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This Side Of Life with Diekola
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This channel is your go-to resource for growing older as an immigrant, offering practical tips, tutorials, and life lessons on thriving abroad. My mission is to inspire , encourage and motivate African immigrants to grow wiser in life, strengthen their Christian faith, and build lasting wealth. I am a Nigerian immigrant and believer, creating content tailored for African immigrants in the diaspora- in Canada, US, UK, Australia, or Europe. Join me on this journey to embrace the wisdom and opportunities that come with growing older while staying true to our cultural roots. We will cover topics affecting immigrants, including money, retirement, travel, children, stereotypes, racism, health, food and much more.
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NEVER Build These Types of Houses When Building a House Back Home
The decision to build a house back home or not is a difficult one for African immigrants abroad with many risks and red flags, Should you build at all? Should you buy? and if you do, This video Building a house back home? NEVER Build These Types of Houses looks into the type of house you should never build or buy so your dreams don’t become nightmares and you don’t make a huge financial mistake. We will address popular comments about this topic and especially for those who are older, at over 40, 50 years old
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I Am Moving Back To Nigeria - Here's the TRUTH NO ONE TOLD ME
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I Am Moving Back To Nigeria - Here's the TRUTH NO ONE TOLD ME
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Worst Mistakes New Immigrants Make. NEVER Do This Abroad!
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In todays video ....BE WARNED! Building a House Back Home is Risky Business| Why African Immigrants Abroad do it Anyway I address why despite the risk of dreams becoming nightmares, African immigrants abroad still long to build houses back in their home country. I share 5 things to consider if you must build a house back home while living abroad. #immigrantlife #lifeincanada #realestate I Am Mo...
Retirement Problems in Africa | Why African Parents retire on the backs of their Children
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In this thought-provoking video, Retirement Problems in Africa | Why African Parents retire on the backs of their Children, we delve into the cultural expectations and pressures that African parents often place on their children, highlighting the misconception that children are simply investments for future returns, akin to a 401K or RRSP plan. I address common questions about parent children r...
Nigerian Tribalism in Canada! Woman makes Tribal Threats. Bringing Home Baggage to New Country
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Can you believe it! Nigerian tribalism in Canada! Woman makes tribal threats. Bringing home baggage to new country. Tribalism should not be tolerated. This is an example of when you can take a person from the jungle but cannot take the jungle from the person. Why bring baggage from your home country to a new country. I am still in shock! Africa needs change, development and progress not hate an...
Over 40/50? How YouTube Changed my Life as an Introvert. Why you should start a YouTube channel
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DON'T WAIT for Retirement to ENJOY Your Life or Make an IMPACT. 5 things you MUST do.
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Today, Don't Wait for Retirement to Enjoy Your Life or Make an Impact, I address the retirement mistake that many people make of not living or enjoying their life before they get to retirement and I go through a list of things that we, especially Africans immigrants in places like Canada, USA, Australia, UK, Europe and other countries, should not wait until retirement to do. I talk about rethin...
Studying Abroad is NOT as HARD as you Think. Why African Students Get Scammed Trying.
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Commonsense isn't such a common commodity!
Buy a flat or apartment in a very good area of lagos and rent it out getting good rent or use it for Airbnb. This will bring In money constantly as you're abroad, when you visit home you can stay in the flat, when you return abroad the short let service will continue
I love this channel I wish I discovered it sooner
I appreciate that very much! You are welcome to the channel. Thank you so much for watching!
You are right about building a bungalow instead of many stories house. My Aunty can't get to her bedroom upstairs now because of the arthritis in her knees.
Agreed. multiple stories are not for seniors. Thanks for providing a real-life example!
For someone like Dangote, i don't understand why he is complaining, i mean, he has the financial means to buy a foreign passport if he really wanted to, for example in the UK if you invest £1M+ they'll award you UK permanent residency, the US has a similar program for wealthy investor's, you mentioned all those wealthy carribean island nations with strong passports and Turkey, including Malta with EU access, why hasn't Dangote then taken it upon himself to aquire one of those citizenships? I mean, he has the financial means to acquire and purchase a strong passport that allows him access to wherever he desires.
True. I'm not sure why he hasn't done that, but I do agree with him that as Africans, we shouldn't need to jump through so many hoops to travel within Africa, which was what he was complaining about. Thanks for watching!
What is it with Africans, especially Nigerians who went abroad for greener pastures just to later turn around to permanently stayed over? It is unpatriotic, with a little slavery mentality to not consider investing in your country. Africa is the world. This is where South Africans excel. They hardly travel. Some of you are just lost souls & broke. Go build whatever you’re capable. Go contribute to your country. You’re living a borrowed life when you stay back abroad.
Do you really need this much space... true words. weldone ma for this valuable content.
Thank you!
Good. I clicked because of your smile on your video thumbnail. Well done
Thank you!
Femi Bello ~ I thank God for your wisdom and the sense of humour in the presentation as factual as the points made . We build these mansions back home and the children abroad don’t want to know at least for now. Our prayer is for our country to continue to develop to such a standard that will inspire her children to return home. Please keep up the good work.
Thank you, uncle, for your input.. I really appreciate it 🙏🏾
This is a good advice. You will not believe this; some people never sleep one night in some of the houses. C R A Z Y. This talk will only benefit the wise.
Big Auntie! Ese ma! I appreciate you❤️
Maybe they want to rent rooms one day. This is an individual choice. I have heard a lot of this philosophy from Canada. When a person buys a nice house or car or anything very nice, Canadians have a comment unlike anything I have ever heard in America. They say, " Did he that" That's like saying did you need nikes, just settle for bobos from Payless. And they seem to say this often. But they get what they want. It;s very strange to me. Socialism
Hmmm, interesting. We can really delve into the differences between Americans and Canadians, but that is a topic for another day 🙂! But seriously, there is socialism and there is pragmatism. I may be Canadian, but I am far far far from being a socialist. I appreciate your comment!
@@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom I have lived here for 25 years also.
@@splendidtime1 My tribe 🙂!
You are a honourable vessel on this; voicing out what’s on my mind. Greatly appreciated.
I am grateful for the feedback. 🙏🏾 Thank you for watching !
I have seen tribalism here in the UK, too. In churches, at parties, online, etc. Tbh, unity is possible if our leaders back home make an effort to include all. Followed by communities and churches.Ty 🙏🏼
It is very unfortunate. And to think that we are all supposed to be going to the same heaven 🤔. May God have mercy on us. I appreciate your comment. Thank you!
Building a home back in the old country is definitely a Liability, you're much better off renting whenever u visit.
Thank you! 🙏🏾
Great video. I have been in Canada for 26 years and yiu seem to be speaking my language. I built a small container home in the village and some people thought I was crazy. Now i thank God because i go home once or twice a year and the maintenance cost is very low for me. We have been able to invest elsewhere including almost being mortgage free. Thanks for all you're doing. The information is very apt and useful. Blessings
My fellow long-term Canadian, indeed, we seem to be of the same tribe! I laughed at your 'small container house' description 🙂. I can just imagine the comments from the people in the village. You made a good choice. Paying off your mortgage gives you such financial freedom that I don't know why people don't prioritize it more. Thank you so much for watching and commenting!
Thanks for letting us know
Thanks for watching!
Great topic and much needed discussion. Thank you
Thank you!
Climbing the stairs is good for health A duplex or triplex will force you exercise every days; as a result, this will help your health
That's when u still hv the vitality, otherwise with age related mobility issues stairs can be a falls risk- often a fatal incident in advanced ages. There are many other ways of exercising within the limits of age related issues than stairs- Stair lift installation is now a booming business because seniors need help going upstairs, which defies the whole exercise purpose, and adds to cost, including maintenance, lol. I hv clients who are stuck downstairs bcoz they can't access their upstairs bedroom! Many downsize to one floor smaller homes for practical reasons as they age and acquire chronic conditions. Best is for each person/family to weigh these things intelligently before they decide what is most practical for their specific reality.
Hmm, not in old age. I have a number of Seniors around me, and they would enjoy their lives more if they don't have to climb the stairs. They can do other exercises that do not involve climbing the stairs. Plus, it becomes a hazard/safety issue as you grow older. Thanks for watching!
Hey 👋👋 James from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪 like your videos very much how is your mom is she still in canada just say hey to all
Hey James. Yes, she is, and she also says hi🙂
They are fine
please ma permit to say i love your hair, it is so lovely. let me continue watching to learn. Thanks ma for the video.
you dont want to listen to people who are negative and have bad stories to tell......
all the point is a hit, the second point, i am glad you mentioned it. i can't wrap my head on how new migrant in a country want to be quick to achieve what people that have lived here for years are doing already. why the rush and tension!
Thanks, Ginika! I passed by the sign to Leeds this past week and thought of you 🙂! Maybe next time I am in the UK, we can meet up. That would be great!
@@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom I literally screamed reading this. Wow! I pray the next time comes soon, that would really be great. I trust you had a good time here.
I will say 'Cry the Beloved Country'. I pray we eventually have a detribalised leader who will turn things around hopefully in our lifetime.
Amen! Hopefully, in our lifetime.
Nice one.
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Prayers very needful as an immigrant not to get caught by a pessimist! Kudos for the wealth of advice offered. Wish you more inspiration and understanding 🙏!
Amen! Thank you so much ma🙏🏾
Valuable and insightful information. The community you build and the mind set are crucial to a new Immigrant’s success. Thanks you !!!
I don't know how this would sound but your neck looks somewhat swollen. Hope you're fine ma?
I really appreciate your concern. I am fine, but I do need to shed some pounds🙂. I will definitely look into this. Thank you so much!
Thank you for the good talk
You are welcome. Thank you for watching!
Quite informative! We met on the train the other day.
Hi Rita! Thank you so much for watching! Have a wonderful week!
The tips provided in this video generally apply to immigrants and also non immigrants whether in Canada or elsewhere! But truth be told, the job market everywhere can be likened to a pyramid - There are usually more openings in the wider, lower pay base rather than at the narrower apex. Climbing up towards the top of the totem pole requires competent skillsets and more importantly, being "a good fit or team player"! Now, the requisite skillset (eg academic qualifications) can be measured objectively but not quite so with the subjective "good fit" factor. And that is where many new immigrants are often challenged!
I agree. Thanks for the smart analysis. Wherever we are, we need to do our best to climb that pyramid as far as we can and not give up. Thanks for watching!
I appreciate you Ma, your videos are wonderful and you talk and explain with ease your indeed a mother,.
Thank you so much! I appreciate the feedback🙏🏾. I am glad you enjoyed the video.
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Please ma, what must a new immigrant do once he or she enters USA?
These same mistakes apply no matter the country. I am in Canada, but, if you are moving to the USA, there are many youtube videos that address that. Please do your research and I wish you all the best. Thanks for watching!
Nice, happy Sunday to you Ma..am
Thank you! Happy Sunday to you!
madam this is a good one
Thank you for watching 🙏🏾!
Great point. Thanks for sharing
Thank you for watching!
There are definitely pros and cons . For us the draw of our culture is strong to build . We want to visit home with our children .
Yes, each person must weigh the pros and cons to determine what works best for them. Thanks for watching!
I appreciate this educating and informational education. Thank you for sharing. Be safe
You are welcome. Thank you for watching!
I pray and I believe our parents prayer are for their children should be greater than them , May God continues to provide for us to take care of our parents.
Amen! Thank you!
Please don't build a house now, save your money. If you decide later that you are going to live in your own country and it is just you, my advice for you is to rent until you die. Why building a house for the extended family if your own children and spouse will not relocate and live in your country. I have a house in Nigeria and I'm in my mid 60s and now decided that I will not be going back home. What a waste of resources, if I decide later that I want to go back, I will just rent, the money is there. Just my own decision, every one has to make the best decision for themselves.
Thanks for sharing your experience. It is a good idea to wait until one is sure of retirement location before making the decision to build. I wish you all the best in your retirement. Thank you so much for watching!
Thanks for this video , its very informative.
You are welcome! Thanks for watching!
I am surprised you guys abroad fall into the hands of scammers or family when investing in real estate in Nigeria. I have properties in Nigeria and I don’t deal with family or friends, I deal with law firms to handle these transactions for me. Even after hiring these lawyers, I still employ the services of another lawyer to verify what has been done by another lawyer! Spend these extra money and you are good.Talking about return on investment, I bought 2 plots of land last year august for 40m, now I just sold one of the plots for 33m which I am now using to start construction on the plot left. The return on investment is good
Wow! It seems you have cracked the code. An almost 100% roi in one year is excellent return. Your experience is definitely not the norm for those living abroad, and many people can learn from you. I wonder if you are willing to chat about your experience? Please reach out to me at diekbiz@outlook.com . I would appreciate it. Thanks so much for watching and sharing!
Yes but 33 million today was like 20 million last two years. So your profit is in your head. The naira is losing value everyday while the dollar keeps appreciating.
It looks like you have cracked the code, as this is not typical for the majority of people, and we can learn from you. It would be great to hear more from you about this. If you are open to a discussion, you can contact me via my email in the channel description. I would really appreciate that. Thanks!
It looks like you have cracked the code as this is not the typical experience for the majority of people. It would be great to learn more from you about this. Thanks for watching!
This is a very difficult decision for many Nigerians in diaspora including myself. I have lived abroad for more thn 30 years and now thinking about retirement.I sold the first house I build in Nigeria because I was being exploited by tenants who not only did not pay their rents but also trashed the property. I have been under enormous pressure from relations to build another house to live. I have inherited land in the village and has just completed the fencing. But I have developed cold feet about building in it. Although I miss home, I can't see myself living there considering poor amenities, insecurity problem and lack of good and reliable medical care. Moreover, my children are all abroad and unlikely to need the house. Should I build and should I not build? My heart says yes but my head says no. Is a big dilemma. Well done Diekola for handling very well this very important but difficult topic.
You can’t live outside Nigeria and deal with tenants. You let property management companies do the job for you at a 10% annual rent charge for their services
I hear you. It can be very emotional. We should be pragmatic, too. I think you can build something small with the realization that you are probably building it to use once in a while by yourself and to be left for your family members in Nigeria. If you are at peace with that, then go ahead. I wish you all the best. Thanks for watching!
Please don't build, it is a waste of money. I have a house also in Nigeria and have tenants for the past 10 years, however, the money that I have spent maintaining the house and plus what was spent to build it, I have not recouped 10% of it, I have a property manager, my plan is to sell it in the next 2 years. I have been in the States for the past 40 years, however, the health infrastructure, security and the poverty level in the country can never make me to live there. Don't listen to those family members, they are looking for something to inherit. Your social security will be enough to rent a comfortable place in the future if you then decide you are going home, which I doubt for anyone that has lived more than 3 decades in the West unless you are ready to go die there considering the fact that the health infrastructure is very bad. Food for thought.
@@johnsonajayi7846 I entirely agree with you on this. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experience.
It is really a big dilemma for us . We do need to reflect on it .
The days of yore. We keep evolving. You look good.
Yes, for the love of the olden days 🙂 Thanks!
Looking lovely Sis.
When I was of working age, I built a double-storey house which i hoped to retire in when i relocate back home. Well, I am now in my mid-60s and sleep in the living room downstairs because i cannot climb the stairs. I can't breathe when I climb the stairs. Plan wisely when you're young.
Hmmm, big lesson. Thank you so much for sharing. I hope people out there are listening. I wish you good health in your retirement🙏🏾
I agree 100% of your analysis. Thanks for sharing your thoughts👍
Thank you so much!
For me I will invest in where I currently reside. Real estate investment in Nigeria is risky. I invested in buying a land over 10 years ago and haven't seen anything up to now. Thank God I didn't spend so much like some other people.
That is, unfortunately, the experience of many people. The desire to build back home often clouds peoples view from seeing the investment opportunities right before their eyes in their new countries. Thanks for watching!
I appreciate you for your school of thought and contribution to one of my favorite youtube series. There is no one size fit all for each and every one of us. There is nothing wrong with investing here in the west if you have decided that it is your home forever. Your candid opinion further reiterated the fact that each and every individual has their long term goal. If the kids and parents are already living in the west and are already acclamitized to survival and way of life, there may be no need to invest back home or erect structures for others to profit ruthlessly from. Remember, the kids especially are western inclined and not African oriented. One may want to keep them where they are safe here, considering the negatives of our culture and ill minded people. Bear in mind that works for A may not work for B. I love your reasoning and decision.
Is better to save your money and go buy a house through the bank
I hear you! Thanks for watching!
i mean if you didn't live in canada before you might say it's difficult while it's actually not that difficult because i am a canadian and i can safely enjoy my winter
Yes, there are definitely lots to enjoy in the Canadian winter. Thanks for watching!