do talk about it to your other half no matter how severe it maybe, as yes it will be too late, I have been ashamed of my thought process & jam packed full of guilt, through the lack of understanding in what’s going on, now I have had the eye opener to what is going on, I can only hope my marriage lasts through this process & everybody else’s does also, it’s a tough time for us all, all we can do is try & not fear this process in our lives, prey for our wives or partners support, live a wonderful life when this process is over, thanks once again for this video, means a lot

Where did you learn this 4 stage process?

Namaste!

I like your topics.

Live a life of integrity and authenticity is a big mouthful to chew on-I can only take small bites at a time, which fits with what you said the questions later in the talk.

It is fantastic that you mention boundaries and taking care of ourselves. These two were some of the most important things I learned when I was suffering through the darkness of the midlife crises I experienced. Thank you!

If my 4 year old husband in a 50 year old body actually grows up, it will all have been worth it.

Would having the sudden urge at 38 as a single guy a midlife crisis?

This video made me cry...obviously im here cuase my husband is acting weird ... I will try these steps before i make my final decisions .... Wish me luck

WHAT THE HELL IS A MIDLIFE CRISIS?

Hey there mister... Please accept a big thank you for this video. It has arrived in my life when I needed it most. And it's so good that you're not telling me what to do...just to be aware and present in the process. And I shall do that.

He hates me. Great video but I don't see him ever loving me again. I've become suicidal and wrecked over this 4-year back and forth roller coaster. I can't even function like a normal person anymore. I self-isolate and can't seem to imagine going any of the places I'm invited. While he is having a ball. Then when I start to get better and he's done playing around he comes back to me and tells me some sob story and I believe him and I begin to hope again. And he turns around and does it again

I suggest reading "Look at the Sun" by Don Carswell, the first 'coming-of-middle-age novel. This book tackles a lot of these thoughts.

biological component, its called lower maleness (low levels of testosterone) by 1% per year, that has been shown to cause the body to break down, and slow down. Its not all psychological, it is at least partly if not mostly physiological.Time to get a patch of testosterone .Testosterone patches are used to treat testosterone deficiency .

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He packed up and LEFT, and I don't know where he is or when he is coming home. (He is texting me though.) I am not okay with this! I was never nagging or overbearing, so his leaving is really confusing to me. My question is, is this what you mean by "giving him space" because that seems like a lot of space. Or is this something I can say that I am "not willing to tolerate" without sounding "needy"? I feel like this bizarre behavior has put me in an awkward position of having to either demand his return or accept him treating me like a doormat he can just leave whenever it is convenient for him. What do I do???

Thank you ...this is my life right know ..wowo i can honestly say i got it all wrong, I will start right know because i do love him .thank you again..

what if they weren't ever really in love- but mistook infatuation for love? They were two people without clearly defined values, and as a consequence, one person in the relationship has come this realization- and it was simply a matter of two people being physically attracted to one another and that they only make each other laugh- originally. They have nothing in common.

Thanks for posting this.